dear doc, am a chartered acountant of age 26...ive been married for an yr now..but i never seem to get any praise or appreciatin from my in laws nad my husband.. instead they always pin point my faults, and fight for mundane things line food, cloth line, hangers etc..ive been brought up in a well to do family not used to all this haggling... i just cant tolerate it anymore and am even contemplating suicide or divorce..my bp has fallen to 70-90 and i was also diaganoised with vertigo ... wht must i do?
Hello, Changes in environment after marriage can lead to adjustment problems. Before taking a major decision of divorce, you must discuss your problems of adapting with new family with your husband. You must share your feelings with your husband. If he does not co-operate, discuss your problem with your parents. Involve them in your every decision. Thinking of suicide is not a solution. Stay strong. Thanks.