 Leopold 's physician @-@ in @-@ ordinary , Christian Stockmar ( later , as Baron Stockmar , advisor to both Queen Victoria and Prince Albert ) , wrote that in the first six months of the marriage , he had never seen Charlotte wear anything that was not simple and in good taste . He also noted that she was much more calm and in control of herself than she used to be , and attributed this to Leopold 's influence . Leopold wrote later , " Except when I went out to shoot , we were together always , and we could be together , we did not tire . " When Charlotte became too excited , Leopold would say only , " <unk> , <unk> " ( " Gently , my love " ) . Charlotte both accepted the correction and began calling her husband " <unk> " . 
