Hi doctor i have a big question Okay so me and my boyfriend were trying to get pregnant for a while we have tried 3 times and fail this last time we tried was weird my last period was on December 28 2012 I supposed to get my period at the end of January or so but I didn t I was late for 3 weeks and got it on February 13, 2013 for 4 days which was weird cuz my period always last for 6 or 7 days and yes it was dark red like normal when are my fertility days to get pregnant? This last time we had sex when he got up of me something was leaking it looked like water I don t know if it was his sperm or it was me please help me!!!
Cellophane you for your query. The leaking fluid you describe is seminal fluid, which liquifies after some time, and might appear watery. Regarding your fertile days, if you have a regular 28-day cycle, ovulation occurs on day 14, so for 2 days before and after it, are your fertile days. If your periods are irregular, you cannot count the fertile days in this manner. You should use Ovulation Predictor kit or follicular monitoring for knowing precise dates. Also, you should get yourself investigated for irregular menstrual bleed. It could be early pregnancy which miscarried, stress, anxiety, weight changes, thyroid hormonal fluctuations or polycystic ovaries. The consultation is all the more important since you are trying to conceive. Take care