text: What 's striking , as Sharon Hays recently pointed out in The Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood ( 1996 ) , is how tenaciously we cling to intensive motherhood , as she calls this ambitious mission , despite its increasing impracticality and despite how guilty it can make us feel .
  
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  Sharon Hays recently pointed out in The Cultural Age of Motherhood ( 1996 ) .