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MARTINSBURG - The United States Air Force is considering converting three Air National Guard Units - including the 167th Airlift Wing - from C-5 to C-17 aircraft, a move that could cost 216 local jobs, if the proposed change gets Congressional approval, according to a draft report now available locally.
Public comments will be accepted until Jan. 26, 2011, on the report, "Environmental Assessment for Conversion to the C-17 Aircraft," which is available at the Martinsburg-Berkeley County Public Library.
In addition to Martinsburg, units in New York and Tennessee are being targeted because there is currently an "excess of strategic capacity" with the Air Force's existing fleet of C-5 and C-17 transport aircraft.
"The National Guard Bureau is preparing separate documentation for each of these proposed conversions. Based on many environmental and operational factors, the USAF Strategic Basing Executive Steering Committee will select one or more of these units for conversion to the C-17 aircraft," the report reads.
"Because of the added financial and manpower burden of maintaining the excess capacity, the USAF plans to begin retiring 22 of its oldest C-5As in Fiscal Year 2011, should Congress approve this proposal," it continues.
Part of the report includes a "finding of no significant impact" by United States Air Force Col. Peter Tunison.
"Based on my review of the facts and analysis in this environmental assessment, I conclude the proposed action will not have a significant impact on the quality of the human or natural environment or generate significant controversy either by itself or considering cumulative impacts," reads Tunison' statement. Tunison is listed on the document's signatory page as executive secretary for the Environmental, Safety and Occupational Health Council.
Maj. Melissa Shade, 167th Airlift Wing spokesperson, could not be reached for comment Wednesday.
Converting to the C-17 would allow the 167th to still do its job by transporting large cargo loads to support federal troops abroad, however the C-17 Globemaster III aircraft has significant advantages, according to the report.
That's because it is a large transport aircraft, with more tactical capabilities than the C-5A, the report states.
"The C-5A has limited strategic function, while the C-17 can take off and land on runways as short as 3,500 feet and only 90 feet wide," it reads.
Specifically, the National Guard Bureau is proposing the transfer of eight C-17 aircraft and associated equipment to the 167th, while retiring 11 C-5A aircraft.
"The 167th Air Wing would utilize the assault landing zone at Maxfield Field, Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst in central New Jersey. They would also use eight military training routes located in portions of Pennsylvania, West Virginia, Virginia, Maryland, North Carolina and South Carolina," the report reads.
However, the proposed aircraft conversion and related activities could mean a loss of 33 part-time positions (traditional guardsmen) as well as 183 full-time (military/active guard reserve and civilian) positions, the report states.
The 167th currently operates 11 C-5A Galaxy aircraft in support of its airlift mission. It has 498 full-time personnel and 719 part-time, totaling 1,208 authorized personnel. according to the report.
In addition, the National Guard Bureau also "plans to implement several construction projects... as well as correct some existing facility deficiencies," the report reads.
"None of these construction projects are directly related to the aircraft conversion, but will support daily operations at the installation, and will occur irrespective of the aircraft conversion," it continues.
Proposed construction includes a new headquarters complex, new security forces facility, the consolidation of civil engineering shops, the renovation of hangar 119 as an alternative to constructing a new civil engineering complex and repairing two existing stormwater ponds.
A copy of the draft environmental assessment and finding of no significant impact is available for review at the library, 101 W. King St., Martinsburg.
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- £Competitive
- Posted
- 03 Jan 2013
- Closes
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- Business Type
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- Specialism
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- Hours
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Head of Brand
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Part-time, 25 hours per week
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At Cancer Research UK, we are a collective force, leading pioneering life-saving research in the relentless fight against all cancer. Each day, creating more tomorrows. We believe in our vision: to bring forward the day when all cancers are cured. It's big and audacious, but we have a plan of attack and day by day, we are breaking down cancer. This is what gets us up in the morning and unites us.
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Penguins Report: Vegas Baby, Vegas
Tuesday, 06.21.2011 / 10:00 AM ET / Penguins Report
By Sam Kasan
- Coach Bylsma on Jaromir Jagr, Jack Adams trophy and head-shots rule (4:59 PM).
- The nominees for Jack Adams Award are... (5:17 PM).
- Pics from around the Palms in Las Vegas (11:50 AM).
- The reason the Palms is my new favorite hotel of all-time (10:01 AM).
- Bylsma Family Values (5:22 PM).
- Yeo, Yeo, Mike in the House (5:41 PM).
- Who let the dogs out? It wasn't me, I promise (6:00 PM).
- "Bright light city gonna set my soul, gonna set my soul on fire..." (7:25 AM).
Day 1 of the NHL Awards is in the books. It's been a long day for the Pens staff. But finally we can wrap for the day. Next up is to try and find something to do in this boring city called The Vegas.
Let's hope I don't wake up tomorrow wearing a wedding ring, missing a tooth, find a tiger in the bathroom and with Dan Bylsma missing. That could make for another really long day.
"I'm gonna be up five hundy by midnight. They're going to give daddy the Rainman Suite." It's time to let the dogs out....
Former Penguins assistant coach Mike Yeo was recently named the head coach of the Minnesota Wild. I can't tell you how happy I am for Mike. He was one of the best people I've ever met and I am so excited for him to get a head coaching opportunity, something he has wanted to do for many years.
Yeo was in Pittsburgh earlier today to take part in a Penguins hockey school camp. Katie O from PensTV spoke with the new general for the Wild.
Good luck Mike! We'll see you in the regular season.
After Bylsma's addressed the media (see his comments at 4:59 PM), he took part in a photo shoot. When he was done, Bylsma being the great family man that he is, invited his wife Mary Beth and son Bryan to join him for a photo op.
The Bylsmas
Doting father and son (left); for some fun, Bryan gave his father the "blue steel" (right)
