女友痛斥男友搞暧昧，塗磊卻說女生三觀不正#綜藝 #愛情保衛戰重制版#情感
爱情保卫战
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He has a job.'}, {'start': '38.233', 'end': '39.633', 'text': "I really can't adapt to it."}, {'start': '40.066', 'end': '42.666', 'text': 'But he always measures me by his standards,'}, {'start': '43.200', 'end': '45.333', 'text': "which I can't stand."}, {'start': '45.666', 'end': '47.800', 'text': 'What makes me feel particularly heartbroken is that'}, {'start': '47.800', 'end': '50.700', 'text': "many times he really doesn't care about my feelings"}, {'start': '50.800', 'end': '52.500', 'text': ". He doesn't listen to anything I say,"}, {'start': '52.933', 'end': '55.500', 'text': 'and then I feel like I have a fake boyfriend'}, {'start': '55.500', 'end': '57.500', 'text': '. And often,'}, {'start': '57.500', 'end': '59.633', 'text': "you see, I'm about to graduate now."}, {'start': '59.633', 'end': '61.700', 'text': "I really don't know how to get along with him. It"}, {'start': '62.033', 'end': '62.833', 'text': "'s very difficult."}, {'start': '65.233', 'end': '66.933', 'text': 'Applause. Please welcome this pair.'}, {'start': '68.700', 'end': '70.733', 'text': 'Male guest Xiao Gao is 29 years old.'}, {'start': '70.733', 'end': '73.433', 'text': 'Female guest Xiao Liu is 22 years old and'}, {'start': '73.433', 'end': '75.866', 'text': 'is a student from Liaoning. Please welcome. Both of you are welcome'}, {'start': '80.600', 'end': '81.733', 'text': '. How did you two'}, {'start': '81.733', 'end': '83.866', 'text': 'meet'}, {'start': '84.266', 'end': '87.133', 'text': '? He opened a shop in my university'}, {'start': '87.133', 'end': '90.200', 'text': 'and then I went to his place to do hair. I was looking for a part-time job.'}, {'start': '90.300', 'end': '92.133', 'text': 'Then we added WeChat and got to know each other'}, {'start': '92.133', 'end': '93.800', 'text': '. Well, I was getting'}, {'start': '93.800', 'end': '97.000', 'text': 'along with him for about'}, {'start': '97.000', 'end': '98.500', 'text': 'a month or so.'}, {'start': '98.666', 'end': '99.333', 'text': 'I found that'}, {'start': '99.333', 'end': '102.633', 'text': 'he often chatted with girls on his mobile phone. The'}, {'start': '102.633', 'end': '104.066', 'text': 'chat was very abnormal.'}, {'start': '104.066', 'end': '105.600', 'text': 'What is abnormal means'}, {'start': '105.600', 'end': '106.900', 'text': 'that for example, once,'}, {'start': '106.900', 'end': '108.266', 'text': 'he was on the mobile phone. I was chatting with'}, {'start': '108.266', 'end': '110.200', 'text': 'a girl and said, "I\'m single now.'}, {'start': '110.200', 'end': '111.833', 'text': "Can you tell me if there's anyone suitable for me"}, {'start': '111.833', 'end': '113.066', 'text': '? Can you introduce me to'}, {'start': '113.133', 'end': '114.433', 'text': 'someone?" Then he told the girl'}, {'start': '114.433', 'end': '116.300', 'text': ', " I\'m close to someone who\'s suitable.'}, {'start': '116.300', 'end': '117.233', 'text': "I'll be the"}, {'start': '117.233', 'end': '119.700', 'text': 'one. As a hairdresser, I'}, {'start': '119.933', 'end': '122.066', 'text': 'come into contact with these female customers every day'}, {'start': '122.200', 'end': '123.133', 'text': 'and have some ambiguous words.'}, {'start': '123.133', 'end': '124.700', 'text': "I think it's normal."}, {'start': '124.700', 'end': '127.300', 'text': 'Sometimes he will say yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,'}, {'start': '127.300', 'end': '128.200', 'text': 'yes, yes'}, {'start': '128.200', 'end': '131.433', 'text': ', and I\'ll ask him clearly. It\'s not like you think. " It\'s so ambiguous.'}, {'start': '131.433', 'end': '132.666', 'text': 'Sometimes he will say'}, {'start': '132.666', 'end': '134.700', 'text': 'that the manicure you did today is so beautiful.'}, {'start': '134.700', 'end': '136.266', 'text': 'Your hairstyle is so beautiful.'}, {'start': '136.300', 'end': '138.033', 'text': 'I said that you are a hair stylist, so'}, {'start': '138.033', 'end': '139.666', 'text': "you can just look at other people's hair."}, {'start': '140.066', 'end': '141.800', 'text': "Why do you have to look at other people's nails"}, {'start': '141.800', 'end': '145.033', 'text': "? Why do you have to look at other people's clothes"}, {'start': '145.033', 'end': '146.900', 'text': '? Could it be that when a customer comes over,'}, {'start': '147.000', 'end': '149.833', 'text': 'you want me to yell at them?'}, {'start': '150.033', 'end': '152.400', 'text': "Okay, you don't need to ask this question. After struggling with him,"}, {'start': '152.500', 'end': '153.233', 'text': 'we basically know'}, {'start': '153.233', 'end': '154.866', 'text': 'what his values \u200b\u200bare. Is'}, {'start': '154.866', 'end': '155.866', 'text': 'there anything else?'}, {'start': '155.866', 'end': '158.266', 'text': 'There are many, many, many things.'}, {'start': '158.300', 'end': '160.833', 'text': 'He has an abnormal habit.'}, {'start': '160.900', 'end': '161.900', 'text': 'For example, for example,'}, {'start': '161.900', 'end': '162.500', 'text': 'he'}, {'start': '162.500', 'end': '164.333', 'text': 'usually likes to ride that motorcycle'}, {'start': '164.333', 'end': '166.533', 'text': '. Is it wrong for me to ride a motorcycle?'}, {'start': '166.733', 'end': '168.100', 'text': "I have a driver's license"}, {'start': '168.200', 'end': '169.666', 'text': ', I have a license'}, {'start': '170.200', 'end': '171.433', 'text': ", and then I don't drive on the highway."}, {'start': '171.433', 'end': '173.233', 'text': 'All my friends around me are riding motorcycles.'}, {'start': '173.233', 'end': '174.033', 'text': 'Especially since I’m'}, {'start': '174.033', 'end': '175.433', 'text': 'usually tired after a day’s work'}, {'start': '175.533', 'end': '176.866', 'text': ', not to mention that'}, {'start': '177.200', 'end': '178.933', 'text': 'sometimes I’m harassed by customers'}, {'start': '178.933', 'end': '179.533', 'text': 'and'}, {'start': '179.533', 'end': '180.933', 'text': 'I’m not in a good mood.'}, {'start': '181.000', 'end': '182.433', 'text': 'I like to go out for a walk at night'}, {'start': '182.433', 'end': '184.100', 'text': 'to release my energy. It’s normal'}, {'start': '184.100', 'end': '185.933', 'text': 'for everyone to have a personal hobby.'}, {'start': '186.033', 'end': '187.700', 'text': 'My hobby is riding a motorcycle.'}, {'start': '187.900', 'end': '188.733', 'text': 'But as the host, you know'}, {'start': '188.733', 'end': '190.100', 'text': 'he had an accident while riding a motorcycle.'}, {'start': '190.133', 'end': '192.266', 'text': 'He fell off a board in front of the car and got'}, {'start': '192.266', 'end': '193.100', 'text': 'rolled into the windlass,'}, {'start': '193.100', 'end': '194.433', 'text': 'so he threw him away.'}, {'start': '194.833', 'end': '196.800', 'text': 'After he got out, I'}, {'start': '196.800', 'end': '197.300', 'text': 'threw him away.'