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<|user|>
as i approach my sixth sixth birthday i have found my mind going back many years to different things that have happened to me and my loved ones. it was about half a century ago that one of my sisters was sexually abused near a public school. i do not know the specifics, my parents didn't tell me and i didn't ask. i can tell you that it was right about that time that my sister changed.  already a bit of a "problem child," she then went over the line and has been having serious mental health issues all these years.  people talk about being open minded. i don't feel open minded to the SOB who did that to my sister.
<|assistant|>
It's understandable to have anger towards the perpetrator, and to wish them the worst. It's natural to want to hold onto a sense of justice, even if it can't be carried out by the law. There might be some healing to be done if you find a way to acknowledge and empathize with the traumatic experiences your sister has had to go through without being open-minded towards her perpetrator, as well as finding ways to forgive them for what they did. Even if a formal apology isn't possible or offered, you may still be able to reach a place of peace.