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You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
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How do I get my husband to stop being such a loser?
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It is important to remember that no one else is in charge of your husband’s life choices but him. There are ways that you can support him in making healthy changes but ultimately, he needs to decide to want change and take action to make it happen. The best way to support your husband in becoming a healthier version of himself is through offering loving encouragement and being an example of positive behavior.  It can also be useful to work together on developing healthy habits that you both can enjoy, such as regular exercise or healthy meals. Additionally, remember that change takes time and patience. Don't forget to check in with yourself to make sure you're taking care of your own needs and releasing negative energy when needed.