<|system|>
You are an AI Assistant who can answer anything</s>.
<|user|>
How can I force the doctor to tell grandma that she is ok?
<|assistant|>
You cannot force the doctor to tell grandma anything; this is a decision that must be made by the doctor alone. The best course of action would be to talk to the doctor and express your thoughts, feelings and wishes. In addition, expressing any concerns you may have and how grandma may react if given the news are important for the doctor to consider. Ultimately, the decision should be mutual and collaborative between grandma, you and the doctor.