Judges Ruling Warms Hearts after Woman takes husband to court for s£x
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[{'start': '0.000', 'end': '4.080', 'text': 'because the man is demanding so much knacking\xa0\nThe man want to knack and the woman is saying'}, {'start': '4.080', 'end': '8.880', 'text': 'no So because the man want to knack all the\xa0\ntime The woman decided to take the husband'}, {'start': '8.880', 'end': '13.840', 'text': 'to the court I want you to pay attention\xa0\nand listen on how this judge settle this'}, {'start': '13.840', 'end': '18.480', 'text': 'matter I am here judge Penny u because I\xa0\nwould like to come to an agreement with'}, {'start': '18.480', 'end': '26.000', 'text': 'my husband Michael about our um sexual\xa0\nintimacy in our marriage Um I feel that'}, {'start': '26.000', 'end': '31.040', 'text': "uh it's causing a lot of distress at the moment\xa0\nin our marriage because he I feel that my husband"}, {'start': '31.040', 'end': '37.520', 'text': 'would like to have sex pretty much all the time\xa0\nevery day twice a day three times a day And I'}, {'start': '37.520', 'end': '44.640', 'text': "um just being a busy working mom um I'm just\xa0\nfeeling that I would like to probably do it maybe"}, {'start': '44.640', 'end': '51.920', 'text': "once or twice a week but we argue constantly\xa0\nabout it and it's causing a lot of problems"}, {'start': '53.520', 'end': '58.320', 'text': "And how you doing Michael i I'm doing\xa0\nI'm doing great judge I I feel like"}, {'start': '58.320', 'end': '66.240', 'text': "um I'd like to come to a intimacy agreement cuz\xa0\nit's not just about sex Okay So let me get this"}, {'start': '66.240', 'end': '72.640', 'text': "straight You've come to court and you're hoping\xa0\nthat I can help you to come to some resolution"}, {'start': '72.640', 'end': '79.840', 'text': 'over your disagreements regarding the how many\xa0\ntimes you have sex and the intimacy right of that'}, {'start': '79.840', 'end': '86.880', 'text': "So you do understand that every man in America is\xa0\nwaiting on this decision like it's a Supreme Court"}, {'start': '86.880', 'end': '96.000', 'text': 'decision All jokes aside though it is probably one\xa0\nof the most critical issues faced in a marriage'}, {'start': '96.000', 'end': '101.200', 'text': "Now I know that you're saying he wants sex a\xa0\nlittle more Mhm All right let me hear from you"}, {'start': '101.200', 'end': '106.240', 'text': "Michael You know judge I got to be honest the good\xa0\nshe's just pay the the good times were were really"}, {'start': '106.240', 'end': '111.600', 'text': "good when we I was dating a girl okay and she\xa0\ntold me about this Australian girl she's awesome"}, {'start': '111.600', 'end': '116.720', 'text': "and she was telling me how cool she was and I was\xa0\nthinking that's great I mean she's from Australia"}, {'start': '116.720', 'end': '122.960', 'text': "that's you know I'm from Portland well Africa\xa0\noriginally that you know that's 400 years ago"}, {'start': '122.960', 'end': '129.040', 'text': "now what do you do Michael hey I'm I'm a dad I'm\xa0\na father I'm a I'm a salesman I Okay we can tell"}, {'start': '129.040', 'end': '136.080', 'text': "you in some kind of selling well okay I'm I'm I'm\xa0\ntrying to I'm selling for all the good men judge"}, {'start': '136.080', 'end': '140.320', 'text': 'All the good brothers that are out there All right\xa0\nAnd you got a good brother right oh you know I do'}, {'start': '140.320', 'end': '149.200', 'text': "baby Don't worry about that So tell me now though\xa0\nShe's saying you want it every day You know we we"}, {'start': '149.200', 'end': '156.560', 'text': "Yeah Come clean now You know I'm going be judged\xa0\nLook at my wife She is not beautiful She is flat"}, {'start': '156.560', 'end': '160.880', 'text': "out beautiful She's flat out beautiful Okay And\xa0\nbut you know it's not just about sex for me It's"}, {'start': '160.880', 'end': '165.920', 'text': "about being intimate I really do think that that\xa0\nis an