Create the Life You Want and Stop Overthinking
Cally Bailey - Self Worth System
[{'start': '0.080', 'end': '4.880', 'text': 'Are you currently feeling stuck,'}, {'start': '2.000', 'end': '6.960', 'text': 'wounded, and just generally low? Like no'}, {'start': '4.880', 'end': '8.960', 'text': 'matter what it is that you try, you feel'}, {'start': '6.960', 'end': '10.880', 'text': 'like you just will never get what it is'}, {'start': '8.960', 'end': '13.200', 'text': 'that you desire in life. And do you seek'}, {'start': '10.880', 'end': '15.599', 'text': 'validation from others in order to'}, {'start': '13.200', 'end': '17.359', 'text': 'believe your own worth from within?'}, {'start': '15.599', 'end': '19.680', 'text': "Okay, so let's break this down and"}, {'start': '17.359', 'end': '21.920', 'text': 'transform these wounds into magnetism so'}, {'start': '19.680', 'end': '24.080', 'text': 'that you can attract the love and the'}, {'start': '21.920', 'end': '27.920', 'text': 'life that you deserve and become a'}, {'start': '24.080', 'end': '30.640', 'text': 'magnet to manifest your most abundant'}, {'start': '27.920', 'end': '32.640', 'text': "healed life. Hi, I'm Callie and this is"}, {'start': '30.640', 'end': '34.640', 'text': 'the self-worth channel where I share all'}, {'start': '32.640', 'end': '36.880', 'text': 'of my tried and tested secrets to'}, {'start': '34.640', 'end': '38.800', 'text': 'becoming your most healed magnetic self'}, {'start': '36.880', 'end': '40.719', 'text': 'using the power of energy. If you'}, {'start': '38.800', 'end': '42.640', 'text': "haven't subscribed yet, please, please,"}, {'start': '40.719', 'end': '44.559', 'text': 'please hit the subscribe button below if'}, {'start': '42.640', 'end': '46.800', 'text': 'you resonate with what it is that I am'}, {'start': '44.559', 'end': '49.440', 'text': 'seeing or if you just want to get more'}, {'start': '46.800', 'end': '51.120', 'text': 'information on how to become a healed'}, {'start': '49.440', 'end': '52.399', 'text': "magnet post breakup or if you're going"}, {'start': '51.120', 'end': '54.239', 'text': 'through a challenging time in your'}, {'start': '52.399', 'end': '56.559', 'text': 'relationship. And this will help you'}, {'start': '54.239', 'end': '59.399', 'text': 'gain the tools to be able to increase'}, {'start': '56.559', 'end': '62.079', 'text': 'your level of self-worth to heal your'}, {'start': '59.399', 'end': '65.040', 'text': 'relationships starting from within and'}, {'start': '62.079', 'end': '67.439', 'text': 'transform your life. It means so much to'}, {'start': '65.040', 'end': '69.520', 'text': "me to know who it is that's actually"}, {'start': '67.439', 'end': '71.520', 'text': 'benefiting from my videos. So the only'}, {'start': '69.520', 'end': '74.320', 'text': 'way for me to know is if you comment,'}, {'start': '71.520', 'end': '76.720', 'text': 'like, or subscribe. So please do that'}, {'start': '74.320', 'end': '78.320', 'text': 'below. So then that way I actually know'}, {'start': '76.720', 'end': '80.560', 'text': "that you're benefiting. So, I post"}, {'start': '78.320', 'end': '82.400', 'text': "content every Thursday and I'm committed"}, {'start': '80.560', 'end': '84.159', 'text': 'to posting every single Thursday because'}, {'start': '82.400', 'end': '86.000', 'text': "there's just so much to get through."}, {'start': '84.159', 'end': '88.320', 'text': "It's a lifetime of content, but last"}, {'start': '86.000', 'end': '90.640', 'text': 'week I was away. I needed a minute. I'}, {'start': '88.320', 'end': '92.400', 'text': 'was in Arizona and it was hot. Let me'}, {'start': '90.640', 'end': '94.880', 'text': 'tell you, sometimes I wonder if I meant'}, {'start': '92.400', 'end': '97.200', 'text': "for the cold. Okay, so anyways, we're"}, {'start': '94.880', 'end': '98.640', 'text': 'back on today. And today I want you to'}, {'start': '97.200', 'end': '100.079', 'text': 'think about just close your eyes and'}, {'start': '98.640', 'end': '101.759', 'text': 'just start to think about a time where'}, {'start': '100.079', 'end': '104.079', 'text': 'you felt like you were fully in your'}, {'start': '101.759', 'end': '106.960', 'text': 'worth where you felt like you were in'}, {'start': '104.079', 'end': '110.240', 'text': 'control where you were feeling magnetic'}, {'start': '106.960', 'end': '113.040', 'text': 'and you felt like you were proud of'}, {'start': '110.240', 'end': '115.880', 'text': 'yourself or you felt in your worth and'}, {'start': '113.040', 'end': '118.479', 'text': 'you just you just felt'}, {'start': '115.880', 'end': '120.200', 'text': 'good. Think about that time. Where were'}, {'start': '118.479', 'end': '125.479', 'text': 'you? What were you'}, {'start': '120.200', 'end': '125.479', 'text': "doing? Think deep. It's happened before."