"4 Things That Kill Your Value in Front of a Woman || By JORDAN PETERSON"
Life Bondreas
[{'start': '0.080', 'end': '6.160', 'text': "Let's begin by recognizing a fundamental"}, {'start': '2.960', 'end': '8.960', 'text': 'truth. Your value is not determined by a'}, {'start': '6.160', 'end': '11.840', 'text': 'woman or by any other human being for'}, {'start': '8.960', 'end': '15.080', 'text': 'that matter, but rather by your capacity'}, {'start': '11.840', 'end': '17.320', 'text': 'to confront the chaos of life'}, {'start': '15.080', 'end': '19.680', 'text': 'responsibly. If you fail in that'}, {'start': '17.320', 'end': '22.320', 'text': 'confrontation, you will not merely lose'}, {'start': '19.680', 'end': '24.640', 'text': 'a relationship, you will lose yourself.'}, {'start': '22.320', 'end': '27.039', 'text': 'And women being attuned to the nuances'}, {'start': '24.640', 'end': '29.679', 'text': 'of competence and integrity will notice'}, {'start': '27.039', 'end': '31.599', 'text': 'before even you do. When a man wakes up'}, {'start': '29.679', 'end': '34.320', 'text': 'without a destination, he wakes up'}, {'start': '31.599', 'end': '36.399', 'text': 'already defeated. Because life itself'}, {'start': '34.320', 'end': '39.040', 'text': 'demands movement towards something'}, {'start': '36.399', 'end': '42.079', 'text': 'greater than the self. A man who drifts'}, {'start': '39.040', 'end': '44.800', 'text': 'without a defined aim is not harmless.'}, {'start': '42.079', 'end': '46.800', 'text': 'He is dangerous to himself and to'}, {'start': '44.800', 'end': '49.840', 'text': 'everyone who depends on him without'}, {'start': '46.800', 'end': '52.079', 'text': 'purpose, his soul starves. and a'}, {'start': '49.840', 'end': '54.239', 'text': 'starving soul will feed on bitterness,'}, {'start': '52.079', 'end': '56.079', 'text': 'resentment, and despair. When you walk'}, {'start': '54.239', 'end': '58.640', 'text': 'through life without knowing where you'}, {'start': '56.079', 'end': '60.800', 'text': 'are going, you invite chaos into your'}, {'start': '58.640', 'end': '63.600', 'text': 'home, your relationships, and your own'}, {'start': '60.800', 'end': '66.000', 'text': 'mind. Every day spent without a mission'}, {'start': '63.600', 'end': '68.640', 'text': 'is a day spent sharpening the knives of'}, {'start': '66.000', 'end': '71.040', 'text': 'your own self-destruction. A man without'}, {'start': '68.640', 'end': '73.680', 'text': 'direction becomes a leaf tossed by the'}, {'start': '71.040', 'end': '76.080', 'text': 'violent winds of circumstance, too weak'}, {'start': '73.680', 'end': '78.560', 'text': 'to anchor himself in any meaningful'}, {'start': '76.080', 'end': '81.360', 'text': 'soil. Purpose is not a luxury. It is a'}, {'start': '78.560', 'end': '83.360', 'text': 'moral obligation because your existence'}, {'start': '81.360', 'end': '86.240', 'text': 'weighs on the world whether you choose'}, {'start': '83.360', 'end': '88.560', 'text': 'it or not. When you do not deliberately'}, {'start': '86.240', 'end': '90.960', 'text': 'climb upward, you automatically decay'}, {'start': '88.560', 'end': '93.840', 'text': 'downward. There is no neutral space in'}, {'start': '90.960', 'end': '95.840', 'text': 'the war of being. A woman intuitively'}, {'start': '93.840', 'end': '98.960', 'text': 'senses whether you are headed toward'}, {'start': '95.840', 'end': '101.040', 'text': 'order or spiraling into disorder, and'}, {'start': '98.960', 'end': '103.439', 'text': 'her instincts will recoil from the man'}, {'start': '101.040', 'end': '105.759', 'text': 'who has no road map. When you lack a'}, {'start': '103.439', 'end': '108.000', 'text': 'destination, you also lack the fire'}, {'start': '105.759', 'end': '110.479', 'text': 'necessary to endure hardship. And'}, {'start': '108.000', 'end': '112.720', 'text': 'without that fire, you will crumble at'}, {'start': '110.479', 'end': '115.119', 'text': 'the first real test life throws your'}, {'start': '112.720', 'end': '117.119', 'text': 'way. If you cannot name what you are'}, {'start': '115.119', 'end': '119.360', 'text': 'building, you are already halfway to'}, {'start': '117.119', 'end': '121.600', 'text': 'becoming nothing. A man without a vision'}, {'start': '119.360', 'end': '123.680', 'text': 'cannot lead. And if he cannot lead, he'}, {'start': '121.600', 'end': '125.840', 'text': 'cannot be trusted. And if he cannot be'}, {'start': '123.680', 'end': '128.080', 'text': 'trusted, he cannot be loved in any'}, {'start': '125.840', 'end': '130.720', 'text': 'meaningful way. In the absence of a'}, {'start': '128.080', 'end': '132.879', 'text': 'goal, every minor discomfort will seem'}, {'start': '130.720', 'end': '135.840', 'text': 'unbearable. and you will begin to resent'}, {'start': '132.879', 'end': '138.239', 'text': 'the very existence of effort itself. A'}, {'start': '135.840', 'end': '140.879', 'text': 'man who does not pursue an ideal quickly'}, {'start': '138.239', 'end': '142.959', 'text': 'becomes a slave to his impulses, chasing'}, {'start': '140.879', 'end': '145.599', 'text': 'cheap pleasures that offer momentary'}, {'start': '142.959', 'end': '147.360', 'text': 'escape but deep and long-term suffering.'