The three nominees for NHL coach of the year: Bylsma, Alain Vigneault (Vancouver) and Barry Trotz (Nashville). I'll bet they're discussing global economics and the IMF in this picture (or maybe ice hockey).
Coach Dan Bylsma on the head-shot rule, the Jack Adams trophy and Jaromir Jagr...
On comparing being in Las Vegas this year as opposed to his first visit in 2009:
President Obama did not call me today (in congratulations for winning the Stanley Cup). I don't think he's going to call me tomorrow. The Stanley Cup is by far stands by itself as a crowning achievement for a coach, player or organization. Two years ago will always be special and better in that regard. But to be here for the Jack Adams nominee is a pretty special thing. It signifies something about our organization. We've always been seen as a group that has Sidney Crosby and Evgeni Malkin, but this success is about our team, organization and group. That's pretty special in that regard.
On expanding the head shots rule:
As we've stated before, as an organization, as a team we don't want those hits in the game. Clarification is an important part of that. I also think real, clear follow through on that rule is important. We've had hooking and holding in the rule book for a long time, but it wasn't until we brought it attention that it changed the game to a faster and cleaner game. I think the same about his situation. We need to have clear rules, but we also need to make sure we follow through on those as we go forward so that the players know that is not acceptable in our game.
On if Vegas could host an NHL franchise:
I think it'd be tough to keep your focus here if you're the home team. Although you might have a home-court advantage if you did have games here. I see it that way. I've been here for exhibition games as a King and when we passed the MGM, I remember playing there in a preseason game against Colorado. I've played here in the IHL. I've played many games here and have come here on many occasions to play hockey. I don't see any reason why it couldn't be that way.
On the honor of winning the coach of the year:
It's not something you set out for at the beginning of the year or your career. But when you get in a situation with the opportunity and you have been nominated, you realize how special and unique it is to be nominated. If I was lucky enough to win the award, a lot of great coaches and years dating back to Fred Shero, the first recipient of the award. It would be special. Now that I'm here, it's something I'd like to get. It's an indication of our organization from the top on down to the players with what we were able to do this year.
On added pressure from Shero to win the award:
I think Ray is lobbying the media in Pittsburgh not to vote for me because he wants it to be remembered as Fred's trophy alone.
On his winning speech:
It's tough to fit enough thank yous in 45 seconds, so you better plan it out. It's tough to shut me up so 45 seconds is a short amount of time.
On adding Jaromir Jagr:
Hypothetically, you're talking about a guy in his last year in the National Hockey League had 75 points. That's leading our team last year. That's an intriguing thing to think about. He's a power-play guy. What you saw him do in the World Championship against NHL-caliber players was nothing short of outstanding on a bigger ice surface. Those are intriguing things to think about hypothetically. It's tough not to think about adding 75 points to your roster if it's something you're capable of doing.
On if he'll lobby Shero to add Jagr:
We were having the coaches meetings and there was an article in the Russian paper about some interest on Jagr's part in talking to the Penguins. That was about a month ago. We found that to be amusing since that wasn't true. But it was intriguing to see that it was out there that the had said there was interest there.
On if he's spoken to Jagr:
I have not spoken to Jaromir.
On if the organization has spoken to Jagr:
Not at this time, no.
"Hello. How about that ride in? I guess that's why they call it sin city."
Dan Bylsma's visage dons a column inside the Palms Hotel.
Hotel view from the highway (left);
Pearl Concert Theater, host of Jay Mohr and the NHL Awards
Jack Adams trophy (right). Will Dan Bylsma's name be etched on the piece of hardware? Tune in tomorrow for the thrilling conlusion featuring a plot twist you never saw coming (that's called selling the drama).
No real purpose for the pic on the right. I just thought PingPangPong is a funny name for a restaurant.
Checked in at the Palms. The first two songs played in the lobby: Weezer "Beverly Hills" and Nirvana "Frances Farmer Will Have Her Revenge on Seattle."
The Palms is officially the best hotel EVER.
Some quick picks from the flight for your viewing pleasure...
Left - Franco Harris and George Washington. What's more impressive: the Immaculate Reception or defeating the British Empire? I'll leave that question for historians to decide. Right - Overcrowded Pittsburgh International Airport in the early morning hours
Last thing you ever want to see when you're running late for a flight (right)
Row 23, Seat C Representing
View from my window
Vegas baby, Vegas.
Welcome to the greatest place on Earth. I'm not talking about Disney World (or Land or whatever). I'm talking about Las Vegas, Nevada. I'm talking about the belly of the beast. The city so decedent it makes Dionysius blush.
The 2011 NHL Awards are upon us, being held Wednesday night at 7 p.m. (EST) from the Pearl Concert Theater inside the Palms Casino Resort. Penguins head coach Dan Bylsma is nominated for the Jack Adams Award, given to coach of the year.
Bylsma is hoping to become the first Pens coach to win the prestigious award. The only other Penguins head coach to be nominated for the hardware was Michel Therrien in 2007. Three other Pittsburgh coaches finished in the top five in voting (Kevin Constantine – 1998, 1999; Ed Johnston – 1995; Bob Johnson – 1991).
Thus, myself and a few other Pens staff members have descended upon the most wonderful and wholesome city in the United States to bring you all the coverage of the event.
Today's itinerary includes:
- 4:30 a.m. – wakeup call
- 5:30 a.m. – ride to the airport
- 7:30 a.m. – flight to Vegas
- 7:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. – enjoy a wonderful 5-hour flight
- 12:30 p.m. – arrive in Vegas
- 6 p.m. – media availability with Bylsma and award finalists
- 8 p.m. – brush my teeth, say my prayers and go to sleep
I momentarily defeated insomnia and fell asleep at 4 a.m. As luck would have it, slept through my 4:30 a.m. alarm. I awoke to a call from my ride, who was two blocks from my place.
Frantically I packed my belongings in 10 minutes (a new personal record). I stood in zombie-like trance through baggage check-in and airport security. I couldn't even find the energy to be annoyed by the kids screaming and doing the "Dougie" behind me in line. Needless to say, I didn't ask for dance instructions.
Anyways, got a flight to catch for Las Vegas (or the English translation, The Vegas).


