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[{'start': '0.300', 'end': '2.066', 'text': 'Hello everyone, I am Tingting.'}, {'start': '2.066', 'end': '4.133', 'text': 'Welcome to my channel.'}, {'start': '4.133', 'end': '5.700', 'text': 'Thank you all for subscribing.'}, {'start': '6.066', 'end': '8.000', 'text': 'Today’s story'}, {'start': '8.000', 'end': '10.500', 'text': 'is really going to shock your three views.'}, {'start': '10.866', 'end': '14.533', 'text': 'Especially after seeing the heroine’s blind date list,'}, {'start': '14.533', 'end': '17.333', 'text': 'you may not be able to help laughing'}, {'start': '17.733', 'end': '19.133', 'text': 'or even wonder if you'}, {'start': '19.133', 'end': '22.066', 'text': 'are living in a parallel world.'}, {'start': '22.466', 'end': '24.666', 'text': 'By the way, this story'}, {'start': '24.666', 'end': '28.066', 'text': 'takes place in an ordinary city in East China'}, {'start': '28.100', 'end': '31.733', 'text': 'and the protagonist is a 38-year-old. What do you say about'}, {'start': '32.100', 'end': '34.033', 'text': 'the older young woman ?'}, {'start': '34.433', 'end': '38.000', 'text': 'His blind date list is simply imaginative and'}, {'start': '38.033', 'end': '40.533', 'text': 'has all kinds of outrageous conditions.'}, {'start': '40.533', 'end': '44.200', 'text': 'Today I will share with you'}, {'start': '44.200', 'end': '47.533', 'text': 'the whole process of his blind date with a Hong Kong man'}, {'start': '48.000', 'end': '49.866', 'text': 'to see how his overbearing terms'}, {'start': '49.866', 'end': '53.133', 'text': 'turned things upside down.'}, {'start': '53.666', 'end': '57.266', 'text': 'First of all, the heroine, let us call her Xiao Li.'}, {'start': '57.333', 'end': '59.233', 'text': 'She is about 38 years old, and she'}, {'start': '59.233', 'end': '62.200', 'text': 'is said to be an older young woman.'}, {'start': '62.266', 'end': '64.833', 'text': 'But she is Don’t you think that you are old?'}, {'start': '64.833', 'end': '66.000', 'text': 'Not only that'}, {'start': '66.266', 'end': '68.433', 'text': ', as an independent woman'}, {'start': '68.433', 'end': '70.133', 'text': 'with a successful career,'}, {'start': '70.533', 'end': '74.000', 'text': 'Xiao Li regards herself as a peerless treasure.'}, {'start': '74.000', 'end': '77.466', 'text': 'Everyone knows that being independent and confident is a good thing'}, {'start': '77.466', 'end': '81.800', 'text': ', but when you are overconfident, you can easily become arrogant'}, {'start': '81.800', 'end': '86.066', 'text': ', right? So his requirements are simply ridiculously high.'}, {'start': '86.533', 'end': '88.066', 'text': 'And the male protagonist'}, {'start': '88.066', 'end': '90.266', 'text': 'is a man from Hong Kong.'}, {'start': '90.333', 'end': '92.000', 'text': 'Let’s call him Xiao Zhang.'}, {'start': '92.433', 'end': '94.433', 'text': 'He is really a good person'}, {'start': '94.700', 'end': '97.866', 'text': ', and there are also people in Hong Kong. He has a certain career foundation'}, {'start': '97.933', 'end': '101.100', 'text': '. To be honest, his appearance is not outstanding,'}, {'start': '101.100', 'end': '102.866', 'text': 'but he is not ugly. He has'}, {'start': '103.266', 'end': '105.033', 'text': 'a gentle personality.'}, {'start': '105.033', 'end': '108.700', 'text': 'Overall, he is a very reliable man.'}, {'start': '108.866', 'end': '109.500', 'text': 'However'}, {'start': '109.500', 'end': '113.066', 'text': ', such a pair of tall, rich, handsome and white rich people'}, {'start': '113.533', 'end': '116.233', 'text': 'actually created such a big spark,'}, {'start': '116.233', 'end': '119.133', 'text': 'and this blind date turned into a big drama.'}, {'start': '119.633', 'end': '120.900', 'text': 'On the day of the blind date,'}, {'start': '120.900', 'end': '124.633', 'text': 'the man arrived at the appointed place half an hour early and'}, {'start': '124.633', 'end': '126.433', 'text': 'behaved like a special gentleman'}, {'start': '126.933', 'end': '128.100', 'text': '. He was well-groomed'}, {'start': '128.100', 'end': '130.000', 'text': 'in a suit . His hair'}, {'start': '130.000', 'end': '132.200', 'text': 'was just like that of'}, {'start': '132.200', 'end': '134.233', 'text': 'a high-quality man from a TV series'}, {'start': '134.600', 'end': '135.900', 'text': '. And Xiao Li'}, {'start': '135.900', 'end': '138.100', 'text': 'was even more impressive. He'}, {'start': '138.433', 'end': '141.066', 'text': 'was wearing an exquisite dress'}, {'start': '141.066', 'end': '142.333', 'text': 'that matched well, and'}, {'start': '142.333', 'end': '143.600', 'text': 'his whole temperament'}, {'start': '143.600', 'end': '146.200', 'text': 'suddenly went up a few notches.'