}, {'start': '125.600', 'end': '130.520', 'text': 'I want you to think about how you felt'}, {'start': '127.560', 'end': '133.560', 'text': 'magnetic. What was happening? You felt'}, {'start': '130.520', 'end': '135.760', 'text': 'acknowledged. Did you feel'}, {'start': '133.560', 'end': '138.160', 'text': 'strong? Just think about what you were'}, {'start': '135.760', 'end': '140.080', 'text': 'doing, about what beliefs you held about'}, {'start': '138.160', 'end': '141.360', 'text': 'yourself while you were doing this. What'}, {'start': '140.080', 'end': '144.000', 'text': 'thought patterns were going through your'}, {'start': '141.360', 'end': '145.920', 'text': 'mind when you were in this state. I can'}, {'start': '144.000', 'end': '147.920', 'text': 'tell you that it was unlikely that you'}, {'start': '145.920', 'end': '150.800', 'text': 'were feeling and thinking that you were'}, {'start': '147.920', 'end': '153.280', 'text': 'unworthy at that time. The truth is what'}, {'start': '150.800', 'end': '156.000', 'text': 'we believe, think, and then do is what'}, {'start': '153.280', 'end': '158.160', 'text': 'becomes true for us. The reason why we'}, {'start': '156.000', 'end': '159.519', 'text': "weren't thinking low selfworth thoughts"}, {'start': '158.160', 'end': '161.280', 'text': 'when we were in a state of high'}, {'start': '159.519', 'end': '164.319', 'text': "selfworth was because we didn't have"}, {'start': '161.280', 'end': '166.400', 'text': 'those beliefs in that specific scenario.'}, {'start': '164.319', 'end': '168.959', 'text': 'But when we come into relational'}, {'start': '166.400', 'end': '170.959', 'text': 'situations where our brains are'}, {'start': '168.959', 'end': '173.680', 'text': 'programmed to believe that we are'}, {'start': '170.959', 'end': '177.200', 'text': "unworthy in some way, what's happening"}, {'start': '173.680', 'end': '179.360', 'text': "is we are starting to cultivate this I'm"}, {'start': '177.200', 'end': '181.040', 'text': 'not worthy of, you know, having the best'}, {'start': '179.360', 'end': '183.519', 'text': "relationship. I'm not worthy of this"}, {'start': '181.040', 'end': '186.159', 'text': "amazing situation that I'm in. And we"}, {'start': '183.519', 'end': '188.480', 'text': 'start to bring in more negative thought'}, {'start': '186.159', 'end': '190.879', 'text': 'patterns. And that sort of energetically'}, {'start': '188.480', 'end': '192.640', 'text': 'brings us into situations that are not'}, {'start': '190.879', 'end': '194.959', 'text': "ideal, that we don't love, that we"}, {'start': '192.640', 'end': '196.640', 'text': "aren't excited about, make us feel fully"}, {'start': '194.959', 'end': '198.080', 'text': 'in our worth. And a lot of that reason'}, {'start': '196.640', 'end': '200.159', 'text': 'is because of the wounds we carry,'}, {'start': '198.080', 'end': '202.319', 'text': 'right? Relationships are what build who'}, {'start': '200.159', 'end': '205.680', 'text': 'we are. Our brain structures, you know,'}, {'start': '202.319', 'end': '207.360', 'text': 'we we become who we are in community.'}, {'start': '205.680', 'end': '208.720', 'text': 'And those first few years of life, we'}, {'start': '207.360', 'end': '211.360', 'text': "don't really have control over that."}, {'start': '208.720', 'end': '213.760', 'text': 'Whatever is in our brain is what blocks'}, {'start': '211.360', 'end': '217.120', 'text': 'us from receiving what we are worthy of.'