emo_phone.txt

1.25091310983	4.14157600681	O1	Are you a person who shows her emotion a lot?
4.70932887825	11.777709338	O2	Yeah um, I've been called emotional by some of my friends and my acquaintances.
11.8157436186	18.8822841067	O2	But eh for me I think that, showing emotions or wearing my heart on my sleeve is a good thing.
18.90351808	26.5391705193	O2	Because it helps me to be honest eh to myself about how I feel, how about you?
26.6358779779	31.6266721498	O1	Well, I feel like there's nothing wrong about being emotional.
32.0259389889	34.4991499574	O1	You're just expressing yourself.
34.8487177395	39.1752699234	O1	However, do you, do you lash out like.
39.19008472	43.3597950861	O1	When you're extremely mad, extremely pissed.
43.3890899745	45.5629079693	O1	Do you lash out at someone?
45.6792719796	50.9937041975	O2	Yeah, I guess that's a normal ah human, it's a human response.
51.0130981992	56.1141963985	O2	There is no way that if someone got you angry.
56.1626814027	64.0521405279	O2	There's no way that you can still remain calm, especially if you are push to the point of um
64.1878985398	70.5270310196	O2	Being able to like think, just thinking of physically hurting someone.
71.3427403836	75.5716370179	O2	How about you like have you experienced lashing out?
76.3006018859	79.714421937	O1	Actually, I do that a lot.
79.8307859472	85.7197641805	O1	Which I am very very guilty of.
86.302059983	92.1636370179	O1	Like I feel like, every time something bad happens to me.
93.0654580971	100.721456041	O1	I try to control my emotions first until to a point where I lash out at someone.
100.88172585	103.296279062	O1	I get blinded by my anger.
103.320252269	105.709827248	O1	I don't even know what I am saying?
105.75272802	112.219894427	O1	I says stuff from the past and I feel like.
113.045362868	115.489007083	O1	It's not actually healthy.
115.585977091	117.835681289	O1	It's not, helping me.
117.888745498	120.627407367	O1	But it's just something that I can talk about.
122.043640102	126.980365038	O2	Well um, I see what you're trying to say is that.
127.103264783	133.944961784	O2	Um, you tend to like accumulate your emotions you don't actually.
134.01284079	140.045685124	O2	You're not the type of person to react to something right there, and then did I get you?
140.109093059	142.227152014	O1	Yes, you actually get my point.
142.359671841	146.597261213	O1	Like sometimes I take some time off to.
146.634917222	151.585704198	O1	Like, keep it to myself to process it.
152.343760068	157.4133443	O1	And then from there, I just, explode.
157.814295802	162.35660497	O2	Well, um in that regard, I think we are very different.
162.385695973	170.282429134	O2	Because for me, um I turn to react to even the little things that upsets me.
170.321217137	176.194433246	O2	If um for example, if my fiance did something that annoyed me.
176.213827248	180.039034104	O2	Even ah this, this thing, he likes.
180.084086657	187.162897278	O2	He knows that I hate or irritates me to um.
187.469583203	193.957823135	O2	And it irritates me when he talks to or he flirts.
194.074187146	198.952730077	O2	And um, when I see him doing it right there?
198.99151808	202.750782863	O2	And then I tend to react to it will.
202.804385663	207.546219079	O2	I would not uh be scandals about how I react
207.560495285	211.462781835	O2	But I would, like I would withdraw, withdraw from him.
211.491872837	213.732355785	O2	I would not talk to him for days.
213.772822828	217.923139192	O2	Because um I find that it helps uh me a lot.
217.960248157	224.028613195	O2	When I do that when I, um show my emotion when I get it out there.
224.048007197	228.303519108	O2	And it feels a little less suffocating after.
228.977938989	232.571145845	O1	Really? I think I should learn a lot from you.
232.590539847	238.037093059	O1	Because what I do is, I just let him do his things.
238.478575893	240.437370065	O1	And then I just keep quiet.
240.732859295	246.906687571	O1	And then earn this fault, this little fault that he did.
247.362184061	250.732370179	O1	And I just throw it at him at once.
