KESALAHAN-KESALAHAN ORANG TUA YANG PATUT DIHINDARI
WAHYUBELAJAR
[{'start': '2.240', 'end': '8.880', 'text': 'Caring for children is not only to meet\ntheir needs'}, {'start': '8.880', 'end': '14.759', 'text': 'but also to shape their\ngood personality until they'}, {'start': '14.759', 'end': '20.600', 'text': 'grow up Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi\nwabarakatuh Today I want to'}, {'start': '20.600', 'end': '27.080', 'text': 'describe the mistakes of parents in\neducating children that are'}, {'start': '27.080', 'end': '37.000', 'text': 'questionable and should not be\ndone The first is not'}, {'start': '37.000', 'end': '45.079', 'text': 'being a role model\nWhen parents are role models for their'}, {'start': '45.079', 'end': '52.760', 'text': 'children, whether they realize it or not, you have\never done bad behavior'}, {'start': '52.760', 'end': '58.280', 'text': 'in educating\nchildren Throwing'}, {'start': '58.280', 'end': '63.480', 'text': 'something when you are angry, your child'}, {'start': '65.240', 'end': '71.200', 'text': 'sees Throwing garbage carelessly\nbeing'}, {'start': '71.200', 'end': '80.640', 'text': 'lazy being bad, of course children\nwill see things like'}, {'start': '80.840', 'end': '89.200', 'text': 'that Next, being\ntoo critical, in my opinion,'}, {'start': '89.520', 'end': '96.960', 'text': 'he criticizes\neverything, children get bored of always'}, {'start': '96.960', 'end': '105.920', 'text': 'hearing criticism from you And of course,\nwith a lot of criticism from you,'}, {'start': '105.920', 'end': '111.040', 'text': 'children are difficult to control'}, {'start': '113.960', 'end': '120.079', 'text': 'Yes,\nchildren actually need to be criticized if they are'}, {'start': '120.079', 'end': '132.239', 'text': 'wrong, but we do\nthat criticism according to the rules and instincts, it'}, {'start': '133.080', 'end': '141.360', 'text': 'hurts\ntheir feelings If it gets to their hearts, they are'}, {'start': '141.360', 'end': '148.640', 'text': 'difficult Another mistake parents make is\ncomparing the first and'}, {'start': '148.640', 'end': '155.959', 'text': 'second children This is because they see the\nfirst child has'}, {'start': '155.959', 'end': '163.480', 'text': 'high expectations while the second,\nthird and fourth children do not have the'}, {'start': '163.480', 'end': '168.239', 'text': 'slightest value This is a very extraordinary problem'}, {'start': '168.239', 'end': '172.239', 'text': 'that must be fixed for parents'}, {'start': '173.519', 'end': '178.680', 'text': 'Next, what I want to say is'}, {'start': '178.680', 'end': '186.319', 'text': "communication, yes People's mistakes  parents in\neducating children is communication The"}, {'start': '186.319', 'end': '192.840', 'text': "main factor is communication\nDon't let you as parents"}, {'start': '192.840', 'end': '197.480', 'text': 'fail to educate children because of'}, {'start': '197.480', 'end': '203.239', 'text': 'communication factors Arguing with children\narguing loudly with children with a'}, {'start': '208.120', 'end': '213.480', 'text': 'booming voice like that\nWhen being'}, {'start': '213.480', 'end': '222.080', 'text': 'scolded, children are very cursed at\nParents reply to children also reply'}, {'start': '222.080', 'end': '228.599', 'text': 'Astagfirullah how come\nthis is not a quiet child,'}, {'start': '228.599', 'end': '233.280', 'text': 'instead he will\nargue'}, {'start': '233.280', 'end': '240.120', 'text': 'arguing worsening the\natmosphere by arguing with children and'}, {'start': '240.120', 'end': '243.680', 'text': 'fathers\nThis is'}, {'start': '243.680', 'end': '249.400', 'text': 'dangerous These are the mistakes of'}, {'start': '251.000', 'end': '259.880', 'text': 'parents Being too authoritarian is\nalso a problem Because parents who continue to feel'}, {'start': '259.880', 'end': '266.120', 'text': 'right about everything\nthey do tend to control'}, {'start': '266.120', 'end': '273.080', 'text': "aspects of their children's lives Right so\nNot a few parents"}, {'start': '273.080', 'end': '280.919', 'text': 'give their children the opportunity\nto learn from their'}, {'start': '280.919', 'end': '287.440', 'text': "own experiences Yes, that's why authoritative\nLook at you, father, right,"}, {'start': '287.440', 'end': '293.120', 'text': 'like this,\nfather successfully bought land for a'}, {'start': '293.120', 'end': '299.360', 'text': 'house while\nyou Well, you are like that While you ca'}, {'start': '299.360', 'end': '305.880', 'text': "n't do anything, you are already fighting your\nparents H"}, {'start': '310.400', 'end': '315.000', 'text': 'Thank you for\nwatching on'}, {'start': '315.000', 'end': '319.960', 'text': 'my channel Wasalamualaikum warahmatullahi\nwabarakatuh'}, {'start': '319.960', 'end': '322.039', 'text': 'Yeah'}]