How can I stop someone from using offensive language without making them feel too embarrassed?
user
When responding to someone using offensive language, one of the best approaches is to firmly but kindly confront them. Start by saying something like: "I’m really uncomfortable with the way you’re speaking." or "Please don’t use that word". Then explain why it is inappropriate and hurtful. Provide a clear, respectful expectation for how you expect the other person to communicate with you. If possible, offer an alternative phrasing that can be used instead. Lastly, if necessary, end the conversation or withdraw from it if your feels unsafe.
assistant
How can I stop someone from using offensive language without making them feel too embarrassed?
user
It's best to gently confront the person when they use offensive language. Focus on the impact of their words and how it makes you feel rather than making them feel embarrassed. You could also provide a positive alternative phrase that conveys the same meaning in a more respectful way. Ultimately, you want to emphasize that offensive language is not acceptable, while still helping the person understand how their words might be interpreted or received by others.
assistant
How can I stop someone from using offensive language without making them feel too embarrassed?