7 Bài Học Từ Những Thất Bại Đầu Đời | NGƯỜI KHÔN NGOAN
Người Khôn Ngoan
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'sometimes you harm yourself'}, {'start': '244.466', 'end': '246.800', 'text': "And that's a lesson no AI warns you about early"}, {'start': '246.866', 'end': '248.533', 'text': 'Only 7 failures can be taught clearly'}, {'start': '249.400', 'end': '250.733', 'text': "when things don't go well"}, {'start': '251.166', 'end': '254.300', 'text': 'Our first reaction is often to find a reason'}, {'start': '254.900', 'end': '255.966', 'text': 'blame Circumstances'}, {'start': '256.500', 'end': '257.600', 'text': "Don't blame others"}, {'start': '258.066', 'end': '259.666', 'text': 'blame it on so-called bad luck'}, {'start': '260.133', 'end': '261.100', 'text': 'you may have thought'}, {'start': '261.533', 'end': '263.900', 'text': 'If my parents were richer, everything would be different'}, {'start': '264.266', 'end': '266.866', 'text': 'If my boss is not biased, I will be recognized'}, {'start': '267.500', 'end': '269.500', 'text': 'If I was luckier, I would have lost 07'}, {'start': 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AI often smiles at us'}, {'start': '441.566', 'end': '443.800', 'text': 'AI that calls you your friend is worth trusting'}, {'start': '444.466', 'end': '446.333', 'text': 'But the reality is not so gentle'}, {'start': '446.966', 'end': '448.533', 'text': '4 There are people who are kind on the outside'}, {'start': '448.800', 'end': '451.600', 'text': 'But if you become a little weaker, they will turn away'}, {'start': '452.066', 'end': '454.700', 'text': 'Some people give you compliments not because they like you'}, {'start': '455.100', 'end': '457.000', 'text': 'but because they need you to do something for them'}, {'start': '457.600', 'end': '460.166', 'text': 'But there are people who make you believe in a strong friendship'}, {'start': '460.466', 'end': '462.800', 'text': 'but choose to leave when you are no longer valuable'}, {'start': '463.700', 'end': '465.800', 'text': 'Such 7 defeats make you startled'}, {'start': '466.400', 'end': '467.866', 'text': "But it's also when you 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'654.400', 'text': 'if you stay quiet'}, {'start': '654.500', 'end': '656.733', 'text': 'Stop and listen to what life is whispering'}, {'start': '656.866', 'end': '657.666', 'text': 'Just For you'}, {'start': '657.933', 'end': '660.266', 'text': 'The first seven years of life often do not come lightly'}, {'start': '661.133', 'end': '663.700', 'text': 'it comes as a shock that makes you doubt yourself'}, {'start': '664.133', 'end': '667.666', 'text': 'loss of confidence and sometimes disorientation'}, {'start': '668.566', 'end': '671.166', 'text': 'but those same stumbles were silent'}, {'start': '671.266', 'end': '672.566', 'text': 'create the first foundation'}, {'start': '672.666', 'end': '674.066', 'text': 'For your inner growth'}, {'start': '674.900', 'end': '677.700', 'text': 'Every 7 defeats if you are calm enough to look back'}, {'start': '678.066', 'end': '679.500', 'text': 'Everyone carries a message'}, {'start': '680.300', 'end': '684.566', 'text': 'a lesson, a warning, an enlightenment'}, {'start': '685.533', 'end': '687.800', 'text': "You don't need to avoid the 7 failures to become strong"}, {'start': '688.766', 'end': '691.166', 'text': 'you just need to learn how to get up from there deeper'}, {'start': '691.466', 'end': '693.166', 'text': 'firmer and more alert'}, {'start': '694.000', 'end': '696.266', 'text': 'If today you are carrying within yourself the 7 defeats'}, {'start': '696.333', 'end': '697.266', 'text': "Can't name it yet"}, {'start': '697.466', 'end': '698.500', 'text': 'Please breathe slowly'}, {'start': '699.166', 'end': '702.933', 'text': "Don't force yourself to forget it or try to see it as nothing"}, {'start': '703.766', 'end': '706.533', 'text': 'Look straight and ask what this is teaching you'}, {'start': '707.466', 'end': '708.700', 'text': 'just that one question'}, {'start': '709.000', 'end': '710.533', 'text': 'enough for you to start your journey'}, {'start': '710.666', 'end': '712.166', 'text': 'truly heal and grow'}, {'start': '713.100', 'end': '713.800', 'text': 'if video'}, {'start': '713.800', 'end': '716.300', 'text': 'This makes you nod somewhere in your heart'}, {'start': '716.700', 'end': '719.733', 'text': "Please leave a comment. I'm grateful for the first seven failures of my life"}, {'start': '720.700', 'end': '722.733', 'text': "And don't forget to subscribe to the wise man channel"}, {'start': '723.300', 'end': '724.100', 'text': 'to every week'}, {'start': '724.166', 'end': '726.500', 'text': 'You have more of a forest to listen to yourself'}, {'start': '726.733', 'end': '728.133', 'text': 'Learn from things that hurt'}, {'start': '728.766', 'end': '731.266', 'text': 'and live a deeper life from within'}, {'start': '732.200', 'end': '734.766', 'text': 'See you again in the next lessons. Goodbye'}]