Grand- maman en action: souvenirs et redécouvertes
La gratuité de la vie en héritage
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'33.110', 'end': '40.135', 'text': 'moments of reflection to help each of us better understand and embrace the challenges and gifts of life.'}, {'start': '41.195', 'end': '42.156', 'text': 'Good thing.'}, {'start': '43.757', 'end': '45.018', 'text': 'Good thing.'}, {'start': '45.118', 'end': '46.840', 'text': 'Good fight.'}, {'start': '48.361', 'end': '52.044', 'text': 'We raised the children in the countryside.'}, {'start': '53.028', 'end': '57.412', 'text': 'We gave children values \u200b\u200bthat remain in their lives.'}, {'start': '57.812', 'end': '62.696', 'text': 'No matter how hard you are,'}, {'start': '64.797', 'end': '69.321', 'text': "whether it's financial or relationship-related,"}, {'start': '70.101', 'end': '72.603', 'text': 'it is possible to get through it.'}, {'start': '74.225', 'end': '77.627', 'text': "I'm going to tell you about my experience this weekend."}, {'start': '79.844', 'end': '83.206', 'text': 'which I call a bit sporty as a grandmother.'}, {'start': '84.667', 'end': '91.552', 'text': "I'm going to talk to you about the evolution of the role from mother to grandmother,"}, {'start': '92.533', 'end': '94.474', 'text': 'welcoming children,'}, {'start': '94.494', 'end': '95.535', 'text': 'grandchildren,'}, {'start': '96.856', 'end': '98.136', 'text': 'the weekend I had,'}, {'start': '99.617', 'end': '101.038', 'text': 'a little eventful,'}, {'start': '101.178', 'end': '104.200', 'text': 'then the challenges and joys of being a grandmother.'}, {'start': '105.201', 'end': '107.843', 'text': 'Because it had been a long time since I had grandchildren at home, and'}, {'start': '108.283', 'end': '109.124', 'text': "then let's say..."}, {'start': '109.484', 'end': '118.168', 'text': 'I was really plunged back into the world of restless nights,'}, {'start': '118.169', 'end': '119.188', 'text': 'DIY,'}, {'start': '119.308', 'end': '121.169', 'text': 'I call it life in the house,'}, {'start': '122.109', 'end': '123.030', 'text': 'between laughter,'}, {'start': '123.031', 'end': '123.910', 'text': 'fatigue,'}, {'start': '123.911', 'end': '124.771', 'text': 'memories.'}, {'start': '124.871', 'end': '136.996', 'text': "I'm going to share with you this experience which made me realize to what extent the role of grandmother is a sweet mixture of pleasure and endurance."}, {'start': '139.404', 'end': '142.765', 'text': "As I was saying, it's been a long time since I've had the children,"}, {'start': '142.805', 'end': '145.466', 'text': 'because the children left home.'}, {'start': '147.547', 'end': '147.767', 'text': 'Now'}, {'start': '147.768', 'end': '148.647', 'text': 'they are grown up.'}, {'start': '149.667', 'end': '151.248', 'text': 'The minimum age for one of my boys'}, {'start': '151.268', 'end': '154.389', 'text': 'is 24 years old and it varies in the thirties.'}, {'start': '155.649', 'end': '155.989', 'text': 'Sometimes'}, {'start': '156.009', 'end': '159.470', 'text': 'they come back from time to time for a few 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neighbors who are close,"}, {'start': '194.171', 'end': '195.472', 'text': "otherwise it's very quiet."}, {'start': '197.193', 'end': '198.194', 'text': 'Children are free,'}, {'start': '198.195', 'end': '199.355', 'text': 'they are autonomous.'}, {'start': '199.595', 'end': '200.336', 'text': 'And now'}, {'start': '200.356', 'end': '204.799', 'text': "I don't have to rush around preparing meals,"}, {'start': '204.939', 'end': '209.543', 'text': 'getting them ready for school, or managing daily activities.'