ketty coestner

catherine etch. coestner hii laingik atyacharachya virodhat kaam karnari american karyakarta aahe. 1990 madhye vayachya 18 vya varshi, tee aanee tichi bhet yancha samavesh asalelya william aanee merrie campusemadhye jhalelya kathit balatkaranantar tee sarvajanikaritya pudhe aalee. coestnerne 1991 madhye itar mahavidhyalayin parisaranmadhye jagrukta vadhavanyasathi vyakhyane deuun tichya anubhavabaddal bolanyas suruvat kelee. balatkar sankat kendranmadhyehi tine swechhene kaam kele. teela prasarmadhyamandhye dakhavale gele, jyat etch. bii. oo. vishesh, 'noow visible brucisesah daad catty coestner story' (1993) samavisht aahe. coestnerche karya aanee sakriyatemule 'tarikh balatkar' haah shabd balatkar aanee laingik atyacharachya vyapak charchecha bhag bananyas madat jhaali aahe. 1994 madhye william andd merrie mahavidhyalayatun padvi ghetalyanantar coestnerne anek campus laingik atyachar pratibandh gatanchi sthapana kelee. coester heey take back daad nite foundation sadhyache sanchalak, campus outreach servicesche adhyaksh aahet aanee balatkar aanee itar prakarchya laingik hinsacharas pratibandh karnyat madat karnyasathi itar sansthansathi sallagar mhanoon kaam karatat.
prarambhik jeevan aanee hallah.
coestner heey harrisburg, pensylvania yetheel rahivasi aahet. 1990 chya vasant rutumadhye tine pensylvaniatil mechanixburg yetheel comberland valley highschoolmadhun padvi prapt kelee. 1990 chya akheris tine william aanee merrie (doubleu andd emm) madhye pravesh ghetala jithe tine rasayanik abhiyantriki aanee japani shikanyachi yojana aakhali. kostnerver eka vidyarthinine balatkar keela hota, jichyashi tee fakt eka aathvadyapeksha jaast kalapasoon dating karat hotee. tine tyaa vidyarthyala eka detnantar tichya vasatigruhat parat bolavile hote. teey eka french restaurantmadhye detwar gele hote aanee tyanantar coestnerla tyachyasobat ekta vel ghalvayacha hota. tyala aat bolavlyanantar, tee mhanate qee tyane tichyavar tyachyashi laingik sambandh thevanyasathi dabav taknyas suruvat kelee, jawaljawal pahateparyant dabav kayam thewala. tichya bhetiparyant teela tichya gulabi galichyavar piin kele gele. coestnerne sangitale qee sexbaddal anek taas vaad ghalalyanantar teela thakwa aanee ashaktapana jaanavala aanee too mhanala, "tyane mallah ratrabhar kantalavale. mea kahee karoo shakalo nahee."tine sangitale qee tichi tarikh tichya varr chadhali aanee tine kathit nishedh asoonahi laingik sambandh thewale."tee mhanali qee teela" "ardhangvayu" "jhaala aahe aanee" "tyala prachand ahankar hota aanee tyala aayushyat jeey havey hote teey nehmich tyachyakade hote".
24 taas sampeparyant coestnerchi konatyahi prakarchi vaidyakeey tapasani jhaali nahee. tichya purvichya bhetine tichya nondi sodalelya hotya aanee mitranni tyanchyat eka baithak aayojit karnyacha prayatna keela, yaa aashene qee tyanchyat goshti julavun ghetalya jaau shakatat. tee tyala tyachya vasatigruhatil vishramgruhat bhetali jithe tine tyala tond dile aanee vicharale qee tyane teela "nahee" mhanat aikale aahe qaa?"tyane pratyuttar detana mhatale qee tyane aikale aahe qee coestnerche vadil aata kumari naslyamule tichyavar ragavale hote."coestnerla asehi vatale qee tichya kathit balatkarala shalechya paricharikanni" "gambhiryane ghetale nahee", "jyane teela balatkaracha sanch ghenyaivaji zopechya golya gheuun" "ghatana thambava" "assa sallah deela". polis ahwal dakhal karnyaivaji, teela doubleu andd emm yethe prashasakeey sunavani karnyas sanganyat aale. mahavidhyalayatil nyayalayin prakriyedvare tichya takraricha pathpurava karane sope asalyache vidyarthyanchya adhishthane teela sangitale. sunavanidarmyan, kathit balatkarine sangitale qee tine dawa kelyapramane, tyaa ratri kiman 12 vela tyane coestnerla 'nahee' mhanatana aikale nahee. balatkarasathi kathor shiksha houu naye aanee gunhegarala konachya rahatya gharat pravesh karoo naye yaa ativar parisarat rahanyachi parvanagi denyat yeil, assa nirnay sunavanidarmyan ghenyat aala."prashasakanchya matey, asha" "saumya paristhiti" "hotya jyamule kathit balatkarila parisarat rahanyachi parvanagi midali".
