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Ryans job is safe for one more year, so I don't think that factors into the equation. I would say that if the Jets are way behind you might see Tebow or the Tide boy.
Is this when it finally happens? We all know what has to happen here. It's been written on the wall for a long time now way back into last season.
If the Jets are getting their a$$es kicked tomorrow night (which is sure to happen given the way they are currently playing), does Sanchez get pulled for say Greg McElroy at the beginning of the 4th quarter?
There are a lot of things riding on this also. Rex Ryan cannot expect to keep his job if he refuses to bench Sanchez. So the time has arrived when Rex Ryan is going to have to show he has a backbone. He has to show he's willing to make some tough choices that violate his code of devotion and standing by his guys.
My feeling is that Sanchez should have been pulled long ago. He simply hasn't done enough to be called even a decent NFL QB. He's 2nd string at best.
Ryans job is safe for one more year, so I don't think that factors into the equation. I would say that if the Jets are way behind you might see Tebow or the Tide boy.
Rex: "Mark is our QB."
Tanny: "Let's sign a DB."
Media: "Tebow-Time!"
Woody: "Vote Romney!"
Jets-Fans: "Fire Tanny and Rex!"
Guess what?
We will have a new QB before the end of the game. No question
One can only hope that the sanchez era ends tomorrow night. he is putrid.
Mark Sanchez is a top 10 quarterback in the NFL when he has some receiving weapons, a running game, and a dominant offensive line. Nothing happening this year is Mark Sanchez's fault. He has the worst offense to manage in the entire NFL. Aaron Rogers would be doing no better. Tim Tebow is made for a pathetic offense like this. That's why eventually he will get a start.
But he'll lose the starting job to Tebow going into Indianapolis.
Or are you saying that he is a possible top 10 QB that doesnt have the weapons to reach his potential?
If its the later you and I are in rare disagreement.
I agree that the team (TANNY) did NOTHING to help him this year but he is truly going backwards in a hurry.
He hasnt learned yet that you dont pass the ball to defensive linemen during a screen play??
Impossible to watch him play. Impossible
The Jets simply had better offensive talent in 2009 and 2010 then they did in 2011 and certainly in 2012. And by failing to support Mark Sanchez, the Jets have ruined him. No, not permanently, but in the short-term Mark Sanchez doesn't know what to do or who throw to.
We have the worst group of offensive talent around a quarterback of any team in the NFL. The offensive line can't block, the running back can't run, the receivers can't run routes, the tight end has disappeared. Mark spends half the game on his back, recovering from a brutal hit.
You may be right, you may be wrong. Mark Sanchez may be the worst quarterback in the NFL, Mark Sanchez may be the best quarterback in the NFL. We simply can't judge because of how bad everyone else is.
Here's what we do know: Mark Sanchez played extremely well in the postseason in his first two years in the NFL. He amassed four wins, all on the road, against superior competition. In 2009 and 2010, Mark Sanchez won no less than six games with miracle fourth-quarter comebacks under immense pressure. That's one hell of a try-out, one hell of a resume saying he's got the ability and got no support.
He is horrible when facing adversity. And that my friend ... is when you need a great QB.
no matter. this regime is about to implode, we all know the pattern. we'll get new sheriffs and hopefully, a commitment to build an offense whose mission is to score touchdowns, and not merely to control clock and grind out yards.
Yes. We will overreact, then Tebow will come in and beat the mighty manning less colts and be declared a savior
just like how we all thought powell sucked last year, now we see he's averaging twice the ypc as greene. and mcknight continues to sit. it's hard to evaluate players when they ride pine, and the starters stink. it's like what SAR was saying. maybe they suck, maybe not, but it's a travesty to not know.
I say start Teblow tomorrow and let's see how friggin' wonderful he is.
And watching Eli today: Yes, he is accurate as hell BUT, he's thrown his share of bad passes for which the WRs jump 5 feet in the air and catch, we don't have WRs that do that.


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These are some the boards I have made over the last 5 years. Let's focus on the orange one since it is the newest at 1month old. I made it for lighter winds and riding waves. It's an assymetrical twin tip 55" long, 17"" wide; it has probably 1 3/4" of rocker and the double concaves running the length of the board are 5/16". I've used the board 3 times in wind no greater then 20mph with my 10m Halo and the board works really nice .Since I ride Airush production boards most of the time, I put in the qualities I liked the most from different boards. It has some length and width like an Exile; the bottom double concave like a Protoy, and the small boxy rails of an Expact. The board weights 6 1/2 lbs complete and ready to ride.
The materials and construction are as follows. The foam was an old, double stringer wind surfer board; stripped and reshaped. The lamination job was one layer of 4 0z cloth, followed by one layer of 10 oz cloth and 4 oz patches under the pads all done with clear 2 part epoxy resin. After wet sanding the board down to 1200 grit, it was sprayed the orange automotive paint. After this paint cures it it really durable and is hard to scratch, BUT, extremely toxic. Probably lost a few braincells on that one.
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Years ago, they were all the best of friends. But as time passed and circumstances changed, they grew apart, became adults with families of their own, and began to forget about the past--and the terrible lie they all shared. But now Gordon, the youngest and wildest of the five, has died and the others are thrown together for the first time in years. And then the revelations start. Could their long-ago lie be the reason for their troubles today? Each one of these old friends has to wonder if their secret has been discovered--and if someone within the circle is out to destroy them.


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A new drug target identified for RAJanuary 31, 2013 at 10:12 pm | Posted in arthrits, rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, joint pai, rheumatoid arthritis (RA) | 1 Comment
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A protein called IRHOM2 has been identified as a possible new target for drugs aimed at treating RA, and could be useful for those who do not respond to anti-TNFs or even eventually replace anti-TNFs altogether. The full article on IRHOM2 can be found here, but here's a short summary.
TNF or tumour necrosis factor has a useful purpose in the body; it is a signalling protein and it signals the body to produce a protective inflammatory response. Thus if a part of you is infected, TNF starts the process of inflammation, which takes immune response cells to the appropriate area in the blood, and they start to attack the disease-causers. In this case inflammation is a good thing.
However, when too much TNF is produced, immune cells start to act on things they shouldn't, like our joints – leading to RA.
