
limerance

mattoru vyakthiyodulla romaantik allengil noonn-romanric vikaarangalil ninnu undaakunna oru maanasikaavasthayaanu limerance, koodaathe saadhaaranayaayi nuzhanjukayattavum vishada chinthakalum allengil oraalude vaathsalyathinte lakshyathekkurichulla daarunamaaya aashankakalum athupole thanne oru bandham roopappeduthaano nilanirthaano ulla aagrahavum ulppedunnu. theevramaaya aagrahathinte swamedhayaa ulla avasthayaayum limerancine nirvachikkaam.
manasshaasthranjayaaya dorothy tennov thante 1979 leeii pusthakamaaya "lavu aandu limeransa dhii experience oof beeying inn lavu" ennathinaanu "limerance" enna padam upayogichathu, 1960 kalude madhyathil thante srishtikalil ninnu valarnna oru ashayam vivarikkunnathinayi, pranaya vishayathil 500 ladhikam aalukalumayi abhimukham nadathiyappol.
laingikatha maathramullathallaatha limerance, athinte prachodanaathmakamaaya phalangaludeyum attaachment sidhaanthavumaayulla bandhatthinteyum adisthaanathil nirvachikkappettittundu. oorjjaswalatha muthal nirasha vareyulla nuzhanjukayattavum absassive aaya chinthakal, vikarangal, perumattangal enniva ulppedunna oru parimithamaaya vasthuvumayulla (loow) aaraadhanayudeyum aduppathinteyum swamedhayaa prachodippikkunna avastha, vaikarikamaaya paraspara prathikaranatthe aasrayichirikkunnu" ennaanu ithine visheshippikkunnathu. shaasthreeya saahithyathil limerancinu kaaryamaaya shradha labhichittillenn wilmot bentliyum abhipraayappedunnu.
attaachment sidhaantham oonnipparayunnathu "attaachment bandhangalude roopeekaranam, paripalanam, thadassappedutthal, puthukkal ennivaykkidayilaanu ettavum theevramaaya vikarangal undaakunnath" ennaanu. attaachment roopeekarana samayat "laingika prachodana prachodanatthinte bodhapoorvamaaya anubhavamaan", "laingika prachodana prachodanatthinte orutharam aathmanishta anubhavam" "theevramaaya samayat" ennu nirddeshikkappettittund... manushya snehabandhathinte "jody roopeekarana ghattam".
savisheshathakal.
limerance enna ashayam "snehathinte ardhashaasthraparamaaya mekhalayude oru prathyeka kothupani nalkunnu", koodaathe snehathinte swabhaavathekkurichulla shaasthreeya padanatthinulla shramathe prathinidheekarikkunnu. mattoru vyakthiyumayi vaikaarikamaayi bandhappettirikkunnatho allengil abhiniveshamullatho aaya oru vaijnjaanikavum vaikarikavumaaya avasthayaayi limerance kanakkaakkappedunnu, ithu saadhaaranayaayi manappoorvvam anubhavappedukayum oraalude vikarangal parasparam kaimaranullah sakthamaaya aagraham-romaantik snehathinte oru aakarshakamaaya roopam. tennovine sambandhichidatholam, "laingika aakarshanam limerancinte oru pradhana gadakamaanu... loow, loow aakunnathin, limerant oru laingika pankaaliyaakaanulla saadhyathayulla oralaayi limerantumaayi bandhappett nilakollanam ".
wilmot bentliyum limerancine nirvachikkunnath oru vyakthiyodulla (limerant object) theevramaaya aarambhavum apratheekshithavum obsessive attaachmentumaanu. rheuminative chintha, uthkanda, vishaadam, thaalkkaalika sthireekaranam, svayam vighadippikkal thudangiya aantharika anubavangal limerancinte savisheshathayaanu, koodaathe eee prameyangal pariharikkappedaatha muun anubhavangalumayum svayam-yaadhaarthyamaakkaanulla sramangalumaayum bandham kandethunnathayi wilmot bentliyum avarude cases padanangalil kandethi.
