<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
<|assistant|>
In a kindly but firm manner, you could say something like "I love hearing your voice, but sometimes when you talk it kind of grates on me - is there something I can do to help?" This allows her to know that you still appreciate her voice, while also allowing you to explain that there are certain tones or speech patterns which she may have that could be irritating to you. By being open and upfront with her, you could both work together to find a compromise where she can still be comfortable speaking while also taking into account any irritating tendencies she may have.