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The barracks partly uses the natural defences of the landscape for fortification, as well as an outer wall and high gaurdtowers at each corner.
Today the barracks are a hive of activity. Waisur Iarel, the runner-up of the Mpya Stedor archery tournament, is rolling out his "Evergold archery system" bows to the Peregrinian archers. This is thier first look at the new bows and they can't wait to get to try them out!
Arianna Thunderbow*, a former Nocturnian who sought refuge in Kaliphlin after the archery tournament, was encouraged by Waisur to settle in Peregrinus and join their forces. On her arrival she met and fell deeply in love with Phrixelle, the centaur warrioress who defeated Yavonnel in the Drow gladiator games - the two are now inseperable.
Arianna has her reservations about the new bows, not wanting to give up her beloved longbow. But it's hard to argue with the superior range and accuracy of the Evergold system!
(*Credit for the creation of Arianna Thunderbow goes to the incomperable Angeli!)
To combat the threat of earth elementals, Lord Sansael has ordered the formation of new sapper units. These brave men will use the tunnel networks of the Rakath to seek out forming elementals and destroy them before they have a chance to grow too large and destructive. They are hoping that Professor Mia can come up with a targeting system that can tell them where the greatest concentrations of elemental magic might be - this would make thier job a lot easier!
Spot the new recruit!
Here is only one of the many buildings within the barracks complex. On the ground floor are sleeping quarters that are accessed through the tower gaurdroom. The smaller building is an alternitive access route to the top floor - this room also doubles as a small storage space.
Ground floor of the tower gaurdroom.
The top floor contains a small lecture theatre and hallway where one can look over the courtyard. There is also a balcony above the small storeroom and stairway on the left.
A window into the lecture theatre. Here Professor Mia is holding forth on her recent research into "Earth elementals and methods of defence against them."
The gaurdtower has multiple levels within it for observation - a small walkway at the level of the gold windows, a platform just below the roof and then the rooftop itself.
Hope you enjoyed my build, thanks for looking! C&c welcome as always.
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It's cloudy and gray outside this morning and I think there's a chance of rain (which we desperately need). I usually crave sunshine but sometimes it's nice to have a rainy day to relax. Days like that make me want to curl up and read a book.
QOTD: Have you read any good books lately? Any you'd recommend?
AOTD: I finished up the Southern Vampire (Sookie Stackhouse) series recently. It was a good series and I enjoyed the books.
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CHRISTMAS STAR, by Catherine Lanigan. Banbury Publishing.
317 pp. $16.95.
Reviewed by BARBARA BECKWITH, book review editor of this
publication. She was raised in the Chicago area and graduated
from Regina Dominican High School in Wilmette. If the heroine
in this book were real, she'd probably have gone there, too,
the same years.
ONCE EVERY 30 YEARS or so, Venus aligns with
the moon to form a celestial event that may be what the magi
saw in the sky that first Christmas. Two lovers see this celestial
phenomenon on Christmas Eve and consider it a blessing on
their relationship.
This romance novel by Catherine Lanigan, author
of Romancing the Stone and The Jewel of the Nile,
starts in 1965 with young lovers attending Christmas Eve Mass
at Holy Name Cathedral in Chicago, and fornicating immediately
Susie and Tommy incur her parents' disapproval just by dating
because he's a steelworker's son from Calumet City on scholarship
at Northwestern University and she's a rich high school senior
from Kenilworth. She gets pregnant; he flunks out and enlists
in the Marines. When he gets leave from boot camp, they marry
in a quickie civil ceremony in San Francisco. After Susie
returns to Chicago, she's thrown out of her parents' house
for bringing scandal on them. Tommy's sent to Vietnam by summer
1966, gets involved in covert ops and ends up listed as MIA.
And here's where the story really begins: how
the families pull together, how Susie and Tommy survive, how
Tommy struggles to recover from amnesia and how Susie's faith
in his eventual return never falters.
It's an unbelievably corny story, but with the
same sentimental appeal as An Affair to Remember and
Sleepless in Seattle. Unlike those, it's a 30-year
romp through history, in a Catholic milieu which includes
a kindly priest from a Catholic high school in Syracuse, who
informs Tommy he's not the man whose identification papers
he carried as part of his covert-operations work.
Susie even lights vigil candles that are blue, "the color
of Mary's robes"—though Tommy points out that traditional
artists could have been wrong about the color. "Silly," she
answers him. "Don't you think somewhere along the line even
one of those artists was inspired to tell the truth the way
it really was?"
The patriotism that made Tommy enlist is similarly
innocent—he gets goosebumps when he hears "America the Beautiful."
That kind of charming innocence pervades this
book. It somehow managed to keep a curmudgeon like me up until
3 a.m. because I just had to know how the story came out.
But I think The Christmas Star needed a
better editor because it suffers from sloppy punctuation and
spelling, inconsistent indentation on paragraphs, and major
factual, continuity and believability problems.
This novel presumes Northwestern was on the semester
system, but in 1965 it used quarters—and still does. This
means exams would have been before Christmas, not in January.
How could a student go from the top of his class
to four D's and one F in one grading period? Students in danger
of losing scholarships are usually given a warning and one
grading period to improve their performance.
In 1965, the bus system in Chicago (CTA) demanded
transfers in the Loop for those going from the South Side
to the North, and didn't go into the suburb of Evanston, the
home of Northwestern.
How could Susie's business of designing children's
clothing take off so quickly? How could both Tommy and Susie
sail through college classes and, for him, law school? How
could he, too, be so successful in his career?
Most of all, given the fact that armed services'
personnel are fingerprinted, why wasn't his true identity
discovered when this admitted amnesiac left the Marines or
applied for the New York Bar, which also requires fingerprints?
And the music of the '60s did not have a "Mercy
Beat," but a "Mersey beat," a shorthand that uses the river
in Liverpool to sum up the Beatles and the rest of the British
Despite these aggravations, I found The Christmas
Star a fun read and a reaffirmation of the power of love
and faith. The book was awarded Book of the Year Gold Winner
for Romance Fiction at the 2003 Book Expo. I predict it too,
like others by this author, will end up as a movie.
You can order THE CHRISTMAS STAR from
St. Francis Bookshop.
LOVE: The Mary Jo Copeland Story, by Michelle Lynne Peterson.
Quixote Publications. 249 pp. $22.95.
Reviewed by EMILY McCORMACK, poet, author
and adult education teacher, who lives in Willowbrook, Illinois.
MARY JO COPELAND is a household name in Minnesota,
and her fame is spreading rapidly throughout America. She
has appeared on prime-time television with Tom Brokaw and
Peter Jennings, among others, and has received dozens of well-deserved
and prestigious awards. Jim Ramstad, U.S. congressman from
Minnesota, calls Copeland "America's Mother Teresa." Indeed,
in their love of the poor, Mother Teresa and Mary Jo Copeland
are soul sisters.
Michelle Peterson's biography of Mary Jo Copeland is uplifting
and eminently readable. It is made to order for a wonderful
movie, especially now, when America is sorely in need of
an inspiring true story.
Life was never easy for Mary Jo. Her unusually
dysfunctional family caused her much pain as she grew up.
Her grandparents reared her during the first part of her life,
"shielding" her from outside influences such as childhood
friends. As a result, she was lonely and felt unloved. Later,
when she and Dick Copeland married, his parents never accepted
Dick and Mary Jo Copeland had a large family,
12 children in all. Added to the burden of this tremendous
responsibility were serious illnesses, continual money problems
and, at one time, even bankruptcy. Later, almost like a page
from the Book of Job, Mary Jo suffered a severe, deep depression
resulting in a serious addiction to painkillers. Biographer
Peterson does not whitewash any of the story.
Mary Jo's greatest asset was the tremendous love
and ministrations of her husband, Dick, who guided her back
to health.
As the years progressed and her family grew to
adulthood, Mary Jo gained strength. More and more she became
aware of the sufferings of the poor, the downtrodden, the
dispossessed. Tapping into her own personal experience of
what it meant to be unwanted and unloved, Mary Jo felt a special
affinity toward those in need.
Mary Jo visited many homeless shelters and volunteered
on a part-time basis. She became impatient with the entrenched
bureaucracy she encountered. So Mary Jo started her own shelter.
Her love for the poor was infectious; "losers"
especially were drawn to her. She attracted volunteers who
were impressed by all that she was accomplishing and by the
way she welcomed each and every comer.
More and more, Mary Jo was realizing the enormity
of the needs of the poor. Their problems were awesome: drug
