Grow to Love in a Marriage!
Personal Growth for Success
[{'start': '0.480', 'end': '2.640', 'text': 'Grow to Love in a Marriage!'}, {'start': '2.640', 'end': '9.520', 'text': 'The most important aspect of successful marriage\xa0\nis the love between the couple. Marriage,'}, {'start': '9.520', 'end': '16.160', 'text': 'by definition, is a union of two different\xa0\nand opposite people. There is no such thing'}, {'start': '16.160', 'end': '23.520', 'text': 'like complete perfection or 100% harmony between\xa0\nthe couple in a marriage because the upbringing,'}, {'start': '23.520', 'end': '27.520', 'text': 'background, educations of\xa0\nboth couples are different.'}, {'start': '27.520', 'end': '37.120', 'text': 'The fact is that, no marriage can be happy 24\xa0\nx 7 for 365 days. Difference of opinion is very'}, {'start': '37.120', 'end': '43.600', 'text': 'much normal in a marriage. There are times when\xa0\nthe couple do not feel comfortable to be in a'}, {'start': '43.600', 'end': '50.320', 'text': 'marriage. However, it is the love between the\xa0\npartner, that holds them back in a marriage'}, {'start': '50.320', 'end': '56.640', 'text': 'and because of that they make an extra effort to\xa0\nfind their way for living a happy married life.'}, {'start': '56.640', 'end': '62.000', 'text': 'In the context of marriage, love is\xa0\nnot just a feeling of attraction,'}, {'start': '62.000', 'end': '69.680', 'text': 'but it is much more than that. Feelings are\xa0\ntransient in nature. Feeling keeps on fluctuating.'}, {'start': '69.680', 'end': '76.640', 'text': 'Sometimes the feeling of attraction can go up\xa0\nand other times it can go down. That is why,'}, {'start': '76.640', 'end': '83.680', 'text': 'for a healthy and long lasting marriage, love has\xa0\nto be more than the mere feeling of attraction.'}, {'start': '83.680', 'end': '89.040', 'text': 'For long lasting marriage, love is a\xa0\ndecision to develop a strong bond of'}, {'start': '89.040', 'end': '94.720', 'text': 'attachment with spouse through understanding\xa0\nand caring them better with each passing day'}, {'start': '94.720', 'end': '99.600', 'text': 'throughout the life. The growth of love\xa0\nwith advancement of time is essential for'}, {'start': '99.600', 'end': '106.960', 'text': 'a successful marriage. If love is not growing,\xa0\nit is certain that love will lose their charm.'}, {'start': '106.960', 'end': '112.320', 'text': 'To ensure the growth of love, you\xa0\nhave to work at marriage every day.'}, {'start': '112.320', 'end': '117.920', 'text': 'Although it is a responsibility of both\xa0\npartners to make the marriage work for better,'}, {'start': '117.920', 'end': '122.240', 'text': 'but that should not deter you\xa0\nfrom taking an initiative to work'}, {'start': '122.240', 'end': '128.560', 'text': 'at marriage. So make a conscious effort\xa0\neach day to grow to love in a marriage:'}, {'start': '128.560', 'end': '133.920', 'text': 'Get Indulge In A Healthy Communication\nHealthy communication is the key to'}, {'start': '133.920', 'end': '141.040', 'text': 'successful marriage. It is healthy communication\xa0\nthat let the love really grow in a marriage.'}, {'start': '141.040', 'end': '148.160', 'text': 'Even argument with partner is good for marriage\xa0\ninstead of maintaining a silence to avoid it. By'}, {'start': '148.160', 'end': '154.800', 'text': 'indulging in an argument you can communicate your\xa0\npoint of view on certain issue freely to clear the'}, {'start': '154.800', 'end': '162.240', 'text': 'differences and that in turn increases the trust.\xa0\nHolding grudges by avoiding argument is not a sign'}, {'start': '162.240', 'end': '169.760', 'text': 'of happy marriage. To fight with respect without\xa0\ndisrespect with partner make you feel relaxed,'}, {'start': '169.760', 'end': '175.360', 'text': 'stronger, and increases your level\xa0\nof love and care about your partner.'}, {'start': '175.360', 'end': '182.160', 'text': 'So get indulged in healthy communication to\xa0\ngrow in love for enjoying a happy marriage.'}, {'start': '182.160', 'end': '187.280', 'text': 'Manage Expectations\nIn a marriage, expectations need to'}, {'start': '187.280', 'end': '194.640', 'text': 'be manage on a priority basis otherwise it will\xa0\ncreate a problem. Marriage is not a guaranteed'}, {'start': '194.640', 'end': '202.400', 'text': 'way for fulfillment of all expectations. Both men\xa0\nand women are by nature different and so is their'}, {'start': '202.400', 'end': '209.840', 'text': 'expectations. It is not easy for one partner\xa0\nto sense the expectations of other one and put'}, {'start': '209.840', 'end': '216.800', 'text': 'in effort to fulfill all one by one. So it is\xa0\nessential to let your partner be aware of your'}, {'start': '216.800', 'end': '224.320', 'text': 'expectations but makes sure it is realistic. Do\xa0\nnot have high expectations and invite frustration'}, {'start': '224.320', 'end': '231.760', 'text': 'in your married life. Your spouse is not gifted\xa0\nwith divine power to fulfill all of your demands.'}, {'start': '231.760', 'end': '234.880', 'text': 'Give Each Other Space\nAs an individual,'}, {'start': '234.880', 'end': '242.080', 'text': 'both partner in a marriage are unique in their\xa0\nown way. It is unfair to expect from your spouse'}, {'start': '242.080', 'end': '248.880', 'text': 'to change themselves according to your terms and\xa0\nconditions. By wanting to change your partner,'}, {'start': '248.880', 'end': '255.360', 'text': 'you convey a message that your partner is\xa0\nnot good, perfect, or wise. The harmony'}, {'start': '255.360', 'end': '262.240', 'text': 'in relationship is not maintained by finding\xa0\nfault in spouse but by practicing understanding,'}, {'start': '262.240', 'end': '269.280', 'text': 'acceptance, love and respecting the uniqueness\xa0\nof your spouse. That is why, it is wise to'}, {'start': '269.280', 'end': '275.840', 'text': 'give each other the personal space to grow so\xa0\nthat both can bring more value in a marriage.'}, {'start': '275.840', 'end': '283.120', 'text': 'Finally, the demand of successful marriage is\xa0\nhard, but it is worth the effort. Both partner'}, {'start': '283.120', 'end': '289.920', 'text': 'need to make some compromise for each other and\xa0\ntheir happy relationship. On the individual level,'}, {'start': '289.920', 'end': '295.040', 'text': 'both partners are incomplete and because\xa0\nof that they meet together to complete'}, {'start': '295.040', 'end': '299.520', 'text': 'each other and make the marriage a\xa0\nblissful experience of their lives.'}, {'start': '299.520', 'end': '306.160', 'text': 'So to enjoy the bliss of happy married life, you\xa0\nshould put in effort to grow to love in marriage.'}]