judevad aanee laingikta

vividh kalkhandatil aanee pradeshantil jyoo parampara laingiktevar laksh kendrit karatat. tanakh (hibru baibal) aanee rabbi sahityatil anek aakhyayika aanee kayadyanmadhye laingikta haah vishay aahe.
jyoodvadat, laingikta jyaa sandarbhat vyakt kelee jaate tyanusar tee sakaratmak aanee nakaratmak donhi kshamata asaleli mhanoon pahili jaate. anek srot vivahit jodpyanmadhil laingik sambandhambaddal sakaratmak drushtikon vyakt karatat. dusarikade, laingik kriyakalap heey jarr parvanagi asalelya vartanachya maryadebaher asel tarr tyakade dekhil gambhir paap mhanoon pahile jaate.
vivahatil laingikatebaddalachi manovrutti.
kayade aanee baybalsambandhi srot.
613 aadnyanchya madhyayugeen rabbi gananenusar, () nirman karanyachi aadnya hii torahmadhil pahili mitzwah aahe. hii aadnya keval purushansathi bandhankarak asalyache rabbi lokanna samajale hote; mahilanna suut aahe. yache eka samanya spashtikaran asey hote qee balachya janmamule tyanna sharirik dhoka nirman hoto, mhanoon tyanna dhoka nirman karnare karya purn karnyache aadesh dile jaau shakat naheet. anek vicharvantanchya matey, yaa mitzwache madhyavarti swaroop heey yaa vastusthitimule aahe qee devane jagachi vastee vhavi ashee ichcha vyakt kelee aahe.
ona' mhanoon olakhali jaanari aanakhi eka torah aadnya aahe, jee purushala tyachya patnila aadhich mule jhaali asali kinwa mule houu shakat nasalya tarihi niyamitpane (teela havey asalyas) anandadayi laingik sambandh thevanyas bhag padate.
 chaloo asalelya yuddhat ladhanyasathi sainyat sameel honyaeivaji, gelya varshachya aat lagn jhalelya purushane aaplya patnila gharee 'anandi' karane aavashyak aahe. nantarchya jyoo paramparet, pratyek patine lagnachya pahilya varshasathi tyachya patnisobat gharee rahane aanee tyanni ekatra 'anand' karane hii eka samanya aavashyakta mhanoon samajali jaate.
mammonides vivahit jodpyala jawaljawal konatyahi prakarchya laingik kriyakalapanmadhye sahbhagi honyas anumati deteh
anek strotanmadhye, patee-patnine shabbatvar laingik sambandh thevanyachi shifaras kelee jaate. jaate, heey shabbath sajra karnyachya kartvyashi sambandhit asalyache mhatale jaate. yaa paramparet yogdan denari itar karane dekhil aahet, jyat asey mhanane samavisht aahe qee aathvadyatil haah ekmev divas aahe jevha torah vidvananna vel asato, kinwa kabalvadyanni kalpana kelyapramane shukravari ratri dev aanee sheikhinah yanchyat yanchyat vaishvik sanyoganche anukaran karnyasathi heey aahe.
purushakadun honare veerya utsarjit kelyane too vidhinusar ashuddha hoto aanee jarr heey ekhadya mahilesobatchya laingik sambandhadarmyan ghadale tarr tee dekhil vidhinusar ashuddha hote. tathapi, dharmikdrushtya ashuddha honyas konatihi bandee nahee aanee jerusalemmadhil mandirala bhet denyat kinwa kahee pavitra vastoonna sparsh karnyat asamarthatevyatirikt dharmik ashuddhatecha konatahi parinam nahee. nahee ii. sha. madhye mandir uddhvast jhaale aahe. see. eae., heey aata vyavharikdrushtya chinteche vishay rahilele naheet.
vivahat laingik sambandhanche moolya swikarane.