}, {'start': '146.633', 'end': '147.900', 'text': 'When they first saw each other,'}, {'start': '147.900', 'end': '150.633', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang felt amazed. Wow,'}, {'start': '150.633', 'end': '152.533', 'text': 'this woman is not simple.'}, {'start': '152.533', 'end': '154.500', 'text': 'She is at the level of a goddess.'}, {'start': '154.900', 'end': '157.100', 'text': 'But before he could speak,'}, {'start': '157.100', 'end': '159.533', 'text': 'Xiao Li opened his mouth and stopped him.'}, {'start': '160.000', 'end': '161.400', 'text': 'Xiao Li sat down. When I came down,'}, {'start': '161.400', 'end': '162.733', 'text': 'I looked at Xiao Zhang'}, {'start': '162.733', 'end': '165.700', 'text': "and said in a serious tone, let's get started."}, {'start': '166.200', 'end': '167.700', 'text': 'At first,'}, {'start': '168.133', 'end': '171.900', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang thought he was going to talk about his weather, hobbies, etc.'}, {'start': '172.300', 'end': '175.466', 'text': 'But he took out a document from his bag'}, {'start': '175.466', 'end': '177.200', 'text': 'and pushed it in front of Xiao Zhang.'}, {'start': '177.233', 'end': '178.933', 'text': 'These are the conditions I listed.'}, {'start': '179.300', 'end': '181.266', 'text': 'Please look over them. My God,'}, {'start': '181.266', 'end': '184.433', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang was a little confused at the moment.'}, {'start': '184.466', 'end': '187.633', 'text': 'I thought it was a blind date.'}, {'start': '187.633', 'end': '190.400', 'text': 'It felt like signing a contract.'}, {'start': '190.833', 'end': '193.333', 'text': 'But he still held back his surprise'}, {'start': '193.466', 'end': '195.466', 'text': 'and looked down at the paper.'}, {'start': '195.633', 'end': '199.466', 'text': "Hey, hey. Guess what's listed on this paper."}, {'start': '199.866', 'end': '201.733', 'text': "I can't believe that"}, {'start': '201.733', 'end': '205.633', 'text': 'Xiao Li actually listed a total of 8 overlord clauses.'}, {'start': '206.033', 'end': '207.000', 'text': 'When I saw this,'}, {'start': '207.000', 'end': '209.633', 'text': 'I broke into a cold sweat for Xiao Zhang.'}, {'start': '209.666', 'end': '213.533', 'text': 'The first clause must be a 3-month love period before marriage.'}, {'start': '213.933', 'end': '214.866', 'text': 'Wow. This clause'}, {'start': '214.866', 'end': '218.433', 'text': 'directly adds a buffer period to the relationship between two people.'}, {'start': '218.900', 'end': '219.933', 'text': 'It means that'}, {'start': '219.933', 'end': '222.700', 'text': 'Xiao Li will not just date you.'}, {'start': '222.800', 'end': '225.300', 'text': 'The love period must have a 3-month foreshadowing.'}, {'start': '225.866', 'end': '229.233', 'text': 'The second clause must be at the same time.'}, {'start': '229.233', 'end': '231.200', 'text': 'I think it’s normal to settle in a city'}, {'start': '231.733', 'end': '234.466', 'text': 'and never consider long-distance relationships.'}, {'start': '234.533', 'end': '238.033', 'text': 'After all, long-distance relationships are really a test of love nowadays.'}, {'start': '238.633', 'end': '239.633', 'text': 'But the problem is that'}, {'start': '239.633', 'end': '243.233', 'text': 'Xiao Li doesn’t give Xiao Zhang any choice.'}, {'start': '243.600', 'end': '244.600', 'text': 'This condition'}, {'start': '244.600', 'end': '248.400', 'text': 'is like giving Xiao Zhang a non-negotiable knife.'}, {'start': '248.866', 'end': '253.500', 'text': 'The third article is that after marriage, the man must bear the family finances independently'}, {'start': '253.633', 'end': '255.200', 'text': 'and the woman will have an independent career'}, {'start': '255.200', 'end': '257.266', 'text': 'and not participate in the family expenses.'}, {'start': '257.666', 'end': '260.700', 'text': 'To put it bluntly, the man is the master and the woman is the wife.'}, {'start': '260.700', 'end': '264.666', 'text': 'But this condition made me say what the hell is this'}, {'start': '265.100', 'end': '268.400', 'text': '? Shouldn’t it be shared by both parties?'}, {'start': '268.500', 'end': '271.866', 'text': 'The man is required to bear all the pressure'}, {'start': '272.500', 'end': '276.100', 'text': 'alone. Article'}, {'start': '276.200', 'end': '280.400', 'text': '4 before marriage, the man must own a house'}, {'start': '280.833', 'end': '284.533', 'text': 'and it must be a luxury house with more than three bedrooms and one living room in the'}, {'start': '284.600', 'end': '288.066', 'text': 'city'}, {'start': '288.466', 'end': '291.500', 'text': 'centre'}, {'start': '292.000', 'end': '295.466', 'text': '. If you want to have two children'}, {'start': '295.533', 'end': '297.533', 'text': 'and you must choose natural delivery,'}, {'start': '297.600', 'end': '300.833', 'text': 'the child must not be born more than two years apart'}, {'start': '301.233', 'end': '305.400', 'text': '. I feel this is a bit mind-numbing. Isn’t this'}, {'start': '305.833', 'end': '308.333', 'text': 'a two-year interval between natural births'}, {'start': '308.433', 'end': '311.666', 'text': '? Isn’t this treating yourself as a production machine?'