#82 - Die Papamiasche Müdigkeitstheorie – Warum die ersten Jahre nur so verfliegen
Papa Mia!? - Podcast
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I'm"}, {'start': '34.559', 'end': '37.840', 'text': "always happy when you're with me"}, {'start': '35.879', 'end': '40.399', 'text': 'because it gives me so much'}, {'start': '37.840', 'end': '44.520', 'text': 'food for thought.  And this time too,'}, {'start': '40.399', 'end': '46.360', 'text': 'you heard the episode in Papa mir with'}, {'start': '44.520', 'end': '48.960', 'text': 'Blanca, with Blanca Fetch.'}, {'start': '46.360', 'end': '50.559', 'text': 'Exactly, I highly recommend it. B is also'}, {'start': '48.960', 'end': '53.760', 'text': 'one of the most successful episodes so far, the one where she presents'}, {'start': '50.559', 'end': '56.480', 'text': 'herself as a time management'}, {'start': '53.760', 'end': '59.039', 'text': 'expert after she almost'}, {'start': '56.480', 'end': '60.399', 'text': 'had a heart attack and'}, {'start': '59.039', 'end': '61.640', 'text': 'nature basically told her: "Hey, you have to get'}, {'start': '60.399', 'end': '63.840', 'text': 'your life in order somehow'}, {'start': '61.640', 'end': '66.760', 'text': ', because just stressing around is'}, {'start': '63.840', 'end': '68.119', 'text': 'n\'t going to work."  And then, through this'}, {'start': '66.760', 'end': '70.119', 'text': 'Cesura, through this health'}, {'start': '68.119', 'end': '72.439', 'text': 'breakdown, she actually focused on a'}, {'start': '70.119', 'end': '74.000', 'text': 'completely different area of \u200b\u200bher life'}, {'start': '72.439', 'end': '76.080', 'text': ', namely time, family and so'}, {'start': '74.000', 'end': '77.840', 'text': 'on and how to accommodate all of that.'}, {'start': '76.080', 'end': '79.439', 'text': "And then you said that's"}, {'start': '77.840', 'end': '81.200', 'text': "exciting, because I've actually been interested in the topic of time for a"}, {'start': '79.439', 'end': '82.880', 'text': 'long time'}, {'start': '81.200', 'end': '84.520', 'text': ".  Yes, it's a stupid thing to"}, {'start': '82.880', 'end': '86.240', 'text': "say, yes, the topic, I've always"}, {'start': '84.520', 'end': '88.200', 'text': 'taken time for the topic of time'}, {'start': '86.240', 'end': '89.880', 'text': ", I've read up on it and"}, {'start': '88.200', 'end': '91.720', 'text': 'also somehow this cultural time'}, {'start': '89.880', 'end': '93.439', 'text': ', yes, that you, like which'}, {'start': '91.720', 'end': '94.960', 'text': 'society, meritocracy, how do'}, {'start': '93.439', 'end': '96.240', 'text': 'you actually rush through it and'}, {'start': '94.960', 'end': '98.000', 'text': 'what role do children suddenly play in'}, {'start': '96.240', 'end': '99.880', 'text': 'it?  That'}, {'start': '98.000', 'end': '101.720', 'text': 'interested me.  Can we'}, {'start': '99.880', 'end': '104.240', 'text': "discuss it now? We say that's what people"}, {'start': '101.720', 'end': '105.439', 'text': 'always say and I would really'}, {'start': '104.240', 'end': '107.479', 'text': "agree with that, even if it's a bit of a"}, {'start': '105.439', 'end': '109.920', 'text': 'saying.'}, {'start': '107.479', 'end': '112.079', 'text': 'You can tell how time passes by looking at the children.   Will'}, {'start': '109.920', 'end': '113.680', 'text': 'you sign this?'}, {'start': '112.079', 'end': '115.640', 'text': "It's also these statements where you"}, {'start': '113.680', 'end': '118.079', 'text': "often can't hold back,"}, {'start': '115.640', 'end': '119.680', 'text': 'especially with children who you see more often,'}, {'start': '118.079', 'end': '121.799', 'text': 'not every day, but every'}, {'start': '119.680', 'end': '123.240', 'text': "now and then, and then you say, you've"}, {'start': '121.799', 'end': '124.680', 'text': 'grown so much.  Full,'}, {'start': '123.240', 'end': '126.079', 'text': 'right?  And those were sayings that you did'}, {'start': '124.680', 'end': '127.840', 'text': "n't want to hear as a child or so"}, {'start': '126.079', 'end': '129.679', 'text': "you can't think of anything better than a"}, {'start': '127.840', 'end': '130.840', 'text': 'greeting like that. comes all of a'}, {'start': '129.679', 'end': '132.360', 'text': "sudden, because it's really like that, because"}, {'start': '130.840', 'end': '135.000', 'text': 'they grow up so quickly and'}, {'start': '132.360', 'end': '137.920', 'text': 'when you notice, you were'}, {'start': '135.000', 'end': '139.480', 'text': 'just holding it in your hand'}, {'start': '137.920', 'end': '140.800', 'text': ', they'}, {'start': '139.480', 'end': '143.160', 'text': "couldn't even move it, and suddenly they start"}, {'start': '140.800', 'end': '144.480', 'text': 'crawling, babbling and suddenly'}, {'start': '143.160', 'end': '147.080', 'text': "they're passing you by and doing their school-leaving"}, {'start': '144.480', 'end': '149.680', 'text': 'exams or an apprenticeship or something,'}, {'start': '147.080', 'end': '151.440', 'text': 'but I know what you mean.  