}, {'start': '213.760', 'end': '219.440', 'text': 'We are worthy of everything. We just'}, {'start': '217.120', 'end': '221.360', 'text': 'have to believe it. And so for me to sit'}, {'start': '219.440', 'end': '222.720', 'text': "here and tell you that you don't have to"}, {'start': '221.360', 'end': '224.159', 'text': "change anything. There's nothing you"}, {'start': '222.720', 'end': '227.360', 'text': "need to do. You're already whole and"}, {'start': '224.159', 'end': '229.519', 'text': "worthy. It wouldn't really be true for"}, {'start': '227.360', 'end': '231.440', 'text': 'me to say that because we do need to'}, {'start': '229.519', 'end': '233.360', 'text': 'change things. We do need to change a'}, {'start': '231.440', 'end': '235.200', 'text': 'little bit who we are, what we think in'}, {'start': '233.360', 'end': '236.959', 'text': 'order to become the person that is fully'}, {'start': '235.200', 'end': '239.439', 'text': "in our world. And that's not changing"}, {'start': '236.959', 'end': '241.760', 'text': "you to become less of who you are. It's"}, {'start': '239.439', 'end': '243.920', 'text': 'changing you to become more authentic to'}, {'start': '241.760', 'end': '246.159', 'text': 'who you are. so that you no longer have'}, {'start': '243.920', 'end': '249.280', 'text': 'to have a veil over yourself and you'}, {'start': '246.159', 'end': '251.760', 'text': "don't need to um respond to situations"}, {'start': '249.280', 'end': '254.080', 'text': 'from a place of lack. Sometimes the hard'}, {'start': '251.760', 'end': '256.160', 'text': 'truths are the ones that change us. And'}, {'start': '254.080', 'end': '258.880', 'text': 'in this situation, if we want to start'}, {'start': '256.160', 'end': '260.959', 'text': 'to elevate and vibrate at a higher'}, {'start': '258.880', 'end': '263.600', 'text': 'frequency, we need to make some changes.'}, {'start': '260.959', 'end': '266.400', 'text': 'So what do we actually do to make those'}, {'start': '263.600', 'end': '268.240', 'text': 'changes to become the most confident,'}, {'start': '266.400', 'end': '271.120', 'text': 'beautiful, authentic, worthy, and'}, {'start': '268.240', 'end': '273.479', 'text': 'magnetic person in the room? We use'}, {'start': '271.120', 'end': '276.160', 'text': 'energetics and neuroplasty to our'}, {'start': '273.479', 'end': '278.639', 'text': 'advantage. So the brain believes what'}, {'start': '276.160', 'end': '280.400', 'text': 'you want it to believe. And when we'}, {'start': '278.639', 'end': '282.560', 'text': 'subconsciously allow the brain to kind'}, {'start': '280.400', 'end': '284.639', 'text': 'of run wild and think whatever it wants'}, {'start': '282.560', 'end': '286.720', 'text': "to think, then all of a sudden we're"}, {'start': '284.639', 'end': '289.280', 'text': 'giving our control away to the brain. So'}, {'start': '286.720', 'end': '292.240', 'text': 'yeah, if we let our limiting beliefs run'}, {'start': '289.280', 'end': '293.919', 'text': 'wild and allow the brain to believe that'}, {'start': '292.240', 'end': '295.840', 'text': 'the limiting beliefs that it holds is'}, {'start': '293.919', 'end': '297.360', 'text': "true for us, we're going to vibrate at a"}, {'start': '295.840', 'end': '300.160', 'text': "low frequency and we're going to end up"}, {'start': '297.360', 'end': '302.320', 'text': 'attracting outcomes that confirm this'}, {'start': '300.160', 'end': '305.360', 'text': "limited belief that we have. It's going"}, {'start': '302.320', 'end': '306.960', 'text': 'to search for situations that confirm'}, {'start': '305.360', 'end': '309.039', 'text': 'the limiting belief that we hold within'}, {'start': '306.960', 'end': '311.120', 'text': 'us. The difference between those people'}, {'start': '309.039', 'end': '314.720', 'text': 'that feel worthy and those people that'}, {'start': '311.120', 'end': '316.160', 'text': "don't is how willing we are to override"}, {'start': '314.720', 'end': '318.840', 'text': 'those programmed beliefs in our'}, {'start': '316.160', 'end': '323.039', 'text': 'subconscious brain. So yes, we need to'}, {'start': '318.840', 'end': '326.560', 'text': "change. So let's do it. Let's change. In"}, {'start': '323.039', 'end': '330.199', 'text': 'order to manifest peace, abundance, and'}, {'start': '326.560', 'end': '334.160', 'text': 'high selfworth, we have to emit the'}, {'start': '330.199', 'end': '337.600', 'text': 'frequency of love, abundance, high'}, {'start': '334.160', 'end': '340.000', 'text': 'selfworth. So, I grew up a skeptic and I'}, {'start': '337.600', 'end': '342.639', 'text': 'actually used to think that taking a'}, {'start': '340.000', 'end': '345.280', 'text': 'pill was the only answer that I had to'}, {'start': '342.639', 'end': '346.960', 'text': 'get a quick fix in order to transform my'}, {'start': '345.280', 'end': '349.120', 'text': "life. Like if I didn't see something"}, {'start': '346.960', 'end': '350.639', 'text': 'happening in 2 or 3 days, then I was'}, {'start': '349.120', 'end': '352.320', 'text': 'just throwing it out the window because'}, {'start': '350.639', 'end': '354.639', 