}, {'start': '197.300', 'end': '199.266', 'text': 'I said, I said the disadvantage is that there is no car'}, {'start': '199.266', 'end': '200.300', 'text': 'behind. If there is a car,'}, {'start': '200.300', 'end': '202.400', 'text': 'what will happen if it presses on your head'}, {'start': '203.200', 'end': '204.466', 'text': '? Can you still escape?'}, {'start': '204.466', 'end': '206.100', 'text': 'This is purely a point on the back'}, {'start': '206.333', 'end': '207.900', 'text': '. If'}, {'start': '207.900', 'end': '208.733', 'text': 'I point on the back, do you want to ride a bike?'}, {'start': '208.733', 'end': '209.866', 'text': 'You are still making these nonsense.'}, {'start': '209.866', 'end': '210.833', 'text': 'If I ride a bike,'}, {'start': '210.833', 'end': '213.833', 'text': 'there will be an accident.'}, {'start': '213.833', 'end': '215.400', 'text': "And it's not just a safety issue. He"}, {'start': '215.400', 'end': '217.533', 'text': "doesn't really like it in the first place."}, {'start': '217.533', 'end': '218.800', 'text': 'You know , go'}, {'start': '218.800', 'end': '219.200', 'text': 'to work on time and on time,'}, {'start': '219.200', 'end': '220.666', 'text': 'right? When he opened the'}, {'start': '220.700', 'end': '222.333', 'text': 'store, the first one failed'}, {'start': '222.333', 'end': '224.933', 'text': '. The second time he failed.'}, {'start': '224.933', 'end': '225.933', 'text': 'What kind of store did he open?'}, {'start': '225.933', 'end': '227.266', 'text': 'It was also a hairdressing shop'}, {'start': '227.333', 'end': '228.400', 'text': '. Hey,'}, {'start': '228.400', 'end': '229.833', 'text': 'did this store open'}, {'start': '229.833', 'end': '231.633', 'text': 'because it was not good enough'}, {'start': '231.633', 'end': '233.033', 'text': 'or was it a matter of craftsmanship'}, {'start': '233.233', 'end': '235.300', 'text': '? It doesn’t have anything to do with this'}, {'start': '235.300', 'end': '237.433', 'text': '. I have opened a store twice.'}, {'start': '237.433', 'end': '238.733', 'text': 'The first store failed'}, {'start': '238.733', 'end': '241.433', 'text': '. As long as he is in his university. When I opened a store there'}, {'start': '241.433', 'end': '242.400', 'text': ', I was deceived.'}, {'start': '242.633', 'end': '243.466', 'text': 'The second store'}, {'start': '243.466', 'end': '245.100', 'text': 'I temporarily took over'}, {'start': '245.100', 'end': '247.033', 'text': 'was a store owned by one of my masters.'}, {'start': '247.100', 'end': '248.800', 'text': 'The store was small'}, {'start': '249.066', 'end': '250.400', 'text': 'and the location was remote.'}, {'start': '250.666', 'end': '251.666', 'text': 'But in the end,'}, {'start': '252.100', 'end': '253.200', 'text': 'I didn’t make any money,'}, {'start': '253.200', 'end': '255.800', 'text': 'but I didn’t say I was losing money. OK'}, {'start': '255.800', 'end': '256.800', 'text': ', I understand,'}, {'start': '256.800', 'end': '259.033', 'text': 'but I think you said you should open this store.'}, {'start': '259.300', 'end': '260.633', 'text': 'If you failed in the first place,'}, {'start': '260.633', 'end': '262.066', 'text': 'it proves that you are not the material.'}, {'start': '262.066', 'end': '263.300', 'text': 'You don’t care about any objective factors'}, {'start': '263.300', 'end': '264.133', 'text': '. If'}, {'start': '264.133', 'end': '265.266', 'text': 'I go to a big company, then'}, {'start': '265.266', 'end': '266.433', 'text': 'you must go to a big company.'}, {'start': '266.433', 'end': '267.800', 'text': 'Look how old you are now.'}, {'start': '267.933', 'end': '270.033', 'text': 'You are almost 30 now. You'}, {'start': '270.433', 'end': '272.500', 'text': 'have no savings or a house.'}, {'start': '272.500', 'end': '274.200', 'text': 'I am not saying that I don’t care if you want this deposit'}, {'start': '274.200', 'end': '276.300', 'text': ', but you have to have this heart.'}, {'start': '276.300', 'end': '279.000', 'text': 'Look at me now. I am a college student, right?'}, {'start': '279.000', 'end': '280.300', 'text': 'After I graduate'}, {'start': '280.300', 'end': '282.000', 'text': ', I feel that I must find a'}, {'start': '282.000', 'end': '284.066', 'text': 'reliable job.'}, {'start': '284.100', 'end': '286.433', 'text': 'If I can have a stable income every month,'}, {'start': '286.500', 'end': '288.833', 'text': 'I will save some money'}, {'start': '288.833', 'end': '290.200', 'text': 'for future development.'}, {'start': '290.266', 'end': '291.733', 'text': 'First of all, I told you before that'}, {'start': '292.333', 'end': '294.666', 'text': 'I chose hairdressing because'}, {'start': '294.666', 'end': '295.800', 'text': 'it is an art'}, {'start': '295.933', 'end': '298.100', 'text': '. Art itself is free and free'}, {'start': '298.100', 'end': '299.700', 'text': 'to do whatever I like.'}, {'start': '299.800', 'end': '301.666', 'text': 'If you ask me to'}, {'start': '301.666', 'end': '304.533', 'text': 'go to a big company, they will restrict me'}, {'start': '304.866', 'end': '305.733', 'text': ', restrict my clothes,'}, {'start': '305.733', 'end': '307.233', 'text': 'restrict my words and deeds, and'}, {'start': '307.233', 'end': '308.533', 'text': 'I can do everything. If not,'}, {'start': '308.533', 'end': '309.700', 'text': 'then why should I go?'}, {'start': '310.000', 'end': '311.600', 'text': 'You always use your thinking and'}, {'start': '311.733', 'end': '313.500', 'text': 'your requirements to measure me. You'}, {'start': '313.533', 'end': '316.100', 'text': 'ask me to do something well,'}, {'start': '316.100', 'end': '317.900', 'text': "but it doesn't mean that I can do it"}, {'start': '317.900', 'end': '319.066', 'text': 'well, right?'}, {'start': '319.066', 'end': '320.400', 'text': 'No one is omnipotent.'}, {'start': '320.500', 'end': '321.933', 'text': 'This is not my thinking.'}, {'start': '321.933', 'end': '324.633', 'text': 'This is the thinking of ordinary people.'}, {'start': '324.633', 'end': '325.866', 'text': "Isn't it like this?"}, {'start': '325.866', 'end': '327.266', 'text': 'If you always think like this'}, {'start': '327.600', 'end': '328.300', 'text': ", it's like saying that"}, {'start': '328.300', 'end': '331.533', 'text': 'you are usually in your university circle, right? You'}, {'start': '331.533', 'end': '334.033', 'text': 'are always looking for someone to leave.'}, {'start': '335.066', 'end': '335.500', 'text': 'Sometimes'}, {'start': '335.500', 'end': '336.733', 'text': 'you take me with you to'}, {'start': '336.733', 'end': '337.833', 'text': 'work a part-time job . I just go.'}, {'start': '337.900', 'end': '340.433', 'text': 'I feel like I can’t do it'}, {'start': '340.833', 'end': '341.400', 'text': 'well. I'}, {'start': '341.400', 'end': '343.466', 'text': 'can’t force myself to do it.'