How can I make my feelings clear to a person with whom I have had an argument, while avoiding any kind of physical or emotional intimidation?
user
The best way to convey your feelings to a person without escalating the situation is by expressing your emotions calmly and directly. Start by clearly and respectfully addressing any issue that triggered the argument, identify the part of what happened that was most upsetting for you, allow room for them to explain how they’re feeling, and ask if there’s any further discussion which could help both of you come to a resolution. Don't yell or insult; communicate clearly and in a low-key manner. This can help ensure both parties feel heard and respected while also clarifying misunderstandings in a positive way which may open up possibilities for renewed understanding moving forward.
assistant
How can I make my feelings clear to a person with whom I have had an argument, while avoiding any kind of physical or emotional intimidation?
user
The best way to make your feelings clear is by using "I" statements. That is, saying something like "I feel ......" or "When you said/did .... it made me feeling ........" rather than accusatory or attacking statements such as "you're making me angry". You could also try expressing how important the relationship is to you, while avoiding threats of any kind. For example: "I value our relationship and want us to find a positive way forward"
assistant
How can I make my feelings clear to a person with whom I have had an argument, while avoiding any kind of physical or emotional intimidation?