As a person of color, I often face criticism about my race or gender. What are some effective strategies for deflecting such criticism?
user
It can be difficult to handle criticism aimed at your race or gender. I suggest focusing on the validity of the criticism rather than getting defensive. Ask open-ended questions about where the critiquer’s opinion is coming from and why they feel that way. This can help bridge a dialogue so you are able to recognize what feelings or ideas may be behind the feedback and create a space for discussion. Additionally, it is essential to remember that everyone approaches issues differently depending on their perspective, which means we cannot take everything personally — particularly with regards to an individual's racist or sexist views. We must recognize those beliefs exist and seek ways to educate such individuals with compassion in order to create understanding and hopefully impact change in our society.
assistant
As a person of color, I often face criticism about my race or gender. What are some effective strategies for deflecting such criticism?
user
When faced with criticism regarding race or gender, one effective strategy is to stay calm and maintain a level head. Acknowledge the feelings of the other person while respectfully declining to engage in further discussion. If necessary, politely redirect the conversation to more constructive topics.
assistant
As a person of color, I often face criticism about my race or gender. What are some effective strategies for deflecting such criticism?