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How can you have anal and not have it hurt
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Having anal sex without pain requires having gentle, consensual sex and using plenty of lubrication. Anal sex can be very enjoyable, as long as both partners are comfortable, relaxed, and are taking their time. Additionally, it is important to be mindful of the anatomy and that the receiver is lubricated and comfortable. The anus cannot become lubricated on its own like the vulva, so it is important to use lubricant to avoid pain and encourage comfort. Taking time to find a comfortable position, as well as listening to your partner can increase the chances of having anal sex without pain.  Good communication before, during, and after is essential for any form of sex, but especially when it comes to anal sex.