Yes,'}, {'start': '149.680', 'end': '152.440', 'text': "that is extremely intense and I've"}, {'start': '151.440', 'end': '154.920', 'text': 'just been thinking about it a bit again'}, {'start': '152.440', 'end': '157.640', 'text': '.  Funnily enough,'}, {'start': '154.920', 'end': '159.239', 'text': 'I was thinking about my very first summer job'}, {'start': '157.640', 'end': '162.920', 'text': '.'}, {'start': '159.239', 'end': '165.280', 'text': "at 15, because that was at Turek's on"}, {'start': '162.920', 'end': '166.760', 'text': 'Marilverstrasse in Vienna and I sold the quantity'}, {'start': '165.280', 'end': '170.040', 'text': 'that I was, can I'}, {'start': '166.760', 'end': '173.040', 'text': 'help you, I was 15 and that'}, {'start': '170.040', 'end': '175.200', 'text': 'means it was almost 30 years'}, {'start': '173.040', 'end': '176.800', 'text': "ago and that's getting to me a bit"}, {'start': '176.800', 'end': '181.840', 'text': 'because my dad is'}, {'start': '181.879', 'end': '188.840', 'text': '73 now. He was 43 30'}, {'start': '185.760', 'end': '191.440', 'text': "years ago.  I'm 42."}, {'start': '188.840', 'end': '192.879', 'text': "Don't you have any episodes of depression?  No, not a"}, {'start': '191.440', 'end': '195.000', 'text': "depressing episode, not at all, because it's"}, {'start': '192.879', 'end': '196.599', 'text': "great and it's especially great when you think"}, {'start': '196.599', 'end': '201.200', 'text': 'back and see how much has happened in the 30'}, {'start': '199.000', 'end': '202.760', 'text': 'years since my first'}, {'start': '201.200', 'end': '205.519', 'text': "holiday job, right?  That's true and at"}, {'start': '202.760', 'end': '207.720', 'text': 'the same time how quickly'}, {'start': '205.519', 'end': '209.760', 'text': "time has passed.  It's pretty intense and"}, {'start': '207.720', 'end': '211.680', 'text': 'you get to grips with yourself, but I think that'}, {'start': '209.760', 'end': '212.879', 'text': 'once the children are there,'}, {'start': '211.680', 'end': '214.159', 'text': 'the time just goes by so incredibly'}, {'start': '212.879', 'end': '215.840', 'text': 'quickly.  Yes, because when you say'}, {'start': '214.159', 'end': '217.599', 'text': "the first, I don't know, yes, the"}, {'start': '215.840', 'end': '218.640', 'text': 'first few years, when you then, how was'}, {'start': '217.599', 'end': '221.879', 'text': 'it actually, how was it for'}, {'start': '218.640', 'end': '222.760', 'text': 'you with no idea, uh where it'}, {'start': '221.879', 'end': '224.439', 'text': 'may have always taken,'}, {'start': '222.760', 'end': '225.560', 'text': "for example, you often can't"}, {'start': '224.439', 'end': '228.239', 'text': 'remember it anymore because you think it was'}, {'start': '225.560', 'end': '230.920', 'text': 'such a long time ago and then, because I do'}, {'start': '228.239', 'end': '232.879', 'text': "n't know, it was just"}, {'start': '230.920', 'end': '234.920', 'text': "a stone's throw away in time.  Yes, and"}, {'start': '232.879', 'end': '236.799', 'text': "I think that's how it is for everyone"}, {'start': '234.920', 'end': '238.519', 'text': ', at least for everyone you ask'}, {'start': '236.799', 'end': '240.400', 'text': ".  We're asking you now,"}, {'start': '238.519', 'end': '242.000', 'text': "if you're currently listening on Spotify, we're"}, {'start': '240.400', 'end': '243.200', 'text': "conducting a survey and you're welcome to"}, {'start': '242.000', 'end': '245.439', 'text': 'write in it, whether you also feel that'}, {'start': '243.200', 'end': '246.920', 'text': 'time passes much faster with children'}, {'start': '245.439', 'end': '248.239', 'text': ", immediately after you've"}, {'start': '246.920', 'end': '250.079', 'text': 'left us a review.  That is'}, {'start': '248.239', 'end': '251.319', 'text': 'the most important thing.  Yes, so'}, {'start': '250.079', 'end': '252.640', 'text': 'you can then decide.  Twice'}, {'start': '251.319', 'end': '255.120', 'text': 'as fast, three times as fast,'}, {'start': '252.640', 'end': '256.479', 'text': 'ten times as fast.  Exactly.  Exactly.  Uh, so what but'}, {'start': '255.120', 'end': '259.079', 'text': "that's really, my height is"}, {'start': '256.479', 'end': '260.440', 'text': 'now ten, by the way, she has'}, {'start': '259.079', 'end': '261.560', 'text': 'a cell phone now, different topic,'}, {'start': '260.440', 'end': '265.040', 'text': "we'll do that in an episode sometime,"}, {'start': '261.560', 'end': '267.240', 'text': "I'd say.  Uh, and she has had it for these"}, {'start': '265.040', 'end': '268.560', 'text': '10 years, I always notice it when'}, {'start': '267.240', 'end': '270.320', 'text': 'I get the souvenir photos on my phone'}, {'start': '268.560', 'end': '271.639', 'text': ','}, {'start': '270.320', 'end': '272.600', 'text': 'that was 6 years ago today and so'}, {'start': '271.639', 'end': '275.560', 'text': "on.  