kahijan asey mhanoo shakatat qee talmud aanee itar shastriy rabbi granthanmadhye, "[kamuk] aanandapasun tiraskar nahee kinwa pranayramya utkatatepasun maghar ghet nahee."udaharanarth, itar kadachit asahmat asateel aanee tethe vasna nakarnare majkoor aadhaltil. eka parichhed asey suchavato qee laingik sambandh heey teen kriyakalapanpaiki eka aahe jeey jeey jagachi chav" aahet. itaratra, joou patee-patnichya ekach kholeet zopato, tyala tyaa ratri laingik sambandh thevanyapasun rokhato, tyavar talmud teeka karato. vaivahik laingikatebaddal sakaratmak vatanyache aanakhi eka udaharan mhanje rabbi meerche vidhan qee nidda kayadyancha uddesh assa aahe qee, jodpyane laingik kriyakalap punha suru kelyavar, tee tichya patisathi lagnachya chhatrat pravesh kelyapramanech vanchhaniy asavi."
talmudmadhil eka kathet raav tyachya patnisobat laingik sambandh thevat asatana tyacha vidyarthi raav kahana antharunakhali lapoon basala. ravne yaa vartanasathi kahanala fatkarle, parantu kahanane prativad keela qee laingik sambandh haah torahcha bhag aahe aanee mhanoon tyane tyachya shikshakakadun tyabaddal shikale pahije.
laingik vasaneche vargikaran 'dusht pravrutti' (itzer harah) asey kele jaat asale taree, rabbi lokanni tyachi garaj prajananachi prerana mhanoon olakhali aanee asha prakare eka strotat tyache varnan 'khoop changle' asey kele.
itar talmudik granthanmadhye laingik kriyakalapambabat qamee utsah disun yeto. asha prakare, udaharanarth, kahee grunth mhanatat qee skhalanane nirman jhaleli varr namood keleli ashuddhata astitvat aahe "jenekarun torah vidwan kombadyanpramane tyanchya patninsobat nastil" (buub. berakhot 22aii): 22aii): shabdant, tyanchi laingik kriya qamee karnyasathi.
iggeret hakodesh" ("pavitra patra", 12 vya shatkatil eka pustak jeey kadhikadhi chukine nahmanideshy sambandhit aahe) nusar, purushane laingik sambandhadarmyan aaplya patnila jaage kele pahije aanee tyane heey dekhil sunishchit kele pahije qee tine sambhog karnyapurvi bhavodrek prapt keela aahe. too asehi mhanatoh "parantu aamhi jyanchyakade torah aahe aanee devane serve kahee tyachya shahanpanane nirman kele aahe yavar vishvas thevato [devavar vishvas thevu nakaa] tyanni swabhavikpane kuroop kinwa ayogya kahihi nirman kele aahe. jarr aapan asey mhatale qee sambhog haah dveshyukt aahe, tarr aapan jananendriyanchi nirmiti nirmiti devachi ninda karato. tathapi, ekhadyane heey lakshat thewale pahije qee 'gageret hakodesh' chya lekhakachya matey laingik kriyakalapanche uddisht mhanje chatur aanee pavitra purush mulanche prajnan karane jeey torahcha abhyas karnyat guntalele asel. too manoranjanasathi nahee.
kahee madhyayugeen rabbi lokanni garbhnirodhakanchya prakarannahi (jyanna anyatha nishiddha kele jaau shakate) parvanagi dilee jenekarun jodapi aanandasathi laingik sambandh thevu shaktil.
tapasvi drushye.
varr varnan kelyapramane vivahat laingikta samanyapane sweekarli gelee asali taree, kahee srot asey suchavatat qee visheshtah dharmanishtha lokanni laingik sambandhatil tyancha sahbhag qamee keela pahije.