addiction, poor health, homelessness, physical abuse, despair.
But Mary Jo persevered. People began contributing to her
organization, which she named Sharing and Caring Hands. Philanthropists
were intrigued and fascinated by this woman, who actually
washed the feet of those who came to her in need.
Not all was sunshine and love, however. When Mary
Jo planned to expand her home for the poor, she met strong
"not in my backyard" resistance. She had to buck zoning laws,
politicians and naysayers. But she continues to be an active
friend to those in need. (Mary Jo and her organization were
featured in St. Anthony Messenger in December 1989.)
Michelle Lynne Peterson, in a stroke of genius,
titled this biography Great Love.
You can order GREAT LOVE: The Mary Jo Copeland Story from
St. Francis Bookshop.
CUSTOMS: A Fresh Look at Traditional Practices, by Regis
J. Flaherty. Servant Publications. 189 pp. $10.99.
Reviewed by WAYNE A. HOLST, a writer
who has taught religion and culture at the University of Calgary
in Alberta, Canada.
REGIS FLAHERTY, author of this comprehensive
survey of Catholic customs and practices, sets out to help
readers cultivate a deeper understanding of the Church's spiritual
At least three audiences would benefit from reading
this book. The first would be veteran Catholics who have long
been part of the Church but consider themselves unfamiliar
with certain classic practices or are awkward in explaining
them. Catholic Customs provides understandable interpretations
to such matters as the value of praying the rosary or the
purpose of purgatory.
A second group that should appreciate this book
might be called "the new faithful." Some modern studies indicate
that younger people have a growing interest in orthodox Christianity.
The author is unapologetically a traditional Catholic. He
suspects that many older Catholics like himself have failed
to communicate to the young a commitment to the essentials
of their religion.
Non-Catholics are the third constituency that
could find this book helpful. While the author concentrates
on Catholic themes, he is usually quite careful to suggest
why his beliefs and practices may differ from those of Orthodox
or Protestant Christians. Effective interchurch dialogue happens
only when those participating are aware of what separates
as well as what unites them.
There are four parts to the book. The first deals
with living the spiritual life through faithful engagement
with the Church's seven sacraments.
The second accompanies the reader on a journey
through the seasons of the liturgical year.
The third part distinguishes between sacraments
and sacramentals. The former were instituted by Christ, the
latter by the Church. The author provides informed opinion
on a range of topics such as why families could benefit from
the devotional use of holy water in their homes, or the difference
between an icon and a statue, or about how experiencing the
Way of the Cross can enrich one's faith journey.
A concluding chapter deals with prayer in its
many manifestations. Again, explanations are provided on issues
like the meaning of indulgences, the significance of the saints
and why it is still important to have a guardian angel.
Those seeking eternal verities will find them
here. Those longing for change in some of the ways the Church
understands and supports the Christian life might be helped
to see that adaptations can occur in form, but not in substance.
The author's interpretations will satisfy some but not all
readers, since his tend to be the classic explanations.
In times such as ours, it is important that Christians
make the effort to understand their faith and its core values.
Flaherty believes that many long-standing Catholic customs
and practices have survived because Christ established or
inspired them. Religious fads come and go. The Tradition of
the Church, on the other hand, has staying power.
You can order CATHOLIC CUSTOMS: A Fresh Look at Traditional
Practices from St.
Francis Bookshop.
BEARCUB, written and illustrated by Strawberrie Donnelly.
McGraw-Hill Children's Publishing. 20 pp. $13.95.
PRUDENCE, by Peter Harris. Illustrated by Deborah Allwright.
McGraw-Hill Children's Publishing. 24 pp. $15.95.
JAM, written and illustrated by Jo Brown. McGraw-Hill
Children's Publishing. 24 pp. $15.95.
FIDGETY FEET, By Pat Posner. Illustrated by Philip Norman.
McGraw-Hill Children's Publishing. 24 pp. $15.95.
DAY AT CAMP, written and illustrated by Mercer Mayer.
McGraw-Hill Children's Publishing. 24 pp. $3.95.
Reviewed by SUSAN HINES-BRIGGER, an assistant
editor of this publication, and her daughter, Madison.
ONE OF MADISON'S and my favorite times together
is reading at bedtime. Whenever we come across some new books
to add to our rotation, it's always exciting.
So when we were given these five books to review,
we jumped at the chance—and weren't disappointed. All of the
books are published by McGraw-Hill Children's Publishing,
and judging from the range of subjects and presentation, they
certainly know what they're doing.
The thing that most impressed Madison about
the books was the artwork. At four, she's devised her own
way of reading by simply explaining what she sees in the pictures.
These books, with their wonderful illustrations, provided
her ample opportunity to do just that.
One added bonus for both Mom and Madison was the
additional reading activities at the end of Mercer Mayer's
A Day at Camp. The book is one of the Level Two books
(Grades K-1) of the First Readers series.
This mom also liked the fact that the books provided
stories and humor that she could also enjoy. The only downfall
I have found, so far, is that my daughter now dances around
the house proclaiming herself Princess Fidgety Feet. Even
that, however, is a good sign that these books have made an
I would highly recommend these books for reading
to your children or grandchildren, and look forward to future
offerings from these authors and this publisher.
You can order HUSHABYE BEARCUB, PERFECT PRUDENCE, PIRATE
JAM, PRINCESS FIDGETY FEET and A DAY AT CAMP from
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Although it's hard to find the time for books at Christmastime,
reading can focus us on what we're really celebrating..
Waiting in Joyful Hope 2003-2004 Year C, by Mark G.
Boyer (Liturgical Press, 107 pp., $2), comes from one of
my favorite authors, a priest of the Diocese of Springfield-Cape
Girardeau, Missouri. We always "wait in joyful hope," as
the priest says after the Our Father at Mass—but never more
so than at Advent and Christmas.
CHRISTMASTIDE: Prayers for Advent Through Epiphany
from The Divine Hours, compiled and with a preface by
Phyllis Tickle (Image/Doubleday, 239 pp., $9.95, U.S./$14.95,
Canada), renders the Church's time-honored prayer for this
season in readable form.
A MEDIEVAL CHRISTMAS (Ignatius Press, 28
pp., $16.95) pairs the words of the Christmas story in the
Revised Standard Version with glorious miniatures—intricate
in scale, radiant in gold and colors—from the Book of Hours
found in the British Library.
CHRISTMAS PAST: A Novel, by
Robert Vaughn (Thomas Nelson
Publishers, 144 pp., $14.99), is the sweet story of a couple on the brink of
divorce who decide to "Celebrate Christmas Past" with their two children in the
Great Smokey Mountains with a group of 19th-century reenactors. The power of
love reaches across time.
Books can be obtained through St.
Francis Bookshop on the Web or at 1618 Vine
Street, Cincinnati, OH 45202-6493, phone 1-800-241-6392. All orders
must be prepaid. Add $4 for postage and handling. Ohio residents
should also add 7.0 percent for sales tax. The Bookshop offers
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Kelly DeMaegd, Shortest Day Longest Night
Kelly DeMaegd
Unlike people of ancient times
we are not afraid when winter solstice
descends. We do not fear starvation
or slaughter herds in preparation
for famine months to come.
No, we continue on as always,
train for marathons, drink wine in the evenings,
make love to our spouses. And some of us,
die in our sleep at fifty-one.
Unlike people of ancient times
we are not afraid when the earth tilts
farther from the sun. We do not cover
doorposts with butter, purify women
with ritual baths, perform the spiral dance
to mark the sun's victory over darkness.
No, we plan memorial services,
share food, music, anecdotes.
And some of us find sorrow too hard to bear.
We mourn alone while others do holiday
shopping, and when afternoon slips into evening
we drive to the same barn where we held
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Author's Comment: I wrote this poem after learning of a neighbor's sudden death and the subsequent suicide of his brother. These events occurred during the winter months compelling me to explore the cultural symbolism of the winter solstice as well as how the descent into darkness can result in fear and despair.
Bio: Kelly DeMaegd is a newly retired corporate executive currently living in Sherrills Ford, North Carolina with her husband. Her interests now are focused on gardening, mixed media collage and writing poetry. "Longest Night" is her first published poem.
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powerful and well thought out
I hope you keep writing, Kelly. We need your voice in this world. And your honesty.
Great poem, I felt my heart sink in the line and some die in there sleep at 51!
You are an amazing woman.
Soulful, it made me think of how precious and fragile we all are. You keep it real, as always Kelly. Thanks for sharing and keep them coming.
Kelly, interesting idea on how twenty-first century humans may not be as far removed from soltice effects as we like to think.
Congratulations, Kelly!! Very interesting connections, but a hard read for me, so deep in February!!