limerancine chilappol moham allengil samsaarabhashayil "krash" ennum vilikkunnu. ennirunnaalum, pothuvaaya samsaarathil, aparyapthamaaya vivarangalil ninnulla pakwathayillaaymayudeyum extrapolationteyum vashangal mohathil ulppedunnu, ithu saadhaaranayaayi hraswakaalamaanu. kaumaarapraayatthile oru buzz-kendreekritha krashilennapole, athinte thudakkathinu thottupinnaale limerance engane layikkumenn tennov rekhappeduthunnu, ennaal "laimerant bondukalude savisheshatha 'entropy' chrystalisation aayirikkumbol avar kooduthal aashankaakulayaanu, stendal vivarichathupole 1821 leeii" pranayathekkurichulla "prabandhatthil, avide oru puthiya pranaya moham bodhapoorvam parivartthanam cheyyaan thudangunnu... [koodaathe] aakarshakamaaya swabhaavasavisheshathakal athishayokthiparavum aakarshakamallaatha swabhaavasavisheshathakalkk valare kurachu shradhayo shradhayo nalkappedunnilla... oru 'laimerant object' [srishtikkunnu].
tennov parayunnathanusarichu, kuranjathu rund tharatthilulla snehamenkilum undu "limerance", athu mattu karyangalkkoppam, "snehaparamaaya attaachment" ennu avar visheshippikkunnu; "snehapoornamaaya vaalsalyam", oru vyakthiyum avarude maathaapithaakkalum kuttikalum thammilulla bandham. oru roopam mattonnayi parinamikkumennu avar shradhikkunnu "ore pankaaliyodulla vaathsalyabandham vazhi parimithamaaya sthaanam maattisthaapichavarkku parayaam... 'njangal vivaahitharaakumbol njangal valareyadhikam pranayathilaayirunnu; innu njangal parasparam valareyadhikam snehikkunnu. attaachment sidhaanthakarude attaachment tennovinte parimithiyil aagrahicha vaikaarika paraspara bandhavumaayi valare saamyamullathum oronnum laingikathayumaayi bandhappettathumaan" ennathupole, "laingika pravartthanatthinte jody roopeekaranavum jody paripalical thammilulla" ethologistukal varacha vyathyaasavumaayi thaarathamyappeduthaavunnatha.
nikki hays limerancine "orutharam aakarshaneeyavum ellaam agiranam cheiyunnathumaaya abhinivesham" ennaanu visheshippikkunnathu. thante jeevithathil randuthavana kandumuttukayum "laa vitta newa", "divya komadi" ennivaykku prachodanamaayi pravartthikkukayum cheytha oru vyakthiyaya beatricinode daantheykku thonniya tharatthilulla snehavumaayi tennov athine thulanam cheythu. mattoraalkk vendiyulla eee poorttheekarikkappedaathu, theevramaaya aagrahamaan limerancine nirvachikkunnath, avide vyakthi "aaa vyakthiyil kooduthalo kuravo abhinivesham kaanikkukayum avarude samayathinte bhooribhaagavum avarekkurichu sangalppikkaan chelavazhikkukayum cheiyunnu". aakarshanathinulla vyavasthakal athu niravettappedaathe poyaal maathrame limerance neendunilkkoo; athinaal, antharleenamaaya vikaarangale pinthunaykkaan idaykkide, idaykkide shakthippeduthal aavasyamaanu. lakshyathinte aprapyamaaya swabhaavamaanu aaa vikaarathe valare shakthamaakkunnath" ennum maasangalo varshangalo vare athicheraan kazhiyaatha oraalude kaaryatthil parimithaavasthayil thudarunnathu asaadhaaranamallennum hays abhipraayappedunnu. goythe ezhuthiya "dhaa soads oof yang verther" enna novalile charlottinodulla vertharinte nirupadhikam snehamaanu limerancinte prashasthamaaya saahitya udaaharanam nalkunnathu.
