Hi, Im 28 years old, 6.5ft, and weight 79. Im also a shy person. Ive been masturbating for several years now since 2000. I dont know if its because of the masturbating or not, each time i meet a girl i will not even get a minute and i will come(ejaculate) and this is really affecting my sexual experience. Sometimes when about to meet a girl (my girlfriend), I will quickly hide and masturbate rest for some minutes before having sex. In short, i easily come when having sex. I dont like this i want to stop this practice of masturbation but i cant stop. most at times depending on the circumstance i can even masturbate 2 times a day. I need to have normal sex life. please help me out.
Dear user, Thank you for writing to Chat Doctor. I can understand your concern about early ejaculations and need to masturbate to delay ejaculation before each sexual activity with the partner. Masturbation is done in privacy and one often have concern to finish it fast for fear of breach in privacy. So ones mind learns to ejaculate soon unconsciously. That's how you easily come when having sex with your girlfriend. When patients with same complaint approach me, I suggest them Tab KU TUB 30 (Sildenafil 50 mg with Duloxetine 30\u00a0mg) to be taken 2 hours prior to sex. This should be taken under medical supervision. Kindly see psychiatrist nearby your area. This can be overcome. Good day.