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By Leo Babauta There's a small habit that I practice, that can turn difficult situations into much better ones — and it won't surprise you. It's the habit of gratitude. This is such a simple habit, and it's one that we often forget to practice. But when we do, it can transform our entire perspective, and with it our whole life. Let me give you an example. About 10 years ago, I remember being caught in a rainstorm and being soaked, and also feeling generally stressed about being broke and hating my job and unhappy with my health. I was a bit depressed about it all,…
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Want to Get My Podcast by Email? Now You Can.Gretchen Rubin2 Oct 2015 | 12:00 pmElizabeth and I are having so much fun with our weekly podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin. We just launched it six months ago, and we're already closing in on four million downloads. Zoikes! Many listeners have told us that they'd like to be able to get an email alert every time we release a new episode. Voila! Done. To sign up, click here (happiercast.com/join), enter your email, and then you'll get an email alert for the new episode each week. The email will include images, links to books or other things we talk about, our contact information, and, of course, a button to…
Charity: To Do God's WorkDaily Inspiration - Daily Quotes3 Oct 2015 | 9:08 pmInasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren,ye have done it unto me.- Matthew 25:40Let us touch the dying, the poor,the lonely and the unwantedaccording to the graces we have receivedand let us not be ashamedor slow to do the humble work.- Mother Teresa When faith and hope fail, as they do sometimes,we must try charity, which is love in action.We must speculate no more on our duty,but simply do it.When we have done it, however blindly,perhaps Heaven will show us why.- Dinah Maria MulockNo man stands so tall as when he stoops to help a child.- Abraham Lincoln…
Follow your passion. Listen to your heart. Trust the process. Be grateful. Life is magical and your dreams matter.Inspire Me Today4 Oct 2015 | 12:00 amThis post was originally published on InspireMeToday.com. Leave a comment or share this post by visiting Follow your passion. Listen to your heart. Trust the process. Be grateful. Life is magical and your dreams matter..
The Truth About Courageous LeadershipLolly Daskal29 Sep 2015 | 4:00 amAs a coach, I spend a lot of time listening to leaders. Many of the things I hear probably wouldn't be said to anyone else. But behind the scenes it is hard for leaders—it takes a lot of courage to lead, but most of us take it for granted. Aristotle called courage the first virtue, because it makes all of the other virtues possible. And in my line of work as a coach I believe he is right; if you are courageous it really makes all that you do as a leader have merit. The courageous leader takes the risks when they: Go out on a limb. It takes a lot of courage to take initiative and step out,…
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The Transformative Power of the Gratitude Habit2 Oct 2015 | 6:00 amBy Leo Babauta There's a small habit that I practice, that can turn difficult situations into much better ones — and it won't surprise you. It's the habit of gratitude. This is such a simple habit, and it's one that we often forget to practice. But when we do, it can transform our entire perspective, and with it our whole life. Let me give you an example. About 10 years ago, I remember being caught in a rainstorm and being soaked, and also feeling generally stressed about being broke and hating my job and unhappy with my health. I was a bit depressed about it all, actually. Then I decided to make a mental list of everything I was grateful for, right there in the rain. It was a long list, and while I can't...
A Guide for All of Us: Getting Good at Storytelling & Other Superhuman Social Skills29 Sep 2015 | 7:04 amBy Leo Babauta Let's face it: most of us aren't amazing social ninjas, good at working any social situation, let alone comfortable telling a captivating story in front of a crowd. It would be great if there were a manual that taught us the key social skills for being good at parties, talking to strangers, making amazing friendships. Luckily for us losers, my friend Tynan has written a new book, Superhuman Social Skills, and I honestly think it's fantastic. I know I'm biased, but after reading it I believe it's something pretty much every human being should read (and it's free for the Kindle today). We're not given a manual for learning social skills, and so we face so many problems because of it, from...
The Truth About Your Uncertain Life Path & Purpose22 Sep 2015 | 10:02 amBy Leo Babauta If you're in your 20s or even 30s, you might feel a lot of uncertainty all the time — you aren't sure what your life purpose is, or your uncertain about what path you should take in life. This is normal. We all want to know what our driving ambitions should be in life. We all want to have a certain life purpose. We all want to feel we're on the right path. We all want to perfect our habits, our routines, our productivity. We all want to feel more certain, and perfect what we're doing. The comfort of certainty and perfection vs. the fear of uncertainty and being suboptimal. This is the struggle. Let me let you in on a secret: no one is free from this struggle. Look at the most successful...
I'm Returning to Single-Tasking18 Sep 2015 | 12:39 pmBy Leo Babauta I have a confession to make: despite writing books on the subject, along with numerous posts, I haven't been single-tasking lately. I've returned to multi-tasking and distraction. I'd like to blame my smart phone (I long for the days of my sweet dumb phone), but in all honesty I constantly switch browser tabs too. I've been pulled by the allure of so many interesting things to read on the Internet, email, messaging my family, always something to check or read or respond to. As of today, I'm returning to single-tasking. Why? Because I think giving in to constant switch and distraction is a way to run away. It feels busy and productive, but it's an avoidance. Not just an avoidance of important...
Scott Dinsmore, I Miss You Deeply14 Sep 2015 | 9:16 amBy Leo Babauta Scott Dinsmore, creator of Live Your Legend, died in a freak accident on Mt. Kilimanjaro a couple days ago. He was one of my best friends in the world. I'm still in shock — at the suddenness of his death, the senselessness of it, the incredible loss of all he had to give, but most of all, at the gaping hole that his loss leaves in my heart. I loved (and still love) Scott deeply, and I can't believe he is gone. Some of you might know Scott because he delivered a massively inspiring (and popular) TED talk on finding work you love. Others of you have followed his well-known blog for years, and still others have taken his courses on connecting with people and finding your passion. And some of...
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Want to Get My Podcast by Email? Now You Can.2 Oct 2015 | 12:00 pmElizabeth and I are having so much fun with our weekly podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin. We just launched it six months ago, and we're already closing in on four million downloads. Zoikes! Many listeners have told us that they'd like to be able to get an email alert every time we release a new episode. Voila! Done. To sign up, click here (happiercast.com/join), enter your email, and then you'll get an email alert for the new episode each week. The email will include images, links to books or other things we talk about, our contact information, and, of course, a button to allow you to listen right from the email. About the Podcast In the podcast, my sister Elizabeth Craft and I talk about how to build...
Revealed! Book Club Choices for October. Such Great Books.1 Oct 2015 | 1:00 pmPardon this moment of book self-promotion: Did I happen to mention that I can now reveal the jacket of the paperback for Better Than Before? Oh right, maybe I did. Anyway, here it is again! Because nothing boosts happiness more than a great book, each month, I suggest: · one outstanding book about happiness or habits · one outstanding work of children's or young-adult literature–I have a crazy passion for kidlit · one eccentric pick–a widely admired and excellent book that I love, yes, but one that may not appeal to everyone Shop at IndieBound, BN.com, or Amazon (I'm an affiliate), or your favorite local bookstore. Or visit the library! Drumroll… A book about happiness, good habits, or human...
Podcast 32: Why Elizabeth and I Raise the Bar, the Surprising Downside of Teasing–and Please Comment on Four Tendencies.30 Sep 2015 | 11:05 amIt's time for the next installment of "Happier with Gretchen Rubin." Update: I talk about Barnaby, our new dog! (As promised, here's a picture of Barnaby with our producer, Henry Molofsky.) And a shout-out to our super-fans in Omaha, Nebraska. Also, you'll hear us talk about our new (and we hope improved, though Elizabeth is doubtful) way of referring to previous episodes, so that you can easily find them here on my site. That's happiercast.com/32 (or the number of whatever episode you're looking for). Try This at Home: Raise the bar (yes, you remember that right, in episode 29 we suggested lowering the bar; the opposite of a profound truth is also true). What works for you — lowering or raising...
Revealed! The New Jacket for the Paperback of "Better Than Before."29 Sep 2015 | 12:37 pmBig news! (At least it's big for me.) At last, I can reveal the jacket art for the paperback of Better Than Before. It's fun to do something different with the cover of the hardback and the paperback. It turns out that it's very difficult to capture the idea of "habits" in a visual image, and I think the arrows pointing forward and backward do a good job of that. Plus I love the vibrant colors. But if you don't like it, please don't tell me. It's done, it's decided. I'm always asking myself, "What are the iron laws of the universe?" There aren't many. One is "No deposit, no return." Another, which is relevant here, is "You can't please everyone." If you still haven't read Better Than Before, it's my new...