}, {'start': '210.743', 'end': '211.404', 'text': 'For example,'}, {'start': '211.405', 'end': '216.248', 'text': 'the only thing I ask of them when they come to our house now'}, {'start': '216.768', 'end': '220.712', 'text': 'is that the house is clean and especially that my dishes,'}, {'start': '221.332', 'end': '225.336', 'text': 'I want my counter to be clean and that he can do the dishes.'}, {'start': '227.137', 'end': '228.338', 'text': 'And that weekend'}, {'start': '228.959', 'end': '234.584', 'text': 'I experienced something different because it had been a long time since I had young children at home.'}, {'start': '235.525', 'end': '243.272', 'text': "My son's girlfriend has a 3-year-old daughter and I asked if he could stay over because I had..."}, {'start': '244.152', 'end': '250.774', 'text': 'the next day off and there was also an activity in the village which is not far from my house.'}, {'start': '252.894', 'end': '261.817', 'text': 'I even insisted that my son and his girlfriend enjoy the morning and sleep a little longer.'}, {'start': '262.237', 'end': '262.557', 'text': 'For me,'}, {'start': '262.917', 'end': '269.779', 'text': 'it was a pleasure to be alone with the children.'}, {'start': '271.400', 'end': '272.360', 'text': 'When parents are not there,'}, {'start': '272.380', 'end': '273.100', 'text': "I think it's a good thing."}, {'start': '273.140', 'end': '278.042', 'text': 'that the way to get to know our grandchildren'}, {'start': '278.062', 'end': '280.624', 'text': 'is really to spend time alone with them,'}, {'start': '281.244', 'end': '282.165', 'text': 'without the parents.'}, {'start': '282.385', 'end': '282.905', 'text': 'Because'}, {'start': '282.965', 'end': '283.245', 'text': 'for me,'}, {'start': '283.285', 'end': '286.847', 'text': 'I believe that children'}, {'start': '286.848', 'end': '287.827', 'text': 'are very intelligent.'}, {'start': '288.168', 'end': '289.808', 'text': 'They know how to react.'}, {'start': '290.709', 'end': '291.929', 'text': 'They know that with Grandma,'}, {'start': '291.989', 'end': '293.510', 'text': "they can't do such things."}, {'start': '293.690', 'end': '294.671', 'text': 'And with mom,'}, {'start': '295.211', 'end': '297.132', 'text': 'they can afford to do things.'}, {'start': '297.692', 'end': '301.034', 'text': 'And they also know how to reach our sensitivity.'}, {'start': '302.862', 'end': '303.542', 'text': 'In the end,'}, {'start': '304.542', 'end': '305.203', 'text': 'the mother,'}, {'start': '305.983', 'end': '307.763', 'text': "my son's mother, decided to stay."}, {'start': '308.524', 'end': '311.164', 'text': 'She had two young children with her.'}, {'start': '311.224', 'end': '313.625', 'text': 'An 8-year-old child with a friend,'}, {'start': '314.665', 'end': '315.185', 'text': 'a friend,'}, {'start': '315.766', 'end': '319.206', 'text': 'a neighbor of his 8-year-old daughter.'}, {'start': '320.087', 'end': '323.588', 'text': 'And there was the 3-year-old girl she just had,'}, {'start': '323.648', 'end': '324.188', 'text': '3 years old,'}, {'start': '324.368', 'end': '325.588', 'text': 'in January.'}, {'start': '326.648', 'end': '329.009', 'text': 'And they stayed home.'}, {'start': '329.189', 'end': '332.150', 'text': "It's like they become like mother hen."}, {'start': '334.178', 'end': '335.359', 'text': 'When they were lying down,'}, {'start': '335.559', 'end': '338.461', 'text': 'I was a little restless.'}, {'start': '338.521', 'end': '340.502', 'text': 'I was always on the lookout.'}, {'start': '342.143', 'end': '344.384', 'text': 'I always wanted to make sure everyone was okay,'}, {'start': '345.305', 'end': '346.666', 'text': 'that no one was missing anything.'}, {'start': '349.087', 'end': '350.268', 'text': 'The slightest noise would'}, {'start': '351.048', 'end': '352.089', 'text': 'wake me up.'}, {'start': '353.850', 'end': '357.092', 'text': 'Even when the little girl woke up during the night,'}, {'start': '358.713', 'end': '359.914', 'text': 'I knew the parents were there.'