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[{'start': '0.599', 'end': '5.640', 'text': 'As you age, six reasons to'}, {'start': '3.800', 'end': '9.280', 'text': 'not be bothered by how others'}, {'start': '5.640', 'end': '12.160', 'text': 'treat you.  Dear friends, have'}, {'start': '9.280', 'end': '15.759', 'text': 'you ever felt heavy-hearted when'}, {'start': '12.160', 'end': '18.760', 'text': 'others treated you unkindly?  It could'}, {'start': '15.759', 'end': '21.160', 'text': 'be a co-worker, a friend, or'}, {'start': '18.760', 'end': '24.199', 'text': 'even a real'}, {'start': '21.160', 'end': '27.240', 'text': 'family member.  At those moments,'}, {'start': '24.199', 'end': '30.199', 'text': 'have you ever asked yourself if you'}, {'start': '27.240', 'end': '32.920', 'text': 'did something wrong?  Or why when'}, {'start': '30.199', 'end': '36.760', 'text': 'we give sincerity we receive'}, {'start': '32.920', 'end': '39.559', 'text': 'indifference?  But do you'}, {'start': '36.760', 'end': '42.840', 'text': 'know?  How others treat'}, {'start': '39.559', 'end': '46.840', 'text': 'us does not determine our worth'}, {'start': '42.840', 'end': '49.360', 'text': '.  Sometimes, even though you live with all your heart and'}, {'start': '46.840', 'end': '52.600', 'text': 'work with dedication, you still cannot avoid'}, {'start': '49.360', 'end': '55.640', 'text': 'criticism, slander, or even'}, {'start': '52.600', 'end': '58.320', 'text': 'exploitation of your kindness.'}, {'start': '55.640', 'end': '61.359', 'text': 'In the flow of life, everyone will at some'}, {'start': '58.320', 'end': '64.320', 'text': 'point have to face judgment,'}, {'start': '61.359', 'end': '67.840', 'text': 'gossip, contemptuous looks or'}, {'start': '64.320', 'end': '70.439', 'text': 'even rudeness from others.  Perhaps'}, {'start': '67.840', 'end': '73.960', 'text': 'you have ever put all your trust in'}, {'start': '70.439', 'end': '77.640', 'text': 'someone, wholeheartedly helped them, only to find'}, {'start': '73.960', 'end': '79.799', 'text': 'them turning their backs on you when trouble came.'}, {'start': '77.640', 'end': '82.680', 'text': 'Those things can easily hurt our hearts'}, {'start': '79.799', 'end': '85.560', 'text': 'deeply and our faith in life'}, {'start': '82.680', 'end': '88.479', 'text': 'will gradually fade away.  But the ancients said'}, {'start': '85.560', 'end': '91.720', 'text': 'so, consider those negative things'}, {'start': '88.479', 'end': '94.880', 'text': 'as a passing wind.  It comes and it'}, {'start': '91.720', 'end': '98.600', 'text': "goes.  Don't let it shake your spirit"}, {'start': '94.880', 'end': '100.759', 'text': '.  Instead of wallowing in sadness, you'}, {'start': '98.600', 'end': '103.079', 'text': 'can learn to look at'}, {'start': '100.759', 'end': '105.960', 'text': 'these situations through a'}, {'start': '103.079', 'end': '109.640', 'text': 'different lens to find peace of'}, {'start': '105.960', 'end': '112.880', 'text': 'mind.  Today the channel will explore with you'}, {'start': '109.640', 'end': '115.680', 'text': 'six reasons to stop worrying about'}, {'start': '112.880', 'end': '119.320', 'text': 'being treated badly.  Profound lessons'}, {'start': '115.680', 'end': '122.240', 'text': 'from the ancients will be the compass to help us be'}, {'start': '119.320', 'end': '125.159', 'text': 'more steadfast on the path of life.  If'}, {'start': '122.240', 'end': '128.319', 'text': 'you find these lessons useful,'}, {'start': '125.159', 'end': '131.000', 'text': "please subscribe to the channel so you don't miss out on the"}, {'start': '131.000', 'end': '136.599', 'text': 'next meaningful stories and philosophies of life.  First,'}, {'start': '134.440', 'end': '139.959', 'text': "other people's behavior cannot"}, {'start': '136.599', 'end': '142.720', 'text': 'reflect your true worth.  The'}, {'start': '139.959', 'end': '146.280', 'text': 'ancients taught that wise people do not care'}, {'start': '142.720', 'end': '150.120', 'text': 'about the teacher.  A valuable secret is never to'}, {'start': '146.280', 'end': '152.519', 'text': 'lose yourself for anyone.'}, {'start': '150.120', 'end': '156.040', 'text': "A person's value is not determined"}, {'start': '152.519', 'end': '158.640', 'text': 'by the praise or censure of others'}, {'start': '156.040', 'end': '160.680', 'text': 'but is built from their own personality and'}, {'start': '158.640', 'end': '163.800', 'text': 'virtues.'}, {'start': '160.680', 'end': '166.560', 'text': 'In the flow of Chinese history, there is a'}, {'start': '163.800', 'end': '170.040', 'text': 'famous story about a prime minister discussing'}, {'start': '166.560', 'end': '173.400', 'text': 'merits during the Sun Dynasty.  He is famous for being an'}, {'start': '170.040', 'end': '176.599', 'text': 'upright and honest person, devoted to the people'}, {'start': '173.400', 'end': '179.640', 'text': '.  But not everyone'}, {'start': '176.599', 'end': '182.159', 'text': 'loved and respected him.'}, {'start': '179.640', 'end': '185.440', 'text': 'In the court, there were people who, out of greed,'}, {'start': '182.159', 'end': '188.640', 'text': 'tried to defame him in front'}, {'start': '185.440', 'end': '191.760', 'text': 'of the king.  One day someone came to tell'}, {'start': '188.640', 'end': '195.040', 'text': 'him, "Your Excellency, there are people outside'}, {'start': '191.760', 'end': '198.640', 'text': 'slandering you and making up all kinds of bad stories'}, {'start': '195.040', 'end': '201.200', 'text': '. Don\'t you feel angry?"'}, {'start': '198.640', 'end': '204.319', 'text': 'Ban Duc not only smiled, but'}, {'start': '201.200', 'end': '207.319', 'text': 'leisurely replied, "In this world,'}, {'start': '204.319', 'end': '210.439', 'text': 'who is not gossiped about by others?'}, {'start': '207.319', 'end': '213.319', 'text': 'If I pay attention to'}, {'start': '210.439', 'end': '215.799', 'text': "those meaningless words, wouldn't I be"}, {'start': '213.319', 'end': '216.959', 'text': 'reducing my own value'}, {'start': '215.799', 'end': '220.400', 'text': '?'}, {'start': '216.959', 'end': '223.400', 'text': 'Later, those who deliberately slandered him all'}, {'start': '220.400', 'end': '225.959', 'text': 'revealed their petty and narrow-minded nature'}, {'start': '223.400', 'end': '228.920', 'text': ". While Ban Duc's merit remained intact, he"}, {'start': '228.920', 'end': '234.239', 'text': 'made the people respect him and trust him,'}, {'start': '231.319', 'end': '237.319', 'text': 'leaving behind a good reputation that would last'}, {'start': '234.239', 'end': '240.519', 'text': 'forever. This story deeply engraved in my heart'}, {'start': '237.319', 'end': '243.000', 'text': 'a valuable lesson. The way others'}, {'start': '240.519', 'end': '246.040', 'text': 'treat us does not determine'}, {'start': '243.000', 'end': '250.519', 'text': 'our value, but only reveals'}, {'start': '246.040', 'end': '253.680', 'text': 'their own character. I am nearly 70'}, {'start': '250.519', 'end': '256.199', 'text': 'years old this year, with gray hair, and have also'}, {'start': '253.680', 'end': '259.880', 'text': 'experienced many storms in'}, {'start': '256.199', 'end': '262.880', 'text': 'life. I have been looked down upon, and have been'}, {'start': '259.880', 'end': '265.840', 'text': 'slandered, but I have always kept'}, {'start': '262.880', 'end': '268.800', 'text': 'one thing in mind. No one has the right to lower'}, {'start': '265.840', 'end': '272.479', 'text': 'their value, unless we'}, {'start': '268.800', 'end': '274.960', 'text': 'allow it to happen. If I lose, I still have the card, I'}, {'start': '272.479', 'end': '278.000', 'text': 'will hold the position  management position at a'}, {'start': '274.960', 'end': '280.800', 'text': 'large factory.  I always work hard, am'}, {'start': '278.000', 'end': '283.560', 'text': 'willing to help colleagues, keep my'}, {'start': '280.800', 'end': '287.160', 'text': 'integrity and have never been involved in cheating'}, {'start': '283.560', 'end': '289.680', 'text': '.  But do you know?  There are still'}, {'start': '287.160', 'end': '292.680', 'text': "people who don't like me, still whisper"}, {'start': '289.680', 'end': '295.759', 'text': 'bad things about me.'}, {'start': '292.680', 'end': '298.560', 'text': 'Once a former colleague who was'}, {'start': '295.759', 'end': '301.039', 'text': 'jealous of my progress'}, {'start': '298.560', 'end': '305.120', 'text': 'tried every way to tarnish'}, {'start': '301.039', 'end': '307.960', 'text': 'my reputation.  He whispered to everyone:'}, {'start': '305.120', 'end': '311.120', 'text': '"I only got my position through connections, I'}, {'start': '307.960', 'end': '314.240', 'text': 'have no talent myself.'}, {'start': '311.120', 'end': '317.280', 'text': 'Those words spread like a poisonous wind'}, {'start': '314.240', 'end': '320.319', 'text': 'very quickly. Many people who believed me looked at'}, {'start': '317.280', 'end': '323.280', 'text': 'me with suspicious eyes.'}, {'start': '320.319', 'end': '327.000', 'text': 'I was very angry with that worker, I just wanted to find that person to'}, {'start': '323.280', 'end': '330.240', 'text': 'ask him to clear things up. But then I suddenly'}, {'start': '327.000', 'end': '332.840', 'text': "remembered what my grandfather had said. You don't"}, {'start': '330.240', 'end': '335.680', 'text': 'need to roar to prove that you are the King of the'}, {'start': '332.840', 'end': '338.919', 'text': "Jungle. The sky doesn't need to explain when it is"}, {'start': '335.680', 'end': '341.560', 'text': 'covered by clouds. Just do'}, {'start': '338.919', 'end': '343.360', 'text': 'your job well, time will prove'}, {'start': '341.560', 'end': '345.840', 'text': 'everything.'}, {'start': '343.360', 'end': '348.880', 'text': 'I decided to keep quiet, focusing'}, {'start': '345.840', 'end': '352.120', 'text': 'on my work. I was still willing to'}, {'start': '348.880', 'end': '354.360', 'text': 'help my colleagues as before, still'}, {'start': '352.120', 'end': '358.160', 'text': 'steadfast in my principles of life'}, {'start': '354.360', 'end': '361.759', 'text': '. Then one day, opportunity'}, {'start': '358.160', 'end': '365.240', 'text': 'smiled. The factory suddenly encountered a major incident, the whole'}, {'start': '361.759', 'end': '367.800', 'text': 'workshop became miserable and difficult. I'}, {'start': '365.240', 'end': '370.160', 'text': 'was the only one with enough experience and'}, {'start': '367.800', 'end': '373.240', 'text': 'ability to solve'}, {'start': '370.160', 'end': '376.160', 'text': 'that difficult situation. After I successfully handled the'}, {'start': '373.240', 'end': '379.280', 'text': 'incident, everyone looked at me with'}, {'start': '376.160', 'end': '382.440', 'text': 'different eyes. Those people  The people who suspected me gradually'}, {'start': '379.280', 'end': '385.120', 'text': 'became silent, and the person who spoke'}, {'start': '382.440', 'end': '389.400', 'text': 'ill of me lost all credibility in the eyes of'}, {'start': '385.120', 'end': '391.919', 'text': 'everyone.  