I have been trying to concieve for over a year. I am 36years and I once had a child in 1998 and I lost her at birth and I was told it has been a foetal distress. I have seen two Gynecologist and they told me I do not have a problem. They asked me to ask my husband to check his sperm in a laboratory and he is not willing at all. He has a child from previous relationship. I am feeling very bad and confused. He is 37 years old.
HI, Thanks for the query.  I have read your query & understand your concern.  For conception, healthy ovum & healthy sperms coming in contact around ovulation day is essential.  - Ovulation day is 14 days prior to the expected day of menses, provided the menses are regular.  - You have been checked by gynecologist & declared to be fit for conception.  _ Ovulation study confirming ovulation date/ Patient fallopian tubes (confirmed by Hysterosalpingography/ tube testing are minimum things required in female partner.  - Husbands semen analysis/ physical examination by a urologist confirms fitness of a male partner.  You do need to convince your husband for his checking up take help of your doctor if needful./ If he is very much adamant you can go for GUI.  * You are already 36 years. Generally up to 35 the female ova are good & chances of getting abnormal child Chat Doctor.