It is not about caving in to the desire to please at all costs or about imposing one's will on others, but rather looking at reality as objectively as possible and dealing with it accordingly. Since time immemorial, women have been forced to grapple with practical problems.
既不能无条件地迎合，也不能把自己的意愿强加于人，而是尽可能客观地面对现实，采取相应的行动。