Hello Dr. I am 33yrs old married women. From last 1 yr i am having some strange problem. I get angry with each little things and just get out of my control. I break whatever i get near to me. Most of my household items broken by me and now even i can t control myself for my 2.5 yrs old baby too. i just feel to beat him and sometimes even i do wen get angry. I know that it will hurt but i just cant help myself. I feel like screams out loudly or do some thing like throwing things or like wise. Before 6mths, i got calm don after some minutes but no a days even the day passed i m really unable to calm don.
Hi, probably you are suffering from intermittent explosive disorder. It is an impulse control disorder in which one loses control of aggressive impulses resulting in physical assault or destruction of property. The aggression is usually after mild stress, and aggressive episode usually followed by regret. It usually starts in early adulthood and decreases with middle age. Although it is very difficult to control this aggression, you should do following- 1. Keep in mind that this a disorder, and you have to control it, so leave the place or person at that moment, for about half an hour; or indulge yourself in some religious faith if you have, 2. consult a psychiatrist nearest to you, as it is treated by counselling and medicines. Medicines are usually mood stabilizers like lithium, carbamide, valproate. . Donot use any sedative medicine yourself. 4. if you are a substance abuser, like alcoholic, try to get rid of it. Best wishes for you