Ive been in a relationship for 5 months now and I cant help but snap on every little thing and I go crazy when we fight and I don t understand why I do most things I do. I don t think about the consequences before I act and in turn most of my family and friends turn against cause I always feel like my point is right. And im living with this guy and im so worried about what hes doing behind my back but I don t even think hes doing anything. Why do I always feel like things are so wrong and why do I snap at the drop of a pen?
Hi, thanks for the query. What your current set problem is seemingly a tough middle phase of relationship. Usually during early part of any romantic involvement; physical attraction prevails & tends to hide every flaw mutually perceived by partners. As one starts to settle in a relationship & relationship matures; one starts finding many undesirable things in one's partner & then gets into over Chat Doctor.  This leads to conflicts, frequent quarrels & the earlier perceived charm starts to vanish. Hence, to have a great relationship; first thing is accepted your partner as he is & don't try to correct his perceived faults hastily. Secondly, trust him for a while at least till the time when you don't find 100% conclusive proof of cheating. Men are usually solution givers & women are usually fault-finders. Hence, sit down with each other; talk things calmly. You can also read a book by John Grey (Men are from Mars Women are from Venus) or consult a Psychologist for marital therapy. Don't worry, try things differently & you'll settle down fine. Hope this helps. Good Luck