That's really bad, it"}, {'start': '272.600', 'end': '277.680', 'text': "'s not the time that"}, {'start': '275.560', 'end': '279.280', 'text': "kills you, it's more about realizing"}, {'start': '277.680', 'end': '280.800', 'text': 'how quickly time has passed.  Yes,'}, {'start': '279.280', 'end': '283.000', 'text': 'a year ago you had, it was'}, {'start': '280.800', 'end': '285.120', 'text': "actually still yes, but that's gone, he's"}, {'start': '283.000', 'end': '286.320', 'text': "still a baby now, he's three."}, {'start': '285.120', 'end': '288.120', 'text': "Yeah, crazy, right?  And I think it's"}, {'start': '286.320', 'end': '289.320', 'text': 'a great feature of cell phones'}, {'start': '288.120', 'end': '290.440', 'text': 'that they do this, because these'}, {'start': '289.320', 'end': '292.320', 'text': "are memories that you wouldn't otherwise have"}, {'start': '290.440', 'end': '296.039', 'text': "if you weren't"}, {'start': '292.320', 'end': '298.400', 'text': 'looking for something else.  Yes.  Yes.  Good.  And 5000'}, {'start': '296.039', 'end': '301.240', 'text': "photos, which is about a year's workload"}, {'start': '298.400', 'end': '302.560', 'text': ', down.  With the first child,'}, {'start': '301.240', 'end': '304.840', 'text': "you don't know.  Yes, but with the second child"}, {'start': '302.560', 'end': '306.479', 'text': 'you make significantly less of a ford.  Unfortunately, it is'}, {'start': '304.840', 'end': '307.280', 'text': "true.  Yes, well that's"}, {'start': '306.479', 'end': '309.400', 'text': 'pretty intense.  We can'}, {'start': '307.280', 'end': '312.120', 'text': 'share experiences, but that means that'}, {'start': '309.400', 'end': '313.720', 'text': 'with the children you notice how time'}, {'start': '312.120', 'end': '317.800', 'text': 'passes.  We both agree with this'}, {'start': '313.720', 'end': '319.319', 'text': '100%.  Absolutely.  Uh, because but also, and'}, {'start': '317.800', 'end': '323.479', 'text': 'I find this really'}, {'start': '319.319', 'end': '325.520', 'text': 'exciting, for me too, as a child,'}, {'start': '323.479', 'end': '327.680', 'text': 'time is always relative, but of'}, {'start': '325.520', 'end': '330.479', 'text': 'course it was a completely different perception'}, {'start': '327.680', 'end': '332.240', 'text': 'than it is today.  So this point in time'}, {'start': '330.479', 'end': '334.520', 'text': 'as a child you always think'}, {'start': '332.240', 'end': '336.840', 'text': 'from birthday to Christmas to'}, {'start': '334.520', 'end': '339.000', 'text': "birthday or something like that.  That's the"}, {'start': '336.840', 'end': '340.479', 'text': "thought that comes to mind.  Yes, that's possible. When"}, {'start': '339.000', 'end': '342.560', 'text': 'is my birthday again, my'}, {'start': '340.479', 'end': '345.440', 'text': 'little one always says now and summer is still a while away'}, {'start': '342.560', 'end': '348.000', 'text': '.  Exactly.  And since that was so'}, {'start': '345.440', 'end': '349.919', 'text': 'long, when I think now, yes, my'}, {'start': '348.000', 'end': '352.720', 'text': 'next birthday is just that,'}, {'start': '349.919', 'end': '354.400', 'text': 'and when you then live from the other side'}, {'start': '352.720', 'end': '356.360', 'text': 'and you think, Christmas,'}, {'start': '354.400', 'end': '357.520', 'text': 'birthday, summer, winter, next'}, {'start': '356.360', 'end': '360.280', 'text': 'next Christmas was just'}, {'start': '357.520', 'end': '361.880', 'text': 'again and you are wrong.  Yes, we'}, {'start': '360.280', 'end': '363.479', 'text': 'certainly feel differently about it and I'}, {'start': '361.880', 'end': '364.800', 'text': 'wanted to find out in a'}, {'start': '363.479', 'end': '366.680', 'text': 'strictly scientific way in my'}, {'start': '364.800', 'end': '369.000', 'text': "research.  Yes, good.  Good this way.  It's"}, {'start': '366.680', 'end': '370.360', 'text': 'important to me why that is.  And you'}, {'start': '369.000', 'end': '372.360', 'text': 'figured it out, I hope.  I'}, {'start': '370.360', 'end': '373.919', 'text': 'have picked out at least three points that'}, {'start': '372.360', 'end': '375.720', 'text': 'we can discuss.'}, {'start': '373.919', 'end': '378.000', 'text': 'The first one would be, and that was also what I'}, {'start': '375.720', 'end': '380.080', 'text': 'said at the beginning, I read a lot'}, {'start': '378.000', 'end': '382.880', 'text': 'about it even before I'}, {'start': '380.080', 'end': '384.840', 'text': 'had children, this what is time in a'}, {'start': '382.880', 'end': '387.440', 'text': 'culture, how do other cultures deal with'}, {'start': '384.840', 'end': '388.800', 'text': 'time, how subjective is the whole thing,'}, {'start': '387.440', 'end': '390.280', 'text': 'then of course you also come across'}, {'start': '388.800', 'end': '392.840', 'text': "this, let's call it the"}, {'start': '390.280', 'end': '395.199', 'text': 'scientific approach, yes, with'}, {'start': '392.840', 'end': '397.800', 'text': 'Einstein and the curvature of'}, {'start': '395.199', 'end': '399.479', 'text': 'spacetime and so on.  