my mom was given this drug to be taken5mil 2xdailey, knowing she has a very difficult time with any narcotics.she was taking valium a few months ago and had serious side effects { loss of balance , memory loss}. I dont know that this is the correct medication
First of all, you didn't mention why she is taking Valium. Valium (Diazepam) in elderly can cause confusion and loss of memory.  It can also cause motor incoordination (loss of balance)If your mother is prescribed for sleep disturbance- then she can take it only at night If for anxiety-she can take other medication like etizolamplease consult your psychiatrist for exclusion of diagnosis-Dementiahope this helps and clarifies your concern. Wishing you and your mother good health. Chat Doctor.