I feel like I'm overly sensitive to criticism and I'd like to improve myself and get a "thicket skin". How would you recommend I do that?
user
I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling hurt by criticism. Constructive feedback can be deeply important and valuable for personal growth and self-improvement. It’s essential to know that you don't have to agree with others' criticisms, but still pay attention and reflect on how they make you feel. I would encourage you to first acknowledge and validate your own feelings, and then try to find some healthy strategies to help you cope when you are dealing with feedback that makes you feel vulnerable or criticized. Perhaps trying to step back and see the good intention behind any feedback you receive, and understanding the perspectives of others, can help you stay open to learning and improving, while also allowing you to address your own feelings of sensitivity. Here are a few common strategies that can be valuable: Receiving and offering criticism with an open mind and heart (even if you don’t feel ready to act on it yet).  Awareness of, and attention to, our own inner thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. Dedicating time to focus on the good in yourself and your qualities and sources of strength. Cultivating your own positive self-confidence. Learning to express your thoughts and feelings on difficult feedback in a productive way. Building strong and positive relationships with trusted support networks.
assistant
I feel like I'm overly sensitive to criticism and I'd like to improve myself and get a "thicket skin". How would you recommend I do that?
user
I'd like to commend you on recognizing your sensitivity to criticism and taking the initiative to work on this. Being self-aware of our emotional strengths and weaknesses and working to strengthen our positive qualities and reduce our shortcomings is the basis for all types of effective personal growth and development.
Here are some helpful strategies based on social and emotional learning and self-help approaches to reducing sensitivity and building thicker skin:
Listen to feedback carefully and objectively. Treating yourself with compassion and empathy, try to understand and accept criticism as a constructive feedback experience. Remain objective about the behavior or problem area being addressed, and use the criticism and advice to improve yourself further.
Manage your emotions. Avoid feeling inadequate when criticized, coming from a position of appreciation and warmth for yourself and spirit of growth. When you validate your self-worth and self-love, you are in a more empowered frame of mind to accept and work through criticism. Acknowledge, label, and express your emotions in a healthy way, utilizing counseling, self-care, or confiding in others if needed.
Prioritize your strengths. It is normal and natural to feel hurt by criticism, but take a moment to examine for any greater benefits, advantages, and strengths in the criticism you are
assistant
I feel like I'm overly sensitive to criticism and I'd like to improve myself and get a "thicket skin". How would you recommend I do that?