}, {'start': '145.599', 'end': '149.760', 'text': 'Purpose gives pain a meaning. Without'}, {'start': '147.360', 'end': '151.599', 'text': 'it, pain becomes pure agony. To stand'}, {'start': '149.760', 'end': '153.760', 'text': 'still in a world that is constantly'}, {'start': '151.599', 'end': '156.920', 'text': 'demanding more of you is to quietly'}, {'start': '153.760', 'end': '159.920', 'text': 'submit to becoming obsolete. Women'}, {'start': '156.920', 'end': '162.640', 'text': 'are biologically, psychologically, and'}, {'start': '159.920', 'end': '164.879', 'text': 'spiritually wired to seek men who can'}, {'start': '162.640', 'end': '167.280', 'text': 'confront chaos and carve out islands of'}, {'start': '164.879', 'end': '169.680', 'text': 'stability. And if you cannot do that,'}, {'start': '167.280', 'end': '172.720', 'text': 'she will not choose you. And rightly so.'}, {'start': '169.680', 'end': '175.120', 'text': 'Your aim defines your character. Because'}, {'start': '172.720', 'end': '178.080', 'text': 'every action you take is either a step'}, {'start': '175.120', 'end': '180.879', 'text': 'toward your aim or a betrayal of it. If'}, {'start': '178.080', 'end': '183.440', 'text': 'you avoid responsibility, you become a'}, {'start': '180.879', 'end': '185.760', 'text': 'burden instead of a blessing. And no one'}, {'start': '183.440', 'end': '188.480', 'text': 'voluntarily ties themselves to a burden.'}, {'start': '185.760', 'end': '191.360', 'text': 'When you are purposeless, you stop being'}, {'start': '188.480', 'end': '193.840', 'text': 'a creator and become a consumer. And'}, {'start': '191.360', 'end': '196.000', 'text': 'nothing is more repulsive than a man who'}, {'start': '193.840', 'end': '199.040', 'text': 'only takes from the world without ever'}, {'start': '196.000', 'end': '201.760', 'text': 'giving anything back. Purpose is what'}, {'start': '199.040', 'end': '205.440', 'text': 'separates a man who builds a legacy from'}, {'start': '201.760', 'end': '208.319', 'text': 'a man who fades into oblivion. Without a'}, {'start': '205.440', 'end': '211.120', 'text': 'mission, you will be ruled by anxiety'}, {'start': '208.319', 'end': '213.360', 'text': 'because your mind knows you are wasting'}, {'start': '211.120', 'end': '215.920', 'text': "the one life you've been given. Every"}, {'start': '213.360', 'end': '217.920', 'text': 'moment you spend drifting aimlessly as a'}, {'start': '215.920', 'end': '220.319', 'text': 'moment you rob from the person you could'}, {'start': '217.920', 'end': '222.400', 'text': 'have become. No amount of charm, good'}, {'start': '220.319', 'end': '225.280', 'text': 'looks, or temporary bravado can'}, {'start': '222.400', 'end': '228.080', 'text': 'compensate for the deep void left by the'}, {'start': '225.280', 'end': '231.280', 'text': 'absence of true direction. Purpose is'}, {'start': '228.080', 'end': '233.200', 'text': 'not found. It is built day by day'}, {'start': '231.280', 'end': '235.519', 'text': 'through commitment to something larger'}, {'start': '233.200', 'end': '238.000', 'text': 'than your immediate comfort. Man of aim'}, {'start': '235.519', 'end': '239.920', 'text': 'is a man of gravity. People orbit around'}, {'start': '238.000', 'end': '242.159', 'text': 'him because they sense he knows'}, {'start': '239.920', 'end': '245.360', 'text': 'something they have forgotten. That life'}, {'start': '242.159', 'end': '248.159', 'text': 'demands an answer and he is working to'}, {'start': '245.360', 'end': '251.120', 'text': 'deliver it. A man without a mission is'}, {'start': '248.159', 'end': '253.360', 'text': 'perpetually lost. And the tragedy is'}, {'start': '251.120', 'end': '256.079', 'text': "that most men who are lost don't even"}, {'start': '253.360', 'end': '258.880', 'text': 'know it until it is too late. Purpose is'}, {'start': '256.079', 'end': '260.799', 'text': 'the antidote to nihilism. And nihilism'}, {'start': '258.880', 'end': '263.040', 'text': 'is the disease of the soul that'}, {'start': '260.799', 'end': '266.320', 'text': "convinces you your life doesn't matter"}, {'start': '263.040', 'end': '268.400', 'text': 'when it absolutely does. If you wake up'}, {'start': '266.320', 'end': '271.520', 'text': 'every morning without a fight to engage'}, {'start': '268.400', 'end': '273.680', 'text': 'in, your spirit atrophies like an unused'}, {'start': '271.520', 'end': '276.240', 'text': 'muscle and weakness becomes your'}, {'start': '273.680', 'end': '279.040', 'text': 'defining feature. A man must fight'}, {'start': '276.240', 'end': '281.440', 'text': 'against entropy. Not because the battle'}, {'start': '279.040', 'end': '284.000', 'text': 'can be finally won, but because fighting'}, {'start': '281.440', 'end': '286.080', 'text': 'is the very thing that makes life noble.'