Yes,'}, {'start': '397.800', 'end': '401.720', 'text': "and now you're going to explain the"}, {'start': '399.479', 'end': '402.840', 'text': 'theory of relativity to me?  I wanted to, I wanted to,'}, {'start': '401.720', 'end': '405.440', 'text': 'then I realized that'}, {'start': '402.840', 'end': '407.599', 'text': 'as a humanities scholar I would quickly reach'}, {'start': '405.440', 'end': '409.440', 'text': "my limits.  We're messing things up there"}, {'start': '407.599', 'end': '411.120', 'text': ", I don't think that's good."}, {'start': '409.440', 'end': '413.280', 'text': 'The only thing I'}, {'start': '411.120', 'end': '415.199', 'text': 'discovered and built my own'}, {'start': '413.280', 'end': '416.960', 'text': 'theory around is that you'}, {'start': '415.199', 'end': '418.720', 'text': 'keep coming back to this example,'}, {'start': '416.960', 'end': '421.120', 'text': "this curvature of space.  Yes, it's like when"}, {'start': '418.720', 'end': '423.479', 'text': 'a metal ball falls onto a headrest'}, {'start': '421.120', 'end': '425.520', 'text': 'and that creates this'}, {'start': '423.479', 'end': '427.759', 'text': 'curvature, so it basically has this'}, {'start': '425.520', 'end': '430.160', 'text': 'space.  Why do you have metal balls in your'}, {'start': '427.759', 'end': '432.280', 'text': "bed?  Now I've realized"}, {'start': '430.160', 'end': '435.240', 'text': "that's exactly what happened in the first two"}, {'start': '432.280', 'end': '437.319', 'text': 'years, because my head felt like a'}, {'start': '435.240', 'end': '440.039', 'text': 'giant metal ball was hitting me'}, {'start': '437.319', 'end': '442.080', 'text': 'because I was just tired.'}, {'start': '440.039', 'end': '444.000', 'text': 'OK.  Yes I understand.  That was my'}, {'start': '442.080', 'end': '445.199', 'text': 'approach.  Why do the first two'}, {'start': '444.000', 'end': '446.520', 'text': 'to three years go by so quickly?  Because'}, {'start': '445.199', 'end': '448.800', 'text': "I think you only notice it when you're half awake anyway"}, {'start': '446.520', 'end': '450.879', 'text': '.  How does someone run past you'}, {'start': '448.800', 'end': '454.080', 'text': '?  Because your sleep'}, {'start': '450.879', 'end': '456.039', 'text': 'is interrupted, because you ca'}, {'start': '454.080', 'end': '457.680', 'text': "n't sleep through the night, you are somehow"}, {'start': '456.039', 'end': '460.080', 'text': 'tied to the'}, {'start': '457.680', 'end': '462.199', 'text': "child's sleep rhythm.  Well, I think this"}, {'start': '460.080', 'end': '465.360', 'text': 'iron ball,'}, {'start': '462.199', 'end': '467.680', 'text': 'this iron ball that'}, {'start': '465.360', 'end': '469.400', 'text': "hits your head with pleasure because you're so tired,"}, {'start': '467.680', 'end': '471.400', 'text': 'I think that explains the first few'}, {'start': '469.400', 'end': '473.199', 'text': "years of a child's life, where I think you"}, {'start': '471.400', 'end': '476.360', 'text': 'often notice it a little bit in this'}, {'start': '473.199', 'end': '478.039', 'text': 'half-asleep daze.  And yet,'}, {'start': '476.360', 'end': '481.400', 'text': "and that's my approach, I want to"}, {'start': '478.039', 'end': '483.199', 'text': "make it positive, it wasn't quite"}, {'start': '481.400', 'end': '484.879', 'text': "so positive, right?  Positive, it's"}, {'start': '483.199', 'end': '486.720', 'text': "not negative, but it's true that I did"}, {'start': '486.720', 'end': '489.840', 'text': 'catch up on a lot of sleep during the day.  We simply'}, {'start': '488.159', 'end': '492.120', 'text': 'adjusted our sleep phases.'}, {'start': '489.840', 'end': '493.479', 'text': 'My son and I sleep intermittently at night'}, {'start': '492.120', 'end': '494.560', 'text': ', but we were'}, {'start': '494.560', 'end': '498.159', 'text': 'able to get a little bit of daytime sleep too if we were flexible about it'}, {'start': '495.919', 'end': '500.840', 'text': ".  Well, it's"}, {'start': '498.159', 'end': '504.800', 'text': "great, it's absolutely positive,"}, {'start': '500.840', 'end': '506.080', 'text': 'but I find parents who say it'}, {'start': '504.800', 'end': '507.800', 'text': "wasn't a problem at all.  First, yes, he"}, {'start': '506.080', 'end': '509.440', 'text': 'slept through the night straight away, or she did'}, {'start': '507.800', 'end': '511.199', 'text': "n't either.  There are some, but they are"}, {'start': '509.440', 'end': '513.560', 'text': 'positive or negative, but it is so.'