I see, there are nannies as well, they provide care for the child within the family setting of the kid
Maybe instead of au pair you could find a nanny. She could take him to karate or boy scouts events and provide a child care
My son joined Boy Scouts and I have volunteered to help the troop.  I am new to Boy Scouts. That's pretty cool! Boy Scouts is one of the largest private youth organizations in the US It seems rather expensive with all of the equipment we need to purchase.  Will my son be a better man after graduating from Boy Scouts? I can't guarantee that but I know that the BSA has a goal to train the youth in responsible chatacter development and citzenship My son needs that!  I have looked at the training materials, and it appears that i will need to put about 30 hours a week into this project.  After work i am tired.  i'm not sure i can commit to this. Have you ever thought about getting an au pair? it is a assistant for domestic tasks that comes from a another country We had one, but my wife hated her. I thought she was great.  My wife said the au pair had to go or she was.  I think i made the wrong choice.  Maybe i will enroll my son in Karate classes.  That is only one hour a week.
A nanny provides child care within the children's family setting.