'text': "it was like what's the point? And it was"}, {'start': '352.320', 'end': '356.960', 'text': 'only years later when I started uh'}, {'start': '354.639', 'end': '358.639', 'text': 'throwing myself into meditation to'}, {'start': '356.960', 'end': '361.199', 'text': 'mindfulness-based stress reduction to'}, {'start': '358.639', 'end': '364.720', 'text': 'going on silent retreats to immersing'}, {'start': '361.199', 'end': '367.120', 'text': 'myself into using my brain to transform'}, {'start': '364.720', 'end': '370.000', 'text': 'my life using this asset instead of it'}, {'start': '367.120', 'end': '372.319', 'text': 'having it run my life making it an asset'}, {'start': '370.000', 'end': '373.919', 'text': 'so that it could help support me in'}, {'start': '372.319', 'end': '376.880', 'text': 'creating the abundant life that I'}, {'start': '373.919', 'end': '379.039', 'text': 'desired. This was me having faith in'}, {'start': '376.880', 'end': '382.240', 'text': 'myself that I could change my life'}, {'start': '379.039', 'end': '384.720', 'text': 'before just running to a quick fix. This'}, {'start': '382.240', 'end': '386.960', 'text': 'was me making the conscious choice and'}, {'start': '384.720', 'end': '389.280', 'text': 'trusting myself that I was going to do'}, {'start': '386.960', 'end': '391.440', 'text': 'what I said I was going to do. And that'}, {'start': '389.280', 'end': '393.440', 'text': 'is usually the biggest hindrance, our'}, {'start': '391.440', 'end': '395.600', 'text': "belief that we're not going to actually"}, {'start': '393.440', 'end': '398.080', 'text': "do what we say we're going to do, that"}, {'start': '395.600', 'end': '399.680', 'text': "we're going to betray ourselves, that"}, {'start': '398.080', 'end': '402.160', 'text': "we're going to fall short on ourselves."}, {'start': '399.680', 'end': '404.560', 'text': "I'm not here to preach. I'm here to"}, {'start': '402.160', 'end': '407.319', 'text': 'share the power of using the structures'}, {'start': '404.560', 'end': '410.319', 'text': 'that we have inside of this body to our'}, {'start': '407.319', 'end': '412.800', 'text': 'advantage and trusting ourselves and'}, {'start': '410.319', 'end': '415.919', 'text': 'what we can do during this time of pain'}, {'start': '412.800', 'end': '418.560', 'text': 'to manifest the life that we know we'}, {'start': '415.919', 'end': '420.560', 'text': 'deserve. Okay, so here are three massive'}, {'start': '418.560', 'end': '424.039', 'text': 'rules that abundant people live by.'}, {'start': '420.560', 'end': '427.919', 'text': 'Number one, people who manifest an'}, {'start': '424.039', 'end': '430.400', 'text': 'abundant loving life, they understand'}, {'start': '427.919', 'end': '433.840', 'text': 'that in order to actually receive what'}, {'start': '430.400', 'end': '436.639', 'text': 'it is that we want, we have to become'}, {'start': '433.840', 'end': '439.840', 'text': 'the giver. We have to show the universe'}, {'start': '436.639', 'end': '441.680', 'text': 'and the energy source that we are not'}, {'start': '439.840', 'end': '443.440', 'text': "grasping at things because we're scared"}, {'start': '441.680', 'end': '445.680', 'text': "we're not going to get enough. That we"}, {'start': '443.440', 'end': '448.080', 'text': 'are calm, cool, collected, and we know'}, {'start': '445.680', 'end': '450.000', 'text': 'that what we we deserve the best. That'}, {'start': '448.080', 'end': '452.880', 'text': 'we deserve everything to come to us.'}, {'start': '450.000', 'end': '455.680', 'text': 'People that have this really scarcity'}, {'start': '452.880', 'end': '457.440', 'text': 'mindset, they pull and grasp on to'}, {'start': '455.680', 'end': '459.360', 'text': 'things and they settle for less because'}, {'start': '457.440', 'end': '461.440', 'text': "they feel like they don't deserve more."}, {'start': '459.360', 'end': '463.280', 'text': 'And that is not going to get us where we'}, {'start': '461.440', 'end': '464.800', 'text': 'need to go. We need to cultivate a'}, {'start': '463.280', 'end': '466.479', 'text': 'giving mindset and do things that are'}, {'start': '464.800', 'end': '468.319', 'text': 'really hard. Like the brain is like,'}, {'start': '466.479', 'end': '469.919', 'text': '"No, I don\'t want to give that up." And'}, {'start': '468.319', 'end': '472.319', 'text': 'we have to just learn how to give it up.'