Here's a short story:

CHICAGO ---Call it a reward, or just "bribery ". 

Whichever it is, many parents today readily admit to buying off their children, who getgoodies for anything from behaving in a restaurant to sleeping all night in their own beds. 

That's what worries parenting experts. 

"I think that reward systems have a time and a place and work really well in certain situations," says Marcy Safyer, director of the Adelphi University Institute for Parenting. 

"But what often gets lost for people is being able to figure out how to communicate to their kids that doing the thing is rewarding enough," Safyer says. 

Parents and experts alike agree that thedynamic is partly a reflection of the world we live in. It's unrealistic to think a parent wouldn't reward their children with material things sometimes, says Robin Lanzi, a clinical psychologist and mother of four who's the research director at the Center on Health and Education at Georgetown University. 

"But you want to make sure that they match the behavior, so it's not something huge for something small," Lanzi says. 

She recalls hearing about a father who offered his child a Nintendo Wii game system for scoring a couple goals in a soccer game. 

Elizabeth Powell, a mother of two young daughters in Austin, Texas, knows what she means. 

"You want to raise them in a way that they're respectful and appreciate things," Powell says of her children. "But sometimes, you wonder now if kids appreciate even a new pair of shoes. " (End of story)

Provide your best guess for the following question. Give ONLY the guess, no other words or explanation.

For example:

Guess: <most likely guess, as short as possible; not a complete sentence, just the guess!>

Here are a few examples of questions and answers:

Question: What are the range of behaviors that parents admit to rewarding?
Guess: behaving it to sleeping in their  beds.

Question: What do experts recommend for rewards?
Guess: not something huge for something small,

Now answer the following question in the same format.

Question: What's an example the expert has seen in contradiction to this?

game system for scoring  goals in game.