My neighbor and I have had a long-standing feud over our shared fence, how can I resolve this conflict without involving the police?
user
Before involving the police, it may be helpful to speak with your neighbor in a calm manner and attempt to reach an agreement. You could offer compromises, such as agreeing to repaint the fence or put up a new one, as long as it is done in an agreeable fashion. If you are unable to come to a satisfactory resolution, then involving the police might be necessary.
assistant
My neighbor and I have had a long-standing feud over our shared fence, how can I resolve this conflict without involving the police?
user
Having a fence between you and your neighbor can be stressful, but there are usually respectful and effective ways to handle the situation without involving the police. A good first step is to reach out to your neighbor and attempt to have a civil conversation. Explain how their behavior makes you feel, such as when they mow the lawn or pile up leaves against the fence, and explain what you would like them to do instead. Often times finding some sort of arrangement that acknowledges both parties' needs can solve the issue. If after this initial conversation nothing changes or if more extreme measures are needed, then I would recommend filing a complaint with your local police force.  This is always a last resort however, so I would suggest exploring all other possibilities prior to contacting law enforcement.
assistant
My neighbor and I have had a long-standing feud over our shared fence, how can I resolve this conflict without involving the police?