}, {'start': '469.919', 'end': '475.599', 'text': 'They give more than they receive. And'}, {'start': '472.319', 'end': '479.440', 'text': 'that is going to train our brain to'}, {'start': '475.599', 'end': '481.120', 'text': 'start to look at life in a way of, oh'}, {'start': '479.440', 'end': '483.680', 'text': "wait a minute, there's more out there"}, {'start': '481.120', 'end': '485.280', 'text': "for me. It's not so bad to give. It"}, {'start': '483.680', 'end': '486.720', 'text': 'actually feels good to give. And the'}, {'start': '485.280', 'end': '490.160', 'text': 'reason it feels good to give is because'}, {'start': '486.720', 'end': '492.319', 'text': "it's a high energy action. When we want"}, {'start': '490.160', 'end': '494.080', 'text': 'other people to fill our bucket, what'}, {'start': '492.319', 'end': '496.080', 'text': "we're doing is we're limiting our own"}, {'start': '494.080', 'end': '497.520', 'text': 'potential to generate our own abundance'}, {'start': '496.080', 'end': '499.520', 'text': "from within. We're saying we aren't"}, {'start': '497.520', 'end': '501.680', 'text': "capable of it, so we're just going to"}, {'start': '499.520', 'end': '503.759', 'text': 'outsource it. That limits us. And this'}, {'start': '501.680', 'end': '505.599', 'text': 'is where we become victims of the world'}, {'start': '503.759', 'end': '507.919', 'text': 'rather than becoming the directors and'}, {'start': '505.599', 'end': '509.759', 'text': 'the dictators of how it is that we'}, {'start': '507.919', 'end': '511.280', 'text': "actually wish to live our life. No one's"}, {'start': '509.759', 'end': '512.479', 'text': "going to no one's going to treat you the"}, {'start': '511.280', 'end': '514.159', 'text': 'way that you want to be treated when you'}, {'start': '512.479', 'end': '515.440', 'text': "don't put yourself first. So the first"}, {'start': '514.159', 'end': '517.120', 'text': 'thing we need to do is train the brain'}, {'start': '515.440', 'end': '518.959', 'text': 'to realize that we actually have the'}, {'start': '517.120', 'end': '520.800', 'text': 'power to give everything that we need to'}, {'start': '518.959', 'end': '523.680', 'text': 'ourselves to put ourselves first to'}, {'start': '520.800', 'end': '526.720', 'text': 'actually cultivate that sense of love'}, {'start': '523.680', 'end': '528.959', 'text': 'and abundance within. So and with that'}, {'start': '526.720', 'end': '531.279', 'text': 'we can start to give instead of request'}, {'start': '528.959', 'end': '532.640', 'text': "to receive. That's going to cultivate"}, {'start': '531.279', 'end': '534.720', 'text': "that giving mindset. It's going to"}, {'start': '532.640', 'end': '536.399', 'text': 'cultivate a sense of appreciation what'}, {'start': '534.720', 'end': '538.399', 'text': 'comes back to us in return'}, {'start': '536.399', 'end': '540.160', 'text': 'energetically. So for example, if you'}, {'start': '538.399', 'end': '542.000', 'text': 'find a dollar on the ground and you give'}, {'start': '540.160', 'end': '543.440', 'text': "it to somebody else, what you're doing"}, {'start': '542.000', 'end': '546.399', 'text': "is you're telling the universe that"}, {'start': '543.440', 'end': '548.640', 'text': 'there is more than where that came from'}, {'start': '546.399', 'end': '550.640', 'text': "and you don't need it. That's going to"}, {'start': '548.640', 'end': '552.480', 'text': 'allow your brain to feel free to feel'}, {'start': '550.640', 'end': '554.720', 'text': "abundant and you're emitting a frequency"}, {'start': '552.480', 'end': '557.200', 'text': "of abundance of I there's more where"}, {'start': '554.720', 'end': '559.120', 'text': 'that came from. Magnetic people'}, {'start': '557.200', 'end': '561.519', 'text': 'understand this and they seek to give'}, {'start': '559.120', 'end': '564.080', 'text': 'rather than to take. Okay, moving on.'