i has oral sex usind a comdon about 11 days ago now i have all the symptons of herps other then the bumps im freaking out and thinking of killing myself because i dont want to give it to my 3 year old son i went to the hostipal and had a blood test on day 9 was negative please help im a 43 year old man the whole thing lasted about 30 seconds now today on day 11 i have chapped lips i do suffer from anxity and am streeing out big time cant sleep  and havnt eat for 6 days please help
HiT hank you for asking Chat Doctor. I have gone through your query. Oral herpes is not that dangerous to worry about. Almost 70 percent of Americans are positive for this. This can be transmitted by lip kissing. So no need to become anxious. Using acyclovir cream on lesions will be helpful. Chapped lips are not always herpes. It can be just chassis due to vitamin B complex or vitamin C deficiency. Taking supplements of these will be helpful for this. Hope this may help you. Let me know if anything is not clear. Thanks.