}, {'start': '361.230', 'end': '364.092', 'text': "But I couldn't help but go check it out."}, {'start': '364.973', 'end': '368.956', 'text': 'Then it kept me awake because I was always making sure,'}, {'start': '368.997', 'end': '370.177', 'text': 'are they okay,'}, {'start': '372.399', 'end': '378.284', 'text': 'if I could do anything to help the mom so she could rest.'}, {'start': '380.006', 'end': '380.966', 'text': 'But finally,'}, {'start': '381.066', 'end': '381.687', 'text': 'I slept.'}, {'start': '383.609', 'end': '384.429', 'text': 'From the morning,'}, {'start': '386.131', 'end': '388.713', 'text': 'I heard that the two oldest were awake.'}, {'start': '388.813', 'end': '389.854', 'text': 'It worried me less.'}, {'start': '390.870', 'end': '394.834', 'text': 'But it was especially when the three-year-old woke up.'}, {'start': '395.595', 'end': '404.222', 'text': "I wasn't comfortable letting her find out."}, {'start': '404.342', 'end': '407.024', 'text': 'As a protective mom,'}, {'start': '407.625', 'end': '410.627', 'text': 'I was afraid she might touch things.'}, {'start': '410.628', 'end': '410.948', 'text': 'And then,'}, {'start': '411.328', 'end': '411.788', 'text': 'at the same time,'}, {'start': '411.789', 'end': '413.910', 'text': 'I wanted to let the mother rest.'}, {'start': '415.332', 'end': '417.594', 'text': 'So I...'}, {'start': '418.774', 'end': '421.015', 'text': 'I went downstairs with the kids,'}, {'start': '421.075', 'end': '422.576', 'text': 'made breakfast, had'}, {'start': '423.657', 'end': '425.318', 'text': 'time to be with them,'}, {'start': '428.760', 'end': '430.821', 'text': 'do a little bit of crafts,'}, {'start': '431.061', 'end': '434.182', 'text': 'whatever the kids needed to play with.'}, {'start': '434.202', 'end': '439.225', 'text': 'I took out the colored pencils and did little activities with them.'}, {'start': '440.006', 'end': '441.786', 'text': 'I had a little hoop of some sort,'}, {'start': '441.907', 'end': '444.208', 'text': 'little things to tinker with.'}, {'start': '444.209', 'end': '448.170', 'text': 'I had time to do the dishes and...'}, {'start': '451.621', 'end': '456.064', 'text': 'It was Dad who took a lot of time to see that the house was full'}, {'start': '456.665', 'end': '457.826', 'text': 'of life.'}, {'start': '457.886', 'end': '459.887', 'text': 'The house was upside down,'}, {'start': '460.008', 'end': '460.648', 'text': 'as they say.'}, {'start': '462.209', 'end': '463.010', 'text': 'But at least there'}, {'start': '463.430', 'end': '464.912', 'text': 'was life.'}, {'start': '464.913', 'end': '467.073', 'text': 'There was noise,'}, {'start': '467.954', 'end': '468.955', 'text': 'laughter,'}, {'start': '468.956', 'end': '469.756', 'text': 'joy.'}, {'start': '470.536', 'end': '471.457', 'text': 'And then I'}, {'start': '471.557', 'end': '472.358', 'text': 'thought that...'}, {'start': '473.470', 'end': '476.512', 'text': 'It made me think of memories from the past,'}, {'start': '476.572', 'end': '478.273', 'text': 'when the children were younger,'}, {'start': '478.274', 'end': '478.593', 'text': 'like that.'}, {'start': '479.193', 'end': '480.314', 'text': "I've always loved being..."}, {'start': '480.374', 'end': '481.795', 'text': "I'm an active person,"}, {'start': '482.175', 'end': '485.276', 'text': 'and I like it when kids are active too.'}, {'start': '486.337', 'end': '492.100', 'text': 'And I barely had time to finish the dishes,'}, {'start': '493.481', 'end': '494.502', 'text': 'barely had I finished,'}, {'start': '494.622', 'end': '494.742', 'text': 'then,'}, {'start': '494.902', 'end': '495.162', 'text': 'then,'}, {'start': '495.182', 'end': '497.623', 'text': 'I heard Grandma Léline,'}, {'start': '498.103', 'end': '499.724', 'text': '"I\'m still hungry,'}, {'start': '500.125', 'end': '501.065', 'text': 'I\'m hungry."  "'}, {'start': '501.385', 'end': '501.505', 'text': 'There'}, {'start': '501.545', 'end': '502.406', 'text': 'I was like, \'What?  "'}, {'start': '503.958', 'end': '504.678', 'text': 'Oh my!'}, {'start': '506.499', 'end': '507.379', 'text': 'But what is wrong with'}, {'start': '507.479', 'end': '508.179', 'text': 'these children?'}, {'start': '508.299', 'end': '516.041', 'text': 'It seems to me that there is never any bottom.'}, {'start': '518.122', 'end': '518.562', 'text': 'And I have'}, {'start': '519.342', 'end': '520.202', 'text': 'boys,'}, {'start': '520.603', 'end': '522.503', 'text': 'four boys and a girl,'}, {'start': '522.603', 'end': '523.623', 'text': 'and it seems to me that they were always,'}, {'start': '523.663', 'end': '524.244', 'text': 'always hungry.'}, {'start': '524.424', 'end': '527.284', 'text': 'As soon as we finished preparing food,'}, {'start': '527.824', 'end': '528.545', 'text': 'they ate,'}, {'start': '528.585', 'end': '532.926', 'text': 'and it was always a pleasure while eating.'}, {'start': '533.706', 'end': '537.768', 'text': 'And it made me realize something.'}, {'start': '538.908', 'end': '543.650', 'text': 'I had completely forgotten about this feeling.'}, {'start': '544.611', 'end': '545.951', 'text': 'Because I,'}, {'start': '546.031', 'end': '546.651', 'text': 'being...'}, {'start': '548.092', 'end': '548.932', 'text': 'I had five children,'}, {'start': '548.972', 'end': '549.613', 'text': 'as I said.'}, {'start': '550.553', 'end': '553.874', 'text': 'I also had many children that I kept with me at home.'}, {'start': '554.915', 'end': '557.116', 'text': 'I lived with so many years of being'}, {'start': '557.216', 'end': '561.137', 'text': 'a busy mom.'}, {'start': '563.622', 'end': '564.362', 'text': 'I knew,'}, {'start': '564.643', 'end': '565.343', 'text': 'at that time,'}, {'start': '565.563', 'end': '567.564', 'text': "it's certain that I didn't know the time."}, {'start': '567.724', 'end': '572.246', 'text': "It was the children's activities,"}, {'start': '572.906', 'end': '573.666', 'text': 'soccer,'}, {'start': '574.547', 'end': '576.087', 'text': 'gymnastics,'}, {'start': '576.187', 'end': '577.408', 'text': 'dance,'}, {'start': '577.588', 'end': '578.849', 'text': 'music.'}, {'start': '580.909', 'end': '581.150', 'text': 'No,'}, {'start': '581.710', 'end': '582.970', 'text': 'even my mom and dad were'}, {'start': '584.251', 'end': '585.391', 'text': 'not idle in Alta.'}, {'start': '585.932', 'end': '588.212', 'text': 'We were always very busy.'}, {'start': '589.113', 'end': '591.714', 'text': 'I realized that I had completely...'}, {'start': '591.894', 'end': '593.496', 'text': 'forgotten about this feeling.'}, {'start': '596.360', 'end': '597.322', 'text': 'Because for me,'}, {'start': '598.003', 'end': '598.904', 'text': 'in that period,'}, {'start': '601.860', 'end': '604.082', 'text': "I didn't even know what it was to have time for myself."}, {'start': '605.243', 'end': '606.284', 'text': 'For years,'}, {'start': '606.424', 'end': '609.287', 'text': 'everything revolved around children,'}, {'start': '609.587', 'end': '611.749', 'text': 'daily activities,'}, {'start': '611.929', 'end': '612.470', 'text': 'school,'}, {'start': '612.510', 'end': '613.190', 'text': 'meals,'}, {'start': '613.911', 'end': '614.812', 'text': 'leisure activities.'}, {'start': '614.872', 'end': '617.735', 'text': 'And even though the dad was involved,'}, {'start': '618.816', 'end': '620.017', 'text': 'he worked a lot,'}, {'start': '620.317', 'end': '623.260', 'text': 'but in most of the day-to-day life,'}, {'start': '623.280', 'end': '625.922', 'text': 'he relied on me,'}, {'start': '627.143', 'end': '627.784', 'text': 'the mom.'}, {'start': '630.144', 'end': '630.724', 'text': 'Thank God,'}, {'start': '630.884', 'end': '633.905', 'text': 'I was lucky enough to stay home to raise the children.'