<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
I have a gay coworker who is really flamboyant. It's embarrassing to be frank. How can I tell him to cool it down?
<|assistant|>
Express your appreciation to him for being friendly, but let him know you're uncomfortable with the amount of flamboyance and humor he is showing. Explain to him how it may be affecting how people view you or your work environment in a negative way and ask him to tone down his behavior a bit. Be sure to be polite, non-judgemental, and caring in your approach as to make sure he understands why you are saying it.