7 Things I Learned About Myself, from Getting a Dog.28 Sep 2015 | 2:56 pmAs I may have mentioned, my family and I just got a new puppy — a cockapoo named Barnaby. He's fourteen weeks old, and super sweet and delightful. However, he is a dog, and even more so, he's a puppy. I knew that his arrival in our household would mean big changes — and would also teach me a lot about myself. So far, here's what I've learned: 1. Getting up at 5:30 a.m. is very different from getting up at 6:00 a.m. It's just thirty minutes…but it feels like a much bigger gap. For years, my day has started at 6:00, and I'm hoping that when Barnaby is a little older, I can move my wake-up time back to its usual spot. For now, he's very eager to go out by 5:30. 2. New York City is an overwhelming place. I've...
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Charity: To Do God's Work3 Oct 2015 | 9:08 pmInasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren,ye have done it unto me.- Matthew 25:40Let us touch the dying, the poor,the lonely and the unwantedaccording to the graces we have receivedand let us not be ashamedor slow to do the humble work.- Mother Teresa When faith and hope fail, as they do sometimes,we must try charity, which is love in action.We must speculate no more on our duty,but simply do it.When we have done it, however blindly,perhaps Heaven will show us why.- Dinah Maria MulockNo man stands so tall as when he stoops to help a child.- Abraham Lincoln (attributed)Further reading: Know that You have been BlessedMaking a DifferenceBeing of ServiceThis God Called MoneyMaterial...
Fly Your Dreams, Today2 Oct 2015 | 9:08 pmIf you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right,you'll probably never do much of anything.- Win BordenEvery day is a new beginning -a day for a new plan and new action.If today, in conscious awareness, you choosethe same plan as yesterday, you are wise.If you choose a different plan, you are equally wise.Whatever you choose, choose with intention.- Jonathan Lockwood HuieYou are the Michelangelo of your own life.The David that you are sculpting is you.And you do it with your thoughts.- Joe Vitale Life Begins When You Do.- Mary Anne Radmacher Choose to soar. Choose to fly your dreams.- Jonathan Lockwood HuieFurther reading: Be Simply YourselfApprove of YourselfHow to Deal with RejectionSuccess Tip:...
Choose to Dance1 Oct 2015 | 9:08 pmWhen you get the choice to sit it out or dance,I hope you dance.- Mark Sanders and Tia Siller - performed by Lee Ann WomackWhen you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor.It's to enjoy each step along the way.- Wayne DyerLife may not be the party we hoped for,but while we are here we might as well dance.- AnonymousFurther reading: Appreciating TodayFinding Joy in Our Troubled LivesChoose to Love LifeDancing Through LifeCopyright � by Jonathan Lockwood Huie. First published on my Daily Inspirational Quotes blog. Also see Inspirational Quotes.
Light of God30 Sep 2015 | 9:08 pmI will gather myself around my faith,for light does the darkness most fear.- JewelAll the darkness of the world cannotextinguish the light of a single candle,yet one candle can illuminate all the darkness.- Jewish Hanukah Prayer Trust in the Light.Darkness is not a force -it is merely the absence of light.Observe that when a light is brought to a dark place,the darkness disappears.Sadness is similar -when joy is brought to suffering, the sadness disappears.Open yourself to the Light!Hold back nothing, Trust in the Light.- Jonathan Lockwood HuieExercise: Write your most worrisome trouble on a piece of paper and feed it to the fire. Send your troubles up in smoke. Breathe deeply and rejoice.Further reading:...
All Life is an Experiment29 Sep 2015 | 9:08 pmTake the attitude of a student,never be too big to ask questions,never know too much to learn something new.- Og MandinoDon't be too timid and squeamish about your actions.All life is an experiment.The more experiments you make the better.What if they are a little coarse,and you may get your coat soiled or torn?What if you do fail, and get fairly rolledin the dirt once or twice.Up again, you shall never be so afraid of a tumble.- Ralph Waldo EmersonYou've got to experiment to figure out what works.- Andrew WeilWe Gain All Genuine Insight From Questions and Experiments.- Jonathan Lockwood HuieFurther reading: Ask questionsObserveA Fire to be KindledKeeping Curiosity Alive�� Copyright � by Jonathan Lockwood...
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Follow your passion. Listen to your heart. Trust the process. Be grateful. Life is magical and your dreams matter.4 Oct 2015 | 12:00 amThis post was originally published on InspireMeToday.com. Leave a comment or share this post by visiting Follow your passion. Listen to your heart. Trust the process. Be grateful. Life is magical and your dreams matter..
5 Steps to Take Action3 Oct 2015 | 12:12 amTake Action! So many of us wait for things to be perfectly aligned before we take action. I'm not talking about following a specific timeline that gives you the necessary steps to reach your goal. I'm referring to those who wait for things to be aligned just right before they make a move. We wait for the perfect time to get married. The perfect time to own a home. The right time to have children. The right time to start a business. The right time to take a family vacation. The right time to make a business decision. The right time to visit old friends. Even the right time to apologize. And the list can become endless. Now we don't need to be reckless and jump head first into things without a careful...
In a colossal, expanding universe, we've all been given that rarest of opportunities, the chance to experience life.3 Oct 2015 | 12:10 amThis post was originally published on InspireMeToday.com. Leave a comment or share this post by visiting In a colossal, expanding universe, we've all been given that rarest of opportunities, the chance to experience life..
You Are Beautiful As You Are3 Oct 2015 | 12:02 amA friend of mind has been struggling recently with her body image. She says she feels a lot of shame when she looks in the mirror, and the stories in her mind keep on trying to convince her there is something wrong with her at her present weight. She is caught in the land of fear, where her mind keeps telling her stories that she is not skinny enough, pretty enough or sexy enough. In other words, she is not enough, period! Our western society basically deems women's bodies unacceptable unless they are a size 2 or less. Just take a look at the ad of the emaciated bikini-clad model in New York's Times Square that reads "Are you beach body ready?" Google those words and you will see the ad. The message...
Never allow negative things to change your positive attitude.3 Oct 2015 | 12:00 amThis post was originally published on InspireMeToday.com. Leave a comment or share this post by visiting Never allow negative things to change your positive attitude..
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The Truth About Courageous Leadership29 Sep 2015 | 4:00 amAs a coach, I spend a lot of time listening to leaders. Many of the things I hear probably wouldn't be said to anyone else. But behind the scenes it is hard for leaders—it takes a lot of courage to lead, but most of us take it for granted. Aristotle called courage the first virtue, because it makes all of the other virtues possible. And in my line of work as a coach I believe he is right; if you are courageous it really makes all that you do as a leader have merit. The courageous leader takes the risks when they: Go out on a limb. It takes a lot of courage to take initiative and step out, but when it comes to new ideas and new technology, or simply changing direction in an organization, courageous...
Hit The Pause Button Before It Hits You22 Sep 2015 | 5:42 amAs a coach I meet a lot of impressive leaders. Many of them work hard and put in very long hours, always pushing themselves to the limit. At some point they fall into risk of serious health issues or find themselves not making the smartest choices. And when that happens, leadership becomes challenging. Leaders push themselves because they believe the more they give the better their leadership. They don't want to seem nonproductive. In time it becomes a vicious cycle, a never-ending worry that they're not doing enough. But a big part of leading is learning the balance between doing and being. The secret is knowing when to hit the pause button. It may seem counterintuitive, but the more pauses you take...
The Power Of Saying No8 Sep 2015 | 5:11 amThere is power in the simple act of saying no, but for many of us it's the hardest word to say. The biggest challenge when it comes to saying no we worry that we'll be thought to be negative or unhelpful. While saying yes is thought to be courageous and gracious. But the simple act of saying no has power and can often be an act of great courage, and most likely many of us should probably do more often. The next time you're tempted to automatically say yes, remember there is great power in saying no and sometimes it's the best answer for everyone. Here are some reasons when saying no has power: Not everything is your responsibility. If you are a people-pleaser you might feel it's your responsibility...
