Hello Doctor,After 13 years of marriage I still feel guilty of losing my virginity before I got married. It only happen one time with guy I was with. My husband never said anything and I told him before we got married. He is very loving to me and we love each other. We have a great life, successful business and two kids whom he adore. Why is it I still feel this way?
Hello, Thanks for choosing Chat Doctor for posting your query. I can understand what you are going through. In a contemporary society virginity is given a very high importance. That the reason you are worried as you have been a part of this culture. Would you have thought of the same way if you were in US or UK culture? You need to visit a psychiatrist who can help with some ventilation about the current event. May be discussing this matter with your husband will also help you in case he is very understanding.  Hope I am able to answer your concerns. If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you. In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below-mentioned link