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We Had The Talk Last Nightso he has been getting progressively more snippy and snarky in recent weeks. i just couldn't handle the seething atmosphere & how it's been affecting not only me, but our daughter.
so, sent her (upstairs) to her room to play video games. (a big treat) so we could talk.
told him he needs to get an atty. he gave me shocked face " why?"
i opened with the debt clusterf!ck and he responded he told me its his responsibility he'll take care of it. told him i brought it up to you over 2 months ago & your response has been variations on its none of my business and you'll take care of it. you don't GET that this was a huge betrayal. something that's been going on for years not a one time thing. it's a pattern. add in the HUGE tax refund from 2 yrs ago you *actively* lied to me about. you have destroyed all trust in you. (Etc)
he responded explaining investments, " net we are ahead" but then because *i* forced him into "fire sale mode" by freezing both loans "without discussing" with him first, he was "forced" to accept "big losses"--all "me" language. pointed this out to him. he modifies his language yet continues in same vein.
i tell him it's not only this, this was just the straw that broke the camel's back, i've been miserable for years. you've known it. you've done nothing about any of it. it took me telling you i want a divorce back in October for you to even consider doing anything about our sexlessness and then it was to get a presc
there have been many other fights in the past few years and the things you've said to me and your actions scream a lot louder than your words do. this is not a marriage it's not even a partnership. you make all the decisions. you call them "ours." you call *your* dreams for the future "ours."
when have you ever asked me what i want? when have you ever asked me my dreams for the future?
you get the drift.
he promised the sun the moon and the stars. he'll change. he'll go for therapy. he'll put all decisions in my hands. he'll give me his pay and i can pay all the bills make the $$ decisions etc. please give him another chance. give him a chance to make it up to me. whatever i want.
i told him several times my decision is already made, have already filed with the court, etc. he still wants me to reconsider.
i told him it doesn't mean i don't still love him, we can still be friends we will always be in each other's lives, etc.
he's still asking me to reconsider and "please don't do this to us." he said he was sorry more last night in the space of a one hour talk than he has in 11 years. when pointed out he said he'll say sorry more too.
it was rough in a completely different way than i had anticipated.
and likely to get rougher since i am just...done. it shouldn't take me hiring a lawyer to get him to wake up. and frankly i just don't see either one of us being happy should i give in, give him another chance. he just doesn't see that living in front of the tv or computer, and living vicariously through our daughter (other than the once a month or so, generously speaking, that we get together with friends) is just wrong on so many levels. not only for me, but for him, too. yet--he's content to live his life that way, with me as his pretty accessory.
i am more than an accessory.
any suggestions on follow up conversation (a gentle yet firm it ain't going to work) appreciated.
thanks, all.
hiya smithy. :) sorry been so mia. had to go back and catch up on your stories to see what was going on in your world. i'm SO PROUD of you for standing up for yourself when you talked to your H. you did a good thing there. i know it sucked and it was hard, but you did the hardest step. everything from here is just rebuilding. sorta. ;) i mean, if we lived in a perfect world. lol.
one thing i am worried about for you is this: your credit and your financial future.
are both of you on all of these loans and stocks? are both of your SS#'s listed? If so, can you get your name taken off immediately? i would highly recommend getting financial divorce advice, not just legal. you need to know where you stand financially now and for the future.
i also recommend that you do the annual free credit report for you, and get your current credit scores. you should also pay the fee for the monthly updates so you can see if any changes have happened to your credit. do not trust your H. also, you should run a report for your daughter's SS# too. i know this sounds creepy, but i did read that people like your H who are hiding assets will use any family member's SS# and info to create secret accounts. please bring this up with your attorney to see what you can do about this.
i think you might be a bit more emotionally in control than me, so that's one thing huge you have going for you, more so than me, lol. ;) so, to echo what everyone else said, do not allow him to drag you back in, do not give him one more chance, do not allow him to prove himself to you.
however, you may want to take him up on the $$ offer!! you could sock away some cash for YOU! :) might not be a bad idea.
i would also start researching where you want to live with your daughter, what it would take to live there, etc. start creating a budget and a list of all assets and debts in two separate spreadsheets. you can create one yourself, or do a free download from microsoft's website, or i can email you the one i did for myself. i spent forever on it. :) damn you excel!! hehe.
i am here to chat if you want to email me offline anytime. hang in there girl, you can do this! WE can do this! :)
Not that it matters at this point, and not that he would tell you the truth, but it might be worth asking him if he intended to share the profits with you if his shares in the Acme Bowling Ball Company went through roof on the news that Mongolia declared bowling to be the national pastime. "Wha...uh...Of course! Sure...yeah....I was gonna share! Jeez! What a question. Don'tcha trust me...or something?"
He was buying stocks on margin? That is, he was playing the market with borrowed money? Two loans? Wow. That is an enormous risk. I mean, it's your credit rating too if his bets, and they ARE bets, go south.
And you wouldn't know it until the collection agencies started calling at dinnertime. You are absolutely right to hold your ground.
The market in my jurisdiction has bounced quite a lot over the past 5 months. Dependent on
(a) the quality of the portfolio
(b) whether the market has kicked in your jurisdiction
it is possible that the position might actually be a bit "better" than it was 5 months ago.
"...didn't discuss MY investments with you." Right. And what made him think they were his investments alone? Case in point of Bazzar's Theory of the Non-Existent We.
He was using marital assets-the house-as collateral to get the loans, I think.
Seems from what you said you are holding firm on your decision. He will never be out of your life just in a different place in your life. I think I would calmly give him comfort that you will not be going away just changing the perspective.
Good for you. :) Stay strong.
Watch out for him being responsible for the debt. When he declares bankruptcy they will come after you for the money and it will still be your credit that gets screwed. I watched it happen to a friend.
As I read your story, I am having a physical reaction, because what my husband says to me is exactly the same thing. It's always him promising things will be different, and it is! For two days. I am in the beginning of this process to get out of the marriage. Best wishes to you...don't let him manipulate you.
Thank you...will do.
He is, like a dead satellite, slowly dropping out of your orbit.
There may yet be a big flame out when he hits the atmosphere of reality, but it is essentially done.
I wouldn't be generating any follow up conversation. I'd be keeping it to RESPONDING (not "re-acting") him as and when necessary, with a simple imperative in mind. "It's done".
Tread your own path.

