My boyfriend is almost always hard and I want to know if it is unhealthy for him and could possibly prevent us from having children? We have had a couple of miscarriages I m not sure if it is me because I have had one before him but Iconstantly worry about him. We have talked about it and he becomes hard randomly. He becomes hard even when he isn t aroused. Also after we have sex and he has cum he continues to stay hard. He tells me not to worry but I do. Does he need to see a doctor about this?
Hallow Dear, At the outset, let me assure you that frequent erecting dos not cause abortions nor does it affect conception. Erection is possible without sexual arousal (libido) even with tight underclothes or position. If you find him still erected even after ejaculation, you may not terminate the intercourse; continue to have the penis still in the vagina. After some time you will again start getting orgasm, this time within the vagina from what is called as G point. This is called as vaginal orgasm which hardly less than 10% of the women experience in their life. Continue the intercourse in the second innings and enjoy your vaginal orgasm. I do not feel he needs a medical intervention for his frequent erection and libido. Just cooperate with him. I hope this convinces you.