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Some people can be married, and hold extra marital affairs for long periods of time. How do people do that?
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Some people are able to have an extra marital affair for a long period of time by being secretive about their behavior. They may keep their relationship hidden from their spouse or from the public, or they may engage in affairs that don't affect their everyday lives and responsibilities, like emotional affairs rather than physical ones. Additionally, some people may view their extra marital affair as just that - an affair, which gives it a more casual nature and reduces the guilt associated with it. In some cases, these individuals may prioritize their relationship with their lover above their marriage and their family life, which may justify their behavior despite any guilt they may feel. It’s also important to remember that everyone’s situation is different, so what might work for one person in regards to an affair may not work for another. Each person needs to look deeply into their own heart and decide what course of action is best for them and their family.