vyakthiyodulla laimerant vasthuvinte swabhaavathe prathifalippikkunna nuzhanjukayatta chinthayum baahya sambhavangalodulla vyakthamaaya samvedanakshamathayumaanu limerancinte savisheshatha. vikarangal parasparam prathifalikkunnundo ennathine aashrayich athu theevramaaya santhoshamaayi allengil theevramaaya niraashayaayi anubhavikkan kazhiyum. yukthirahithamaya abhiniveshamo snehamo kondu, asakthiparamaaya perumaattatthinte ghattathilekku polum poornnamaayum kondupokappedunna avasthayaanithu. saadhaaranayaayi, oraalodu theevramaaya abhiniveshamo aadaravo ulla oraal prachodithanaakunnu. orikkalum anubhavichittillaathvar limerance manasilakkaan prayaasamaan, athinaal ithu palappozhum parihasyamaaya faantasi allengil romaantik fictionte nirmmithiyaayi parimithikalallaathavar thallikkalayunnu.
mattoraalude shemathodum vikaarathodumulla uthkandayil sneham ulppedunnuvennu urappichukondu tennov limerance mattu vikaarangalum thammil verthirikkunnu. limerancinu athu aavashyamillengilum, aaa aashankakal theerchayaayum ulppeduthiyekkaam. aaa vikarangal parasparam prathifalikkunnundo ennathu pariganikkathe, mattoru vyakthiyodulla oru manobhaavamaayi maathrame vaalsalyavum snehavum nilanilkkoo, athesamayam limerance parasparabandham aazhathil aagrahikkunnu, pakshe athu thirike nalkappettaalum illengilum athu maattamillathe thudarunnu. laingika aakarshanam anubavikkunna oraalil ninnu vyathyasthamayi, limerance anubavikkunna oru vyakthikk vasthuvumayulla shaareerika sanbarkkam anivaaryamo paryaapthamo allah. aadyakaala, anarogyakaramaaya attaachment paattenukalo aaghaathamo limerancine swaadheenikkumbol, laimerant object yadhaartha anarogyakaramaaya attaachmentilo aaghaathathilo ulppedunna roopathinteyo roopathinteyo aadarshavalkkaranamaayi kanakkakkaam. atharam sandarbhangalil paraspara prathikaranatthinte abhavam munbathe anarogyakaramaaya bandhanubhavangalil padicha paadangal shakthippeduthaanum athinaal parimitiye shakthippeduthaanum sahaayichekkam.
gadakangal.
limerance ennathu laimerant vasthuvinekurichulla nuzhanjukayatta chinthayaanu. paraspara vinimayathinayulla theevramaaya aagraham, nirasikkappedumenna bhayam, parimithamaaya vasthuvinte saannidhyathil aswasthathayundaakkunna lajja ennivayaanu mattu savisheshathakal. nirupadhikam parimithikalude kesukalil, parimithamaaya vasthuvil ninnulla parasparabandham vyakthamaayi sangalppikkunnathiloode shanikamaaya aashvaasam kandethaam. prathikoola saahacharyangaliloodeyo thadassangaliloodeyo akalatthiloodeyo-'prathikoola sahacharyangaliloodeyulla theevratha' yiloodeyo parimithabodham theevramaakkaamennu tennov nirddeshikkunnu. anukoolamaayi vyaakhyaanikkaan kazhiyunna eathenkilum pravrithi, chintha allengil avasthayodu oru parimithamaaya vyakthikk theevramaaya samvedanakshamatha undayirikkaam. enthukondaanu nishpakshamaaya pravartthanangal laimerant objectile maranjirikkunna abhiniveshathinte adayaalamaayirikkunnathu ennathinu "nyayamaaya" vishadeekaranangal aavishkarikkaano kettichamaykkaano kandupidikkaano ulla pravanatha ithil ulppedaam.
limerance anubavikkunna oru vyakthikk pashchaathalatthil mattu aashankakal avasheshippikkunna vikaarathinte pothuvaaya theevrathayundu. avarude chinthakalil, atharamoru vyakthi laimerant objectil prashamsaneeyamaaya kaaryangalkk oonnal nalkukayum negatteevu allengil prasnakaramaaya attributeukal ozhivaakkukayum cheiyunnu.
nuzhanjukayatta chinthayum faantasiyum.
