 At 5 : 30 a.m. , a detective arrived from the fire scene to advise those at the police station that Tim and Kelly Farrar had been found dead in the home . Green initially reacted with sadness that quickly changed to anger . She shouted at detectives , claiming that firefighters had not done enough to save the children . Where previously she had been cooperative and friendly with the detectives interviewing her , she now began to attack them verbally , calling investigators and their methods " pathetic " , alleging that they had withheld from her knowledge of the children 's deaths , and demanding to be allowed to see Farrar and the remains of the family 's house . Though Green stressed to police that she wanted to be the one to " tell my husband our babies are dead , " her request was not granted . 
