Activate Intuition For Right Decisions: Part 4: Subtitles English: BK Shivani
BKShivani
[{'start': '0.332', 'end': '4.349', 'text': 'Sometimes, we work very hard on something.  We are working on a project, and sometimes, it just stops in the middle.  It has to happen, but it doesn\'t happen.  It takes a long time—it still doesn\'t happen.  Always keep working hard outside and fix just one thought in the mind:  Only whatever is right for me will happen.  It means we are putting a vibration into nature  that only if this thing is right for me, it will happen.  What do we do? Affirmation - means we say that this will happen, this will happen, this will happen,  And it will happen.  But it is not necessary that whatever happens will be right for me.  Just because I said it will happen, it happened. Tme is changing. It is not necessary that what we think is right for tomorrow is necessarily right. What we think today is right - next year it will not be right —because things are changing very fast. So make efforts, work hard, create a thought but along with that, definitely add a thought  that only whatever is right for me will happen. If you are teaching your child and making him take an entrance exam tomorrow.  You will say that he should go to this college He should make efforts to go to college.  Along with that, make a thought that he will get the college that is right for him.  What is right for him  What is right for the world, need not necessarily be right for me. There is a person who goes to the best college in the world,  but after going to that best college, something does not happen right with him. So that best college does not prove to be right for him.  Just because the world is saying, it is the best,  it is not necessary that it is best for me.  That is why, while making efforts  and keeping the aim of achieving the highest goal,  one must also say  one must also say - God, whatever is right for me, will happen.  Whatever is right for my children will happen.  Start surrendering and catching the highest vibrations.  Whenever a decision has to be taken, we think we are very intelligent—we know what is right. But the time is not such that only intelligence will work.  The time is such that intuition needs to be used to know what is right and what is not.  So, by making efforts, do a small thing:  surrender before God.  By reducing our egoistic intelligence a little, let us say:  I have worked hard, but I do not know what is right for me.  You touch me—that means you touch my intellect—about what is right for me.  And then leave the matter.  Like a child comes to his parent and says, I do not know what is right, you tell me what is right. So don’t you think that the parent will change everything to do the right thing for that child?  Will he do it, or will he not do it?  Start surrendering.  Now, the time has come when logic will not necessarily always be right.  Because for logic to be right, everything outside has to be right,  and the world outside is changing suddenly, in a day.  Intuition is my wisdom  and even higher than that is the catching power of God\'s guidance.  Do you think God can talk to us?  If He has to tell you something, can He say it, or can He not?  How will He say it?  If He has to tell you that you should do this, how will He tell you?  The situation will arise.  Suppose, without any situation, without any people—can He tell you directly? It happens through the situation. It happens through people as well.  Can He tell directly as well?  Who all think God can tell me directly?  Directly—no via, via. And who all have experienced that He told me, and it turned out to be right?  Oh, look all around once.  Then tell me one thing: if we can get answers from Him, and He tells us,  then why do we keep asking others what do you think, what should we do? Should we not ask God directly - Tell us what we should do. And then we should sleep peacefully because He will tell us the answer.  But this relationship is formed when we talk every day Not only when there is a problem and we ask - Tell us what should we do. Then, even if He tells us, we do not catch the answer because there is so much stress here that our phone line is engaged ,—we cannot catch what He says. For that, we should create a relationship with God every day.  And how will we know that this is His answer, this is my answer?  A few days ago, a sister came to our center.  She took admission in a foreign university, and it was one of the top universities.  Her parents were saying, "You should go to this university in India."  She said, "I want to go there." Everyone said, "Okay, you have got an admission there. Go abroad."  We were going to the retreat center. There was an hour on the way.  I told her, "There is a meditation room there. You go and sit inside.  You have taken a decision, you have taken admission—there is no problem.  You just sit there and tell God - Please touch me with whatever is right for me."  We were coming back I asked if she asked God. She said No. So, as soon as she said No, I understood.  I told her - "I was also like you.  