}, {'start': '343.600', 'end': '344.333', 'text': 'I force myself'}, {'start': '344.333', 'end': '346.233', 'text': 'to'}, {'start': '346.400', 'end': '348.066', 'text': 'do it'}, {'start': '348.066', 'end': '349.933', 'text': '. If'}, {'start': '349.933', 'end': '350.833', 'text': 'I'}, {'start': '350.833', 'end': '352.900', 'text': 'don’t do it well ,'}, {'start': '352.900', 'end': '354.100', 'text': 'who cares?'}, {'start': '354.100', 'end': '355.466', 'text': 'When I was resting,'}, {'start': '355.466', 'end': '357.466', 'text': 'I looked for the kind of people who worked every day and'}, {'start': '357.466', 'end': '359.300', 'text': 'paid the bills every day, who'}, {'start': '359.300', 'end': '360.333', 'text': 'could exercise.'}, {'start': '360.433', 'end': '363.300', 'text': 'But every time he couldn’t'}, {'start': '363.300', 'end': '365.433', 'text': 'work for a whole day, he would give me up and leave'}, {'start': '365.633', 'end': '368.000', 'text': 'after a while. You see, I begged my friends and'}, {'start': '368.000', 'end': '369.666', 'text': 'I said, give me your job , and'}, {'start': '369.666', 'end': '370.800', 'text': 'I will definitely be able to do it for you.'}, {'start': '370.800', 'end': '371.600', 'text': 'Then I asked him,'}, {'start': '371.600', 'end': '372.633', 'text': 'I said, can you do it,'}, {'start': '372.633', 'end': '373.333', 'text': 'and he said, ok.'}, {'start': '373.333', 'end': '374.900', 'text': 'I can do it, and then yes,'}, {'start': '374.900', 'end': '376.033', 'text': 'when it comes to that ,'}, {'start': '376.033', 'end': '377.066', 'text': 'people don’t have the same face.'}, {'start': '377.066', 'end': '378.533', 'text': 'People say, oh,'}, {'start': '378.533', 'end': '379.800', 'text': 'I definitely can’t do this job'}, {'start': '379.800', 'end': '381.066', 'text': '. You can’t force me to do it.'}, {'start': '381.066', 'end': '381.500', 'text': 'That’s it.'}, {'start': '381.500', 'end': '382.266', 'text': 'I promised you,'}, {'start': '382.266', 'end': '383.333', 'text': 'then I will go.'}, {'start': '383.633', 'end': '384.533', 'text': 'Obviously I can’t do it, so'}, {'start': '384.533', 'end': '386.133', 'text': 'I can only bite the bullet and do'}, {'start': '386.133', 'end': '387.500', 'text': 'the part-time job I found with my friend.'}, {'start': '387.500', 'end': '389.033', 'text': 'When you leave'}, {'start': '389.033', 'end': '390.500', 'text': ', how can I explain to my friend,'}, {'start': '390.500', 'end': '391.233', 'text': 'I don’t feel'}, {'start': '391.233', 'end': '392.900', 'text': "anything . I don't"}, {'start': '392.900', 'end': '393.900', 'text': 'care about my feelings.'}, {'start': '394.466', 'end': '395.733', 'text': 'Many times the host, you know'}, {'start': '395.733', 'end': '399.233', 'text': ', he just likes to go out and smoke.'}, {'start': '399.300', 'end': '401.033', 'text': 'Sometimes, for example,'}, {'start': '401.033', 'end': '402.300', 'text': 'when we go to eat,'}, {'start': '402.433', 'end': '404.500', 'text': 'then I eat slowly'}, {'start': '404.500', 'end': '406.000', 'text': 'and he eats maybe a little faster.'}, {'start': '406.000', 'end': '408.300', 'text': "Sometimes it's me and he finishes eating."}, {'start': '408.300', 'end': '408.900', 'text': "I haven't finished yet."}, {'start': '408.900', 'end': '409.900', 'text': 'When I eat, he says, "Well,'}, {'start': '409.900', 'end': '411.100', 'text': 'let me go out and have a cigarette.'}, {'start': '411.100', 'end': '412.800', 'text': 'How long can a cigarette last'}, {'start': '412.866', 'end': '414.800', 'text': '?" It only takes 5 minutes or 10 minutes to smoke a cigarette.'}, {'start': '415.000', 'end': '417.066', 'text': 'Then you say you can just stand at the door and smoke.'}, {'start': '417.066', 'end': '418.833', 'text': 'But he always has to walk very far away'}, {'start': '418.833', 'end': '420.200', 'text': 'and throw me there for dinner.'}, {'start': '420.233', 'end': '422.400', 'text': 'It takes 30 minutes or 40 minutes to come back.'}, {'start': '422.433', 'end': '424.066', 'text': 'Sometimes when I have pharyngitis, it'}, {'start': '424.066', 'end': '425.233', 'text': 'is very uncomfortable.'}, {'start': '425.233', 'end': '427.700', 'text': 'I go out and smoke one cigarette. It may not be enough.'}, {'start': '427.700', 'end': '429.433', 'text': 'I will add two or three more.'}, {'start': '429.433', 'end': '432.266', 'text': 'The time between one and two cigarettes must be longer or shorter'}, {'start': '432.266', 'end': '434.866', 'text': "for him. He always doesn't accompany him because of this."}, {'start': '434.866', 'end': '436.500', 'text': "When you see other people's boyfriends,"}, {'start': '436.500', 'end': '439.866', 'text': 'I wish I could accompany you wherever I go out.'}, {'start': '439.866', 'end': '441.733', 'text': 'There is a short story in the Northeast that says, "A very good'}, {'start': '441.933', 'end': '444.100', 'text': 'girl should have some snacks."'}, {'start': '445.300', 'end': '447.666', 'text': 'I think your idea is'}, {'start': '447.666', 'end': '448.600', 'text': 'too childish.'}, {'start': '448.733', 'end': '450.333', 'text': "It's impossible"}, {'start': '450.333', 'end': '453.433', 'text': 'for two of you to be in a relationship. We have to be together all the time and'}, {'start': '453.433', 'end': '454.833', 'text': 'stick to each other 24 hours a day.'}, {'start': '455.500', 'end': '457.000', 'text': 'You have your things to do'}, {'start': '457.000', 'end': '459.133', 'text': 'and I have mine to do,'}, {'start': '459.466', 'end': '463.033', 'text': "right? It's like saying that you are in college now"}, {'start': '463.333', 'end': '465.400', 'text': 'and will graduate in the future.'}, {'start': '465.466', 'end': '469.066', 'text': 'Your parents suggest that you work in Shenyang.'}, {'start': '469.300', 'end': '470.633', 'text': 'My job'}, {'start': '470.633', 'end': '473.100', 'text': 'is in Fushun, where I live.'}, {'start': '473.400', 'end': '474.633', 'text': "So I can't say that"}, {'start': '474.733', 'end': '477.933', 'text': 'I am abandoning my hair salon with a customer base of three or four years.'}, {'start': '477.933', 'end': '480.200', 'text': 'My parents suggested that I work in Shenyang,'}, {'start': '480.233', 'end': '482.700', 'text': "but they don't mean that I have to work in Shenyang. You see,"}, {'start': '482.733', 'end': '484.733', 'text': 'there is a gap between Shenyang and Fushun.'}, {'start': '484.733', 'end': '485.633', 'text': "I'm sure you can decide because"}, {'start': '485.633', 'end': '487.100', 'text': "we're across the street."}, {'start': '487.666', 'end': '488.700', 'text': "Then why can't I be sure"}, {'start': '488.700', 'end': '490.866', 'text': '? My parents are not being unkind. Besides,'}, {'start': '491.400', 'end': '492.933', 'text': 'where I want to work in the future'}, {'start': '493.333', 'end': '496.066', 'text': 'is also my main idea.'