I'm with Enna on this one (as I usually am with her almost universally solid advice). Ironically I see something so clearly now that I've left. When the man is the one who is 'done' and leaves I think it is much more possible to have an 'amicable' separation. This is because women, in general, handle this kind of drastic change better/differently then men do. We posture, grow angry, etc. while women seem to just absorb, acknowledge, and then accept better. My STBX just seems to have understood that once I reached the 'point of no return' there was no point in trying to jump in front of the train. Just move on with our lives. We met with our kids' teachers and they were so surprised when we informed them of the different households, phone numbers, etc. Both teachers just said variations of 'I totally didn't get that vibe from you two... normally it is very tense when the parents are in the midst of separation/divorce but you two seem almost friendly about it'. Now is part of that our individual personalities? Sure. I do think, however, that a big part if that I'm the one who 'pulled the trigger' and left.

Good luck Smithy and for whatever it's worth I think you are making the right call!

He won't. Sadly you need to be prepared for that at least at first (meaning a few years maybe until he has some 'distance' on things). Just keep your distance both phsyically and emotionally as best you can and start the process with the understanding that ALL agreements will be in writing. I don't care if it is as simple as 'who picks up Johnny from Karate on Thursday?' get it in writing. That keeps everyone honest and away from 'he said she said' as much as possible.

