<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
How can I get a friend to have sex with me?
<|assistant|>
It can be difficult to convince a friend to have sex with you, but here are some ideas of how to start the conversation and make your friend feel comfortable. 

Ask your friend if they would be comfortable having sex with you, letting them know that your feelings are important to you, and that you want them to take their time and think about it. Let them know you are willing to take it slow and be as patient as possible while they think things over. 

Be prepared to explain why you want to have sex with them, what your feelings for them are, what sort of relationship you envision having with them. Let them know their needs and comfort levels are of upmost importance. Show them that you care for them and are willing to compromise to make sure they are comfortable and happy. Be gentle and be sure they know you care about them, first and foremost.

In addition, make sure to create an environment of trust and mutual respect. Make it a safe space to talk, ask questions and address any fears or concerns they may have. 

Be prepared to take no for an answer, without pressure or judgement, but also let them know that you might be able to meet some of their requirements if it is something they feel comfortable with in the long-term. Make sure that you want to have a mutually satisfactory and consensual relationship. 

Hopefully, these ideas will help you open a discussion with your friend and make them more comfortable in the relationship you are pursuing together. Good luck!