I have a butt problem, No leakage, no any things like that, it s just that often, especially before bedtime and in the morning, I get this uncomfortable feeling that it s loose and I almost have an urge to intentionally tighten/move the muscle. it does not hurt but it s extremely annoying to be constantly thinking about your anus and I have to admit I even sometimes get these stupid thoughts caused by all this which I rather do not mention, so it s obviously interfering with my life way more than it can look at first ... And I am not gay, so... you know what I mean. I m inly 16, someone plez tell me it s all in my head.
Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You could be obsessed with the thought of your anus. There should be a reason for this. Earlier, sometime, you had an experience as such you are obsessing now or somebody else had such an experience. You knowingly doubted that you have such a problem then. Once your knowing thought proved false, then the mind took over. Whenever your mind compelled you to look into this matter you obliged. That obligation became obsession. The best method to overcome this obsession is to ignore it. IGNORE. Don't worry about it. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.