}, {'start': '284.000', 'end': '288.240', 'text': 'Direction gives you the ability to'}, {'start': '286.080', 'end': '290.240', 'text': 'withstand ridicule. failure and'}, {'start': '288.240', 'end': '292.960', 'text': 'suffering without collapsing into a'}, {'start': '290.240', 'end': '295.120', 'text': 'puddle of excuses and self-pity. If you'}, {'start': '292.960', 'end': '297.600', 'text': 'do not declare who you are and where you'}, {'start': '295.120', 'end': '300.000', 'text': 'are going, life will impose an identity'}, {'start': '297.600', 'end': '302.639', 'text': 'upon you that is far smaller and more'}, {'start': '300.000', 'end': '304.720', 'text': 'pitiful than what you are capable of. A'}, {'start': '302.639', 'end': '307.360', 'text': 'woman watching you will feel either'}, {'start': '304.720', 'end': '309.680', 'text': 'drawn to your path or disgusted by your'}, {'start': '307.360', 'end': '313.280', 'text': 'wandering. And that is not a choice you'}, {'start': '309.680', 'end': '315.360', 'text': 'can mask with the smooth talk or hollow'}, {'start': '313.280', 'end': '317.600', 'text': 'promises. Vision makes suffering'}, {'start': '315.360', 'end': '319.840', 'text': 'bearable because it transforms suffering'}, {'start': '317.600', 'end': '322.080', 'text': 'into investment. Without vision,'}, {'start': '319.840', 'end': '324.320', 'text': 'suffering becomes senseless, endless,'}, {'start': '322.080', 'end': '326.880', 'text': 'and paralyzing. You must aim at'}, {'start': '324.320', 'end': '329.360', 'text': 'something so profound that it justifies'}, {'start': '326.880', 'end': '331.240', 'text': 'the inevitable chaos of existence, or'}, {'start': '329.360', 'end': '333.600', 'text': 'you will be crushed by the weight of'}, {'start': '331.240', 'end': '335.759', 'text': 'meaninglessness. A man without a reason'}, {'start': '333.600', 'end': '338.000', 'text': 'to get stronger will inevitably get'}, {'start': '335.759', 'end': '339.520', 'text': 'weaker. And in that weakness, he will'}, {'start': '338.000', 'end': '342.720', 'text': 'make enemies of those who have'}, {'start': '339.520', 'end': '345.199', 'text': 'disciplined themselves to rise. No one,'}, {'start': '342.720', 'end': '348.000', 'text': 'and I mean no one, wants to anchor their'}, {'start': '345.199', 'end': '350.960', 'text': 'life to a man whose future is a blank'}, {'start': '348.000', 'end': '353.280', 'text': 'page scribbled with excuses. Purpose'}, {'start': '350.960', 'end': '355.280', 'text': 'turns cowardice into courage, apathy'}, {'start': '353.280', 'end': '357.680', 'text': 'into passion, and weakness into'}, {'start': '355.280', 'end': '360.320', 'text': 'resilience. Without a goal, you are'}, {'start': '357.680', 'end': '362.320', 'text': 'merely surviving, and surviving is not'}, {'start': '360.320', 'end': '364.600', 'text': 'the same as living.'}, {'start': '362.320', 'end': '367.280', 'text': 'You must become dangerous to your'}, {'start': '364.600', 'end': '368.880', 'text': 'weaknesses by becoming devoted to a'}, {'start': '367.280', 'end': '371.520', 'text': 'mission that demands your full'}, {'start': '368.880', 'end': '373.680', 'text': 'attention, full energy, full sacrifice.'}, {'start': '371.520', 'end': '375.919', 'text': 'If you do not know where you are going,'}, {'start': '373.680', 'end': '378.479', 'text': 'every road will lead you deeper into'}, {'start': '375.919', 'end': '381.199', 'text': 'regret. Clarity of purpose is the father'}, {'start': '378.479', 'end': '383.400', 'text': 'of masculinity because it demands order.'}, {'start': '381.199', 'end': '386.479', 'text': 'It demands strength and it demands'}, {'start': '383.400', 'end': '389.520', 'text': 'sacrifice. The world does not reward men'}, {'start': '386.479', 'end': '392.319', 'text': 'who merely exist. It rewards men who'}, {'start': '389.520', 'end': '395.440', 'text': 'build, who strive, who lead. Drift is'}, {'start': '392.319', 'end': '398.479', 'text': 'death wearing the mask of comfort. You'}, {'start': '395.440', 'end': '402.000', 'text': 'do not rise by accident. You rise'}, {'start': '398.479', 'end': '405.520', 'text': 'because you have decided against all'}, {'start': '402.000', 'end': '409.160', 'text': 'odds and all temptations to rise. You'}, {'start': '405.520', 'end': '412.319', 'text': 'cannot fake direction because real'}, {'start': '409.160', 'end': '415.919', 'text': 'direction changes your posture, your'}, {'start': '412.319', 'end': '417.919', 