6 Things An INTELLIGENT Person NEVER Says | Social Intelligence Tips
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[{'start': '3.280', 'end': '8.560', 'text': 'what you say shapes how people see you\xa0\nand how you see yourself some phrases'}, {'start': '8.560', 'end': '15.600', 'text': 'seem harmless even casual but they can quietly\xa0\nreveal insecurity closed-mindedness or a lack'}, {'start': '15.600', 'end': '21.520', 'text': "of emotional intelligence in this video we're\xa0\nbreaking down six things that truly intelligent"}, {'start': '21.520', 'end': '28.080', 'text': 'people never say and why avoiding them can change\xa0\nyour life stay until the end the final one is a'}, {'start': '28.080', 'end': '35.680', 'text': 'mindset killer that most people say without even\xa0\nrealizing it one I already know that this phrase'}, {'start': '35.680', 'end': '43.040', 'text': "is the silent killer of growth when someone says\xa0\nI already know that they're closing the door to"}, {'start': '43.040', 'end': '49.600', 'text': "learning it might feel smart in the moment but\xa0\nit's a subtle way of saying there's nothing"}, {'start': '49.600', 'end': '57.040', 'text': "more for me to gain here but here's the truth\xa0\nrepetition is how mastery is built the most"}, {'start': '57.040', 'end': '63.440', 'text': 'intelligent people in the world revisit the basics\xa0\nconstantly they understand that hearing something'}, {'start': '63.440', 'end': '72.160', 'text': 'again at a new stage of life can unlock deeper\xa0\ninsight think about this you can read the same'}, {'start': '72.160', 'end': '79.760', 'text': "book twice and get something completely different\xa0\nthe second time why because you've changed smart"}, {'start': '79.760', 'end': '88.080', 'text': 'people don\'t say "I already know that." They say\xa0\n"Tell me more." That\'s an interesting take i\'m'}, {'start': '88.080', 'end': '95.920', 'text': "curious what's your perspective it's not about\xa0\nwhat you know it's about what you're still open"}, {'start': '95.920', 'end': '105.040', 'text': "to learning two that's impossible this phrase\xa0\nstops all imagination and innovation the Wright"}, {'start': '105.040', 'end': '112.160', 'text': 'brothers were told flying was impossible so were\xa0\nthe creators of the internet electric cars and'}, {'start': '112.160', 'end': '120.880', 'text': "even smartphones saying that's impossible is a\xa0\nshortcut to giving up it means I don't believe in"}, {'start': '120.880', 'end': '129.520', 'text': 'solutions beyond what I understand but intelligent\xa0\npeople approach challenges differently they ask'}, {'start': '129.520', 'end': '136.000', 'text': "what would it take to make this work has anyone\xa0\ndone something similar what's the first small"}, {'start': '136.000', 'end': '144.960', 'text': "step they understand that today is impossible\xa0\nbecomes tomorrow's norm so instead of rejecting"}, {'start': '144.960', 'end': '153.360', 'text': "ideas outright they explore them even if they\xa0\ndon't have all the answers yet three that's just"}, {'start': '153.360', 'end': '161.280', 'text': "how I am this one might sound like confidence but\xa0\nit's a defense mechanism saying that's just how"}, {'start': '161.280', 'end': '169.760', 'text': "I am is often a way to avoid growth it says I'm\xa0\nnot interested in changing even if this behavior"}, {'start': '169.760', 'end': '176.480', 'text': "is hurting me or others but intelligent people\xa0\nknow that we're all works in progress they don't"}, {'start': '176.480', 'end': '184.560', 'text': "tie their identity to their flaws they work to\xa0\nevolve if something isn't serving them they take"}, {'start': '184.560', 'end': '191.840', 'text': 'responsibility and say "I\'m working on that i\xa0\ndidn\'t realize thank you for pointing it out i'}, {'start': '191.840', 'end': '198.560', 'text': 'want to be better." Growth doesn\'t come from\xa0\ndefending the old you it comes from choosing'}, {'start': '198.560', 'end': '208.240', 'text': "who you want to become four it's not my fault\xa0\nblame is easy but it solves nothing when you"}, {'start': '208.240', 'end': '215.280', 'text': 'say "It\'s not my fault," you\'re handing your power\xa0\nto someone else you\'re saying "I have no control'}, {'start': '215.280', 'end': '224.080', 'text': 'over this." But intelligent people take ownership\xa0\neven of situations that weren\'t 100% their doing'}, {'start': '224.080', 'end': '232.720', 'text': 'why because responsibility equals control they\xa0\nask "What could I have done differently how do'}, {'start': '232.720', 'end': '240.240', 'text': 'I make this right what can I learn from this?"\xa0\nBlame keeps you stuck responsibility sets you'}, {'start': '240.240', 'end': '250.160', 'text': "free five that's not fair life isn't fair and\xa0\nintelligent people don't expect it to be they"}, {'start': '250.160', 'end': '256.560', 'text': "know that saying that's not fair might feel\xa0\ngood in the moment but it changes nothing it"}, {'start': '256.560', 'end': '265.600', 'text': 'shifts focus from action to complaint instead of\xa0\nwasting energy on injustice they strategize they'}, {'start': '265.600', 'end': '273.760', 'text': 'ask "What\'s in my control how can I adapt to this\xa0\nhow can I turn this into an advantage?" Fairness'}, {'start': '273.760', 'end': '283.840', 'text': "is an ideal progress comes from resilience and\xa0\naction not frustration six I can't two small"}, {'start': '283.840', 'end': '290.160', 'text': 'words that carry enormous weight when someone\xa0\nsays "I can\'t," they\'re often not talking about'}, {'start': '290.160', 'end': '298.960', 'text': "ability they're talking about fear doubt or lack\xa0\nof belief intelligent people know this that's why"}, {'start': '298.960', 'end': '308.080', 'text': 'they rarely say "I can\'t." Instead they reframe "I\xa0\ndon\'t know how yet i haven\'t figured it out but I'}, {'start': '308.080', 'end': '316.480', 'text': 'will." This is tough but it\'s possible language\xa0\nshapes reality say I can\'t enough and your brain'}, {'start': '316.480', 'end': '325.040', 'text': 'will believe it but say I will figure it out and\xa0\nyour mindset shifts from limitation to possibility'}, {'start': '325.040', 'end': '333.200', 'text': 'words are powerful the things we say out loud\xa0\nand to ourselves shape our identity these six'}, {'start': '333.200', 'end': '341.040', 'text': 'phrases may seem small but avoiding them builds\xa0\na mindset of confidence growth and intelligence'}, {'start': '341.040', 'end': '349.280', 'text': "so here's your challenge pick one of these phrases\xa0\nyou use often and for the next seven days don't"}, {'start': '349.280', 'end': '358.080', 'text': 'say it catch yourself replace it rewire your\xa0\nmind let me know in the comments which phrase'}, {'start': '358.080', 'end': '364.400', 'text': 'are you leaving behind starting today and if\xa0\nthis video sparked something in you give it a'}, {'start': '364.400', 'end': '371.040', 'text': 'like share it and subscribe to Wisdomflow where\xa0\nevery video is a step toward your next level'}]