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They just started "mainstreaming" some retarded kid at my son's school and now the whole class has to cater to this kid. He's slowing down all the normal kids, which I resent on behalf of my (also normal) son.
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That must be really frustrating for your son and your family. In many cases, the best approach is to try and find some positive ways to bring the class together and include the retarded kid. 1) Make sure the child knows the expectations — both of the classroom and other kids — upfront. Make sure he understands that everybody is there to learn, and explain to the class why it is important to include the child. 2) Get the retarded kid involved in activities, like group work, which gives him an outlet for learning. 3) Increase the expectations gradually — start slow and reward effort. 4) Ask the teacher to organize activities that let the class work together to solve problems and to come up with creative projects that let the retarded kid shine. 5) Try to bring in outside activities like group trips or classes and give each of the participants a job that makes them feel useful. Finally, keep the communication lines open with your son — encourage him to express his thoughts and concerns. Talk to him about ways that he can include his peer, and let him know it's OK to feel frustrated sometimes. Good luck!