'text': 'tone, your presence. The man who knows'}, {'start': '415.919', 'end': '419.680', 'text': 'where he is going speaks with a'}, {'start': '417.919', 'end': '422.319', 'text': 'different authority than the man who is'}, {'start': '419.680', 'end': '425.520', 'text': "guessing. Purpose is the soul's immune"}, {'start': '422.319', 'end': '427.680', 'text': 'system against despair. Direction is not'}, {'start': '425.520', 'end': '430.080', 'text': 'optional. If you wish to be respected,'}, {'start': '427.680', 'end': '432.479', 'text': 'loved, or remembered, you must stake'}, {'start': '430.080', 'end': '434.639', 'text': 'your claim in the world with relentless'}, {'start': '432.479', 'end': '437.039', 'text': 'discipline, or you will become one of'}, {'start': '434.639', 'end': '440.160', 'text': 'the countless forgotten men who waited'}, {'start': '437.039', 'end': '442.319', 'text': 'for permission that never came. No woman'}, {'start': '440.160', 'end': '444.960', 'text': 'wants to walk beside a man who must be'}, {'start': '442.319', 'end': '447.199', 'text': 'carried every step of the way. Purpose'}, {'start': '444.960', 'end': '449.280', 'text': 'must pierce through your fear, through'}, {'start': '447.199', 'end': '451.680', 'text': 'your laziness, through your doubts, or'}, {'start': '449.280', 'end': '453.919', 'text': 'you will be conquered by all three.'}, {'start': '451.680', 'end': '457.199', 'text': 'Direction is what teaches a man to'}, {'start': '453.919', 'end': '460.000', 'text': 'wrestle order from chaos, to impose form'}, {'start': '457.199', 'end': '462.319', 'text': 'upon the formless, and to carve a future'}, {'start': '460.000', 'end': '464.080', 'text': 'from the wilderness of uncertainty. If'}, {'start': '462.319', 'end': '467.120', 'text': 'you will not lead yourself, you are'}, {'start': '464.080', 'end': '470.000', 'text': 'unfit to lead anyone else. No vision, no'}, {'start': '467.120', 'end': '472.639', 'text': 'virtue, no victory. AIM gives your'}, {'start': '470.000', 'end': '475.599', 'text': 'suffering dignity because it makes every'}, {'start': '472.639', 'end': '477.919', 'text': 'bruise and scar a badge of your fight to'}, {'start': '475.599', 'end': '479.919', 'text': 'become more than what you were. Without'}, {'start': '477.919', 'end': '482.479', 'text': 'a mission, you are a slave to your moods'}, {'start': '479.919', 'end': '485.520', 'text': 'and moods are treacherous kings. A man'}, {'start': '482.479', 'end': '488.319', 'text': 'without purpose can acquire money, fame,'}, {'start': '485.520', 'end': '490.720', 'text': 'even temporary power, but he will never'}, {'start': '488.319', 'end': '492.560', 'text': 'acquire respect because respect is'}, {'start': '490.720', 'end': '495.759', 'text': 'reserved for those who are willing to'}, {'start': '492.560', 'end': '498.160', 'text': 'pay the price meaningful existence. When'}, {'start': '495.759', 'end': '500.639', 'text': 'a man hides his insecurities beneath a'}, {'start': '498.160', 'end': '502.960', 'text': 'mask of arrogance, he builds a throne on'}, {'start': '500.639', 'end': '505.120', 'text': 'sand and pretends it is a fortress.'}, {'start': '502.960', 'end': '507.759', 'text': 'Arrogance is not strength. It is the'}, {'start': '505.120', 'end': '510.479', 'text': 'desperate scream of a man terrified of'}, {'start': '507.759', 'end': '512.399', 'text': 'being seen as small. The more loudly a'}, {'start': '510.479', 'end': '514.599', 'text': 'man boasts, the more clearly he'}, {'start': '512.399', 'end': '517.760', 'text': 'confesses his own private fear of'}, {'start': '514.599', 'end': '520.320', 'text': 'irrelevance. Insecurity is a wound, but'}, {'start': '517.760', 'end': '522.560', 'text': 'arrogance is the infection that fers'}, {'start': '520.320', 'end': '524.959', 'text': 'when the wound is left untreated. Every'}, {'start': '522.560', 'end': '527.760', 'text': 'exaggerated story, every hollow flex,'}, {'start': '524.959', 'end': '530.240', 'text': 'every fake display of dominance is a'}, {'start': '527.760', 'end': '533.680', 'text': 'billboard advertising your own inner'}, {'start': '530.240', 'end': '536.880', 'text': 'weakness. A man who is truly powerful'}, {'start': '533.680', 'end': '538.880', 'text': 'does not need to broadcast his victories'}, {'start': '536.880', 'end': '541.120', 'text': 'because the evidence of his strength is'}, {'start': '538.880', 'end': '543.760', 'text': 'carved into his character. When you'}, {'start': '541.120', 'end': '546.800', 'text': 'manufacture an image instead of building'}, {'start': '543.760', 'end': '549.680', 'text': 'a soul, you invite collapse at the first'}, {'start': '546.800', 'end': '551.920', 'text': 'test of real adversity. Arrogance is a'}, {'start': '549.680', 'end': '554.160', 'text': 'costume stitched from fear. And