Most people play the “blame game” in which individuals or groups attempt to assign blame to each other when they encounter problems or any form of failure. In Psychology, blame is observed as a psychological projection that acts as a defense mechanism to protect ourselves by using others as scapegoats. Blame can play havoc in individual and personal relationships, especially when it is important to preserve our own self-esteem by being right or justified in our actions. Blame is also a form of emotional avoidance to bypass difficult feelings like shame, guilt, anxiety, inadequacy, sadness, feeling overwhelmed, or disappointment.
The “I blame you, and you blame…” is an uncomplicated way out instead of taking proper actions to work together to create positive changes and behaviors. Relationships are the best training school in life as it acts as a mirror and gives people the opportunity to gain experience and grow from one another. Every connection is unique, divinely orchestrated for internal and external growth, or for some, it might be a lesson to be learned or a cycle that was released karmically.
Blame in relationships can be seen as very superficial, but it affects every part of our being. Blame is more ego focused, and an extremely easy pattern we bring into our lives. It is always easier to blame others than to take responsibility or accept accountability for our own actions. From personal experience, age and beliefs or values often create the starting point of blame when a partner does not reflect our beliefs, values, or views.
Blame Interferes with True Self-Worth and Self-Empowerment
When we blame others for our actions like anger, we give away our own power and enhance our senses of victimhood which creates an unhealthy cycle of helplessness that constricts self-reflection.
Blame can manifest in the form of:
- Blaming a partner for their mistakes.
- Blaming a partner for their actions.
- Blaming a partner for their beliefs.
- Blaming a partner for their values.
- Blaming a partner for their views.
- Blaming a partner for miscommunication.
- Blaming a partner which manifests as emotional abuse and victimhood.
Blame Creates Unhealthy and Narcissistic Relationships
When we observe the energy of blame, we can easily see how this can quickly manifest and create narcissistic relationships. As we enter a relationship, we need to acknowledge our similarities and differences. We become so overconsumed by the magnetism of a connection that we do not acknowledge or see the shadow side of a person. Blame can easily manifest when we least expect it, but the tell-tale signs are there right from the beginning, so always pay attention to the red flags showing up.
Mirror of Blame in Relationships
In relationships, we so easily blame ourselves for our partner’s weakness and shortages. We often look at ourselves and feel we need to change, maybe if we change our appearance the person will love us more or suddenly step up to show more commitment. Mentally as our partner struggles, we take it on ourselves to make changes, yet it never works or lasts. Our blame can only be one-sided, as we cannot act for another. In this space of realization, one can see that we either accept the person for who they are or walk away.
5 Signs of Blame
- Feeling small or unappreciated.
- Judgement that is projected.
- Painful feelings and emotions or feelings of hurt within the relationship.
- Loss of trust equals never feeling good enough no matter what you do.
- Emotional and mental abuse.
Often in relationships, people feel scared and fearful to speak up or to communicate their needs, fear steps in, and instead of creating a pathway of communication they act out of fear and try to make excuses of why a person is not in alignment with them. The fear of loss stops them from stepping up, and they accept the terms of the relationship. Unfortunately, many people choose the easy way out by using Blame instead of using clear communication to change old outdated self-sabotaging patterns, and by not taking proper action they create even more negative cycles which lead to heightened emotional abuse and trauma.
The Path of Blame in Relationships: Drama and Addiction - Victim
In relationships blame can become very toxic, it can also create drama that spirals down into a space of no return. Blame is telling the person what they mirror in you, and what you mirror in them, and is never a supportive pattern. Responsibility or accountability for many is hard, as they are used to the patterns and mental program of habit that is their environment. In a relationship, there is no “I” anymore, it is now “we,” and we must accept the part we play.
If a partner is willing to see their weakness and is willing to change, the energy can easily be shifted, and this creates a stronger connection when both work together to strengthen the connection for the greater good.