}, {'start': '634.425', 'end': '635.846', 'text': "Even though we didn't have a lot of money,"}, {'start': '636.666', 'end': '638.487', 'text': "and we don't say this enough,"}, {'start': '638.547', 'end': '639.567', 'text': 'but raising children'}, {'start': '639.727', 'end': '641.608', 'text': 'is a huge job.'}, {'start': '642.448', 'end': '644.508', 'text': "It's unpaid work,"}, {'start': '645.309', 'end': '647.689', 'text': "but it's so valuable."}, {'start': '649.030', 'end': '649.470', 'text': 'Today,'}, {'start': '649.510', 'end': '650.350', 'text': 'as a grandmother,'}, {'start': '650.351', 'end': '654.651', 'text': 'I realize how completely different this role is.'}, {'start': '660.345', 'end': '662.666', 'text': "We don't have the same responsibility full-time."}, {'start': '664.007', 'end': '667.208', 'text': "I think it's a little happiness in temporary doses."}, {'start': '668.749', 'end': '674.952', 'text': 'And it also allows me to better understand what parents are going through today.'}, {'start': '675.872', 'end': '676.972', 'text': 'I can encourage them,'}, {'start': '677.813', 'end': '678.673', 'text': 'support them,'}, {'start': '679.514', 'end': '680.854', 'text': 'give them hope too,'}, {'start': '681.454', 'end': '683.215', 'text': 'tell them that they will succeed,'}, {'start': '683.415', 'end': '684.876', 'text': 'even when it is difficult.'}, {'start': '686.168', 'end': '689.330', 'text': 'I remember when I had my first grandchild,'}, {'start': '690.490', 'end': '695.172', 'text': 'I was always sensitive to the mother.'}, {'start': '696.673', 'end': '699.874', 'text': "I know what it's like to be tired,"}, {'start': '700.154', 'end': '701.555', 'text': 'to lack time for yourself.'}, {'start': '702.475', 'end': '703.476', 'text': 'And at that time,'}, {'start': '703.536', 'end': '703.836', 'text': 'for me,'}, {'start': '703.956', 'end': '707.197', 'text': 'it was what I was capable of doing.'}, {'start': '708.798', 'end': '711.399', 'text': 'It was like trying to help,'}, {'start': '711.439', 'end': '713.060', 'text': 'doing little things.'}, {'start': '714.384', 'end': '719.287', 'text': 'in my way of doing a little bit of washing up,'}, {'start': 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told him to make another meal.'}, {'start': '762.398', 'end': '765.420', 'text': 'It was brunch time,'}, {'start': '765.481', 'end': '768.023', 'text': 'because the parents could eat.'}, {'start': '769.508', 'end': '772.711', 'text': 'I was able to have lunch and I also made a meal for the children.'}, {'start': '774.432', 'end': '779.116', 'text': "I realized I hadn't even looked in the mirror."}, {'start': '781.118', 'end': '782.079', 'text': 'I got up,'}, {'start': '782.479', 'end': '788.925', 'text': "got dressed, and realized I didn't even know what I looked like."}, {'start': '788.985', 'end': '790.266', 'text': "I didn't get up with my hair done,"}, {'start': '791.187', 'end': '792.468', 'text': "I hadn't put on cream."}, {'start': '793.409', 'end': '793.869', 'text': 'As they say,'}, {'start': '793.870', 'end': '795.430', 'text': 'a Quebec expression,'}, {'start': '795.450', 'end': '797.032', 'text': 'we say “me pouponner”.'}, {'start': '797.792', 'end': '798.152', 'text': 'Because I like to'}, {'start': '798.192', 'end': '799.973', 'text': 'wear my little earrings.'}, {'start': '801.573', 'end': '802.894', 'text': 'As a grandmother,'}, {'start': '803.714', 'end': '805.634', 'text': 'since I have older children,'}, {'start': '805.674', 'end': '810.936', 'text': 'I had more time for myself to take care of everyday things.'}, {'start': '811.036', 'end': '811.856', 'text': 'About my beauty,'}, {'start': '811.996', 'end': '812.816', 'text': 'my hair,'}, {'start': '813.737', 'end': '814.677', 'text': 'taking a good shower,'}, {'start': '814.717', 'end': '816.397', 'text': 'putting on little creams.'