Last night my husband was able to get an erection but not ejaculate. After we gave up trying, his heart rate was racing and ever-so- slightly uneven. His dad died of a heart attack at only 46, so Im worried. This is the first time this has happened. My husband is slightly overweight but hes otherwise quite fit (we have 4 kids to chase after)  even though he doesnt have time to take regular exercise. Any ideas?
Hello, Please do not say that your husband does not have enough time for exercise. He has to make sure that he gets time for exercises. Exercises as important as breathing and food and sleeping.  Secondly, regarding to hear related issues, you can consult a doctor and get your husband tested. With the given information, when a person is exhausted after sex (it is also an exercise) racing heart is common.  I don't think you have read too much into it. Here, you are already suspicious about heart problem, and you have a hereditary condition get your husband checked for confirmation.  Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Chat Doctor.  V. Anand, Psychologist