}, {'start': '561.519', 'end': '566.399', 'text': 'Number two, when we have a dream, it is'}, {'start': '564.080', 'end': '569.040', 'text': "within us for a reason. It's not for"}, {'start': '566.399', 'end': '570.720', 'text': 'others to reject. It has nothing to do'}, {'start': '569.040', 'end': '572.160', 'text': "with our self worth. But what we've done"}, {'start': '570.720', 'end': '574.000', 'text': "is we've created, we've made it"}, {'start': '572.160', 'end': '575.680', 'text': "personal. So, we've said when someone"}, {'start': '574.000', 'end': '578.080', 'text': "rejects me, it's personal and I'm"}, {'start': '575.680', 'end': '580.000', 'text': 'actually not worthy of that thing. But'}, {'start': '578.080', 'end': '582.240', 'text': "it's not true. This is the universe"}, {'start': '580.000', 'end': '584.000', 'text': 'testing us to say, are we able to hold'}, {'start': '582.240', 'end': '586.399', 'text': 'the abundant thing that it is that we'}, {'start': '584.000', 'end': '588.560', 'text': 'desire? And when we succumb to the'}, {'start': '586.399', 'end': '590.640', 'text': 'rejection and we say, "Oh yeah, that\'s'}, {'start': '588.560', 'end': '592.000', 'text': 'just validation," then what we\'re doing'}, {'start': '590.640', 'end': '593.360', 'text': "is we're saying to the universe that,"}, {'start': '592.000', 'end': '594.880', 'text': '"You know what? I can\'t hold that'}, {'start': '593.360', 'end': '597.120', 'text': 'amazing great thing because I can get'}, {'start': '594.880', 'end': '599.279', 'text': 'knocked over super easily." We have the'}, {'start': '597.120', 'end': '601.120', 'text': 'power to create any reality that we'}, {'start': '599.279', 'end': '602.800', 'text': 'dream of. And I focus on women going'}, {'start': '601.120', 'end': '605.360', 'text': "through breakups because that's usually"}, {'start': '602.800', 'end': '607.040', 'text': 'the biggest trigger for us. Um, and'}, {'start': '605.360', 'end': '609.600', 'text': "that's the group that I created because"}, {'start': '607.040', 'end': '611.519', 'text': 'of the situation I was in. So, I mean,'}, {'start': '609.600', 'end': '613.600', 'text': 'yes, but it relates to anything. When'}, {'start': '611.519', 'end': '615.680', 'text': 'our limiting beliefs are dominating us'}, {'start': '613.600', 'end': '617.360', 'text': 'and we end up in these situations that'}, {'start': '615.680', 'end': '619.760', 'text': "we don't want to be in, then we take"}, {'start': '617.360', 'end': '621.120', 'text': 'rejection personally. And essentially'}, {'start': '619.760', 'end': '623.680', 'text': "what we're doing is we're saying that"}, {'start': '621.120', 'end': '626.560', 'text': "somebody else's opinion is more powerful"}, {'start': '623.680', 'end': '629.040', 'text': 'and important than our own desire. Other'}, {'start': '626.560', 'end': '631.040', 'text': "people's opinion is merely that it is"}, {'start': '629.040', 'end': '633.200', 'text': 'their opinion. People who attract what'}, {'start': '631.040', 'end': '635.200', 'text': 'it is that they desire in life, they do'}, {'start': '633.200', 'end': '637.519', 'text': 'not correlate rejection with selfworth.'}, {'start': '635.200', 'end': '640.079', 'text': "Like those two don't even compute."}, {'start': '637.519', 'end': '642.079', 'text': "Rejection does not even like it's not"}, {'start': '640.079', 'end': '644.000', 'text': "even on the scale of selfworth. That's"}, {'start': '642.079', 'end': '645.760', 'text': 'something that I had to instill. I had'}, {'start': '644.000', 'end': '648.240', 'text': 'to actually train myself to do. I'}, {'start': '645.760', 'end': '650.000', 'text': 'thought I cared so much about what'}, {'start': '648.240', 'end': '651.760', 'text': 'people thought of me until I decided I'}, {'start': '650.000', 'end': '655.279', 'text': "didn't anymore. But that was a choice I"}, {'start': '651.760', 'end': '658.240', 'text': 'had to make. And when other people um'}, {'start': '655.279', 'end': '661.440', 'text': 'including me and anyone has a dream, we'}, {'start': '658.240', 'end': '663.279', 'text': 'face many doors slamming in our face. We'}, {'start': '661.440', 'end': '665.920', 'text': "just do. That's a part of the game. It's"}, {'start': '663.279', 'end': '669.120', 'text': 'our job to take each rejection as an'}, {'start': '665.920', 'end': '671.360', 'text': 'opportunity. and a reignment rather than'}, {'start': '669.120', 'end': '672.720', 'text': "a failure. It's just guiding us into the"}, {'start': '671.360', 'end': '674.800', 'text': "direction that we're meant to go down."