And do you?'}, {'start': '389.400', 'end': '395.120', 'text': 'His lies were finally'}, {'start': '391.919', 'end': '399.440', 'text': 'exposed and his lies brought'}, {'start': '395.120', 'end': '402.840', 'text': 'him down.  But I still stood firm there,'}, {'start': '399.440', 'end': '405.599', 'text': 'still trusted and employed by my superiors.'}, {'start': '402.840', 'end': '408.199', 'text': "You see, other people's behavior"}, {'start': '405.599', 'end': '409.800', 'text': 'cannot reflect your true worth'}, {'start': '408.199', 'end': '412.960', 'text': '.   The'}, {'start': '409.800', 'end': '416.000', 'text': 'way they treat you is actually'}, {'start': '412.960', 'end': '418.919', 'text': 'revealing who they are.  From'}, {'start': '416.000', 'end': '422.639', 'text': 'my story, please remember'}, {'start': '418.919', 'end': '425.280', 'text': 'that when someone speaks ill of you,'}, {'start': '422.639', 'end': '428.400', 'text': 'it only proves'}, {'start': '425.280', 'end': '431.599', 'text': 'their narrow-mindedness, not your'}, {'start': '428.400', 'end': '434.720', 'text': 'incompetence.  When someone treats'}, {'start': '431.599', 'end': '437.879', 'text': 'you unkindly, it only reflects'}, {'start': '434.720', 'end': '441.120', 'text': 'their own heart and does not diminish'}, {'start': '437.879', 'end': '444.080', 'text': 'your worth.  You just need to live'}, {'start': '441.120', 'end': '447.800', 'text': 'well, time will prove'}, {'start': '444.080', 'end': '450.800', 'text': 'everything.  The ancients said: "A righteous tree is not afraid of'}, {'start': '447.800', 'end': '453.160', 'text': 'dying standing, a person who lives uprightly, has a'}, {'start': '450.800', 'end': '455.800', 'text': 'noble character, does not need to'}, {'start': '453.160', 'end': '459.960', 'text': 'worry about'}, {'start': '455.800', 'end': '463.039', 'text': 'baseless gossip or the saying: "Dogs keep barking, the caravan'}, {'start': '459.960', 'end': '465.800', 'text': 'keeps moving." Those who are petty and'}, {'start': '463.039', 'end': '469.039', 'text': 'narrow-minded will eventually harm'}, {'start': '465.800', 'end': '472.080', 'text': 'themselves. As for you, just keep'}, {'start': '469.039', 'end': '474.520', 'text': 'living your life with confidence, because your'}, {'start': '472.080', 'end': '477.639', 'text': 'value is not'}, {'start': '474.520', 'end': '481.479', 'text': 'decided by others but is'}, {'start': '477.639', 'end': '483.960', 'text': 'created by you yourself. Or the second reason,'}, {'start': '481.479', 'end': '487.240', 'text': 'you cannot please'}, {'start': '483.960', 'end': '489.879', 'text': 'everyone in the world. The ancients said:'}, {'start': '487.240', 'end': '491.440', 'text': '"If you want to live in peace, do not try to'}, {'start': '489.879', 'end': '493.960', 'text': 'please everyone."'}, {'start': '491.440', 'end': '497.199', 'text': 'This is a very profound lesson.'}, {'start': '493.960', 'end': '500.759', 'text': 'Because in this life, no matter'}, {'start': '497.199', 'end': '503.080', 'text': 'how hard you try, how well you do, there'}, {'start': '500.759', 'end': '506.080', 'text': 'will always be people who feel'}, {'start': '503.080', 'end': '509.159', 'text': 'dissatisfied. There is a story'}, {'start': '506.080', 'end': '512.800', 'text': 'about Confucius and his young student'}, {'start': '509.159', 'end': '516.640', 'text': '. One day, the two of them'}, {'start': '512.800', 'end': '518.839', 'text': 'walked through a crowded market.'}, {'start': '516.640', 'end': '522.159', 'text': 'When he saw a poor man'}, {'start': '518.839', 'end': '525.399', 'text': 'begging for alms,'}, {'start': '522.159', 'end': '528.000', 'text': 'Confucius stopped, took out some money'}, {'start': '525.399', 'end': '531.399', 'text': "and gently placed it in the man's bowl"}, {'start': '528.000', 'end': '535.240', 'text': '.  After walking a mile, the'}, {'start': '531.399', 'end': '538.079', 'text': 'young student spoke up to his teacher and said, "Teacher,'}, {'start': '535.240', 'end': '541.480', 'text': 'the world might say that you did that'}, {'start': '538.079', 'end': '544.200', 'text': 'to show off your false kindness."  Why are'}, {'start': '541.480', 'end': '547.600', 'text': 'you so upset by those negative words'}, {'start': '544.200', 'end': '551.279', 'text': '?  Confucius just smiled and continued'}, {'start': '547.600', 'end': '554.519', 'text': 'walking leisurely.  A moment later, seeing a'}, {'start': '551.279', 'end': '557.120', 'text': 'group of children playing, he stopped and'}, {'start': '554.519', 'end': '560.240', 'text': 'talked to them kindly, advising'}, {'start': '557.120', 'end': '562.720', 'text': 'them to be polite to adults and'}, {'start': '560.240', 'end': '565.680', 'text': 'study hard so that they could become useful members of society in the future'}, {'start': '562.720', 'end': '568.760', 'text': '.  The student'}, {'start': '565.680', 'end': '571.600', 'text': 'was confused again.  But sir, surely'}, {'start': '568.760', 'end': '575.279', 'text': 'some people will say that you are'}, {'start': '571.600', 'end': '578.240', 'text': 'preaching.  Confucius remained silent.  just keep'}, {'start': '575.279', 'end': '581.079', 'text': 'walking  A moment later, a'}, {'start': '578.240', 'end': '584.200', 'text': 'middle-aged man bowed to him with great'}, {'start': '581.079', 'end': '587.760', 'text': 'respect.  Confucius responded with a'}, {'start': '584.200', 'end': '589.920', 'text': 'gentle, calm nod.   The'}, {'start': '587.760', 'end': '592.959', 'text': 'student continued to wonder'}, {'start': '589.920', 'end': '595.760', 'text': '.  But sir, if you'}, {'start': '592.959', 'end': '598.959', 'text': "don't return the greeting by bowing,"}, {'start': '595.760', 'end': '602.079', 'text': 'people will say you are arrogant.  But if'}, {'start': '598.959', 'end': '605.279', 'text': 'he leans in, people will say he is'}, {'start': '602.079', 'end': '608.120', 'text': 'trying to please others.  At this point,'}, {'start': '605.279', 'end': '611.640', 'text': 'Confucius turned back and gently'}, {'start': '608.120', 'end': '615.880', 'text': 'explained, "You see, no matter what I do'}, {'start': '611.640', 'end': '618.320', 'text': ', there will always be people who praise and criticize me."  If'}, {'start': '615.880', 'end': '621.440', 'text': 'we keep living in the bondage of other'}, {'start': '618.320', 'end': '624.440', 'text': "people's opinions, our whole life will be spent"}, {'start': '621.440', 'end': '626.760', 'text': 'chasing the shadow of the galaxy and'}, {'start': '624.440', 'end': '629.640', 'text': 'never finding a way to live'}, {'start': '626.760', 'end': '632.519', 'text': 'for ourselves.  That story'}, {'start': '629.640', 'end': '635.519', 'text': 'clearly proves that no matter what you are'}, {'start': '632.519', 'end': '638.880', 'text': ", the cicada's voice always"}, {'start': '635.519', 'end': '642.160', 'text': 'exists.  So why try so hard to'}, {'start': '638.880', 'end': '645.360', 'text': 'please everyone instead of being free to live true'}, {'start': '642.160', 'end': '649.000', 'text': 'to yourself.  I am seventy years old this year'}, {'start': '645.360', 'end': '651.320', 'text': ', my hair is gray, my eyes are dim.'}, {'start': '649.000', 'end': '654.639', 'text': 'But I understand one thing more deeply than anyone'}, {'start': '651.320', 'end': '657.560', 'text': '.  No matter how good you are, you'}, {'start': '654.639', 'end': '661.120', 'text': 'cannot'}, {'start': '657.560', 'end': '664.399', 'text': 'please everyone.  When I was in my'}, {'start': '661.120', 'end': '667.320', 'text': 'twenties.  I used to naively think that if'}, {'start': '664.399', 'end': '670.519', 'text': 'I lived honestly and treated'}, {'start': '667.320', 'end': '673.519', 'text': 'everyone kindly, everyone would'}, {'start': '670.519', 'end': '676.720', 'text': 'love me.  But life is not'}, {'start': '673.519', 'end': '678.760', 'text': 'that simple.  I still remember clearly'}, {'start': '676.720', 'end': '682.079', 'text': 'the time I owned a small grocery store'}, {'start': '678.760', 'end': '685.200', 'text': 'in the countryside.  I always do business'}, {'start': '682.079', 'end': '687.560', 'text': 'honestly, measure and weigh everything without error,'}, {'start': '685.200', 'end': '690.560', 'text': 'and even share some snacks'}, {'start': '687.560', 'end': '694.079', 'text': 'with poor children.  I was sure'}, {'start': '690.560', 'end': '697.200', 'text': 'that with that kindness, I would'}, {'start': '694.079', 'end': '700.320', 'text': 'receive love from everyone.  But do'}, {'start': '697.200', 'end': '703.480', 'text': 'you know?  Is there anyone who wants to say that'}, {'start': '700.320', 'end': '706.440', 'text': 'I am fake?  That I do it just'}, {'start': '703.480', 'end': '709.320', 'text': 'to please customers?  Some people say'}, {'start': '706.440', 'end': '711.720', 'text': "I'm stupid to give away everything for"}, {'start': '709.320', 'end': '715.160', 'text': 'free like that, how can I get rich'}, {'start': '711.720', 'end': '718.279', 'text': '?  They whispered behind my back, even'}, {'start': '715.160', 'end': '720.800', 'text': 'saying bad things.  He did it'}, {'start': '718.279', 'end': '724.880', 'text': 'just to have a good reputation later, not for any good'}, {'start': '720.800', 'end': '727.800', 'text': '.  At that time my heart was infinitely sad.'}, {'start': '724.880', 'end': '730.360', 'text': 'I wonder what I did wrong'}, {'start': '727.800', 'end': '734.040', 'text': '?  Why do I have to put up with'}, {'start': '730.360', 'end': '736.639', 'text': 'such talk?  Then after a while I'}, {'start': '734.040', 'end': '739.959', 'text': 'decided to cut down on gifts and'}, {'start': '736.639', 'end': '743.079', 'text': 'only sell goods at the listed price.'}, {'start': '739.959', 'end': '746.680', 'text': 'Then someone spoke up, see'}, {'start': '743.079', 'end': '750.120', 'text': "?  Pretended to be nice before, now it's"}, {'start': '746.680', 'end': '752.199', 'text': 'no different.  I suddenly realized that'}, {'start': '750.120', 'end': '755.279', 'text': 'no matter what I did, I'}, {'start': '752.199', 'end': '758.600', 'text': 'could not please'}, {'start': '755.279', 'end': '761.440', 'text': 'everyone.  