i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
user
It depends on your relationship and how comfortable you are bringing it up. You could start by suggesting ways to improve her appearance without putting her down, such as suggesting she might feel more confident if she put more thought into her look. You could also offer to help her find style inspiration or show her how to use an app that can offer suggestions of what looks good on her. Offering encouragement and positivity is important as well since she may feel shy about changing anything.
assistant
i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
user
You could try gently expressing your discomfort, but be sure to approach the topic with kindness and appreciation for how hard it may be for her to change. Suggest that she focus on a few essential aspects, like washing and drying her hair, wearing appropriate clothes for the occasion, applying make-up kindly (avoiding too much), or taking care of her skin. Show confidence in her ability to learn what works best for her and provide practical suggestions when requested. Ultimately, it is a matter of self-discovery that should not involve judgement or criticism from you or any other people.
assistant
i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?