After a first time sexual encounter for uncircumcised male who usually masturbates without pulling back foreskin, what appears to be a gland is swollen at the base of the head (underside), is painful, and hanging out so that foreskin not coming back over head.  What to suggest for a very scared man, please.
HelloThanks for your query, based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have developed what is called as Paraphimosis after first sexual encounter. Please consult qualified General surgeon or Urologist for clinical examination at earliest. He will reduce the paraphimosis either manually or by injecting In Hyluranidase locally . Neglecting it may lead to complication of necrosis of the glans penis due to constricting band at the level of coronal Julius. Chat Doctor.