 The song 's music video was directed by Liz Friedlander and debuted on MTV 's Total Request Live on March 7 , 2000 . It consists of performance footage of the trio in a warehouse in front of a wall decorated with photographs . In between verses , the photos ' origins are explored through the different perspectives of individuals near the band . As the band prepares to play a show , a man has a conversation with a girl and is subsequently left alone . In another , while DeLonge and Hoppus read magazines inside a late @-@ night convenience store , a melancholy woman attempts to make a call via a pay phone . Other montages show the trio in the company of friends and practicing , a man looking out upon the sea , and a solitary man deserted by others at an outdoor restaurant . The final montage consists of personal photos from the band 's past . 
