O CASAMENTO TRANSFORMA HOMENS E MULHERES EM HERÓIS!!
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[{'start': '0.000', 'end': '8.680', 'text': 'Hey guys! My name is Doralice Queiroz, and this is my husband, Danilo Corrêa. Podcast number 17! Today we\'re going to talk: "Marriage is the mission that turns men and women into heroes." Are you the hero of your wedding? Danilo: I\'m always fighting to be. Doralice: I think I am. I am Wonder Woman! And you? Danilo: I don\'t know... What do you think? Doralice: Oh, Superman, of course! Danilo: I let her choose. Let\'s go! And are you ready to embark on this epic journey? If you believe, right, that love goes beyond romanticism and requires courage, sacrifice, purpose, then you need to be part of this mission! Subscribe to the channel now and discover how to turn your marriage into a story of overcoming and the weapons and strategies to defeat the villains in the relationship. Don\'t let this adventure pass you by! Every like, every comment, every subscription strengthens this channel. So please, guys, let\'s help turn this team here into Heroes of Love! No, all of us. Doralice: That\'s it, for sure! Because I\'m the hero of my wedding, and Danilo is also the hero of our wedding. Danilo: That\'s it, guys! And the power of this alliance is unbeatable! Let\'s go! Danilo: It\'s true, it\'s true. Doralice: I think you\'ve already realized that marriage is only for superheroes, right? There is no way to resist, to support a marriage if you are not a hero within your relationship. Danilo: All superheroes have powers, right? In marriage we also have powers! And a friendly word is an incredible power, right? Doralice: The companionship, the humor… Danilo: Friendly shoulder. Doralice: The word of encouragement: "Oh, I\'m here to help you in difficult times!" Danilo: A compliment… Doralice: Exactly! It\'s wonderful! A flower, sometimes… Every now and then, Danilo: A gift, companionship… This is very important! That \'s a superpower you have. Doralice: valuing each other. Danilo: So, you could be at work and send a message, you could be coming from work and bringing a souvenir, you could, I don\'t know, dawn like this, wake up and be super willing to make breakfast… Doralice: Exactly! That\'s very good! Danilo: So this is all part of your superpower! Doralice: And so, he has some weaknesses, like every superhero does, right? Superman\'s, which is Danilo here in this case. Danilo: it\'s kryptonite. Doralice: And Super Choque\'s is water, right, guys? He can\'t handle water, since he\'s Super Shock. And what is the problem, the defect, something, the weak point in your relationship? Have you managed to identify it yet? Many relationships… I believe that, in my opinion, you know, at least in my marriage, I can set an example for myself. Danilo: Ahem. Doralice: I believe it was the issue of communication, the issue of knowing how to talk to each other. Danilo: We had a lot of difficulty with this communication issue, right? Doralice: To give in, to give up... Sometimes, really wanting one person\'s opinion to prevail over the other\'s and not giving up, not giving up. For example, sometimes I... I\'m not saying it\'s like that, but sometimes I wouldn\'t give up on what he said, I wanted it to be my way, right? And vice versa: sometimes he wanted it to be his way, and I didn\'t want it. So, this is part of communication, this is part of relating, giving in, sacrificing for love, right? That, like every superhero, there is sacrifice. There is no way to! Just like Superman... He sacrificed for a long time in order to avoid marriage, because his mission was not to have a relationship, his mission was to help people. Danilo: He sacrificed, let\'s say, his life of having a relationship to save people. Doralice: Exactly! Danilo: But here in our case, our sacrifice is for the other person. We have to sacrifice ourselves for the other person. So, giving up is a sacrifice, right? And it\'s something that we\'ve learned over time: to give up, to make that sacrifice. Because, for example, the superhero… He gives up several things to serve the people, to serve Metropolis, right? And then you have Batman, who serves Gotham City, right? So, in this way, they are serving that city. In marriage, whether you like it or not, you have to serve. It sounds like this: "Well, serve?" That\'s right! Serving is very important! And every superhero, he is not to be served, he is to serve. So, it is very important that you make the sacrifices that are necessary. A man takes care of his wife, takes care of her, you know, brings her groceries... It\'s very important that she feels this. Doralice: the role he has to play as a man, as a father, as a husband, as a friend. All of this will help him become a hero in his house. And whether you like it or not, people... How many... Whether you like it or not, how many women have to be valued, who have to be admired? It