the more'}, {'start': '551.920', 'end': '556.959', 'text': 'elaborate the costume, the more fragile'}, {'start': '554.160', 'end': '559.360', 'text': 'the man inside. Women have evolved to'}, {'start': '556.959', 'end': '561.839', 'text': 'detect counterfeit confidence. And no'}, {'start': '559.360', 'end': '563.839', 'text': 'amount of noise can drown out the quiet'}, {'start': '561.839', 'end': '565.680', 'text': 'signal of insecurity bleeding through'}, {'start': '563.839', 'end': '568.160', 'text': 'your performer. A man who is deeply'}, {'start': '565.680', 'end': '570.959', 'text': 'grounded speaks softly because his'}, {'start': '568.160', 'end': '574.800', 'text': 'competence speaks louder than his voice'}, {'start': '570.959', 'end': '577.519', 'text': 'ever could. False pride repels the wise'}, {'start': '574.800', 'end': '580.880', 'text': 'and attracts only the foolish, leaving'}, {'start': '577.519', 'end': '583.440', 'text': 'the arrogant man surrounded by parasites'}, {'start': '580.880', 'end': '585.839', 'text': 'who celebrate his facade and despise his'}, {'start': '583.440', 'end': '587.680', 'text': 'reality. If you must tell the world how'}, {'start': '585.839', 'end': '590.000', 'text': 'great you are, you are already'}, {'start': '587.680', 'end': '592.959', 'text': 'announcing that you doubt it yourself.'}, {'start': '590.000', 'end': '596.080', 'text': 'Real confidence is built in solitude, in'}, {'start': '592.959', 'end': '598.160', 'text': 'the daily battles no one sees, in the'}, {'start': '596.080', 'end': '600.480', 'text': 'silent war against your own worst'}, {'start': '598.160', 'end': '602.800', 'text': 'instincts. When you attempt to hide your'}, {'start': '600.480', 'end': '605.600', 'text': 'fear of inadequacy with exaggerated'}, {'start': '602.800', 'end': '608.640', 'text': 'bravado, you trade the possibility of'}, {'start': '605.600', 'end': '611.040', 'text': 'genuine growth for the cheap currency of'}, {'start': '608.640', 'end': '613.120', 'text': 'momentary validation. A woman does not'}, {'start': '611.040', 'end': '615.600', 'text': 'admire the man who needs applause to'}, {'start': '613.120', 'end': '617.800', 'text': 'feel alive. She admires the man who'}, {'start': '615.600', 'end': '620.720', 'text': 'remains composed when no one is'}, {'start': '617.800', 'end': '622.839', 'text': 'clapping. Arrogance is an opiate for the'}, {'start': '620.720', 'end': '625.200', 'text': 'soul, numbing the pain of your own'}, {'start': '622.839', 'end': '628.000', 'text': 'insufficiency without ever healing the'}, {'start': '625.200', 'end': '630.560', 'text': 'source. Every time you inflate your ego'}, {'start': '628.000', 'end': '632.560', 'text': 'to avoid confronting your flaws, you'}, {'start': '630.560', 'end': '635.040', 'text': 'harden the walls around your potential'}, {'start': '632.560', 'end': '638.079', 'text': 'and sentence yourself to stagnation.'}, {'start': '635.040', 'end': '641.440', 'text': 'True power is invisible until it must be'}, {'start': '638.079', 'end': '643.200', 'text': 'seen. It reveals itself through action,'}, {'start': '641.440', 'end': '645.440', 'text': 'not announcement. A man who must'}, {'start': '643.200', 'end': '647.920', 'text': 'constantly assert his superiority is'}, {'start': '645.440', 'end': '649.839', 'text': 'deeply afraid that if he stops shouting,'}, {'start': '647.920', 'end': '652.399', 'text': 'he will hear the deafening echo of his'}, {'start': '649.839', 'end': '654.600', 'text': 'own emptiness. There is no armor thicker'}, {'start': '652.399', 'end': '657.120', 'text': 'than humility forged through'}, {'start': '654.600', 'end': '659.160', 'text': 'self-conquest. There is no armor thinner'}, {'start': '657.120', 'end': '661.680', 'text': 'than pride inflated through'}, {'start': '659.160', 'end': '663.440', 'text': 'selfdeception. You cannot compensate for'}, {'start': '661.680', 'end': '665.920', 'text': 'internal weakness with external'}, {'start': '663.440', 'end': '668.720', 'text': 'displays. You can only mask it until'}, {'start': '665.920', 'end': '670.720', 'text': 'life rips the mask from your face. Women'}, {'start': '668.720', 'end': '672.880', 'text': 'do not fall in love with a man who'}, {'start': '670.720', 'end': '675.519', 'text': 'demands respect. They fall for the man'}, {'start': '672.880', 'end': '677.760', 'text': 'who commands it without needing to ask.'}, {'start': '675.519', 'end': '680.399', 'text': 'Arrogance is a prison built from'}, {'start': '677.760', 'end': '683.360', 'text': 'insecurity. And every boast you make'}, {'start': '680.399', 'end': '685.440', 'text': 'becomes another bar sealing you inside.'