At this point it is worth remembering that it took you moving out to generate any action on his part. So that confirms that his actions are about HIM. He wants you to stay - he does not want you to go. So NOW, he is going to do x, y, z and all the rest of it . . . . . .

Why? So HE gets to keep you.

None of this great effort he is promising you is related in any way to what YOU want. If it was, it would have been forthcoming well before this.

"give him a chance to make it up to me" - this is "ME" talk - as in "I need another chance because up to this minute I thought I could have exactly what I want and ignore what you wanted. So I DID ignore what you wanted. Suddenly I've discovered that was a wrong assumption on my part - so I need YOU to give me another chance."

This is NOT about what you want or need - and it never will be. And his defending his appalling financial behaviour and deceit is good enough reason IMO to leave even if you were having hot steamy sex every night!!! Once trust is broken, especially about major issues, it is very hard to regain a balanced and responsive relationship.

I could have been the author of this story. with a few differences. We don't have the financial problems and STBX does not work but he never listened when we talked. When I said I was leaving in August he started with the I'm sorry's .. it lasted about a week or two. I did not have a formal plan at that time so it was okay with me that he was trying but I never stopped working on my plan out. by the end of August he had went back to his old ways. My Christmas I was DONE. I mean completely.. some people may not understand what that means but I DO.. I told him I was DONE. I would stay till after Christmas when the children were back at school but after that he was on his on.. He didn't even try this time. Then came January 13th.. We sat down again. I told him I would be out within the next few days. HE WAS IN SHOCK.. he started with the fixing things around the house again. Every night I would come in to him tell me what he had done today.. Most of it was 5 minute jobs that I had asked to be done for years. I just said okay or great and kept going. Then the day came when I packed up and started moving out. he was real quite. but the next day I had to go back to get something and he blew up.. ( this is the angry phase people talk about) yes he is in that now. SO stay our course. keep your options open if he continues on the straight path with what you are wanting I mean all of it than you may have won if he reverts back you know what you have to do. Good luck and stay strong. Life is better on the outside. I know I'm living it.
The suggestions for a follow-up really depend on your goals and how you feel about him. Frequently, "I'm done!" is hyperbolic language for "I feel intensely overwhelmed."

"I'm done!" is a position - a stance. It's not intended to communicate feeling.

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"shouldn't take me hiring a lawyer to get him to wake up."

It's my position, at this point, that it should. For the benefit of everyone reading, "The Talk", where you discuss your POV, is just stretching before the race - an exercise in articulating your points to a partner, and inviting a discussion.

The starting line of the race occurs at the point where one person takes unilateral action to assert herself in an individual manner, compelling the spouse to react and choose. The boat gets overturned.

That could be the *revelation* of an affair, the declaration of intention to separate (with follow up), or the offer of a choice to either openly outsource or separate. It could mean the separation of finances, and quite likely a re-order of household roles. And it ALWAYS will involve the intimacy-seeking spouse finally asserting herself and taking back and setting the agenda and pace, in areas where he or she typically has ceded ground.

Then, you can begin. And your spouse is going to hate it. You likely won't like it much either.

In your case, smithy, I don't know. I'd say that you are at a point where you can start to address some issues now - that there is a possibility, provided you reconfigure your roles on a permanent basis, rather than falling into it like before, where you had no idea what was going on. You have the edge.

But do you want it with him, even if he tries, at this point? How do you feel? I get the sense that there's a push to argue a case here, like you still are invested in this fight - and that tells me you aren't sure yet. Maybe nobody is.

