Hi Doctor. Im experiencing difficulty breathing and feelings of suffocation in my dreams. I broke up with my partner of 11 yrs, 8 months ago and my father died 2 months ago. I also met a girl 6 months ago and Im wondering are her insecurities contributing to this. They certainly cause some stress in my thoughts. Is this because I didnt give myself enough time to get over the last relationship. In truth, I still have feelings for that woman. Thank You!
Hi there ~I understand your concerns and that you have been having troubles sleeping lately since you have met this new person who you seem to have a liking for.  I believe that the sleep difficulties can be treated easily, if that is what is preventing you from having a normal relationship with her.  In my practice I use various medications to help with sleep per se like sleep aids or medicines that help with sleep but are not habit-forming.  You need to visit with a local qualified doctor who can take a good history and perform a physical examination before getting your medicines prescribed after appropriate tests. I hope this helps answer your questions and allay you anxiety.  Take care and have a lovely day!