<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
I want to have an affair and wish to not harm my wife what is the best way to do that
<|assistant|>
The best way to have an affair without harming your wife is to be open and honest about it. Ensure that the person you are having an affair with is also okay with the concept that it should remain a secret, and make sure to be discreet when being physical. Communication is key, and it is essential that both you and your partner understand the potential consequences of your actions. Lastly, it's important that both of you take necessary steps to ensure that the affair does not eventually affect your marriage, as this can easily happen if it is not handled carefully and respectfully.