Dear Sir, I'm 30, male, single and masterbating since 12 years every day 2-3 times regularly, last time when i tried to have sex I can't sustain an erection, secondly my marriage is fixed after a month and I'm worrried a lot may be if I am in danger problem like ED ?, Secondly at morning time I will have an erections, I am sexually aroused i do have a erections but when I tried with a married women I can't sustain an erection. Kindly help me do I need an treatment, I have stopped masterbation ffrom the last 2 months and how much time do i need to recover to have a healthy sexual life
Hi, There is a lot of reason for Erectile Dysfunction and masturbation is not the 1st. If it is more than 90% of men will have erectile dysfunction. The common cause of Erectile Dysfunction: 1. Decrease sensation of the penis- can be due to infection, diabetes, spinal injury, recent masturbation 2. Stress due to work or family related, night duties 3. Depression 4. Varicocele 5. Fear of failure -  having one episode of ED once may make you feel you will end up with ED 6. Low self-esteem 7. Homosexuality 8. Religious constraints 9. Long term illness – cardiac disease, thyroid disease, kidney disease, any other disease with long term medication 10. Negative attitude towards your partner 11. Hormonal issue – thyroid issue, low testosterone 12. Long term drug usage 13. Diabetes and Hypertension Ruling out these causes can help you. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist