 Green told police that she had one or two drinks after dinner and went to her bedroom , leaving it only to speak to Tim in the kitchen some time between ten and eleven in the evening , shortly before he went to bed . Kelly and Kate had gone to bed earlier , each taking one of the family 's two dogs with them . Green said that she had fallen asleep around eleven @-@ thirty . At some point before falling asleep , she recalled , she had spoken to Farrar , who had phoned asking which member of the household had paged him . She told police that she and Farrar were in the process of divorce , though she did not know how far along they were , and that although the children were very upset at the prospect , she herself was not and was looking forward to being able to rebuild her life . 
