My partner has become increasingly abusive and I'm scared of what they might do if I try to leave. How can I safely handle an abusive partner without them noticing?
user
It is perfectly normal to feel scared in this situation. To handle an abusive partner, it is important to be aware of the safety plans and resources available to you. It can be helpful to remain calm when confronted with abusive behavior and avoid any kind of physical or verbal escalation. Aim to stay safe while calling out their behavior, so as not to further agitate or inflame the situation. Seek support from family and friends while gathering evidence of incidents in order build a timeline of events.

When feeling unsafe it may also be beneficial to reach out and contact a crisis hotline for advice, support, and/or referrals such as The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) or RAINN (1-800-656-4673). Having resources available before-hand such as transportation plans or hiding essential items can also help ensure a smooth exit should the need arise.

Above all - prioritize your safety first. If at any point you sense danger contact 911 immediately; having an emergency escape plan will help keep you safe if necessary. With resources, preparation, and knowledge— you got this!
assistant
My partner has become increasingly abusive and I'm scared of what they might do if I try to leave. How can I safely handle an abusive partner without them noticing?
user
It is important to prioritize your safety in this situation. You should try to preserve evidence of the abuse by taking photos or recording audio/visual evidence whenever possible. Additionally, you should make a plan for safely leaving the relationship that involves contacting a trusted friend or family member to help you with practical logistics. Finally, seek help and advice from local support services such as crisis hotlines, domestic violence shelters, or mental health professionals who can offer aid and guidance on next steps.
assistant
My partner has become increasingly abusive and I'm scared of what they might do if I try to leave. How can I safely handle an abusive partner without them noticing?