Later I became close friends'}, {'start': '758.600', 'end': '764.000', 'text': 'with a close friend.  He is an'}, {'start': '761.440', 'end': '767.360', 'text': 'upright man, always willing'}, {'start': '764.000', 'end': '770.040', 'text': 'to help people.  Yet even he'}, {'start': '767.360', 'end': '772.920', 'text': 'was criticized and judged by the world'}, {'start': '770.040', 'end': '776.480', 'text': '.  My friend has two'}, {'start': '772.920', 'end': '779.360', 'text': 'sons.  He worked hard to raise and educate his'}, {'start': '776.480', 'end': '782.279', 'text': 'children to become successful.  When the two'}, {'start': '779.360', 'end': '785.160', 'text': 'got married, he sold all the land,'}, {'start': '782.279', 'end': '788.199', 'text': 'divided half of it into capital, and kept'}, {'start': '785.160', 'end': '791.480', 'text': 'the other half for his retirement.  But the'}, {'start': '788.199', 'end': '794.199', 'text': 'neighbors gossiped.  Why'}, {'start': '791.480', 'end': '796.880', 'text': 'is he so stingy?  Children are'}, {'start': '794.199', 'end': '800.079', 'text': 'already settled down, why do you still hold on to your wealth'}, {'start': '796.880', 'end': '802.760', 'text': "?  A few years later, seeing his son's"}, {'start': '800.079', 'end': '806.199', 'text': 'business facing difficulties, he used the rest of his'}, {'start': '802.760', 'end': '809.760', 'text': 'retirement money to help.  This time the'}, {'start': '806.199', 'end': '812.079', 'text': 'world changed its tune, so did he teach too much to save'}, {'start': '809.760', 'end': '815.279', 'text': 'that money to take care of himself when he was old'}, {'start': '812.079', 'end': '818.320', 'text': '?  Who will take care of him when he is'}, {'start': '815.279', 'end': '820.760', 'text': 'sick?  Do you see?  No matter'}, {'start': '818.320', 'end': '824.079', 'text': 'what we do, there will always be'}, {'start': '820.760', 'end': '827.600', 'text': 'someone to criticize.  So ladies and'}, {'start': '824.079', 'end': '830.639', 'text': 'gentlemen, if we spend our whole lives chasing after'}, {'start': '827.600', 'end': '833.399', 'text': 'the satisfaction of others, we will'}, {'start': '830.639', 'end': '836.639', 'text': 'never be able to live fully as'}, {'start': '833.399', 'end': '839.800', 'text': 'ourselves.  The ancients taught that if we are rich'}, {'start': '836.639', 'end': '842.519', 'text': ', people will say we are stingy and mean.'}, {'start': '839.800', 'end': '846.000', 'text': 'If we are poor, people will say we are'}, {'start': '842.519', 'end': '849.199', 'text': 'useless and incompetent.  If we are gentle, they say'}, {'start': '846.000', 'end': '852.079', 'text': 'we are weak and cowardly.  If we are tough,'}, {'start': '849.199', 'end': '854.920', 'text': 'they will say we are autocratic.  If'}, {'start': '852.079', 'end': '858.600', 'text': 'we live for others, they will call us'}, {'start': '854.920', 'end': '861.680', 'text': 'hypocrites.  But if we live for'}, {'start': '858.600', 'end': '865.240', 'text': 'ourselves, they will think we are selfish and'}, {'start': '861.680', 'end': '867.560', 'text': 'only care about ourselves.  So why'}, {'start': '865.240', 'end': '870.839', 'text': 'bother so much about worldly gossip'}, {'start': '867.560', 'end': '874.040', 'text': '?  Just live peacefully'}, {'start': '870.839', 'end': '877.000', 'text': ', be true to yourself, treat'}, {'start': '874.040', 'end': '879.959', 'text': 'people you want to treat well, and do'}, {'start': '877.000', 'end': '883.440', 'text': 'things that you consider to be'}, {'start': '879.959', 'end': '886.959', 'text': 'right.  If anyone understands, that is a good thing'}, {'start': '883.440', 'end': '889.800', 'text': ".  It's okay if you don't understand."}, {'start': '886.959', 'end': '892.839', 'text': 'People can say whatever they'}, {'start': '889.800', 'end': '895.240', 'text': 'want, but it is you who'}, {'start': '892.839', 'end': '897.959', 'text': 'decides where your life goes'}, {'start': '895.240', 'end': '901.000', 'text': '.  Live so that your heart is always at'}, {'start': '897.959', 'end': '904.600', 'text': 'peace, do not worry or accept'}, {'start': '901.000', 'end': '907.040', 'text': 'worthless words.  Third reason,'}, {'start': '904.600', 'end': '910.160', 'text': "in this human world, people's hearts are"}, {'start': '907.040', 'end': '912.680', 'text': 'more complicated than you think.  The ancients said that'}, {'start': '910.160', 'end': '916.079', 'text': 'looking at people with the eyes is not necessarily'}, {'start': '912.680', 'end': '918.680', 'text': 'thorough, you have to look with the heart.'}, {'start': '916.079', 'end': '922.160', 'text': 'The ancients understood early on that the'}, {'start': '918.680', 'end': '924.480', 'text': 'human heart is extremely difficult to predict.'}, {'start': '922.160', 'end': '927.560', 'text': 'Not everyone who treats you well'}, {'start': '924.480', 'end': '930.319', 'text': 'today is truly sincere.  There are'}, {'start': '927.560', 'end': '933.360', 'text': 'people who stay by our side when we are rich but'}, {'start': '930.319', 'end': '936.000', 'text': 'turn their backs when we are in trouble.'}, {'start': '933.360', 'end': '939.240', 'text': 'There is a story about the commoner Su'}, {'start': '936.000', 'end': '941.880', 'text': 'Dongpo and his friend Chi Qi Chi Qi.'}, {'start': '939.240', 'end': '944.680', 'text': 'Su Dongpo was a famous scholar of the'}, {'start': '941.880', 'end': '948.279', 'text': 'Song Dynasty,'}, {'start': '944.680', 'end': '951.480', 'text': 'respected and admired by many people.  He has a very'}, {'start': '948.279', 'end': '954.279', 'text': 'close friend, who often comes'}, {'start': '951.480', 'end': '957.560', 'text': 'together to enjoy wine, recite poetry, and share'}, {'start': '954.279', 'end': '960.199', 'text': 'all the joys and sorrows in life.  Su Dongpo'}, {'start': '957.560', 'end': '963.480', 'text': 'trusted this friend absolutely and considered him a'}, {'start': '960.199', 'end': '966.079', 'text': 'confidant.  Then one'}, {'start': '963.480', 'end': '968.959', 'text': 'day, he encountered a major incident on'}, {'start': '966.079', 'end': '972.480', 'text': 'Quang Lo Street and was demoted.  assets'}, {'start': '968.959', 'end': '975.480', 'text': 'also depreciated a lot.  At this time he'}, {'start': '972.480', 'end': '978.560', 'text': 'needed some money to make ends meet, so'}, {'start': '975.480', 'end': '981.240', 'text': 'he went to his old friend to'}, {'start': '978.560', 'end': '984.240', 'text': 'borrow some.  But that person not only'}, {'start': '981.240', 'end': '986.880', 'text': 'flatly refused but also avoided him,'}, {'start': '984.240', 'end': '989.959', 'text': 'not daring to meet him, afraid that he would be'}, {'start': '986.880', 'end': '992.639', 'text': 'implicated.  Su Dongpo was extremely disappointed,'}, {'start': '989.959', 'end': '996.600', 'text': 'but then he quietly pondered and'}, {'start': '992.639', 'end': '999.720', 'text': 'sighed softly.  The one who is close to you when you have money,'}, {'start': '996.600', 'end': '1002.680', 'text': 'turns his back when you have nothing.  This'}, {'start': '999.720', 'end': '1005.519', 'text': 'is not my fault but because people are inherently'}, {'start': '1002.680', 'end': '1008.519', 'text': 'fickle.  This story'}, {'start': '1005.519', 'end': '1011.440', 'text': 'tells us something profound.  Not'}, {'start': '1008.519', 'end': '1013.759', 'text': 'everyone is sincere with us and'}, {'start': '1011.440', 'end': '1017.040', 'text': 'not every relationship can'}, {'start': '1013.759', 'end': '1018.639', 'text': 'last over time.  I am 73'}, {'start': '1017.040', 'end': '1021.880', 'text': 'years old this year'}, {'start': '1018.639', 'end': '1024.520', 'text': ', have gone through many ups and downs in'}, {'start': '1021.880', 'end': '1028.520', 'text': 'life, witnessed many scenes of'}, {'start': '1024.520', 'end': '1031.319', 'text': "people changing, people's hearts becoming ungrateful.  There is one"}, {'start': '1028.520', 'end': '1034.079', 'text': "thing I have learned.   Don't be"}, {'start': '1031.319', 'end': '1037.120', 'text': 'quick to think that someone who treats'}, {'start': '1034.079', 'end': '1040.400', 'text': 'you well today will be good to you'}, {'start': '1037.120', 'end': '1043.559', 'text': "forever.  Don't put all your trust in"}, {'start': '1040.400', 'end': '1045.959', 'text': 'anyone in this life.'}, {'start': '1043.559', 'end': '1050.200', 'text': "Because people's hearts can change over"}, {'start': '1045.959', 'end': '1053.200', 'text': 'time and circumstances.  When I was young, I believed'}, {'start': '1050.200', 'end': '1056.120', 'text': 'in brotherhood.  I believe'}, {'start': '1053.200', 'end': '1058.960', 'text': 'that when I help someone, they'}, {'start': '1056.120', 'end': '1061.679', 'text': 'will be grateful.  But life'}, {'start': '1058.960', 'end': '1064.400', 'text': "doesn't work that way.  I used to have"}, {'start': '1061.679', 'end': '1067.320', 'text': 'a very close friend, close to me since the'}, {'start': '1064.400', 'end': '1069.919', 'text': 'days of poverty.  I consider him as my'}, {'start': '1067.320', 'end': '1073.880', 'text': 'own brother, willing to confide in him about anything'}, {'start': '1069.919', 'end': '1076.880', 'text': '.  Even when he'}, {'start': '1073.880', 'end': '1079.760', 'text': 'was in trouble, I did not hesitate to'}, {'start': '1076.880', 'end': '1082.960', 'text': 'lend him a large sum of money to help him'}, {'start': '1079.760', 'end': '1085.960', 'text': 'have capital to build his career.  At'}, {'start': '1082.960', 'end': '1088.760', 'text': 'that time I did not ask him to'}, {'start': '1085.960', 'end': '1091.880', 'text': 'return it immediately.  I just hope'}, {'start': '1088.760', 'end': '1094.679', 'text': 'his business will improve so that we'}, {'start': '1091.880', 'end': '1097.600', 'text': 'can happily reunite again.  But do'}, {'start': '1094.679', 'end': '1100.440', 'text': 'you know?  When I was'}, {'start': '1097.600', 'end': '1103.799', 'text': 'in trouble and needed help, I'}, {'start': '1100.440', 'end': '1107.200', 'text': 'turned to him.  At this time he used the'}, {'start': '1103.799', 'end': '1109.799', 'text': 'excuse of being busy to avoid me,'}, {'start': '1107.200', 'end': '1112.440', 'text': 'even saying something.  I am also having'}, {'start': '1109.799', 'end': '1115.440', 'text': 'a lot of difficulties.  Please forgive'}, {'start': '1112.440', 'end': '1118.080', 'text': 'me.  I understand his suffering'}, {'start': '1115.440', 'end': '1122.240', 'text': "but still can't help but"}, {'start': '1118.080', 'end': '1124.880', 'text': 'feel sad and resentful.  