I am 18, and my girlfriend si the only person Ive had sexual activity with. We have done no penetration yet. But sometimes when i flaccid and we start kissing, I prematurely ejaculate (sperm, not just seminal fluid) a very small amount while flaccid. This has no effect on my erection later on and has no effect on the amount of sperm I ejaculate, but it is quite embarrassing, although for now she simply believes it to be seminal pre cum. I do not feel anxious when with her and in fact feel very confident, but I do not know how ot fix this problem. i masturbating atleast once a day every day before I met her, and read that some of my pelvic muscles could be weaker, and Kegel exercises could help. What should i do?
Dear user, Thanks for writing to Chat Doctor. I can read your concern for premature ejaculations. One usually ejaculates faster in early sexual encounters. Your sex life is just starting now. This happens to most of the youngsters. Arousal level is very high. You are comfortable with your partner so discuss with her frankly when you feel high. Just communicate with her by gesturing during sex to decrease caressing or stopping to stimulate you. This start stop method usually works. Wish you all the best.