limerancinte uyarathil, laimerant vasthuvinte (allengil vyakthi) chinthakal oresamayam sthiravum swamedhayaa ullathum nuzhanjukayattamullathumaan. loyekkurichulla atharam "nuzhanjukayatta chinthakal... janithakamaayi nayikkappedunnathaayi thonnunnu ": theerchayaayum, limerance onnamathaayi cognitive obsashante oru avasthayaanu. obsessive-compulsive desorder ullavarumayi thaarathamyappeduthumbol thalachorile serotonin alavu kuravaayirikkaam ithu kaaranamaakunnath. ellah sambhavangalum, bandhangalum, uthejakangalum anubhavangalum chinthakale aswasthamaaya sthirathayode parimithamaaya vasthuvilekku thirike nalkunnu, athesamayam laimerant vasthuvinekurichulla nirantharamaaya chinthakal matellaa anubhavangaleyum nirvachikkunnu. oru prathyeka chinthaykku laimerant objectumaayi munpulla bandhamillengil, udan thanne orennam nirmmikkappedum. yaadhaarthyathil veroonniyittillenkil parimithamaaya faantasi thripthikaramalla, kaaranam faantasi yaadhaarthyabodhamullathum oru paridhivare saadhyavumaanennu thonnanamennu fantasiser aagrahichekkaam. avarude ettavum kadinamaaya, nuzhanjukayattamulla parimithamaaya chinthakal oru vyakthiyude unarunna samayam poornnamaayum pidichedukkum, athinte falamaayi-kadutha asakti pole-joliyum kudumbavum ulppedeyulla parimithamaaya vyakthiyude saadhaarana thaalpparyangaleyum pravarthanangaleyum ganyamaayi allengil poornnamaayum thadassappeduthunnu. seeriyal limerantukalkku, ithu school, jolie, kudumba jeevitam ennivayil durbalappeduthunnathinum aajeevanantha nettangal kuraykkunnathinum kaaranamakum.
vidoora aashayangalumayi bandhapetta faantasikal saadhaaranayaayi fantasiser upekshikkunnu. chilappol bhavana munkaala praabalyathode chithreekarikkunnu yadhaartha sambhavangal oormmayil ninnu valia uthsaahathode aavarthikkunnu. saadhyamaaya paraspara vinimayathinte thelivaayi kaanappedunnath veendum anubhavikkan kazhiyumbol (orutharam selective allengil revisionist charithram) eee roopam prabalamaakunnu. allengil, neenda faantasi munkootty edukkunnathaanu; athu dainamdina lokath aarambikkukayum parimithamaaya lakshyam nedunnathiloode climax aakukayum cheiyunnu. oru laimerant faantasiyil asaadhaaranavum palappozhum daarunavumaaya oru sambhavavum ulppedaam.
neenda faantasikal limerantinte saadhaarana jeevithathinum theevramaayi aagrahicha aaa ananda nimishathinum edayilulla paalangal nirmmikkunnu. oru faantasiyude dairkhyavum sankeernathayum samayathinte labhyathayeyum shradha vyathichalippikkunnathil ninnulla swaathanthryatheyum aasrayichirikkunnu. sangalppikkappetta nimishatthinte aanandam kooduthal valuthaanu, athinu munbu sangalppikkappetta sambhavangal saadhyamaakumbol (avaa palappozhum saadhyathayullathil ninnulla gurutharamaaya vyathichalanangale prathinidheekarikkunnumdum). athu ellaayppozhum poornnamaayum sukhakaramalla, nirasikkappedaan saadhyathayundennu thonnumbol chinthakal nirashayil shradha kendreekarikkunnu, chilappol aathmahathyayude ghattathilekku. samsthaanathinte sukhamo asukhamo prathikaranatthinte theevrathayumaayi eathaandu bandhamillaathathaayi thonnunnu. vikaarathinte disha aanenkilum, I.iii.santhoshavum asanthushty enna nilayil, 'kuthichuchaattatthinteyum niraashayudeyum naadakeeyamaaya kuthichuchaattangal', nuzhanjukayattatthinteyum swamedhayaa ulla chinthayudeyum theevratha athivegam kurayunnu, mathramalla prathyeka parimithamaaya vasthuvumayulla anubhavangalude shekharanathinu maathram prathikaranamaayi maarunnu.
