Ask HN: Marital Problems
I know this is a weird topic for HN but I&#x27;m hoping there is some wisdom here for me.<p>Me and my wife are having a lot of challenges with our relationship. We have a 2 year old child who is very clingy and has intense meltdowns.
I struggle to deal with that situation plus all stress of being the sole provider to our family.
I love my child and my wife but I feel neglected, unloved and unwanted. I help with the child and I do a lot (if not most of the chores) but my wife still complains she is tired all the time. She does most of the child bearing and even takes the nights. Our child demands a lot! I&#x27;m not very into my wife’s parenting style but I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut even though it’s getting harder and harder.<p>Our sex life is also non existing which is driving me crazy and makes me angry. It was bad already before the child but since the pregnancy it reached all time lows. We have sex maybe once or twice a year at this point.
My wife complains I don’t attend her emotional needs even though I hug and kiss her a lot but she doesn’t engage or kiss back.<p>Any words of wisdom?