}, {'start': '818.558', 'end': '825.740', 'text': "But I realized I didn't even have time to do that and it brought back good memories."}, {'start': '827.324', 'end': '837.348', 'text': 'We finally managed to eat and I wanted to participate in an activity that was taking place in the village not far from my home,'}, {'start': '837.448', 'end': '839.009', 'text': 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At the'}, {'start': '929.223', 'end': '931.965', 'text': 'same time, I explained the dangers of ice,'}, {'start': '932.025', 'end': '936.910', 'text': 'but it was a safe place because you could go there by car,'}, {'start': '937.590', 'end': '939.091', 'text': 'there is the check.'}, {'start': '939.232', 'end': '944.616', 'text': 'And I was able to do a little bit of teaching and then see their faces light up.'}, {'start': '945.597', 'end': '947.819', 'text': 'And wow!'}, {'start': '948.079', 'end': '951.903', 'text': 'I really enjoyed it and drove them back to the car afterwards.'}, {'start': '952.864', 'end': '954.065', 'text': 'And to tell you that...'}, {'start': '955.065', 'end': '956.467', 'text': 'They left only after,'}, {'start': '956.468', 'end': '957.107', 'text': 'I said to myself,'}, {'start': '957.308', 'end': '958.108', 'text': 'oh my,'}, {'start': '960.651', 'end': '966.656', 'text': 'I was able to enjoy the quiet,'}, {'start': '966.836', 'end': '967.617', 'text': 'well-deserved rest.'}, {'start': '969.639', 'end': '970.039', 'text': 'And then,'}, {'start': '970.440', 'end': '970.760', 'text': "that's it,"}, {'start': '971.200', 'end': '975.264', 'text': "that's the most beautiful role in the role of grandmother,"}, {'start': '975.564', 'end': '977.746', 'text': "it's to enjoy,"}, {'start': '978.047', 'end': '980.389', 'text': 'enjoy the moments of happiness.'}, {'start': '981.345', 'end': '983.286', 'text': 'with the little ones,'}, {'start': '983.446', 'end': '984.847', 'text': 'with our big ones too.'}, {'start': '986.067', 'end': '986.427', 'text': 'Because I'}, {'start': '986.428', 'end': '993.930', 'text': 'always enjoy seeing my children and at the same time being able to pick up those who have left.'}, {'start': '997.652', 'end': '999.433', 'text': 'I hope that for you,'}, {'start': '1002.894', 'end': '1008.877', 'text': "I don't know if you have experienced similar situations as grandparents."}, {'start': '1009.797', 'end': '1012.158', 'text': 'Share your anecdotes with me,'}, {'start': '1014.699', 'end': '1015.719', 'text': "I'd love to hear them."}, {'start': '1016.660', 'end': '1026.684', 'text': 'I enjoyed this experience this weekend because it made me realize the evolution of the role of mother and grandmother.'}, {'start': '1026.864', 'end': '1028.585', 'text': 'Because before,'}, {'start': '1028.665', 'end': '1029.885', 'text': 'as a mother,'}, {'start': '1030.265', 'end': '1034.347', 'text': 'my ritual was much more active,'}, {'start': '1035.147', 'end': '1036.748', 'text': 'more related to education,'}, {'start': '1036.828', 'end': '1037.408', 'text': 'children,'}, {'start': '1037.468', 'end': '1038.109', 'text': 'activities,'}, {'start': '1038.129', 'end': '1038.909', 'text': 'leisure.'}, {'start': '1039.477', 'end': '1040.197', 'text': 'And now,'}, {'start': '1040.237', 'end': '1041.158', 'text': 'as a grandmother,'}, {'start': '1041.338', 'end': '1044.879', 'text': 'the children are almost no longer at 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'1238.667', 'end': '1238.987', 'text': 'for me,'}, {'start': '1239.167', 'end': '1241.529', 'text': 'are supporting parents,'}, {'start': '1243.190', 'end': '1248.694', 'text': 'lightening their mental load and offering them respite,'}, {'start': '1251.836', 'end': '1253.037', 'text': 'happiness too.'