hi, i had a miscarriage in Aug 2010, and before that i mean in pregnancy i want to sex again and again, i had orgasam and after that i had a miscarriage, but know my days are above but i did not have a urine test for preganancy. i am scared but again i am feeling my clitorous is active and i want to do sex. what should i do know? is it dangerous to have an orgasam in pregnancy?
Dear Madam, With bad history about the pregnancy, particularly loss of baby after intercourse, you have to take care. It is better you avoid intercourse till you complete 14 weeks of pregnancy. After that, depending upon the stability of the pregnancy, you may have sexual intercourse. However, please take care to avoid full insertion of penis. It is not the orgasm which is responsible for the abortion; if at all, it could be physical disturbance or infection. To avoid full insertion of the penis, the best positions are either sex in the side position or penile insertion from back side in side position. You may get details of safe positions for intercourse during pregnancy in an Epic named Kama Sutra by Vatsyayan. If at all with all these precautions you find any discomfort during or after the intercourse, it is better to observe sexual abstinence. Otherwise, sex is not contraindicated during pregnancy. I hope this helps you.