Hello Doctor, This is Sonaliee. Im from India Bangalore, but now I have come to London for the last 2 months. Im married for almost 1 1/2 year. My husband and me have been desperately trying for a child, but in vain. In 2008, I was hospitalized for food poison and the doctor told me to take a scan, only then did the doctor say that I have PCOS. The doctor suggested me to meet a gynecologist. I immediately met Dr Shanta, who is a gynecologist in Chennai (My aunts friend), She explained what PCOS is and started off with my treatment immediately, She gave me MEPRATE & GLYSOFATE (Im not too sure about the spelling) and she told me to do a lot of exercise and walking as my weight was 72 kgs then and my age was 28. Till then my cycles were regular I got married in December 2008, I did not get my periods at all that month. I got it on 14th Jan 2009, My first cycle after marriage, And I had terrible stomach pain. So my husbands granny gave me some herbal leaves to take to avoid this stomach pain, It was a normal cycle for 5 days, and I took this herbal leaves only for the first 3 days. Again I did not get my cycle in the month of February. I was wondering what could be wrong with me, So i told my husband that we need to see a Gyno, In the mean time I had also told what Dr Shanta had told about PCOS. So we went to Apollo Dignostic  and got a complete master health check up done for my husband and me. After the reports came the doctor said that my husband is in the initial stage of Diabetes. As the sugar level was high, his urine & semen report was also not proper, We were asked to meet the Sr. Doctor in the same hospital. We had to again explain everything to that doctor, and also told her about my irregular cycles. She suggested that she does not handle all this as she is just a general physician so she suggested us to go to ANKUR FERTILITY and get a semen analysis done, I suggested my husband that we shall go to Dr Shanta itself but since we came to know that he has diabetic now and we were married for only 3 months then and Dr shanta is a very good friend of my aunt so he was not willing to come there. We had no choice but to go to ANKUR, we got the semen analysis done and the doctor said that his sperm count is very less. Then they told us about the treatment, that I need to get treated for my cycles to get regular and my husband for his sperm count to increase, Then the doctor told she has to do a IVF for us. For which my husband was not OK with it. His sugar level started increasing more and every times when ever we used to have an intercourse I used to have infection, Even he was undergoing terrible pain, We stopped going even to ANKUR, We were going to a local nursing house in our area, and that doctor had give heavy dose, so there was bleeding in his penis, then that doctor told my husband to do a circumsection. Then we took a second option from a doctor who is a Sr Doctor in Diabetes  and that doctor told us not to get into all this, she prescribed GLOCONORM - G for my husband by the time all this happened it was in the month of September, In October my husband flew to London as he got his job here. Even I started taking treatment from Dr Kamalini who is a mother and child care specialist in a nursing home near my house and she prescribed for me FOLININE, CHROMINA - A (1) EVERDAY, ROSINORM - M (1-0-1) EVERDAY for PCOS, and to get my cycles regular DUPHASTON for 5 days. Now I have been taking this tablets from the month of November till date. I came to London 2 months back now my husbands sugar has come to normal it is 80 - 90 before fast and 110 - 120 after fast and after 1 month of intercourse my husband and me checked  in the pregnancy kit, but still it is showing negative, We are very very disappointed and upset with this, and because of this now and then we are having small fights at home. Everybody has now started questioning me why still Im unable to get pregnant. Which make me feel very unsecured. Doctor can you please help me out with this, Is there any chance that I can get pregnant soon. Im very desperate and have lost my patience now, cause my friends who were married after me have conceived by now and are in their 4 month and 5 month, and Im feeling so bad that Im still not able to and even my age is passing, Please suggest me how do I get pregnant soon and come out of it. My email id is  YYYY@YYYY , in case if you want to send any mails, please do. It will be very very great full if you can help me out with this. Thank you - Sonaliee.
Higreetings. I think both of you need to stick on to an infertility center where in you should be taking treatment for PCs and your husband with an Chat Doctor.  Since his semen parameters are not mentioned It's difficult to mention normal conception. If he has normal semen analysis proper and regular intercourse should help you both. If his count is suitable for an GUI you both can go ahead with that also. If not only an IVF will solve your problem. So provide me with his semen report. Regards