limerance anubhavikkunavar idaykkide faantasikal swapnam kaanunnu. swapnangal anubhavikkumbol sakthamaaya vikaaravum santhoshavum nalkunnu, pakshe vishayam unarumbol palappozhum niraashayode avasaanikkunnu. vikarangal kuranjathinushesham swapnangalkku laimerant vasthuvinodu sakthamaaya vikarangal unarthaan kazhiyum.
nirasikkappedumenna bhayam.
asaadhaaranamaaya gunangalkk oonnal nalkunnathinoppam avayodulla bhakthiyum, vikarangal parasparam prathifalikkunnu ennathil dhaaraalam samshayamunda nirasikkal. ganyamaaya svayam samshayam neridunnu, ithu "vyakthiyude saannidhyathil aswasthamaakkunna bheeruthvathiloode prakadippikkunna vyakthiparamaaya kazhivillaaymayilekku" nayikkunnu, ithu durithatthinu kaaranamaakukayum aagrahathe uthejippikkukayum cheiyunnu.
mikka kesukalilum, paraspara vinimayamillathe uchithamaaya deerghakaalamaanu parimitiye nasippikkunnathu. prathikoola saahacharyangalkoppam limerance purogamikkunnathaayi thonnumenkilum vyakthiparamaaya aswasthatha athine vashalaakkiyekkaam. eee aswasthatha limerant vasthuvinte abhipraayangalekkurichu bhayathil ninnaan undaakunnath.
prateeksha.
pratheekshayudeyum anishchithathvathinteyum oru nischitha santhulithaavastha undaakumbol limerance vikasikkukayum nilanilkkukayum cheiyunnu. parimithamaaya pratheekshayude adisthaanam vasthunishtamaaya yaadhaarthyathilalla, marichu yaadhaarthyathil athu manassilaakkappedunnu. parimithamaaya pratheekshayude thelivinaayi samsaarathinte sookshumathakaliloodeyum perumaattatthinte sookshumathakaliloodeyum sookshumaparishodhana nadatthuka ennathaanu chaayvu. "pranayikal, theerchayaayum, adayaalangaludeyum athbhuthangaludeyum vaayanakkar enna nilayil bhraanthanmaarkkum (vishakalana vidagtharkkum) sesham randaamathu nilkkunna kuprasidhamaaya bhraanthan jnjaanameemaamsanjaraanu."cheria karyangal" shradhikkappedukayum ananthamaayi ardhathinaayi vishakalanam cheyyukayum cheiyunnu. ennirunnaalum, shareerabhaashaykk parasparamulla vikaarathe soochippikkaan kazhiyumennathinaal, nissaarakaaryangalekkuranu atharam amithamaya aashanka poornnamaayum adisthaanarahithamaayirikkil. laimerant object paranjathum cheythathum sajeevamaayi oormmippikkunnu. thirichuvilikkunna perumaattangalkk badal ardhangal thedunnu. oro wack aamgyavum avalokanathinaayi sthiramaayi labhyamaan, prathyekichu paraspara vikaarathin anukoolamaaya thelivaayi vyaakhyaanikkappedunnava. vasthukkal, aalukal, sthalangal allengil saahacharyangal enniva limerant vasthuvumayi abhimukeekarikkumbol, avaa vyakthamaayi oormmikkappedunnu, prathyekichu limerant vasthu avarumaayi eathenkilum vidhathil samvadikkukayaanenkil.
laimerant object parasparam prathikarikkilla allengil/allengil cheyyilla enna vishwaasam valia budhimuttode maathrame athicheraan kazhiyoo. nirasikkal amgeekarikkal yadhaarthamaakunnathinu valare munbe limerance vahikkaan kazhiyum, prathyekichum laimerant object athu parasyamaayi abhisambodhana cheythittillenkil.
eakaanthatha.
