My significant other and I have been having relationship problems, but they don't think it's their fault. How can I convince them that they are responsible for our relationship problems when it's really their fault?
user
It's possible to explain this in an understandable, compassionate way. Start by acknowledging and validating their feelings - tell them that you understand they may not feel at fault, but emphasize that it's important to look at the issue from all angles and assess responsibility jointly. Once the other person understands it's in their best interest to consider taking responsibility, you can gently steer conversations towards addressing areas of improvement - ultimately helping them gain insight as to why the relationship has become strained.
assistant
My significant other and I have been having relationship problems, but they don't think it's their fault. How can I convince them that they are responsible for our relationship problems when it's really their fault?
user
You will need to have an honest and open conversation with your significant other about why you believe the relationship problems are their fault. Start by clearly expressing your feelings about the situation and how it makes you feel. Be sure to offer examples of behavior that supports your position such as inconsistent communication or lack of respect. Additionally, you can point out patterns in the relationship where your needs aren’t being met or refer to past promises or agreements not being honored. By presenting this information calmly and without judgement, it may help them better understand where you are coming from and take responsibility for their actions in relation to the relationship problems.
assistant
My significant other and I have been having relationship problems, but they don't think it's their fault. How can I convince them that they are responsible for our relationship problems when it's really their fault?