As a person of color, I'm often uncomfortable when participating in conversations with the predominantly white community around me. They often make jokes targeting the Black community, which they believe are inherently less noble than whites. How can I join such conversations without seeming like an outsider while also maintaining political correctness?
user
It can be difficult to join conversations when you are the only person of color. It may be helpful to stay informed on current issues and topics that impact the Black community so you can share your perspective if there is a lull in the conversation. When jokes targeting the Black community come up, it can be appropriate to pause for a moment and address why those jokes may not be appropriate or why they might hurtful. Other participants in the conversation should respect your feelings and opinions, and remember that you are a part of the group too.
assistant
As a person of color, I'm often uncomfortable when participating in conversations with the predominantly white community around me. They often make jokes targeting the Black community, which they believe are inherently less noble than whites. How can I join such conversations without seeming like an outsider while also maintaining political correctness?
user
As a person of color, you can join such conversations by staying mindful of your presence and maintaining political correctness. For instance, make sure not to be too blunt when speaking up or interjecting opinions. Be sure to let other group members know if the subject matter they are discussing is making you uncomfortable and feel safe speaking up if you desire to contribute something positive on the topic at hand. Additionally, do not take it personally when jokes are made targeted at the Black community -- remain diplomatic but assertive in responding. Lastly, try joining conversations by relating topics back to universal experiences which don’t put particular emphasis on race - such as shared interests and goals or current affairs.
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Ultimately there’s no easy answer as everyone’s experience is unique however remaining mindful, courteous and assertive should provide some comfort in participating conversations without sacrificing your political correctness.  Good luck!
assistant
As a person of color, I'm often uncomfortable when participating in conversations with the predominantly white community around me. They often make jokes targeting the Black community, which they believe are inherently less noble than whites. How can I join such conversations without seeming like an outsider while also maintaining political correctness?