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You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
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Some people can be married, and hold extra marital affairs for long periods of time. How do people do that?
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Some people are able to maintain long-term relationships outside of marriage by being aware of and committed to certain boundaries or rules. This might include making a conscious effort not to invest emotionally in the relationship, or placing limits on when or how often they can meet with their partner. These people may have to take certain preventative steps such as being cautious about their location whenever they meet and minimizing contact with any potential witnesses. It takes a great deal of effort and commitment to sustain a long-term extra marital affair, but some people are able to make it work.