90 Powerful Ways to Become a Highly Successful Leader25 Aug 2015 | 5:28 amIf you're starting a new position or role, or your leadership just needs a refresher use these 90 powerful tips over the first three months to get your leadership on track. It's a tough statistic: 40 percent of leaders going into a new roles fail in their first 18 months. An estimated one-third of outside senior hires fail. In any position, your effectiveness and trajectory are powerfully affected by choices you make – so how can you best make them count? By having your very own playbook for success like this one: 1. Get A Head Start. Build relationships before you begin your new position. Think of whom you can talk to within the company who can guide you in your new position. 2. Take A...
Blame Is What Is Tearing You Down4 Aug 2015 | 3:59 amShe had just finished giving her presentation, which she had been preparing for weeks. She could feel all the eyes in the room on her. She knew she had failed and she felt miserable. She dragged herself to her seat and slumped down in the chair. She didn't dare look up for fear of even more embarrassment. She felt depressed, disappointed, and most of all dejected. It would take her weeks to recover from her presumed failure. Everyone goes through times when they feel they have not been at their best, when they could have been better, when they should have done more. But when our response to our disappointments become bigger than the situation, that is when we find ourselves in trouble. Here are some...
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Welcome. Coffee?29 Sep 2015 | 3:24 amThis is not a coffee shop – this is the reception at one of our clients in Denmark. They can greet you, get you a visitor's badge and notify the employee your meeting with. And while you wait for them to come meet you, they can also whip up an excellent cappuccino or a flat white. Employees can also have informal meetings in the café and buy coffee cheaply using their ID cards or an app on their phones. I saw something similar at the Coca-Cola HQ in Atlanta. I like this kind of thing because it breaks down the formality of the reception area and makes it more welcoming and interesting. It gives visitors a better first impression and provides employees with a more relaxed setting. Does your workplace...
I am going to happy you :)24 Sep 2015 | 10:08 amIt just struck me that the Danish word for happiness (glæde) is both a noun and a verb. So in Danish you can experience happiness (føle glæde) but you can also "happy someone else" (glæde en anden). As in: "I think this will happy my spouse" (det vil glæde min partner) or "small acts can happy others" (små ting kan glæde andre). I don't want to read too much into that linguistic quirk, but it is interesting because it goes to the heart of what happiness is – i.e. very much something we do for each other. Can you think of another language that has this feature? Also, the same word is also used to say that you are looking forward to something. "Jeg glæder mig til jul" literally translates "I happy...
My upcoming open gigs around the world23 Sep 2015 | 7:08 amHere are some of the upcoming international conferences and events you can catch me at: October 15, London UK: Well-Being at Work November 10, Santiago de Chile: Expo Capital Humano November 16, Istanbul Turkey: Peryön Kongres November 25, Prague Czech Republic: Happiness at Work December 3, Novi Sad Serbia: Geekstone Conference December 18, Colombo Sri Lanka: Dev Day 2015 March 23, The Hague Netherlands: Happy People Better Business April 13, Birmingham UK: Service Desk Conference May 9, Miami USA, WorldBlu Summit
To create results, leaders must put relationships first23 Sep 2015 | 4:17 am� Should a manager focus primarily on results or people? Should the manager be the one who sets KPIs and drives employees towards their goals, or should the manager rather be the one who understands and likes employees and is able to build good relationships with them? In 2009 James Zenger published a study that examined exactly that question. He found that if a manager is seen as being particularly focused on results alone, he/she will be seen as a good manager by only 14 % of the employees. If a manager has only strong social skills, the manager is regarded as being a good manager by a mere 12 % of the employees. However, for those managers who are both focused on results and have strong social...
An inherent paradox22 Sep 2015 | 3:22 amFor most of us, work is not optional – we have to make a living somehow. Finding work we enjoy given that, is a paradox we all must resolve.
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Infographic: Perfectionism… Is it a Good or Bad Thing?!28 Sep 2015 | 1:10 pmDon't Answer too Quickly! � � Perfectionism. The word has kind of a bad rep, doesn't it? Yet, just yesterday I was in the Emergency Room with one of my precious daughters and desperately hoped for a doctor who was a perfectionist. Another daughter has an upcoming doctor's appointment and I'm counting on his perfectionism. When my vehicle is at the shop, I hope for a mechanic who's a perfectionist. When yet another daughter took her adorable cat, Edgar, to the veterinarian's office – we wanted nothing lest than perfectionism from the vet. On the flip side of the same coin, however, I used to build websites for people and I have the emotional scars to prove it. "That blue isn't blue enough…" "Can the...
Practicing Confident Parenting While Pregnant28 Sep 2015 | 5:22 amFor many women, becoming pregnant is an exciting time in their life. They have dreamed about starting a family, and are both excited and a little scared to start the road to parenthood. Part of the journey into motherhood is taking your own experiences, and the experiences of others, and creating the style of parenting that you feel you are most comfortable with and confident in. However, as we collect stories and pieces of advice from those around us, we often come across viewpoints that are not our own. A great way to feel comfortable in your own parenting style is to educate yourself on hot topic items, and to practice talking about your parenting choices. By hearing yourself state how you will be...
Feeling Groovy: PsychTests' New Study Reveals Something Interesting…17 Sep 2015 | 2:43 pmHigh Emotional Intelligence Improves Life Satisfaction New research by PsychTests.com indicates that there are certain facets of emotional intelligence that can strongly influence a person's level of happiness and contentment. "Emotional intelligence" may have only became a hot buzzword in recent decades, but over 2,300 years ago, Aristotle had already grasped the importance of emotional awareness and the ability to apply this knowledge: "Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody's power and is not easy." If it's not enough that...
Peace: Sometimes It's More About CREATING it than FINDING it9 Sep 2015 | 10:18 amHow to Create a More Peaceful Mind Stop Fighting with Your Thoughts… We all say we're looking for happiness. We often it's what we want more than anything – for ourselves and for others. However, I often think it goes deeper than just happiness we're seeking. I think we're seeking PEACE as much as anything else. After all, how can you possibly attain happiness if you aren't at peace? When any variety of strife or conflict is going on in our world, we crave peace like a teenager craves pizza. This strife can come from a number of places: <ul> <li>family members</li> <li>news</li> <li>society</li> <li>co-workers</li> <li>work</li> <li>school</li> <li>debt/bills</li> <li>friends</li> </ul> We often even create our own strife (as if there isn't enough already) by worrying, judging,...
Using Music Therapy to Heal Minds8 Sep 2015 | 5:00 amHave you ever noticed how the sound of music can soothe you, or a crying child, how it relaxes, and how it can lift up your mood, no matter how low you've gotten? For those that play an instrument, they too know the healing power of music. Think about the last time you listened to the radio and the emotions that you felt as each song played. You know that it depends on what type of music you listen to or play on what it does to your mood. Some music can make you want to dance, make you angry, or it calm simply calm you down or even make you cry. Music can bring back long lost memories as well. But for the healing properties listed below, classical music is probably one of the best choices, but all music...
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Innerwealth – preventing the Peter Principle from running your boat onto the rocks (complimentary book)3 Oct 2015 | 10:59 pmComplimentary Book at the End of article If you could change one thing about the world what would it be? …
Keep Your Relationship Sacred3 Oct 2015 | 10:08 pmAt the end of this short article there is a book for download. When I was 18 years old I …
The Best Athlete in the World Right Now Is an 18-Year-Old Swimmer, and What She's Doing Is Nuts1 Oct 2015 | 11:06 pmThe Best Athlete in the World Right Now Is an 18-Year-Old Swimmer, and What She's Doing Is Nuts We can …
A Global Community Beyond Emotional Rhetoric = Heart and Soul at Work1 Oct 2015 | 10:39 pmShedding the old paradigm that growth is hard work or that incompetencies should always be "hidden from view" the individual …
When you feel the need to speed up, slow down1 Oct 2015 | 7:35 pmMy favourite ever Ted Talk… EnjoyFiled under: Australia's Spiritual Realist, Back On Track, Changing Your World One Heart at A …
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Better, Faster, Stronger: How to Quickly Find Your Best Ideas and Turn Them Into Profit1 Oct 2015 | 6:00 amToday's business environment is ruled by disruptive technology and rapid change. If you want to stay at the head of the pack, you have to remain hungry and competitive. Here, I talk with Jeremy Gutsche, CEO of Trend Hunter and author of Better and Faster: The Proven Path to Unstoppable Ideas, about what it takes to be successful in the modern world. In this interview, Jeremy and I discuss: <ul> <li>How to find your best ideas, faster</li> <li>Why chaos leads to opportunity</li> <li>The difference between trends, fads and ideas</li> <li>The benefits of crowd wisdom</li> <li>The importance of recognizing patterns</li> <li>Understanding the farmer vs. hunter mindset</li> </ul> Watch the video, or download it as a free podcast on iTunes and see below for key takeaways...
