text: the the key thing that i think uh we try to do is that bring all the friends over here have our house as a place where they can come at any time so that you always see their friends rather than make them not welcome and they 're always over in someone else 's house so our we 've been lucky that uh our house is usually the place where the kids could come you know and
  
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  We 're lucky our kids bring over their friends and feel comfortable , but they 're messy .