Ask HN: I don't know what to do. I'm lost. Help.
Hello HN,<p>My father was recently diagnosed with Stage II mouth cancer. It came as a shock to my entire family, especially because he doesn't drink or smoke.<p>Currently, I'm in a state of catatonia. My family and I only found out a few hours ago, and I can't concentrate. I can only think of the responsibilities I'll have to face, the disruption of my daily life, and the constant fear of relapse. I don't know what to do, what to expect, what to think.<p>All I am is blank. Please help.<p>-kunai