}, {'start': '312.100', 'end': '314.533', 'text': 'Article 6: Marriage must be a luxurious'}, {'start': '314.533', 'end': '318.633', 'text': 'wedding. More than 300 relatives and friends must be invited to the wedding'}, {'start': '319.000', 'end': '322.066', 'text': 'and there must be a five-star hotel venue.'}, {'start': '322.600', 'end': '325.100', 'text': 'Wow, this is too luxurious.'}, {'start': '325.466', 'end': '327.333', 'text': '300 relatives and friends.'}, {'start': '327.333', 'end': '329.500', 'text': 'This is too boastful. Zhang Xiao'}, {'start': '329.500', 'end': '332.466', 'text': 'Zhang must be heartbroken at this time.'}, {'start': '332.633', 'end': '334.933', 'text': 'Does he want to marry into a rich family?'}, {'start': '335.466', 'end': '337.733', 'text': 'Article 7:'}, {'start': '337.733', 'end': '340.866', 'text': 'You must own a luxury car worth at least one million yuan'}, {'start': '340.900', 'end': '344.266', 'text': 'within six months after marriage , and the brand and model of the car must be confirmed by me.'}, {'start': '344.733', 'end': '346.100', 'text': 'I want to say'}, {'start': '346.100', 'end': '347.300', 'text': 'that Xiao Li is going to marry a Ferrari.'}, {'start': '347.300', 'end': '350.000', 'text': 'Article'}, {'start': '350.400', 'end': '352.600', 'text': '8: The man must ensure that he'}, {'start': '352.600', 'end': '355.500', 'text': 'gives me at least 5,000 yuan of pocket money every month'}, {'start': '355.900', 'end': '357.633', 'text': 'and cannot use cash.'}, {'start': '357.633', 'end': '359.333', 'text': 'This article'}, {'start': '359.866', 'end': '362.666', 'text': 'must be transferred through bank transfer. This is really crazy.'}, {'start': '363.100', 'end': '365.066', 'text': '5,000 yuan of pocket money'}, {'start': '365.633', 'end': '367.700', 'text': 'is not a marriage relationship. It'}, {'start': '367.733', 'end': '370.866', 'text': 'is just like a life partnership contract'}, {'start': '370.866', 'end': '372.733', 'text': 'that does not consider feelings at all.'}, {'start': '373.200', 'end': '376.733', 'text': 'After reading this, Xiao Zhang was stunned'}, {'start': '376.733', 'end': '379.433', 'text': "and couldn't believe his eyes."}, {'start': '379.600', 'end': '382.600', 'text': 'Is this a blind date or an offer?'}, {'start': '382.933', 'end': '384.100', 'text': 'But Xiao Li'}, {'start': '384.100', 'end': '386.066', 'text': "didn't seem to realize at all"}, {'start': '386.066', 'end': '389.066', 'text': 'how outrageous the demands he made were,'}, {'start': '389.433', 'end': '392.200', 'text': 'and continued to look at Xiao Zhang seriously.'}, {'start': '392.300', 'end': '393.866', 'text': 'You can consider that'}, {'start': '394.000', 'end': '396.833', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang was completely confused at this time.'}, {'start': '396.933', 'end': '398.800', 'text': 'His eyes were wide open.'}, {'start': '398.866', 'end': '401.200', 'text': 'He looked down at the note and felt'}, {'start': '401.533', 'end': '404.133', 'text': 'as if he had knocked over the five-flavor bottle.'}, {'start': '404.133', 'end': '406.233', 'text': "He didn't know what to do."}, {'start': '406.633', 'end': '407.200', 'text': 'Even if'}, {'start': '407.200', 'end': '410.800', 'text': "he could understand Xiao Li's desire to pursue a better life"}, {'start': '410.800', 'end': '412.700', 'text': ', these conditions were too'}, {'start': '413.033', 'end': '414.400', 'text': 'outrageous.'}, {'start': '414.866', 'end': '416.633', 'text': 'He took a deep breath and'}, {'start': '416.633', 'end': '419.700', 'text': 'slowly raised his head to look at Xiao Li'}, {'start': '419.700', 'end': '422.000', 'text': 'trying to organize his thoughts.'}, {'start': '422.000', 'end': '423.466', 'text': 'Uh, Xiao Li,'}, {'start': '423.466', 'end': '427.666', 'text': 'I think you have these conditions. Is it a bit too high'}, {'start': '427.666', 'end': '430.600', 'text': '? Xiao Li asked'}, {'start': '430.600', 'end': '432.866', 'text': 'with a trace of disdain in his eyes.'}, {'start': '433.266', 'end': '434.700', 'text': "Why don't you think about"}, {'start': '434.700', 'end': '436.866', 'text': "it? It's not easy for women nowadays"}, {'start': '437.333', 'end': '441.133', 'text': 'to find a good man. Of course ,'}, {'start': '441.633', 'end': '442.733', 'text': 'you have to pay a price. These conditions'}, {'start': '442.733', 'end': '444.233', 'text': 'are just to ensure'}, {'start': '444.233', 'end': '446.900', 'text': 'a happy life after we get married.'}, {'start': '447.333', 'end': '449.833', 'text': 'But before Xiao Zhang could finish his words,'}, {'start': '449.833', 'end': '451.600', 'text': 'he was interrupted by Xiao Li.'}, {'start': '451.733', 'end': '453.100', 'text': "Do you think it's difficult?"}, {'start': '453.433', 'end': '455.100', 'text': 'Even though you are from Hong Kong,'}, {'start': '455.100', 'end': '457.300', 'text': 'you think you are great.'}, {'start': '457.800', 'end': '459.600', 'text': "Xiao Li's face Sneer,"}, {'start': '459.600', 'end': '460.600', 'text': 'I tell you'}, {'start': '460.700', 'end': '464.266', 'text': 'that my conditions are not acceptable to just anyone.'}, {'start': '464.666', 'end': '467.333', 'text': "If you don't like it, you can choose to give up."}, {'start': '467.433', 'end': '469.033', 'text': "I don't need to compromise."}, {'start': '469.633', 'end': '470.700', 'text': 'Hearing this,'}, {'start': '470.700', 'end': '474.500', 'text': "Xiao Zhang's mood suddenly changed from confusion to anger."}, {'start': '474.633', 'end': '477.400', 'text': 'His previous patience also began to collapse.'}, {'start': '477.833', 'end': '479.133', 'text': 'What do you mean?'}, {'start': '479.233', 'end': '482.600', 'text': 'I see that you have no intention of considering our future at all. You are'}, {'start': '482.600', 'end': '484.233', 'text': 'just talking about conditions'}, {'start': '484.233', 'end': '486.266', 'text': ', like buying a house or a car.'}, {'start': '486.533', 'end': '489.666', 'text': 'A blind date should not be about two people getting to know each other and'}, {'start': '489.666', 'end': '491.033', 'text': 'cultivating each other.'}, {'start': '491.133', 'end': '492.866', 'text': 'Feelings? Xiao Li snorted coldly.'}, {'start': '492.866', 'end': '494.466', 'text': "I shouldn't have"}, {'start': '494.900', 'end': '497.333', 'text': 'listed the conditions so clearly.'}, {'start': '497.400', 'end': '500.866', 'text': "At least it's better than those men who have no plans in their hearts."}, {'start': '501.333', 'end': '503.200', 'text': 'Can you give me a future?'}, {'start': '503.300', 'end': '506.833', 'text': "At this moment, Xiao Zhang's anger has almost reached its peak."}, {'start': '507.233', 'end': '509.800', 'text': "It's hard for him to control his emotions."}, {'start': '509.900', 'end': '511.033', 'text': 'What you said'}, {'start': '511.066', 'end': '512.866', 'text': 'is right. Marriage is a matter for both parties.'}, {'start': '513.300', 'end': '516.466', 'text': 'We should be equal from the beginning of the blind date.'}, {'start': '516.633', 'end': '518.233', 'text': "But don't"}, {'start': '518.233', 'end': '519.900', 'text': "you think it's ridiculous for you to set conditions like this"}, {'start': '520.400', 'end': '522.033', 'text': '? Are you picking a man?'}, {'start': '522.033', 'end': '523.800', 'text': 'Still choosing a buyer,'}, {'start': '524.300', 'end': '527.100', 'text': "Xiao Li's face instantly turned livid."}, {'start': '527.200', 'end': '528.633', 'text': 'He glared at Xiao Zhang.'}, {'start': '528.666', 'end': '530.233', 'text': "You think I'm ridiculous and"}, {'start': '530.666', 'end': '532.000', 'text': "you 're the only one who's ridiculous."}, {'start': '532.000', 'end': '533.433', 'text': 'I have my own standards.'}, {'start': '533.466', 'end': '535.133', 'text': "I'm not afraid that you won't accept"}, {'start': '535.600', 'end': '538.833', 'text': "them. I don't think I need to lower my standards for you."}, {'start': '538.933', 'end': '542.233', 'text': 'The atmosphere at the scene instantly became tense.'}, {'start': '542.700', 'end': '544.933', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang felt angry'}, {'start': '545.000', 'end': '547.633', 'text': 'and at the same time felt an inexplicable disappointment.'}, {'start': '548.033', 'end': '549.333', 'text': 'He originally thought that a blind date'}, {'start': '549.333', 'end': '551.233', 'text': 'is a process in which two people get to know each other'}, {'start': '551.233', 'end': '552.900', 'text': 'and slowly adapt.'}, {'start': '553.300', 'end': '554.700', 'text': 'But the situation in front of him'}, {'start': '554.700', 'end': '555.600', 'text': 'made him feel'}, {'start': '555.600', 'end': '559.066', 'text': 'as if he was just a commodity waiting to be sold.'}, {'start': '559.633', 'end': '562.600', 'text': 'Xiao Li, I feel that we are really not suitable.'