rabbinchya strotannusar, moshene jyoo lokancha neta aanee sandeshta mhanoon aapali bhoomika purn kelee, tevha too tyachi patni tsipporapasun sharirikdrushtya vegala hota. heey vegvegalya prakare samajale gele aahe. eka matanusar, vidhee shuddhata hii bhavishyavanisathi purv aut aahe aanee moshene vidhinusar shuddha asalyachi aanee konatyahi kshani bhavishyavani prapt karnyas saksham asalyachi khatri karnyasathi laingik sambandh talhale. mymonideschya matey, matra, laingik anand haah eka vichalit karnara prakar aahe joou uchch-stariy bhavishyavanisathi aavashyak asalelya bauddhik laksh kendrit karnyashi visangat aahe. itar konatahi sandeshta tyachya patnipasoon vegala jhaala nahee; keval moshekade hii uchch patalichi bhavishyavani hotee. haah pratyakshat laingikatebaddalacha tapasvi drushtikon nahee; tarr too eka apavad hota.
mammonides vivahit jodpyala jawaljawal konatyahi prakarchya laingik kriyakalapanmadhye sahbhagi honyas anumati dete, parantu laingik kriyakalap kameet qamee aavashyakteparyant maryadit maryadit vyaktichi prashansa karateh
nahmanides pudhe jaaun lihitat qee, "manvi prajati kayamswarupi rahilyas vagalata, torahanusar laingik sambandh heey durgami aanee ghrunaspad aahet".
rabad' nusar, purushachya laingik sambandhansathi chaar parvanagi asalele 'kavvanot' (hetu) aahet jyanna daivi bakshis milateh prajananasathi, garbhachya kalyanasathi, patnichi ichcha purn karnyasathi aanee too nishiddha paddhatine naan karata tyachya patnishi sambhog karoon tyachi vasna door karato. tarihi shevatche bakshis qamee asate, kaaran tyaa mansat pratikar karanyachi takad asayala havee hotee. jarr tyane konatihi takad dakhavali nahee aanee tyala havey tevha sambhog keela tarr tyala tyache bakshis milanar nahee. (jaree yaa shevatchya prakaranat laingik sambandh swargadware puraskrut kele jaanar nasale taree teey nishiddha nahee aanee teey swatache aahe...)
jude dharmat laingik krutye nishiddha aahet.
isurai biya.
isuri biya' (hibru isuri biya) 'haah shabd kadachit jyanchyashi sambhog keela jaanar nahee tyanna sandarbhit karato. yapaiki sarvat gambhir 'arayot' (hibruh Кераяот) mhanoon olakhala jaanara eka upasanch tayar karato, joou 'varva' ('nagnata') yaa shabdavar aadharit aahe. arayotsobatcha sambhog haah jude dharmatil mojkya krutyanpaiki eka aahe, jeey aekhadyacha jeev vachavanyasathihi kele jaau shakat nahee. serve' haah shabd striche cases, mandee aanee ganyacha aavaj yasah anaitik aanee laingikdrushtya uttejak manalya manalya strichya bhaganche varnan karnyasathi dekhil vaparla jaato.
erayotmadhye khaleel goshtincha samavesh aaheh
itar isuri biyahmadhye khaleel goshtincha samavesh aaheh
jevha done lokanna ekatra laingik sambandh thevanyas manai asate, tevha 'negia' chey kayade tyanna qamee laingik sparsh karnyas (mithee marane aanee chumban ghene yasah) manai karatat, tarr 'yichud' chey kayade tyanna asha prakare khajgiritya ekatra vel ghalavanyas manai karatat jyamule tyanna naan shodhata laingik sambandh thevanyas parvanagi milel. heey pratibandh asha kahee vishisht paristhitinmadhye lagoo hott naheet jethe laingik sambandhanchi shakyata nasate, udaharanarth jawalchya kutumbatil sadasyanmadhye.
samalaingikta.