eakaanthatha anubhavikkunavarkk parimithamaaya avasthayilekku kadakkaan kooduthal saadhyathayundennu shaver hazan nireekshichu, "aalukalkk dhaaraalam saamoohika aavasyangal niravettaan kazhiyaathe vannal, ithu ariyillengil, mattoraalkk thaalpparyamundaakam ennathinte adayaalam aaa vyakthiyude bhavanayil athu souhaarddaparamaaya saamoohika bandhathekkaal valare kooduthalaayi eluppathil kettippadukkappedunnu. aaa saamoohika sanbarkkathinte oormmayil shradha kendreekarikkunnathiloodi, eakaanthanaaya vyakthi athine aazhathilulla vaikaarika anubhavamakki valuthaakkunnu, athu sambhavathinte yaadhaarthyathil ninnu thikachum vyathyasthamaayirikkam."
phalangal.
shaareerikam.
theevramaaya parimithiyude shaareerika phalangalil shwaasathadassam, vearp, hridayamidippu enniva ulppedaam.
vyapakamaaya uthkandayundengil, thettaaya perumaattam bandhathe attimarikkum, ithu shaareerika prathikaranangal theevramaayi prakadamaakaan kaaranamaayekkam. chila aalukalkk eee efakttukal laimerant vasthuvumayi sanbarkkam pulartthumbozho athinusheshamo valare nannayi anubhavappedunnu. sambhavangalude thirivine aashrayich aanandakaramaaya anandavum kadutha niraashayumaan vaikaarikamaayi samyojippikkappedunnathu.
manashaasthraparamaaya.
perumatta thalatthil vichithratha, idaral, lajja, ashayakkuzhappam enniva prabalamaanu. upekshikkal, nirasha, paishaachikamaayi apamanakaramaaya nirasha ennivayekkurichu rogikal paraathippedunnu. pakshaaghaatham srishtikkunna avyakthathayude oru bodham prabalamaanu, pinning kondu viraamachihnangal. edaykkideyullatho parasparavirudhamo aaya prathikaranangal nirashaykkum anandathinum idayil asthiramaaya shoonyathayilekku nayikkunnu. eee lingabhedamaanu maanasikamaya sashtanga namaskaarathinulla vaathil.
nirasikkappedumenna bhayathil ninnu undaakunna samvedanakshamatha limerant vasthuvinte shareerabhashayekkurichulla dhaaranakale irundathaakkum. aashayakkuzhappamundaakkunna parasparavirudhamaaya aagrahathinte adayaalangal prakadamaayekkaam. palappozhum, laimerant object mattonnil ulppettirikkunnu allengil mattethenkilum vidhathil labhyamalla.
susthiramaaya jagrata, avabodham vardhippikkal, parimithamaaya lakshyam pinthudarunnathinu vinyasikkunnathinayi oru valia oorjja fund enniva vikasippichedukkunnu. nenchinte madhyabhaagatho thondayude adibhaagatho ullilo ullile vayarilo chila sandarbhangalil vayarilo eee vedana anubhavappedunnu. parasparamulla samayangalil ithu aanandamaayi vyaakhyaanikkaamenkilum nirasikkappedunna samayangalil niraashayude samayathaan athinte saannidhyam ettavum sradheyamaakunnathu.
laingikatha.
shaareerika aakarshanathekkurichulla avabodham limerancinte vikasanathil oru pradhana punk vahikkunnu, pakshe limerant aagraham thripthippeduthaan paryaapthamalla, mikkavarum orikkalum pradhana shradha kendreekarikkunnilla; pakaram, limerant "prayojanakaramaaya attributeukal" ennu nirvachikkaavunna kaaryangalil shradha kendreekarikkunnu. ennirunnaalum, "laingika edapedal mathramalla, prathibaddhathayum koodichernnukondu, limerancinte ettavum sthiramaaya phalam inacheralaanu" ennu tennov oonnipparayunnu.
laingikabandham aarambhichathinusesham limerance theevramaakkaam, kooduthal theevramaaya limeransode laingika bandhatthinulla aagraham kooduthalaanu. ennirunnaalum, oru kaalath laingikamaaya keezhadangal ennathu parimithamaaya vasthu anubavikkunna anishchithathvathinte avasaanathe soochippikkunnu-kaaranam munkaalangalil, oru laingika ettumuttal palappozhum prathibaddhathayude vikaarathilekku nayichu-aadhunika kaalath ithu anganeyalla.