Later I'}, {'start': '1122.240', 'end': '1127.720', 'text': 'heard that he was still doing well in business and had'}, {'start': '1124.880', 'end': '1131.080', 'text': 'even just bought a'}, {'start': '1127.720', 'end': '1133.640', 'text': 'new, nice house.  But do you know'}, {'start': '1131.080', 'end': '1136.400', 'text': '?  What hurts me the most'}, {'start': '1133.640', 'end': '1139.000', 'text': 'is not the amount of money I lent,'}, {'start': '1136.400', 'end': '1141.960', 'text': 'but how people can easily forget'}, {'start': '1139.000', 'end': '1145.159', 'text': 'gratitude for personal and'}, {'start': '1141.960', 'end': '1148.000', 'text': 'material gain.  The human heart is really hard to'}, {'start': '1145.159', 'end': '1150.000', 'text': 'grasp.  I have also witnessed'}, {'start': '1148.000', 'end': '1153.760', 'text': 'many other heartbreaking stories in'}, {'start': '1150.000', 'end': '1157.720', 'text': 'this life.  In my hometown there is an old'}, {'start': '1153.760', 'end': '1160.960', 'text': 'man named Mr. Hung.  In his youth, he had'}, {'start': '1157.720', 'end': '1164.080', 'text': 'two sons.  He'}, {'start': '1160.960', 'end': '1166.480', 'text': 'worked hard and saved every penny'}, {'start': '1164.080', 'end': '1169.640', 'text': 'to give his children an education'}, {'start': '1166.480', 'end': '1172.559', 'text': '.  When they grew up and had their'}, {'start': '1169.640', 'end': '1175.720', 'text': 'own families, he spared no expense in spending all his'}, {'start': '1172.559', 'end': '1178.720', 'text': 'money on buying a house, helping them'}, {'start': '1175.720', 'end': '1181.280', 'text': 'have a stable and fulfilling life of their own.'}, {'start': '1178.720', 'end': '1184.400', 'text': 'In his heart, he always thought that if'}, {'start': '1181.280', 'end': '1187.039', 'text': 'parents sacrificed for their children, when they were old and'}, {'start': '1184.400', 'end': '1190.440', 'text': 'weak, their children would surely return to'}, {'start': '1187.039', 'end': '1193.280', 'text': 'take care of them.  But alas, life is not so'}, {'start': '1190.440', 'end': '1196.080', 'text': 'simple as this man grew'}, {'start': '1193.280', 'end': '1198.720', 'text': 'old and weak, no longer strong enough to take care of'}, {'start': '1196.080', 'end': '1202.360', 'text': 'himself, his two children gradually became'}, {'start': '1198.720', 'end': '1205.000', 'text': 'distant and rarely visited each other.  In the beginning,'}, {'start': '1202.360', 'end': '1208.280', 'text': 'they also provided money and occasionally'}, {'start': '1205.000', 'end': '1211.120', 'text': 'visited.  But then the visits'}, {'start': '1208.280', 'end': '1214.280', 'text': 'became less frequent and the deposits'}, {'start': '1211.120', 'end': '1217.400', 'text': "stopped.  The old man's heart ached"}, {'start': '1214.280', 'end': '1220.200', 'text': 'but he still told himself that his children were'}, {'start': '1217.400', 'end': '1223.120', 'text': 'busy with their own lives and he'}, {'start': '1220.200', 'end': '1226.039', 'text': 'should not bother them.  Until one'}, {'start': '1223.120', 'end': '1229.600', 'text': 'day he fell seriously ill and needed someone to'}, {'start': '1226.039', 'end': '1232.240', 'text': 'take care of him.  He called his children'}, {'start': '1229.600', 'end': '1235.280', 'text': 'but one of them made an excuse that he was working far away.'}, {'start': '1232.240', 'end': '1238.799', 'text': 'The other said, "Dad, go to the hospital'}, {'start': '1235.280', 'end': '1242.240', 'text': "and hire a nurse to take care of you. I'm"}, {'start': '1238.799', 'end': '1244.720', 'text': 'so busy I can\'t arrange to come back."  At that'}, {'start': '1242.240', 'end': '1247.880', 'text': 'time, the old man truly realized one'}, {'start': '1244.720', 'end': '1250.919', 'text': 'thing: not every sacrifice'}, {'start': '1247.880', 'end': '1254.240', 'text': 'will be rewarded.  Not every'}, {'start': '1250.919', 'end': '1257.520', 'text': 'time you treat others well, they'}, {'start': '1254.240', 'end': '1260.960', 'text': 'will treat you with all'}, {'start': '1257.520', 'end': '1263.360', 'text': 'sincerity.  Dear friends, please do not be too'}, {'start': '1260.960', 'end': '1266.400', 'text': 'sad or disappointed when witnessing'}, {'start': '1263.360', 'end': '1269.280', 'text': "people's hearts change.  That is the eternal law"}, {'start': '1266.400', 'end': '1272.200', 'text': 'of this life.  The ancients have burned the'}, {'start': '1269.280', 'end': '1276.039', 'text': 'knot, deep water is calm, human heart is hard to'}, {'start': '1272.200', 'end': '1278.679', 'text': 'fathom.  Who can be sure that the person who treats us well today will'}, {'start': '1276.039', 'end': '1282.720', 'text': 'still keep that'}, {'start': '1278.679', 'end': '1285.400', 'text': 'kindness tomorrow?  So please'}, {'start': '1282.720', 'end': '1287.919', 'text': 'live your life to the fullest,'}, {'start': '1285.400', 'end': '1290.720', 'text': "but please don't put too much hope in"}, {'start': '1287.919', 'end': '1293.679', 'text': 'other people.  Keep yourself'}, {'start': '1290.720', 'end': '1296.960', 'text': "sane.  Don't be too quick to give your"}, {'start': '1293.679', 'end': '1299.720', 'text': 'full trust to anyone.  Because in'}, {'start': '1296.960', 'end': '1303.200', 'text': 'this world, no one is forever sincere'}, {'start': '1299.720', 'end': '1306.120', 'text': 'with us unconditionally.'}, {'start': '1303.200', 'end': '1309.400', 'text': 'Fourth, you have more important things'}, {'start': '1306.120', 'end': '1312.320', 'text': 'to worry about.  The ancients said'}, {'start': '1309.400', 'end': '1315.360', 'text': ': "Don\'t let small things make you'}, {'start': '1312.320', 'end': '1317.720', 'text': 'forget the great values.'}, {'start': '1315.360', 'end': '1321.600', 'text': 'People seem to have a strange habit'}, {'start': '1317.720', 'end': '1324.799', 'text': ', the older they get, the more they look back to the'}, {'start': '1321.600', 'end': '1327.480', 'text': 'past, the more easily they indulge in'}, {'start': '1324.799', 'end': '1329.760', 'text': 'negative thoughts. Instead of focusing on the'}, {'start': '1327.480', 'end': '1332.760', 'text': 'truly meaningful things in life'}, {'start': '1329.760', 'end': '1336.200', 'text': 'today. There is a famous story about'}, {'start': '1332.760', 'end': '1339.000', 'text': 'Su Dongpo and Zen master Fo Yin. One'}, {'start': '1336.200', 'end': '1341.919', 'text': 'day, Su Dongpo came to Fo Yin and'}, {'start': '1339.000', 'end': '1344.679', 'text': 'complained, "Life is so full of'}, {'start': '1341.919', 'end': '1348.400', 'text': 'sorrows." The more he thought about it, the heavier his heart felt'}, {'start': '1344.679', 'end': '1351.080', 'text': '. People treated him unfairly, the'}, {'start': '1348.400', 'end': '1354.240', 'text': 'unhappy things kept haunting him, he could'}, {'start': '1351.080', 'end': '1357.760', 'text': 'not forget. Fo Yin smiled'}, {'start': '1354.240', 'end': '1360.000', 'text': 'kindly, said nothing. He just gave'}, {'start': '1357.760', 'end': '1363.640', 'text': 'me Dongpo a bowl full of water'}, {'start': '1360.000', 'end': '1365.720', 'text': 'and said, "Please take this bowl of water and walk'}, {'start': '1363.640', 'end': '1368.880', 'text': 'around the Zen monastery once.'}, {'start': '1365.720', 'end': '1371.679', 'text': 'But please remember, if you let even'}, {'start': '1368.880', 'end': '1374.640', 'text': 'a drop of water fall, I will severely'}, {'start': '1371.679', 'end': '1377.840', 'text': 'punish you.  Su Dongpo carefully lifted the bowl of'}, {'start': '1374.640', 'end': '1381.120', 'text': 'water, step by step slowly, his eyes not'}, {'start': '1377.840', 'end': '1384.159', 'text': 'daring to leave the water surface.  When he returned, he'}, {'start': '1381.120', 'end': '1386.919', 'text': 'happily replied, "Master, I'}, {'start': '1384.159', 'end': '1390.080', 'text': 'did not spill a single drop of water."'}, {'start': '1386.919', 'end': '1392.240', 'text': 'Buddha Seal gently asked again, "So while'}, {'start': '1390.080', 'end': '1395.200', 'text': 'walking around the temple, did you still think about'}, {'start': '1392.240', 'end': '1398.720', 'text': 'who treated your profession badly? At'}, {'start': '1395.200', 'end': '1401.679', 'text': 'this moment, Su Dong Pha was suddenly stunned. He'}, {'start': '1398.720', 'end': '1404.480', 'text': 'suddenly realized that when his mind was'}, {'start': '1401.679', 'end': '1407.080', 'text': 'completely focused on something important,'}, {'start': '1404.480', 'end': '1410.279', 'text': 'all the'}, {'start': '1407.080', 'end': '1412.799', 'text': 'previous worries and troubles would automatically disappear. When'}, {'start': '1410.279', 'end': '1416.279', 'text': 'this story reminds us of a profound lesson'}, {'start': '1412.799', 'end': '1419.720', 'text': '. This life still has so many things worth'}, {'start': '1416.279', 'end': '1422.080', 'text': 'devoting our whole energy to. If you'}, {'start': '1419.720', 'end': '1425.919', 'text': 'keep immersing yourself in the sad things of the'}, {'start': '1422.080', 'end': '1428.279', 'text': 'past, you will miss the precious opportunity to'}, {'start': '1425.919', 'end': '1432.600', 'text': 'enjoy the joy of the present moment'}, {'start': '1428.279', 'end': '1435.120', 'text': '. I am 74 years old this year and have gone through so'}, {'start': '1432.600', 'end': '1438.440', 'text': 'many ups and downs in'}, {'start': '1435.120', 'end': '1441.880', 'text': 'life. Only now do I truly understand'}, {'start': '1438.440', 'end': '1444.360', 'text': 'one thing, the older I get, the more I have to learn to'}, {'start': '1441.880', 'end': '1448.000', 'text': 'let go of things that are not worth'}, {'start': '1444.360', 'end': '1450.960', 'text': 'worrying about. Ladies and gentlemen,'}, {'start': '1448.000', 'end': '1453.360', 'text': 'have you noticed? There are many people'}, {'start': '1450.960', 'end': '1456.640', 'text': 'who keep thinking about sad things in'}, {'start': '1453.360', 'end': '1460.080', 'text': 'the past, always upset about those who have'}, {'start': '1456.640', 'end': '1462.520', 'text': 'treated them badly, forgetting'}, {'start': '1460.080', 'end': '1466.080', 'text': 'that life in the present still has a'}, {'start': '1462.520', 'end': '1468.720', 'text': 'lot of joy and meaning.  waiting'}, {'start': '1466.080', 'end': '1472.279', 'text': 'I have a very close old friend named'}, {'start': '1468.720', 'end': '1475.320', 'text': 'Mrs. Lien, who is over 70 years old this year.'