issue particularly when you're married It's"}, {'start': '165.920', 'end': '171.760', 'text': "my understanding you all waited before time\xa0\nYeah we didn't kiss Okay Did you even kiss"}, {'start': '171.760', 'end': '178.480', 'text': 'on the wedding day though um when you kissed her\xa0\nyou knew there was a problem You know what judge'}, {'start': '178.480', 'end': '184.480', 'text': "i did Okay And so here I come out and you know I\xa0\ngot my suit on I'm ready I've been pure I've been"}, {'start': '184.480', 'end': '190.160', 'text': "I've set an example for the men out there in the\xa0\nareas of of being being right Okay So I walk up"}, {'start': '190.160', 'end': '195.760', 'text': 'the altar and I\'m ready to get married to my wife\xa0\nHe gets up there and then he says "Will you marry'}, {'start': '195.760', 'end': '202.240', 'text': 'him?" She says "Yes you marry her." "Yes you may\xa0\nkiss the bride." I go for a kiss Turned her head'}, {'start': '202.240', 'end': '209.840', 'text': 'I got the side of her lip Why um I just I just\xa0\ngot really intimidated cuz there was so much'}, {'start': '209.840', 'end': '217.440', 'text': "expectation on that kiss and we had never kissed\xa0\nSo I'm a very You had never kissed either nothing"}, {'start': '218.880', 'end': '225.600', 'text': "I could see now I'm married to a preacher so\xa0\nI'm trying to be careful about this I could"}, {'start': '225.600', 'end': '232.560', 'text': 'see if you choose not to have sex before\xa0\nI could understand it But not kissing you'}, {'start': '232.560', 'end': '238.560', 'text': "That's interesting You know what I'm saying\xa0\nBecause that's a closeness that I don't really"}, {'start': '238.560', 'end': '242.400', 'text': 'think that would have been inappropriate\xa0\nno matter how you see it Do you know what'}, {'start': '242.400', 'end': '247.200', 'text': "I mean sure And so I'm concerned that you had\xa0\na problem because even on your wedding day the"}, {'start': '247.200', 'end': '252.640', 'text': "most precious day there shouldn't have been any\xa0\nkind of embarrassment any kind of way How'd you"}, {'start': '252.640', 'end': '258.480', 'text': "grow up was sex a taboo in your family yeah\xa0\nOkay That's a big thing Yeah You know what I"}, {'start': '258.480', 'end': '263.440', 'text': "mean we can't act like it's not Yeah Tell me\xa0\nabout the relationship because you know what"}, {'start': '263.440', 'end': '271.040', 'text': 'was interesting you said in my notes that you\xa0\nthought the sex was good up until 5 months Mhm'}, {'start': '271.040', 'end': '275.920', 'text': 'And you said that the sex was good up until your\xa0\nchild was born What did you call good sex when'}, {'start': '275.920', 'end': '282.640', 'text': 'you say the five months it was good what made it\xa0\ngood you know what what made it good was um you'}, {'start': '282.640', 'end': '290.240', 'text': "know it was it was encouraging It was uh mutual\xa0\nSo what's good intimate well good is is good"}, {'start': '290.240', 'end': '300.880', 'text': 'Okay But I understand that he does the flowers he\xa0\ndoes the cards Poems You write poems Yeah I wrote'}, {'start': '300.880', 'end': '306.560', 'text': 'her poems Judge I got her flowers this morning You\xa0\ndid yeah That was wonderful You know why why not'}, {'start': '306.560', 'end': '312.960', 'text': "because I'm coming to court I'm trying to impress\xa0\nbut uh to to just as a sign that to let her know I"}, {'start': '312.960', 'end': '318.480', 'text': 'I really love her unconditionally Let me tell you\xa0\nsomething One thing I know is that I feel that you'}, {'start': '318.480', 'end': '324.400', 'text': "all love each other But what I'm thinking is that\xa0\nit's more than just the sex There's something else"}, {'start': '324.400', 'end': '332.720', 'text': "going on Both of you are bodybuilders We've we\xa0\nhave competed Mhm You have And do you all think"}, {'start': '332.720', 'end': '339.920', 'text': 'you have a competition between the two of you\xa0\nmhm Could that be a