Unlock Erotic Potential & Ejaculatory Choice Without Penetration
Shari James
[{'start': '0.000', 'end': '4.000', 'text': 'when you take that goal and the result off the table'}, {'start': '4.366', 'end': '8.533', 'text': "you're you can just live in an orgasmic state"}, {'start': '8.666', 'end': '11.133', 'text': 'rather than chasing an orgasm'}, {'start': '11.700', 'end': '15.566', 'text': 'alright back to this episode of hymology'}, {'start': '15.566', 'end': '19.333', 'text': 'this is Wisdom Bomb number three free coming at you'}, {'start': '19.433', 'end': '21.866', 'text': 'I am with Rahi and Ariel'}, {'start': '21.866', 'end': '24.300', 'text': 'they are somatic sexual educators'}, {'start': '24.400', 'end': '26.366', 'text': 'and somatic body workers'}, {'start': '26.566', 'end': '29.300', 'text': 'combined they have 17 years of experience'}, {'start': '29.300', 'end': '33.100', 'text': "and I'm Shari James I help men avoid ED medications"}, {'start': '33.100', 'end': '34.966', 'text': 'get off of them or in some cases'}, {'start': '34.966', 'end': '37.700', 'text': 'get them to work with my holistic approach to healing'}, {'start': '37.700', 'end': '41.066', 'text': "erectile dysfunction let's get to the wisdom bomb"}, {'start': '41.766', 'end': '43.833', 'text': 'alright so this one is'}, {'start': '43.833', 'end': '49.466', 'text': 'unlock erotic potential without penetration'}, {'start': '51.033', 'end': '53.433', 'text': "uh huh I feel like we've been"}, {'start': '53.433', 'end': '56.800', 'text': 'dancing around this for the last two wisdom bombs'}, {'start': '56.800', 'end': '59.133', 'text': 'so how can we get a little more specific'}, {'start': '59.966', 'end': '61.566', 'text': "well you know what's interesting Sherry"}, {'start': '61.566', 'end': '63.666', 'text': 'is I feel like in the last two wisdom bombs'}, {'start': '63.666', 'end': '66.200', 'text': "we've been building up this tumescence"}, {'start': '66.733', 'end': '70.866', 'text': 'and this yearning and that is the whole point right'}, {'start': '70.866', 'end': '74.800', 'text': 'like we want to continue to expand our vessels capacity'}, {'start': '75.000', 'end': '76.600', 'text': 'our embody capacity'}, {'start': '76.600', 'end': '80.500', 'text': 'for this erotic energy to continue to expand'}, {'start': '80.900', 'end': '83.066', 'text': 'and to open up these portals of consciousness'}, {'start': '83.066', 'end': '86.000', 'text': 'which we spoke about in Wisdom Bomb 2 right'}, {'start': '86.000', 'end': '87.066', 'text': 'so you know'}, {'start': '87.066', 'end': '90.400', 'text': "we're of the belief that the society and our"}, {'start': '90.400', 'end': '92.866', 'text': 'our culture focuses so much on like'}, {'start': '92.866', 'end': '94.900', 'text': 'goal and results oriented'}, {'start': '95.166', 'end': '96.733', 'text': 'penetrative intercourse'}, {'start': '96.966', 'end': '101.300', 'text': 'that just ends the party so quickly for everyone right'}, {'start': '101.300', 'end': '102.300', 'text': 'and it just'}, 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'136.866', 'end': '137.500', 'text': 'that'}, {'start': '137.500', 'end': '141.400', 'text': 'often just goes completely overlooked and unexplored'}, {'start': '141.400', 'end': '144.366', 'text': 'because of the focus on penetration'}, {'start': '144.366', 'end': '148.066', 'text': 'and specifically like pounding penetration yeah'}, {'start': '148.066', 'end': '150.766', 'text': 'I remember like one of my teachers'}, {'start': '150.766', 'end': '151.366', 'text': 'Margonon'}, {'start': '151.366', 'end': '154.400', 'text': 'actually had a book called More Orgasmic Response'}, {'start': '154.666', 'end': '158.866', 'text': "and it was a tactic practice I've studied with Margo"}, {'start': '159.066', 'end': '160.233', 'text': 'where yes yeah'}, {'start': '160.233', 'end': '163.200', 'text': 'and so and so you know like when you take'}, {'start': '163.566', 'end': '167.600', 'text': 'when you take that goal and the result off the table'}, {'start': '167.900', 'end': '172.100', 'text': "you're you can just live in an orgasmic state"}, {'start': '172.233', 'end': '174.700', 'text': 'rather than chasing an orgasm'}, {'start': '176.400', 'end': '178.966', 