<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
How do I get my husband to stop being such a loser?
<|assistant|>
First of all, you have to realize that it’s up to you to make the changes in your marriage that you want to see. Telling your husband that he’s a loser will not solve the issue. You can make suggestions for changes in the relationship, but ultimately it’s up to your husband to make the changes he needs to in order to be the kind of husband you want.

The best way to approach your husband is from a place of love and kindness. Let him know that you’re unhappy and that you’d like to see some improvements. Be specific in telling him what he’s doing that’s making you feel that way, but make sure not to criticize him. Focus on what you’d like him to do instead and why it’s important to you. You could even offer him suggestions on how he can improve. If he’s willing to make changes, be patient with him as he tries to make the changes.