Hi Doctor... I ve tried having sex with a woman twice now... While we are making out and doing foreplay, I get an erection fine, and everything feels alright. But after 5-10 minutes, I notice I get pre cum, and soon my erection starts to get soft. It s happened both times now, and it s embarrassing. I used to masturbate frequently as a teenager and a little into my early 20s, but I ve been better about masturbating less frequently. Is this happening to me because I used to masturbate too much? Are my parasympathetic nerves out of whack, or my seminal valve because of too much masturbation before? Is there a way I can stop pre cum from occurring too soon and ruining my erection? Age
Hi. Relax. There are nothing with parasympathetic nerve or valve. It is just psychological anxiety or stress which can affect your sexual function. Masturbation is normal physiological function of our body it is one of the method to satisfy sexual pleasure in absent of partner both sex and masturbation has same and has same end result to get satisfaction. Masturbation will not cause any harm. Penile color Doppler will give more confirmation about erection problem. There are many factors that affect your sexual life like lifestyle, addiction, stress, psychological illness, relationship, physical illness etc. So go for proper consultation for better evaluation. Consult physician and psychiatrist for better assistance. I hope I have answered your query. Thank you.