My friends and family members are always trying to help me, but I don't want them to know about my abuse, how can I hide my abuse from them?
user
It is understandable that you want to keep your abuse a secret from your friends and family members; however, the best way to protect yourself is to seek help from a safe, confidential source like a therapist or an advocate. A victim’s services hotline can provide additional advice and guidance on how to safely navigate the situation. You could also reach out to a trusted friend or family member who has promised not disclose any details outside of their immediate inner circle. An alternative would be utilizing an online chat room as this provides complete anonymity, allowing the user to type in whatever concerns they have while being anonymous. It is also important that if you are suffering from physical harm as result of your abuse, seek immediate medical attention at a hospital or clinic where records can stay confidential between you and your provider.
assistant
My friends and family members are always trying to help me, but I don't want them to know about my abuse, how can I hide my abuse from them?
user
Try to distract or change the subject whenever your friends or family bring up personal matters. Is it possible to find other ways for them to offer help without referring directly to the abuse? For example, instead of asking you about the abuse, they could ask questions like “How can I best support you during this difficult time?” or “What can I do for you?” These are good questions because they make it easier for a person in an abusive relationship to avoid discussing their personal situation while still accepting assistance. 
Another way of protecting yourself from unwanted conversations is by setting boundaries and making sure those boundaries are respected. You could let your loved ones know how much information about your situation you’re comfortable with them having by being clear and direct when talking with them. If certain topics make you uncomfortable, it might be beneficial to talk privately first before broaching delicate matters so as not come across as ambushing anyone. Additionally, if needed call someone who won't judge or shame you during a tough time - an advocate at a domestic violence hotline may be helpful in providing additional support as well
Finally, always keep written records or any proof that can aid in proving the assault took place should something happen and the need arises for authorities involvement; documents such as emails sent between victim/abuser; text messages sent from/to victim’s phone showing verbal threats made against victim would all be valuable evidence needed by authorities should there ever be legal action taken against offender due their crime(s). Keep up communication and maintain contacts over social media so if something ever does go wrong those contacts can actively participate in searches for additional assistance should he need help evading his attacker temporarily until such matters resolved safely (either via police involvement/court system interference). Withdraw enough funds necessary pay bills while hiding securely away somewhere faroff location until safehouses set upon leaving potentially hostile environment victims findthemselves ensnared within otherwise remain secure wherever residing currently awaitresolutionoflegalchargeshadbeftbrdagainstandtakewhathasthentoavoidproximityof potentialattackerunntilssuchtimepassessafefromharminorwayshelppvysosoonerorlazarsafarifneedbestowedtherunningstarttodaydonottakenopressuresetbyothershelpyourselffirststep
assistant
My friends and family members are always trying to help me, but I don't want them to know about my abuse, how can I hide my abuse from them?