In blame, there is no communication, only finger-pointing. However, we at times can create this drama which releases dopamine, which is a good feeling hormone, but it is also a toxic way that becomes addictive, hence why some people love drama. It is a very destructive pattern and makes a person feel inferior. This however is short-lived, hence why the person will always bring in more drama.
In relationships, blame can often manifest into a person feeling like they are a victim. Meaning the person easily feels offended and broken down or verbally abused as they feel that the words are an attack. If the conversation becomes heated, this will only ignite the victimhood that the person experiences. Often in relationships, a person that always plays the accuser will not accept blame and project it back to the victim. This creates a negative connection, one that can lead to deep abuse and destruction.
Blame and Our Solar Plexus
When we start to question ourselves about who we are and accept the blame a partner places on us, then we need to start with our own energy in relationships. If the blame has truth, we need to acknowledge it and make the changes. However, if he does not ring true, then we know that the blame is projected onto us to take on the responsibility and accountability for something that is not ours or does not reflect who we are. Blame can easily be placed on us when we are weak, and when a partner’s solar plexus is bigger than ours, we can easily be consumed by their projections. Have you often walked away saying sorry only to question yourself “why did I say sorry, why did I take the responsibility of accountability for the blame?”
Psychological Blame Starts in Childhood
Blame as a child occurs when we manifest into our world the blame of our parents onto us. If a child felt unloved or not wanted, they often blame themselves due to low self-esteem and attract partners that only recreate the same cycle and pattern due to the energy and frequency we send out. In childhood, it is so important for a child to understand that their parents’ mistakes, shortcomings, and choices have no reflection on them. This is a toxic cycle that showcases itself in adulthood only to lead to destructive relationships that become abusive.
Stress in Relationships
Everyday life stress can place an enormous strain on a relationship. If a partner feels they are pulling the hardest part of supporting their partner financially, emotionally, or mentally, blame can easily step in. In all relationships, a 50/50 rule needs to be implemented to ensure balance within a connection. The relationship needs to be equally beneficial to both, if not blame will step in that will affect the relationship, and lead to a breakup, disconnect, or divorce. We often want the other partner to fulfill the part we are missing, yet they never can only we can change and bring it forth.
How to Change the Pattern of Blame
- Seek help or guidance from a relationship counselor.
- Clear communication or clarity regarding feelings or situations.
- Talk about views, beliefs, and values.
- Break patterns form the beginning of a relationship.
- Stop projecting what we think or want from our partner.
- Take responsibility and accountability for our own actions.
- Work on ourselves which will also reflect in our relationship.
- See the mirror in our relationships and learn from it.
- Take time out if you feel angry or upset.
- Observe the reality, not the fairytale or “happy ever after” ending.
- Walk away from relationships with negative patterns that are narcissistic or abusive.
Blame can often manifest when we do not deal well with our emotions and feelings. As we are not taught how to deal with our emotional side, we often project onto others our views and instead of communicating clearly, we argue to a point where words become toxic and at times, we often create breakups due to this behavior. Hence, why the more we work on ourselves, the stronger we become and stop the cycle of projection.
How to Deal with Blame
- Share with your partner how you feel, always start with “I feel” rather than “You make me feel.” Please do not allow fear in, step in your power, and stand up for yourself.
- Do not apologize for how you feel only for the part you play
- Be open and honest, you will feel elevated and empowered.
- Speak your truth and set healthy boundaries.
- Communicate more effectively.
- Acknowledge your partner’s weaknesses and strengths and work together to change the patterns and habits.
Communication is the mother of healing. Be open and honest from the beginning. Set healthy boundaries and speak up and say your truth. If your partner loves you, they too will want to work and change to bring in healthy boundaries and acknowledge the acceptance of two halves working together to be one. There is forever flow, it all depends on the work we put in, always see it as the yin and yang of balance. We all go through challenging times, yet we can take each challenge and create a victory. It all starts with honesty and truth. Speak your mind and speak your truth but in all connections, if the connection does not elevate you, but breaks you down, then do know it is time to go.
