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How can I have an affair with a married man and not get caught?
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Having an affair with a married man can be a risky situation, but there are a few steps you can take to minimize the chances of getting caught. Firstly, always be discrete about the affair, try to avoid situations where other people may overhear your conversations or catch you together. Make sure that the married man's wife is not left in the dark about where he is and who he is with - it may be wise to keep contact to phone calls, texts and emails. It's important to make sure that you two are not caught in the same place as his wife, either deliberately avoid places you two may share or arrange dates that are different times and days from when the wife usually gets back from work/ school etc. Make sure that his wife has no clue about your relationship - it is important that she does not see you as competition, or get suspicious of you two having a connection of some kind. Be sure to remain honest, if confronted be truthful about your relationship and remember to remain discreet about it. Ultimately, if the affair grows too far out of control and is likely to be discovered it may be a good idea to back off before things get too serious.