Twofer Tuesday: On Patience & Optimism29 Sep 2015 | 6:00 amHave you joined our Tools for the Time-Crunched Manager LinkedIn group? It's designed to inspire and help you conquer the day-to-day challenges of your workday! We often share resources like this… Patience is Power We are continually bombarded with the pings of incoming mail, phone alerts and the constant "new shiny" appeal of the Internet luring you down the rabbit hole of viral videos, memes, tweets, updates and must-reads. In this age of distraction, how can we retain our focus and learn? In this contemplative article from Jennifer L. Roberts, she articulates how deep immersive experiences support learning. That the quiet art of patience is key to understanding and seeing details, orders and...
Michael's Sign Language28 Sep 2015 | 6:00 amDon't get bogged down in your chair today. Keep moving. Get provoked daily. Sign up our Great Work Provocations. Like a shot of espresso in the morning without the caffeine. Feel free to share – Blog it, Facebook it, Pin it…anyway you like.
My One Best Question, Episode 2224 Sep 2015 | 6:30 amA great question reveals new paths, creates new connections and opens up new worlds. So what are the great questions? In this series, I asked writers, thinkers, coaches and executives what their favourite question was. This episode features Dave Aron, VP Research, Gartner; Jennifer Falkenberg, Director Customer Service Learning, T-Mobile; and Mark Wayland, sales coach.
Twofer Tuesday: On Thought Patterns & Feedback22 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amHave you joined our Tools for the Time-Crunched Manager LinkedIn group? It's designed to inspire and help you conquer the day-to-day challenges of your workday! We often share resources like this… Mind Over Matter I really enjoyed this piece that was shared by Fred Kofman on LinkedIn. Written by John Boitnott, the article explores what Kofman has learned in his research and subsequent years of consulting around building a learning organization. It delves into the clear obstacles standing in the way of continuous learning for individuals, teams, and organizations. What are those obstacles? Bureaucracy? Managerial processes? Nope, something more insidious. Unhealthy thought patterns and habits. Says...
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64 Second Chances Quotes That Will Inspire You To Try Again16 Sep 2015 | 5:33 pmShare on Tumblr We all need second chances. Me, I'm on my 1000th 2nd chance right now. The key is to not get discouraged. These 64 quotes are here to help you with that. They're conveniently organized by GOOD, BETTER, BEST. This way, you can save time reading only the "best" ones: (of course, this is […]
154 of the Best Inspirational Quotes and Sayings7 Sep 2015 | 8:39 pmShare on Tumblr A Collection of Motivational Quotes and a Thought for the Day This section of inspirational quotations below are from the archive of my "Aspire Higher Thought of the Day" mailings: (Note: do you really have the time right now to sift through all 154 of these quotes just to find the best […]
3 Inspirational Poems on Courage25 Aug 2015 | 8:47 pmShare on Tumblr In keeping with my recent theme of inspirational poems, here's 3 more great ones that you should REALLY take the time to read. You'll love them. And anyone you share them with will love them too. They're share-worthy. Steadfast Heart I've dreamed many dreams that never came true I've seen them […]
43 Vacation Quotes That Will Inspire You To Take A Vacation14 Aug 2015 | 6:32 pmShare on Tumblr These vacation quotes should help you to realize how important it is to take vacations. Whether they're short or long, you need to get out for some mental health days: 1) No man needs a vacation so much as the man who has just had one. -Elbert Hubbard (1859-1915) 2) A good […]
3 Inspirational Poems on Contentment5 Aug 2015 | 7:28 amShare on Tumblr Hi All, I'm sure you've noticed I've been sharing a lot more poems lately instead of quotes, but that's only because there's so many good ones to share! Instead of posting one per page, I thought I'd try 3 all at once. You'll love them. See below: Pleasant Thoughts I want to […]
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How to Get Ready to Achieve Your Goal in a Week – 7 step Formula25 Sep 2015 | 9:28 pmHere at Getmotivation, we are always trying to share advice and ideas that you can use to get motivation and inspiration to achieve your goals. It goes without saying that every person has dreams and desires, but not everyone makes the effort to achieve them. What is the problem? Why is it hard to live your dreams? In short, people are often not ready to take the first step. You may not have thought about it, but you can get ready to achieve your goal in a week. This period is enough to carry out your plan and start a better life. Here is a plan for one week that will help you get inspiration. 1. Monday. Write down your goals. There are many benefits of writing down your goals. No matter how many goals...
4 Steps to Leading a Highly Motivated Life23 Sep 2015 | 4:00 amYou can look around and notice a vast sea of people drifting through life. Nine times out of ten you can bet that a majority of those drifting are not present. They're not focused on the power of what they can do right now, but are instead wrapped in either regrets of yesterday, the joys of yesterday, the worries of tomorrow, or the wonder of tomorrow. Whether good or bad, they are focused on everything else but right now. I'm guilty of this myself. We tend to take right now for granted, and so we find ourselves looking back and wondering where all the time went; again, still looking somewhere else but now. If you want to start elevating your life to another level, it's time to start focusing on how...
The Key to Staying Motivated to Achieve Your Dreams is Knowing how far You've Come20 Sep 2015 | 10:06 pmThe world has no shortage of dreamers. Unfortunately, far rarer are those who are willing to roll up their sleeves and get to work on making their goals and dreams a reality. In even shorter supply are those willing to stick to their plan when the going gets tough. And make no mistake there will always be challenging times to overcome along our journey. That's just part of the deal. Don't let it intimidate you into giving up short of your desired outcome. Why is it that so many people give up short of seeing things through? There are any number of reasons, but I'll touch on just a few that I believe deserve extra attention and even more important I will give you some strategies you can implement to stay...
9 Forward Steps to Work You Love31 Aug 2015 | 4:30 amDo you ever feel stuck? Do you know you are destined for more, but you are not sure what or how to get there? Perhaps you find yourself in a job that is draining and sucking the life out of you. You go to work, day in day out, but you live for 5 o'clock. Each weekday, the clock seems to tick even slower than it did the previous day. If this sounds familiar, you may be ready for a change. According to a Gallup poll, twice as many people dislike their jobs as there are those who enjoy their jobs. In fact, only 13% of people are truly happy with their work, and 24% absolutely hate their jobs. The other 63% are actively disengaged. Now, that is a lot of people who are just going through the motions. Maybe...
10 Powerful Benefits of Having an Amazing Vision to Achieve29 Aug 2015 | 6:01 amYes, it's always the long haul that gets us. The vision we set out to attain may have had us so fired up from the get-go, but somewhere along the way our hope tries to pack its bags. You know how fired up Christopher Columbus was, and that nothing could stop his determination no matter how crazy he looked. Even his own men aboard that ship started to doubt ever finding this new world and began to lose hope. However, Columbus was extremely passionate and knew that the new world was coming and that the only course of action was to press forward! Sure his men may have seen this as unrealistic, but yet he knew that nothing great was ever accomplished by a realistic person. He had an amazing vision, therefore...
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Some fame, too much coolness, and the kindness that makes everything okay.30 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amI was hanging out with a PFP (Powerful Famous Person). If you've been around any PFP's for a length of time you'll notice (and yes this is an overgeneralization but, not really), that almost everybody wants something from them. An endorsement, a connection, tickets, a job, a tweet, validation for existing. It's pretty gross, and completely understandable. (And it takes a good psychologist to help a PFP manage all that. Unless you actually grew up in show business as a PFP your whole life, in which case, therapy can't touch that.) So… I'm hanging with PFP. No wait, I need to give you more context. Quick behaviour profile on me in case we haven't met: I'm an introvert so I almost never insert...