}, {'start': '563.133', 'end': '565.033', 'text': 'Xiao'}, {'start': '565.533', 'end': '567.200', 'text': 'Zhang'}, {'start': '567.633', 'end': '569.466', 'text': 'said'}, {'start': '569.900', 'end': '572.333', 'text': 'angrily'}, {'start': '572.333', 'end': '574.933', 'text': ','}, {'start': '575.033', 'end': '576.700', 'text': 'you'}, {'start': '577.100', 'end': '578.800', 'text': 'are really a coward'}, {'start': '578.800', 'end': '581.233', 'text': 'if'}, {'start': '581.533', 'end': '582.866', 'text': 'you want'}, {'start': '582.866', 'end': '585.066', 'text': 'to leave .'}, {'start': '585.233', 'end': '586.400', 'text': 'These conditions'}, {'start': '586.400', 'end': '589.333', 'text': 'are simply not acceptable to normal people.'}, {'start': '589.800', 'end': '592.066', 'text': 'You are looking for a sponsor,'}, {'start': '592.066', 'end': '593.733', 'text': 'not a partner.'}, {'start': '593.833', 'end': '595.833', 'text': "Thank you, I don't accept"}, {'start': '596.266', 'end': '597.500', 'text': 'it. As soon as he finished speaking'}, {'start': '597.500', 'end': '599.833', 'text': ', Xiao Zhang turned around and was about to leave,'}, {'start': '599.866', 'end': '602.100', 'text': 'but Xiao Li suddenly stood up'}, {'start': '602.100', 'end': '603.633', 'text': 'and grabbed him.'}, {'start': '603.633', 'end': '606.600', 'text': 'You left, what are you doing?'}, {'start': '606.633', 'end': '607.800', 'text': 'Am I wrong?'}, {'start': '607.900', 'end': '611.800', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang looked back at his hand that was clutching his sleeve, and'}, {'start': '612.133', 'end': '614.466', 'text': 'a wry smile appeared at the corner of his mouth.'}, {'start': '614.533', 'end': '617.333', 'text': "You don't understand the true meaning of blind date at all . It's true that"}, {'start': '617.400', 'end': '619.733', 'text': 'if you want to measure people by conditions,'}, {'start': '620.066', 'end': '622.833', 'text': 'the only one who will suffer in the end is you.'}, {'start': '623.400', 'end': '626.066', 'text': "Xiao Li's face turned red instantly."}, {'start': '626.066', 'end': '629.233', 'text': "He didn't seem to expect that his tough attitude"}, {'start': '629.233', 'end': '632.033', 'text': 'would trigger such a strong reaction.'}, {'start': '632.466', 'end': '634.466', 'text': 'He wanted to continue arguing,'}, {'start': '634.500', 'end': '637.266', 'text': 'but Xiao Zhang no longer gave him a chance.'}, {'start': '637.333', 'end': '639.400', 'text': "Don't waste each other's time."}, {'start': '639.400', 'end': '641.000', 'text': 'We are really not suitable.'}, {'start': '641.500', 'end': '643.033', 'text': 'He quickly turned around'}, {'start': '643.033', 'end': '645.533', 'text': 'and walked out of the restaurant without hesitation'}, {'start': '645.933', 'end': '648.733', 'text': '. At that moment, the air was like The Buddha froze.'}, {'start': '648.800', 'end': '650.533', 'text': 'Xiao Li stood there'}, {'start': '650.533', 'end': '653.033', 'text': 'and felt that the whole world was trembling.'}, {'start': '653.500', 'end': '656.133', 'text': "He didn't expect that his high standards"}, {'start': '656.133', 'end': '658.533', 'text': 'would turn away'}, {'start': '658.533', 'end': '659.933', 'text': 'a potential high-quality man.'}, {'start': '660.400', 'end': '663.266', 'text': 'But why did he feel unwilling to do so?'}, {'start': '663.400', 'end': '666.700', 'text': "He couldn't help but wonder if he had gone too far ."}, {'start': '667.133', 'end': '669.200', 'text': 'When Xiao Zhang walked out of the restaurant,'}, {'start': '669.200', 'end': '671.600', 'text': 'he was still a little uneasy.'}, {'start': '672.100', 'end': '674.700', 'text': 'Although he felt that he had done the right thing'}, {'start': '674.800', 'end': '677.933', 'text': ', he was full of resentment in his heart. And confused,'}, {'start': '678.300', 'end': '680.066', 'text': 'he felt that he did not need'}, {'start': '680.066', 'end': '682.533', 'text': 'to compromise for such unreasonable demands.'}, {'start': '682.933', 'end': '683.700', 'text': 'Marriage is'}, {'start': '683.700', 'end': '687.233', 'text': 'based on equality and mutual respect'}, {'start': '687.233', 'end': '689.500', 'text': ', not one party'}, {'start': '689.500', 'end': '691.533', 'text': 'unilaterally imposing conditions'}, {'start': '692.066', 'end': '695.533', 'text': '. 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Then he'}, {'start': '736.466', 'end': '738.633', 'text': 'fell into deep self-doubt'}, {'start': '738.633', 'end': '741.100', 'text': 'in his own home.'}, {'start': '741.466', 'end': '743.500', 'text': 'Why did my high standards'}, {'start': '743.500', 'end': '746.633', 'text': 'drive away a seemingly good man?'}, {'start': '747.100', 'end': '750.000', 'text': 'He thought about the conversation over and over again'}, {'start': '750.000', 'end': '752.733', 'text': 'until finally his mind went blank.'}, {'start': '753.233', 'end': '755.400', 'text': 'Then her cell phone rang. It'}, {'start': '755.400', 'end': '757.733', 'text': 'was a message from her best friend.'