I'm sorry to hear that you are lonely. There is no simple recipe to find a boyfriend and it depends on a lot of things including a bit of luck, but there are some things you can try, let me know what you think of it.

You could try online dating. It sometimes makes things simpler, because you can find others with similar preferences, but it also has the downside that it's often not very personal.

You can also try a few bars or parties if that's you thing. It's often simpler to find out if you like someone when you meet and talk in person.
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