}, {'start': '511.199', 'end': '514.519', 'text': 'They lie, they lie, and it does'}, {'start': '513.560', 'end': '515.240', 'text': "n't have to be that bad everywhere.  I'm"}, {'start': '514.519', 'end': '516.719', 'text': 'not talking about'}, {'start': '515.240', 'end': '519.680', 'text': 'screaming children and the like.'}, {'start': '516.719', 'end': '522.440', 'text': 'Konstantin was a child of luxury.  Um, but I'}, {'start': '519.680', 'end': '524.120', 'text': "still think this topic, you're"}, {'start': '522.440', 'end': '526.519', 'text': "tired, exhausted and it's a completely"}, {'start': '524.120', 'end': '528.480', 'text': 'new situation for you.'}, {'start': '526.519', 'end': '530.480', 'text': 'you certainly have the first few months years.'}, {'start': '528.480', 'end': '532.800', 'text': 'So that would be explanation number'}, {'start': '530.480', 'end': '534.680', 'text': 'one, I called it the papa'}, {'start': '532.800', 'end': '536.560', 'text': "fatigue theory, let's leave it at"}, {'start': '534.680', 'end': '538.480', 'text': 'that, I like that name.  Ball'}, {'start': '536.560', 'end': '540.560', 'text': 'and headpiece.  That really has to be included in'}, {'start': '538.480', 'end': '542.160', 'text': 'every parenting guide,'}, {'start': '540.560', 'end': '544.079', 'text': 'and of course it could also'}, {'start': '542.160', 'end': '545.240', 'text': 'be that children are simply different to'}, {'start': '545.240', 'end': '551.880', 'text': 'us, right?  Because because you have'}, {'start': '548.880', 'end': '551.880', 'text': 'fatigue theory'}, {'start': '555.440', 'end': '559.320', 'text': 'exactly, because they just do their thing'}, {'start': '557.600', 'end': '561.440', 'text': '.  And we, and I think'}, {'start': '559.320', 'end': '563.720', 'text': 'you also mentioned this, in these first,'}, {'start': '561.440', 'end': '565.560', 'text': 'you said, the first two or three years, there'}, {'start': '563.720', 'end': '567.800', 'text': 'is very little self-determination on the part of us'}, {'start': '565.560', 'end': '569.800', 'text': 'parents.  You have to is more'}, {'start': '567.800', 'end': '571.279', 'text': 'reaction, I think, than action.  Yes,'}, {'start': '569.800', 'end': '573.880', 'text': 'and maybe our children are'}, {'start': '571.279', 'end': '575.200', 'text': 'actually setting a good example, how they do'}, {'start': '573.880', 'end': '577.640', 'text': "simple things and if they don't"}, {'start': '575.200', 'end': '579.720', 'text': 'get it, then they have ways and means of getting'}, {'start': '577.640', 'end': '582.440', 'text': 'it anyway.  Yes, that'}, {'start': '579.720', 'end': '584.519', 'text': 'actually leads to theory number 2 anyway,'}, {'start': '582.440', 'end': '586.160', 'text': 'and that is actually this'}, {'start': '584.519', 'end': '588.120', 'text': 'hectic routine that we simply'}, {'start': '586.160', 'end': '590.079', 'text': 'have, I think, in order to have to'}, {'start': '588.120', 'end': '593.600', 'text': 'or be'}, {'start': '590.079', 'end': '595.360', 'text': 'able to get everything done.  How should I put it, did'}, {'start': '593.600', 'end': '596.320', 'text': 'you rush through the day so much that'}, {'start': '595.360', 'end': '598.519', 'text': 'then, that was also a nice'}, {'start': '596.320', 'end': '602.200', 'text': 'statement in this'}, {'start': '598.519', 'end': '604.000', 'text': 'episode discussed with the topic of time management,'}, {'start': '602.200', 'end': '605.680', 'text': 'that at the end of the day or at the end of'}, {'start': '604.000', 'end': '607.800', 'text': 'the week or at the end of the month or'}, {'start': '605.680', 'end': '609.320', 'text': 'at the end of the year, when someone'}, {'start': '607.800', 'end': '612.640', 'text': 'asks you what you did, you actually'}, {'start': '609.320', 'end': '615.360', 'text': 'say, I have no idea.  Mhm.'}, {'start': '612.640', 'end': '617.600', 'text': 'because you'}, {'start': '615.360', 'end': '620.839', 'text': 'are being pushed through something, you are'}, {'start': '617.600', 'end': '623.279', 'text': 'pushing yourself through it, or you simply have to'}, {'start': '623.279', 'end': '626.560', 'text': "adapt to someone else's new circumstances in life, but you"}, {'start': '625.360', 'end': '629.120', 'text': 'also cannot ignore everything else,'}, {'start': '626.560', 'end': '631.040', 'text': 'like your job, things that are'}, {'start': '629.120', 'end': '632.920', 'text': 'easy to do, and so on.'}, {'start': '631.040', 'end': '635.200', 'text': 'Yes, I think that'}, {'start': '632.920', 'end': '636.800', 'text': 'this issue of stress and being driven through the day'}, {'start': '636.800', 'end': '641.320', 'text': 'are also time killers.'}, {'start': '638.320', 'end': '642.600', 'text': 'Mhm.  What would be the way out?  Because'}, {'start': '641.320', 'end': '644.680', 'text': "that's not a particularly pleasant"}, {'start': '642.600', 'end': '647.800', 'text': "feeling.  