If your goal is to get out - there's no need to justify or criticize or further respond in that way. Those are old fights, and they will be his problems. Your concern is yourself and your daughter.

If your goal is to work it out, then whatever you work out must be a completely reconfigured marriage, such that by the time it's done, neither of you would recognize it.

The way I worked through this in my head when I was still in an in between state and the topic of change came up:

I considered myself in a post divorce state, as a part time co-parent or single guy. I considered that this woman (my wife) had moved in to the other half of my semi-detached house, and she was in the same boat, with kids half the time. I considered what I knew about her THEN, as if I'd just met her, and if she'd expressed an interest and wanted to include me along with her various activities, such as they are, would I say "Yes" to that? Would I want to find out more, or would I give her wide berth and spend my energy elsewhere. I told her this, and it really set the pace for both of us --which was good, because we were both seeing other people at the time.
If that is the case, and the wheels are already in motion, it's best to cut quickly and quietly, and not get hooked into these kinds of fights and justification.
It is indeed all about him. LT & Zs are right. The more you answer him, the more you encourage him to try and lure you back. Liberate yourself from social convention; you'll be amazed at how much power you have by replying with silence, or changing the topic without seque. Oh, wait, you have already experienced first hand how this refuser technique is deployed. Now use it to protect yourself.
Was it useful?
Sounds a bit like you are defending your decision, rather than just telling him it's final... maybe even getting a final dig or two in.
I agree with Lao, time to keep it short and simple. "The facts ma'am, nothing but the facts".
Bringing up all the old hurts means you want him to do something about them, or you want to rub it in his face, rather than saying "the end, moving on".
I still think you did great, just some thoughts for the future. And trust me, i know how hard it is to not stand there and go "you did this wrong, you did that wrong, you are still doing the other wrong".
Just my rambling thoughts. Keep it short, there is no more debate. The way things were in the marriage, there was no "us" hence leaving does nothing to "us". It does free up both of you to find and be yourselves. You both get a second chance at life, just not together. Breathe and keep moving. Be kind but firm.


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Good job by vic. He's still a top fighter at 140 in my eyes. One of the top four for sure along with alexander, bradley, and maidana. Khan was impressive against Paulie but seriously no less was expected from him by hardcore boxing fans against a light puncher like malignaggi. Don't know why a lot of people wrote off Ortiz after his defeat to Maidana. I mean sure he gave up. the dude was overwhelmed with emotions and said some **** Im sure he regrets but maidana didnt walk over him. He did knock him down three times after all. Khan vs Ortiz would be an interesting fight imo. What do you guys think?
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Wow, can't believe guys were that big on Campbell.
Too bad Paulie couldn't give the cherry picker a better fight. Well, looks like the cherry picking days are over. Let's see if he really wants to fight guys like Bradley, Alexander & Maidana.
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Good win for Ortiz. Seeing him go the distance and remain strong, certainly answers some questions I would have asked.
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Would love to see Ortiz-Malignaggie. Paulie has a good chin, I'd like to see it tested, also vic tested against a slick boxer like paulie.
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He could have. Taken him out way early,I would rather see him go against zab Judah. I wanna see how he handles a real speedster who got a lil pop on them punches. He may gas out midway but to see what Garcia would tell Vic what to do.
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I agree, both fights last night were impressive, specially Paulie vs Khan. Ortiz fought a good fight last night but I noticed he is not the same. He didnt actually got Koed completely against Maidana so I am pretty sure he needs some more time to recover from that fight. I would like to see Khan also fight Ortiz, I would like to see his reaction fighting somebody with power behind the punches.....
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I liked this Ortiz better. Nice footwork, short, sharp punches, keepin his aggression under control and economical. His D is tight when he keeps his gloves up, but when he puts his hands down he gets caught leaning back. Once, sometimes twice a fight, he leans back, turns his head away slightly, and than trys to reach his arms out to block the punch, only to miss completely and get slightly clipped on the chin. Needs to keep those gloves up, or stay focused enough to get out of the way quicker. None of that lazy ****.
Would have liked to see him go to the body more too, that's all that was missing from this beat down. I think Ortiz's work to the body is completely under-rated. He landed a right hook to the body of Campbell in the middle of the 6th that froze Nate up instantly. It happen to Maidana too. But for whatever reason Vic didn't follow up on it when Campbell was folded up on the ropes after that shot. Campbell took a flat out beating behind his guard, but he was ready to be put out of his misery. If Vic would have stayed on the body, it would have been hell for Nate to remain standing. Also would have liked to see him launch an uppercut when Nate was bullrushing in, but I think that punch can be developed over time.
Overall he looked a lot better. You could tell he took this fight seriously just by how more balanced he was in the ring.
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Christmas morning comes pretty early for parents who have been up all night wrapping "Santa" presents, especially because the kids usually wake up earlier due to excitement.
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Take a large cardboard box and wrap it in Christmas wrapping paper, making sure to leave the top part of the box open.
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- 3 tablespoons Butter
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Directions: Peel and cut the sweet potatoes in half length-wise then slice them 1/4 inch thick. Put the sweet potatoes on a microwave-safe plate, cover in plastic wrap and microwave on high for 3-4 minutes or until tender. In a skillet, melt butter over medium heat until foaming subsides. Turn off the heat and let stand until browned. Then stir in honey and sweet potatoes. Toss to coat well. Transfer the sweet potatoes into an 8×8 baking dish. Start making the topping in a medium bowl by mixing together flour, granola, cinnamon and brown sugar. Add the butter and work it in with your fingertips until well blended and crumbly. Fold in raisins. Sprinkle the topping over the sweet potatoes. Bake in a preheated oven at 350 degrees F for 25-28 minutes.
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