}, {'start': '757.933', 'end': '760.266', 'text': 'How did you'}, {'start': '760.700', 'end': '762.233', 'text': 'enjoy your conversation with that man today?'}, {'start': '762.233', 'end': '764.033', 'text': 'Xiao Li took a deep breath and'}, {'start': '764.033', 'end': '767.266', 'text': 'replied angrily, I feel He is not suitable for me. He'}, {'start': '767.266', 'end': '768.900', 'text': 'is not qualified enough'}, {'start': '769.133', 'end': '771.866', 'text': 'and is a man who does not know how to cherish.'}, {'start': '772.333', 'end': '774.300', 'text': 'Her best friend replied, "'}, {'start': '774.400', 'end': '776.133', 'text': 'You are too strict.'}, {'start': '776.633', 'end': '778.200', 'text': "I don't think it will work."}, {'start': '778.200', 'end': '780.233', 'text': 'Who can meet your conditions?'}, {'start': '780.333', 'end': '782.666', 'text': '" Xiao Li was speechless.'}, {'start': '783.100', 'end': '786.733', 'text': 'He was instilled by his parents since he was a child to find a good man'}, {'start': '786.833', 'end': '789.266', 'text': 'and marry a rich man.'}, {'start': '789.666', 'end': '792.000', 'text': 'Maybe he himself did not realize'}, {'start': '792.000', 'end': '793.000', 'text': 'that he regarded marriage'}, {'start': '793.000', 'end': '795.800', 'text': 'as a transaction of exchange value'}, {'start': '796.000', 'end': '798.833', 'text': 'rather than a transaction of value.'}, {'start': '798.833', 'end': '800.666', 'text': 'A relationship where two people grow up and'}, {'start': '801.100', 'end': '803.600', 'text': 'experience together is of course important . 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The request'}, {'start': '857.433', 'end': '859.733', 'text': 'made people feel breathless.'}, {'start': '860.133', 'end': '861.800', 'text': 'Maybe he was wrong,'}, {'start': '861.900', 'end': '865.466', 'text': 'maybe Xiao Li just wanted to find'}, {'start': '865.533', 'end': '868.700', 'text': 'a strong enough man to rely on for more security'}, {'start': '869.066', 'end': '871.833', 'text': ', but what he felt was material needs'}, {'start': '871.833', 'end': '873.800', 'text': 'instead of emotional sincerity,'}, {'start': '873.833', 'end': '875.666', 'text': 'which made him a little disappointed.'}, {'start': '876.066', 'end': '877.133', 'text': 'At the same time,'}, {'start': '877.133', 'end': '880.033', 'text': "Xiao Li's heart was in a mess."}, {'start': '880.500', 'end': '881.800', 'text': 'He sat at home,'}, {'start': '881.800', 'end': '883.933', 'text': 'holding his mobile phone tightly in his hand,'}, {'start': '883.933', 'end': '887.233', 'text': 'thinking about the dispute on the blind date just now.'}, {'start': '887.700', 'end': '891.333', 'text': 'Whenever he thought of the scene when Xiao Zhang turned around and left,'}, {'start': '891.400', 'end': '892.933', 'text': 'he felt angry'}, {'start': '893.100', 'end': '895.866', 'text': 'and at the same time had an inexplicable sense of emptiness.'}, {'start': '896.266', 'end': '898.200', 'text': 'He could actually walk like this.'}, {'start': '898.266', 'end': '901.066', 'text': 'Xiao Li repeated this question over and over again.'}, {'start': '901.433', 'end': '904.700', 'text': 'I obviously want to find a really suitable person.'}, {'start': '904.733', 'end': '906.833', 'text': "Why can't he understand?"}, {'start': '907.266', 'end': '909.900', 'text': 'He turned to look at the mirror next to him,'}, {'start': '910.000', 'end': '913.433', 'text': 'and his figure sitting upright seemed to be getting blurry. She had been'}, {'start': '913.866', 'end': '915.866', 'text': 'a good daughter since she was a child'}, {'start': '915.866', 'end': '917.233', 'text': '. The girl'}, {'start': '917.233', 'end': '918.800', 'text': 'has good academic'}, {'start': '919.200', 'end': '921.066', 'text': 'performance and good work performance.'}, {'start': '921.066', 'end': '923.500', 'text': 'Her parents are always proud of her.'}, {'start': '923.866', 'end': '925.066', 'text': 'However, in recent years,'}, {'start': '925.066', 'end': '926.233', 'text': 'she has found'}, {'start': '926.233', 'end': '928.133', 'text': 'that it seems to be increasingly difficult to find a'}, {'start': '928.133', 'end': '930.233', 'text': 'man who meets her own standards.'}, {'start': '930.733', 'end': '933.500', 'text': 'He overemphasizes the material match and'}, {'start': '933.500', 'end': '936.666', 'text': 'ignores the most important thing between two people,'}, {'start': '936.733', 'end': '938.200', 'text': 'the emotional connection.'}, {'start': '938.600', 'end': '940.200', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang is not bad.'}, {'start': '940.200', 'end': '941.900', 'text': 'He has his own persistence.'