is not? Isn\'t Superman handsome? Superman, if he is handsome, his mission is beautiful: to help people. He\'s always there willing. If there is someone in danger, he goes there to save, to recover, sometimes, a person who stole a purse, something like that, from a citizen, you know, from a woman, from a lady... So, whether you like it or not, it\'s nice to see this. And how many marriages do we see that last for many years? That is, it is not easy, you know, to live without this recognition. Danilo: The superhero gets there and does what he has to do, and the woman: "Wow, how cool! How good! Doralice: If it weren\'t for you, what would become of me?" Isn\'t it true? No, because not even the police could help her, but Superman did. So, it\'s like this... In marriage, we say it jokingly like that, but it\'s true! Danilo: Definitely! Doralice: We can\'t say that it isn\'t. Because, for example, when a tap breaks in your house, who will be your superhero? Doralice: Exactly! He has to fix it! Isn\'t it true? "Oh, I need you to exert your strength here as a man and fix it, help fix this here!" Sometimes, companionship, helping the wife tidy up things at home… Or the issue of children, you know, taking them to school. Danilo: It’s this harmony that is very important! Doralicce: It\'s a team, right? Both really have to work. Danilo: And like every superhero, there are also villains… And the villains of marriage, of weddings, are: selfishness, right? He\'s one of the villains. There\'s the routine, the lack of communication, the arrogance... So, we have to avoid these villains in marriage. Doralice: Even... How many times do we treat each other better when they come to our house, visit, than our own spouse, right? In other words… We already gave an example of this, but it’s quite striking, right? The person goes to dinner, lunch at your house... Then the visitor drops it... The tablecloth is white, right? And spill some grape juice there, which will stain it. And then the person: "Oh my God!" But if it were the husband or the wife, they would fight, they would argue, they would get up… There would be confusion! Even your own son, sometimes you wouldn\'t know how to talk to him. So, these are villains that disrupt our lives. Danilo: Exactly! Exterminated! Just like Superman, Wonder Woman destroyed all the villains that existed in the city, Gotham City, in Metropolis, right? Dora: And so, guys, it\'s important, right? Of course... Gotham City is Batman\'s, isn\'t that right, guys? So Superman… They work as a team. So, you and I have to work as a team within our marriage. The more together we decide on the necessary decisions for the marriage to work, the more victories we will have! Let\'s have all areas of our lives communicating and functioning. So, turn the “I” into “we”! Don\'t be individualistic, don\'t just be "everything for me", but be like this: "Everything for us"! Because whether you like it or not, if you think like that, all of this will contribute to your family. Danilo: Let\'s go! Let\'s take out the "I" and put in the "we"! Actually, right? Dora: And another important thing is… Like the Justice League, right? Which I remembered here now from the Justice League. And then, that team, they go out to fight the enemies there, and they win. So, this issue of unity is very important, right? Because that\'s what will make a difference in a marriage, right? Each one has a specific strength, right? Just like the superheroes there in the Justice League… So, in marriage, our team here… Each one has a strength… Um… How am I going to say it? A specific power that can help within marriage. What power do you have? What power does your husband have? As we said here now, each one has a quality. That\'s power! And each one has a defect, which is weakness. So, Dora… She has a power that will, for sure, overcome my defect, right, which is my weakness. And vice versa: I have a power that will overcome her weakness . And this union will make us win, make us break, make us grow! And recognize, you know, people, quality more than villains! Recognize power more than villains. When we really recognize the issue of villains within marriage, only that… We focus on that… Danilo: Exactly! This discourages the person, it erases the person, it brings… Arguments, discouragement… Which one? There is no motivation in this person. Dora: Superheroes also inspire generations. Myself… Really Dora, right? As she said here now: "Wow, we watched Superman, right? Wonder Woman… \'By the power of Grayskull!