250.771158182	256.12243119	O1	So every time I lash out, I tell him about things that he did in the past.
256.155629821	258.491868725	O1	Which I think is very unhealthy.
259.364598802	261.837811928	O1	As I told you is something I can talk about.
262.128244044	268.262075404	O2	Yeah well um people have very different ways.
268.355150986	272.07320994	O2	To uh cope with this negative emotions.
272.092603942	278.08582622	O2	But, um from what you're trying to say wha-what I'm getting is that.
278.105220221	285.019647299	O2	You're saying that you bottle up your emotions to appoint of where you can know.
285.058903191	286.658908332	O2	You only lash out.
286.689221249	293.277592456	O2	When you can no longer handle them like when you're full of everything.
293.752007197	297.180375319	O1	That is true, I boil a lot of things.
297.23444873	300.162942987	O1	So talking about being upset.
300.225704198	305.198318421	O1	What are the things that people do that upsets you the most?
305.72848706	309.694302999	O2	I think um, well thinking about it.
309.720143779	313.705611129	O2	What has been upsetting me lately is.
313.762673178	320.329232559	O2	People, when people are entitled to things when people are privilege.
320.486550128	326.415273008	O2	Like um, there is this demand for free education.
326.463758012	333.898175837	O2	Right free healthcare free everything people act like um they are entitled to that.
333.907872837	340.073213025	O2	But they are not some of them will, not all, but some of them are not doing anything.
340.238062039	342.924607026	O2	To prove that um....
342.965953758	345.390203971	O2	I guess for me, it's just.
345.426433246	352.029828276	O2	You should somehow, earn the right to those of free education, free healthcare..
352.058919278	357.063047469	O2	You should at least try to earn the right to have that.
357.082917222	360.261570866	O2	Rather than just demanding everything in your life.
360.368237876	367.432243016	O2	Like ah for example um, a daughter, who would demand or.
367.887268895	375.782312252	O2	Yeah, demand is the right word who would demand like an a a living allowance, I guess
375.88339503	380.786916194	O2	From her parents when she can get a job
380.907392974	387.681221249	O2	When she's at the certain age, when she she could go out, get a job in a living for herself
387.702305055	392.717339159	O2	I think um, those type of people are what upsets me the most.
392.737480778	395.375065009	O1	I think I understand what you're trying to talk about.
395.534796228	399.003156126	O1	Like you're upset of entitled people.
399.029085862	406.448981318	O1	Who think that they have to have, the things that they want without doing anything.
406.914907969	414.309825192	O1	Well for me, what upsets me the most are people who does not know liability.
414.577446788	421.485819023	O1	People who just do what their do to annoy other, others?
421.602183033	426.059637018	O1	And think, that they can just walk away with it.
426.346176865	429.670300943	O1	Like they've done nothing wrong.
430.546201602	432.107418739	O1	It really upsets me.
432.485601772	435.171671008	O2	Yeah, I get, I get what you're trying to say.
435.195644215	442.051899568	O2	I guess um people who act without thinking of the consequences of their actions.
442.111038216	449.347166407	O2	People who do not have the word responsibility in their vocabulary could really upset you.
449.373096143	454.716619364	O2	Because ah sometimes I guess you can call them selfish.
454.736489117	458.837582175	O2	Because um what they are thinking about is
459.303038216	462.658163958	O2	Only to do the things that they want for themselves.
462.677557959	466.074898716	O2	And they sometimes forget to think about.
466.103989719	471.579633934	O2	How the actions would have consequence that affect other people.
472.054786975	474.552232735	O1	Well, that is true actually.
474.649202744	481.267150986	O1	So do you get angry when politicians, make promises that they can't keep?
481.393211997	483.714907969	O2	I mean, who wouldn't right.
483.802180977	491.418439415	O2	Then the point, the whole point of ah the campaign period during an election is.
491.458917222	497.139412507	O2	For the politicians are aspiring candidates to percent their platforms.
497.16850351	502.938663925	O2	And this platforms in themselves are promises of what they would be doing.
502.958057927	505.758533678	O2	When they are, um, in the office.
505.77792768	511.668119966	O2	And it upsets me that you know, people vote using this platforms.
511.687513968	517.94303616	O2	This guy for who did who they think is um deserving of that position
517.99686067	521.749599999	O2	But then when politicians don't keep their promises.
521.778678318	527.878552184	O2	I feel like their whole platforms ring the election period is a big lie
527.934786975	533.223765209	O1	That is true and the this politicians maybe trust them..
533.559998972	538.688979261	O1	They said things which I think will benefit a lot of people.
538.742324652	540.012631763	O1	So I trust them.
540.114180977	543.284367095	O1	And then they will just break that.
543.326945057	548.437264506	O1	They will just you know break their promises.
548.502310196	556.483417648	O1	They do a lot of stuff that is not in what they promised.
557.379397086	562.407770349	O2	Yeah well um, speaking of trust, I think that um.
563.344270513	568.198788003	O2	There are types of people, who uh like gives trust.
568.227879006	573.513220221	O2	And there are other types of people who like you have to earn their trust.
573.552478836	578.659637018	O2	But um either way, politicians capitalise on.
578.756607026	582.695268895	O2	How much people trust them during the campaign period.
582.7437539	587.406064095	O2	So they try their hardest to gain your trust.
587.483640102	594.897935905	O2	You know making ah a lot of promises which you think would benefit you and other countries
594.907632905	598.001441648	O2	So you get you would cast your vote for them
598.049926652	600.911017654	O2	And I think that's the most upsetting point.
601.061590463	607.340129219	O2	It's you know voting for a politician that you thought would um.
608.37770831	614.44582622	O2	Oh would be able to make or fulfill their promises.
614.465220221	619.014793144	O2	And then finding out that he's a liar after the election.
619.063278148	622.028608054	O1	Well, that is true, that will really make me upset.
622.067396058	627.585465294	O1	Well actually talking about other people again like, this people that's around us.
628.28096898	632.65236401	O1	Do you get upset when you see homeless people?
634.073719682	636.963425935	O2	Well um, of course.
636.997096143	642.200486032	O2	Cause you know I, I feel bad for this people specially the veterans
642.9762461	647.813097171	O2	Cause I mean, like they did so much for their country.
648.243877978	652.235875922	O2	Like they were willing to sacrifice themselves for their country.
652.264966924	659.975767265	O2	And then they come home do nothing and no one is even sparing them a second glance
660.707630849	666.332367095	O1	And sometimes what makes me upset is when you see them
667.294059983	670.362425021	O1	And feel like you can't help them.
670.983033076	677.405346356	O1	Like you know they're in a very bad, very bad position right now.
677.534786975	681.44800514	O1	And you can't do anything about it and that's really upsetting.
682.183029991	684.468355785	O2	Yeah well um, I get your point.
684.493076609	691.218425021	O2	It's very like even even if you do share something that you have with you.
691.509335047	693.552215258	O2	Right at the moment you saw them.
693.609803859	699.340731363	O2	You would still live live feeling like you did not do enough
699.418900773	701.379131598	O2	Like you could have done more.
701.413340397	707.687299948	O1	If you would have, I mean like if you have more resources you could have done more.
708.307150986	711.017941045	O1	That is true, that is really true.
711.266901801	715.923152014	O1	So, when when you see your.
716.791511911	720.832	O1	When you see this homeless people and they tried to beg.
721.558541903	724.287511911	O1	What what do you feel about that?
726.003147901	728.794412684	O2	Most only pitty.
728.804109685	730.873683636	O2	Actually um, it's like.
731.300351673	737.546899745	O2	I can't even imagine myself to be in a situation.
737.565084243	740.028122459	O2	Or to live the way that ah they are living.
740.087513968	745.918791088	O2	You know to like depend on awls for a living
746.386417825	750.889938989	O2	And I think that, I actually sometimes admire them.
750.919029991	755.398311224	O2	Because they still have the will to keep on living you know.
755.437099227	763.381098199	O2	Even after all that they have been through like depending on somebody else's as mercy to be able to survive.
763.439280204	765.574785947	O2	It's a big thing.
765.691149957	768.747389889	O1	And they're just trying to get it through the day.
768.805571894	777.094560409	O1	And sometimes you see them and um sometimes it makes me depressed.
777.843735048	784.855808903	O1	Because not a lot of people are really  concerned with how their living right now.
785.566063067	790.030057927	O2	Yeah, that's true, you would people ah walking pass of them.
790.107633934	793.909334019	O2	Like uh they are nothing, like they weren't even there.
794.345699057	799.735279176	O2	And um, but on the other hand, I think um they also.
799.82060497	805.836858267	O2	When I see them, they also make me realize how blessed I am.
806.264002056	808.337213025	O2	To be able to live.
808.550547043	812.268611139	O2	The way I am living, cause sometimes I.
812.52	817.537457069	O2	What I think about is all the negative stuff that is happening to me.
817.566548072	822.680247129	O2	And then, I see someone living like that and I would be reminded that
822.87372071	825.278576921	O1	Hey, I'm better off
825.302550128	831.74910848	O2	I have something that um, people are wanting, people are needing.
831.763923277	832.413622334	O1	That's true.
832.413622334	836.711758012	O1	And when you see other people making nasty comments about them.
837.119032048	839.304236848	O1	It just makes me mad.
839.420600858	844.859880034	O1	Like if you are to put yourself in their situation.
845.26715407	849.307637018	O1	You will be really depressed with what they are saying like right now.
849.579153042	852.813576007	O1	Do you get angry when people make nasty comments about you?
853.230547043	855.771637018	O2	Of course, I mean, who wouldn't.
855.955880034	862.558804453	O2	Like I don't really, go out in a limp to find out what people think of me.
862.917593484	868.085816967	O2	But if they go out on a limp to tell me how they think about me?
868.153695973	874.406314308	O2	I guess I would be very upset specially if it it's like a lot of negativity.
874.43951808	878.88048192	O2	It's like a lot of something that they don't like in me.
878.899875922	885.5682461	O2	I mean criticism is okay, but there's a line that you should not cross.
886.300847986	888.321936933	O1	Well, for me I think.
888.952241988	892.330911054	O1	I can only handle healthy criticisms.
892.427881062	895.606550128	O1	Like it will help me, get better.
895.877332991	897.802665981	O1	It will help me improve myself.
897.889938989	900.240725964	O1	But sometimes this nasty comments.
900.42496898	902.614543959	O1	They drive me nuts.
902.827877978	908.06958526	O1	They, it drive me crazy to the point where I question everything about myself.
908.545214053	910.969940017	O2	Be at that's that's um.
911.483881062	913.583760068	O2	I actually get that a lot.
913.60315407	916.682425021	O2	You know, people are trying to, I don't know.
916.740607026	922.046551156	O2	It happens mostly among girls were you see this type of?.
922.242180977	925.41113248	O2	There's a thing where they tried to bring each other down.
925.449920483	931.549334019	O2	Specially through how each other looks like if you don't have the?
931.762668037	936.463766237	O2	I don't know you don't ask are you not at party with a beauty standards?
936.483160238	939.887278148	O2	and they tend to bring that up.
939.926066152	946.381092031	O2	And they tend to make you feel bad about yourself so they can feel good about themselves.
946.60412305	952.106435302	O1	Yeah, I know what you mean like I'm not a natural jealous person.
952.174314308	955.51903616	O1	But if they keep on doing that.
955.772847986	957.427873865	O1	It just makes me mad.
959.954420909	963.637334019	O2	Speaking of um jealousy.
963.753698029	969.723889287	O2	Um, are you annoyed when you a partner flirts with someone ah else.
969.782547043	972.387879006	O1	Of course, I'm not just annoyed.
972.43636401	973.944725964	O1	I will get mad.
974.099877978	978.785219193	O1	Because I feel like you're my partner you chose me.
978.843401198	982.535995888	O1	You have no right to flirt with other girls.
982.594653644	988.761213025	O1	Because you promise that I will be the one person in your life.
989.499874894	990.575508827	O2	Yeah um.
990.623993831	998.280244044	O2	I guess it just seems down to being faithful and loyal to the single person.