Spiritual practice won't stop shitty things from happening to you. However…25 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amYoga isn't going to make you impervious to criticism — because criticism bites. Meditation doesn't make divorce less brutal — because divorce is rough no matter how it goes down. Green juice won't keep the creep at work away — creeps like to creep. And prayer will not make your illness less intense to deal with — physical burdens are…burdensome. For a lot of self-helpers, and juicers, and cosmic troopers who have been at it for a while there comes a pitfall — and you can trip into it on your first hot yoga class, or after ten years of regular meditation and fervent prayer. It goes like this: If I'm doing all this spiritual work, why does shit keep happening? Variations include, but...
Freedom worships inquiry #Truthbomb elaborations24 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amphoto credit: Heather Pennell …and by that I mean… If you want to live according to the pulse of your soul, to the depth of your desires — to be FULLY ALIVE THIS LIFETIME…then you must devote yourself to be a QUESTIONER. QUESTION EVERYTHING. Disrupt, reveal, ascertain, liberate your life force through inquiry. Especially question obvious, assumed and inherited rules, practice and beliefs — and the gurus and healers and authorities — don't spare them your questioning. It's for the highest cause: your freedom. Why these rules? Why am I feeling this way? WHAT am I feeling? Why did they do it that way? Why can't I? Why are we doing it this way? Where are we going? Where else has this been? Where...
There was a time when You lived to protect Me. (A poem attending to the oppression of women and the universal longing for communion. For starters.)22 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amphoto credit: Catherine Just There was a time when You lived to protect Me. You held the seed of my origins in the back of Your throat, You held My secrets whole, and sang of My magnificence everywhere. You carved My image into the hardest stone and softest wood, used Your tools to slay demons who dared to take from Me what I was not offering. Your desire for just a glimpse of Me set fire to enduring flames. When You wanted Me so reverently, so fully, I rose higher, engulfed, engulfing. We all rose — together. You impregnated Me with Your adoring reality. Flora, fauna, and galaxies were born of Us. There was nothing more right than Your rib to My iris Your land to My ocean Your black to my gold Our love...
Self care is a divine responsibility #Truthbomb elaborations17 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amphoto credit: @jillianschecher …and by that I mean…If you believe that you are a child of the universe, or a product of Love, and/or a global citizen, then it's common sense that you care well for yourself. In fact, you're honour bound to love yourself. And like, self care as a divine responsibility is more than a monthly pedicure or treating yourself to your favourite pint on Fridays (though both are fab'.) But let's think more highly of our cosmic selves. Self care is taking the time to recover. It's sabbaticals to clear your head and chart your course. It's leaving. It's investing. It's asking for more. It's being protective and tender and limitlessly compassionate with yourself. Treat yourself like the...
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Kala's Recommended Book of the Month – The Initiatory Path in Fairy Tales6 Sep 2015 | 1:23 pmMy recommended Book of the Month (September 2015) for my students in The Academy of Mystical Arts and Spiritual Sciences and for readers everywhere who have longed to better understand the origin and meaning of fairy tales is: The Initiatory Path in Fairy Tales: The Alchemical Secrets of Mother Goose by Bernard Roger � – I thoroughly enjoyed this book as it leads the reader down the rabbit hole unveiling the deeper meanings of ancient fairy tales. It reminded me of Campbell's Power of Myth as it reveals the expertly woven esoteric wisdom layered in these ancient stories. – Kala Ambrose Roger introduces these concepts early in the book, explaining: "The Tales of My Mother the Goose (mother law,...
How to Read Crystals, Gemstones and Seashells26 Jul 2015 | 12:51 pmHow To Read Seashells and Gemstones Join Kala Ambrose, award winning author, intuitive and wisdom teacher as she shares how to do Psychic Readings using Seashells, Crystals and Gemstones Are you a Psychic Reader who would like to Incorporate this type of Reading Technique into your Work? Reading Seashells and Gemstones is a form of Divination similar to Reading Runes, Tarot or Tea Leaves Crystals and gemstones have been used worldwide in magical rituals, energy work and for protection as their energy provides a powerful conduit upon both the earth plane and the spirit world. Some of the most famous examples of how these tools were used include: - Ancient Egyptian High Priests and...
Kala's Writing Tip #5: Avoiding Writer's Block12 Jul 2015 | 9:52 pmMost everyone who has tried to write on any regular basis has felt stuck at some point in a moment of frustration and then at times panic, when the words just simply won't come. The flow has stopped, the well is dry and your muse? She evidently took a sick day and hasn't called in to let you know. The worst thing you can do when experiencing this phenomena called "writer's block" is to try to force the words to come. Our natural instinct is to "push, push, push". To stay there hand with pen on paper or fingers on keyboard and do our best to force the words to appear. It's as if we are trying to prove the "mind over matter" process and through sheer will power, force the words from some dark recess of...
In Love, Light and Gratitude from Kala8 Jul 2015 | 10:19 amHello Dear Friends and Soul Family, Thank You. The love and support that you have all expressed to me since my husband passed away in March has been so generous and kind. I've gone through many tests and tribulations in this lifetime, but losing my dear, sweet, incredible husband, the love of my life, my best friend, my cheerleader, my support system, in such a sudden way, knocked me to my knees in a way that no other hurt ever has or ever will… I've read all of your notes, cards, emails, texts and social media comments and they have been a great comfort to me during this time. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and memories of my sweet husband, for being such a strong support system...
How Sacred Symbols Awaken Your Aura6 Jul 2015 | 7:31 pmOne day while out and about shopping, I happened across this gorgeous chest of drawers with the enchanting symbols carved into the front. When something speaks to me like this piece did, I know it has to come with me and be part of my tribe. When you have a reaction to a piece of furniture or jewelry or art that invokes a response of this type, you are connecting with the energy resonating from the symbol. In our aura fields, we retain this information from previous lifetimes, and it is part of our hard wired conditioning that certain symbols evoke these energetic patterns within us. For example, in my article about the Labyrinth, I mention how the spiral pattern opens our aura and chakras and allows us...
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Sep 27, Just for Fun Videos and Stuff27 Sep 2015 | 11:54 amThese 'Just for Fun' Videos and Stuff are fun things that I share in my monthly Wake Up Eager Newsletter. A New FUN VIDEO has been added...
Sep 27, Tough Conversations: Effective Performance Management Strategies Podcast27 Sep 2015 | 7:27 amIn Wake Up Eager Workforce Podcast Episode #16 I talk with Cobb EMC's Ron Younker about how to have tough conversations and about effective performance management strategies.
Sep 25, 3 Step Goal Setting Guidelines for Creating a Performance Dashboard25 Sep 2015 | 2:15 pmUse the Performance Dashboard, a 3-step goal setting guidelines process, to hire superior performers EVERY time and to improve employee performance for more motivation in the workplace. VIDEO.
Sep 23, Dale Jr. Interviews: Great Example for How to Build Trust By Being Real23 Sep 2015 | 6:27 amRacecar Driver #88 Dale Jr's interviews are inspiring and instructional. He demonstrates a key leadership skill about how to build trust. Can you be as real and authentic with your team?
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It's Never Over Till It's Over23 Sep 2015 | 6:43 amSeveral decades ago, Lenny Shulman and myself wrote a screenplay based on the life of New York Yankee baseball player Joe Pepitone. Stephen Scappa, Billy Cioffi and myself wrote a song, "It's Never Over Till It's Over" to accompany the screenplay. It's not a great song but I have great affection for it… and for New York Yankee catcher and icon Yogi Berra who coined the phrase "It's Never Over Till It's Over" along with other great expressions such as "Nobody goes there anymore. It's too crowded." And: "When you come to a fork in the road, take it." In honor of Yogi who passed away last night, here is the song...
Jane Sibbett – From "Friends" to "The Vagina Monolouges" to Inner Peace & Bliss19 Sep 2015 | 4:35 pmMy guest today is Jane Sibbett, perhaps best known as the 1st ex-wife of Ross on the award winning TV show "Friends." She is a writer, producer, and director as well as an actress and directed "The Vagina Monologues in Hawaii." Recently, she has done a major paradigm shift of raising her consciousness, connecting to Source Energy where miracles happen, and attaining Inner Peace and Bliss. The post Jane Sibbett – From "Friends" to "The Vagina Monolouges" to Inner Peace & Bliss appeared first on Walter E. Jacobson, M.D..
