We are married for 24 yrs.and have 2 children. My second child is 12 yrs. and first is 20 yrs. My husband has no sexual desire and loving attraction for me for last 12 to 15 yrs. Also, we have no happiness at all since my husband is very angry all the time and misbehaves with me. I dont know what is the reason and how both are related! Can you advise me how to solve the problem and where to go for reviving my happiness? Regards.
Hello and thanks for your query. I understand that you are going through a difficult time due to you relationship problem with your husband. There can be various reasons for the behavior of your husband - it could be his nature / personality or there could be differences in opinion and marital discord between you two. When the emotional part of the relationship is not good, then automatically there will be sexual problems. This could be the reason for the poor sexual relationship you both are having. In your situation, the best option would be for both of you to attend marital counselling. Blaming one person or expecting one person to change does not work well in a marital relationship. So, I would suggest that both of you meet a marriage counselor and discuss your problems in detail.