}, {'start': '683.360', 'end': '687.600', 'text': 'When you overstate your greatness, you'}, {'start': '685.440', 'end': '689.760', 'text': 'invite the world to test you. And if'}, {'start': '687.600', 'end': '692.880', 'text': 'your foundation is hollow, the fall will'}, {'start': '689.760', 'end': '695.440', 'text': 'be merciless. Confidence whispers.'}, {'start': '692.880', 'end': '698.160', 'text': 'Insecurity shouts. The man who cannot'}, {'start': '695.440', 'end': '700.240', 'text': 'stop boasting is like a man lost at sea,'}, {'start': '698.160', 'end': '702.399', 'text': 'screaming into the storm, hoping to'}, {'start': '700.240', 'end': '704.959', 'text': "convince himself he knows where he's"}, {'start': '702.399', 'end': '707.360', 'text': 'going. Arrogance cannot survive real'}, {'start': '704.959', 'end': '709.760', 'text': 'suffering. Cuz suffering strips away'}, {'start': '707.360', 'end': '712.399', 'text': 'illusions and reveals the architecture'}, {'start': '709.760', 'end': '714.640', 'text': 'of your soul. If your identity is built'}, {'start': '712.399', 'end': '716.640', 'text': 'on what others believe about you, you'}, {'start': '714.640', 'end': '719.200', 'text': 'are one failure away from complete'}, {'start': '716.640', 'end': '722.800', 'text': 'collapse. The need to impress is the'}, {'start': '719.200', 'end': '725.120', 'text': 'shest sign that you do not believe you'}, {'start': '722.800', 'end': '727.440', 'text': 'are impressive. Insecurity is not a'}, {'start': '725.120', 'end': '730.160', 'text': 'crime, but refusing to confront it is a'}, {'start': '727.440', 'end': '732.079', 'text': 'slow form of suicide. Every false story'}, {'start': '730.160', 'end': '734.160', 'text': 'you tell to inflate yourself is a'}, {'start': '732.079', 'end': '735.839', 'text': 'betrayal of the man you could become if'}, {'start': '734.160', 'end': '738.480', 'text': 'you had the courage to face your'}, {'start': '735.839', 'end': '740.399', 'text': 'deficits. No man can be respected for'}, {'start': '738.480', 'end': '742.320', 'text': 'long if he clings to a persona that'}, {'start': '740.399', 'end': '744.959', 'text': 'crumbles under scrutiny. When you'}, {'start': '742.320', 'end': '746.959', 'text': 'project superiority without substance,'}, {'start': '744.959', 'end': '749.120', 'text': 'you broadcast desperation, not'}, {'start': '746.959', 'end': '751.519', 'text': 'dominance. True strength is revealed not'}, {'start': '749.120', 'end': '753.839', 'text': 'by how much you boast but by how much'}, {'start': '751.519', 'end': '756.160', 'text': 'you can endure in silence. If you are'}, {'start': '753.839', 'end': '758.320', 'text': 'terrified of being seen as weak, you'}, {'start': '756.160', 'end': '760.800', 'text': 'have already surrendered your strength.'}, {'start': '758.320', 'end': '762.959', 'text': 'The man who cannot admit what he fears'}, {'start': '760.800', 'end': '765.839', 'text': 'will eventually become a slave to those'}, {'start': '762.959', 'end': '767.240', 'text': 'fears. A woman does not seek a man who'}, {'start': '765.839', 'end': '769.600', 'text': 'pretends to be'}, {'start': '767.240', 'end': '771.600', 'text': 'invulnerable. She seeks a man strong'}, {'start': '769.600', 'end': '774.079', 'text': 'enough to be real. If your entire'}, {'start': '771.600', 'end': '776.320', 'text': 'self-worth hinges on admiration, you'}, {'start': '774.079', 'end': '778.720', 'text': 'will betray your soul a thousand times'}, {'start': '776.320', 'end': '781.200', 'text': 'just to maintain the illusion. Arrogance'}, {'start': '778.720', 'end': '783.839', 'text': 'creates distance, not magnetism. It'}, {'start': '781.200', 'end': '786.560', 'text': 'repels trust and invites suspicion. A'}, {'start': '783.839', 'end': '788.720', 'text': 'man grounded in real self-respect moves'}, {'start': '786.560', 'end': '791.440', 'text': 'through the world with a quiet authority'}, {'start': '788.720', 'end': '794.000', 'text': 'that arrogance can never counterfeit.'}, {'start': '791.440', 'end': '796.160', 'text': 'Bragging about power only reveals that'}, {'start': '794.000', 'end': '798.160', 'text': 'you feel powerless. Faking confidence'}, {'start': '796.160', 'end': '801.360', 'text': 'does not make you confident. It makes'}, {'start': '798.160', 'end': '803.519', 'text': 'you more fragile because every challenge'}, {'start': '801.360', 'end': '805.680', 'text': 'threatens the lie you are living. The'}, {'start': '803.519', 'end': '807.920', 'text': 'man who faces his weaknesses without'}, {'start': '805.680', 'end': '809.680', 'text': 'shame is infinitely stronger than the'}, {'start': '807.920', 'end': '812.399', 'text': 'man who tries to bury them under'}, {'start': '809.680', 'end': '814.480', 'text': 'bluster. If you are truly great, the'}, {'start': '812.399', 'end': '816.639', 'text': 'world will notice without you needing to'}, {'start': '814.480', 'end': '818.880', 'text': 'demand its attention. Pretending to be'}, {'start': '816.639', 'end': '821.200', 'text': 'more than you are today robs you of the'}, {'start': '818.880', 'end': '823.440', 'text': 'chance to become more tomorrow.'