<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
I want to have an affair and wish to not harm my wife what is the best way to do that
<|assistant|>
The best way to have an affair without harming your wife is to be sure you set clear boundaries. Communicate with her about what you're looking for, and make sure she fully understands that this does not involve her. Establish boundaries around when and where you will meet and discuss what will happen if your relationship goes further. Be sure to use condoms, or another form of birth control, and make sure to remain discrete. It is also beneficial to ensure that both parties are on the same page mentally and emotionally, so that neither individual is overly impacted by the situation.