'text': 'hmm alright so haha'}, {'start': '178.966', 'end': '181.666', 'text': 'easier said than done so this'}, {'start': '181.666', 'end': '185.366', 'text': "this audience who's watching this is primarily male"}, {'start': '186.000', 'end': '186.800', 'text': 'right so'}, {'start': '186.800', 'end': '188.866', 'text': "what we're actually talking about in a lot of ways"}, {'start': '188.866', 'end': '190.500', 'text': 'is actually a more feminine'}, {'start': '190.500', 'end': '191.566', 'text': "I'm gonna say this"}, {'start': '191.566', 'end': '194.700', 'text': "you can you know if you disagree that's fine um"}, {'start': '194.700', 'end': '197.300', 'text': 'a more feminine approach to sexuality'}, {'start': '197.300', 'end': '197.700', 'text': 'which I'}, {'start': '197.700', 'end': '200.766', 'text': 'to me is more tantric is a more feminine approach'}, {'start': '200.766', 'end': '202.733', 'text': 'it benefits the man immensely'}, {'start': '202.800', 'end': '205.066', 'text': 'but men are typically very'}, {'start': '205.166', 'end': '208.933', 'text': 'compartmentalized and very goal oriented'}, {'start': '210.033', 'end': '210.600', 'text': 'right so'}, {'start': '210.600', 'end': '214.366', 'text': 'so how how do we help men'}, {'start': '214.433', 'end': '218.866', 'text': 'open to this endless capacity of pleasure'}, {'start': '219.166', 'end': '221.000', 'text': 'without having a goal'}, {'start': '221.000', 'end': '223.700', 'text': 'other than endless possibilities of pleasure'}, {'start': '223.700', 'end': '225.366', 'text': 'that is the goal I suppose'}, {'start': '226.066', 'end': '227.766', 'text': 'without knowing the root causes'}, {'start': '227.766', 'end': '229.800', 'text': 'of erectile dysfunction you might as well'}, {'start': '229.800', 'end': '231.800', 'text': 'just go ahead and throw your pills in the garbage'}, {'start': '231.833', 'end': '234.566', 'text': 'contact me for your free video consult'}, {'start': '235.833', 'end': '236.800', 'text': 'well I would'}, {'start': '236.800', 'end': '238.266', 'text': 'I would um'}, {'start': '238.366', 'end': '241.533', 'text': 'encourage a shifting of the goal'}, {'start': '241.800', 'end': '245.533', 'text': 'right from the result of ejaculation'}, {'start': '245.633', 'end': '247.600', 'text': 'to expanding consciousness'}, {'start': '247.600', 'end': '250.766', 'text': 'if the goal is expanding consciousness like'}, {'start': '250.766', 'end': '253.266', 'text': 'you know like you and I are both familiar with uh'}, {'start': '253.266', 'end': '255.700', 'text': 'Master Montacchi and the microcosmic orbit'}, {'start': '255.766', 'end': '257.266', 'text': 'that was life changing for me'}, {'start': '257.266', 'end': '259.966', 'text': 'because it took ejaculation off the table'}, {'start': '260.000', 'end': '264.400', 'text': 'and instead it grew that capacity for the body to hold'}, {'start': '264.400', 'end': '267.300', 'text': 'and expand more and more erotic energy'}, {'start': '267.666', 'end': '270.800', 'text': 'so if the goal is to expand consciousness'}, {'start': '270.866', 'end': '273.433', 'text': 'if the goal is to you know'}, {'start': '273.433', 'end': '275.500', 'text': 'have exquisite presence with your partner'}, {'start': '275.500', 'end': '276.500', 'text': 'and your beloved'}, {'start': '276.566', 'end': '280.666', 'text': 'if the goal is really to be a master of your vessel'}, {'start': '281.100', 'end': '283.266', 'text': 'then it can still be a goal for the'}, {'start': '283.266', 'end': '284.700', 'text': 'the male audience yeah'}, {'start': '284.700', 'end': '287.000', 'text': 'but not about ejaculation'}, {'start': '288.000', 'end': '288.700', 'text': 'and well'}, {'start': '288.700', 'end': '291.833', 'text': 'I teach a ejaculatory choice'}, {'start': '291.833', 'end': '293.166', 'text': 'you know with my clients'}, {'start': '293.166', 'end': '295.766', 'text': "and I they it's"}, {'start': '295.766', 'end': '297.700', 'text': "it's like a kid in a candy store"}, {'start': '297.700', 'end': '298.833', 'text': 'you know like when they'}, {'start': '298.833', 'end': '300.500', 'text': 'they really start to get the hang of it'}, {'start': '300.500', 'end': '302.566', 'text': "they're like oh my