 Subsequently , several of Rihanna 's songs and music videos have <unk> controversy for their violent themes , which Hobson attributes to the leaking of a photo showing the singers " battered face " on the evening of the assault by <unk> which circulated the internet without the permission of Rihanna . Hobson writes : " Because of this , Rihanna has had to <unk> back control of the ' victim ' image <unk> on her , and she in turn has challenged us <unk> and visually to question and examine the power , danger , and <unk> that shape our relationships . " She continued to highlight the music videos for " Russian <unk> " , " Hard " , " We Found Love " , " Love the Way You Lie " with Eminem which documents domestic violence , and " S & M " , which contains references to bondage and <unk> and is , in part , Rihanna 's response to disparaging critics , as examples . At one point in the video for " S & M " , Rihanna is literally tied up as a victim . 
