text: yeah it didn 't always work well i felt um i feel like i could myself do some things but that i have enough responsibility that if i have someone like my father when i was living at home and my husband that 's willing to do it i go ahead and let them do it i don 't feel the need to um you know be a feminist on that issue and say i can take care of my own things i 'm i 'm happy to let them run run the cars because i have so many other responsibilities that um so i haven 't tried to do a lot myself
  
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  I do everything at our house .