}, {'start': '1472.279', 'end': '1478.559', 'text': 'Before, she lived a life of sacrifice,'}, {'start': '1475.320', 'end': '1481.440', 'text': 'devoted to her husband and children to take care of her family.'}, {'start': '1478.559', 'end': '1484.760', 'text': 'But when she got old, she often'}, {'start': '1481.440', 'end': '1487.559', 'text': 'felt sad because she felt that her children no longer'}, {'start': '1484.760', 'end': '1490.440', 'text': 'cared about her as much as before.'}, {'start': '1487.559', 'end': '1493.480', 'text': "She often confided in me.  I don't"}, {'start': '1490.440', 'end': '1496.120', 'text': 'understand why in the past, while raising children was'}, {'start': '1493.480', 'end': '1499.520', 'text': 'so difficult, I never thought about'}, {'start': '1496.120', 'end': '1501.600', 'text': 'myself.  Now I am old and weak, I just wish'}, {'start': '1499.520', 'end': '1504.880', 'text': 'they would spare me some time to'}, {'start': '1501.600', 'end': '1507.960', 'text': 'ask but it is too difficult.  Every time I'}, {'start': '1504.880', 'end': '1510.760', 'text': 'call, my child says he is busy, I feel'}, {'start': '1507.960', 'end': '1513.840', 'text': 'so sad.  Every day she kept'}, {'start': '1510.760', 'end': '1516.919', 'text': 'thinking about it and felt sad and'}, {'start': '1513.840', 'end': '1520.159', 'text': 'depressed, and her health'}, {'start': '1516.919', 'end': '1522.919', 'text': 'gradually declined.  I gently advised her,'}, {'start': '1520.159', 'end': '1526.159', 'text': '"Do you remember when you were young, there was'}, {'start': '1522.919', 'end': '1528.720', 'text': 'never a day of real free time?'}, {'start': '1526.159', 'end': '1531.640', 'text': 'When we were working, we were always'}, {'start': '1528.720', 'end': '1534.200', 'text': 'busy with work and life.'}, {'start': '1531.640', 'end': '1537.679', 'text': "Sometimes we couldn't visit our"}, {'start': '1534.200', 'end': '1540.360', 'text': 'parents even once a week. You blame your child,'}, {'start': '1537.679', 'end': '1542.760', 'text': 'but have you ever thought about how'}, {'start': '1540.360', 'end': '1546.159', 'text': 'busy you were when you were young?"'}, {'start': '1542.760', 'end': '1549.960', 'text': 'After listening, Mrs. Lien quietly'}, {'start': '1546.159', 'end': '1552.640', 'text': 'thought for a moment and then sighed softly. I continued, "'}, {'start': '1549.960', 'end': '1555.120', 'text': 'Now you are still in good health, have'}, {'start': '1552.640', 'end': '1558.000', 'text': 'close friends, and have'}, {'start': '1555.120', 'end': '1561.320', 'text': "kind neighbors.  Why don't you spend"}, {'start': '1558.000', 'end': '1564.720', 'text': 'that time traveling, having fun with'}, {'start': '1561.320', 'end': '1567.279', 'text': 'friends, enjoying the pleasures of old age'}, {'start': '1564.720', 'end': '1570.880', 'text': 'instead of letting your mind get caught up in'}, {'start': '1567.279', 'end': '1574.159', 'text': 'those trivial things?  After that conversation, Ms.'}, {'start': '1570.880', 'end': '1576.679', 'text': 'Lien seemed to have really changed.  She'}, {'start': '1574.159', 'end': '1579.480', 'text': 'started going to the morning gym, joined a'}, {'start': '1576.679', 'end': '1582.520', 'text': 'health club, spent'}, {'start': '1579.480', 'end': '1586.200', 'text': 'more time chatting and sharing with'}, {'start': '1582.520', 'end': '1589.320', 'text': 'friends, and felt happier.'}, {'start': '1586.200', 'end': '1591.559', 'text': 'peace, she no longer cares much about the'}, {'start': '1589.320', 'end': '1595.279', 'text': 'fact that her children pay less attention than before'}, {'start': '1591.559', 'end': '1597.799', 'text': '.  Do you see?  When'}, {'start': '1595.279', 'end': '1600.399', 'text': 'your soul is happy, everything around you'}, {'start': '1597.799', 'end': '1602.960', 'text': 'naturally becomes much lighter'}, {'start': '1600.399', 'end': '1606.520', 'text': '.  I still remember the story of'}, {'start': '1602.960', 'end': '1609.039', 'text': 'another neighbor of mine, the eighth old man.'}, {'start': '1606.520', 'end': '1612.080', 'text': 'He is retired, has'}, {'start': '1609.039', 'end': '1615.120', 'text': 'enough savings, a nice house but'}, {'start': '1612.080', 'end': '1618.760', 'text': 'always looks sad and gloomy.  I just'}, {'start': '1615.120', 'end': '1621.679', 'text': 'asked why Mr. Tam looked so sad?  Mr.'}, {'start': '1618.760', 'end': '1624.799', 'text': 'Tam replied, "I kept thinking about the story of'}, {'start': '1621.679', 'end': '1627.960', 'text': 'being cheated by someone a few years ago.'}, {'start': '1624.799', 'end': '1630.880', 'text': 'At that time, I trusted them too much, lent them a'}, {'start': '1627.960', 'end': '1634.039', 'text': 'large sum of money, but now they have no intention of'}, {'start': '1630.880', 'end': '1637.600', 'text': 'paying it back. Every time I think about it, I'}, {'start': '1634.039', 'end': '1640.000', 'text': "feel resentful and can't stop feeling it. I kept"}, {'start': '1637.600', 'end': '1643.960', 'text': 'holding on to that resentment for many'}, {'start': '1640.000', 'end': '1646.760', 'text': 'years. Every time I see him, he'}, {'start': '1643.960', 'end': '1649.640', 'text': 'brings up that story over and over again. As if it had'}, {'start': '1646.760', 'end': '1652.440', 'text': 'just happened yesterday. But'}, {'start': '1649.640', 'end': '1655.640', 'text': 'do you know? While Mr. Tam just'}, {'start': '1652.440', 'end': '1658.880', 'text': 'sits there feeling regretful and resentful, those'}, {'start': '1655.640', 'end': '1662.120', 'text': 'who cheated him have been living happily'}, {'start': '1658.880', 'end': '1665.919', 'text': 'for a long time. So I advised Mr.'}, {'start': '1662.120', 'end': '1668.840', 'text': 'Tam, why do you keep dwelling on the past and'}, {'start': '1665.919', 'end': '1671.480', 'text': 'making it heavy on your heart? You can'}, {'start': '1668.840', 'end': '1674.440', 'text': 'try to earn back lost money, but you can'}, {'start': '1671.480', 'end': '1678.000', 'text': 'never get back the time that has passed. Think about'}, {'start': '1674.440', 'end': '1681.519', 'text': 'it, if you'}, {'start': '1678.000', 'end': '1683.919', 'text': 'feel frustrated and resentful every day because of that, you'}, {'start': '1681.519', 'end': '1687.320', 'text': 'are only torturing yourself'}, {'start': '1683.919', 'end': '1690.000', 'text': ". Instead, why don't you spend the"}, {'start': '1687.320', 'end': '1692.720', 'text': 'remaining time traveling and sightseeing'}, {'start': '1690.000', 'end': '1695.679', 'text': '?"  there, do what you like,'}, {'start': '1692.720', 'end': '1698.399', 'text': 'enjoy a leisurely old age.'}, {'start': '1695.679', 'end': '1701.600', 'text': 'Hearing those words, Mr. Tam gradually'}, {'start': '1698.399', 'end': '1704.320', 'text': 'changed.  He started joining the'}, {'start': '1701.600', 'end': '1708.200', 'text': 'village chess club, making many'}, {'start': '1704.320', 'end': '1711.159', 'text': 'new friends.  Some time later, the old man confided'}, {'start': '1708.200', 'end': '1714.039', 'text': "in me.  It's true that since I thought about"}, {'start': '1711.159', 'end': '1716.960', 'text': 'the past, I found life suddenly became'}, {'start': '1714.039', 'end': '1719.760', 'text': 'light and peaceful.'}, {'start': '1716.960', 'end': '1722.120', 'text': 'Ladies and gentlemen, you see, the'}, {'start': '1719.760', 'end': '1725.080', 'text': 'sad stories of the past are like a'}, {'start': '1722.120', 'end': '1728.799', 'text': 'burden, a heavy stone weighing down on the'}, {'start': '1725.080', 'end': '1732.480', 'text': 'soul.  If you keep dwelling on it, you will'}, {'start': '1728.799', 'end': '1735.440', 'text': 'feel tired and heavy all your life.'}, {'start': '1732.480', 'end': '1738.000', 'text': 'But if you dare to let it go,'}, {'start': '1735.440', 'end': '1741.039', 'text': 'you will find your heart light and'}, {'start': '1738.000', 'end': '1744.200', 'text': "peaceful.  Please don't let the"}, {'start': '1741.039', 'end': '1747.360', 'text': 'little things take away the joy'}, {'start': '1744.200', 'end': '1750.000', 'text': 'and peace in your life.'}, {'start': '1747.360', 'end': '1753.840', 'text': 'Learn to let go of the past to'}, {'start': '1750.000', 'end': '1756.120', 'text': 'fully enjoy the present.  Spend time and'}, {'start': '1753.840', 'end': '1759.440', 'text': 'energy on the things that truly bring'}, {'start': '1756.120', 'end': '1762.080', 'text': 'you happiness.  The ancients taught'}, {'start': '1759.440', 'end': '1765.320', 'text': 'that life is like a'}, {'start': '1762.080', 'end': '1768.360', 'text': 'river.  If you keep holding a'}, {'start': '1765.320', 'end': '1771.440', 'text': 'heavy slingshot, you will sink to the'}, {'start': '1768.360', 'end': '1775.120', 'text': 'bottom.  But if you are brave enough to let'}, {'start': '1771.440', 'end': '1777.600', 'text': 'it go, you will float up and continue to'}, {'start': '1775.120', 'end': '1781.360', 'text': 'flow gently with the flow of'}, {'start': '1777.600', 'end': '1784.320', 'text': "life.  So ladies and gentlemen, let's try to"}, {'start': '1781.360', 'end': '1787.360', 'text': 'look at things more broadly.  Live'}, {'start': '1784.320', 'end': '1789.559', 'text': 'a joyful life and find'}, {'start': '1787.360', 'end': '1792.840', 'text': 'peace in the present moment'}, {'start': '1789.559', 'end': '1796.000', 'text': ".  Don't dwell on or think about"}, {'start': '1792.840', 'end': '1798.679', 'text': 'past events or people who are'}, {'start': '1796.000', 'end': '1802.320', 'text': 'not worthy of your love and affection'}, {'start': '1798.679', 'end': '1804.519', 'text': '.  Because ahead of you,'}, {'start': '1802.320', 'end': '1808.120', 'text': 'this life still has so many good things'}, {'start': '1804.519', 'end': '1810.559', 'text': 'waiting.  Fifth reason, every'}, {'start': '1808.120', 'end': '1814.600', 'text': 'challenge that comes to us is a valuable lesson'}, {'start': '1810.559', 'end': '1818.039', 'text': '.  The ancients taught that fire tests gold and'}, {'start': '1814.600', 'end': '1820.600', 'text': 'hardship tests strength.  A raw gold bar wants to'}, {'start': '1818.039', 'end': '1823.480', 'text': 'become a sophisticated and splendid jewelry'}, {'start': '1820.600', 'end': '1826.559', 'text': '.  Must go through the melting of'}, {'start': '1823.480', 'end': '1827.799', 'text': "hot fire and the forging of the craftsman's hands"}, {'start': '1826.559', 'end': '1830.080', 'text': '.'