paramparik mutt asey aahe qee torah done purushanmadhil gud sambhogas manai karato (mhanje.eae. samalingi sambandh), aanee haah rudhivadi jyoodvadacha drushtikon aahe, jyavar aadharit aaheh "strijatisarkhe tumhi manavjatishi khote bolu naye; teey ghrunaspad aahe."rabbi srot done purushanmadhil itar serve laingik krutyanvar hii bandee vadhavtat, jyaa avivahit purush aanee stree yanchyat jyaa prakare pratibandhit kelya jaatil tyach prakare pratibandhit aahet.
ibri baybalmadhye stree-stree sambhogavar konatihi spasht bandee nahee, parantu nantarchya rabbiy halakhi granthanmadhye tyacha nishedh keela gela aahe.
shastriy rabbi srot dekhil done purushanmadhil lagnacha nishedh karatat, jyala teey gair-jyoo lokanni kelele karya mhanoon pahatat, jyane daivi shikshela aamantran dile.
kahee madhyayugeen jyoo lekhakanni kalpanik katha aanee kavita lihilya jyat samalingi premache sakaratmak chitran kele gele, jaree anekada heey samkalin arabi kavitanmadhye kavitanmadhye shailiche rupantar asalyache disate, jeey vastavik jivanatil prem prakarananvar aadharit asanyachi shakyata nahee. yaa katha shabdasha nondi mhanoon nasoon tyaeivaji adhik pratikatmak sandesh detat.
udarmatvadi jyoodvadat (united kingdam), samalingi sambandh swikararh manale jaatat aanee samalingi jodpyansathi vivah aayojit kele jaatat. itar anek udarmatvadi jyoo panthanchya babatitahi heey kharey aahe.
vivahetar laingik sambandh.
jaree tyacha kayadeshir arth nehmich spasht nasla taree serve jyoo gut vivahetar laingik sambandhanna tiraskar karatat; kahee kahee matey, too baybalsambandhichya bandikhali yeto. kahee samkalin vicharvant assa andaj lavtat qee likhit torahmadhye vyabhichar aanee vyabhichar vagalata lagnachya sandarbhabaher laingik sambandhanna kadhihi spashtapane manai keleli nahee, tathapi, bahutek bahutek heey Deuteronumy 23:18 madhye spasht asalyache samajate, "konatihi israyali stree veshya nasavi". tyanusar, joou purush avivahit strila laingik sambandh thevanyacha moh karato, tyane tichya vadilanni tyala parvanagi denyas nakar deela nahee, toparyant tine nantar tichyashi lagn karanyachi kinwa nuksanbharpai mhanoon samatulya rakkam deu kelee pahije. haah kayada keval kumari mahilansathi aahe, kaaran vivah bajarat tyanche moolya jase hote tase qamee hote. mhanoon, purushane ektar tichyashi lagn karnyacha prastav deela pahije kinwa tichya qamee kimmatisathi paise dile pahijet, jase qee, vivah bajarat jeey kaumaryala khoop mahatva dete.
hastamaithun.
toramadhye spasht aadnyechya swarupat pratibandhit nasatanahi, halkha aanee maukhik torah purush hastamaithunakade halakhi bandee aanee eka mothe paap mhanoon pahatat, jeey utpatti 38:7 pasoon baybalmadhil bandee mhanoon vyutpann hote. purush shukranunpratichi vrutti hii bhavishyatil sambhavya jiwant mansanpaiki eka aahe aanee asha prakare, hastamaithunacha ullekh naitikdrushtya keela jaato, jaree kayadeshiraritya nahee, hatyepramanech, jyamadhye hastamaithuni karnara tyachya sambhavya santaticha naash kareet aahe. kabali sahityane hastamaithunachi krutee heey eka mothe paap asalyache ghoshit kele.
stree hastamaithunacha tiraskar qamee keela jaato aanee konatyahi jyoo majkurat tyacha ullekh kvachitach keela jaato.
aadhunik kalat, vaidyakeey tapasani kinwa garbhadhanasathi purush veerya ghene heey paap aahe qaa yaa halakhi prashnavar jyoo kayadeshir kayadeshir vaad aahe.
