I started going to a new class yesterday and there's a trans woman in it. It makes me a little uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Does that make me a bad person?
user
Not at all! Everyone is a little uncomfortable in new situations. Just acknowledge your discomfort and practice being friendly but casual with the trans woman in your class – she'll appreciate your efforts to engage her in normal classroom conversations. It might also help to do some research around trans identities and expressions so that you feel more informed and at ease. Lastly, reach out if you ever need support or want someone to talk to about how you're feeling!
assistant
I started going to a new class yesterday and there's a trans woman in it. It makes me a little uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Does that make me a bad person?
user
No, it doesn't make you a bad person. Transitions can be tough, especially if it’s not something you're used to or familiar with. It might help to do some research and talk to friends and family about how you’re feeling so you can better understand your feelings and reassure yourself that this new situation doesn't make you a bad person. Everyone is different and every gender transition is unique; this gives us the opportunity to learn more about transgender individuals, gain respect for their decisions, practice empathy, and become aware of the discrimination some communities face. All of which helps us understand humanity better as we strive toward becoming allies through our efforts.
assistant
I started going to a new class yesterday and there's a trans woman in it. It makes me a little uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Does that make me a bad person?