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teela tichya serve mahilanchya vasatigruhatil tichya roommate aanee itar mahilanchya pathimbyacha abhav jaanavalyamule, tichyavar kathitpane hallah jhalyanantar kahee mahinyantach, coestner campusemadhil naveen nivassthani halali. tiche aaee-vadilahi teela pathimba dett navhate. tathapi, 1991 madhye, coestner sarvajanikaritya pudhe aala aanee sangitale qee tee balatkarachya sunavanitil adnyat pidit hotee. tine tichya sthanik vruttapatrala pathavalele patra deshbharat prachalit jhaale. coestner 'time' masikachya mukhprushthavar disala. tee 'larry king live, daad opara winfrey shhow', 'daad jaine whitney shhow', 'cnbc tock live' madhye disali aanee 'washington poost' madhye disali. yaa prasiddhimule governor dug wilder yanni vharjiniyatil shikshanat guntalelya guntalelya campus balatkaracha abhyas karnyas sangitale. coestner sarvajanikaritya pudhe aalyanantar kahee varshanni doubleu andd emne tyanchi dhorane badalali jenekarun laingik atyacharache doshi aadhalalelya vidyarthyanna nilambit karane aavashyak aahe. coestnerla tichya balatkarachya sarvajanik kathebaddal tivra virodhala samore jaave lagaleh teela itar vargmitrankadun khodkar durdhvani aanee samajik kalank prapt jhaale.
coestnerne tarkhechya balatkarachya muddyavar manvi chehara denyasathi pudhe yene nivadle aanee teela asey vatale qee shaikshanik sunavani hii 'dusari balee' aahe."coestnerla nyay havah hota. jiim spensor yaa eka patrakarane nidarshanas aanoon dile qee see sarasari asane aanee shaikshanik parikshet asane yamule hakalpatti houu shakate, parantu sunavanidarmyan balatkar jhaala yaa nirnayamule samaan shiksha houu shakat nahee. kathit balatkari anamikpane prasarmadhyamandhye pudhe aala aanee mhanala qee tyala vatale qee paristhiti anyaykarakpane atishayokti aaheh 'bhavnik dabav takane, coestnerla sharirikaritya sambhog karnyas bhag padane nahee' yaa aaropakhali tyala doshi tharvanyat aale hote."tyane asehi mhatale qee coestner tyachyavar balatkaracha khota aarop karat hota asey tyala vatate kaaran tine sambhog kelyabaddal" "khed vyakt karnyas suruvat kelee". "
1991 madhye, coestnerchi cornell vidyapithat badali jhaali, parantu tichyavar balatkar madat vidyarthinila tatpurte nilambit kelyanantar eka varshanantar too doubleu andd emmadhye parat aala. tichya anubhavabaddal niyojit etch. bii. oo. natkikaranatil tichya pagarachya bhoomikevaril vadamule eka yachika tayar jhaali jyat kathet 'purushacha drushtikon' vicharat ghenyachi magani karnyat aalee. yachika mohimecha neta coestnerchya kathit balatkarachya sadhyachya preyasicha hota. yachikevar swakshari swakshari sangitale qee, kathit balatkarachya navacha ullekh chhotya parisarat hota aanee tyacha naash hoil."shalechya vruttapatrala sampadkala koestnervar balatkarachi takrar lavkar naan kelyabaddal teeka karnari patre midali. coestner 1993 madhye etch. bii. oo. chya natakikaranat disala, 'drishyaman jakhama nahitah catty coestner katha'. 'drishyaman jakhama naheet' haah etch. bii. oo. chya malikecha bhag asalela ardha taas vishesh hota.  coestnerne laingik atyachar rokhanyasathi aanee mahavidhyalayin parisarat laingik atyacharachya dhorananvar karyashala denyas suruvat kelee. tyaveli kahee vidyarthyanni tiche swaroop 'vibhajankari' manale hote. coestnerne 1994 madhye doubleu andd emmadhun sarvajanik dhoran aanee mahila abhyasat padvi prapt kelee.
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coestnerne 1994 madhye campus outreach services yaa shaikshanik sansthechi sthapana kelee. tine cornell vidyapithat itaranna aaghat (aardaorda) samajoon ghenyas madat madat vidyarthyanchi sthapana kelee aanee doubleu andd emm yethe laingik atyachar sathidar karyakram suru keela. tine eka balatkar sankat kendrat swayamsevi mhanoon kaam kele aanee vharjiniyamadhye pramanit samvayask-shikshak jahirat laingik atyachar sallagar bunley. take back daad nite foundationchya karyakari sanchalak jhalya. tee online aanee chhapil swarupat prakashit jhaali aahe. coestnerchya prayatnanmulech 'tarikh balatkar' hii sankalpana aanee shabd janateche laksh vedhoon ghetale. coestner hii kathit dett balatkarachi pahili balee hotee jee tichya anubhavabaddal sarvajanikpane pudhe aalee.

