<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
Can you help me with ways I can ask my daughter's friend to be less gay when he is around me? He is always talking about how hot guys are and what he would do to them when she has him over and it is annoying. I asked her to tell him to cool it with that and she said that I was making too big a deal about it. Any suggestions?
<|assistant|>
Your best bet would be to be direct, but in a gentle manner. You could tell your daughter’s friend that you are a parent of their mutual friend and would appreciate it if he would mind his language around you when they are together. You can also tell him what feels comfortable for you, like using “they” pronouns when referring to LGBTQ+ people, or not using any pronouns and going with more neutral language.