 When God Writes Your Love Story was received positively by some American Christian authors . In Freshman : The College Student 's Guide to Developing Wisdom , Mark Matlock , an ordained minister and youth pastor recommends When God Writes Your Love Story to college students . He describes the Ludys ' book as funny , honest , and candid . Jason Evert , a Catholic author and chastity speaker , wrote positively of When God Writes Your Love Story in his book If You Really Loved Me : 100 Questions on Dating , Relationships , and Sexual Purity . Evert commends Leslie Ludy writing about the importance of listening intently and regularly to God 's voice in seeking discernment about romantic relationships . Also in If You Really Loved Me , Evert praises a passage from When God Writes Your Love Story in which Leslie Ludy recalls having spoken with a group of young men who all agreed that the most desirable women were those who were slow to establish strong emotional attachments to potential romantic partners , and that the least desirable women were those who were emotionally promiscuous . According to Evert , these men are right ; he uses the passage to support his argument that lack of sexual experience is attractive . 
