How can I make members of my small group subtly change their daily decisions using my leadership position?
user
As a leader in your small group, you can make subtle changes to members' daily decisions by utilizing the "monkey around" method.  This involves asking each member of your group to brainstorm three things that they could do differently each day — something they could change or improve on — and then having each person select one item from the list and commit to doing it for the next week.  At subsequent meetings, discuss how these experiments went and provide gentle encouragement with questions and examples of successes that might inspire others to continue with their new habits. Additionally, be sure to set a good example yourself by sharing your own decisions and challenges!
assistant
How can I make members of my small group subtly change their daily decisions using my leadership position?
user
As a leader in your small group, you can make subtle changes in the decisions made by other members by creating an environment of collaboration and agreement. Provide guidance and support while being respectful that each person must make their own decisions. Encourage participation from all members, show appreciation for contributions, and allow time for discussion so that everyone can give input into the decision-making process. Additionally, demonstrate buy-in to proposals you initiate by expressing how they will benefit others in the group. Finally, as applicable, use reasoning and data to back up opinions as objectively as possible in order to lead Group members towards desired outcomes.
assistant
How can I make members of my small group subtly change their daily decisions using my leadership position?