I think that's how it would be,"}, {'start': '644.680', 'end': '649.079', 'text': 'yes,'}, {'start': '647.800', 'end': '650.480', 'text': 'I think we can learn a lot from the children,'}, {'start': '649.079', 'end': '654.000', 'text': 'on the other'}, {'start': '650.480', 'end': '656.440', 'text': 'hand, that children are more or less'}, {'start': '654.000', 'end': '660.120', 'text': 'the best coaches anyway, or I'}, {'start': '656.440', 'end': '662.839', 'text': 'called them the cheapest coaches.   If'}, {'start': '660.120', 'end': '664.519', 'text': 'I disagree, we have'}, {'start': '662.839', 'end': '666.200', 'text': 'agreed on the coaches who are at least as'}, {'start': '664.519', 'end': '668.800', 'text': 'accessible as possible. 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And you often sit'}, {'start': '683.600', 'end': '687.040', 'text': "there, I'm exaggerating, with your"}, {'start': '685.600', 'end': '688.399', 'text': 'cell phone in your hand, and then you think, do'}, {'start': '687.040', 'end': '689.959', 'text': 'I have to answer the M, can'}, {'start': '688.399', 'end': '691.760', 'text': 'I call it back later?  If we have'}, {'start': '689.959', 'end': '692.880', 'text': 'already been shopping, if the child is hungry, if the'}, {'start': '691.760', 'end': '694.560', 'text': 'diaper is full, do we still have enough'}, {'start': '692.880', 'end': '696.720', 'text': 'diapers.  It just goes on and on and on'}, {'start': '694.560', 'end': '698.440', 'text': 'the whole time and next to you sits your'}, {'start': '696.720', 'end': '700.600', 'text': 'little son with the blue car and what, let'}, {'start': '698.440', 'end': '703.360', 'text': 'me tell you, is going on in his head'}, {'start': '700.600', 'end': '705.760', 'text': '?  Blue car.  Yes, of course.  And'}, {'start': '703.360', 'end': '707.480', 'text': 'actually blue car with dad.  Blue'}, {'start': '705.760', 'end': '709.120', 'text': 'car with dad, who is probably sitting next to it, rushed'}, {'start': '707.480', 'end': '710.519', 'text': ", because he's"}, {'start': '709.120', 'end': '711.839', 'text': 'just thinking, what else do I have to'}, {'start': '710.519', 'end': '713.360', 'text': 'do, and I think we can'}, {'start': '711.839', 'end': '715.480', 'text': 'learn so much from that without coming across as'}, {'start': '713.360', 'end': '716.639', 'text': 'preachy, and'}, {'start': '715.480', 'end': '718.440', 'text': "you can't do it all"}, {'start': '716.639', 'end': '721.240', 'text': 'day because if you spend the whole day playing with the blue'}, {'start': '718.440', 'end': '722.519', 'text': 'car then maybe other'}, {'start': '721.240', 'end': '724.079', 'text': 'things will happen, but I think if you'}, {'start': '722.519', 'end': '727.120', 'text': 'take a moment and just'}, {'start': '724.079', 'end': '730.240', 'text': 'think about it, switch everything else off and'}, {'start': '727.120', 'end': '731.680', 'text': 'just have this me-time and be in the moment,'}, {'start': '730.240', 'end': '733.760', 'text': "that's what we're always told,"}, {'start': '731.680', 'end': '735.000', 'text': 'but they can do it, they have'}, {'start': '733.760', 'end': '736.880', 'text': "n't lost themselves yet.  that"}, {'start': '735.000', 'end': '739.040', 'text': 'they have to find themselves again.  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What happens if I'}, {'start': '762.199', 'end': '766.720', 'text': 'open the email that pops up on my phone?  So a'}, {'start': '764.320', 'end': '768.199', 'text': "big, big, big suggestion that I'm"}, {'start': '766.720', 'end': '769.800', 'text': 'trying to'}, {'start': '768.199', 'end': '771.600', 'text': 'implement at home now, is to simply'}, {'start': '773.800', 'end': '776.839', 'text': 'put my cell phone on the white windowsill when I go into the apartment and leave it there and'}, {'start': '775.720', 'end': '778.360', 'text': 'not take it with me because'}, {'start': '776.839', 'end': '780.040', 'text': "I don't really need it. If someone"}, {'start': '778.360', 'end': '780.920', 'text': "wants something really important, they'll call,"}, {'start': '780.040', 'end': '783.079', 'text': "then I'll hear it and then I can get it"}, {'start': '780.920', 'end': '785.320', 'text': '.  Uh, but all the messages'}, {'start': '783.079', 'end': '786.880', 'text': 'in between are probably not'}, {'start': '785.320', 'end': '788.639', 'text': 'so important that they need to be'}, {'start': '786.880', 'end': '793.399', 'text': 'answered or processed immediately'}, {'start': '788.639', 'end': '795.399', 'text': '.  But the time with the child is'}, {'start': '793.399', 'end': '798.600', 'text': "important now, because it's"}, {'start': '795.399', 'end': '800.000', 'text': 'a cliché, but our everyday life'}, {'start': '798.600', 'end': '802.959', 'text': 'is their'}, {'start': '800.000', 'end': '805.800', 'text': 'childhood, it hits the nail on the head. Mhm.  