limerancinte laingika vasham oro vyakthikkum sthirathayilla. mikka limerantukalum romaantik thaalpparyatthinte oru gadakamaayi laimerant laingikatha anubavikkunnu. ennirunnaalum, chila limerantukalkku hyperarosalinte anantharafalamaayi limerance anubhavappedaam. atharam sandarbhangalil, thudakkathil oru romaantik idealaayi kanakkaakkaatha, marichu limerantinu shaareerika bheeshaniyaayi kanakkaakkappedunna laimerant objectinethiraaya oru prathirodha samvidaanamaayi limerance roopappettekkaam.
laingika faantasikal parimithamaaya faantasikalil ninnu vyathyasthamaan. laimerant faantasi yaadhaarthyathil veroonniyathaanu, swamedhayaa ullathinekkaal nuzhanjukayattamaanu. laingika faantasikal erekkure swamedhayaa ulla niyanthranathilaanu, aparichithar, saangalppika vyakthikal, sambhavikkaan kazhiyaatha saahacharyangal enniva ithil ulppettekkaam. limerance shareera thaapanila uyarthukayum vishramam vardhippikkukayum cheiyunnu, rooss niramulla kannada upayogichu lokathe kaananulla oru samvedanam, laingikathayodulla kooduthal sveekaaryathayilekkum pakal swapnangalilekkum nayikkunnu.
laingika pankaalikalekkurichum pravrithikalekkurichum yadhaarthathil aagrahikkaatha sahacharyangalekkurichum chinthichaal aalukalkk unaraan kazhiyum, athesamayam laimerant faantasiyude ellah vishadaamshangalum yadhaarthathil sambhavikkaan aaveshathode aagrahikkunnu. laimerant object sweekarikkappedaathatho labhyamallathatho aayirikkumbol limerance chilappol mattu pankaalikalilulla laingika thaalparyam vardhippikkunnu.
parimithamaaya dairkhyam.
chodyaavaliyudeyum abhimukhathinteyum daattaye adisthaanamaakki, prarambha nimisham muthal nishpakshathayude vikaaram vare sharashari parimithamaaya prathikarana dairkhyam ekadesham moonnu varshamaanennu tennov kanakkakkunnu. athirukal eathaanum aazhchakal vare hraswamo niravadhi pathittaandukal vare neendatho aakam. limerance hraswamaayirikkumbol, paramavadhi theevratha kaivarikkaan kazhinjirikkilla. david sack parayunnathanusarichu, emm.dii.pranaya pranayathekkaal kooduthal kaalam neendunilkkunna limerance aarogyakaramaya, prathibaddhathayulla pankaalithatthekkaal cheruthaanu.
mattullavar soochippikkunnathu "parimithiyude jaivajanya srothass saadhaaranayaayi rund varshathe kaalayalavilekkulla athinte paridhi nirnnayikkunnu", parimithikal saadhaaranayaayi 18 maasathinum moonnu varshathinum idayil neendunilkkum; ennaal nirasikkaatha parimithiyekkurichulla kooduthal padanangal dairkhyameriya kaalayalav soochippikkunnu. athaakatte, oru laimerant orotta laimerant episode maathrame anubhavikkunnulloo, allengil "seeriyal" episodukal anubhavichekkaam, athil oraalude praayapoorthiyaaya jeevitam, aadyakaala praayapoorthiyaakal muthal praayapoorthiyaakunnathinthi avasaanam vare, thudarchayaaya laimerant abhiniveshangalil upabhogam cheyyaan kazhiyum.
boond tharangal.
laimerant prathikaranam" aarambhichukazhinjaal, oru nischitha kaalayalavil nirvachichirikkunna moonnu tharam bondukalil onnu, anubhavavumayi bandhapetto anubhavappedaathathumaayi bandhapetto roopappedaam. eee bandhangalude ghadana bandhatthinte gathiyiludaneelam vyathyaasappedaam, athu limerancinte theevratha vardhippikkukayo kuraykkukayo cheythekkaam.