A Balanced Relationship
Blaming others in adulthood stems from childhood, we take this into our relationships and project it onto others. Dealing with blame can often lead to emotional and mental abuse in relationships. Taking responsibility for the part we play is the first step to healing blame and changing the cycle or patterns. Communicate with your partner and create clear boundaries in your relationships from the beginning. This will allow you to bring in a harmonious connection where there is no blame but just respect. Healing steps from when we change the past will allow us to change our future. Inner child healing of blame can change the future and our projections onto others. Relationships need to be balanced, so create the balance from the start.
Psychic Readings for Long-Lasting Changes
So many times, people fail by trying to change old patterns by themselves because they use the same old thought patterns which always result in a repetition of previous shortfalls.
“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking that created them” - Albert Einstein.
Working with a Psychic Advisor allows you to tap into a higher level of consciousness that will activate a new level of thought patterns that will give you a better perspective on how to deal with future problems more effectively. Psychics explore the deeper spiritual connection by tuning into your past, your present, and your future, while simultaneously reading your Auric Field to see what is happening on a spiritual, mental, and emotional level.
When playing the “blame game” it is easy to lose track of who you are and what matters to you, so it is easy to find yourself disconnected from your emotions. A reading with a Psychic can guide you on a journey toward spiritual awakening, helping you to become aware of old limiting beliefs and negative emotions which are holding you back. Psychics can also clear and heal family and ancestral karmic baggage and energetic blockages that were created through old outdated dysfunctional blame patterns. With the help of a Psychic, these negative and irrational patterns can be reversed by breaking the “Blame Cycle” to guarantee conscious and constructive positive changes.
Please connect with me as I can support you to make positive long-lasting changes that will support you in moving your life in the right direction to achieve your dreams. Let me be your guide, as I support you on your beautiful journey through life.
Watu wengi hucheza "mchezo wa kulaumu" ambapo watu binafsi au vikundi hujaribu kulaumu kila mmoja wanapokutana na matatizo au aina yoyote ya kushindwa. Katika saikolojia, kulaumu ni projection ya kisaikolojia ambayo hufanya kazi kama utaratibu wa ulinzi ili kujilinda kwa kutumia wengine kama mbuzi wa dhambi. Kumlaumu mtu kunaweza kuharibu mahusiano ya kibinafsi, hasa wakati ni muhimu kuhifadhi kujistahi kwetu wenyewe kwa kuwa sahihi au haki katika matendo yetu. Kumlaumu ni aina ya kuepuka hisia za kujikinga na hisia ngumu kama vile aibu, hatia, wasiwasi, kutostahili, huzuni, kujisikia