}, {'start': '942.033', 'end': '945.333', 'text': 'Xiao Li suddenly feels that he may have gone too far,'}, {'start': '945.666', 'end': '947.466', 'text': 'but I mentioned The conditions offered'}, {'start': '947.466', 'end': '950.733', 'text': 'really make people feel stressed and confused.'}, {'start': '951.200', 'end': '954.100', 'text': 'She began to reflect on her past ideas'}, {'start': '954.100', 'end': '955.900', 'text': 'and even blamed herself'}, {'start': '956.400', 'end': '957.700', 'text': '. She used to think that'}, {'start': '957.700', 'end': '961.133', 'text': 'she had to use such standards to select men'}, {'start': '961.600', 'end': '965.266', 'text': 'because only in this way could she live a perfect life'}, {'start': '965.700', 'end': '968.133', 'text': '. But now he began to realize'}, {'start': '968.133', 'end': '970.666', 'text': 'that marriage should not be a transaction'}, {'start': '970.666', 'end': '973.833', 'text': 'but the growth and co-construction of two people.'}, {'start': '974.266', 'end': '976.000', 'text': 'Suddenly the phone rang'}, {'start': '976.000', 'end': '977.900', 'text': '. Her best friend called'}, {'start': '978.066', 'end': '978.933', 'text': 'Xiao Li.'}, {'start': '978.933', 'end': '982.400', 'text': 'She just heard that you and that Hong Kong boy didn’t become'}, {'start': '982.800', 'end': '986.400', 'text': 'best friends. There was a bit of concern and confusion in your tone.'}, {'start': '986.466', 'end': '988.733', 'text': 'Are your demands too high?'}, {'start': '989.133', 'end': '992.066', 'text': 'Do you place too much emphasis on conditions?'}, {'start': '992.533', 'end': '994.500', 'text': 'Xiao Li, you know'}, {'start': '994.500', 'end': '997.733', 'text': 'I never ask others to do things I don’t like.'}, {'start': '997.900', 'end': '1000.133', 'text': 'But what on earth did he think'}, {'start': '1000.600', 'end': '1002.600', 'text': '? He didn’t even give me a chance.'}, {'start': '1002.666', 'end': '1004.933', 'text': 'Xiao Li was obviously in a low mood'}, {'start': '1004.933', 'end': '1006.733', 'text': 'with tears in his eyes.'}, {'start': '1007.233', 'end': '1008.900', 'text': 'My best friend paused and'}, {'start': '1008.900', 'end': '1010.533', 'text': 'said softly: In fact,'}, {'start': '1010.533', 'end': '1014.133', 'text': 'sometimes our demands may not be bad,'}, {'start': '1014.333', 'end': '1016.666', 'text': 'but insisting too much on these conditions'}, {'start': '1016.700', 'end': '1020.133', 'text': 'will make the relationship lose the flexibility it should have.'}, {'start': '1020.633', 'end': '1022.100', 'text': 'Have you ever thought that'}, {'start': '1022.100', 'end': '1023.200', 'text': 'true love'}, {'start': '1023.200', 'end': '1026.466', 'text': 'does not actually operate according to these standards?'}, {'start': '1026.933', 'end': '1029.133', 'text': 'You may not realize that'}, {'start': '1029.133', 'end': '1031.233', 'text': 'you have been bound by conditions.'}, {'start': '1031.233', 'end': '1034.266', 'text': 'Instead, he ignored the emotions between people.'}, {'start': '1034.700', 'end': '1035.733', 'text': 'When he heard this,'}, {'start': '1035.733', 'end': '1037.200', 'text': 'Xiao Li was stunned.'}, {'start': '1037.533', 'end': '1040.233', 'text': 'He lowered his head and looked at his hands.'}, {'start': '1040.233', 'end': '1042.333', 'text': 'Suddenly he felt empty,'}, {'start': '1042.333', 'end': '1044.466', 'text': 'as if he had lost something.'}, {'start': '1044.900', 'end': '1046.233', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang left.'}, {'start': '1046.233', 'end': '1048.433', 'text': 'I really don’t think he must be bad.'}, {'start': '1048.466', 'end': '1050.233', 'text': 'Xiao Li murmured to himself.'}, {'start': '1050.600', 'end': '1053.833', 'text': 'Maybe my requirements are too high'}, {'start': '1054.266', 'end': '1055.600', 'text': 'and idealistic.'}, {'start': '1055.600', 'end': '1058.500', 'text': 'I didn’t consider him at all. 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Picked up the phone again,'}, {'start': '1085.533', 'end': '1086.733', 'text': 'hesitated for a while,'}, {'start': '1087.266', 'end': '1090.400', 'text': 'and finally sent a text message to Xiao'}, {'start': '1090.500', 'end': '1092.100', 'text': "Zhang. Xiao Zhang, I'm sorry,"}, {'start': '1092.466', 'end': '1095.133', 'text': 'my attitude yesterday may have been a bit extreme.'}, {'start': '1095.266', 'end': '1097.266', 'text': "I didn't mean to hurt you, I'm"}, {'start': '1097.633', 'end': '1099.933', 'text': 'just a little uneasy about the future'}, {'start': '1100.033', 'end': '1102.866', 'text': '. Maybe I need time to think about it'}, {'start': '1103.266', 'end': '1105.033', 'text': '. Xiao Li pressed send,'}, {'start': '1105.033', 'end': '1107.400', 'text': 'but suddenly felt relieved.'