Hi DoctorI am married for a year now. My husband loved a girl in his office and was living life with her for 5 years before getting married. After getting married to me too, he is continuing the relationship and telling me he is just a friend to her now. But he doesnt treat me as wife. He doesnt hav sex with me, scolds me for sitting and eating in his money. I dont work as i did not get work visa, so am dependent on him now. I have seen him doing self pleasing sexual act with his hands. He beat me two days back and sent me out of the house. Now temporarily am at shelter of a public organisation. pls. advice if he is physicically affected plus having sexual disorder too.Thanks
Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Some people do have some sexual fantasies and may be your husband is one among them. I do not know your period of married relationship. But even after marriage, if he is not interested in sex with you, and is more interested in masturbation, there could be some sexual misunderstanding. My advice is first, you should to talk to that woman about his sexual habits. don't shy. Then you may see a sexologist for further advise. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http