Anti-TNFs attack TNFs directly, and do a mighty fine job for many people, but they are toxic and can have nasty side effects.
IRHOM2 is a protein that helps to release TNF from where it sits harmlessly and inactively on the surface of cells, so attacking IRHOM2 should have the same effect as attacking TNF – reducing in TNF release and therefore reduction in inappropriately active immune cells, and so reduction in RA symptoms.
It is hoped that drugs targeting IRHOM2 would be less toxic, because they will only block TNF release from the specific cells that contribute to joint damage, and they could be an alternative for those who don't respond well to anti-TNFs.
There is, of course, a long way to go. This is just the identification of a possible target. The next step is to find something that will actually block IRHOM2 and be safe to use in patients. Then there will be the long, slow plod (quite necessary for safety reasons!) through clinical trials, with no doubt a few failures along the way – but some years down the line this could be a real breakthrough. Let's hope so!
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In Greek mythology Zeus falls in love with Europa, disguises himself as a gentle snow-white bull and, while the girl is making a fuss of this new member of her father's herd, abducts her by swimming out to sea. Matthew Lanyon knows the story well: it was read to him as a child; in the mid-1950s his artist father produced a striking interpretation of the theme in which oil paint plays out a mythical drama of land, sea and sex. The twenty or so paintings in Matthew Lanyon's 'Europa' series revisit and develop this complex personal legacy. They are, he says, about 'pushing my childhood map to the edges'. Female forms become landscapes, which become animals, which become maps. Here are a lighthouse, a chapel, a navel - signified by a red dot, which may also be the rising sun or a beacon on the telecommunications mast above Camborne. Is this a horse's head or a headland? A lot of what Lanyon calls 'elision' is clearly going on.
Field of Dreams, the largest painting in this show, is very large indeed. It is not made to be looked at from one position but to walk along, to think alongside. It's like listening to a story in which familiar characters reappear in altered form. You recognise shapes and signs from other 'Europa' paintings - the red dots again, and a tilted 4 that, explains Lanyon, stands for Perranporth airfield. In fact this enormous work, like numerous others in the exhibition, is a carefully scaled up, horizontal variant of a small vertical panel painting, in which Europa's figure-of-eight breasts and the bull's horns are suddenly obvious. The breast shapes, especially, recall the conventions of Aborginal bark painting - human and animal forms are also landscapes, threaded by schematic paths that lead simultaneously through space and time. If you don't recognise the cliffs around Godrevy lighthouse or know about Perranporth airfield or the clock tower at Porthleven, you could lose your bearings. At the same time, uncertainty and elision are necessary, says Lanyon, because (and I agree), 'By not being clear, you go on looking'.
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A few months ago I highlighted fiction set in Oakland. Several readers suggested I do another posting featuring Oakland nonfiction, so here it is! Oakland is home to many talented writers of both fiction and nonfiction. I've listed a sampling of nonfiction titles here. Have a favorite nonfiction Oakland book that you don't see listed here? Add it to the list and share your experience of reading the book.
Blues city : a walk in Oakland / Ishmael Reed
Ishamael Reed, one of our most brilliant essayists, takes us on a tour of Oakland, exploring its fascinating history, its beautiful hills and waterfronts, and its odd cultural juxtapositions. He takes us into a year in the life of this amazing city, to black cowboy parades and Indian powwows, to Black Panther reunions and Gay Pride concerts, to a Japanese jazz club where a Lakota musician plays Coltrane's "Naima." -From Publisher's Description
The lost daughter / Mary Williams
The adopted daughter of Jane Fonda recounts her tumultuous youth in Oakland during the 1970s and how the stable home environment the actress provided helped her to reconnect with her biological family.
Eye from the edge : a memoir of West Oakland / Ruben Llamas; [edited by] Terry Burke Maxwell
Eye from the Edge brings you to an American melting pot with sizzle and swing. In the wartime 1940s the Oakland Port waved farewell to soldiers and sailors and welcomed laborers for the rail yards and the shipyards located at the edge of our North American continent. Streetcars, motorcycles, city slickers and shoppers mix with music and aromas while a group of boys cycle along the edge of the San Francisco Bay. Read about this multiculture-rich neighborhood; dance the salsa and swing; meet Pedro Infante, or Guadalupe Carlos in La Ideal Music Shop on Seventh Street. See the big hearts of boxers like Carl Bobo Olson and the early church leaders like Father Phillipps at St. Mary's. -From Publisher's Description
The promise : how one woman made good on her extraordinary pact to send a classroom of first graders to college / Oral Lee Brown with Caille Millner
In 1987, a chance encounter with a young girl who asked her for money led to Oral Lee Brown making a promise to pay for the college education of a classroom of first grade students. Although she made $45,000 a year at the time, Ms. Brown began saving and investing $10,000 of her own money each year to establish the Oral Lee Brown Foundation. Not only did she live up to her promise, she made the same promise to three more classes. This book tells the story of the realationship Ms. Brown developed with the children and her commitment to help them toward a better life.
Oakland / Annalee Allen
Part of the History Postcard Series, Allen's book captures Oakland's history from the 1850s through the 1950 as depicted in postcards. Catch a glimpse of early Oakland during the administration of mayors Frank Mott, a proponent of the "City Beautiful Movement," and John L. Davie.
Oakland, the story of a city / Beth Bagwell ; second edition
with an afterword by Erika Mailman
The second edition of Bagwell's book, first published in 1982, traces the early history of Oakland, including the history of the native people who first lived here until the present. Erika Mailman, historical novelist and 12-year history columnist for The Montclarian, provides an afterward in which she captures recent events and developments in the City.
Lying down with the lions : a public life from the streets of Oakland to the halls of power / Ronald V. Dellums and H. Lee Halterman
When Ronald Dellums arrived in Washington in 1971 to represent Oakland, California, in the House of Representatives, his radical activism had already earned him a place on Nixon's enemy list. When he retired in 1998-his radicalism still intact-he left a record of accomplishment that has made an indelible mark on our political landscape This book chronicles Dellums's years in the House, and offers crucial lessons for Americans committed to democratic social change. -From Publisher's Description
The Black Panther Party : service to the people programs / the Dr. Huey P. Newton Foundation ; edited and with an afterword by David Hilliard; foreword by Cornel West
This book represents Black Panther Party members' coordinated responses over the last four decades to the failure of city, state, and federal bureaucrats to address the basic needs of their respective communities. The Party poineered free social service programs that are now in the mainstream of American life.
-From Publisher's Description
Oakland rhapsody : the secret soul of an American downtown/photographs by Richard Nagler ; introduction and text by Ishmael Reed
Nagler's photographs, accompanied by Reed's text, offer a contemporary view of Oakland. In Nagler's words, "The photographs in this book are rhapsodic in the sense that they were taken with the desire to convey the vibrant melodies and rhythms of life on the street in downtown Oakland."
Historic photos of Oakland / text and captions by Steven Lavoie
This book is the work of OPL librarian Steve Lavoie. His photos capture glimpses into the ways in which Oakland has adapted to change and in experiments in social, scientific and cultural innovation to sustain itself as a charming and welcoming gateway to the Pacific. -From Publisher's Description
Oakland : a photographic journey / Bill Caldwell
This collection of "then and now" photographs, many chosen from the Oakland History room's collection, captures 150 years of Oakland history. The timeline at the beginning of the books was originally compiled by Oakland History Room librarians and summarizes the history of Oakland from 1,200 B.C. to 2002, when the book was published.
East Bay then & now / Dennis Evanosky and Eric J. Kos
This book traces the ensuing explosion of business and population through fascinating archival photographs placed side by side with matching contemporary views. Historic sites pictured include the San Jose Mission, the San Leandro Courthouse, the Lake Merritt Boat House, and Berkeley City Hall. -From Publisher's Description
Renegade for peace and justice : Congresswoman Barbara Lee speaks for me / Barbara Lee
Barbara Lee writes about her personal and political life from growing up in Texas through her years in Oakland with the Black Panther Party and her work in the United States Congress. She also covers the many pieces of legislation and policies she has worked on to help promote international peace.
Farm city : the education of an urban farmer / Novella Carpenter
For anyone who has ever grown herbs on their windowsill, tomoatoes on their fire escape, or obsessed over the offerings at the local farmer's market, Carpenter's story will capture your heart. And if you've ever considered leaving it all behind to become a farmer outside the city limits, or looked at an abandoned lot next door with a gleam in your eye, consider this both a cautionary tale and a full-throated call to action. -From Publisher's Description
The spirit of Oakland : an anthology/Abby Wasserman, editor; Diane Curry, photo editor;[contributors: Michael Dobrin ... et al.]
Organized thematically and moving backward and forward in time, this book is an exceptionally colorful and comprehensive popular history of Oakland as experienced by 16 different authors. -From Publisher's Description
In addition to the titles listed above, there are also many books about Oakland neighborhoods and communities in the Images of America Series. Titles include Oakland's Chinatown / William Wong, Black artists in Oakland / Jerry Thompson and Duane Deterville, andThe Pullman porters and West Oakland / Thomas and Wilma Tramble, among many others. And remember, you can always visit OPL's Oakland History room for an introduction to all things Oakland.
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September 14, 2012
Loyola University New Orleans opens its doors to students' family and friends for the university's annual Family Weekend, to be held Sept. 28-30.
Family Weekend allows students and families to reconnect after the beginning of a new academic year and enables families to experience Loyola as their loved ones do.
The weekend is organized by the Office of Student Affairs and begins on Friday with a welcome reception featuring local foods, performances by student musicians and opportunities to meet Loyola administration, faculty and staff. Throughout the weekend, families will have the opportunity to participate in a number of activities and events including:
- Shadow Your Student to Class - Experience Loyola academics by accompanying students through their class schedule.
- NolaLoyola, "Beats of the Streets: The Brass Brand Tradition in New Orleans," an all-day event featuring lectures, food and performances by the Dirty Dozen Brass Band, Loyola Faculty Jazz Band and the Young Tuxedo Brass Band.
- Daily and Vigil Mass - Join members of the Loyola community to celebrate a daily mass in St. Ignatius Chapel on Friday, and a Saturday vigil mass in Holy Name of Jesus Church.
- Study Abroad Fair - Meet Loyola faculty who host study abroad programs and learn about exciting cultural programs.
- Fun, Facts and Fables - Learn about three centuries of life in the Big Easy as a professional guide leads you on a memorable bus tour through historic New Orleans.
- PRISM Concert - View Loyola's major music ensembles in Louis J. Roussel Performance Hall, presented by the College of Music and Fine Arts.
The event-filled weekend will conclude on Sunday at 10 a.m. with a farewell brunch featuring a jazz band. To view the entire schedule or to register for the weekend, visit Loyola's Family Weekend website. Registration is required; students and children under 6 receive free admission. Registration for children ages 7-12 is $20, and all other family/friends ages 13 and up cost $75 per person for the entire weekend.
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Weekend Box Office Report: 'Paranormal Activity: The Marked Ones' Gets 'Frozen' Out of No. 1
Over the past few years, "Paranormal Activity" series has established itself as one of the most inexpensive and reliable horror franchises around.
Produced for pennies, they've consistently opened strong at the box office, ensuring a fast and efficient turnaround. The latest film, "Paranormal Activity: The Marked Ones," accomplished that goal, and did so without grabbing the No. 1 spot.
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LeBron James gives warm, wet kiss to Miami in new Nike ad
These days Miami Heat fans apply microscopic scrutiny to every utterance and action of their hero, LeBron James.
There's a reason for it: He has an unsettling little clause in his $110-million deal with the team that would allow him to tear up his contract and walk away at the end of this season.
The question — will he or won't he? — started about a day after he got here in 2010. Despite back to back NBA championships, a few agents provocateurs in the national media continue asking it, louder and louder.
Now, LeBronologists have a new, key piece of evidence to study.
During the highly anticipated season opener against the Chicago Bulls Tuesday night, Nike debuted a two-minute commercial starring LeBron that sure looks like a big wet kiss to South Florida.
Called Training Day, it shows what appears to be approximately 97.4 percent of Miami following along behind James as he runs, bikes, and swims from his Coconut Grove mansion to practice at the AmericanAirlines Arena.
The scenes flash by so quickly it's difficult to say exactly what neighborhoods they traverse, but you see him make his round-about way through The Roads, what's either Little Havana or Allapattah, Overtown, across the MacArthur Causeway, and down Washington Avenue on South Beach.
He even stops for a pickup basketball game in what sure seems to be Wainwright Park just off Brickell Avenue.
Of course, this was a product intended to sell expensive sneakers, not necessarily deliver a hidden messages about James' future.
Still, it's the sort of spectacle that suggests he just might like to stick around Miami for a few more seasons.
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suspicious247 posted 4/6/2013 17:54 PM
My email to him
I feel there are some things you need to know about me. My flaws. I am aware of them, after all I am my worse critic and you know that. And Im not saying I wont ever fix any of this stuff. But when considering planning a life together, you need to take the present me not the potential me.
im bad at remembering to pay bills
i am a messy cook
i like to eat unhealthy stuff and spoil myself at times
i will never get too fat because my father left my mother for exactly that reason. And it has affected so deeply me in ways I can never explain .I have had multiple eating disorders. If it literally kills me, no one will EVER divorce me bc i am too fat. You have no way of knowing how that feels because it didnt happen to you, but this is very very serious.
(because you had mentioned something similar as a term for marriage I went to a very dark place and im not sure im out of it yet)
i will be VERY protective of my kids if Im so lucky to even have one
i will not back down when i perceive you being unnecessarily mean to me. I will stand up for myself.
i dont fold the laundry perfectly
i am not the most ardent cleaner. I will most likely not clean things to your standards
I like to do things fast and efficiently. I am different than you. You take your time and do things thouroughly. I am NOT built that way. My mind does not work that way.
i will be forgetful
i love salt
i love bubbly things to drink it makes my stomach feel better
i dont love working out
if i have a health problem and medication can help, i will take it.
Sometimes I dont feel like answering the phone.
I need you to think about whether these things are going to make you angry to a point where your mood is affected for an hour or even a week. (think about how mad you got when I didnt keep the doorway clear when moving when I told some people close to me that story they were horrified)
If you see yourself getting angry at these things and them affecting YOUR mental health, then we just arent a match. Plain and simple.
I need you to accept blame. You are not perfect and sometimes you act like you are. Like you can do no wrong and anything that has happened that is wrong has nothing to do with you. You are a master at shifting blame. You need to be accountable. It wont be the end of the world if you did something wrong and you are to blame. I would probably cry tears of joy if I got angry about you for something and you didnt turn and try to make it my fault. You are seriously so good at that.
You really do need work on yourself and you need to admit that. I need to work on myself too. It scares me so much when you cant admit things. If you could just admit that you have some problems it would make me feel 1000% better. Because if you know you have issues then I can live with that. But if you have issues (being controlling is one that comes to mind also needlessly disrepectful) and you deny them completely that is something I cannot live with. not for very long anyway.
i will not be told by another human being what to put in my body or not put in my body obviously not talking street drugs or drinking 7 days a week
if i feel youre not attempting to really understand me i will shut down. You dont want that. You will not be happy if im not happy. There is truth to the age old idiom Happy wife, happy life
i will smack my food at times
I will get animated and talk too loud at times
i will ruin something like a pan or a countertop again
i will be wrong
I will embarrass you at some point
i need a gentle soul who is forgiving patient and understanding and i need you to REALLY think about that and whether you can be that person because i
wont be happy and the relationship will fail at some point if that is not what im getting. I also need to feel that my
opinions, thoughts, feelings are valid and top priority of yours. This is not a wish list, these are my boundaries and cannot go without them. ever.
You have to do some self realization. That you can be very cold hearted and disrespectful. It creates this vicious cycle bc I will not be talked to disrespectfully
without fighting for myself. I saw too much of it growing up and it unleashes a beast inside of me. An extremely mean, angry person with words that can cut deep. I dont want that to ever come out, but
both myself and my brother and sister are this way. and we can really explode when disrespected or pinned in a corner. I have seen myself do it and I have seen them do it
and it is scary for all involved. you have no idea how we grew up and you need to be considerate of that when your temper flares up.
i will periodically check up on things and verify because my trust was broken and i can never blindly trust again. to anyone. that
part of me is gone for good. You should not get angry about it because it just looks like you have something to hide.
it shouldnt faze you that i want to look at something because there is nothing bad to hide.
Im going to do things you disagree with or dont like. because i am not perfect. unless i slept with your best friend or hurt one of your
loved ones, you cannot berate me, make me feel unimportant, or less than good enough. You can get angry all you want but you need to deal
with how you get angry. and silent treatment is not the way. It is a form of mental control.
you like things done your way and i need to be able to do things my way too- i am different than you and i will want to do things differently
you need to care about what i was missing and what you could do to make me feel happier. not only that, because really i tell you without you even asking asking. But you need to LISTEN to me when
I'm telling you what I need to be happier. Love, patience, unconditional love, honesty, quality time, RESPECT. A public promise that you will love me forever.
I am a smart person and I will know if you are listening to me, working on things, or not. I will react acciordingly.
Please please please. This is IMPORTANT TO ME. This is the rest of our lives we are talking about. Our happiness. Our legacy on the universe. Think about these things.
If you still want to get married after youve thought long and hard, then I am available April 29th to go away for however long you would like. I dont want to plan it myself. I dont want to plan my own proposal. That is not how it should go.
This part is up to you and the ball is now entirely in your court. If saying these things, or after thinking about these things you change your mind. That is entirely ok. What I ask of you is to TELL ME. DO NOT KEEP ME IN THE DARK. iF YOU ARE NOT SURE THAT MARRIAGE IS WHERE YOU WANT TO BE RIGHT NOW THAT IS OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I do feel that is what youve been telling me both directly and indirectly.
What is NOT OK is not telling me that just because you dont want to lose me. I am ready for the next step, and these are my boundaries. I cant be your girlfriend anymore. Not one more minute. If it scares you to marry me then DONT. you will be happy without me, please dont think that you wont. Time heals all wounds.
And I will always have a special place in my heart for you
suspicious247 posted 4/6/2013 17:56 PM
His response (this is all before the 5 hour conversation) and mom if you are reading this I'm sorry.
You have said a ton in this email so I will try to take things and respond to them the best I can.
I have flaws as well. I am stubborn, fiery, arrogant at times, have a big ego at times, have ocd, I need organization and structure in my life or else I go crazy and won't feel fulfilled or find it easy to relax. I'm ocd about cleanliness and will spend a lot of time getting things the way I like/want them. I am a perfectionist in most everything I do, and this is a big flaw because no one is perfect and everything is imperfect. I try anyway. I get silent at times.
I understand your feelings about your past family history. I can't imagine what that would feel like and I'm sure it affected you deeply. I know this is very serious for you, and I can't really relate, but I can sympathize. While I may not agree that you starve yourself, or it forces you to have an eating disorder, I can see how those emotional feelings would lead you to take drastic measures. I know you already know this, but eating disorders are very serious. They can cause much more damage down the road as compared to the short term benefit a person may think they are getting. I'm sorry if I said anything to you that caused you grief and brought back memories of the past regarding this topic. I didn't mean to take you to a dark place, and I hope I can help bring you back.
I will be most protective of my kids. And I'm sure you will be blessed to have one if not multiple. I don't expect you to back down about something you feel strongly about. It is never my intention to be unnecessarily mean. I do fold laundry and clean to a higher standard than is necessary. But that doesn't mean we are doomed. I'd like to think I'm very efficient in doing things. After all, we run a company pretty darn efficiently. So while you may do things fast and efficient, and I may take my time with certain things and are still efficient, it is mostly because I don't want to do things twice. I would rather find a long term solution to something that is a problem, fix it, and not have to worry about it for awhile. This is how I have always been, and my job has required this of me since I can remember. Again, not problems between us, just different ways of doing things.
I forget things too. The older I get I feel my memory getting worse. I know you love salt, and the only reason I mention anything about it to you is because I have "personal knowledge and experience" with people in my family who cannot eat salt anymore. My dad, my grandmother, and my Dad's cousin in Turkey all cannot eat salt anymore. I'm not saying that will happen to you, but if it does you may be very disappointed to hear a doctor tell you that you can't salt your food. I'm sure it would be devastating knowing how much you like it. The only reason I say ANYTHING to you about food or exercise or whatever is because I want the best for you. It is in my nature to want to look out for people that I love. I am the same way with my parents, my sisters, and well pretty much my family because I don't really say much to anyone else. Well maybe Jason, but everyone messes with him because he's so out of shape he can't keep up with the crew skiing/snowboarding.
I try not to take medications if I can help it. I do like to workout, play bball, go skiing, play golf, play tennis, etc. If you tell me I'm not putting you as a priority because I like to do these things, I get defensive and feel you're being controlling. In the same way that you feel I'm being controlling for saying something to you about eating right or working out. My solution to this, and I apparently didn't explain it very eloquently, was to do these things together sometimes so we can spend more time together and satisfy your feelings and mine. I can't make you do anything, it was a suggestion.
Regarding the door topic, we were there helping you move and I asked you a favor to please don't put things in the walkway and keep the door propped open so that it is easier for us. If you asked me to do you a simple favor similar to that, I wouldn't ignore it a little while later and do the opposite. I don't think you did it on purpose, and you may have forgotten, ok, but it did come across as selfish that you wouldn't want to make it easy for us to help you move out by ignoring my request. I don't think this is a big deal in the long run and it shouldn't be.
I've admitted many times I'm not perfect. I do make mistakes and I am at fault sometimes. I feel I am accountable.
I need you to not treat me as if I'm a parent sometimes. You are very good at talking back and throwing a few digs in. Maybe its your defense mechanism or you're used to it from your family history, but it comes across as really disrespectful. I know you're going to say, well you treat me like a child sometimes and talk down to me. And my response to that would be I don't ever mean to treat you as a child nor do I consider you less important than me or any other "lesser" you fill in the blank. If I say something that you interpret as if I'm speaking to you as a subordinate, ask yourself why I would say what I'm saying. I don't ever want to make you feel less than something, and I always have your best interest in my heart and mind.
So if a doctor told you to take "folic acid" during pregnancy because it is good for your unborn you wouldn't do it?
Same thing with me. If you're not trying to understand me, I will shut down too. And probably become silent. You don't want that either as I won't be happy and you won't be happy. Happy husband, happy life.
I will mention to you if you're smacking you food at times. I would want you to tell me if I am doing the same so I can stop.
I will mention to you if you're being a little loud at times. I would want you to tell me if I am being loud too.
I will make mistakes and break something or damage something too. This is human nature and it isn't the end of the world when something happens.
I will be wrong too. And I will embarrass you at times as well.
I need a sweet, kind, forgiving, trusting, thoughtful and loving person. I need you to think about whether you can be those things to me. If I don't feel I am getting those things I will shut down and the relationship will suffer. Similarly, I feel that my opinions and thoughts and feelings should be important you, at the same level as your own. Not less, not more.
You have to realize that not everyone is out to get you. And that not everyone has had a childhood that is exactly like yours. Being cold and disrespectful to someone is all about the other persons interpretation of what is cold and/or disrespectful. I don't intentionally try to disrespect you, or act cold to you. If you are having those feelings, it is important to say something and try to figure out why you are feeling I am doing that. For someone that I love, I wouldn't blow you off if you told me there was something I said that you took as being disrespectful. We may disagree on what is respectful and disrespectful, but we would avoid a confrontation and avoid "unleashing the beast". No one wants that.
Checking up on me periodically is a form of distrust. If you say this will never change, I have a problem with that. The reason I would get upset about this is not because there is something to hide. Its about the fact that I don't want to live my entire life with someone knowing they feel the need to check up on me until the day I die. If I'm the father of your child, there isn't anything I wouldn't do for you or our child. I don't believe in getting divorced, it is one of my biggest fears.
This is not the part that is up to me. You have your conditions/boundaries and I have mine. This is a choice we should make together with promises to each other to work on the shortcomings of our relationship. I'm not asking you to plan your own proposal. That's ridiculous. That isn't how it should go.
The things I want in this relationship are Love, respect, trust, forgiveness, being considerate, and letting the unimportant stuff go. Understand that we are a team. I'm not out to make you miserable. I need to feel that mutual respect that you have my back; in everything. And I will do the same.
You say time heals all wounds. Do you really feel that way? You know I will ALWAYS have a special place in my heart for you too. You're the only person I have ever fallen "in love" with. I know we both have things to think about. I have said I'd like to let bygones be bygones, start anew, begin a future together and take the next step in our relationship because I truly believe love conquers all. But I do question now is that what YOU want? It seems from this email that you are stating "conditions" for marriage, not any different than the things I was saying to you. While you do try and explain your personality and why you do things the way you do, there are points where you come across as dictating to me what I need to/should do or else. And if those things aren't accomplished, then you won't be happy, and I won't be happy, and we will fail. I understand each of us have our wants/wishes/boundaries, and we are both different people. But "laying down the law" as it comes across in some parts of your email is like already accepting defeat and setting things up for failure. I wish your view was more positive, but given our history I'm not sure if that's a pie in the sky wish. I never dreamed we would be in this situation. I'm sorry for all that I have done to bring us to where we are now, and I hope that we can work through these things and move onto happier times because we both deserve that. With love. K
JustDone posted 4/6/2013 18:23 PM
If anyone else has recommendations for my situation let me know.
My advice is not to do anything, but sit with it. Please don't contact him, meet with him, message him, listen to him. Let him be. It's the only way you are going to begin to heal. He will make you question every decision you have made if you do. No contact.
You are going to swirl for a while, it's ok.
S.W.I.R.L. is an acronym which stands for the five stages of abandonment: Shattering, Withdrawal, Internalizing, Rage, and Lifting introduced in JOURNEY FROM ABANDONMENT.
1: SHATTERING Your relationship is breaking apart. Your hopes and dreams are Shattered. You are devastated, bewildered. You Succumb to despair and panic. You feel hopeless and have Suicidal feelings. You feel Symbiotically attached to your lost love, mortally wounded, as if youll die without them. You are in Severe pain, Shock, Sorrow. Youve been Severed from your primary attachment. Youre cut off from your emotional life-line.
2: WITHDRAWAL painful Withdrawal from your lost love. The more time goes on, the more all of the needs your partner was meeting begin to impinge into your every Waking moment. You are in Writhing pain from being torn apart. You yearn, ache, and Wait for them to return. Love-withdrawal is just like Heroin withdrawal - each involves the bodys opiate system and the same physical symptoms of intense craving. During Withdrawal, you are feeling the Wrenching pain of love-loss and separation - the Wasting, Weight loss, Wakefulness, Wishful thinking, and Waiting for them to return. You crave a love-fix to put you out of the WITHDRAWAL symptoms.
3: INTERNALIZING you Internalize the rejection and cause Injury to your self esteem. This is the most critical stage of the cycle when your wound becomes susceptible to Infection and can create permanent scarring. You are Isolated, riddled with Insecurity, self- Indictment and self-doubt. You are preoccupied with If only regrets - If only you had been more attentive, more sensitive, less demanding, etc. You beat yourself up with regrets over the relationship and Idealize your abandoner at the expense of your own self Image.
4: RAGE the turning point in the grief process when you begin to fight back. You attempt to Reverse the Rejection by Refusing to accept all of the blame for the failed relationship, and feel surges of Rage against your abandoner. You Rail against the pain and isolation youve been in. Agitated depression and spurts of anger displaced on your friends and family are common during this turbulent time, as are Revenge and Retaliation fantasies toward your abandoner. Your Outer Child is spurred by abandonment rage and becomes very active and potentially desctuctive. New Outer Child patterns may set in.
5: LIFTING your anger helped to externalize your pain. Gradually, as your energy spurts outward, it Lifts you back into Life. You begin to Let go. Life distracts you and gradually Lifts you out the grief cycle. You feel the emergence of strength, wiser for the painful Lessons youve Learned. And if youre engaged in the process of recovery, you get ready to Love again.
A word of caution: When you Lift, it is important to take your feelings with you. Otherwise you Lose connection with yourself once again, creating an internal barrier to others.
You S.W.I.R.L. through the stages over and over within an hour, a day, a month, sometimes a period of years - cycles within cycles - until you emerge out the end of the funnel-shaped cloud, a changed person, better able to find love than before.
My other bit of advice is to read - a LOT. Read here, read relationship books, self-help articles, read Baggage Reclaim.
A few ones to get you started:
(I have more if you need them!)
Also, keep yourself busy. Find some new activities to fill your time. Concentrate on you now instead of him.
You can get through this.
StillGoing posted 4/6/2013 18:49 PM
lol, all his stated imperfections are thinly veiled brags.
Then he calls you fat.
Then he asks you if you think you can measure up.
Man, this dude must have a trillion dollars and a penis that can sing a Sammy Hagar and Louis Armstrong duet because Barney fucking Stinson would punch him in the mouth for being such an ass.
suspicious247 posted 4/6/2013 19:30 PM
@JustDone you had me in tears. Because you just put into words the way I've felt for a long time and couldn't articulate. With the exception of a few items, I've been feeling one or more of those stages at any given minute, week, month for the past 2+ years. Except not much on the "L" part. To say I have been on a roller coaster is an understatement. (just look at my past week). I've been feeling this way since we reconciled. I was never able to fully forgive and trust him.
And by the way that should read "if anyone has any BOOK recommendations". I dont plan to do anything with regards to contacting him whatsover. I've done this before, in Jan we didn't talk for 4 weeks. I was just looking for books that are empowering and I will read all your links. Thank you so much for the info.
@Stillgoing - you had me laughing. I thought the same thing about his imperfections and I didn't even realize he called me fat! He's never come out and said "you're fat". All the countless times he discussed health with me I asked if he was saying I was fat ( I mean I'm a woman) and he'd always so 'no'. But maybe he does think I'm fat. wow
circe posted 4/6/2013 19:35 PM
susp, I'm not going to read your latest round of emails because I know they represent the same abuse cycle he just put you through a few days back.
He dangles marriage in front of you like a carrot, you discover him in a lie and stand up to him and he whisks the marriage-carrot away and tries to cut your feet out from under you to show you your proper place in his mind - beneath him. When you show your vulnerability, he responds with bragging and insults to keep you in your place.
We cried apologized to each other for things said, done, hints left unsaid etc. and said i wouldn't wait for him , but if he changed his mind on a future with me to contact me.
Seriously, after all this you're still waiting for him to propose? Susp, he'll dangle marriage in front of you for ages, and even if you did get engaged, he'd punish every one of your normal quirks and reactions with "maybe I'm changing my mind" and "maybe we should call off the engagement..."
This cycle, these arguments, his lies and manipulation (he told you you can't even believe your own EYES at the gym! Clearly he wasn't there, or else he'd have seen you walk past him 3 times) this dark cloud you wake up with - will be your life.
After having been in a relationship with someone like him, I know the breakup is the very worst. As terrible as the relationship is, the breakup is more painful than you'd expect. I think I drove my friends half nuts when I was trying to break up with my abusive ex. It took far longer than I care to remember. I used to write "You cannot marry him. You will not marry him" in my journal because I was scared that after a particularly exhausting fight I would mistake the calm after the storm for actual peace or love and agree to marry him. In my rational mind I knew it was the worst thing I could do. But being in that kind of relationship warps your perspective. People like him work very hard to warp your perspective, to better keep you under their control. So climbing out of that hole is a psychological as well as emotional feat of strength. It takes a lot of perseverance. And in the "fight stage" of the abuse cycle, you don't have a lot of extra energy to do good things for yourself.
What is he doing to address his infidelity and dishonesty, by the way?
suspicious247 posted 4/6/2013 19:51 PM
Circe - I know. I thought about that after we got off the phone . Shouldn't have said it. Shouldn't have thought it. I understand how insane it sounds. That's about all I can say. I still have feelings for him, I cannot lie. I guess there will always be a part of me that wishes he is enlightened one day. it's "pie in the sky" to use his words.
As far as what he's done as far as the infidelity. Huh? Nothing. I asked for passwords and wouldn't provide. He explains it in many of the emails I have from him. (Even the last one I just posted) He doesn't want to live his life with someone checking up on him. Says it's not healthy. So i got the passwords myself.
Funnily enough I had them for years and finally admitted I had them this week. He immediately changed them when we got off the phone. Then a few hours later texts me the new passwords. One for Find my iphone and for his hotmail account. I am still shaking my head at why he provided that.
I asked for public declaration on facebook, which I got. but I have since deleted my facebook.
And I wanted to meet his family which I have now many times.
I guess the only thing he's done is "not" do anything wrong again. No calling or flirting with girls ,no representing that hes single when he's not....etc
and dishonesty? what dishonesty? hes not dishonest at all!! And will never ever admit that he is.
[This message edited by suspicious247 at 7:52 PM, April 6th (Saturday)]
JustDone posted 4/6/2013 20:06 PM
A few more things to read:
The Abusive and Semi-Abusive Relationship:
How NOT to Apologize when you have Seriously Fucked Up:
(Does this seem familiar to you? )
The Direction Of Happiness -
Leaving A Relationship:
15 Reasons to Run for Your Life:
A Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy":
Man v. Mouse: in sickness and in health, as long as we are healthy:
Why you don't have to have sex to cheat:
My Dearest Bananahead :
Keep going....
gonnabe2016 posted 4/6/2013 20:20 PM
Suspi. Many of us have mentioned abuse and the cycle of abuse. Have you done any reading about that at all? It's a quick google search away.
And your wannabe-WF is a manipulative, self-absorbed, whiny dick. Just sayin'.
@Circe--> your words were amazing.
[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 8:21 PM, April 6th (Saturday)]
suspicious247 posted 4/6/2013 22:06 PM
Yes I have done nothing but read intensively since last night. Things are really starting to sink in. He's sick. I can't fix him. There is no solution and that is a f ing shame. I'm continuing to read. Feeling so stupid
Circe I second that, I commented to my mom that your earlier post moved me to tears
nomistakeaboutit posted 4/6/2013 22:25 PM
You know, Suspicious, I do think you need a trip away. Away from him.
Listen, you're making this much more didficult than it needs to be. You obviously don't see it, but it's very plain to see. You two are not well suited for each other. And, my God, you don't see this either, but your boyfriend is an asshole. I can barely stand to read what he writes to you. I read a few lines and just say, "Jesus, this guy is so full of shit."
He would be a terrible husband, unless he found some way to marry himself. He would be an even worse father, because being a good father requires giving yourself (your time) to your children, not making them do what you like to do, so they can be lucky enough to get some of your time and attention.
Your boyfriend may be rich, but he is also poor in so many ways.
I hope the best for you. Winning him, is only losing your very soul.
gonnabe2016 posted 4/6/2013 23:12 PM
Suspi. You're not stupid. You were manipulated. There's a difference.
Re-read the emails that you posted earlier. Only this time, think of the game 'hot potato'. THAT is what he did. He didn't set the potato that you threw down, cut it open and dig into it.....he threw it right back at you.
He doesn't listen. I'll bet that if you really think about it, you'll realize that every conversation that you've had with the guy is an unproductive one. Heck if you read his email response to you on its own, it doesn't even seem that it's *in response* to anything at all.
He sucks.
solus sto posted 4/6/2013 23:21 PM
The more you engage, the more he reels you back. You've gone from, "I don't want to marry you. Don't contact me" to, basically, "Please love me. Please love me!"
You're caught up in a toxic cycle--- one that you are making the dangerous mistake of confusing with passion and love when, in fact it all about controlling you. A site I found helpful is outofthenfog.net--it's for people who love someone with personality disorder.
The book most helpful to me was The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson; I believe she's the originator of the SWIRL theory.
[This message edited by solus sto at 11:23 PM, April 6th (Saturday)]
veritas posted 4/6/2013 23:28 PM
You offered up every insecurity you ever had to him, and he offered up restrained responses to them.
If his responses were genuine, they would be unrestrained. They weren't. You gave him emotion, and he gave you "logic." You have no defense for your feelings, whereas he can come up with infinite ways that he is being logical.
That's the endgame of a lot of WS behavior. When confronted with being in a relationship with someone who isn't as sick as them or come up with reasons why their behavior is wrong, they hit at the lowest level. The reptilian brain operates on that level; communication and therapy don't. That's why revenge affairs are equally understandable and repugnant to me.
This guy is hitting you where he knows it will hurt most, and trying to make it seem like he's helping you, or collaborating. He's not.
[This message edited by veritas at 11:42 PM, April 6th (Saturday)]
Bobbi_sue posted 4/7/2013 04:13 AM
He's sick. I can't fix him.
I disagree about the sick part. Not all selfish, self-obessessed perfectionist, arrogant assholes are sick. When it comes to marrying a man like him, I believe it would be a huge mistake.
JanaGreen posted 4/7/2013 08:00 AM
I don't mean this as a 2x4, but please stop making yourself vulnerable to this man. I had to skim your email because I felt sick that you confessed your "faults" to him. That is nothing but ammo to him. It gives him more to hurt and control you with!
I suggest that you work on respecting yourself. Once you do, you will realize you deserve a man who feels lucky to have you, not one who makes you feel like you have to aplogologize for yourself.
SouthernGal posted 4/7/2013 08:30 AM
You wrote:
We left it that he is still unsure of marriage (our fighting being his big holdup - which makes a hell of a lot more logical sense then my attitude towards health. It ended amicably and mutually. We cried apologized to each other for things said, done, hints left unsaid etc. and said i wouldn't wait for him , but if he changed his mind on a future with me to contact me.
I'll say it again. His lack of a proposal/intent to marry you isn't because you're fat, you're not committed to health, or because y'all argue.
He hasn't proposed because he doesn't want to marry you.
His interest is in controlling you and seeing how long he can play this game with you. How many times can he keep reeling you back in? How many times more until you're the totally broken person he needs to be in control of?
Right now you're still fighting him and his control. Thus he has no interest in marrying you.
Make no mistake about this. He wants you broken. Think of marriage to him as a cult. He wants to completely break you and then retrain you the way he wants you to be. No independent thought, no fight left in you ... no resistance to him doing whatever the fuck he wants.
Then and only then will he even seriously consider marrying you.
He hasn't proposed because he doesn't want to marry you.
This isn't rocket science here. If he was really that into you and wanted to marry you, he'd have made some move in that direction by now.
You need to stop talking to this guy. You need to stop letting him twist your words around. You need to stop letting him abuse you. Stop letting him try to break you.
He isn't going to change. You cannot change him. You cannot fix him. And unless you're willing to surrender everything that make you, you ... you cannot be what he wants you to be.
suspicious247 posted 4/7/2013 09:15 AM
He doesn't listen. I'll bet that if you really think about it, you'll realize that every conversation that you've had with the guy is an unproductive one. Heck if you read his email response to you on its own, it doesn't even seem that it's *in response* to anything at all.
THIS!! You hit the nail on the head (not to say all the other posts didn't) but I have NEVER and I mean NEVER felt our conversations were productive and we've talked for thousands of hours. 5 hours was our longest but it wasn't unusual for us to talk 1-2 hours on the phone. Going in circles. The guy has been dirving me crazy for a long time. And he couldn't even respond to my faults on the phone he had to go home and have my email in front of him and respond by email. I even told him I dont want an email, and asked why he cant just speak from the heart. And he says I wrote him an email, so he needs to write an email back. huh ok. whatever
And I GET that it is really over. And he is an asshole and treats me like shit. I don't want a future with him anymore. I knew he had these issues before, and I was willing to live with them because I loved him and wanted someone to love me. Its dawning on me that I need to cut him off completely. Forever.
I almost want to let him know so he doesn't hold out hope or try to act like a 'good' boy because there's a chance of reconciling with me. He mentioned on our last convo he was looking at rings an proposal locations and I really don't want him to surprise me with anything. Is sending him a text or email saying there's no hope of us getting back together and I'm moving on a bad move?
I just don't want him showing up at my house with a ring and tears in his eyes. That sounds like my worst nightmare at this point in time.
I have a feeling I have not heard the last from him and he will make this break Impossible. This is a long road ahead. Impossible to break free and won't take no for an answer. (I know from experience - have tried to leave many many times)
suspicious247 posted 4/7/2013 09:18 AM
He has all my furniture and clothes in his warehouse. And my rommate's mattress. Now we dont need these things until October but it is best to get them now or wait until then?
SouthernGal posted 4/7/2013 09:26 AM
I almost want to let him know so he doesn't hold out hope or try to act like a 'good' boy because there's a chance of reconciling with me. He mentioned on our last convo he was looking at rings an proposal locations and I really don't want him to surprise me with anything. Is sending him a text or email saying there's no hope of us getting back together and I'm moving on a bad move?
I just don't want him showing up at my house with a ring and tears in his eyes. That sounds like my worst nightmare at this point in time.
I have a feeling I have not heard the last from him and he will make this break Impossible. This is a long road ahead. Impossible to break free and won't take no for an answer. (I know from experience - have tried to leave many many times)
What follows is going to be a 2x4.
Seriously? After 8 pages and nearly 160 message of the same advice (NO CONTACT) you're asking if you should contact him to make sure he knows it is over?
Really? Are you serious?
Look you don't strike me as a stupid woman, so stop acting like one.
Has contacting him to clarify things, or reassert yourself ever worked? Ever? No. It hasn't.
Because HE DOESN'T LISTEN TO YOU. He hears what he wants to hear and he does what he wants to do ... because up until now that has worked. You have shown him that that's the acceptable way to treat you.
DO NOT CONTACT HIM. Period.
This isn't rocket science.
You think you've not heard the last of him?
Then take the advice you've been given and change your damn phone number. So it is hard to change it? So what? If you really don't want him to contact you and you really don't want him to show up crying and begging you to marry him (which I think is what you do actually want to see happen) ... then make it clear that it is over by making it harder to contact you.
My god. You've been given the same advice page after page after page ... take it already.
Edited to add:
The only contact you should have with this guy is to get your stuff - and you should do that immediately. Don't wait until later as that only opens the door for more contact.
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