my mother has terminal lung cancer metastized to her brain and other organs. She at home and cant move, talk or eat. lately she cant even hold her own head.  My father insist in giving her showers and transfering her from her bed to the chair which involves pulling her arms and her neck being push back when he does it. the last time he did it she had two convulsions, I personally feel she should be taking sponge baths. Am I right?
Hi Welcome to ChatDoctorThis is Chat Doctor. I will not ask her medical history. Only thing I want you to do is to give her some solace. Dear this is the time you have to face with courage & patience. I fully agree with you that she should be given sponge bath as she is completely dependent and should not be pushed to more miserable condition by pulling and pushing. I would like to suggest some magnetic treatment if you are interested. A set of two Sum 1000 glass , if applied on effected parts, and North pole water orally prepared on North pole magnet may give her strength and prolong her life for some time. I am not sure what is her situation internally . Only god knows. We should try to help her whatever we can. Rest leave to god If you have any doubt or any further query, don't hesitate to get back. Take care god bless you