The end of Obama's speech, particularly about how some men think that Trump's behavior shows strength, definitely resonates. Donald Trump has the same vision of masculinity as Andrew Tate, and it's a horribly twisted vision. It's born out of insecurity, selfishness, and bullying, not real strength.

As Obama said: "That's not what real strength is. It never has been. Real strength is about working hard and carrying a heavy load without complaining. Real strength is about taking responsibility for your actions and telling the truth even when it's inconvenient. Real strength is about helping people who need it, and standing up for those who can't always stand up for themselves."

Anyway, I'm glad Obama put something into words that I've been feeling.