The following is a partial response to a woman who asked basically this same question..why she was having these fantasies...\n\n "Being raped is an experience in which a woman is completely overpowered and totally helpless ‑- the complete opposite of being in control. It sounds like there's a part of you that would occasionally like to be able to lie back, let go, and let somebody else take over. \n\nRape fantasies are also common among women who have sexual shame or inhibitions from their childhood or past relationships. These women often enjoy the rape fantasy because they are not choosing to have sex and therefore are not accountable for any "sins." \n\nFurthermore, the fantasy centers on a man who is so caught up in his passion and desire that he has to take you now. The idea of that level of passion is very exciting for many women."
Why do some women have rape fantasies?