How To Avoid Miscommunication In Relationships19 Sep 2015 | 10:31 amBy learning how to effectively listen, reflect back what you think you heard, and get confirmation, misunderstandings are eliminated, fights don't happen, and relationships have a greater potential to thrive. The post How To Avoid Miscommunication In Relationships appeared first on Walter E. Jacobson, M.D..
Gayle Kirschenbaum – Filmmaker, Speaker, Forgiveness Expert13 Sep 2015 | 4:33 pmGayle Kirschenbaum is an Emmy® award-winning filmmaker, television producer and speaker. Called the "Nora Ephron of documentaries," with her trademark self-deprecating humor, Gayle has turned the camera on herself in her award-winning LOOK AT US NOW, MOTHER!, which has led her to a greater life purpose which is to share principles of forgiveness to help people recover from abusive, toxic relationships. The post Gayle Kirschenbaum – Filmmaker, Speaker, Forgiveness Expert appeared first on Walter E. Jacobson, M.D..
Interview with GABE BERMAN – Author, Blogger, Miracle Worker7 Sep 2015 | 5:51 amGabe Berman is the author of "Live Like A Fruit Fly – The Secret You Already Know." He is also a blogger/social commentator, a science fiction writer, a life guide and a miracle worker. The post Interview with GABE BERMAN – Author, Blogger, Miracle Worker appeared first on Walter E. Jacobson, M.D..
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Abundant Prosperity27 Sep 2015 | 8:31 amWe live in an age of unprecedented opportunity and extraordinary levels of abundance, and if you've got ambition, drive, and smarts, you can rise to the top of your chosen profession – regardless of where you started out. But with opportunity comes responsibility, and one of your most important responsibilities has to do with increasing the quality and quantity of your contributions. Allow me to explain why this is one of the savviest moves you can make, as this is a rule without any exceptions. THE POWER OF CONTRIBUTION Everything in life wishes to reward its contributor. In fact, every contribution you make turns you into a benefactor, allowing you to enjoy the fruits of your contributions. By giving to...
Take Pride in Your Work6 Sep 2015 | 11:50 amJoe DiMaggio of the New York Yankees is one of those special athletes that had a fierce pride about ALWAYS DOING HIS BEST. DiMaggio played his entire 13-year career for the New York Yankees, and is best known for his 56-game hitting streak (May 15 – July 16, 1941), a record that still stands…74 years later. He was also a three-time MVP winner and an All-Star in each of his 13 seasons. During his tenure with the Yankees, the club won ten American League pennants and nine World Series championships. Joe DiMaggio is the very personification of excellence and certainly proud of the quality and quantity of his labor. In celebration of Labor Day which honors the American labor movement and the unique...
Happiness Is a Choice…9 Aug 2015 | 5:40 pmHAPPINESS is an aphrodisiac; anyone who has experienced it will crave it again and again. Happiness is a choice; it's an emotion that can be found in any circumstance. Happiness is a natural state; it's best demonstrated by children. Happiness is everywhere; it presents itself in abundance throughout each day. Happiness is contagious; it's a gift we give to ourselves and spread to others. Happiness is inside of each of us; it's a spirit we liberate and find spiritually liberating. Those who live in, share, and spread happiness possess true wisdom. An essential part of your journey is the pursuit of happiness for you are accountable for all that you do, as well as for the pleasures that you fail to...
Become Brilliant on the Basics26 Jul 2015 | 6:31 pmFOOD IS AN ESSENTIAL ELEMENT that provides nourishment to the body, and allows specific functions to work at optimum levels. Without it, you've got 3 weeks. Water is a basic necessity, needed to maintain a healthy body, a clear mind, and a good balance. You can survive 3 days with its absence. Oxygen is one of the most important elements required to sustain life. Deprived of oxygen, you'll be finished in 3 minutes. Food, water and oxygen…these are the vital, indispensable ingredients needed to maintain life, and in this message you'll learn why becoming brilliant on the basics is an indispensable, mission critical asset for sustaining a long, prosperous life and career…so let's get after...
A Deformed and Ugly Beast12 Jul 2015 | 1:26 pmEXCELLENCE IS NOT ONLY A CHOICE—it's a form of currency. To be more precise, it's reputational currency that attracts people, opportunity and money into your life. Mediocrity is also a choice—not always made consciously—but still a choice. It's a self-inflicted wound which compromises quality, devalues potential, undermines credibility and reputation and repels people and opportunity. In every case, the results of mediocrity is a deformed and ugly beast as it personifies a bad attitude, poor quality, lazy work ethic, inferior thinking, compromised values, and sloppy execution. To drive this point home even further…mediocrity is the poorest choice among many alternatives, as it's a character...
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100 Things to do Before You Die28 Sep 2015 | 2:27 amLive life to the fullest, and focus on the positive. – Matt Cameron You're alive. It seems like an obvious fact, but one that we let slip away too often. It slips into boredom, into sadness, into regret. . . But you are alive. Right here, right now. And it's time to do something about it. Why not do something amazing? Something worth doing? Here are 100 Things to do Before You Die, but they are not ordinary things. They are ideas that will help you to truly live. They are ideas you can actually do. And they are things that will capture your heart and your mind to not only help you live the adventure of life, but help you live in a way that helps you feel like yours was a life well-lived. So take these...
Sunday Inspiration #1027 Sep 2015 | 4:01 amToday's Sunday Inspiration: You have the power to decide where you want to go in life. You get to choose your direction and you get to decide what's next. Even when change is painful, and growth catches you by surprise, deciding what's next for you is an opportunity to celebrate the life ahead and how you want to get there. Get more Sunday Inspiration: thebridgemaker.com/sundayinspiration The BridgeMaker Founder Alex Blackwell is the author of Letting Go: 25 True Stories of Peace, Hope and Surrender. Join the community to connect, share and inspire: Twitter | Facebook | More Posts
The Best Things about Fall23 Sep 2015 | 5:03 pmToday's Inspiration: Embracing personal change begins by a having the motivation to seek it. For me, it's autumn and the beautiful prompts the season gives to celebrate change and how it makes my life more peaceful and content. Here are some other amazing things about fall that make me happy, too: - cool, brisk air - pumpkins spice lattes - and pumpkin-flavored everything - bonfires - cuddling under blankets - Halloween - a full bowl of candy corn mixed with peanuts - candles - carving pumpkins - the smell of cinnamon - Sunday dinner simmering all day - apple cider - Thanksgiving - the best television shows return - football - comfortable sweaters Get more inspiring things:...
More Simple Prayers to Encourage You21 Sep 2015 | 3:17 amWhen you get to your wits end, you will find, God lives there. – Unknown A few years ago I wrote How to Release the Pain: 20 Inspiring Prayers. These prayers come from thoughts I discover while writing. They are usually one sentence long and give me a healthy way to process what's happening in my life. I then put these sentences into a separate journal. So, for me, these sentences become prayers I turn to on the days when I need to be encouraged. I hope these simple prayers encourage you, too. <ol> <li>A Simple Prayer Today Help me remember that my power is mine to give away, or to keep; so I will continue seeking the strength to hold on tight. </li> <li>A Simple Prayer Today Help me stay strong in the belief that the...</li></ol>
Sunday Inspiration #920 Sep 2015 | 12:15 amToday's Sunday Inspiration: The purpose of forgiveness isn't to let the person who harmed you off the hook, the purpose of forgiveness is to end the grief it has cost you. Don't just let go, forgive and truly surrender the feelings of anger and pain. This may seem difficult, almost impossible, until you attempt to do it. Get more Sunday Inspiration: thebridgemaker.com/sundayinspiration The BridgeMaker Founder Alex Blackwell is the author of Letting Go: 25 True Stories of Peace, Hope and Surrender. Join the community to connect, share and inspire: Twitter | Facebook | More Posts
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Strategies21 Sep 2015 | 5:52 amToday I'm featuring a guest post from Henry Kimsey-House, co-author of a new, must-read book for every leader, Co-Active Leadership. A few years ago, Karen and I went to a workshop down in Silicon Valley called "Slideology" put on by Duarte Creative Design. They have a simple and wonderful process for putting together a keynote presentation, or any other kind of presentation for that matter; it's a compact "analog" system using sticky notes and story boards and it works pretty well at capturing and synthesizing your main ideas and mapping out your points and the emotional impacts you want to have.I remember happily putting my post-its down in the boxes and building my story board up when it was...