}, {'start': '1827.799', 'end': '1833.000', 'text': 'Likewise, a person who wants to become'}, {'start': '1830.080', 'end': '1835.679', 'text': 'more mature and wise must go'}, {'start': '1833.000', 'end': '1838.760', 'text': 'through the difficulties, failures and challenges'}, {'start': '1835.679', 'end': '1842.039', 'text': 'of life.  There is a very'}, {'start': '1838.760', 'end': '1846.080', 'text': 'famous story about Cao Cao.  A prominent figure in the'}, {'start': '1842.039', 'end': '1849.120', 'text': 'Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao'}, {'start': '1846.080', 'end': '1851.720', 'text': 'experienced betrayal in his youth'}, {'start': '1849.120', 'end': '1855.240', 'text': 'by the very people he placed his'}, {'start': '1851.720', 'end': '1858.120', 'text': 'trust in.  When he was a small official, he'}, {'start': '1855.240', 'end': '1860.919', 'text': 'wholeheartedly helped many people.  The'}, {'start': '1858.120', 'end': '1863.559', 'text': 'simple heart thinks that as long as you treat people'}, {'start': '1860.919', 'end': '1867.080', 'text': 'sincerely, you will receive the'}, {'start': '1863.559', 'end': '1870.080', 'text': 'loyalty you deserve.  But alas that is'}, {'start': '1867.080', 'end': '1872.919', 'text': 'not the case.  A friend he had'}, {'start': '1870.080', 'end': '1875.880', 'text': 'once helped with all his heart secretly'}, {'start': '1872.919', 'end': '1878.440', 'text': 'informed the court, almost'}, {'start': '1875.880', 'end': '1881.320', 'text': 'costing him his life.'}, {'start': '1878.440', 'end': '1883.880', 'text': 'After that bitter incident, he suddenly'}, {'start': '1881.320', 'end': '1886.960', 'text': 'realized a profound lesson for'}, {'start': '1883.880', 'end': '1890.080', 'text': "his life.  It's not true that if you treat"}, {'start': '1886.960', 'end': '1893.919', 'text': 'others well, they will respond with'}, {'start': '1890.080', 'end': '1896.559', 'text': 'kindness.  To survive and move forward, one'}, {'start': '1893.919', 'end': '1899.000', 'text': "must learn to see through people's hearts.  We must"}, {'start': '1896.559', 'end': '1902.880', 'text': 'understand clearly who is worthy of our'}, {'start': '1899.000', 'end': '1905.720', 'text': 'trust and who is not.   It'}, {'start': '1902.880', 'end': '1908.480', 'text': 'was thanks to that lesson that Cao Cao later'}, {'start': '1905.720', 'end': '1911.720', 'text': 'became a politician.  The'}, {'start': '1908.480', 'end': '1914.919', 'text': 'talented military is no longer easily deceived or'}, {'start': '1911.720', 'end': '1918.200', 'text': 'blinded by temporary emotions.  He'}, {'start': '1914.919', 'end': '1920.760', 'text': 'once concluded that losing once was a'}, {'start': '1918.200', 'end': '1924.360', 'text': 'lesson, but losing'}, {'start': '1920.760', 'end': '1927.279', 'text': 'twice was foolishness.'}, {'start': '1924.360', 'end': '1929.960', 'text': 'The story reminds us that every challenge'}, {'start': '1927.279', 'end': '1932.120', 'text': 'in life has'}, {'start': '1929.960', 'end': '1934.399', 'text': 'its own profound meaning.'}, {'start': '1932.120', 'end': '1937.360', 'text': 'Instead of wallowing in resentment towards'}, {'start': '1934.399', 'end': '1940.440', 'text': "fate, let's courageously learn from"}, {'start': '1937.360', 'end': '1944.039', 'text': "those failures so that we don't make the same mistake again"}, {'start': '1940.440', 'end': '1947.919', 'text': '.  I am'}, {'start': '1944.039', 'end': '1950.919', 'text': '76 years old this year, living almost a full life'}, {'start': '1947.919', 'end': '1953.960', 'text': 'before I truly realized that this life is'}, {'start': '1950.919', 'end': '1956.679', 'text': 'not inherently unfair, it is just that the'}, {'start': '1953.960', 'end': '1960.639', 'text': 'universe wants to teach us a lesson'}, {'start': '1956.679', 'end': '1963.320', 'text': '.  young  I used to believe that'}, {'start': '1960.639', 'end': '1966.000', 'text': 'as long as I lived a good life and was a good person,'}, {'start': '1963.320', 'end': '1969.679', 'text': 'life would treat'}, {'start': '1966.000', 'end': '1972.440', 'text': 'me well.  But after many failures,'}, {'start': '1969.679', 'end': '1975.399', 'text': 'I gradually realized that life is'}, {'start': '1972.440', 'end': '1977.919', 'text': 'a series of consecutive challenges.  He who'}, {'start': '1975.399', 'end': '1981.080', 'text': 'knows how to learn from it becomes'}, {'start': '1977.919', 'end': '1984.039', 'text': 'stronger.  Those who only know how to complain about their'}, {'start': '1981.080', 'end': '1987.200', 'text': 'fate will forever be stuck in a spiral of'}, {'start': '1984.039', 'end': '1989.679', 'text': 'mistakes.  Let me tell you a'}, {'start': '1987.200', 'end': '1993.080', 'text': 'story that happened to'}, {'start': '1989.679', 'end': '1996.159', 'text': 'me.  That year, I opened a'}, {'start': '1993.080', 'end': '1999.159', 'text': 'small shop in the market street.  Because I am'}, {'start': '1996.159', 'end': '2001.720', 'text': 'honest, I always help anyone who asks to borrow money'}, {'start': '1999.159', 'end': '2004.760', 'text': '.  Especially those'}, {'start': '2001.720', 'end': '2007.720', 'text': 'I consider close friends, I have'}, {'start': '2004.760', 'end': '2010.840', 'text': 'never had the slightest doubt.  An'}, {'start': '2007.720', 'end': '2013.840', 'text': 'old friend came to me complaining that his business was'}, {'start': '2010.840', 'end': '2017.000', 'text': 'failing, he was having difficulties, and needed to borrow a'}, {'start': '2013.840', 'end': '2019.799', 'text': 'large sum of money to get by.  I'}, {'start': '2017.000', 'end': '2022.840', 'text': 'think friends for many years, helping each other once is'}, {'start': '2019.799', 'end': '2025.760', 'text': 'not a problem.  So I took out all my money'}, {'start': '2022.840', 'end': '2029.360', 'text': 'and gave it to him.  There are no'}, {'start': '2025.760', 'end': '2031.600', 'text': 'documents or loan commitments of any kind.'}, {'start': '2029.360', 'end': '2034.559', 'text': 'Because I put all my faith in'}, {'start': '2031.600', 'end': '2037.559', 'text': 'friendship.  But do you know what happened'}, {'start': '2034.559', 'end': '2040.679', 'text': '?  When I was in trouble and needed to'}, {'start': '2037.559', 'end': '2044.159', 'text': 'get the money back, he kept finding excuses to'}, {'start': '2040.679', 'end': '2047.039', 'text': 'delay and then disappeared, cutting'}, {'start': '2044.159', 'end': '2050.200', 'text': 'off all contact.  I went to his house'}, {'start': '2047.039', 'end': '2052.800', 'text': 'and his wife said, "He\'s on a'}, {'start': '2050.200', 'end': '2056.000', 'text': "business trip and I don't know"}, {'start': '2052.800', 'end': '2058.800', 'text': 'when he\'ll be back."  I bitterly realized'}, {'start': '2056.000', 'end': '2062.000', 'text': 'that I had not only lost the money I'}, {'start': '2058.800', 'end': '2064.919', 'text': 'had lent, but also lost a friendship that had'}, {'start': '2062.000', 'end': '2068.040', 'text': 'once been very close.  At that time I was'}, {'start': '2064.919', 'end': '2071.240', 'text': 'extremely angry and resentful.  I think'}, {'start': '2068.040', 'end': '2074.159', 'text': 'I was treated so unfairly'}, {'start': '2071.240', 'end': '2077.520', 'text': 'that why did I live such a good life but have to'}, {'start': '2074.159', 'end': '2080.639', 'text': 'suffer deception.  But'}, {'start': '2077.520', 'end': '2084.000', 'text': 'later when my heart calmed down, I suddenly remembered the'}, {'start': '2080.639', 'end': '2086.720', 'text': 'saying my grandfather once taught me.  Only through'}, {'start': '2084.000', 'end': '2089.119', 'text': 'loss can one gain experience, only'}, {'start': '2086.720', 'end': '2092.200', 'text': 'through pain can one'}, {'start': '2089.119', 'end': '2095.960', 'text': 'become wiser.  A baby bird'}, {'start': '2092.200', 'end': '2098.480', 'text': 'must fall once before it learns to fear heights.'}, {'start': '2095.960', 'end': '2101.760', 'text': 'People have to be fooled once to learn how to'}, {'start': '2098.480', 'end': '2104.560', 'text': 'perceive and evaluate others.  From then'}, {'start': '2101.760', 'end': '2108.200', 'text': 'on, I no longer blindly trust people'}, {'start': '2104.560', 'end': '2111.040', 'text': 'easily.  I learned that'}, {'start': '2108.200', 'end': '2113.800', 'text': 'kindness has its limits, and helping'}, {'start': '2111.040', 'end': '2117.680', 'text': 'others requires a'}, {'start': '2113.800', 'end': '2120.079', 'text': 'certain level of alertness and caution.  So the'}, {'start': '2117.680', 'end': '2123.800', 'text': 'bitter tree challenge did not come to make me'}, {'start': '2120.079', 'end': '2126.760', 'text': 'suffer but to help me awaken, to help'}, {'start': '2123.800', 'end': '2129.320', 'text': 'me grow and become wiser.'}, {'start': '2126.760', 'end': '2132.000', 'text': 'Not only in money, but'}, {'start': '2129.320', 'end': '2134.480', 'text': 'also in work.  When I was still'}, {'start': '2132.000', 'end': '2137.440', 'text': 'working, I had a'}, {'start': '2134.480', 'end': '2140.920', 'text': 'young colleague.  He always said'}, {'start': '2137.440', 'end': '2143.839', 'text': 'sweet words, praised me, and showed'}, {'start': '2140.920', 'end': '2146.720', 'text': 'great respect for me.  I put all my'}, {'start': '2143.839', 'end': '2149.480', 'text': 'trust in him and wholeheartedly helped him'}, {'start': '2146.720', 'end': '2152.960', 'text': 'a lot, teaching him all the'}, {'start': '2149.480', 'end': '2155.400', 'text': 'work experience I had accumulated.'}, {'start': '2152.960', 'end': '2158.520', 'text': 'But when he had the opportunity to advance'}, {'start': '2155.400', 'end': '2161.880', 'text': 'in his career, he was ready to use'}, {'start': '2158.520', 'end': '2165.400', 'text': 'every trick to oppress me, taking away the'}, {'start': '2161.880', 'end': '2168.040', 'text': 'position that I deserved.'}, {'start': '2165.400', 'end': '2171.160', 'text': 'I was so angry and disappointed at that time'}, {'start': '2168.040', 'end': '2174.760', 'text': '.  But then I remembered the'}, {'start': '2171.160', 'end': '2177.440', 'text': "ancient teachings.  When you stumble, don't"}, {'start': '2174.760', 'end': '2180.880', 'text': 'blame the road for being slippery.'}, {'start': '2177.440', 'end': '2183.720', 'text': 'Blame yourself for not being careful enough.  I'}, {'start': '2180.880', 'end': '2187.040', 'text': 'blame myself for being too trusting and'}, {'start': '2183.720', 'end': '2189.240', 'text': 'too considerate of others without'}, {'start': '2187.040', 'end': '2193.000', 'text': 'knowing how to protect'}, {'start': '2189.240', 'end': '2195.520', 'text': 'my own legitimate rights.  