We adopted our daughter  right out of the hospital. She was a good baby  and perfectly beautiful. As months went by  it was obvious to me she was very bright . She began reading at 2. Then as a toddler she became a challenge for me because i expected her to be advanced in different ares of developement  such as potty training. I would become frustrated and so would she .this continued in other areas. I think now that all the problems she had sleeping could have been caused by stress. Could I have caused her to develope  borderline personality disorder..
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