kuzidiwa, au kukata tamaa. "Mimi nakulaumu, na wewe unalaumu... " ni njia rahisi ya kutoka badala ya kuchukua hatua sahihi za kufanya kazi pamoja ili kuunda mabadiliko mazuri na tabia. Mahusiano ni shule bora ya mafunzo katika maisha, kwani hufanya kazi kama kioo na huwapa watu fursa ya kupata uzoefu na kukua kutoka kwa kila mmoja. Kila uhusiano ni wa kipekee, unaongozwa na Mungu kwa ukuaji wa ndani na wa nje, au kwa wengine, inaweza kuwa somo la kujifunza au mzunguko ambao ulitolewa kwa karmic. Kutowajibika katika mahusiano ya kimapenzi kunaweza kuonekana kuwa jambo la juu sana, lakini huathiri kila sehemu ya maisha yetu. Kulala na kujisumbua ni tabia ya ego, na ni tabia ambayo ni rahisi sana kuibadilisha na kuifanya iwe ya kawaida. Ni rahisi sana kumlaumu mtu mwingine kuliko kuchukua jukumu la matendo yako. Kutokana na uzoefu wa kibinafsi, umri na imani au maadili mara nyingi huunda hatua ya kuanzia ya kulaumu wakati mwenzi haonyeshi imani zetu, maadili, au maoni. "Kulaumu huingilia ndani ya thamani ya kweli ya kibinafsi na nguvu ya kibinafsi: ""Tunapowalaumu wengine kwa vitendo vyetu kama hasira, tunatoa nguvu zetu wenyewe na kuongeza hisia zetu za kuwa waathirika, ambayo huunda mzunguko mbaya wa kutokuwa na msaada ambao hufupisha kujitafakari.""" Kulala na mtu mwingine kunaweza kuonekana kama: - Kumlaumu mwenzi kwa makosa yake. - Kumlaumu mshirika kwa matendo yao. - Kumlaumu mwenzi kwa sababu ya itikadi zao. - Kumlaumu mshirika kwa sababu ya maadili yake. - Kumlaumu mshirika kwa maoni yao. - Kumlaumu mwenzi kwa sababu ya kutoelewana. - Kumlaumu mwenzi ambayo huonekana kama unyanyasaji wa kihisia na unyanyasaji wa kibinadamu. "Kutenda dhambi huunda mahusiano yasiyo na afya na ya kujitukuza: ""Tunapotazama nishati ya kutenda dhambi, tunaweza kuona kwa urahisi jinsi hii inavyoweza kuonekana haraka na kuunda mahusiano ya kujitukuza." Tunapoanza uhusiano, tunahitaji kutambua mambo yanayofanana na yanayotofautiana. Tunakuwa na nguvu nyingi sana za kuvutia za uhusiano hivi kwamba hatutambui au kuona upande wa kivuli wa mtu. Ni rahisi kugundua kosa wakati tunapoitazamia, lakini ishara za kuashiria zipo tangu mwanzo, kwa hivyo sikuzote makini kwa bendera nyekundu zinazoonekana. Katika mahusiano, sisi kwa urahisi sana kujilaumu wenyewe kwa udhaifu na upungufu wa mpenzi wetu. Mara nyingi tunajiona wenyewe na tunahisi tunahitaji kubadilika, labda ikiwa tutabadilisha sura yetu mtu atatupenda zaidi au kwa ghafla atachukua hatua ya kuonyesha kujitolea zaidi. Wakati mwenzi wetu anapojipinga, sisi wenyewe huchukua jukumu la kufanya mabadiliko, lakini haifanyi kazi au kudumu. Kosa letu linaweza kuwa la upande mmoja tu, kwa kuwa hatuwezi kutenda kwa ajili ya mwingine. Katika nafasi hii ya utambuzi, mtu anaweza kuona kwamba ama tunakubali mtu kwa jinsi alivyo au tunaondoka. 