\'" That took away the sword… So, everyone has a superhero that inspired you, that motivated you in some way. And it’s like that in marriage too! You will inspire other couples, you will inspire your children, you will impact a generation! A family can be saved, changed through marriage, right? Other couples will come to you saying: "Wow, what a great couple!" Society itself... Even society you help, because a well-structured family... This strengthens, brings a well-structured child, right? It makes the child grow better, with quality. It\'s different from a dysfunctional family, which has no reference... It\'s a more complicated family, like that, with different types of issues... Drugs, right? Sometimes the father is an alcoholic... And a well-structured family is totally different. You see… Of course there are several stories of overcoming, right? They are heroes! Danilo: They are heroes! For sure! Dora: There\'s a hero in your family, right? Let\'s give a more… Absolute example, which we generally see in families, which are our grandparents. How many grandparents are still together today, who are many years old, right? A couple that I really admire is Danilo’s grandparents, right? Who have already passed away... It\'s Dona Maria Emília and Seu Antônio. They lived together for many years, started a family, had difficulties, right? Danilo: Baby, you can speak better about them than I can. Dora: There were a lot of troubles, right? Danilo: Exactly! They lived in Minas and then came to live in Brasília, during the construction... At the inauguration, like, during the construction of Brasília, right? They came here, and they developed, they grew together with Brasília, right? Dora: Exactly! And so, there was an entire generation that was impacted. My aunts... And then , there were the cousins... I\'m part of that third generation. And whether you like it or not, for you, grandmother and grandfather are a reference as a couple, as husband and wife, as grandparents, as parents. We would get together at the house several weekends, and everyone would go: the aunts, the uncles, the cousins… It was that farofeira, right? So, for you to see, right? There is a power there that was generated by Danilo\'s grandmother and grandfather, right? That passed from generation to generation. Including love, permanence, the issue of communion… Do you know how many families we see that get together every year? I also know another family, which is my brother-in-law\'s family, which I really admire, guys! They get together every year… The brothers, right? They always got together with their father, and then their father passed away and everything, but they continued to get together among the brothers. New Year\'s Eve is always together. So, what is this? That left a legacy, right? So, it is a power of communication, love, companionship… The link that connects this family. So, every family has a link, and this link is generated by this power: this power of love, this power of companionship, this power of communion, you know? Of celebration between them. How does this impact a family? How does this impact a generation? It still impacts today, right? Danilo’s life… Absolutely! How many times do we get together and sometimes say: "Oh, my grandfather… My grandmother... They are missed!" They make a point, as they made a point of getting together, right? It\'s so beautiful, right? It\'s so wonderful for us to see this! Danilo: Yeah... Dora: So, all superheroes... Like you and me, we\'re not perfect. We\'re not bringing perfection here, because that perfection doesn\'t exist. It doesn\'t exist! There\'s no point in wanting to bring you here something fantastic, fantasy, because that doesn\'t exist, right? We\'re in reality here. My case with my grandfather and from my grandmother... They had several difficulties, there were fights, there were arguments between the family ... Sometimes, there would be a little argument, something, but, thank God, it would soon be resolved. But there were imperfections, like every family has imperfections and difficulties, right? So, permanence, constancy is what has to prevail, right ? Can believe that. I\'m not either... My God, I\'m not perfect! I have many flaws, I still need to improve a lot. Danilo: Of course! We need to improve, right? We all need to improve day by day. Dora: And this issue of improvement, of growth, of strengthening your power, my power, Danilo\'s power... It\'s together, it\'s as a team! We have to improve every day. Do you remember that we talked about the issue of building new habits, of having an ideal routine for our family? This is another power that we can add to our marriage. There are several secret powers there that you can discover over time, right? Danilo: Exactly! Sometimes things you didn\'t even expect... About your wife or husband\'s attitude, and what he has... Like it or not, we discover day by day, as the years go by. Dora: And I invite you today, people, to join our power by subscribing to the channel, liking, saving and sending this podcast to a couple who needs this salvation! Use the right power to save your marriage, to have a healthy relationship, a blessed relationship! Amen? Danilo: That\'s it, guys! Dora: Thank you so much for staying here! And until next time! Danilo: Justice League, that\'s it!'}]