I knew the answer. Why should I say anything there?  I already know which university is right." ego, over-intelligence - that is ego."  When we came back, there was a small center. I said, "There is a meditation room here too. You can say it here."  She went but did not ask anything. So I didn\'t ask her after that. After two months, she came to the center. I said, "You haven\'t gone there yet?  She said - I took admission from the university in Delhi.  I asked her why - if she had some problem. She started crying.  I asked her, "What happened to you?"  She said, "That day you had told me to ask God to touch me with whatever is right for me."  So I asked God. And  after a few days, the thought of that other university vanished from my mind,  and I was left with only one thought—that this is the right one."  She said, "It went away on its own. No matter how much I try, I still do not get that thought that I have to go abroad.  This is God\'s answer. We must become like a child. How does a child speak?  Do you remember when a child is small, how he speaks?  "I do not know anything. You feed me. You make me read. You pick me up." Even if he has to go to the washroom, he says, "You take me."  Because a child does not know anything.  But after a year or two, he does not say, "I will do it myself, I know everything." So God says, "Never grow up.  If you remain a child forever,  then there will be no burden, no worries. You will talk to Him about everything and will do it with a feeling of surrender.  You will get such an answer from Him which you had never thought of, and no one else had thought of that answer either."  Because we asked Him.  We don\'t ask Him. We tell Him our problems And then we tell Him the answer as well as - "This should happen. You get this done for me."  No.  What is right for me, I have to do it. He is not going to do it.  We have to do the work.  We just have to make that relationship where we tell Him  that "Whatever is right for me, You touch me. Just tell me what is right for me."  Who is ready to experiment with this?  Do not believe this at all—experiment with this.  The relationship starts to form, and it becomes such an interesting relationship.  That big situations seem like they are nothing.  All day long—small things, small things.  You are searching for something in the house, but you are not able to find it.  You searched here and there, but you were not able to find it.  We stop searching.  We tell Him, "I do not remember where I kept it. I am not able to find it.  Tell me where it is lying."  And we leave that matter.  And after a while, we end up going straight to the place where that thing was lying.  It was lying at home. We searched everywhere but had not gone there earlier.  We feel we have become big, so we do not ask God.  Become small. Become a child. Ask Him everything. He is sitting there.  God says, "I am sitting here. You do not use Me at all.  Use Me. Talk to Me. Ask Me. I am ready to tell you every answer."  Telepathy. Telepathy happens between two souls.  How does telepathy happen?  I created a thought for you and you caught my thought. If telepathy can happen between a soul and a soul, then can telepathy happen between a soul and God or not?  Can it happen or not?  Whose telepathy will be better?  Person-to-person telepathy is easier, or person-and-God telepathy is easier?  Which is easier?  Person-and-God telepathy is easier? why is that one easier?  Yes, you will get the answer easily. That one is easier because,  right now, I suppose I create a thought for you.  If your line is absolutely clear, then my thought will come to you directly.  Suppose I create a thought for you from here, "Get up and come here."  You should do this and see. It is a powerful experiment. Instead of talking to the other person, keep sending him thoughts.  "Get up, get up, get up, get up."  You will see him getting up in two minutes.  There is no communication above thought communication.  We keep talking and communicating through messages all day. Use thought communication instead of speaking.  But sometimes, the other person takes some time. It is because his phone is engaged.  Where is he engaged? He is engaged here —too many thoughts are going on. But still, you keep talking, keep talking, keep talking. In between, you will get a line with him. But the phone there is never engaged,  so telepathy with God is much easier.  So, start doing telepathy with Him.  We talk to everyone here and there. We ask everyone. We don’t ask God. And when we start talking to Him, then no problem will seem like a problem.  Because when we ask God, first of all, we will get power,  and secondly, we will get a solution.  Close your eyes and hand over to Him. Now, handing over does not mean that I don’t have to do anything; You fix it.  We have to do all the work—that karma is ours.  Just remember Him with love, and keep your ego aside.  Become a child and tell Him,  "I don’t know what is right. I don’t know, I don’t know.  You tell me— whether to do this, or to do that, or to do something else, which I have not even thought of."  