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How can I discipline my kids in public without looking like a bad parent?
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When disciplining your kids in public, it is important to remain calm and keep your words pleasant, even when you are disappointed. Avoid using verbiage that might cause attention or further embarrass your child, such as scolding them in front of others or yelling. Instead, practice using gentle but firm tones and use words such as “please” and “thank you.” You could also take the situation as an opportunity to remind them why their actions are wrong, in hopes of preventing further misbehavior. For example, if your child is making excessive noise in a restaurant, you could say, “We’ll be able to hear our food when it comes and we wouldn’t want anyone around us to be disturbed, do you think we can behave so that others enjoy their meals?” Positive affirmation can also go a long way in disciplining your child — emphasize the positive behavior instead of the negatives, and let your kid know that you still love them even when you are firm with your expectations. By speaking in a calm and rational manner, showing them respect, and focusing on teaching healthy boundaries and socialization skills, you can ensure that public disciplining stays positive and beneficial for both you and your child.