 Tensions began rising between Lhermitte and her husband . Moqadem would spend long hours away from home , becoming a regular at a bar and a spa . In addition , he would take several trips each year to visit his family in Marrakesh , with the length of each trip ranging from a week to a month . Lhermitte 's first son and fifth child , Mehdi , was born on August 9 , 2003 . The following year , Schaar recommended that Lhermitte should see a psychiatrist and she began consulting the psychiatrist Dr. Diderick Veldekens in 2005 . 
