i have a different issue but cant  find where to go for help my girlfriend has gone thru a very bad sexual experence in the past & does not wont to have any sex now for the time being & are problem is i cant  even kiss her or hug her without getting an errection & excitedi want  to be able to just hold her at nite wihout that becoming an issue due to her mental state at this time is there any type of help for this kind of problem thanks
Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. There are plenty of treatment methods for sexual anxiety. Your girlfriends sexual anxiety is due to the experience she had. She must be made understand that such an experience cannot make her vulnerable, and sex is the basic requirement of any marital relationship, and she can trust you. This should take time and you should not hurry. Get her consulted with a psychological counselor. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.