5 Ishara za Kutowajibika - Kujisikia Mdogo au Asiyethaminiwa. - Hukumu ambayo ni projected. - Hisia zenye uchungu na hisia au hisia za kuumizwa ndani ya uhusiano. - Kupoteza uaminifu ni sawa na kamwe kuhisi nzuri kutosha hakuna jambo gani unafanya. - Ukatili wa kihisia-moyo na kiakili. Mara nyingi katika mahusiano, watu wanahisi hofu na hofu ya kusema juu au kuwasiliana mahitaji yao, hofu hatua katika, na badala ya kuunda njia ya mawasiliano wao kutenda nje ya hofu na kujaribu kufanya udhuru kwa nini mtu si katika alignment na wao. Hofu ya kupoteza huwazuia wasichukue hatua, na wanakubali masharti ya uhusiano. Kwa bahati mbaya, watu wengi huchagua njia rahisi kwa kutumia Blam badala ya kutumia mawasiliano ya wazi kubadilisha mifumo ya zamani ya kujidhuru, na kwa kutochukua hatua sahihi wao huunda mizunguko mbaya zaidi ambayo husababisha unyanyasaji wa kihemko na majeraha. Katika mahusiano, kulaumu kunaweza kuwa sumu sana, na pia kunaweza kuunda drama ambayo huelekea kwenye nafasi isiyoweza kurudi. Kumlaumu mtu ni kumwambia kile anachokionyesha ndani yako na kile unachokionyesha ndani yake, na sio muundo wa kuunga mkono. Uwajibikaji au uwajibikaji kwa wengi ni ngumu, kwani wamezoea mifumo na programu ya akili ya tabia ambayo ni mazingira yao. Katika uhusiano, hakuna "mimi" tena, sasa ni "sisi", na lazima tukubali sehemu tunayocheza. Ikiwa mwenzi wako yuko tayari kuona udhaifu wake na yuko tayari kubadilika, nishati inaweza kuhamishwa kwa urahisi, na hii huunda uhusiano wenye nguvu wakati wote wawili wanafanya kazi pamoja kuimarisha uhusiano kwa faida kubwa. Katika kulaumu, hakuna mawasiliano, tu kidole-kuelekeza. "Hata hivyo, wakati mwingine tunaweza kuunda mchezo huu wa kuigiza ambao hutokeza dopamine, ambayo ni homoni ya kujisikia vizuri, lakini pia ni njia ya sumu ambayo inakuwa ya kulevya, kwa hivyo kwa nini watu wengine wanapenda mchezo wa kuigiza. """ Ni tabia yenye kuharibu sana na humfanya mtu ahisi kuwa wa hali ya chini. Hata hivyo, hali hiyo ni ya muda mfupi, ndiyo sababu mtu huyo sikuzote huleta mambo mengi ya kuogopesha. Katika mahusiano, mara nyingi kulaumu kunaweza kumfanya mtu ahisi kana kwamba yeye ni mhasiriwa. Mtu anaweza kujisikia amekasirika na kuvunjika moyo au kutendwa vibaya kwa maneno kwa sababu anahisi maneno hayo ni shambulio. Mazungumzo hayo yanapokuwa na uchungu, hilo litazidisha tu hisia ya mtu huyo kuwa mhasiriwa. Katika mahusiano ya kimapenzi, mtu ambaye hucheza jukumu la mshtakiwa mara nyingi hatakubali kulaumiwa na kumrejesha kwa mhasiriwa. Hilo huunda uhusiano usiofaa, ambao waweza kusababisha unyanyasaji na uharibifu mkubwa. "Kutoka kwa ""Solar Plexus"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini"" na ""Mtu wa Kujiamini.""" Kama kuna ukweli katika kosa hilo, tunapaswa kukiri na kufanya mabadiliko. Hata hivyo, ikiwa haionekani kuwa kweli, basi tunajua kwamba hatia imepigwa juu yetu kuchukua jukumu na uwajibikaji kwa kitu ambacho si chetu au hakionyeshi sisi ni nani. "Wakati mwingine, ""mtu anaweza kutupa lawama wakati sisi ni dhaifu, na wakati solar plexus ya mwenzi ni kubwa kuliko yetu, tunaweza kwa urahisi kutupwa na makadirio yao.""" "Mara nyingi umekwenda mbali na kusema ""samahani"" tu kujiuliza ""kwa nini nilisema samahani, kwa nini nilichukua jukumu la uwajibikaji kwa kosa?"" ""Kila mtu anajua kwamba hatia ya watoto huanza wakati wa utoto, na hatia ya watoto huanza wakati wa utoto." Ikiwa mtoto anajisikia hapendwi au hatakiwi, mara nyingi hujilaumu kwa sababu ya kujidharau chini na kuvutia washirika ambao huunda mzunguko na muundo huo huo kwa sababu ya nishati na mzunguko tunaotuma. Katika utoto, ni muhimu sana kwa mtoto kuelewa kwamba makosa, mapungufu, na uchaguzi wa wazazi wao hauwezi kuwaathiri. Hii ni mzunguko wenye sumu ambao unajitokeza katika utu mzima tu kuongoza kwenye mahusiano yenye uharibifu ambayo huwa ya unyanyasaji. Mkazo katika mahusiano Mkazo wa kila siku wa maisha unaweza kusababisha mkazo mkubwa katika uhusiano. Ikiwa mwenzi anahisi kuwa anafanya kazi ngumu zaidi ya kumsaidia mwenzi wake kifedha, kihisia, au kiakili, kulaumu kunaweza kuingia kwa urahisi. Katika mahusiano yote, kanuni ya 50 50 inahitaji kutekelezwa ili kuhakikisha usawa ndani ya uhusiano. Uhusiano unapaswa kuwa na faida sawa kwa wote wawili, ikiwa sio, hatia itaingia ambayo itaathiri uhusiano na kusababisha kuvunjika, kutenganishwa, au talaka. Mara nyingi tunataka mwenzi mwingine kutimiza sehemu tunayokosa, lakini hawawezi kamwe, tu tunaweza kubadilisha na kuileta. Jinsi ya Kubadili Mfano wa Kulala na Mtu - Tafuta msaada au mwongozo kutoka kwa mshauri wa mahusiano. - Mawasiliano ya wazi au uwazi kuhusu hisia au hali. - Zungumza juu ya maoni, itikadi, na maadili. - Kuvunja mifumo hufanyiza mwanzo wa uhusiano. - Acha kutafakari kile tunachofikiri au kinachotaka kutoka kwa mwenzi wetu. - Kuchukua jukumu na uwajibikaji kwa vitendo vyetu wenyewe. - Kufanya kazi juu yetu wenyewe ambayo pia itaonyesha katika uhusiano wetu. - Tazama kioo katika mahusiano yetu na ujifunze kutokana nacho. - Chukua muda wa kupumzika ikiwa unahisi hasira au uchungu. - Angalia hali halisi, si hadithi ya hadithi au "happy ever after" mwisho. - Ondoka katika mahusiano yenye mifumo mibaya ambayo ni ya ubinafsi au yenye unyanyasaji. Mara nyingi hatia yaweza kuonekana tunaposhindwa kushughulikia hisia na hisia zetu vizuri. Kwa kuwa hatufundishwi jinsi ya kushughulika na hisia zetu, mara nyingi tunaonyesha maoni yetu kwa wengine na badala ya kuwasiliana wazi, tunabishana hadi maneno yanakuwa na sumu na wakati mwingine, mara nyingi tunaunda kuvunjika kwa sababu ya tabia hii. Kwa hiyo, kadiri tunavyojitahidi zaidi, ndivyo tunavyokuwa na nguvu zaidi na hivyo kukomesha mzunguko wa kutazamia. Jinsi ya Kushughulika na Kulala - Shiriki na mpenzi wako jinsi unavyohisi, daima anza na 'Ninajisikia' badala ya 'Unanifanya nijisikie'. - Usisamehe jinsi unavyohisi tu kwa sehemu unayocheza - Kuwa wazi na mnyoofu, utahisi juu na nguvu. - Sema ukweli wako na weka mipaka yenye afya. - Kuwasiliana kwa njia yenye matokeo zaidi. - Kutambua udhaifu na nguvu ya mpenzi wako na kufanya kazi pamoja ili kubadilisha mifumo na mazoea. Mawasiliano ni mama ya uponyaji. Kuwa wazi na mnyoofu tangu mwanzo. Weka mipaka ya afya na useme ukweli. Ikiwa mwenzi wako anakupenda, yeye pia atataka kufanya kazi na kubadilika ili kuleta mipaka yenye afya na kukubali kukubali nusu mbili zinazofanya kazi pamoja kuwa moja. "Kila kitu kinaweza kuwa na ""mzunguko"" wa wakati, lakini kila kitu kinategemea kazi ambayo tumefanya, daima uone kama yin na yang ya usawa." Sisi sote tunapitia nyakati zenye changamoto, lakini tunaweza kuchukua kila changamoto na kuunda ushindi. Yote huanza na uaminifu na ukweli. """Sema kweli yako, lakini katika uhusiano wowote, ikiwa uhusiano haukuinua, lakini unakupunguza, basi ujue ni wakati wa kwenda.""" "Kutumia ""mtu mwingine"" katika maisha ya watu wazima ni jambo la kawaida katika maisha ya watoto, na tunaliona katika mahusiano yetu na wengine." Kushughulika na kulaumu mara nyingi kwaweza kusababisha unyanyasaji wa kihisia-moyo na kiakili katika mahusiano. Kuchukua jukumu la jukumu tunalocheza ni hatua ya kwanza ya kuponya lawama na kubadilisha mzunguko au mifumo. Kuwasiliana na mpenzi wako na kuweka mipaka ya wazi katika mahusiano yako tangu mwanzo. Hii itakuruhusu kuleta uhusiano wenye upatano ambapo hakuna lawama lakini tu heshima. Kuchukua hatua za uponyaji kutoka wakati tunabadilisha zamani kutaturuhusu kubadilisha siku zijazo. Kuponya kwa ndani ya mtoto wa lawama kunaweza kubadilisha siku zijazo na makadirio yetu kwa wengine. Mahusiano yanahitaji kuwa na usawaziko, kwa hiyo fanya hivyo tangu mwanzo. "Kama ""Mtazamo wa Psychic"" kwa Mabadiliko ya Muda Mrefu Mara nyingi, watu wanashindwa kwa kujaribu kubadilisha mifumo ya zamani wenyewe kwa sababu wanatumia mifumo hiyo ya zamani ya mawazo ambayo daima husababisha kurudia kwa mapungufu ya awali." "Hatuwezi kutatua matatizo yetu kwa kufikiri sawa na yale yaliyoyaumba". - Albert Einstein. Kufanya kazi na Mshauri wa Psychic hukuruhusu kuingia katika kiwango cha juu cha ufahamu ambacho kitaamsha kiwango kipya cha mifumo ya mawazo ambayo itakupa mtazamo bora juu ya jinsi ya kukabiliana na matatizo ya baadaye kwa ufanisi zaidi. Psychics kuchunguza uhusiano wa kina wa kiroho kwa tuning katika zamani yako, sasa yako, na wakati wako ujao, wakati huo huo kusoma Auric Field yako kuona nini kinachotokea juu ya kiroho, akili, na kihisia ngazi. Wakati wa kucheza mchezo wa kulaumu ni rahisi kupoteza mwelekeo wa wewe ni nani na nini muhimu kwako, hivyo ni rahisi kupata mwenyewe disconnected kutoka hisia zako. Kusoma na Psychic inaweza kukuongoza katika safari kuelekea kuamka kiroho, kukusaidia kuwa na ufahamu wa imani za zamani zinazopunguza na hisia hasi ambazo zinakuzuia. Psychics pia inaweza kusafisha na kuponya familia na mababu karmic mizigo na blockages nishati kwamba walikuwa kuundwa kwa njia ya zamani outdated dysfunctional patterns lawama. Kwa msaada wa Psychic, mifumo hii hasi na isiyo ya busara inaweza kubadilishwa kwa kuvunja "Mzunguko wa Kulala" kuhakikisha mabadiliko ya chanya ya ufahamu na ya kujenga. Tafadhali unganisha na mimi, kwani naweza kukusaidia kufanya mabadiliko mazuri ya kudumu ambayo yatakusaidia kusonga maisha yako katika mwelekeo sahihi ili kufikia ndoto zako. Hebu niwe mwongozo wako, kama mimi kukusaidia katika safari yako nzuri kwa njia ya maisha.