Hello doctor, I am a 32 year old male. I started masturbating ten years back. CurrentlyI masturbate daily morning and night. Sometimes, I achieve erection very quick, and sometimes it takes time. I masturbate seeing porn videos. The problem is, when I entered marriage life, I could not get a proper erection to penetrate my partner. I could get partial erection, but that goes down soon. I also get less excitation when I actually touch or feel the body than seeing porn. Due to this, my marriage life was affected leading to divorce. I do not get erection problem during masturbation, but why during actual sex? How to cure this? I would be married again soon in a month. Kindly help.
Hi. I read your query and understand your concerns. It is your thought, which is creating the problem. For a man of 32 years with regular masturbation for the last 9 years, it is easy to understand that there is no problem with erection. It is the guilty feeling associated with masturbation that is creating the problem. In other words, it can be said that the problem is a psychological one. This is common in men who think masturbation is wrong. At this stage, I would like to advise you a few things: