[O'brien:] Don't you really want to know what men are thinking? Our next guests claim they can reveal the inner thoughts of a man's mind and help women and I guess, men, too, in their relationships. This book is from R&B; singer Tyrese Gibson and Reverend Run. It's called "Manology: The Secret Of A Man's Mind Revealed." It's nice to have you guys with us. You know, when I first saw the two of you on the cover of this book. This is interesting. How did you get together? You're so different in so many ways especially on the issue of women.
[Tyrese Gibson, Co-author, "manology":] Well, I'd like to say that we appear to be very different, but he's just in a different season in his life, and you know, he's after rap. He's, not everybody's going to
[Rev Run, Co-auther, "manology":] I'm the after rap, good one, Tyrese.
[Gibson:] But you're still rapping.
[Run:] I get that point. I know what you're trying to say.
[O'brien:] But you're a man of the cloth, you've got six kids, love your wife, the whole show you did was all about the devotion and dedication. Chapter one of the book is like a long list of women you have been with, Tyrese.
[Gibson:] Well, I believe in getting things out of your system before you finally settle down and land don't be laughing at me. I think before you could see the value in one, you must get things out of your system with whatever you feel like, whatever.
[O'brien:] All right, let's get to the advice section. What do you think is the biggest mistake that women make? If you would give one piece of advice to a woman who would like to be in a relationship with a man?
[Run:] Many women are trying to pull a man into their life before they have their own life. The self-love is what you need to have. Once you create the solve love then you can go out and find love. Many women get lonely or needy and I like to tell them that just because you're boyless doesn't mean you have to be joyless. Once you create that life it's attractive. That's how Beyonce got Jay-Z, he was like whoa, look at her. She was like being busy and being feminine when she was with Jay, the book of rules.
[O'brien:] Be someone who somebody else would want as opposed to being someone who is trying to grab someone in their clutches. You write a lot about
[Run:] The book is the same thing.
[O'brien:] You write a lot about people who over share, in trying to get a new man exercise extreme discipline in controlling the amount of information you give them.
[Gibson:] It may sound harsh but to the ladies, love you to death but when you first meet a man, shut up, stop spilling your guts, overexposing too much information about things you went through in the past.
[O'brien:] Why?
[Gibson:] Because I thought of you as A plus, and you going into the details about the dysfunction, the infidelity or love child or whatever your situation may be and this is our first dinner. You stayed with him for seven years and caught him cheating 12 times you've devalued yourself because you feel the need to over talk and I just met you. I thought of you as an A plus. Now you are D negative, too much information.
[O'brien:] The book is called "Manology." It has great advice for women who are looking to get a man in their life and good advice for men in understanding if they want a great woman what they could be doing.
[Gibson:] It's out there now, just came out yesterday, definitely want you all's support. Here's something I want you all to know. Me and Rev have been best friends and he's my mentor, changed my life literally. You can't be this close to a man that is doing it the right way and not be influenced to do it better. And we wrote the book because we had a problem with what women don't know, for the things that you do know, congratulations, but we want to be able to tell you what's around the corner before you get to and we worked really hard. And last thing, if you have a weak stomach and you're uncomfortable with knowing the truth, this might not be for you because I go all the way.
[Run:] Listen, everybody get the book. Please don't buy the book. Please don't buy the book. Come on, man. The only thing we got in common is we got the same barber.
[O'brien:] Time for a short break. As we get to our next hour, gentlemen, work with me here.
[Gibson:] Sorry, Soledad, I love you.
[O'brien:] Thank you. Appreciate it. Boy Scouts decision day, whether or not they'll continue with the ban on gay scouts and leaders or if it will be lifted. Jennifer Tyrell dismissed for being a lesbian as a cup scout leader. That's in the next hour.