text: um i know a few months ago i i would feel that i had to explain to them that i 'm on the other line or i 'm in the middle and it 's i 've just come to a realization that i don 't have to explain to this stranger what i 'm doing it and give excuses that 's it 's okay just to say i 'm not interested and go ahead and hang up but i i don 't know i don 't think most people are secure enough to probably answer
  
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  I 'm comfortable telling someone that I 'm not interested .