tennov nadatthiya eee vivaranathinte adisthaanavum rasakaravumaaya savisheshatha, avalude gaveshanathinteyum aalukalumaayulla abhimukhangaludeyum adisthaanathil, ellah manushyabandha bandhangaleyum moonnu tharangalayi thirikkam, oro pankaliyum sambhavana cheiyunna parimithiyude alavu allengil parimithathayillaayma ennivayaal nirvachikkappedunnu.
snehabandhamulla oru pankaliyum mithavaadikalalla. oru limerant-nonlimerant bondullah oru pankaali limerant aanu. oru parimithamaaya-parimithamaaya bandhatthil, rund pankaalikalum parimithamaayavaraan.
pankaalikal randuperum parimithamallaattha, dambathikal pranayathilaakunna, ennaal nirantharavum anaavasyavumaaya nuzhanjukayatta chinthakal report cheyyaatha, prathyekathayude theevramaaya aavasyakatha anubhavappedaatha, allengil paraspara bandhatthinte adisthaanathil avarude lakshyangal nirvachikkaattha, vaalsalyamulla laingika bandhangale vaathsalyapoornamaaya bandhangal savisheshatha nalkunnu. itharathilulla bandhita dambathikal thaalpparyangalude anuyojyatha, ozhivusamaya pravartthanangalile paraspara mungananakal, orumichu pravarthikkaanulla kazhivu, chila sandarbhangalil aapekshika samthrupthiyude alavu ennivaykku oonnal nalkunnu.
ennirunnaalum, tennovinte abhipraayathil, bandhangalil bhooribhaagavum oru parimithamaaya vyakthiyum parimithamallaattha mattoraalum thammilullathaanu, athaayath.iii. "laimerant-nonlaimerant bonting". eee bondukalude savisheshatha asamamaya paraspara vinimayamaanu.
avasaanamaayi, paraspara parasparabandham nilanilkkunna bandhangale "parimithamaaya-parimithamaaya bandhangal" ennu nirvachikkunnu. limerance thanne oru "asthiramaaya avastha" aayathinal, paraspara limerant bondukal hraswakaalathekku nilanilkkumennu pratheekshikkappedumennu tennov vaadikkunnu; mishra bandhangal orupakshe limerant-limerant bandhangalekkaal kooduthal kaalam nilanilkkum. chila parimithamaaya-parimithamaaya bandhangal kaalakramena parimithamaayathanusarichu vaalsalya bandhangalayi parinamikkunnu. atharam dambathikale "vrudharaaya vivaahitar" ennaanu tennov visheshippikkunnathu, avarude edapedalukal saadhaaranayaayi sthiravum paraspara samthrupthiyumaanu.
laghookaranam.
thante padanatthil tennov limerance kurayunna moonnu vazhikal thiricharinju 
thudarnnulla gaveshanam.
bridgeport sarvakalashaalayil ninnu tennovine ariyamaayirunna albert vaakkin, biruda vidyaarthiniyaaya duen voo ennivar chernnu 2008-ll tennovinte gaveshanam thudarnnu. kooduthalum negatteevu vashangale soochippikkunna vidhathil limerance enna padam parishkarikkaan avar uddeshichu.
svayam sahaaya pusthakangal, janapriya maasikakal, websiteukal ennivayulppede niravadhi janapriya maadyamangalil "limerance" enna padam upayogichittundu. ennirunnaalum, vaakkin aandu voyude oru prabandham anusarichu, "pothujanagalkk limerance anubhavapettittum, professional community, prathyekichu klinikkal, eee aashayathekkurichu valiyathothil ariyilla."2008ll vaakkin aandu voo thangalude naveekaricha gaveshanam american association oof behavioural aandu soshyal sayansinu samarppichu. diagnostic aandu stattistikkal maanuval oof mental disordezhs" ("dii. ezz. emm") ll ulppeduthunnathinu eee avastha anuyojyamaakunnathinu munbu kooduthal gaveshanam shekharikkanamennu avar report cheythu.
nerittulla nireekshanathekkaal abhimukhangale adisthaanamaakkiyullathaanu" ennu vimarshakar choondikkaanikkunnu, ennaal "kurravukal undaayirunnittum, vivaramulla sidhaantha roopeekaranathinu tennovinte pravartthanangal oru adisthaanamaayirikkaam" ennu nigamanam cheiyunnu.

