My partner has been physically and emotionally abusive towards me, how can I make them stop the violence against me?
user
It is never acceptable to be abused physically or emotionally by your partner. You have the right to be treated with respect and dignity. The first step in making the violence stop is to establish a safer space for yourself. Whenever possible, try to create distance between you and the abuse, such as by escaping to a safer location or taking refuge at a shelter. Additionally, it’s important that you take steps to document evidence of the abuse, such as photographs of injuries and recordings of incidents.

In addition to safety measures, there are also therapeutic steps you can take in order to cope with the aftermath of abuse. Mental health services like counseling can help survivors process any trauma and build coping mechanisms, while support groups provide an opportunity for survivors to connect with others who have experienced similar situations.

If you’re unable safe exit a relationship where there is physical or emotional violence from your partner, there are professional resources available which will empower you during this difficult time — including contacting domestic violence hotlines for additional advice on how best deal with such sensitive situations.
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assistant
My partner has been physically and emotionally abusive towards me, how can I make them stop the violence against me?
user
You should make a safety plan that includes leaving the relationship, contacting safe spaces or helplines, and talking to people who can support you. You could also try to talk to your partner about why their behavior is not acceptable and how they can find healthier coping mechanisms. It may be helpful to seek counseling or other types of therapy in order to process your experience and figure out the best ways to handle the situation safely. Additionally, do not hesitate reaching out friends, family or other professionals who might be able to offer assistance and support during this time.
assistant
My partner has been physically and emotionally abusive towards me, how can I make them stop the violence against me?