}, {'start': '496.066', 'end': '497.666', 'text': "I think you think I'm naive,"}, {'start': '497.666', 'end': '500.466', 'text': 'but I think you are a bit naive too.'}, {'start': '500.466', 'end': '502.633', 'text': 'There are no classes in the university now,'}, {'start': '502.633', 'end': '503.666', 'text': 'so they go for internships.'}, {'start': '503.666', 'end': '505.000', 'text': 'Then I may stay in school,'}, {'start': '505.100', 'end': '507.333', 'text': "and then I'll find it on my own. If he doesn't let me take"}, {'start': '507.333', 'end': '508.400', 'text': 'some part-time jobs , I'}, {'start': '508.533', 'end': '509.533', 'text': "'ll work part-time,"}, {'start': '509.533', 'end': '510.900', 'text': 'or if I go out to get some experience,'}, {'start': '510.900', 'end': '511.933', 'text': "he won't let me"}, {'start': '511.933', 'end': '513.600', 'text': 'go part-time.'}, {'start': '513.600', 'end': '516.266', 'text': "It's fine, but you work too hard,"}, {'start': '516.533', 'end': '520.033', 'text': 'right? I usually only have one or two public holidays a month, right?'}, {'start': '520.100', 'end': '522.000', 'text': "It's like PI taking one or two public holidays."}, {'start': '522.433', 'end': '524.833', 'text': 'Every time I catch up with you at work,'}, {'start': '524.833', 'end': '526.500', 'text': "you don't have time to accompany me ."}, {'start': '526.700', 'end': '527.333', 'text': 'So instead of doing this,'}, {'start': '527.333', 'end': '529.066', 'text': "I might as well say that you won't be allowed to do that part-time job."}, {'start': '529.300', 'end': '531.833', 'text': 'Well, now I am about to graduate from college.'}, {'start': '531.833', 'end': '534.300', 'text': 'Then now I can go to the society to experience.'}, {'start': '534.300', 'end': '535.100', 'text': 'I can go.'}, {'start': '535.100', 'end': '536.533', 'text': 'You are a college student now.'}, {'start': '537.233', 'end': '538.000', 'text': 'As a college student'}, {'start': '538.000', 'end': '540.066', 'text': ', you should live the life of a student.'}, {'start': '540.066', 'end': '541.133', 'text': 'There is no need to work so hard.'}, {'start': '541.133', 'end': '542.300', 'text': 'In the future, after you graduate,'}, {'start': '542.300', 'end': '543.933', 'text': 'you will have plenty of time to work hard.'}, {'start': '543.933', 'end': '545.600', 'text': 'Then I, I will graduate soon.'}, {'start': '545.600', 'end': '546.533', 'text': 'Then I will graduate soon. After I graduate,'}, {'start': '546.533', 'end': '548.933', 'text': "I will find a job and work with me now. What's the difference?"}, {'start': '548.933', 'end': '551.133', 'text': 'Every time you spend money on me after you earn money,'}, {'start': '551.133', 'end': '552.400', 'text': 'you know what I think'}, {'start': '552.400', 'end': '553.200', 'text': ". I don't"}, {'start': '553.400', 'end': '554.866', 'text': 'know what others think of me.'}, {'start': '554.866', 'end': '556.866', 'text': "I don't think I can't support you . You"}, {'start': '557.066', 'end': '558.300', 'text': 'still have to rely on your part-time job'}, {'start': '558.300', 'end': '560.433', 'text': 'and the money to spend money on me.'}, {'start': '560.433', 'end': '561.600', 'text': 'You see you spending my money .'}, {'start': '561.600', 'end': '563.233', 'text': 'When you pay your salary at the end of the month,'}, {'start': '563.233', 'end': '564.866', 'text': "don't I still have to spend your money?"}, {'start': '565.200', 'end': '565.866', 'text': "Isn't this different?"}, {'start': '565.866', 'end': '566.933', 'text': "Well, I'm a man."}, {'start': '566.933', 'end': '568.400', 'text': "Then I'll just spend your"}, {'start': '568.400', 'end': '570.066', 'text': "money. I won't make any money."}, {'start': '570.233', 'end': '570.700', 'text': "Let's talk about"}, {'start': '570.700', 'end': '571.033', 'text': 'it later'}, {'start': '571.033', 'end': '573.000', 'text': '. When you work, how do you want to spend it'}, {'start': '573.000', 'end': '574.033', 'text': '? Where can you work?'}, {'start': '574.033', 'end': '574.700', 'text': "Let's talk about the future."}, {'start': '574.700', 'end': '578.700', 'text': 'Girl, I think he should go to my store in the future.'}, {'start': '578.733', 'end': '580.700', 'text': 'He studied accounting.'}, {'start': '580.700', 'end': '582.600', 'text': 'There is no need for him to go to your store. He'}, {'start': '582.833', 'end': '584.666', 'text': 'will definitely have to start from scratch when he goes out.'}, {'start': '584.666', 'end': '585.633', 'text': 'Yes, yes,'}, {'start': '585.633', 'end': '588.733', 'text': 'I plan. Then I must be his family in Fushun.'}, {'start': '588.733', 'end': '589.833', 'text': 'His parents are also In Fushun,'}, {'start': '589.833', 'end': '591.300', 'text': 'his parents were not in good health,'}, {'start': '591.300', 'end': '592.033', 'text': "and he didn't"}, {'start': '592.033', 'end': '593.466', 'text': 'say no, it was impossible to come with me to Shenyang.'}, {'start': '593.466', 'end': '594.800', 'text': 'But I think Fushun'}, {'start': '594.800', 'end': '596.633', 'text': "didn't mean"}, {'start': '596.633', 'end': '599.733', 'text': 'that there was no job. What do you think of going to Fushun'}, {'start': '600.433', 'end': '602.266', 'text': '? Why do you really want to work in his store as an accountant?'}, {'start': '602.433', 'end': '603.433', 'text': "That's definitely not possible."}, {'start': '603.433', 'end': '604.033', 'text': 'Then you said that I'}, {'start': '604.033', 'end': '605.433', 'text': 'have been a college student for 4 years'}, {'start': '605.433', 'end': '608.033', 'text': 'and I came to your store to be an accountant.'}, {'start': '608.033', 'end': '609.266', 'text': 'He just said it to me every time'}, {'start': '609.266', 'end': '611.000', 'text': ". Let's open a mom-and-pop shop together"}, {'start': '611.066', 'end': '613.466', 'text': "and then you won't have to work so hard. Then I'll be the one"}, {'start': '613.466', 'end': '614.233', 'text': 'doing the work'}, {'start': '614.233', 'end': '616.666', 'text': "and you'll be responsible for settling the accounts. Isn't that great? There's"}, {'start': '617.100', 'end': '617.666', 'text': 'nothing wrong with it.'}, {'start': '617.666', 'end': '619.666', 'text': "But I don't think you're good at opening a shop."}, {'start': '619.666', 'end': '620.933', 'text': 'Why do you have to'}, {'start': '621.933', 'end': '623.400', 'text': 'open it with me?'}, {'start': '623.666', 'end': '624.933', 'text': 'Let me ask you a question.'}, {'start': '625.666', 'end': '631.066', 'text': 'Well, I really plan to let you open a shop with me in the future.'}, {'start': '632.833', 'end': '634.100', 'text': 'Are you willing or unwilling'}, {'start': '636.266', 'end': '637.433', 'text': "to do this? If you don't want to ink anymore,"}, {'start': '639.266', 'end': '641.933', 'text': 'then you are sure that you have to open your store?'