anek ashkenazi ashkenazi vivahit purushala-kahee vishisht paristhitinmadhye-tyanchya laingik sambandhancha bhag mhanoon tyachya patnichya sharirabaher skhalan karanyachi parvanagi dilee, moses isherlessne tyachya 'shulkhan aarukh' vareel tippanyanmadhye lihilelya majkurachya pathopath.
laingik kalpanaramya.
halakhi sahitya 'hirhur' chya (shabdik arth) pratibandhanvar charcha karate. vichar) aanee "histclute" (lii. baghato). tzniyutchya (vinamrata) anek paddhati yaa pratibandhanna houu naan denyas madat karatat.
pornography.
konatyahi halakhi granthanmadhye ashlilatecha spashtapane ullekh nahee, parantu anek halakhi kayadyandvare tyala pratibandhit kele aahe. yapaiki pahile kayade mhanje tzniyatche niyam kinwa vinamrata. ashleel chitrapatat abhinay kelyane aekhadyache nagna shareer ughad karoon vinayshilateche niyam modatat. yavyatirikt, yaa chitrapatanchya nirmitimadhye sahbhagi asalele (jeey chitrikaran kele jaat naheet teey dekhil) laingikdrushtya tadjod kelelya sthiteet asalelyanna pahoon tzniyatche niyam modat aahet. ashlilata nirmitivar bandee bandee halakhi kayadyancha dusra sanch mhanje vivahetar laingik sambandh. torahmadhye vivahetar sambandh prachalit asale taree, talmudik kalatil rabbi lokanni vivahetar laingik sambandhanna bekaydeshir tharavale. tyamule done avivahit ashleel abhinetyanmadhil laingik sambandh halakhadvare pratibandhit kele jaatil. shevati, hastamaithunachya aaspaschya halakhi kayadyandvare ashlilata pratibandhit aahe, jyachyashi tee hatmilavani karate. yaa kayadyandvare keval ashleel samagri pahanyasach manai nahee tarr ashleel samagri tayar karnyasahi manai aahe. kitzoor shulchan aarukh biyane galanyas manai karato, asha prakare purushane garbhadharanechya hetushivay laingik sambandh thevanyas manai karato. heey purushanna keval bhagidar kinwa bhagidaransah ashleel samagri tayar karnyasach pratibandhit karat nahee tarr ekal samagri tayar karnyas dekhil pratibandhit karate. yaulat, striyanna biyane naan fodanyachi ashee konatihi aadnya nasate aanee tyamule hastamaithunache kayade tyanna ashleel samagri tayar karnyas pratibandhit karat naheet. tathapi, shevati, tzniyutchya kayadyanmule serve linganchya lokanna ashleel chitrapat tayar karnyas kinwa khanyas manai aahe.
ashlilata visheshtah halakhi granthandvare pratibandhit aahe, tarr aadhunik rabbi pratisad yaa vishayavar sammishra matey aahet. udaharanarth, kahee rudhivadi rabbi assa yuktivad karatat qee ashlilata sevan karane heey vivahetar sambandh thevnyaitakech aahe. yaulat, kahee sudharana rabbi asey suchavatat qee kamuk samgrichya sevanane vaivahik sambandhanna fayda houu shakato. aadhunik yugat ashlilata sweekarli jaate qee nahee yabaddal jude dharmatil panthanmadhil aanee tyanchyamadhil samkalin rabbi ekmatane aalele naheet.
laingik pratha aanee sanskruti.
talmud mhanate qee purush aaplya patnila laingik sambandh thevanyas bhag padu shakat nahee. talmud asehi dawa karate qee bandkhor mule asha lokanmadhun yeteel jeey vishisht prakare mool dharan karatat, jyat strine tichya patichya bhitine laingik sambandh thewale tarr, jarr konee daruchya nashet asel tarr aanee jarr ekhadya mahilevar balatkar jhaala tarr itar udaharanansah.