998.483881062	1001.26254499	O2	That you promise to, right?
1001.31102999	1003.72969597	O2	If you're in a committed relationship.
1003.90424199	1008.78351808	O2	There is no reason for you to be flirting with someone else.
1008.81260908	1011.91107015	O2	Even though you're having problems in your relationship.
1012.74690591	1018.33284901	O1	Um, having a problem in a relationship for me is never a reason.
1018.42012202	1020.53817584	O1	You should flirt with other girls.
1020.57750243	1022.14841657	O1	What can you say about that?
1022.18208678	1023.68512191	O2	I totally agree.
1023.69939811	1028.11564113	O2	I mean if you have problems in your relationship you should take action.
1028.1779359	1035.0535647	O2	You should you know try to analyze things and try to come up with a solution together with your partner.
1035.1117467	1041.55103102	O2	It will never um help your relationship if you go out and flirt with someone else.
1041.60921302	1045.60363907	O2	Because then you'd be having thoughts thinking that.
1045.62108586	1048.10157087	O1	Wow, I found someone better than her.
1048.12096487	1052.13963599	O2	Why would I have to um deal with our problems.
1052.16872699	1054.10860291	O2	When I could just replace her.
1054.12799692	1056.95755853	O2	And in the end if you could living like that.
1057.00572348	1062.18392194	O2	I think that you would find yourself alone in the end.
1062.22302999	1063.97381697	O1	I totally agree with you.
1064.16775698	1067.66885004	O1	That's why I feel like if you have problems with your partner.
1067.97915407	1069.45842502	O1	You should talk it out.
1070.12751808	1077.11347146	O1	Like he should never ask pieces of advice  from his friends of the opposite sex.
1078.0191479	1081.76750677	O2	Well um, I agree to that do a certain extent.
1081.81599178	1085.50738783	O2	Because I don't know this, I don't know why.
1085.53647884	1091.65455321	O2	But there's a thing with girls and being best friend with boys.
1091.71320583	1097.31370214	O2	That um I don't know some girls do it better than others I think .
1097.33309614	1101.42570625	O2	Because some girls know when to draw the line.
1101.45479726	1108.66498029	O2	You know uh thay actually help their relationship while others help to destroy that relationship..
1109.70909511	1111.65503102	O1	I totally agree with you.
1112.35490489	1120.2535904	O1	And like speaking of my partner having a girl best friend..
1120.48848398	1122.61381697	O1	I don't agree with that.
1122.93820263	1125.88609089	O1	From the moment that he will tell me that.
1125.9100641	1131.62692442	O1	She is actually having, I mean he has a female best friend.
1131.94545398	1137.48655424	O1	I will really get upset I will doubt the relationship they are having.
1137.91127506	1142.98328226	O2	Yeah, I think what's most upset thing about that situation is when.
1143.15830403	1147.5103102	O2	um, he listens to her more than you I mean he.
1147.73987695	1151.17672802	O2	He takes her advice as more than yours.
1151.20581902	1154.69479212	O2	He tells her stuff before you.
1154.73358012	1160.03582554	O2	If he has a good day or he has an achievement and he he will tell her before you.
1160.05521955	1163.21044425	O2	I think it says something about the relationship.
1163.23270768	1168.77939217	O2	I don't care if they started being best friends when they were childhood friends.
1168.80336537	1171.38335076	O2	I think that when you're in a relationship.
1171.48032076	1176.14254396	O2	You are you dating the person who can potentially be with you for life.
1176.18133196	1179.90303308	O2	You should I don't know to make adjustments to your friendship.
1179.92242708	1186.74595441	O2	I mean, if her his girl best friend really understands that.
1186.80751602	1188.32193796	O2	She would back off.
1188.59345398	1193.77091414	O1	That is true and him telling the problems to her？
1194.002909	1195.89551397	O1	That is totally unfair.
1196.04096898	1199.20266701	O2	I don't think that is the best thing to do.
1199.49357703	1201.42860703	O1	If you are in a relationship.
1201.59345604	1204.5527311	O2	Well, if you are in a relationship.