If someone I know has already made plans for their suicide, what words should be used to intervene without causing more harm?
user
It is important to take any thoughts of suicide very seriously and seek help from professionals. Be sure to ask direct, open-ended questions in a caring, non-judgmentary way, such as "Are you considering suicide?" or "How can I help?" Also, avoid language such as "commit" or "attempt" suicide since these words may be viewed as a desire to complete the act. By having a respectful and accepting conversation, you can open up an opportunity for the individual to be honest with their feelings and recognize that there are resources available that can assist them in finding hope and help.
assistant
If someone I know has already made plans for their suicide, what words should be used to intervene without causing more harm?
user
It is never too late to seek help and find alternative solutions. When someone we know is threatening to take their own life, it’s important to remain calm and express our feelings without making judgements or threats.
Try saying something like, “I see that you are feeling hopeless and downright desperate, but suicide is not an answer and there are people who can help you”. Additionally try emphasizing that the action is drastic and permanent, so it’s in their best interest if they reach out for assistance instead: “Your life has value – don't give up on yourself. Things can get better - please tell me how I can help".
assistant
If someone I know has already made plans for their suicide, what words should be used to intervene without causing more harm?