}, {'start': '1107.866', 'end': '1108.800', 'text': 'He felt that'}, {'start': '1108.800', 'end': '1112.600', 'text': 'maybe this text message was not only The apology to Xiao Zhang'}, {'start': '1112.666', 'end': '1115.266', 'text': 'was also a reflection and farewell to himself.'}, {'start': '1115.733', 'end': '1116.733', 'text': 'At the same time,'}, {'start': '1116.733', 'end': '1118.433', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang was also'}, {'start': '1118.433', 'end': '1121.433', 'text': 'slowly reflecting on the entire blind date process in silence.'}, {'start': '1121.833', 'end': '1124.500', 'text': 'Although he had already walked out of the restaurant'}, {'start': '1124.500', 'end': '1127.666', 'text': ', he did not immediately forget the blind date.'}, {'start': '1128.133', 'end': '1130.800', 'text': 'He did not feel that he was wrong in his heart'}, {'start': '1130.900', 'end': '1133.733', 'text': ', but there was always an indescribable sense of loss'}, {'start': '1134.100', 'end': '1137.100', 'text': '. He felt that Xiao Li was not She is a bad woman.'}, {'start': '1137.266', 'end': '1139.533', 'text': 'She also has her pursuits and dreams.'}, {'start': '1139.633', 'end': '1142.133', 'text': 'The problem is just in his way.'}, {'start': '1142.500', 'end': '1144.900', 'text': 'When he received the text message on his mobile phone,'}, {'start': '1144.900', 'end': '1146.100', 'text': 'his heart moved.'}, {'start': '1146.200', 'end': '1148.633', 'text': 'He stood up and walked to the window. He'}, {'start': '1148.633', 'end': '1151.000', 'text': 'silently looked at the scenery outside the window'}, {'start': '1151.333', 'end': '1154.400', 'text': 'and repeatedly thought about the content of the text message.'}, {'start': '1154.433', 'end': '1156.466', 'text': "I didn't want to hurt you. I was"}, {'start': '1156.500', 'end': '1158.500', 'text': 'just a little uneasy about the future.'}, {'start': '1159.033', 'end': '1160.200', 'text': 'He understood.'}, {'start': '1160.200', 'end': '1162.200', 'text': 'Xiao Li It’s not that he is insincere'}, {'start': '1162.233', 'end': '1165.333', 'text': ', but that he made so many extreme demands because'}, {'start': '1165.333', 'end': '1168.066', 'text': 'he was too anxious in the face of reality.'}, {'start': '1168.466', 'end': '1171.400', 'text': 'He and I are really from the same world.'}, {'start': '1171.866', 'end': '1174.000', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang sighed softly.'}, {'start': '1174.300', 'end': '1177.533', 'text': 'Maybe he needs more than just a man,'}, {'start': '1177.933', 'end': '1180.533', 'text': 'but a partner who can truly understand him and'}, {'start': '1180.533', 'end': '1182.133', 'text': 'support him.'}, {'start': '1182.666', 'end': '1184.700', 'text': 'Suddenly he picked up the phone'}, {'start': '1184.700', 'end': '1186.866', 'text': 'and wanted to reply to Xiao Li,'}, {'start': '1186.866', 'end': '1189.200', 'text': "but in the end He didn't send it out."}, {'start': '1189.633', 'end': '1193.433', 'text': 'He knew that love is not a simple multiple-choice question'}, {'start': '1193.433', 'end': '1197.066', 'text': ', but a balance that can only be found after the collision of two worlds.'}, {'start': '1197.466', 'end': '1200.200', 'text': "At this time, Xiao Li's cell phone rang again."}, {'start': '1200.266', 'end': '1203.533', 'text': "He looked at Xiao Zhang's name that appeared on the screen"}, {'start': '1203.600', 'end': '1206.033', 'text': 'and suddenly felt a warm current in his heart.'}, {'start': '1206.533', 'end': '1207.933', 'text': 'The choice of life'}, {'start': '1207.933', 'end': '1209.833', 'text': 'cannot only depend on the conditions.'}, {'start': '1210.266', 'end': '1211.800', 'text': 'He finally understood'}, {'start': '1211.800', 'end': '1213.333', 'text': 'that love is sometimes like this.'}, {'start': '1213.333', 'end': '1215.600', 'text': 'How simple is it to choose the right person?'}, {'start': '1215.600', 'end': '1219.066', 'text': 'Compromise and understanding each other are the most important.'}, {'start': '1219.466', 'end': '1221.500', 'text': 'After this blind date,'}, {'start': '1221.500', 'end': '1224.833', 'text': 'Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li each took a different path.'}, {'start': '1225.200', 'end': '1227.866', 'text': 'But this experience made them both realize'}, {'start': '1227.866', 'end': '1231.233', 'text': 'that marriage should not just be'}, {'start': '1231.500', 'end': '1233.133', 'text': 'the result of pursuing high standards and perfect conditions'}, {'start': '1233.133', 'end': '1236.933', 'text': ', but should have spiritual fit and common growth.'}, {'start': '1237.333', 'end': '1239.633', 'text': 'Today’s video sharing is over'}, {'start': '1239.633', 'end': '1241.233', 'text': '. See you next time.'}]