part of it yep Yep Now you'}, {'start': '339.920', 'end': '344.640', 'text': "go You Yeah Yeah I'm getting to it now You're\xa0\ngetting it Now one thing about it might take me"}, {'start': '344.640', 'end': '348.640', 'text': "a while to get there but I'm going to get to the\xa0\nissue Do you think he thinks you're like a trophy"}, {'start': '348.640', 'end': '354.880', 'text': "wife i've crossed my mind You know may maybe\xa0\nthere's some truth in that Yeah Uh but when it"}, {'start': '354.880', 'end': '362.240', 'text': "comes to pressure um my heart isn't for her to be\xa0\na trophy My heart is for her to believe in herself"}, {'start': '362.240', 'end': '366.880', 'text': "And so the reason I want her on my arm and the\xa0\nreason why I do on her and I encourage her isn't"}, {'start': '366.880', 'end': '372.960', 'text': "because it's about the show It's really about her\xa0\nfeeling good about herself I feel like there is"}, {'start': '372.960', 'end': '379.600', 'text': "a expectation of me that's somewhat superficial\xa0\nin and it's not hitting something that I need I"}, {'start': '379.600', 'end': '384.480', 'text': "don't know what it like the flowers and all of\xa0\nthat is awesome but there's something missing"}, {'start': '384.480', 'end': '391.760', 'text': "There's something that I need Um I need your help\xa0\nwith that I don't know Okay I don't know I feel I"}, {'start': '391.760', 'end': '396.720', 'text': "think it's got to do with the trophy I think\xa0\nit's got to do with Michael putting me up in"}, {'start': '396.720', 'end': '404.640', 'text': "this sort of that I'm I'm this glamour queen You\xa0\nwant him to love you for who I am yes Like are"}, {'start': '404.640', 'end': '409.440', 'text': "you going to love me if I'mund a million pounds\xa0\noverweight let me tell you something from the"}, {'start': '409.440', 'end': '415.920', 'text': "bottom of my heart what you're saying all of us\xa0\nevery woman can relate to this on some level do"}, {'start': '415.920', 'end': '420.400', 'text': 'you know what I mean particularly when you come\xa0\nfrom a background where you have some baggage'}, {'start': '420.400', 'end': '428.080', 'text': "right there's a lot to overcome anyway but just\xa0\nfeeling what and looking at you in your eyes I"}, {'start': '428.080', 'end': '433.680', 'text': "don't really feel that you're as happy as one\xa0\nwould think could I be right I'm just feeling"}, {'start': '433.680', 'end': '439.040', 'text': "this great disconnect I've only been with you a\xa0\nfew minutes and I can feel Can you feel it from"}, {'start': '439.040', 'end': '447.040', 'text': "I can I feel like uh I've tried a lot of different\xa0\nthings I I've tried the things that are trophy"}, {'start': '447.040', 'end': '453.600', 'text': "like uh I've put together a $400 spending budget\xa0\nand went shopping for her I've bought Do you hear"}, {'start': '453.600', 'end': '458.480', 'text': "what he's saying though yeah I do I do But I've\xa0\nbacked off of that as well and tried to do other"}, {'start': '458.480', 'end': '467.280', 'text': "things Can I ask her something that I You love\xa0\nhim mhm How do you know cuz we're together still"}, {'start': '467.280', 'end': '473.440', 'text': "I think I would have left if I didn't That's my\xa0\nkind of MMO She doesn't tell me that though She"}, {'start': '473.440', 'end': '479.440', 'text': "doesn't tell you that nope He doesn't feel loved\xa0\nby me Really not often She doesn't tell me No I"}, {'start': '479.440', 'end': '483.120', 'text': "I mean I know she loves me cuz I think love\xa0\nis an action It's not just this cool feeling"}, {'start': '483.120', 'end': '489.280', 'text': 'That\'s right Love is what you do It helps me\xa0\nwhen she says "Baby I love you." You know we'}, {'start': '489.280', 'end': '494.720', 'text': 'came in the court at the beginning saying it\'s\xa0\nabout sex Yeah Mhm Every man was thinking "Well'}, {'start': '494.720', 'end': '500.400', 'text': 'I can\'t wait to how this going to go down because\xa0\nevery man wants