God"}, {'start': '302.933', 'end': '304.800', 'text': 'I never knew I mean'}, {'start': '304.800', 'end': '307.500', 'text': "I'm just feeling so charged up all the time"}, {'start': '307.500', 'end': '309.600', 'text': 'but I feel like in control of it'}, {'start': '309.600', 'end': '311.800', 'text': "I don't feel like I need to do anything with it"}, {'start': '311.800', 'end': '314.000', 'text': 'but then when I wanna do something with it'}, {'start': '314.000', 'end': '315.966', 'text': 'I can right and'}, {'start': '315.966', 'end': '317.500', 'text': "and so they're they're getting a"}, {'start': '317.500', 'end': '320.866', 'text': 'a taste of this sweetness right in the candy store of'}, {'start': '320.866', 'end': '322.666', 'text': "of what's available"}, {'start': '323.200', 'end': '324.400', 'text': 'yes and'}, {'start': '324.400', 'end': '327.300', 'text': 'you know the other thing I wanna add is like'}, {'start': '327.300', 'end': '331.433', 'text': 'when a man has that kind of control and choice'}, {'start': '331.433', 'end': '333.066', 'text': 'ejaculatory choice'}, {'start': '333.500', 'end': '336.366', 'text': 'it just changes the quality of love making'}, {'start': '336.433', 'end': '338.400', 'text': 'and connection and expectations'}, {'start': '338.500', 'end': '342.400', 'text': 'and connection between you and your beloved'}, {'start': '342.400', 'end': '343.900', 'text': "it's it's a game changer"}, {'start': '344.366', 'end': '347.966', 'text': 'and I think a lot of men might be surprised at actually'}, {'start': '347.966', 'end': '352.733', 'text': 'like how hot it is to like'}, {'start': '352.866', 'end': '355.700', 'text': 'you know maybe go in with their partner and be like'}, {'start': '355.700', 'end': '357.466', 'text': "we're not gonna have penetration today"}, {'start': '357.466', 'end': '359.766', 'text': "and it's kind of like going back to high school"}, {'start': '359.766', 'end': '361.766', 'text': 'or college or whatever'}, {'start': '361.766', 'end': '362.500', 'text': "I don't know people"}, {'start': '362.500', 'end': '364.800', 'text': 'start having sex at different times in their life'}, {'start': '364.800', 'end': '366.766', 'text': "um but it's like"}, {'start': '366.766', 'end': '369.600', 'text': 'it can be bring in this like very innocent'}, {'start': '370.033', 'end': '372.100', 'text': "just like sexy and then there's just like"}, {'start': '372.100', 'end': '374.200', 'text': 'this desire and yearning that builds'}, {'start': '374.200', 'end': '377.500', 'text': "and then\nyou can't wait to get back into the bedroom together"}, {'start': '377.866', 'end': '378.666', 'text': "that's"}, {'start': '379.166', 'end': '380.600', 'text': "that's the thing I love the most"}, {'start': '380.600', 'end': '382.033', 'text': 'I mean the'}, {'start': '382.033', 'end': '383.800', 'text': 'the tumescence and the yearning'}, {'start': '384.000', 'end': '385.800', 'text': 'it just stays with you I mean'}, {'start': '385.800', 'end': '388.000', 'text': "it's like it's a lifestyle"}, {'start': '388.000', 'end': '390.466', 'text': "and I love that because you're so energized"}, {'start': '390.766', 'end': '391.766', 'text': 'inspired'}, {'start': '391.900', 'end': '395.766', 'text': 'and that desire for your partner is like always buzzing'}, {'start': '396.566', 'end': '397.566', 'text': "I mean I'm"}, {'start': '397.566', 'end': '400.466', 'text': "I'm currently single and celibate and I'm buzzing"}, {'start': '400.466', 'end': '402.300', 'text': 'I mean I haha yes'}, {'start': '402.300', 'end': '402.966', 'text': 'like yes'}, {'start': '402.966', 'end': '405.800', 'text': 'like I know how to keep all this alive and'}, {'start': '405.800', 'end': '407.800', 'text': 'and the benefits of it'}, {'start': '408.366', 'end': '410.433', 'text': 'well oh my gosh'}, {'start': '410.433', 'end': '414.033', 'text': 'I there was something I was gonna say okay'}, {'start': '414.033', 'end': '416.900', 'text': 'so to to to cap this off'}, {'start': '416.900', 'end': '418.900', 'text': 'I love that Ariel brought innocence'}, {'start': '418.900', 'end': '420.166', 'text': 'the word innocence into it'}, {'start': '420.166', 'end': '423.000', 'text': "because when I've worked with couples