Here are some conversation starters that can help you get to know someone better without being too cheesy or flirty:

"What do you like to do for fun?" This is a classic conversation starter that can help you get to know the person's interests and hobbies.

"What are you currently reading/watching/listening to?" This can help you find common interests and give you something to talk about.

"Do you have any upcoming travel plans?" This can lead to a discussion about travel experiences, favorite destinations, and travel tips.

"What are your thoughts on [current event or trending topic]?" This can lead to a discussion on a variety of topics, from politics to pop culture.

"What is your favorite thing about your job/hobbies/life in general?" This can help you understand what the person values and enjoys, and may give you some insight into their personality.

Remember, the key to making a conversation longer and more engaging is to be an active listener and ask follow-up questions based on what the person is saying. Be genuinely interested in what they have to say and show that you are listening by asking thoughtful questions and sharing your own thoughts and experiences.
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