dear doctor good morning doctor i have problem that i have photograph of a fair girl and i have too much abnormality that when my elder sister comes at my room i start masterbating showing to her (with that photo) and i get extraordinarty pleasure but now i remember that it is not good to show our sister such type of sexual act doctor what is my problem why i am doing such type of abnormal sexual behaviour and also when i do masterbate some times i take pleasure feeling a man and sometimes i take pleasure feeling like a girl what is this please sir i do not like this all help me
Hi, what is your age? It is normal to experience such behavior and try different things in teenage and adolescence. It is definitely wrong of you to do such acts in front of your sister. Try and curb that habit. Also, keep masturbation to about 2 to 3 times a week as excessive masturbation can lead to problems later on. Try and get involved in outdoor fun activities like sports and adventure games which are a much healthier hobby than your present one. As far as thinking about men and women at different times happens, it's a matter of choice which you will subsequently make on your own. So don't worry or pressurize yourself to do that right now. Take care, Chat Doctor.