the sex right?" But then when I'}, {'start': '500.400', 'end': '507.120', 'text': "start looking at her that's the one good thing I\xa0\nhave about being a judge is that I can just look"}, {'start': '507.120', 'end': '515.760', 'text': 'beyond what I see And there is a brokenness that\xa0\ntook place that he may never be able to repair'}, {'start': '515.760', 'end': '524.960', 'text': 'for you What do you want from him what do you want\xa0\nfrom your marriage um to be happy No deeper than'}, {'start': '524.960', 'end': '537.120', 'text': 'that Wanting perfection wanting um to'}, {'start': '537.120', 'end': '549.920', 'text': "be fixed I want him to be everything that\xa0\nmy family was wasn't He comes along and he"}, {'start': '549.920', 'end': '556.720', 'text': "finds his dream girl because that's what\xa0\nshe is right And although it looks like"}, {'start': '556.720', 'end': '563.680', 'text': "it's about the sex it's not It's about when\xa0\nyou said I want to be fixed because there's"}, {'start': '563.680', 'end': '570.640', 'text': 'so many of us that are walking around I\xa0\nfinally am whole And it did not come from'}, {'start': '570.640', 'end': '577.440', 'text': 'a position or a title And I want you to\xa0\nhear this And it did not come from a man'}, {'start': '577.440', 'end': '584.240', 'text': "He can't fix you You're going to be the only\xa0\nperson that can fix you And I don't care how"}, {'start': '584.240', 'end': '591.760', 'text': 'often people tell you how beautiful you are and\xa0\neverything that seems to hurt even more Am I right'}, {'start': '591.760', 'end': '597.200', 'text': "yeah It doesn't No it has no meaning No meaning\xa0\nAnd I suspect when he gives you the flowers and"}, {'start': '597.200', 'end': '602.080', 'text': "the cards since we're all being honest and this\xa0\nis not meant to hurt your feelings Yeah Does it"}, {'start': '602.080', 'end': '608.960', 'text': "Do you feel anything from it not much Not a thing\xa0\nAnd it's sad because he's trying so hard You want"}, {'start': '608.960', 'end': '616.320', 'text': 'to wake up and know how it feels to be normal You\xa0\nare so much like everybody else in America Really'}, {'start': '616.320', 'end': '622.480', 'text': "yes my dear And so now you're dealing with a wife\xa0\nYou're going to need some counsel You need more"}, {'start': '622.480', 'end': '627.520', 'text': "than just me telling you how many times you going\xa0\nto have sex cuz I can't wait till after you go to"}, {'start': '627.520', 'end': '635.760', 'text': "counseling and y'all call back and let me know\xa0\nIf I just hear I don't know She could probably"}, {'start': '635.760', 'end': '640.880', 'text': "I'm gonna go out on a limb here She's saying I'll\xa0\ndo it one or two days a week Can you go without"}, {'start': '640.880', 'end': '647.440', 'text': "it it's It's like I hate to say this but it's\xa0\nlike another thing on my list He probably feel"}, {'start': '647.440', 'end': '651.920', 'text': 'like that I do He does But let me tell you what\xa0\nyou got to do cuz I got some clues I can help you'}, {'start': '651.920', 'end': '661.760', 'text': "with Great Please Cuz I'm handling my business\xa0\njust fine So when you give her a back rub you"}, {'start': '661.760', 'end': '667.840', 'text': "can't make her feel like the next step has got\xa0\nto be the sex Now she getting daily back rubs"}, {'start': '667.840', 'end': '673.360', 'text': 'every night Okay You got to look good man Now we\xa0\ngot to make sure somebody else going to come and'}, {'start': '673.360', 'end': '681.440', 'text': "uh you know what I'm saying come on I had to go\xa0\non and give him his prop I was thinking that when"}, {'start': '681.440', 'end': '686.560', 'text': 'he was doing it he was doing it You know how they\xa0\ndo You know how you do you know slip down and Yeah'}, {'start': '686.560', 'end': '691.920', 'text': 'let me know that Let me get everything right\xa0\nLet me not make her mad Let me do everything'}, {'start': '691.920', 'end': '697.200', 'text': "right so