Hello. My name is abdul. I live in India. I think i have depression. When I was 16, I developed a relation with a woman who was 25 at the time. We broke up when she got married and had a baby with someone else. I stayed till I saw that my relation with her was ruining both me and her marriage. So we called it off. She got divorced and blames it all on me as all of it was my fault. I don t know if I did the right thing or not but she makes me feel as if I was the guilty one. I have depression because of her. I need someone to tell me if what I did was right or wrong.
Mr Abdul you had affair with a girl .she married, and you moved out of her life .u did a great thing .it was morally correct ...may be that lady was not ready to forget you, or she is blaming her failures in marriage at you ...please explain to that girl that your intentions were right .if she is not convinced .forget her .and concentrate on your life .but the guilt is overcoming you .please see a psychiatrist soon ...best of luck