That'}, {'start': '802.959', 'end': '808.519', 'text': 'often makes you think'}, {'start': '805.800', 'end': '810.040', 'text': 'and yes, and also your often-'}, {'start': '808.519', 'end': '810.959', 'text': 'made statement, which I wrote down'}, {'start': '810.040', 'end': '813.320', 'text': 'but have already'}, {'start': '810.959', 'end': '815.120', 'text': 'forgotten.  What was this time that'}, {'start': '813.320', 'end': '817.959', 'text': 'you spend with your child?  Exactly.'}, {'start': '815.120', 'end': '820.199', 'text': '70% of the time children spend up to the'}, {'start': '817.959', 'end': '821.480', 'text': "age of 12 and I think that's where"}, {'start': '820.199', 'end': '823.480', 'text': 'we have time pressure on the other side anyway'}, {'start': '821.480', 'end': '825.079', 'text': '.  Mhm.'}, {'start': '823.480', 'end': '827.440', 'text': 'Because these are things'}, {'start': '825.079', 'end': '828.639', 'text': "that you might not miss and I don't"}, {'start': '827.440', 'end': '830.959', 'text': 'think you need to put any pressure on yourself'}, {'start': '828.639', 'end': '832.880', 'text': ", but I also think that you don't have to"}, {'start': '832.880', 'end': '838.040', 'text': 'turn off your phone all day and switch off and'}, {'start': '835.519', 'end': '839.519', 'text': 'not get distracted.  But I think'}, {'start': '838.040', 'end': '840.600', 'text': '5 minutes would often be enough,'}, {'start': '839.519', 'end': '842.440', 'text': 'although if you'}, {'start': '840.600', 'end': '846.399', 'text': "try it, you'll find it almost difficult.  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But they do it for'}, {'start': '859.680', 'end': '862.920', 'text': 'themselves the way they want and the way they'}, {'start': '861.079', 'end': '864.959', 'text': 'need it and'}, {'start': '862.920', 'end': '867.480', 'text': "sometimes they don't even understand that, so that leads"}, {'start': '864.959', 'end': '871.639', 'text': "to problems that don't make complete sense to us"}, {'start': '867.480', 'end': '873.040', 'text': '.  Uh, because if she'}, {'start': '873.040', 'end': '879.880', 'text': 'wants her toast cut like this and'}, {'start': '876.519', 'end': '882.040', 'text': "I, because I'm a bad father,"}, {'start': '879.880', 'end': '883.519', 'text': 'cut the toast wrong, then'}, {'start': '882.040', 'end': '886.920', 'text': 'that could turn into a sugar rush'}, {'start': '883.519', 'end': '889.440', 'text': '.  Yes.  Why?  Because it'}, {'start': '886.920', 'end': '891.199', 'text': "'s really important to them right now.  That does"}, {'start': '889.440', 'end': '893.079', 'text': "n't mean that I'm going to make another piece of toast"}, {'start': '891.199', 'end': '894.600', 'text': ', but of course we have'}, {'start': '893.079', 'end': '897.160', 'text': 'you making the toast again.  Why do you have to'}, {'start': '894.600', 'end': '899.160', 'text': "betray me?  Why why?  We'll"}, {'start': '897.160', 'end': '901.279', 'text': 'all do the toast again.  Yes, you know'}, {'start': '899.160', 'end': '902.480', 'text': 'what I mean.  Yes, because staying in the moment'}, {'start': '901.279', 'end': '903.839', 'text': 'naturally also leads to'}, {'start': '902.480', 'end': '905.480', 'text': 'problems, because you want'}, {'start': '903.839', 'end': '907.240', 'text': 'the moment to be perfect and you get'}, {'start': '905.480', 'end': '909.399', 'text': "very angry if it isn't"}, {'start': '907.240', 'end': '911.199', 'text': 'perfect.  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So,'}, {'start': '981.000', 'end': '985.759', 'text': "when I'm there for the children on Monday, Tuesday and"}, {'start': '982.759', 'end': '987.319', 'text': 'Wednesday, the days when'}, {'start': '985.759', 'end': '990.399', 'text': 'my wife is at'}, {'start': '987.319', 'end': '992.199', 'text': 'work,'}, {'start': '990.399', 'end': '995.000', 'text': 'those are always the days when I have the'}, {'start': '992.199', 'end': '996.360', 'text': 'urge to go to'}, {'start': '995.000', 'end': '997.720', 'text': 'sleep with my dad in the evening'}, {'start': '996.360', 'end': '999.560', 'text': 'because,'}, {'start': '997.720', 'end': '1001.240', 'text': "logically, I'm closer to her because my"}, {'start': '999.560', 'end': '1003.199', 'text': "wife isn't there all day.  Mhm."}, {'start': '1001.240', 'end': '1004.560', 'text': "Yes.  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Yes, because maybe it's"}, {'start': '1026.559', 'end': '1028.919', 'text': 'not so presence-dependent.'}, {'start': '1028.079', 'end': '1030.919', 'text': 'You can probably do it too, when you'}, {'start': '1028.919', 'end': '1033.160', 'text': 'walk in the door, to'}, {'start': '1035.880', 'end': '1038.280', 'text': "spend these, I'll call it 5 minutes or this time simply, uh, yes, without compromise.  