
varan

oru vivaahachadangil varante parichaarakariloraalaan varan allengil asher. saadhaaranayaayi, varanayi sevikkaan varan adutha suhruthukkaleyum bandhukkaleyum thiranjedukkunnu, thiranjedukkappedunnathu oru bahumathiyayi kanakkaakkappedunnu. thante varanmaarilninnu, varan saadhaaranayaayi ettavum nalla manushyanaayi sevikkaan oraale thiranjedukkunnu.
niravadhi athidhikal ulla oru vivaahathin, vivaahachadangil pankedukkaathe mattu purushasuhrithukkalodum bandhukkalodum asharmarayi pravartthikkaan varan aavasyappedaam; chadanginu munbu athidhikale avarude seettukalilekku athikkuka ennathaanu avarude eaka dauthyam. valare valia vivahangalkkum asharukale niyamichekkaam.
oru sainika udyogasthante vivaahathil, varanmaarude rolukalkku pakaram vaal oonar gaardinte walmanmare niyamikkunnu. avar saadhaaranayaayi varanodoppam sevanamanushtichavarude adutha swakaarya suhruthukkalaayi thiranjedukkappedunnu. vivahitharaaya dambathikalkkum athidhikalkkum nadakkaan parambaraagatha sabar kamaanam roopappeduthunnathu avarude rolil ulppedunnu.
ooksfoord engleesh nighandu prakaram 'varan' enna vaakkinte aadya record upayogam 1698 laanu, ennirunnaalum 'vadhuvum' 'varan' ennee vaakkukal pazhaya engleeshilethaanu.
chumathalakal.
vivaahachadanginu munbu athidhikale avarude sthalangal kandethaanum vivaahachadangil varante sameepam nilkkanum sahayikkuka ennathaanu varanmaarude ettavum drishyamaaya kadama.
koodaathe, staag-duu allengil bucks naitt ennum vilikkappedunna baachilar party polulla aaghosha paripaadikal aasoothranam cheyyuka; ottaykkaayirikkunna aalukalumayi samsaarikkukayo allengil oru vivaha sweekaranathil nritham cheiyukayaanenkil, oppam varaatha athidhikalumaayo vadhuvinumaayo nritham cheiyukayo cheyyuka; allengil sammanangal, lagej allengil apratheekshitha sankeernathakal ennivayil praayogika sahayam nalkuka enniva polulla mattu tharatthilulla sahayangal varan abhyarthikkaam. navadambathikalude kaar alankarikkunnathu polulla praadeshikamo praadeshikamo aaya paarambaryangalilum varanmaarkk pankedukkaam.
varanmarkk munbu pradhana chumathalakal undaayirunnu. vadhuvine "uyarthaano thattikkondupokaano" sahaayikkaano allengil thattikkondupokappedaan aagrahikkunnavaril ninnu vadhuvine samrakshikkendathinte aavasyakathayil ninnu oru manushyan thante suhruthukkale vilichukonduvannappol, pidichedukkunnathiloode vivaahathinte aadima dinangalude athijeevanathe prathinidheekarikkunna purushanmaare vadhuvinte-naitts ennu vilichirunnu.
ettavum nalla manushyan.
oru vivaahathil varante mukhya sahaayiyaan ettavum nalla manushyan. eee vesham pazhakkamullathaanenkilum, scotish bhaashayile "bestt maan aandu bestt waid" englandile "vadhuvum vadhuvum-velakkariyum" ennathinu thulyamaanennu nireekshikkunna "bestt maan" enna padatthinte ettavum pazhaya likhitha upayogam 1782 muthal varunnu.
mikka aadhunika aamglophon raajyangalilum, varan eee bahumati thannodu adutha oraalkk, saadhaaranayaayi oru adutha suhruthino bandhuvo (sahodarano casino polullavar) nalkunnu. oru vivaahachadangil ettavum nalla manushyan varante arikil, alppam pinnil nilkkunnu. ithinartham balipeetathil sannihitharaya naalu perr udyogasthar (oru sivil aaghoshakan, purohitan, raabi, mantri allengil mattu mathanethaakkal), vadhu, varan, bestt maan ennivaraanu. chila paashchaathya rajyangalil ithu saadhaaranamaanu, ennirunnaalum mattu rajyangalil mikacha purushan vadhuvum thulya nilavaaratthil pankedukkunnu.
ettavum nalla manushyan aavashyamaaya kadamakal oru suhruthinte maathram kadamakalaanengilum, oru paashchaathya velutha vivaahathinte pashchaathalatthil, ettavum nalla manushyan saadhaaranayaayi
vividha raajyangalilum samskaarangalilum.
ettavum nalla manushyan oru saarvathrika achaaramalla. oru mikacha manushyan pathivaya sthalangalil polum, lokathinte mattu mekhalakalumaayi thaarathamyappeduthumbol aaa punk thikachum vyathyasthamaayirikkam.
baachilar party.
munkaalangalil, vivaahathin munbulla aazhchayil soukaryapradamaaya oru vaikunneramaanu baachilar party nischayichirunnathu. orutharam vidavaangal athaazham, athu ellaayppozhum aathidheyathvam vahikkukayum athinaal poornnamaayum varan thanne samghadippikkukayum panam nalkukayum cheythu. ottaykkaayulla thante suhruthukkale rasippikkanulla varante avasana avasaramaayaan athaazham kaanappettath; vivaahathinusesham, veettilulla athaazhapaarttikalkku ellaayppozhum aathidheyayaayi bhaaryayude adhyakshathayundaakum.
lokathinte vividha bhaagangalil "baachilar party, staag doow" allengil "bucks 'naitt" ennivayaanu eee paripaadiyude saadhaarana bhasha namangal. pala mekhalakalilum, eee athaazham ippol ettavum saadhaaranayaayi mikacha manushyanaan samghadippikkunnathu; pankedukkunna ellaavarkkum allengil pankedukkunna ellaavarkkum chelavu pankidaan kazhiyum, varan ozhike, avan vishishtaathidhiyaakunnu.