}, {'start': '642.800', 'end': '644.400', 'text': 'We have just analyzed these things'}, {'start': '645.500', 'end': '647.300', 'text': 'at home, right?'}, {'start': '647.633', 'end': '650.133', 'text': 'Why are you here today?'}, {'start': '650.133', 'end': '651.833', 'text': "I'm not here to argue with you."}, {'start': '651.933', 'end': '653.300', 'text': "I'm here to solve the problem. I'm here to solve the problem."}, {'start': '653.700', 'end': '656.266', 'text': "I'm not here to say it has to be something else."}, {'start': '656.266', 'end': '658.933', 'text': "But look, I'm asking you,"}, {'start': '658.933', 'end': '660.333', 'text': 'do you want to open a mom-and-pop shop'}, {'start': '661.400', 'end': '662.933', 'text': "? Isn't this an ultimatum"}, {'start': '663.400', 'end': '664.500', 'text': "? 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Well, my first boyfriend'}, {'start': '685.733', 'end': '688.333', 'text': 'was not very good to me since I met'}, {'start': '688.433', 'end': '690.400', 'text': 'him. Ever since I met him, right from the beginning,'}, {'start': '690.400', 'end': '691.133', 'text': 'including now,'}, {'start': '691.133', 'end': '692.066', 'text': "he hasn't changed much."}, {'start': '692.066', 'end': '694.266', 'text': 'He is, um, very, very good to me.'}, {'start': '694.266', 'end': '695.700', 'text': 'Sometimes, maybe,'}, {'start': '695.833', 'end': '697.000', 'text': 'um, when he pays his salary'}, {'start': '697.000', 'end': '700.466', 'text': ', 90% of it will be given to me,'}, {'start': '700.466', 'end': '701.433', 'text': 'and it will be handed over to me, which is'}, {'start': '703.066', 'end': '704.733', 'text': 'almost 99%.'}, {'start': '704.933', 'end': '706.833', 'text': 'Well, then the rest'}, {'start': '706.833', 'end': '708.700', 'text': 'is that he gives all the money to you,'}, {'start': '708.700', 'end': '712.200', 'text': "right, because I won't spend my money on me."}, {'start': '712.200', 'end': '713.333', 'text': 'I will definitely spend money for both of us'}, {'start': '713.333', 'end': '714.466', 'text': 'and I won’t buy'}, {'start': '714.466', 'end': '715.300', 'text': 'anything'}, {'start': '715.466', 'end': '716.233', 'text': 'myself , but'}, {'start': '716.233', 'end': '718.500', 'text': 'I feel that he feels particularly safe with him.'}, {'start': '718.666', 'end': '720.000', 'text': 'You majored in accounting.'}, {'start': '720.000', 'end': '720.800', 'text': 'Did you'}, {'start': '721.266', 'end': '723.466', 'text': 'fail the class?'}, {'start': '723.733', 'end': '725.433', 'text': 'It’s not easy.'}, {'start': '725.666', 'end': '727.466', 'text': 'Even your calculations are wrong. Do'}, {'start': '728.600', 'end': '730.866', 'text': 'you, you, you really like him?'}, {'start': '731.466', 'end': '733.100', 'text': 'Why do you really like a man'}, {'start': '733.100', 'end': '734.500', 'text': 'and you keep stabbing him in such a big public place'}, {'start': '734.500', 'end': '735.866', 'text': '?'}, {'start': '735.866', 'end': '738.133', 'text': 'I want him to have this ambition'}, {'start': '738.266', 'end': '739.533', 'text': ", isn't he also very motivated?"}, {'start': '739.533', 'end': '741.300', 'text': 'Just say, I open a barber shop?'}, {'start': '741.300', 'end': '742.400', 'text': 'This is his ambition.'}, {'start': '742.400', 'end': '744.400', 'text': 'Why then, he opened it several times,'}, {'start': '744.400', 'end': '745.800', 'text': "but he couldn't open"}, {'start': '746.900', 'end': '748.700', 'text': 'it. So,'}, {'start': '748.700', 'end': '749.433', 'text': "teachers, let's see"}, {'start': '749.433', 'end': '751.500', 'text': 'how we can help these young people.'}, {'start': '751.600', 'end': '753.466', 'text': "Let's enter Xinyang Beauty together. Rong APP"}, {'start': '753.466', 'end': '754.633', 'text': 'Cupid Questionnaire'}, {'start': '755.600', 'end': '756.400', 'text': 'Teacher Chen,'}, {'start': '758.300', 'end': '760.466', 'text': 'some people say'}, {'start': '760.500', 'end': '763.833', 'text': 'that insecurity is the most common gynecological disease.'}, {'start': '764.500', 'end': '767.233', 'text': 'In fact, I think girls, you are particularly insecure.'}, {'start': '767.800', 'end': '769.666', 'text': 'But you just said in front of everyone that'}, {'start': '769.666', 'end': '771.066', 'text': 'he gave you a sense of security,'}, {'start': '771.800', 'end': '773.400', 'text': 'but let me break it down.'}, {'start': '773.800', 'end': '775.233', 'text': 'First of all, I want to ask boys'}, {'start': '775.233', 'end': '776.933', 'text': ', you know What is a sense of security?'}, {'start': '778.200', 'end': '779.333', 'text': 'Give him a treasure.'}, {'start': '780.266', 'end': '781.933', 'text': 'A sense of security is a feeling'}, {'start': '781.933', 'end': '784.066', 'text': ', a feeling of stability and security'}, {'start': '784.066', 'end': '784.866', 'text': '.'}, {'start': '785.100', 'end': '788.000', 'text': 'But obviously, in the relationship between the two of you,'}, {'start': '788.100', 'end': '790.000', 'text': 'whether it is in terms of your career'}, {'start': '790.066', 'end': '793.000', 'text': 'or your relationship with society and people,'}, {'start': '793.000', 'end': '794.666', 'text': 'you have not given her a sense of security.'}, {'start': '794.700', 'end': '795.500', 'text': 'Well,'}, {'start': '796.266', 'end': '798.400', 'text': 'you are doing beauty work. During the hair salon,'}, {'start': '798.400', 'end': '800.600', 'text': 'you said that the relationship with the client is called ambiguous.'}, {'start': '801.133', 'end': '802.466', 'text': 'I think your language skills are very poor. Do'}, {'start': '802.466', 'end': '804.400', 'text': 'you know what ambiguous means?'}, {'start': '805.133', 'end': '807.033', 'text': 'Can you say some sweet words?'}, {'start': '808.300', 'end': '810.666', 'text': 'First of all, ambiguity is between friendship'}, {'start': '810.666', 'end': '812.066', 'text': ', but beyond friendship,'}, {'start': '812.100', 'end': '814.033', 'text': 'it is a special relationship between men and women.'}, {'start': '814.300', 'end': '817.133', 'text': 'Modern people are more likely to interpret ambiguity as'}, {'start': '817.233', 'end': '818.133', 'text': 'unacceptable. Publicizing'}, {'start': '818.133', 'end': '819.600', 'text': 'shady feelings,'}, {'start': '819.700', 'end': '820.666', 'text': 'so I think'}, {'start': '820.666', 'end': '824.033', 'text': 'you talk about fashion to customers to maintain relationships,'}, {'start': '824.133', 'end': '825.933', 'text': 'right? Even being too flattering'}, {'start': '825.933', 'end': '827.033', 'text': 'is understandable'}, {'start': '827.133', 'end': '829.000', 'text': ', but you have to say that you'}, {'start': '829.000', 'end': '831.000', 'text': 'have an ambiguous relationship with customers.'