<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
What are some good ways that I can get my brothers wife to like me better than him?
<|assistant|>
Show her attention and care - Be genuine, thoughtful, and affectionate when interacting with her. Ask her opinion, compliment her, and remember important dates/details about her. 

Listen to her - Listen actively, make an effort to understand her views and be willing to compromise. Show that you care about what she has to say.

Provide help and support - Be there to help with things that concern her. Show interest, concern and help with anything she needs.

Focus on positive traits - Focus on qualities of her as an individual - be kind and gentle with your words. Praising her, acknowledging her accomplishments, or recognizing her for who she is outside of the context of her relationship with your brother, can all help her see and appreciate the qualities and talents that you see in her, which can lead to her liking you better. 

Act with respect - Treat her with respect and courteousness. Do not speak ill of her or about her, regardless of the situation. 

Be a good influence - Demonstrate positive behavior in the relationships you have with others, including this person. A good example could show her that it's possible for a man to behave decently, without being aggressive or controlling.

Allow her space - Don't try to compete or compare yourself to her brother, and give her space to be herself. Don't try to interfere with her bond with your brother or replace it with your own bonds. Show her respect even though your brother has a special place in her heart.