i got a problem of night-fall when i was about 15.it continued. i used to depressed when it happened to me.but when i was around 18 i started doing masturbating now i am 29 this habit is still with me.I perform it then immediately i go down at the bottom of dipresson. my penis has become small, little bent when it erect, short-fall.you know a healthy & natural penis makes position or fitting in pants between thighs.It appears from outside. but if it is so loose then it is like an old man without bone hiding somewhere.It should be like an army man strong taking a position.i am unmarried yet so i strongly feel that if i get married so my wife would not be satisfied with sexual intercourse with me.And amazingly i tell you i haven't had sex with any girl in my entire life while my youth is just to say me good-bye.Any solution there.
Hello, Wed dreams/nightfall called Nocturnal Emission is normal. It can be due to increased erotic stimulus mentally or physically or visually without sex or masturbation. Since you know the cause treating is easy. Reduce the frequent Erotic stimulus or masturbate/have sex. Ways to reduce the frequent erotic stimulus are: 1.     Sex education 2.     Physical exercises 3.     Sleep adjustment 4.     Quality of sleep 5.     Healthy and balanced diet 6.     Programming for leisure time 7.     Development of spirituality 8.     Taking a cold bath Masturbation with proper diet and exercise won't cause weakness - scientifically proven. Masturbation won't shrink your penis masturbation won't bend your penis masturbation won't affect your marriage. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist