Here's a short story:

CHICAGO ---Call it a reward, or just "bribery ". 

Whichever it is, many parents today readily admit to buying off their children, who getgoodies for anything from behaving in a restaurant to sleeping all night in their own beds. 

That's what worries parenting experts. 

"I think that reward systems have a time and a place and work really well in certain situations," says Marcy Safyer, director of the Adelphi University Institute for Parenting. 

"But what often gets lost for people is being able to figure out how to communicate to their kids that doing the thing is rewarding enough," Safyer says. 

Parents and experts alike agree that thedynamic is partly a reflection of the world we live in. It's unrealistic to think a parent wouldn't reward their children with material things sometimes, says Robin Lanzi, a clinical psychologist and mother of four who's the research director at the Center on Health and Education at Georgetown University. 

"But you want to make sure that they match the behavior, so it's not something huge for something small," Lanzi says. 

She recalls hearing about a father who offered his child a Nintendo Wii game system for scoring a couple goals in a soccer game. 

Elizabeth Powell, a mother of two young daughters in Austin, Texas, knows what she means. 

"You want to raise them in a way that they're respectful and appreciate things," Powell says of her children. "But sometimes, you wonder now if kids appreciate even a new pair of shoes. " (End of story)

Provide your best guess for the following question. Give ONLY the guess, no other words or explanation.

For example:

Guess: <most likely guess, as short as possible; not a complete sentence, just the guess!>

Here are a few examples of questions and answers:

Question: What did a dad offer his kid for scoring some goals?
Guess: Nintendo Wii game system

Question: What game was the kid playing?
Guess: soccor

Question: How many kids does Elizabeth Powell have?
Guess: Two

Question: Are they both boys?
Guess: no

Question: Are they young or old?
Guess: young

Question: Will they die in some traumatic event?
Guess: unknown

Question: Where does Elizabeth live?
Guess: Austin, Texas

Question: What's Robin Lanzi do for a living?
Guess: clinical psychologist

Question: How many kids does she have?
Guess: Four

Question: Where does she work?
Guess: Georgetown University.

Question: What's her official title there?
Guess: research director

Question: Who thinks that a reward system has a time and a place?
Guess: Marcy Safyer

Question: Does she think it works really well in some circumstances?
Guess: yes

Question: Where does she work?
Guess: Adelphi University Institute for Parenting.

Question: What's her title?
Guess: director

Question: Does Powell think kids should be respectful?
Guess: unknown

Question: Does Powell also want to raise kids to appreciate things, in addition to being respectful?
Guess: yes

Now answer the following question in the same format.

Question: What's an example of something she thinks kids should appreciate getting?

a new pair of shoes. "