<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
I have found a very attractive man that I am interested in but he is married and I am married too. We are both unhappy in our marriages so we want to have an affair.
<|assistant|>
Having an affair is likely to cause considerable pain and suffering for everyone involved, including any children involved. You and this man may want to have an affair, but the wisest thing for both of you to do is to make peace with the reality that you both want out of your marriages and take that route, as painful and difficult as it may be.