}, {'start': '821.200', 'end': '825.279', 'text': 'Arrogance traps you in a fantasy where'}, {'start': '823.440', 'end': '827.600', 'text': 'you are already finished, already'}, {'start': '825.279', 'end': '830.240', 'text': 'perfected, and therefore have no reason'}, {'start': '827.600', 'end': '832.399', 'text': 'to strive to improve, to struggle. Real'}, {'start': '830.240', 'end': '834.480', 'text': 'kings do not announce their crowns. They'}, {'start': '832.399', 'end': '837.279', 'text': 'are recognized by the way they carry'}, {'start': '834.480', 'end': '839.959', 'text': 'their burdens. Women are attracted to'}, {'start': '837.279', 'end': '843.519', 'text': 'resilience, not to bravado, to'}, {'start': '839.959', 'end': '846.320', 'text': 'competence, not to noise, to presence,'}, {'start': '843.519', 'end': '848.800', 'text': 'not to posing. Every lie you tell about'}, {'start': '846.320', 'end': '851.040', 'text': 'your strength increases your internal'}, {'start': '848.800', 'end': '853.360', 'text': 'fragility. And fragility under pressure'}, {'start': '851.040', 'end': '855.440', 'text': 'always turns into catastrophe. The world'}, {'start': '853.360', 'end': '857.600', 'text': 'does not care about the stories you tell'}, {'start': '855.440', 'end': '860.320', 'text': 'about yourself. It responds to the'}, {'start': '857.600', 'end': '862.480', 'text': 'reality you embody. The insecure man'}, {'start': '860.320', 'end': '864.560', 'text': 'wearing arrogance like a shield will'}, {'start': '862.480', 'end': '866.399', 'text': 'collapse under the first real blow that'}, {'start': '864.560', 'end': '869.120', 'text': 'life delivers. When you rely on'}, {'start': '866.399', 'end': '871.279', 'text': 'arrogance to mask your pain, you ensure'}, {'start': '869.120', 'end': '873.760', 'text': 'that your pain will define you from the'}, {'start': '871.279', 'end': '876.079', 'text': 'inside out. You do not become more by'}, {'start': '873.760', 'end': '878.399', 'text': 'pretending to be more. You become more'}, {'start': '876.079', 'end': '881.040', 'text': 'by becoming honest about where you are'}, {'start': '878.399', 'end': '883.199', 'text': 'weak. If you build your identity on'}, {'start': '881.040', 'end': '885.120', 'text': 'illusion, every challenge to that'}, {'start': '883.199', 'end': '888.320', 'text': 'illusion becomes a threat to your'}, {'start': '885.120', 'end': '890.320', 'text': 'existence. Arrogance is a brittle armor'}, {'start': '888.320', 'end': '893.199', 'text': 'that shatters the moment you need it'}, {'start': '890.320', 'end': '895.199', 'text': 'most. The deepest confidence comes from'}, {'start': '893.199', 'end': '898.240', 'text': 'competence earned through the suffering'}, {'start': '895.199', 'end': '900.800', 'text': 'you refuse to run from. Women sense the'}, {'start': '898.240', 'end': '903.040', 'text': "tremble in a man's soul even when his"}, {'start': '900.800', 'end': '905.519', 'text': 'voice sounds steady and they trust their'}, {'start': '903.040', 'end': '907.839', 'text': 'instincts more than your words. If you'}, {'start': '905.519', 'end': '909.920', 'text': 'lie to yourself about who you are, no'}, {'start': '907.839', 'end': '912.399', 'text': 'one else can ever truly trust who you'}, {'start': '909.920', 'end': '914.639', 'text': 'appear to be. To chase validation'}, {'start': '912.399', 'end': '917.279', 'text': 'through arrogance is to drink salt'}, {'start': '914.639', 'end': '920.000', 'text': 'water. The more you drink, the thirstier'}, {'start': '917.279', 'end': '922.240', 'text': 'you become. You do not command respect'}, {'start': '920.000', 'end': '925.120', 'text': 'through volume. You command it through'}, {'start': '922.240', 'end': '928.160', 'text': 'undeniable substance. The man who'}, {'start': '925.120', 'end': '930.680', 'text': 'silently overcomes is infinitely more'}, {'start': '928.160', 'end': '933.519', 'text': 'magnetic than the man who loudly'}, {'start': '930.680', 'end': '936.560', 'text': 'pretends. Strength is humble because it'}, {'start': '933.519', 'end': '939.360', 'text': 'knows its limits and still moves forward'}, {'start': '936.560', 'end': '941.440', 'text': 'without flinching. If you need the world'}, {'start': '939.360', 'end': '943.199', 'text': 'to tell you that you are strong, you are'}, {'start': '941.440', 'end': '945.440', 'text': 'already admitting that you do not'}, {'start': '943.199', 'end': '947.839', 'text': 'believe it yourself. Arrogance is loud'}, {'start': '945.440', 'end': '950.079', 'text': 'insecurity disguised as self asssurance.'