After that painful lesson,'}, {'start': '2193.000', 'end': '2198.520', 'text': 'I learned how to behave more tactfully and'}, {'start': '2195.520', 'end': '2200.800', 'text': 'soberly at work, learned how to'}, {'start': '2198.520', 'end': '2203.760', 'text': 'keep important things for'}, {'start': '2200.800', 'end': '2207.800', 'text': 'myself, and no longer arbitrarily share them'}, {'start': '2203.760', 'end': '2210.119', 'text': 'indiscriminately.  And do you?'}, {'start': '2207.800', 'end': '2213.359', 'text': 'Thanks to the lessons from'}, {'start': '2210.119', 'end': '2215.960', 'text': 'those failures, later when I built my own'}, {'start': '2213.359', 'end': '2218.880', 'text': 'business, I'}, {'start': '2215.960', 'end': '2222.160', 'text': 'avoided many unnecessary risks and mistakes'}, {'start': '2218.880', 'end': '2224.920', 'text': '.  Because I have learned'}, {'start': '2222.160', 'end': '2228.280', 'text': 'to look at and evaluate people'}, {'start': '2224.920', 'end': '2231.160', 'text': 'more objectively.  Ladies and gentlemen,'}, {'start': '2228.280', 'end': '2234.359', 'text': "you see, if it weren't for the times when"}, {'start': '2231.160', 'end': '2236.480', 'text': 'others betrayed my trust, I would'}, {'start': '2234.359', 'end': '2237.680', 'text': "n't have learned to see people"}, {'start': '2236.480', 'end': '2240.640', 'text': 'more thoroughly.'}, {'start': '2237.680', 'end': '2243.680', 'text': "If I hadn't been bullied and had"}, {'start': '2240.640', 'end': '2246.079', 'text': "unhealthy competition, I wouldn't have"}, {'start': '2243.680', 'end': '2249.520', 'text': 'learned to be more tactful and behave'}, {'start': '2246.079', 'end': '2252.240', 'text': 'more intelligently at work.  Every challenge that'}, {'start': '2249.520', 'end': '2255.680', 'text': 'comes into our lives'}, {'start': '2252.240', 'end': '2257.960', 'text': 'is actually a valuable lesson.'}, {'start': '2255.680', 'end': '2261.400', 'text': 'If you only know how to complain about your'}, {'start': '2257.960', 'end': '2264.040', 'text': 'fate, forever immersed in resentment,'}, {'start': '2261.400', 'end': '2266.920', 'text': 'you will never be able to grow'}, {'start': '2264.040', 'end': '2270.119', 'text': 'up.  But if you are willing to'}, {'start': '2266.920', 'end': '2273.079', 'text': 'learn from your mistakes and failures,'}, {'start': '2270.119', 'end': '2276.280', 'text': 'you will become wiser and'}, {'start': '2273.079', 'end': '2278.960', 'text': "more resilient.  Don't"}, {'start': '2276.280', 'end': '2282.280', 'text': 'see separation as unfair or'}, {'start': '2278.960', 'end': '2284.480', 'text': 'unfortunate.  Consider them necessary lessons'}, {'start': '2282.280', 'end': '2287.720', 'text': 'on your path to maturity'}, {'start': '2284.480', 'end': '2291.040', 'text': '.  Betrayal teaches'}, {'start': '2287.720', 'end': '2293.359', 'text': 'you how to choose your friends.  The times he'}, {'start': '2291.040', 'end': '2296.880', 'text': 'forced you to teach you how to behave'}, {'start': '2293.359', 'end': '2299.760', 'text': 'wisely and keep yourself.  Every fall is'}, {'start': '2296.880', 'end': '2303.520', 'text': 'an opportunity for us to become stronger and'}, {'start': '2299.760', 'end': '2305.880', 'text': "more courageous.  The ancients once taught.  Don't be"}, {'start': '2303.520', 'end': '2309.160', 'text': 'quick to blame the road for being too'}, {'start': '2305.880', 'end': '2311.760', 'text': "rocky.  Let's silently thank you because thanks to that,"}, {'start': '2309.160', 'end': '2315.200', 'text': 'our legs are becoming stronger'}, {'start': '2311.760', 'end': '2318.520', 'text': 'and more stable.  So ladies and gentlemen'}, {'start': '2315.200', 'end': '2321.480', 'text': ', please do not be too sad or discouraged'}, {'start': '2318.520', 'end': '2324.359', 'text': 'when you encounter challenges.  Consider'}, {'start': '2321.480', 'end': '2327.240', 'text': 'every difficulty that appears as a lesson, an'}, {'start': '2324.359', 'end': '2330.800', 'text': 'opportunity to train yourself to become'}, {'start': '2327.240', 'end': '2333.960', 'text': 'stronger.  This life'}, {'start': '2330.800', 'end': '2336.800', 'text': 'is a great school.  Those who are willing to'}, {'start': '2333.960', 'end': '2339.520', 'text': 'learn from experience will reap'}, {'start': '2336.800', 'end': '2343.200', 'text': 'success.  Those who only know'}, {'start': '2339.520', 'end': '2346.359', 'text': 'resentment will always be stuck in the same place.'}, {'start': '2343.200', 'end': '2348.520', 'text': 'Sixth reason, spend precious time with'}, {'start': '2346.359', 'end': '2351.520', 'text': 'people who truly love and'}, {'start': '2348.520', 'end': '2354.960', 'text': 'care about you.  The ancients have a'}, {'start': '2351.520', 'end': '2358.319', 'text': 'very familiar proverb.  The ink is black, the'}, {'start': '2354.960', 'end': '2361.359', 'text': 'lamp is bright.  This saying carries a'}, {'start': '2358.319', 'end': '2364.280', 'text': 'profound meaning that we humans are'}, {'start': '2361.359', 'end': '2367.200', 'text': 'greatly influenced by our surroundings'}, {'start': '2364.280', 'end': '2369.640', 'text': 'and the people we come into contact with.  If you'}, {'start': '2367.200', 'end': '2372.480', 'text': 'keep spending time with'}, {'start': '2369.640', 'end': '2375.240', 'text': 'negative people, selfish people who'}, {'start': '2372.480', 'end': '2378.839', 'text': 'do not appreciate your value,'}, {'start': '2375.240', 'end': '2382.079', 'text': 'you will only receive'}, {'start': '2378.839', 'end': '2383.520', 'text': 'hurt, sadness and fatigue in your'}, {'start': '2382.079', 'end': '2386.200', 'text': 'soul.'}, {'start': '2383.520', 'end': '2388.920', 'text': 'On the contrary, if you know how to'}, {'start': '2386.200', 'end': '2391.520', 'text': 'appreciate and be with people who truly'}, {'start': '2388.920', 'end': '2394.960', 'text': 'love you, who always'}, {'start': '2391.520', 'end': '2398.359', 'text': 'encourage and support you, you will feel'}, {'start': '2394.960', 'end': '2401.599', 'text': 'happier, more peaceful and full of'}, {'start': '2398.359', 'end': '2404.800', 'text': 'positive energy.  There is a'}, {'start': '2401.599', 'end': '2408.560', 'text': 'famous story about Prime Minister Li Jue of the'}, {'start': '2404.800', 'end': '2411.400', 'text': 'Tang Dynasty.  Ly Giac'}, {'start': '2408.560', 'end': '2413.520', 'text': 'was an exceptionally talented person when he was young.'}, {'start': '2411.400', 'end': '2416.160', 'text': 'However, he was often'}, {'start': '2413.520', 'end': '2419.400', 'text': 'bullied and oppressed by his colleagues in the royal court'}, {'start': '2416.160', 'end': '2422.280', 'text': '.  One day, he'}, {'start': '2419.400', 'end': '2425.800', 'text': 'went to his teacher and confided his'}, {'start': '2422.280', 'end': '2428.520', 'text': 'feelings.  I always try my best to treat'}, {'start': '2425.800', 'end': '2432.240', 'text': 'people well.  But they still'}, {'start': '2428.520', 'end': '2434.280', 'text': 'kept on being jealous and talking behind my back.'}, {'start': '2432.240', 'end': '2437.800', 'text': 'How can I stop feeling'}, {'start': '2434.280', 'end': '2441.200', 'text': 'hurt and hurt?'}, {'start': '2437.800', 'end': '2444.359', 'text': 'His teacher smiled kindly, poured a cup of'}, {'start': '2441.200', 'end': '2447.480', 'text': 'warm tea and said, "If you enjoy a cup of'}, {'start': '2444.359', 'end': '2450.560', 'text': 'good tea but keep worrying about the'}, {'start': '2447.480', 'end': '2453.240', 'text': 'remaining impurities, you will never'}, {'start': '2450.560', 'end': '2456.920', 'text': 'fully appreciate the essence'}, {'start': '2453.240', 'end': '2459.599', 'text': 'of the tea. Likewise, if you only look'}, {'start': '2456.920', 'end': '2461.800', 'text': 'at the petty and jealous people, you will'}, {'start': '2459.599', 'end': '2464.960', 'text': 'unintentionally forget the people who'}, {'start': '2461.800', 'end': '2467.560', 'text': 'truly love and care for you."'}, {'start': '2464.960', 'end': '2470.200', 'text': 'Ly Giac suddenly came to his senses.  He realized'}, {'start': '2467.560', 'end': '2473.440', 'text': 'that instead of trying to please those'}, {'start': '2470.200', 'end': '2475.880', 'text': 'who did not deserve it, he should'}, {'start': '2473.440', 'end': '2479.400', 'text': 'appreciate the good hearts around'}, {'start': '2475.880', 'end': '2482.240', 'text': 'him.  Later, he became a'}, {'start': '2479.400', 'end': '2485.319', 'text': 'talented prime minister but still kept'}, {'start': '2482.240', 'end': '2487.480', 'text': 'a principle in life, only spending'}, {'start': '2485.319', 'end': '2490.960', 'text': 'precious time on people who were truly worthy of his'}, {'start': '2487.480', 'end': '2494.040', 'text': 'respect, not letting his mind be entangled with'}, {'start': '2490.960', 'end': '2497.280', 'text': 'petty people.  This story'}, {'start': '2494.040', 'end': '2499.920', 'text': 'sends us a message.  Take'}, {'start': '2497.280', 'end': '2503.480', 'text': 'refuge in those who truly'}, {'start': '2499.920', 'end': '2505.800', 'text': 'love us.  Instead of wasting effort trying to'}, {'start': '2503.480', 'end': '2509.240', 'text': 'change people who are not'}, {'start': '2505.800', 'end': '2510.359', 'text': 'worthy of our love.  I am 78 years old this year'}, {'start': '2510.359', 'end': '2516.920', 'text': ', having gone through many ups and downs in'}, {'start': '2513.440', 'end': '2519.520', 'text': 'life.  Now I truly realize that in'}, {'start': '2516.920', 'end': '2521.720', 'text': "this life, what's important is not"}, {'start': '2519.520', 'end': '2524.319', 'text': 'how many people we know,'}, {'start': '2521.720', 'end': '2527.960', 'text': 'but how many people truly'}, {'start': '2524.319', 'end': '2531.119', 'text': 'love us and stay by our side when we need them.'}, {'start': '2527.960', 'end': '2534.040', 'text': 'Dear ladies and gentlemen, do you know?'}, {'start': '2531.119', 'end': '2536.839', 'text': 'When I was young, I used to devote all my energy'}, {'start': '2534.040', 'end': '2539.960', 'text': 'to work.  I still firmly believe that'}, {'start': '2536.839', 'end': '2543.200', 'text': 'as long as I work hard and wholeheartedly'}, {'start': '2539.960', 'end': '2545.720', 'text': 'help my colleagues, they will love and'}, {'start': '2543.200', 'end': '2549.160', 'text': 'respect me.  But life does'}, {'start': '2545.720', 'end': '2551.640', 'text': "n't always go as expected."}, {'start': '2549.160', 'end': '2554.720', 'text': 'I once had a long time in a'}, {'start': '2551.640', 'end': '2558.200', 'text': 'management position in a company.  