My dear friend, choosing who to associate with is a crucial decision that can greatly impact your life. As I have written before, a true friend is not someone who simply pays their respects to you or slips into your presence through a grudgingly-opened door. Instead, a friend is someone who is loyal and speaks with bold freedom in your company. When choosing who to associate with, look for those who share your values and virtues, and who will challenge you to be a better person.

It is also important to consider the nature of your interactions with others. As I have said, I prefer my letters to be spontaneous and easy, just as my conversation would be if we were together. Seek out those who you can have genuine and meaningful conversations with, and who will help you grow intellectually and emotionally.

Lastly, remember that forgiveness and accommodation are important virtues to practice in any relationship. If someone has wronged you, consider whether it is worth holding a grudge or if it would be better to let go of the injury and remember the accommodation.

I hope these thoughts help guide you in choosing who to associate with. Remember to seek out true friends who share your values and virtues, and who will challenge you to be a better person.
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