and"}, {'start': '423.000', 'end': '426.300', 'text': 'and shown um taught ejaculatory choice'}, {'start': '427.300', 'end': '430.866', 'text': 'the they would get very playful about it and you know'}, {'start': '430.866', 'end': '433.366', 'text': 'the male partner would ask the female partner'}, {'start': '433.766', 'end': '436.900', 'text': 'can I you know can I can I release today'}, {'start': '437.633', 'end': '439.433', 'text': 'no not today'}, {'start': '439.433', 'end': '441.766', 'text': "I'll let you know you know"}, {'start': '441.766', 'end': '446.200', 'text': 'and and I was just so bringing a level of'}, {'start': '446.200', 'end': '451.133', 'text': 'of like teasing and playfulness into it so so ah'}, {'start': '451.266', 'end': '454.833', 'text': "if you haven't watched Wisdom Bomb No. 1"}, {'start': '454.833', 'end': '458.433', 'text': 'or Wisdom Bomb No. 2 please go back and watch those'}, {'start': '458.433', 'end': '460.766', 'text': "because this is where we're building to"}, {'start': '461.066', 'end': '467.033', 'text': "there's so much possible with your erotic capacity and"}, {'start': '467.033', 'end': '467.366', 'text': 'you know'}, {'start': '467.366', 'end': '471.000', 'text': 'this is something that that you two are teaching so um'}, {'start': '471.000', 'end': '473.266', 'text': 'I will have all your information down below'}, {'start': '473.266', 'end': '477.400', 'text': 'in the description of how people can find you how no'}, {'start': '477.400', 'end': '479.733', 'text': "I'm getting goosebumps I don't know oh"}, {'start': '479.833', 'end': '482.500', 'text': "I'm so activated off this interview"}, {'start': '482.666', 'end': '486.000', 'text': "they're very powerful I mean look it's happening"}, {'start': '487.900', 'end': '490.600', 'text': "and so that's our mission in the world"}, {'start': '490.600', 'end': '493.266', 'text': "is to activate everyone like you're being activated"}, {'start': '493.266', 'end': '494.066', 'text': 'yeah'}, {'start': '495.300', 'end': '497.766', 'text': 'so I I think you do uh'}, {'start': '498.233', 'end': '500.266', 'text': 'what so what do you what do you wanna promote'}, {'start': '500.800', 'end': '502.766', 'text': "oh what's like what would you like to promote"}, {'start': '503.200', 'end': '504.000', 'text': 'um well'}, {'start': '504.000', 'end': '506.366', 'text': 'if if listeners are interested in more'}, {'start': '506.366', 'end': '509.666', 'text': 'they can go to Divine Union for lovers.com'}, {'start': '510.233', 'end': '512.966', 'text': 'and see an array of offerings'}, {'start': '512.966', 'end': '515.100', 'text': 'we have the online course uh'}, {'start': '515.100', 'end': '517.500', 'text': 'we have retreats that we have couples retreats'}, {'start': '517.500', 'end': '519.366', 'text': 'Cacao Retreats um'}, {'start': '519.366', 'end': '521.966', 'text': 'will probably offer some kind of uh'}, {'start': '521.966', 'end': '524.000', 'text': 'training in different parts of the world'}, {'start': '524.000', 'end': '525.433', 'text': 'of the approach that we take'}, {'start': '525.433', 'end': '527.666', 'text': 'which is very trauma informed'}, {'start': '527.666', 'end': '530.033', 'text': 'nervous system informed you know'}, {'start': '530.033', 'end': '532.400', 'text': 'I mean going back to it'}, {'start': '532.400', 'end': '536.833', 'text': 'like examining how our initial touch and sexuality'}, {'start': '536.833', 'end': '539.200', 'text': 'imprints and blueprints are affecting our adult lives'}, {'start': '539.200', 'end': '541.900', 'text': "so it's very holistic and complete"}, {'start': '541.900', 'end': '542.966', 'text': 'yeah yeah'}, {'start': '542.966', 'end': '546.233', 'text': 'so we we work with like in group settings'}, {'start': '546.233', 'end': '549.900', 'text': 'and then we also offer custom intensives for couples'}, {'start': '549.900', 'end': '553.133', 'text': "whether whether it's a single session or an immersive"}, {'start': '553.433', 'end': '557.466', 'text': 'um and then I offer a one on one container for men'}, {'start': '557.700', 'end': '560.066', 'text': 'who are looking to'}, {'start': '560.066', 'end': '563.100', 'text': 'really learn the art of 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