Money: Do You Take It Too Seriously?25 Aug 2015 | 1:08 pmSteve Chandler's Wealth Warrior has had a more profound impact on my attitude about money than anything else I've ever read.I've now studied 7 of Steve's books. They're quick, easy reads because he uses a conversational style, and the chapters are short. But don't be deceived by this simplicity. The points he makes are profound and potentially life-changing.Steve tells stories about his own life that we can all relate to. He describes his flaws and perceived limitations so we can more easily recognize our own. He encourages us to challenge beliefs we cling to that have not served us – in fact, they've held us back.His goal is to boldly serve those who follow his work. That means Steve's...
Is Your Heart at Peace or at War with Others?13 Jul 2015 | 1:35 pmDo you have �an ongoing conflict with someone in your professional or personal life?If the tension and differences have been going on for a while, you've probably made a substantial list of things about that person you'd like to change. Maybe it's their attitude or their approach, or certain words and actions they use. If they would just start doing X or stop doing Y, then your life would be so much happier.What if there were something YOU could do that would dramatically improve the situation?A profound book, The Anatomy of Peace by The Arbinger Institute, has the potential for that kind of positive impact, if you're willing to look within, recognize your role in the conflict and change your...
Situational Leadership for Dummies22 Jun 2015 | 9:19 amToday I'm featuring a guest post by Henna Inam, a colleague whose outstanding new book, Wired for Authenticity,�is a must-read for leaders.This past Sunday I got to spend a few hours as a "dumb blonde." It taught me some great lessons about authentic leadership. As an executive coach, I often work with clients to expand their leadership behaviors. As leaders we often get stuck within a narrow range of leadership behaviors. This can derail us because different situations call for different leadership behaviors. You are naturally decisive and move fast but a business challenge you face requires you to slow down and build alignment. Or you are naturally good at collaborating with others but a business...
Are You a Time Warrior?12 May 2015 | 1:16 pm�"The best futures get created in the present moment."– Steve Chandler in Time WarriorI just finished reading the last "time management" book I'll ever need.Actually, referring to Time Warrior by Steve Chandler as that kind of book is a misnomer. Because it's so much more.Chandler nails the culprits that prevent us from getting the most from each day, such as:<ul><li>A need to please and be liked by others�</li><li>Self-doubts about our ability to get organized or accomplish our goals</li><li>Wrong-headed belief that procrastination is a permanent character defect</li><li>Lack of a strong purpose or mission</li><li>Failure to simply get started on the first step of a project</li></ul>The solutions Chandler outlines are simple yet brilliant, and...
Great Teams Share More Than A Destination29 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amThe following is a guest piece by author Sean Glaze.If you're like most team leaders, you go into your team's season or project or quarterly sales period with a goal.And if you're like most leaders, you find yourself frustrated at some point in that process because you struggle to get the buy-in or create the cohesiveness and commitment that would inspire your team to meet the goals that were set.Wearing the same uniform – or working in the same office – doesn't make your group a team.Goals are important – but setting a goal, like writing a book, is only part of the recipe. It's like making your favorite chocolate chip cookies. Flour is important – but you need more than just that.As a...
Learning To Focus On What Matters Most22 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amOne of the things that I enjoy about speaking at conferences and at various organizations is the opportunity to meet new people. In the case of the MHLC conference I spoke at last week, it was being able to meet up with friends I made from speaking at this conference for three consecutive years, as well as meeting colleagues in the leadership sphere who I had previously only connected with by email and on the phone.Being able to spend time with these good friends was certainly one of my personal highlights from this conference. But there was something else that I came away pondering about, and it wasn't my now infamous encounter with the drummer from ZZ Top (that's a story for another time).Looking back at...
Leaders, It's Time To Make Work Meaningful Again15 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amOver the past couple of months, I've had numerous conversations with leaders in both the private and public sector, discussing some of the key issues they face today and what they see as the main challenges they'll face going forward.In many of those conversations, a common theme inevitably surfaces – how do I get my employees to care more about the work we do? How do I create that environment where people are internally motivated to bring their discretionary efforts to the table?Naturally, such questions invariably lead to discussions of how can we make work more meaningful for our employees; of how do we help them make contributions that matter to them as much as it matters to our organization.It's a...
How To Be The Kind Of Leader Your Employees Need You To Be8 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amLast week, I had the pleasure of being invited to speak at the Management Grand Rounds held at Boston Children's Hospital. As with every speaking engagement I do, the part I look forward to the most is being able to meet with audience members to hear about their experiences and what insights they've gained from my talk.In the case of my talk at Boston Children's Hospital, it was wonderful to hear the level of interest among many of the leaders in the audience of how they could become better leaders for their employees. Seeing that drive and desire to not rest on their laurels but to embrace the challenges before them was energizing and inspiring.After getting a tour of their remarkable facilities, I decided...
Why Compassion Is Key To Succeeding At Leadership1 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amWith the arrival of September, many of us are returning to our regular routines now that our children are back in school and the period for taking summer vacation breaks has come to an end. For myself, this September also marks a special milestone in my writing career – specifically, it marks the one-year anniversary of the launch of my first leadership book, "Leadership Vertigo".Since the release of my first book last fall, I've been on an incredible journey speaking to organizations and audiences in Europe, the Middle East, Canada, and the US, sharing my insights on leadership and how leaders can encourage and support their employees to bring their full selves to the work they do.This journey of...
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Pre-Op Discussion19 Sep 2015 | 9:00 pmIn a pre-op discussion with my wife's surgeon, she turned her attention to my needs. Addressing how I would be kept informed, she said, "Of course, you will be in the waiting area worrying..." I immediately said, "I won't be doing that." She looked at me quizzically, and I said, "I won't do that to myself, to my wife or to you. I'll be sitting by the water, reading and believing for great outcomes. I refuse to worry. Call me when you have information." That was that! We have choices. Metaphorically, we can choose life, or we can choose death with every idea that crosses our minds. We expand, or we contract with what we believe in our thought life. We mentally give birth to good, or we lay it to rest in each...
Sweet & Sour8 Jul 2015 | 4:29 pm"Summertime, and the livin' is easy…" At least that's what the lyrics say. But tell me, how's your summer unfolding? If "the livin' is easy" for you, then perfect! But if you're like most people, then life is challenging at a time when the weather is hot, and the kids are out of school. I mean, for many, THAT is the challenge! As for me, the flavor of my life is consistently "Sweet & Sour". You know, kind of like Chinese food. At any given point, I can tell you the blessings AND the curses. The stock market looks like it has rapidly cycling mood swings, and the Supreme Court does too! Relax; it looks that way to liberals and conservatives, depending on the issue. Earthquakes and plagues and wars and heads...
Reality, really?3 Jun 2015 | 3:04 pmI think it's awesome that we can sit next to someone we've known forever, experience the very same thing, and then describe two completely different realities. What's really amazing is that we can then choose up sides, and try to decide with great passion who is right, and who is wrong. Reality is a slippery slope, and when I was pressed to define it long ago, I said, "Reality is what most people agree to at any given point in time." You know, like the earth used to be flat! Reality is only real in isolation, or by consensus. And when it comes to reality, consensus is very hard to achieve. As for me, I like my reality in isolation. I mean, I like my little world of positive illusion, and I respect your...
An Exquisite Exchange16 May 2015 | 5:58 amI think the best relationships are based on a principle of mutuality. Mutuality is an exchange of persons, which says, "I am yours, and you are mine". It says that if something bothers you, then it will bother me. Mutuality says I am open to your point of view, even if it takes me a while to understand. It takes a lifetime to perfect, but mutuality says that when you take a breath, my chest will rise. Mutuality says that whether you are near or far, I will live my life as if through your soul. Of course, this implies a natural desire to always know the other more deeply. In mutuality we never lose our sense of self, but our sense of the other is disciplined to always be greater. The measurement in mutuality...
Running Late, Doing Great!9 May 2015 | 5:49 amMy wife just might be one of the most positive people in the whole, wide world. She just rushed into my office to announce, "I'm running late, but I'm doing great!" How is THAT for evidence that life's challenges do not have to make us miserable? Come to think of it, her outlook is likely what enables her to be so consistently happy with me! Simple Encouragement and Simply Encouraging are Trademarks of Simple E Creations, Inc. Simply Encouraging� Stories & Narratives to Lighten Your Day, and Make Your Relationships Bright™!
