Ask HN: Need advice how to be real men with balls
I am an engineer. 34 years old. 5yrs of software development experience. And Im am ahead of getting my second depression and probably ruin my life.<p>My dad said once, I am a pussy, I am naive, I am soft, fragile, delicate, just like a woman. I take everything personal and its easy to screw me over. And I do voluntary job.  I am writing this because someone just screwed me over again for money. For a lot of money. He is smarty dodger and I am afraid of him. Yes I can go to court and win the case. Its not an issue. The real issue is me. I am a pussy and I don&#x27;t know how to stop be a pussy and be a real man.<p>I am asking you  for advice dear engineering colleagues, fathers, husbands, uncles, grand-dads.<p>How to become a man ?