}, {'start': '831.000', 'end': '833.033', 'text': 'I think girls have also gone to college.'}, {'start': '833.133', 'end': '834.500', 'text': 'Isn’t it awkward to hear'}, {'start': '835.833', 'end': '836.200', 'text': 'this?'}, {'start': '836.200', 'end': '838.400', 'text': 'I think this is You didn’t give him a safe place.'}, {'start': '838.666', 'end': '840.133', 'text': 'The second one is riding a motorcycle.'}, {'start': '840.433', 'end': '841.433', 'text': 'I’m 40 this year.'}, {'start': '841.433', 'end': '842.500', 'text': 'I also ride a motorcycle.'}, {'start': '842.900', 'end': '844.900', 'text': 'My wife wants to learn to ride a motorcycle with me'}, {'start': '845.333', 'end': '848.233', 'text': ', but I’m going to a safe place. I'}, {'start': '848.633', 'end': '850.066', 'text': '’m dressed neatly.'}, {'start': '850.333', 'end': '853.100', 'text': 'Hello, you said you’re stressed and want to go out to vent.'}, {'start': '853.100', 'end': '853.866', 'text': 'Riding a motorcycle,'}, {'start': '853.866', 'end': '855.300', 'text': 'you’re riding a motorcycle.'}, {'start': '855.300', 'end': '856.833', 'text': 'His heart is hanging when he takes out the car.'}, {'start': '857.266', 'end': '859.900', 'text': 'Is this what a man does to give a woman a sense of security?'}, {'start': '859.900', 'end': '861.900', 'text': "Isn't it right? There is"}, {'start': '861.900', 'end': '863.700', 'text': 'also talk about girls working part'}, {'start': '864.300', 'end': '866.833', 'text': '-time. He walked out of college at the age of 22'}, {'start': '867.266', 'end': '868.100', 'text': 'and is ready to'}, {'start': '868.100', 'end': '868.933', 'text': 'face the society. He'}, {'start': '868.933', 'end': '869.700', 'text': 'works hard and works part-time.'}, {'start': '869.700', 'end': '871.400', 'text': 'This should be praised and encouraged, right'}, {'start': '872.000', 'end': '872.633', 'text': '?'}, {'start': '872.633', 'end': '874.900', 'text': 'How can you use such secular concepts of men and women to say that'}, {'start': '874.900', 'end': '876.800', 'text': 'you spend money? He has a lot of money, he has no face'}, {'start': '877.066', 'end': '878.500', 'text': ', he doesn’t promise'}, {'start': '878.600', 'end': '880.066', 'text': ', and he doesn’t work hard enough.'}, {'start': '880.066', 'end': '881.333', 'text': 'Who can feel safe?'}, {'start': '881.733', 'end': '883.433', 'text': 'Give him another year of probation.'}, {'start': '884.233', 'end': '886.833', 'text': 'After one year of reform,'}, {'start': '886.833', 'end': '889.200', 'text': 'we will have a sense of security. Let’s live with him'}, {'start': '889.433', 'end': '891.666', 'text': '. If you don’t understand, make an appointment'}, {'start': '892.333', 'end': '893.933', 'text': '. Okay, okay,'}, {'start': '893.933', 'end': '897.833', 'text': 'come to Saudi teacher.'}, {'start': '898.066', 'end': '899.133', 'text': 'Hello, you two.'}, {'start': '899.333', 'end': '899.900', 'text': 'I don’t know'}, {'start': '899.900', 'end': '904.633', 'text': 'if you are right about yourself. We have some low self-esteem'}, {'start': '905.500', 'end': '906.533', 'text': ', right?'}, {'start': '907.100', 'end': '910.533', 'text': 'Even if we are not satisfied'}, {'start': '910.533', 'end': '911.666', 'text': 'with one aspect of ourselves,'}, {'start': '912.000', 'end': '912.866', 'text': 'we must understand that'}, {'start': '912.866', 'end': '914.733', 'text': 'everyone is not perfect.'}, {'start': '914.733', 'end': '916.600', 'text': 'We all have some'}, {'start': '917.700', 'end': '919.100', 'text': 'areas that we are not satisfied with'}, {'start': '919.500', 'end': '921.433', 'text': ', but the areas that we are not satisfied with'}, {'start': '921.500', 'end': '923.033', 'text': 'need to'}, {'start': '923.300', 'end': '926.733', 'text': 'be slowly made to our own satisfaction'}, {'start': '927.200', 'end': '930.500', 'text': 'through our own efforts. We cannot just think that I am like this.'}, {'start': '930.733', 'end': '932.100', 'text': 'Then I will lower my requirements'}, {'start': '932.100', 'end': '933.300', 'text': 'and lower my standards.'}, {'start': '935.066', 'end': '936.433', 'text': 'If'}, {'start': '937.033', 'end': '939.100', 'text': 'you do this,'}, {'start': '939.466', 'end': '942.633', 'text': 'you will never find a man who is really good to you.'}, {'start': '943.133', 'end': '945.433', 'text': 'You can even accept ambiguity.'}, {'start': '945.833', 'end': '947.100', 'text': 'In this relationship,'}, {'start': '947.100', 'end': '948.733', 'text': "there is nothing you can't accept,"}, {'start': '949.000', 'end': '950.500', 'text': 'but he always does it. Ca'}, {'start': '950.600', 'end': '952.700', 'text': "n't you tell the difference"}, {'start': '953.000', 'end': '954.533', 'text': 'between what he told'}, {'start': '954.533', 'end': '956.000', 'text': 'and what he told ?'}, {'start': '957.033', 'end': '959.000', 'text': 'I believe you are a very smart'}, {'start': '959.100', 'end': '961.700', 'text': 'girl who knows how to support herself.'}, {'start': '962.133', 'end': '963.700', 'text': 'There is nothing wrong'}, {'start': '964.600', 'end': '966.100', 'text': 'with you. There is nothing'}, {'start': '966.100', 'end': '968.733', 'text': "unworthy of a man's love"}, {'start': '969.400', 'end': '972.666', 'text': '. The key is that you must love yourself first'}, {'start': '973.300', 'end': '975.800', 'text': "and be clear. Where is Chu's own bottom line?"}, {'start': '976.466', 'end': '978.100', 'text': 'If you blindly indulge and'}, {'start': '978.100', 'end': '979.400', 'text': 'tolerate'}, {'start': '979.833', 'end': '981.000', 'text': 'your ambiguity,'}, {'start': '981.000', 'end': '982.433', 'text': 'it will be fine as long as you admit'}, {'start': '982.533', 'end': '983.866', 'text': 'your mistake. Then you marry him and'}, {'start': '983.866', 'end': '985.233', 'text': 'you cheat on me once, twice, three times.'}, {'start': '985.233', 'end': '986.000', 'text': 'As long as you admit your mistake,'}, {'start': '986.000', 'end': '988.266', 'text': 'I can let you come back to this home.'}, {'start': '989.433', 'end': '990.933', 'text': 'Can this kind of marriage continue?'}, {'start': '991.700', 'end': '994.100', 'text': 'This kind of love is Is it a normal love?'}, {'start': '995.300', 'end': '997.666', 'text': 'So today I want to advise you more'}, {'start': '997.866', 'end': '1000.533', 'text': 'to build a newer, better and'}, {'start': '1000.533', 'end': '1001.800', 'text': 'more perfect self.'}, {'start': '1002.233', 'end': '1004.100', 'text': 'In this way, when you have confidence,'}, {'start': '1004.500', 'end': '1006.666', 'text': 'you will have more choices.'