As a Guy, If I Too Write Openly About Sex, Am I Bold or Deviant?
As a Guy, If I Too Write Honestly About Blowjobs, Masturbation and Anal Sex, Am I Bold or Deviant?
The following is NSFW, and written as a response to the plethora of sex articles and fictional erotica written by women on Medium.Medium publishes its share of sexually graphic articles.And good for them.I don’t mind reading those articles; I generally find them fascinating as the vast majority of them are written by women (about 98% to my eyes). Perspectives of self-empowerment and body positivity are most frequent in these stories; honest, meticulous advice as to how to make one’s man — or woman — feel most aroused is nearly equally as common.What came over my feed yesterday (please, no pun intended) was particularly intriguing, a study of the difference between porn blowjobs and those in real life.I’m a guy. I appreciate these authors.But is my appreciation problematic? If I use words here like “cock,” “pussy” or “cum,” or terms like “rim job,” is that disturbing to you?I got it out of the way early. Onward.Truth is, I love sex. Big deal. I’m red-blooded. I’ve watched porn. Who hasn’t, though? However, in this era of #MeToo and the timely release of films like “Bombshell,” about the Roger…