hi, my boyfriend has blue balls problem which makes both him and me very frustrated every time we make love. Because we have to stop in the middle. I wonder if there is a cure for this. It is so cruel to leave him for this b/c he is very depressed already. But it is so cruel if I suffer from this often with him too. Would you please help? Jane
Hello. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. Blue balls refers to the pain or heaviness caused by a delayed orgasm. Most males don't regularly experience it, and it's not generally serious. You can take him to a physician.Hope I have answered your query. You can contact me for treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. K. V. Anand