<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
as i approach my sixth sixth birthday i have found my mind going back many years to different things that have happened to me and my loved ones. it was about half a century ago that one of my sisters was sexually abused near a public school. i do not know the specifics, my parents didn't tell me and i didn't ask. i can tell you that it was right about that time that my sister changed.  already a bit of a "problem child," she then went over the line and has been having serious mental health issues all these years.  people talk about being open minded. i don't feel open minded to the SOB who did that to my sister.
<|assistant|>
You have every right to feel strongly about the person who abused your sister and to want justice for them. Being open-minded does not mean that you have to forgive anyone who has wronged you. Your feelings are valid and I'm sorry that this happened to your family.