i was wondering if i can speak to someone about pain while insertion. i’ve never been able to insert a tampon, and i experience discomfort and a blockage when i try to insert a finger. it’s most likely related to psychological and irrational fear of sexual activity and also stress. i’m afraid to ask my doctor about this, and plus, with the pandemic, i cannot see a doctor expect for emergencies, or i’d like to see if there are home solutions. it’s even frightening to ask on here, so.
Hello, Hope u r safe I understand your anxiety.Many people do have this issue,but with slow and persistent efforts you can overcome it. From your history ,I realise you are slightly on the bulkier side .If you could try Nd reduce your weight(say about 5kg in the next 2months),u will feel considerable difference in your sexual interests too. please take care of your vaginal hygiene too to avoid itching etc. Please get your thyroid and prolactin also tested. Meanwhile once the pandemic is over ,pls get a gynaec to examine you becoz at times a rigid hymen or a septum may be the problem (since you mentioned a blockage). Later if these do not work we can try vaginal dilators which are available in the market . Hope this helps.