}, {'start': '1006.833', 'end': '1008.633', 'text': 'When you have the choice,'}, {'start': '1008.633', 'end': '1011.200', 'text': 'you can find a man who truly belongs to you,'}, {'start': '1011.200', 'end': '1012.666', 'text': 'loves you and loves you. Do you'}, {'start': '1013.466', 'end': '1014.266', 'text': 'understand?'}, {'start': '1014.933', 'end': '1016.600', 'text': 'Okay, I wish you happiness'}, {'start': '1016.666', 'end': '1019.100', 'text': '. Thank you, Teacher Shao. Brother Feng Hong,'}, {'start': '1020.466', 'end': '1021.266', 'text': 'boy,'}, {'start': '1022.033', 'end': '1023.666', 'text': 'it’s normal'}, {'start': '1023.900', 'end': '1026.133', 'text': 'for you to open a hairdressing shop'}, {'start': '1026.133', 'end': '1027.433', 'text': 'and add a WeChat account to your female customers.'}, {'start': '1027.933', 'end': '1029.066', 'text': 'But it’s obvious that'}, {'start': '1029.533', 'end': '1030.933', 'text': 'you unintentionally turned'}, {'start': '1030.933', 'end': '1032.400', 'text': 'this business relationship'}, {'start': '1032.400', 'end': '1034.500', 'text': 'into an ambiguous relationship.'}, {'start': '1035.000', 'end': '1037.100', 'text': 'Do you think that in this way,'}, {'start': '1037.100', 'end': '1040.633', 'text': 'you may attract this person? Some customers,'}, {'start': '1041.433', 'end': '1043.266', 'text': 'but have you ever considered'}, {'start': '1043.466', 'end': '1045.066', 'text': 'whether your method'}, {'start': '1045.666', 'end': '1049.400', 'text': 'is a bit too low-key'}, {'start': '1049.400', 'end': '1051.500', 'text': 'and you think it is a joke?'}, {'start': '1052.266', 'end': '1053.900', 'text': 'What would you do'}, {'start': '1054.200', 'end': '1055.000', 'text': 'if the other party takes it seriously?'}, {'start': '1055.466', 'end': '1059.833', 'text': 'So obviously'}, {'start': '1060.033', 'end': '1062.666', 'text': 'there is a problem with your bottom line awareness and your boundary awareness.'}, {'start': '1062.866', 'end': '1066.833', 'text': 'You still need to consider your three views.'}, {'start': '1067.233', 'end': '1069.433', 'text': 'Your girlfriend is about to graduate and'}, {'start': '1069.533', 'end': '1073.200', 'text': 'you seem a bit overbearing'}, {'start': '1073.200', 'end': '1075.300', 'text': 'when you ask her to work in the hairdressing industry'}, {'start': '1075.833', 'end': '1078.466', 'text': 'and open a mom-and-pop shop with you'}, {'start': '1078.466', 'end': '1081.633', 'text': '. The physical distance between Shenyang and Fushun is not far'}, {'start': '1082.066', 'end': '1084.733', 'text': 'and it is not difficult to find a compromise.'}, {'start': '1084.733', 'end': '1086.266', 'text': 'But what I see is'}, {'start': '1086.266', 'end': '1088.400', 'text': 'the psychological distance between the two of you.'}, {'start': '1088.400', 'end': '1090.700', 'text': 'You need to face up to the fact that he'}, {'start': '1090.900', 'end': '1093.733', 'text': 'is a bit alienated .'}, {'start': '1094.466', 'end': '1096.800', 'text': 'So from this point of view,'}, {'start': '1096.800', 'end': '1099.700', 'text': 'because this boy is older than you,'}, {'start': '1099.800', 'end': '1101.666', 'text': 'he entered the society earlier.'}, {'start': '1101.833', 'end': '1103.200', 'text': 'He has his experience.'}, {'start': '1103.400', 'end': '1104.833', 'text': 'Behind this experience,'}, {'start': '1104.833', 'end': '1108.233', 'text': 'there is a lot of selfishness revealed to me.'}, {'start': '1108.666', 'end': '1112.000', 'text': 'What you have to correct is your own self. I'}, {'start': '1112.000', 'end': '1113.100', 'text': 'don’t know. I understand.'}, {'start': '1114.333', 'end': '1115.633', 'text': 'Thank you, Brother Bao Hong'}, {'start': '1116.533', 'end': '1117.433', 'text': '. Teacher Tu,'}, {'start': '1118.333', 'end': '1119.800', 'text': 'you said you feel safe'}, {'start': '1119.800', 'end': '1121.000', 'text': 'when he gives you money.'}, {'start': '1121.666', 'end': '1123.433', 'text': 'I ask you, which is more important for a man'}, {'start': '1123.433', 'end': '1127.800', 'text': 'to give you money or to have a heart to heart with you?'}, {'start': '1130.433', 'end': '1131.700', 'text': 'I still have to think about it,'}, {'start': '1131.700', 'end': '1132.833', 'text': 'you stupid girl , but I think he'}, {'start': '1133.333', 'end': '1135.333', 'text': 'will not give it to anyone else after'}, {'start': '1135.333', 'end': '1136.866', 'text': 'he gave it to me. Yes, yes'}, {'start': '1136.866', 'end': '1138.000', 'text': ', yes,'}, {'start': '1138.000', 'end': '1139.233', 'text': 'but you have to think about it.'}, {'start': '1139.233', 'end': '1140.333', 'text': 'He handed the money to you'}, {'start': '1140.333', 'end': '1142.200', 'text': 'but in turn used your money.'}, {'start': '1142.266', 'end': '1143.433', 'text': 'Is that paying money?'}, {'start': '1143.433', 'end': '1145.533', 'text': "It's called offering advice,"}, {'start': '1146.100', 'end': '1148.900', 'text': 'but he just gave me more.'}, {'start': '1149.700', 'end': '1152.500', 'text': "Well, it seems that it's not that he has a problem with his three views, but"}, {'start': '1152.500', 'end': '1154.866', 'text': 'that he also has a problem'}, {'start': '1155.400', 'end': '1159.233', 'text': 'with\nhis three views, right? I took out all'}, {'start': '1159.233', 'end': '1162.233', 'text': 'the money for a man and gave it to you.'}, {'start': '1162.333', 'end': '1163.866', 'text': 'You think you will feel safe'}, {'start': '1164.066', 'end': '1165.133', 'text': 'if you give me money to spend. Whether you spend it or not,'}, {'start': '1165.133', 'end': '1166.666', 'text': 'the financial power is with me.'}, {'start': '1166.900', 'end': '1168.633', 'text': 'I think I feel safe,'}, {'start': '1168.633', 'end': '1169.900', 'text': 'right? That’s not'}, {'start': '1169.900', 'end': '1171.000', 'text': 'because of me'}, {'start': '1171.000', 'end': '1172.466', 'text': '. I also went out to work part-time.'}, {'start': '1172.466', 'end': '1174.266', 'text': 'It’s very hard to work.'}, {'start': '1174.266', 'end': '1175.866', 'text': 'He was willing to give me the money,'}, {'start': '1175.866', 'end': '1177.533', 'text': 'so I thought'}, {'start': '1177.533', 'end': '1179.133', 'text': 'it was good. Well'}, {'start': '1179.300', 'end': '1180.666', 'text': ', what I want to tell you is that'}, {'start': '1180.800', 'end': '1182.666', 'text': 'if a man puts money in your'}, {'start': '1182.666', 'end': '1184.000', 'text': 'heart but not in you, then it'}, {'start': '1184.466', 'end': '1185.633', 'text': 'will be more problematic.'}, {'start': '1186.300', 'end': '1187.000', 'text': 'This shows'}, {'start': '1187.000', 'end': '1188.300', 'text': 'how inferior you are.'}, {'start': '1188.666', 'end': '1190.833', 'text': 'Women who live a down-to-earth life are beautiful.'}, {'start': '1190.833', 'end': '1191.800', 'text': 'Let’s talk about it.'}, {'start': '1192.800', 'end': '1194.000', 'text': 'Let me ask you a little more about'}, {'start': '1194.700', 'end': '1195.633', 'text': 'ambiguity'}, {'start': '1196.600', 'end': '1201.933', 'text': ', selfishness in the name of freedom, and not seeking improvement.'}, {'start': '1202.100', 'end': '1203.900', 'text': 'Which one is the most intolerable to you?'}, {'start': '1206.933', 'end': '1208.433', 'text': 'You don’t have'}, {'start': '1208.466', 'end': '1209.666', 'text': 'to think about it. I ca'}, {'start': '1209.666', 'end': '1211.733', 'text': 'n’t stand it. Which one is the most intolerable?'}, {'start': '1211.900', 'end': '1214.200', 'text': 'Well, actually, I think what I can’t'}, {'start': '1214.200', 'end': '1215.533', 'text': 'stand the most is'}, {'start': '1215.733', 'end': '1217.800', 'text': 'a man who is not motivated. No matter how unmotivated'}, {'start': '1219.100', 'end': '1220.466', 'text': 'he is , he can change.'}, {'start': '1221.033', 'end': '1222.400', 'text': 'No matter how unmotivated'}, {'start': '1222.900', 'end': '1224.433', 'text': 'he is, he can leave you.'}, {'start': '1224.433', 'end': '1225.800', 'text': 'He will not break your heart.'}, {'start': '1226.100', 'end': '1228.433', 'text': 'Of course, what hurts your heart the most is ambiguity.'}, {'start': '1229.233', 'end': '1231.533', 'text': 'All three teachers explained ambiguity.'}, {'start': '1231.533', 'end': '1233.233', 'text': 'Let me tell you more intuitively.'}, {'start': '1233.233', 'end': '1234.133', 'text': 'What is ambiguity'}, {'start': '1234.133', 'end': '1235.800', 'text': '? Ignorance'}, {'start': '1237.600', 'end': '1240.300', 'text': 'means being immoral. Can you accept an immoral man?'}, {'start': '1240.600', 'end': '1242.533', 'text': 'He is flirting'}, {'start': '1242.533', 'end': '1245.300', 'text': 'with other women in a very low-level way'}, {'start': '1245.300', 'end': '1246.400', 'text': 'under your nose'}, {'start': '1246.400', 'end': '1247.833', 'text': 'to get some business'}, {'start': '1247.833', 'end': '1249.100', 'text': ', earn a few coins'}, {'start': '1249.100', 'end': '1250.600', 'text': ', and hand them over to you.'}, {'start': '1250.600', 'end': '1252.000', 'text': 'What do you think you are?'}, {'start': '1252.133', 'end': '1253.700', 'text': 'Are you'}, {'start': '1254.833', 'end': '1256.100', 'text': 'just a bank?'}, {'start': '1256.100', 'end': '1257.866', 'text': 'Are you stupid?'}, {'start': '1259.033', 'end': '1260.400', 'text': 'Are you stupid, girl'}, {'start': '1261.900', 'end': '1263.666', 'text': '? I can only tell you one more time.'}, {'start': '1263.666', 'end': '1266.233', 'text': 'First, don’t feel inferior because of your body.'}, {'start': '1266.233', 'end': '1269.133', 'text': 'It’s very important for a woman to be virtuous and virtuous.'}, {'start': '1269.133', 'end': '1270.833', 'text': 'Self-confidence and self-reliance are very important'}, {'start': '1271.033', 'end': '1272.733', 'text': '. It’s important not to rely on men'}, {'start': '1273.000', 'end': '1274.500', 'text': '. Second, if'}, {'start': '1274.500', 'end': '1276.200', 'text': 'you see a man in him, you can neither see hope'}, {'start': '1276.200', 'end': '1277.900', 'text': 'nor his integrity,'}, {'start': '1277.900', 'end': '1279.466', 'text': 'let alone his sincerity for you.'}, {'start': '1279.466', 'end': '1281.100', 'text': 'What do you want him to do'}, {'start': '1281.833', 'end': '1283.933', 'text': '? 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Ah, we have to learn so many things in college.'}, {'start': '1298.266', 'end': '1300.700', 'text': 'It would be best if'}, {'start': '1302.266', 'end': '1303.333', 'text': 'we could learn a little bit.'}, {'start': '1303.666', 'end': '1304.900', 'text': 'I always feel that if'}, {'start': '1304.900', 'end': '1306.200', 'text': 'we learn to recognize'}, {'start': '1306.733', 'end': '1308.933', 'text': 'or recognize this society'}, {'start': '1309.066', 'end': '1310.833', 'text': 'when we are in college,'}, {'start': '1311.266', 'end': '1313.433', 'text': 'our university will really be able to graduate.'}, {'start': '1316.400', 'end': '1318.900', 'text': 'Think about what kind of life we \u200b\u200bwant to live'}, {'start': '1319.333', 'end': '1320.233', 'text': 'like this.'}, {'start': '1321.233', 'end': '1322.233', 'text': 'If you don’t'}, {'start': '1322.333', 'end': '1323.233', 'text': 'think about it yourself,'}, {'start': '1323.433', 'end': '1324.800', 'text': 'the choice will be in your hands.'}, {'start': '1325.133', 'end': '1325.933', 'text': 'Next, we will enter together. During'}, {'start': '1325.933', 'end': '1328.233', 'text': 'those few days when I drank 60 Seconds of True Love with Ancient Brown Sugar,'}, {'start': '1332.200', 'end': '1333.800', 'text': 'I felt that we have been together'}, {'start': '1333.800', 'end': '1335.066', 'text': 'for three years,'}, {'start': '1335.066', 'end': '1337.533', 'text': 'but our relationship is very deep'}, {'start': '1337.533', 'end': '1338.833', 'text': 'and you are very good to me.'}, {'start': '1339.266', 'end': '1341.900', 'text': 'But sometimes, there are things'}, {'start': '1341.900', 'end': '1344.900', 'text': 'that I really want you to change'}, {'start': '1344.900', 'end': '1349.000', 'text': ', and I didn’t say that I had to tell you to change,'}, {'start': '1349.000', 'end': '1351.333', 'text': 'but you must at least have the heart to change.'}, {'start': '1352.133', 'end': '1355.300', 'text': 'I don’t know if you really'}, {'start': '1355.300', 'end': '1357.200', 'text': 'promised me every time'}, {'start': '1357.200', 'end': '1359.066', 'text': 'and then did it again. But can you say that you'}, {'start': '1359.066', 'end': '1362.233', 'text': 'should completely change'}, {'start': '1365.000', 'end': '1366.533', 'text': 'the past three years? I have thought about it,'}, {'start': '1367.266', 'end': '1369.800', 'text': 'whether it is long or not, and I'}, {'start': '1369.800', 'end': '1371.000', 'text': 'have experienced so much'}, {'start': '1372.600', 'end': '1376.400', 'text': 'in these days. Today, I have finally figured it out.'}, {'start': '1376.733', 'end': '1378.866', 'text': 'There are indeed many, many misunderstandings between us'}, {'start': '1379.700', 'end': '1380.866', 'text': '. Some things can be changed,'}, {'start': '1381.933', 'end': '1383.233', 'text': 'and some things cannot be changed.'}, {'start': '1385.933', 'end': '1387.300', 'text': 'After all, you are still in school now,'}, {'start': '1388.300', 'end': '1389.800', 'text': 'and we will wait until you graduate.'}, {'start': '1393.333', 'end': '1394.066', 'text': 'The time will come.'}, {'start': '1394.066', 'end': '1394.666', 'text': 'Thank you both'}, {'start': '1394.666', 'end': '1395.900', 'text': ', please come back .'}, {'start': '1405.000', 'end': '1406.066', 'text': 'Please turn off'}, {'start': '1406.266', 'end': '1407.466', 'text': 'the TV. 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