 During the trial , Lhermitte testified that her role as wife and mother was disrupted by having the middle @-@ aged Belgian doctor , Michel Schaar , living in the same house as part of the family . According to Lhermitte , Scharr accompanied her and Moqadem on their honeymoon and stayed in their room . Lhermitte stated , " We [ Lhermitte and Moqadem ] had to wait until he fell asleep before we could make love . I found that weird but <unk> said he regarded him as his stepfather . I think the doctor loved my husband in a platonic way . " Apart from explaining Scharr 's intrusion on her relationship with her husband , Lhermitte also mentioned their family 's reliance on Dr. Schaar : " He watched TV with us in the evenings and went on holiday with us in the summer . We depended on him financially . " In court , Lhermitte was asked why she laid the dead body of her 13 @-@ year @-@ old daughter Nora in the bathroom used by Dr Schaar . She replied : " I wanted to hurt him . Nora was his favorite . " 