so the evening can go just the way it's\xa0\nsupposed to go So maybe this might be the day that"}, {'start': '697.200', 'end': '704.640', 'text': "I can get some I mean really is that not what's\xa0\nhappening well no Yeah a couple times I mean"}, {'start': '704.640', 'end': '712.720', 'text': "come on Yeah couple times Because I know that I\xa0\ncan't always be Mr Smooth She's smart She's smart"}, {'start': '712.720', 'end': '717.040', 'text': 'She figured out in a heartbeat So I just I stay\xa0\nright at the top of the shoulders Crack the back I'}, {'start': '717.040', 'end': '724.400', 'text': "stay right there Yeah But you know something it's\xa0\nabout a feeling If you all did not have sex before"}, {'start': '724.400', 'end': '729.680', 'text': "you made a connection on a spiritual level So you\xa0\ndon't have to say a word When you walk through the"}, {'start': '729.680', 'end': '735.840', 'text': "door it's like a scent a puppy coming in She knows\xa0\nwhat you want You got that look in your eyes You"}, {'start': '735.840', 'end': '740.880', 'text': "know what I mean it's a gleam The worst thing in\xa0\nthe world is to believe that you're the only ones"}, {'start': '740.880', 'end': '745.520', 'text': 'having it You are not the only people experiencing\xa0\nthis You are not going to tell me a couple that'}, {'start': '745.520', 'end': '750.160', 'text': 'appears to have everything In some ways you\xa0\nhave everything yet you have nothing This man is'}, {'start': '750.160', 'end': '756.800', 'text': "too good to lose But don't give this good man to\xa0\nanother woman I would not let him go I don't know"}, {'start': '756.800', 'end': '764.560', 'text': "everything that's going on but I wouldn't let him\xa0\ngo So what you do is I'm going to advise that you"}, {'start': '764.560', 'end': '770.960', 'text': "all go and get a good counselor And really you're\xa0\ngoing to go with her because it's very important"}, {'start': '770.960', 'end': '776.400', 'text': 'you really want the woman that you thought you\xa0\nwere getting She says she wants to be fixed You'}, {'start': '776.400', 'end': '781.840', 'text': "can't do it So you're gonna go to counseling\xa0\nAnd then after counseling you have to know in"}, {'start': '781.840', 'end': '787.600', 'text': "the meantime that you're going to be fixed And so\xa0\neventually it's going to come and you're going to"}, {'start': '787.600', 'end': '792.720', 'text': "wake up one day and you're going to be able to\xa0\nsay what I said I feel whole and it's going to"}, {'start': '792.720', 'end': '798.000', 'text': "be just fine And when you wake up you're going to\xa0\nhave this great man next to you But you've got to"}, {'start': '798.000', 'end': '804.320', 'text': "understand also she's got a three-year-old and\xa0\nshe doesn't want to feel like a trophy wife So"}, {'start': '804.320', 'end': '810.080', 'text': "sometimes even when you want it it's just a big\xa0\nsacrifice Nobody wants to sacrifice in marriage"}, {'start': '810.080', 'end': '817.120', 'text': "and nobody said it was going to be easy It's hard\xa0\nwork So what I'm going to do is it's really plain"}, {'start': '817.120', 'end': '822.000', 'text': "if defended It's almost like I'm fighting for\xa0\nboth But I'm going to find that you all go to"}, {'start': '822.000', 'end': '828.240', 'text': 'counseling because I think that is important And\xa0\nI really do believe that it is important that'}, {'start': '828.240', 'end': '835.840', 'text': 'you have sex with your husband You know what I\'m\xa0\nsaying he notice he didn\'t say "Judge don\'t make'}, {'start': '835.840', 'end': '840.480', 'text': 'her do it Don\'t make her do it." I\'m listening\xa0\nto you Judge You know go ahead You do a good job'}, {'start': '840.480', 'end': '846.000', 'text': "Get a glass of wine if you can If it's something\xa0\non the list and trust me I'm a list person put"}, {'start': '846.000', 'end': '854.160', 'text': 'it at the top of the list Do it before you go to\xa0\nwork Put it at the top of the list Come on Okay'}]