I think you"}, {'start': '1037.240', 'end': '1040.160', 'text': 'could always'}, {'start': '1038.280', 'end': '1042.480', 'text': 'fit that in if you have the luxury'}, {'start': '1040.160', 'end': '1044.280', 'text': 'of being'}, {'start': '1042.480', 'end': '1046.839', 'text': "able to take the whole day to do just that.  That's"}, {'start': '1044.280', 'end': '1049.000', 'text': 'great, of course, but not everyone has it.   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Standing up and'}, {'start': '1069.280', 'end': '1074.600', 'text': 'there stood ä meditation today'}, {'start': '1071.960', 'end': '1077.600', 'text': '7:45 pm to 8:30'}, {'start': '1074.600', 'end': '1079.720', 'text': 'pm.  I know that was exactly what I had.'}, {'start': '1077.600', 'end': '1081.320', 'text': 'Okay, you drop the kids off at'}, {'start': '1079.720', 'end': '1083.679', 'text': 'kindergarten and pick them up again.'}, {'start': '1081.320', 'end': '1085.400', 'text': 'Please come, the weather is bad,'}, {'start': '1083.679', 'end': '1087.919', 'text': "you get there somehow, you're a bit"}, {'start': '1085.400', 'end': '1089.600', 'text': 'late and now put on your'}, {'start': '1087.919', 'end': '1091.760', 'text': 'meditation clothes or whatever you have to'}, {'start': '1089.600', 'end': '1093.440', 'text': 'wear.  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I now call it'}, {'start': '1111.520', 'end': '1114.640', 'text': "meditating.  It's probably not"}, {'start': '1113.080', 'end': '1116.919', 'text': 'meditation, I also schmeler a'}, {'start': '1114.640', 'end': '1118.080', 'text': 'little, but if you play with blue cars'}, {'start': '1116.919', 'end': '1121.880', 'text': "and then don't think about anything else, it's"}, {'start': '1118.080', 'end': '1123.840', 'text': "called meditation, yes, it's definitely better"}, {'start': '1121.880', 'end': '1125.559', 'text': "focusing and that's okay, and"}, {'start': '1123.840', 'end': '1128.720', 'text': "I can't say that.  At 7:45 p.m."}, {'start': '1125.559', 'end': '1130.440', 'text': 'you play with the blue car.  Yes,'}, {'start': '1128.720', 'end': '1132.000', 'text': 'we can try 8:30 p.m.  Then'}, {'start': '1130.440', 'end': '1133.400', 'text': 'they should actually be asleep.'}, {'start': '1132.000', 'end': '1136.240', 'text': 'Yes, when does one actually go to sleep'}, {'start': '1133.400', 'end': '1137.440', 'text': '?  Yes, between 7 and 8,'}, {'start': '1136.240', 'end': '1139.440', 'text': "let's put it that way, but he is a very good"}, {'start': '1137.440', 'end': '1140.799', 'text': 'sleeper.  You can sleep well,'}, {'start': '1139.440', 'end': '1141.840', 'text': "you can't complain at all.  So,"}, {'start': '1140.799', 'end': '1144.120', 'text': "what do we take away from today's"}, {'start': '1141.840', 'end': '1145.400', 'text': "episode?  We take with us, uh, yes, it's true"}, {'start': '1144.120', 'end': '1146.919', 'text': "at the children's markets, how time"}, {'start': '1145.400', 'end': '1149.679', 'text': 'flies and yes, they would'}, {'start': '1146.919', 'end': '1152.360', 'text': 'grow up really quickly.  It is all the more important'}, {'start': '1149.679', 'end': '1154.280', 'text': 'to use this time, because otherwise we will'}, {'start': '1152.360', 'end': '1155.440', 'text': "regret it later.  That's"}, {'start': '1154.280', 'end': '1158.960', 'text': 'kind of what you take with you,'}, {'start': '1155.440', 'end': '1161.000', 'text': 'I think.  Yes.  Um, and every now and then'}, {'start': '1158.960', 'end': '1164.280', 'text': 'these little people can be good coaches'}, {'start': '1161.000', 'end': '1167.080', 'text': '.  Great.  I say cheap, you say,'}, {'start': '1164.280', 'end': '1169.679', 'text': 'better say accessible.  Yes.  Yes.'}, {'start': '1167.080', 'end': '1171.840', 'text': "Available.  You don't have an hourly rate."}, {'start': '1169.679', 'end': '1173.240', 'text': 'We are generally they have a very'}, {'start': '1171.840', 'end': '1174.679', 'text': 'high hourly rate, but we take that in'}, {'start': '1173.240', 'end': '1176.360', 'text': 'stride.  Mine are older, you know?  The'}, {'start': '1174.679', 'end': '1177.679', 'text': "older the child, the more expensive.  That's you"}, {'start': '1176.360', 'end': '1180.520', 'text': "ahead again.  That's not the case, I have to"}, {'start': '1177.679', 'end': '1181.640', 'text': 'believe that now.'}, {'start': '1180.520', 'end': '1185.600', 'text': 'Thank you for listening.  Until the'}, {'start': '1181.640', 'end': '1189.039', 'text': "next episode.  Bye.  Papa.  For me it's purely a"}, {'start': '1185.600', 'end': '1191.559', 'text': "man's business.  The podcast by dads, for"}, {'start': '1189.039', 'end': '1193.760', 'text': 'dads and for everyone who likes dads.'}, {'start': '1191.559', 'end': '1197.589', 'text': 'Sounds cool, and it is.'}, {'start': '1193.760', 'end': '1197.589', 'text': '[Music]'}]