Hi doctor, myself yogeesh and the question is about my sister. she recently failed in her engineering and after that she is behaving very badly in the house,shouting on my mother for every thing,and she tells that she doesnt want to be in our house,after all this we came to know that she is in love with a boy and if we ask anything about this matter just she will shout and she will tell that she will die if we ask about that matter once again. i dontn know how to handle the situation.please suggest. thank you
Hi. The easiest way of bringing a person back to normal is making them forget their past. We should try to wash away all the memories which they both have spent together. We should support them. Furthermore, we should stand beside them. Furthermore, we should encourage them in everything rather than discouraging, as even 1 word of discouragement can again take them back to their past, as they will feel that they are hopeless cases. We should show them that there are still people alive who loves them a lot and to whom they mean a lot. We should always make them feel that we are with them no matter what the circumstances might be. In this way we might take out the persons from being depressed angry pit and help them make their life easy rather than miserable.Thus, our encouragement should give them the confidence that they can face the rest of world. She will be alright soon. I hope this has helped you.