}, {'start': '947.839', 'end': '952.560', 'text': 'And its scent is unmistakable to those'}, {'start': '950.079', 'end': '954.639', 'text': 'who have met real power. To cling to'}, {'start': '952.560', 'end': '957.120', 'text': 'arrogance is to choose decay over'}, {'start': '954.639', 'end': '959.519', 'text': 'growth, illusion over substance,'}, {'start': '957.120', 'end': '961.839', 'text': 'cowardice over courage. You are not'}, {'start': '959.519', 'end': '964.320', 'text': 'fooling anyone by pretending to be whole'}, {'start': '961.839', 'end': '966.079', 'text': 'when you are bleeding inside. You are'}, {'start': '964.320', 'end': '968.560', 'text': 'only delaying the day when the'}, {'start': '966.079', 'end': '971.199', 'text': 'hemorrhage destroys you. True greatness'}, {'start': '968.560', 'end': '974.120', 'text': 'invites no applause because its pursuit'}, {'start': '971.199', 'end': '976.639', 'text': 'is so consuming that applause becomes'}, {'start': '974.120', 'end': '979.920', 'text': 'irrelevant. The man who confronts his'}, {'start': '976.639', 'end': '983.839', 'text': 'insecurity without shame becomes the man'}, {'start': '979.920', 'end': '986.160', 'text': 'who outlasts, outgrows, and outshines'}, {'start': '983.839', 'end': '988.160', 'text': 'every false giant around him. The man'}, {'start': '986.160', 'end': '990.079', 'text': 'who pretends greatness without earning'}, {'start': '988.160', 'end': '992.320', 'text': 'it is building a tower without'}, {'start': '990.079', 'end': '994.399', 'text': 'foundation, destined to collapse and'}, {'start': '992.320', 'end': '997.120', 'text': 'bury him in his own rubble. You are not'}, {'start': '994.399', 'end': '999.519', 'text': 'here to drift, to posture, or to'}, {'start': '997.120', 'end': '1002.480', 'text': 'collapse. You are here to build, to'}, {'start': '999.519', 'end': '1004.320', 'text': 'confront, to rise every small act of'}, {'start': '1002.480', 'end': '1006.399', 'text': 'negligence toward your purpose. Every'}, {'start': '1004.320', 'end': '1008.639', 'text': 'moment of arrogance masking your fear,'}, {'start': '1006.399', 'end': '1011.199', 'text': 'every emotional outburst left unchecked,'}, {'start': '1008.639', 'end': '1013.360', 'text': 'every betrayal of your own integrity,'}, {'start': '1011.199', 'end': '1015.519', 'text': 'each one is a cut against the man you'}, {'start': '1013.360', 'end': '1017.839', 'text': 'were born to become. Women and life'}, {'start': '1015.519', 'end': '1019.519', 'text': 'itself will not be fooled by the cheap'}, {'start': '1017.839', 'end': '1021.519', 'text': 'tricks you use to disguise your'}, {'start': '1019.519', 'end': '1024.079', 'text': 'weaknesses. You will either forge'}, {'start': '1021.519', 'end': '1026.640', 'text': 'yourself into someone worthy of trust,'}, {'start': '1024.079', 'end': '1029.280', 'text': 'admiration, and love, or you will wither'}, {'start': '1026.640', 'end': '1031.600', 'text': 'into someone the world learns to ignore.'}, {'start': '1029.280', 'end': '1034.240', 'text': 'There is no neutral ground. Every day'}, {'start': '1031.600', 'end': '1036.799', 'text': 'you are either moving toward strength or'}, {'start': '1034.240', 'end': '1039.199', 'text': 'toward decay. Every decision you make is'}, {'start': '1036.799', 'end': '1041.360', 'text': 'a vote cast for the man you will be'}, {'start': '1039.199', 'end': '1043.039', 'text': 'tomorrow. If you refuse to aim at'}, {'start': '1041.360', 'end': '1045.520', 'text': 'something higher, if you choose the'}, {'start': '1043.039', 'end': '1047.919', 'text': 'hollow pride of arrogance over the slow'}, {'start': '1045.520', 'end': '1049.919', 'text': 'discipline of mastery, if you allow your'}, {'start': '1047.919', 'end': '1052.240', 'text': 'emotions to govern you rather than'}, {'start': '1049.919', 'end': '1054.320', 'text': 'serving as your adviserss, if you let'}, {'start': '1052.240', 'end': '1056.880', 'text': 'your principles rot under the pressure'}, {'start': '1054.320', 'end': '1059.520', 'text': 'of convenience, then you are not simply'}, {'start': '1056.880', 'end': '1062.480', 'text': 'failing to attract respect from others.'}, {'start': '1059.520', 'end': '1064.799', 'text': 'You are forfeiting respect for yourself.'}, {'start': '1062.480', 'end': '1066.880', 'text': 'Stand up straight. Fix your aim on'}, {'start': '1064.799', 'end': '1069.440', 'text': 'something worthy. Carry your burden with'}, {'start': '1066.880', 'end': '1072.720', 'text': 'dignity. And tell the truth even when it'}, {'start': '1069.440', 'end': '1075.200', 'text': 'costs you. Then and only then will you'}, {'start': '1072.720', 'end': '1077.760', 'text': 'find that the respect you sought was'}, {'start': '1075.200', 'end': '1080.720', 'text': 'never something you had to chase. It was'}, {'start': '1077.760', 'end': '1080.720', 'text': 'something you had to become.'}]