What to do—whether it is for yourself or for someone else, for the family.  Even a simple thing - an illness has come in the house.  You sit in silence for a minute and say, "This problem has come—please tell me, which doctor do I have to go to for this?" Just surrender this much.  We think we know which doctor to go to.  No, we don’t know. You just connect for a minute and say,  "Which doctor do I have to go to? You tell us."  And then, it will be clear whom to go to— whether it comes directly or someone suddenly says something,  or someone calls and says go to this person, not to that person.  You will get the feeling that I have received God\'s answer.  I have to do it for everything.  And as we keep doing this, with whom will our relationship develop?  Our relationship will develop with God.  And when our relationship is formed with Him, how will life be? If, in this world, someone has a relationship with a person of high stature,  then they say, "There is nothing to fear. We know him. All problems will be solved."  Do they say this or not?  Go to your home and tell your family, "There is nothing to fear."  Who do we know? There is nothing to fear. Who do we know?  There will be so much faith and confidence that will come in the relationship. We do so many experiments.  The brothers and sisters who come to the center - their family members say to them,  "Ask God and tell us what we need to do." Because they start realizing that whatever they tell is the right answer.  So they say to them, "Ask God and tell me what should I do?" Because it is just a relationship.  We did not create that relationship. Since we did not create it, we say — "What should I do? There is so much problem."  The highest power. Ready? With whom do I have to establish a relationship?  A relationship is always there, but I have to maintain it.  Just check—as soon as any situation comes up, who is the first person who comes to your mind?  Who do you want to tell that thing to?  Let’s make a circle in our mind. You just came to know about a situation —good, difficult, anything.  Whose name do you remember first, to tell about the situation? Write his name in the first circle. Then, make another circle - who else do you want to tell? Then, make a third circle - who else do you want to tell? And then see — in which circle did you write God?  If you want to ask someone something about a problem, who do you ask first?  Who do you ask second? Who do you ask third?  And in the end, when no one can resolve, you say to God, "No one is helping me—now You tell."  So instead of going to God last, when should we go to Him?  If we go to Him first, then there will be no need to go to anyone else.  Always remember that whatever is coming in my life  is the consequence of my own past karmic account. Right or wrong? Who creates my destiny?  Who all have the faith that God writes our destiny?  God does not write our destiny? So who writes our destiny? Our karmas. Simple. Who writes my destiny? My karmas.  So who wrote this situation that has come in my life and my destiny?  I wrote this. So who will change it now? Me.  So, what is the role of God in that?  God gives us the knowledge to do right karmas.  God gives us the power to do right karmas.  God gives us so much love throughout the day.  So when we get knowledge, love, and power, it becomes very easy to do elevated karmas.  But what should we focus on? Our karmas. So, we call this GPS. Whose GPS?  God’s Gyan, God’s Pyar, and God’s Shakti (GPS).  We have to do right karmas by holding on to this GPS. When we keep it white here, it means—how will our every action be throughout the day? Situations will arise in the coming times.  Only one thing can protect us,  What protects us is our karmas.  And protection does not necessarily mean that everything will be perfect outside every time, But our karmas protect us in a way that   how will our state of mind be? Strong. And with a strong state of mind, we will solve even the biggest problems.  It is not necessary that the problem is always solved,  but it is important that our state of mind should always be in control.  So, for that, we have to make a relationship with two people:  1. One with yourself.  Here, we have maintained relationships with everyone.  Everyone\'s numbers are filled in our contact list.  Everyone\'s visiting cards are kept safely.  We say - If any need arises, they will come to my aid.  When the need arises, even the family members are not at home. Sometimes, this happens.  So we have to create a relationship with two people: with ourselves and with God. Create such a relationship with God that when a situation arises,  God will not come Himself, but He will send someone who will be of help to you.  Does it happen like this, or does it not happen?  Who has experienced that someone or the other reaches to help?  This is it, isn\'t it? So, this is the result of our karmas only, isn\'t it?  But we are so entangled all day—go to this one, this one.  It will not get resolved in this way. Situations are resolved only on the basis of our karmas.'}]