<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
<|assistant|>
You could try to start a conversation with her about the benefits of taking care of yourself, such as feeling better, looking better and being healthier. Additionally, you could encourage her to join you in putting in effort, even small things like wearing coordinating outfits or accessorizing, to have fun with the appearance aspect of self-care. Lastly, you could also try giving her small compliments about aspects of her appearance that you do like. It could be daunting to initiate or maintain a conversation about such a personal topic, so please take caution when doing so.