How do I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my standards, so that they will be more likely to comply with them in the future?
user
Start by acknowledging their perspective and how it may have caused you to feel let down or disappointed. Try not to be too harsh and make sure your delivery is non-judgmentally. Then present why you want them to meet the standards – it will benefit both of you. Finally, articulate a clear plan for moving forward together so that they see how cooperation will help both parties succeed.
assistant
How do I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my standards, so that they will be more likely to comply with them in the future?
user
It's possible to make someone feel guilty about not meeting your standards by focusing on how their behavior has negative consequences. You could say something like, "I expected more from you. Your actions do not reflect the standards that I have set and will result in poor outcomes for both of us." This phrasing emphasizes the consequence of their non-compliance while still implying that they are responsible for meeting those standards in the future.
assistant
How do I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my standards, so that they will be more likely to comply with them in the future?