I'}, {'start': '2554.720', 'end': '2561.440', 'text': 'always try to be fair and treat'}, {'start': '2558.200', 'end': '2563.960', 'text': 'all my teammates kindly.  But there'}, {'start': '2561.440', 'end': '2566.880', 'text': 'are still people who are not satisfied.  They'}, {'start': '2563.960', 'end': '2569.440', 'text': 'tried to badmouth me to my superiors, spreading'}, {'start': '2566.880', 'end': '2572.760', 'text': 'false stories that I'}, {'start': '2569.440', 'end': '2576.839', 'text': 'favored one person and oppressed another.'}, {'start': '2572.760', 'end': '2579.440', 'text': 'At first I was angry and resentful.'}, {'start': '2576.839', 'end': '2582.599', 'text': 'I wanted to be direct, to'}, {'start': '2579.440', 'end': '2585.520', 'text': 'clear things up, but then I'}, {'start': '2582.599', 'end': '2588.559', 'text': "remembered my father's profound teachings"}, {'start': '2585.520', 'end': '2591.200', 'text': "long ago.  Don't waste your time arguing"}, {'start': '2588.559', 'end': '2594.079', 'text': "or worrying about people who don't"}, {'start': '2591.200', 'end': '2596.440', 'text': 'deserve it.  Spend your precious time with'}, {'start': '2594.079', 'end': '2600.040', 'text': 'people who truly love and'}, {'start': '2596.440', 'end': '2603.079', 'text': 'appreciate you.  I decided not to get involved'}, {'start': '2600.040', 'end': '2606.559', 'text': 'in that fight, not to try to'}, {'start': '2603.079', 'end': '2609.160', 'text': 'change their minds or prejudices.'}, {'start': '2606.559', 'end': '2611.520', 'text': 'Instead, I focus on taking care of my'}, {'start': '2609.160', 'end': '2615.280', 'text': 'family and the colleagues who truly'}, {'start': '2611.520', 'end': '2618.280', 'text': 'understand and trust me.  And do you know'}, {'start': '2615.280', 'end': '2621.520', 'text': 'what?  My heart suddenly became'}, {'start': '2618.280', 'end': '2624.040', 'text': 'much lighter.  After a while, the very'}, {'start': '2621.520', 'end': '2626.079', 'text': 'people who had spoken ill of me'}, {'start': '2624.040', 'end': '2630.200', 'text': 'had to suffer the consequences of'}, {'start': '2626.079', 'end': '2632.920', 'text': 'their lies.  As for me,'}, {'start': '2630.200', 'end': '2635.720', 'text': 'I still live my life peacefully,'}, {'start': '2632.920', 'end': '2638.880', 'text': 'no longer paying attention or worrying about them'}, {'start': '2635.720', 'end': '2641.520', 'text': '.  Similar to the story of Mrs.'}, {'start': '2638.880', 'end': '2644.960', 'text': 'Lien, a close old friend of'}, {'start': '2641.520', 'end': '2648.000', 'text': 'mine in the countryside.  She had been in'}, {'start': '2644.960', 'end': '2651.079', 'text': 'sadness for years, just because her'}, {'start': '2648.000', 'end': '2654.720', 'text': 'daughter-in-law treated her somewhat coldly and'}, {'start': '2651.079', 'end': '2657.480', 'text': 'indifferently, she often confided in me.  I'}, {'start': '2654.720', 'end': '2660.359', 'text': "really don't understand why.  I always"}, {'start': '2657.480', 'end': '2662.839', 'text': 'try my best to treat my daughter-in-law well. Tan Tao'}, {'start': '2660.359', 'end': '2665.559', 'text': 'helps her with everything around the house, but she'}, {'start': '2662.839', 'end': '2668.599', 'text': 'always acts distant and'}, {'start': '2665.559', 'end': '2672.680', 'text': 'unfriendly.  Did I do something wrong'}, {'start': '2668.599', 'end': '2675.680', 'text': '?  I gently advised her, "Miss, you have'}, {'start': '2672.680', 'end': '2678.720', 'text': "done nothing wrong. It's just that in"}, {'start': '2675.680', 'end': '2681.760', 'text': 'this world, no matter'}, {'start': '2678.720', 'end': '2684.480', 'text': 'how well you treat people, they still'}, {'start': '2681.760', 'end': '2687.400', 'text': "don't know how to appreciate that kindness."}, {'start': '2684.480', 'end': '2690.520', 'text': 'But miss, why are you always sad about'}, {'start': '2687.400', 'end': '2693.319', 'text': 'that? You still have grandchildren who'}, {'start': '2690.520', 'end': '2696.359', 'text': 'need your love,'}, {'start': '2693.319', 'end': '2699.520', 'text': 'close friends, and neighbors who'}, {'start': '2696.359', 'end': '2702.079', 'text': "always love you. Why don't you spend"}, {'start': '2699.520', 'end': '2704.800', 'text': 'that precious time with those who truly'}, {'start': '2702.079', 'end': '2708.680', 'text': 'love you? Ignoring what I'}, {'start': '2704.800', 'end': '2711.359', 'text': 'said, Ms. Lien gradually changed. She spent'}, {'start': '2708.680', 'end': '2714.040', 'text': 'more time playing with her'}, {'start': '2711.359', 'end': '2717.040', 'text': 'grandchildren, actively participating in'}, {'start': '2714.040', 'end': '2720.040', 'text': 'activities of the elderly association, reading and'}, {'start': '2717.040', 'end': '2722.960', 'text': 'chatting with friends more. And'}, {'start': '2720.040', 'end': '2725.839', 'text': 'do you know? The less she cared'}, {'start': '2722.960', 'end': '2728.880', 'text': 'about her daughter-in-law, the more she found'}, {'start': '2725.839', 'end': '2731.920', 'text': 'her old age life to be'}, {'start': '2728.880', 'end': '2734.800', 'text': 'much more joyful and meaningful. Ladies and gentlemen,'}, {'start': '2731.920', 'end': '2737.359', 'text': 'you see, in this world there are'}, {'start': '2734.800', 'end': '2741.240', 'text': 'people who are inherently unworthy of the'}, {'start': '2737.359', 'end': '2744.200', 'text': 'sincere feelings you have for them. Please'}, {'start': '2741.240', 'end': '2746.680', 'text': "don't try to change them.  change your name, don't try to"}, {'start': '2744.200', 'end': '2748.040', 'text': "hold on to relationships that don't belong to"}, {'start': '2746.680', 'end': '2750.400', 'text': 'you.'}, {'start': '2748.040', 'end': '2753.040', 'text': 'Spend time and energy on'}, {'start': '2750.400', 'end': '2756.559', 'text': 'people who truly love and appreciate'}, {'start': '2753.040', 'end': '2760.440', 'text': 'you.  And you will see'}, {'start': '2756.559', 'end': '2762.400', 'text': 'how much lighter and more peaceful this life is.  Spend'}, {'start': '2760.440', 'end': '2765.160', 'text': 'your precious time with'}, {'start': '2762.400', 'end': '2769.280', 'text': 'people who truly love and care about'}, {'start': '2765.160', 'end': '2772.119', 'text': 'you.  Those who hate, gossip or'}, {'start': '2769.280', 'end': '2774.960', 'text': 'treat you badly are not worth'}, {'start': '2772.119', 'end': '2777.720', 'text': 'your heart.  The more you'}, {'start': '2774.960', 'end': '2780.119', 'text': 'cherish your genuine relationships,'}, {'start': '2777.720', 'end': '2784.000', 'text': 'the more peace of mind you will find'}, {'start': '2780.119', 'end': '2786.640', 'text': '.  The ancients taught that if people know how to'}, {'start': '2784.000', 'end': '2789.559', 'text': 'cherish worthy things, they will always'}, {'start': '2786.640', 'end': '2792.599', 'text': 'find happiness.  Those who keep chasing after'}, {'start': '2789.559', 'end': '2796.480', 'text': 'things that are not worth it will only add to their'}, {'start': '2792.599', 'end': '2799.800', 'text': 'sadness.  So ladies and gentlemen, please'}, {'start': '2796.480', 'end': '2801.839', 'text': 'always remember that life is too short'}, {'start': '2799.800', 'end': '2805.280', 'text': 'to be concerned about people who do not'}, {'start': '2801.839', 'end': '2807.839', 'text': 'deserve it.  Spend time and energy'}, {'start': '2805.280', 'end': '2810.599', 'text': 'on your family, on your close friends'}, {'start': '2807.839', 'end': '2813.960', 'text': ', on those who truly love'}, {'start': '2810.599', 'end': '2816.920', 'text': 'and care about you.  When you are with'}, {'start': '2813.960', 'end': '2820.319', 'text': 'them, you will feel'}, {'start': '2816.920', 'end': '2824.079', 'text': 'a peace and warmth that is hard to find anywhere'}, {'start': '2820.319', 'end': '2827.160', 'text': 'else.  So today we have'}, {'start': '2824.079', 'end': '2829.880', 'text': 'looked back and contemplated six reasons'}, {'start': '2827.160', 'end': '2833.200', 'text': 'so that we will no longer be too upset when'}, {'start': '2829.880', 'end': '2835.359', 'text': 'others treat us badly.'}, {'start': '2833.200', 'end': '2838.680', 'text': "Other people's behavior cannot reflect"}, {'start': '2835.359', 'end': '2841.240', 'text': "your true worth.  You can't"}, {'start': '2838.680', 'end': '2844.240', 'text': 'please everyone in'}, {'start': '2841.240', 'end': '2847.280', 'text': 'this world.  The human heart is more complicated than'}, {'start': '2844.240', 'end': '2850.480', 'text': "you think.  Please don't be too"}, {'start': '2847.280', 'end': '2853.520', 'text': 'disappointed.  Spend your time and mind on'}, {'start': '2850.480', 'end': '2856.359', 'text': 'things that are really more important.  Every'}, {'start': '2853.520', 'end': '2860.119', 'text': 'challenge that comes to us is a'}, {'start': '2856.359', 'end': '2862.680', 'text': 'valuable lesson, an opportunity to grow.'}, {'start': '2860.119', 'end': '2866.119', 'text': 'Choose to be around people who truly'}, {'start': '2862.680', 'end': '2868.760', 'text': 'love and appreciate you.'}, {'start': '2866.119', 'end': '2872.160', 'text': 'Dear friends, this life is so'}, {'start': '2868.760', 'end': '2874.880', 'text': "impermanent.  Please don't let trivial things"}, {'start': '2872.160', 'end': '2877.760', 'text': 'take away the joy and'}, {'start': '2874.880', 'end': '2880.760', 'text': 'peace of your soul.  Learn to'}, {'start': '2877.760', 'end': '2883.319', 'text': 'live peacefully and freely, spending'}, {'start': '2880.760', 'end': '2887.040', 'text': 'time on things that truly bring'}, {'start': '2883.319', 'end': '2889.760', 'text': 'value and meaning to your life.'}, {'start': '2887.040', 'end': '2892.800', 'text': 'If you find these shares'}, {'start': '2889.760', 'end': '2896.040', 'text': 'valuable and meaningful, please click the'}, {'start': '2892.800', 'end': '2898.319', 'text': 'subscribe button so that every day we can have the'}, {'start': '2896.040', 'end': '2902.000', 'text': 'opportunity to contemplate'}, {'start': '2898.319', 'end': '2904.200', 'text': 'good stories and profound philosophies of life together,'}, {'start': '2902.000', 'end': '2906.920', 'text': 'helping our old age to be'}, {'start': '2904.200', 'end': '2909.880', 'text': 'more peaceful and'}, {'start': '2906.920', 'end': '2913.160', 'text': 'filled with happiness.  I wish you'}, {'start': '2909.880', 'end': '2915.160', 'text': 'good health, happiness and peace.  See'}, {'start': '2913.160', 'end': '2917.319', 'text': 'you again in the next shares'}, {'start': '2915.160', 'end': '2917.319', 'text': '.'}]