}, {'start': '672.720', 'end': '676.640', 'text': "It's not a failure. We develop"}, {'start': '674.800', 'end': '678.399', 'text': 'resilience during this process. And'}, {'start': '676.640', 'end': '680.720', 'text': "that's the point. The point is"}, {'start': '678.399', 'end': '682.959', 'text': 'developing resilience, becoming that'}, {'start': '680.720', 'end': '684.240', 'text': "really thick bark around the tree. It's"}, {'start': '682.959', 'end': '686.640', 'text': 'actually one of the most important'}, {'start': '684.240', 'end': '688.480', 'text': 'processes as we go from this zero to'}, {'start': '686.640', 'end': '690.079', 'text': 'hero state. as we go from this low'}, {'start': '688.480', 'end': '693.120', 'text': 'selfworth into this high selfworth'}, {'start': '690.079', 'end': '694.959', 'text': "resilient individual, it's creating that"}, {'start': '693.120', 'end': '696.720', 'text': 'walking into those opportunities where'}, {'start': '694.959', 'end': '698.320', 'text': "you're probably going to get rejected"}, {'start': '696.720', 'end': '699.920', 'text': "because that's what builds resilience."}, {'start': '698.320', 'end': '702.720', 'text': 'So, we want to be able to actually go'}, {'start': '699.920', 'end': '704.880', 'text': 'into those hoping for rejection in a in'}, {'start': '702.720', 'end': '706.760', 'text': 'a way because we want to develop'}, {'start': '704.880', 'end': '709.760', 'text': 'resilience. So the next time you feel'}, {'start': '706.760', 'end': '713.120', 'text': 'rejection, take it as a redirection and'}, {'start': '709.760', 'end': '715.360', 'text': 'analyze what you can do differently or'}, {'start': '713.120', 'end': '717.360', 'text': 'what way you can act differently in'}, {'start': '715.360', 'end': '719.839', 'text': 'order to better align yourself with your'}, {'start': '717.360', 'end': '722.000', 'text': 'desired outcome or circumstance.'}, {'start': '719.839', 'end': '723.519', 'text': 'Rejection is redirection. Say that in'}, {'start': '722.000', 'end': '726.160', 'text': 'your head a million times. Rejection is'}, {'start': '723.519', 'end': '727.760', 'text': 'redirection. Rejection is redirection. I'}, {'start': '726.160', 'end': '729.360', 'text': "don't know if you say this 10 times fast"}, {'start': '727.760', 'end': '730.800', 'text': 'if it becomes you can say it anymore,'}, {'start': '729.360', 'end': '732.560', 'text': "but I'm not going to try on here. You"}, {'start': '730.800', 'end': '734.399', 'text': 'are moving towards a more aligned future'}, {'start': '732.560', 'end': '737.600', 'text': 'when you face rejection. The thing that'}, {'start': '734.399', 'end': '740.000', 'text': 'stops us is when we stop trying. So,'}, {'start': '737.600', 'end': '742.399', 'text': 'keep going through the rejection.'}, {'start': '740.000', 'end': '743.440', 'text': 'Redirect, learn, and grow. Okay. And the'}, {'start': '742.399', 'end': '745.120', 'text': "last thing I'm going to talk about in"}, {'start': '743.440', 'end': '748.000', 'text': 'this video is number three. Happy,'}, {'start': '745.120', 'end': '750.000', 'text': 'fulfilled people, they face their wounds'}, {'start': '748.000', 'end': '751.519', 'text': 'head on. This goes right from number two'}, {'start': '750.000', 'end': '753.680', 'text': 'into number three. They face that'}, {'start': '751.519', 'end': '755.760', 'text': 'rejection. They face those wounds head'}, {'start': '753.680', 'end': '758.399', 'text': 'on. Rather than hiding away, coping from'}, {'start': '755.760', 'end': '760.639', 'text': 'it, and going into situations where we'}, {'start': '758.399', 'end': '763.120', 'text': "don't feel that pain anymore, they look"}, {'start': '760.639', 'end': '766.000', 'text': 'inwards for the reason for that. rather'}, {'start': '763.120', 'end': '767.440', 'text': 'than looking for external sources and'}, {'start': '766.000', 'end': '768.800', 'text': 'saying, "Oh, it\'s because of you. It\'s'}, {'start': '767.440', 'end': '770.880', 'text': 'because of this. It\'s because of that."'}, {'start': '768.800', 'end': '773.040', 'text': 'When we figure out what energetic'}, {'start': '770.880', 'end': '775.120', 'text': "frequency we're running on, and instead"}, {'start': '773.040', 'end': '777.760', 'text': 'of just living in the frequency that'}, {'start': '775.120', 'end': '779.680', 'text': "we're in, we work to actually raise it"}, {'start': '777.760', 'end': '781.399', 'text': 'based on our own patterns and our own'}, {'start': '779.680', 'end': '783.920', 'text': 'behaviors. We naturally learn to'}, {'start': '781.399', 'end': '786.399', 'text': 'redirect our wounds into abundant'}, {'start': '783.920', 'end': '788.240', 'text': "beliefs. And there's no longer space for"}, {'start': '786.399', 'end': '790.560', 'text': "the past. So what we're doing is we're"}, {'start': '788.240', 'end': '792.639', 'text': 'priming ourselves to attract the people'}, {'start': '790.560', 