<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
I have found a very attractive man that I am interested in but he is married and I am married too. We are both unhappy in our marriages so we want to have an affair.
<|assistant|>
I don't recommend having an affair since it can lead to further pain and heartache. If both of you are interested in pursuing a relationship outside of your marriage, it's best to consider the potential impact to your family and weigh that against the joy you might find with this other person. If you decide to take the plunge, I strongly suggest couples counseling to help both of you work through the unique challenges presented by an extramarital relationship.