}, {'start': '1256.130', 'end': '1258.411', 'text': 'to pass on to this new generation, to'}, {'start': '1258.551', 'end': '1259.632', 'text': 'see them grow up,'}, {'start': '1259.772', 'end': '1262.313', 'text': 'but the way I am,'}, {'start': '1263.493', 'end': '1267.235', 'text': 'how I lived with my children,'}, {'start': '1269.696', 'end': '1271.697', 'text': 'that now I have more time with them.'}, {'start': '1273.297', 'end': '1274.158', 'text': 'Balance too,'}, {'start': '1274.698', 'end': '1276.839', 'text': 'the balance between benevolence and'}, {'start': '1280.040', 'end': '1283.322', 'text': 'the need to take.'}, {'start': '1283.902', 'end': '1287.904', 'text': 'to take care of oneself too,'}, {'start': '1288.524', 'end': '1290.525', 'text': 'because as a grandmother,'}, {'start': '1291.826', 'end': '1297.388', 'text': 'we have more free time for us to take care of myself and enjoy ourselves.'}, {'start': '1300.350', 'end': '1302.050', 'text': 'I end with a conclusion.'}, {'start': '1302.851', 'end': '1306.453', 'text': 'This is to say that being a grandmother,'}, {'start': '1306.773', 'end': '1309.034', 'text': 'if you are lucky enough to experience it,'}, {'start': '1310.823', 'end': '1311.283', 'text': 'For me,'}, {'start': '1311.463', 'end': '1312.424', 'text': 'being a grandmother'}, {'start': '1313.705', 'end': '1315.727', 'text': 'is a magnificent role.'}, {'start': '1316.187', 'end': '1318.429', 'text': 'We enjoy the children,'}, {'start': '1318.749', 'end': '1320.491', 'text': 'we fall back into our memories,'}, {'start': '1321.672', 'end': '1323.193', 'text': 'we help the parents.'}, {'start': '1323.974', 'end': '1325.135', 'text': 'And most importantly,'}, {'start': '1325.275', 'end': '1330.079', 'text': 'we can recover once everyone has left.'}, {'start': '1332.541', 'end': '1332.741', 'text': 'We'}, {'start': '1332.761', 'end': '1338.126', 'text': 'can recover while the parents each continue their roles.'}, {'start': '1339.371', 'end': '1346.818', 'text': 'This weekend reminded me how quickly time flies and how precious these moments are.'}, {'start': '1350.241', 'end': '1354.685', 'text': 'It is also a reflection on the speed of time passing.'}, {'start': '1356.606', 'end': '1363.192', 'text': 'I also want to encourage parents today.'}, {'start': '1366.418', 'end': '1368.239', 'text': 'Grandparents too,'}, {'start': '1368.860', 'end': '1370.901', 'text': 'the importance of enjoying every moment,'}, {'start': '1371.702', 'end': '1373.423', 'text': 'every stage of life.'}, {'start': '1374.384', 'end': '1375.985', 'text': 'And you,'}, {'start': '1376.245', 'end': '1377.326', 'text': 'if you are a grandmother,'}, {'start': '1377.446', 'end': '1381.849', 'text': 'tell me if you have experienced a mission like that.'}, {'start': '1382.529', 'end': '1383.070', 'text': 'Or,'}, {'start': '1383.270', 'end': '1384.130', 'text': 'as a parent,'}, {'start': '1384.451', 'end': '1390.415', 'text': 'how will you imagine that you are going to be a grandparent?'}, {'start': '1392.436', 'end': '1394.278', 'text': "I can't wait to share."}, {'start': '1395.290', 'end': '1398.852', 'text': 'that you share these little anecdotes with me.'}, {'start': '1401.094', 'end': '1401.214', 'text': 'Yes,'}, {'start': '1401.434', 'end': '1406.797', 'text': 'we can live according to our human values \u200b\u200band enjoy the beautiful things in life.'}, {'start': '1407.137', 'end': '1408.258', 'text': 'Beautiful things,'}, {'start': '1408.718', 'end': '1410.039', 'text': 'good things,'}, {'start': '1410.539', 'end': '1411.940', 'text': 'good trifles.'}, {'start': '1412.340', 'end': '1419.425', 'text': 'We can live our values \u200b\u200bfor an extraordinary life and that is what I wish for you.'}, {'start': '1420.025', 'end': '1420.846', 'text': 'See you next time,'}, {'start': '1420.986', 'end': '1421.366', 'text': 'thank you.'}]