'end': '794.639', 'text': 'in the circumstances that are in full'}, {'start': '792.639', 'end': '796.480', 'text': 'alignment with our dreams. Now the'}, {'start': '794.639', 'end': '798.560', 'text': 'people that do this know that their past'}, {'start': '796.480', 'end': '801.040', 'text': 'is essentially a road map. These people'}, {'start': '798.560', 'end': '802.480', 'text': 'do not use the past as an excuse to be'}, {'start': '801.040', 'end': '804.880', 'text': 'where they are today. They use their'}, {'start': '802.480', 'end': '806.639', 'text': 'past as a road map and a blueprint for'}, {'start': '804.880', 'end': '808.160', 'text': 'them to learn from and grow on. And this'}, {'start': '806.639', 'end': '809.760', 'text': 'is so they can actually live in the'}, {'start': '808.160', 'end': '811.680', 'text': 'present. 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I'm"}, {'start': '842.880', 'end': '846.560', 'text': "always saying to my partner, I'm just"}, {'start': '844.560', 'end': '847.760', 'text': "like feeling so stressed today or I'm"}, {'start': '846.560', 'end': '849.040', 'text': 'feeling like a headache because I just'}, {'start': '847.760', 'end': '852.000', 'text': "feel like there's so much pressure on"}, {'start': '849.040', 'end': '855.040', 'text': "me. And D, we're balls of energy just"}, {'start': '852.000', 'end': '857.120', 'text': 'trying to find purpose. And our feelings'}, {'start': '855.040', 'end': '859.760', 'text': "are messengers. That's truly all they"}, {'start': '857.120', 'end': '861.360', 'text': "are. And so let's listen inwards and"}, {'start': '859.760', 'end': '862.880', 'text': "we'll learn what the pain has to say."}, {'start': '861.360', 'end': '864.560', 'text': "We'll learn what the discomfort has to"}, {'start': '862.880', 'end': '866.560', 'text': "say. And we'll sit with it and we can"}, {'start': '864.560', 'end': '869.120', 'text': 'grow from it. I hope this video helps'}, {'start': '866.560', 'end': '870.880', 'text': 'you see how you can take advantage of'}, {'start': '869.120', 'end': '872.399', 'text': 'every single feeling that you have in'}, {'start': '870.880', 'end': '873.600', 'text': "the body. Every feeling we're meant to"}, {'start': '872.399', 'end': '875.399', 'text': "have. We're not meant to be happy all"}, {'start': '873.600', 'end': '878.240', 'text': 'the time. We can start to learn to'}, {'start': '875.399', 'end': '881.880', 'text': 'understand ourselves from within. And we'}, {'start': '878.240', 'end': '884.560', 'text': 'can learn, grow, and evolve into a'}, {'start': '881.880', 'end': '886.480', 'text': 'manifesting magnet. 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You just like let that go.'}, {'start': '901.839', 'end': '906.000', 'text': 'The world will work in amazing ways to'}, {'start': '904.079', 'end': '909.920', 'text': 'give you everything you desire and more.'}, {'start': '906.000', 'end': '913.519', 'text': 'It is all here and we just need to start'}, {'start': '909.920', 'end': '915.600', 'text': 'trusting that. So, are you ready? 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This is'}, {'start': '948.959', 'end': '952.639', 'text': 'where you learn to heal from the inside'}, {'start': '950.560', 'end': '955.440', 'text': 'out so that you can attract the love and'}, {'start': '952.639', 'end': '957.680', 'text': 'the life you deserve. And if you enjoyed'}, {'start': '955.440', 'end': '960.560', 'text': "this video, even though I don't have the"}, {'start': '957.680', 'end': '962.880', 'text': 'proper microphone or camera or lighting'}, {'start': '960.560', 'end': '964.320', 'text': "anymore, and there's a bunch of issues"}, {'start': '962.880', 'end': '967.040', 'text': 'that I will work to resolve at some'}, {'start': '964.320', 'end': '969.759', 'text': 'point, please, please, please, please'}, {'start': '967.040', 'end': '971.600', 'text': 'subscribe to this channel to watch out'}, {'start': '969.759', 'end': '973.199', 'text': "for new videos that I'm launching every"}, {'start': '971.600', 'end': '975.360', 'text': 'single Thursday. And it gives you'}, {'start': '973.199', 'end': '977.759', 'text': 'everything you need to know to raise'}, {'start': '975.360', 'end': '980.240', 'text': 'your own energetic frequency, to become'}, {'start': '977.759', 'end': '984.600', 'text': 'your best self, heal your wounds, and'}, {'start': '980.240', 'end': '984.600', 'text': 'make him realize what he lost.'}]