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#rewind3 Oct 2015 | 4:17 amBoss Man – Charlie Rich
Chaos, panic, and disorder.. in the business world1 Oct 2015 | 2:50 pmCan you hear me now? Can the Ad Industry Beat the Black Market in Ad Fraud? Those who can, do. Those who can't, hold meetings About time Consumer trust in traditional advertising declines in UK, finds Nielsen research Google reveals new tools to help brands reach specific customers and push new apps Brands must be in pocket – or risk being out of it – when it comes to mobile The rise of brands as media owners is the big fear among publishers that hardly anybody is talking about The power of play: using mobile games to power up your marketing strategy Your Facebook profile picture could soon be a video instead Sir Martin Sorrell: Clients can't treat agencies as banks or insurers Adblock Plus turns to...
Vile Vile1 Oct 2015 | 8:22 amAn animation by Taylor Beldy. A big thanks at Nicco for bringing this to my attention
what we are reading1 Oct 2015 | 8:19 amHow to Raise Rabbits for Fun and Profit
Look Mum! I'm a vandal1 Oct 2015 | 8:15 amLife Is Beautiful new piece from Ruben Sanchez via streetartnews
Interruption Management
Temptation and Interruptions17 Sep 2015 | 11:29 amMore than 50 million American workers may be fooling around on the jobs most of their day. They use company time to play on the computer, search for new jobs, and communicate with friends. Apparently� having too many information and communication sources at one's fingertips is too great a temptation.Safeguard your work environment so that you can be at your best more of the time.
Filing Cabinet Control17 Sep 2015 | 11:26 amStudies show that 80% of the items in a typical file cabinet are never used again! That means you could pare down at least 50 percent of what you're retaining. You don't even need to go that far, however; try to pare down 20 percent.Why do you need to pare down? In a society that throws information at us at an ever-increasing rate, it's a given that more is coming. Condition your mind that this is so.
An Interruption-Free Bath Time8 Sep 2015 | 6:15 amDraw a hot bath. Use bubble bath, bath oils, or nothing at all, then close your eyes and relax. If you have to, lock the door and post a "disturb at your own risk" sign.
Distracted by Small Roles3 Sep 2015 | 6:37 amA leading man/woman takes leading roles:������ While climbing the corporate ladder, starting at the bottom might be good advice early in the game, but take on major responsibilities and plan major roles as soon as you can. The same thing occurs if you are building your own business. Stop thinking that little parts will lead to a starring role.
A Real Vacation?3 Sep 2015 | 6:35 amHow often do Americans check email or voice mail while on vacation: constantly 6%, regularly 28%, sometimes 34%, and never 32%. Source: Harris Interactive for Expedia
Scott Grossberg | Thinking Magically™
Looking for more purpose and passion? The Most Magical Secret Action Guide is here.1 Oct 2015 | 7:57 amMY NEW BOOK IS AVAILABLE NOW. The Most Magical Secret Action Guide is HERE >>>http://www.amazon.com/dp/0692536795 A 6-Session Action Guide for magical groups and individuals, this is the official study companion for The Most Magical Secret – 4 Weeks to an Ecstatic Life and is designed for use with the book. Armed with The Most Magical Secret and this Action Guide, you'll receive everything to finally understand what you want out of life, take personal action, and start enjoying yourself. These are some of the most exciting methods available for conceiving and materializing a brilliant life. This Action Guide contains new insights, fearless challenges, and great success strategies that will push you, prod...
Thinking Magically™ | Stop With The Guilt Already. You Just Don't Want To Change Enough.27 Sep 2015 | 8:00 am"Chronic remorse, as all the moralists are agreed, is a most undesirable sentiment. If you have behaved badly, repent, make what amends you can and address yourself to the task of behaving better next time. On no account brood over your wrongdoing. Rolling in the muck is not the best way of getting clean." – Aldous Huxley (Brave New World) I'm going to talk about something today that most of you won't want to admit happens to you because it's an uncomfortable truth. And I see it and hear it all the time. Here's the setting. Something challenging or bad or in conflict has occurred between two people. One of them says to the other, "I just feel guilty about [you fill in your favorite guilt...
Thinking Magically™ | If You're Not Worried About The High Concept Fueling Your Magic . . . You Should Be20 Sep 2015 | 8:00 amMost writers can't tell at the premise stage whether they've got a good story because they don't have the training to see the deep structural problems in the idea before writing it as a script. The extraordinary fact is 99% of writers fail at the premise. This is the great unknown gatekeeper that keeps most writers from being successful. If you screw up the premise, nothing you do later in the writing process will make any difference. The game's already over. – John Truby Hollywood-types like to talk about, push, and buy high concept movies and television. You might never have heard the term "high concept" before. But it's one that every Magician needs to know because it helps you to be more...
Thinking Magically™| Can You Be Happy Forever?13 Sep 2015 | 8:00 amI am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition. – Martha Washington Can you be happy forever? I think everyone's happy. We always do what brings us pleasure. Even avoiding pain is pleasurable so that, too, brings us happiness. On a certain level we're all happy all the time. But, I also know that we get bored after awhile and we eventually want more. So we delude ourselves into thinking we're unhappy. Here's what I know to be true. Most people, when you ask them, when you push them, actually believe themselves to be happy. They've...
Thinking Magically™ | 10 Overlooked Principles Everyone Should Use To Enjoy Their Magic6 Sep 2015 | 8:00 am"When you're touched by magic, nothing's ever quite the same again. What really makes me sad is all those people who never have the chance to know that touch. They're too busy, or they just don't hold with make-believe, so they shut the door without really knowing it was there to be opened in the first place." – Charles de Lint (What the Mouse Found and Other Stories) In this article, I'm addressing the real you. The rebel. The nonconformist. The habitually restless. With your great thinking and great dreaming and great doing comes great freedom. And with your great freedom comes the luxury of the great frustration you feel from time to time because you know how matters of this world could be...
Experience Optimism
New Year's Eve30 Sep 2015 | 4:31 pmIt's almost 6:30 p.m., official Optimist International time, on September 30, 2015 - our New Year's Eve. Clubs and Districts are still working overtime to be sure that they have completed all the paperwork and other requirements necessary to be declared an Honor Club.An Honor Club is the minimum requirements set by Optimist International to be sure that an Optimist Club is doing what it needs to do to sustain itself in the coming year and in the future. The requirments are very simple:<ul><li>Complete 3 service projects</li><li>Complete all financial obligations</li><li>Complete recognition of a community or club member as an Optimist of the Year or Friend of Youth</li><li>Complete the�President's Pride report</li><li>End the year with +1 or more...</li></ul>
What shall I do today? Join an Optimist Club23 Sep 2015 | 4:34 pmSeptember 30 marks the end of another Optimist International administrative year. In seven days, new officers take their places in clubs, districts and on the international stage.It can be difficult to to navigate the last couple weeks of an administration. Current officers are trying their best to end the year by leaving their charge better than they found it. Incoming officers are chomping at the bit to take on their new duties and share their leadership ideas.We'd do well to remember that we are all on one team. The only thing that changes from year-to-year is the name at the top of the letterhead. Our mission is the same as is our passion for serving our communities through the circle of an Optimist...
The Optimist Creed redux17 Sep 2015 | 11:20 amI always enjoy a new way to look at the Optimist Creed. It keeps my outlook positive and encourages me to do more in my community to improve the quality of life for those around me. Enjoy. Please visit http://www.experienceoptimism.org for more thoughts and stories about Optimism and Optimist Clubs.
Scouting alumnus forms new Optimist Club15 Sep 2015 | 12:53 pmOn Sunday, September 13, 2015, I had the honor of being a field representative for Optimist International. My mission: to organize the new Optimist Club of Gresham Scouters.I'm proud to say, "Mission accomplished!"Eighteen new Optimist Club members are now ready to serve their community. I venture to say there may as many as 25 or more by the end of Optimist International administrative year on September 30.The new Optimist Club of Gresham Scouters was conceived as a single purpose Optimist Club. It's purpose is to assist sponsor organizations, primarily the Optimist Club of Gresham, Oregon, with collaborative activities between the club and scouting programs. During the evening, we determined the club will...
See more, be more6 Sep 2015 | 10:28 amWhen I first joined an Optimist Club,� my mind was on two things: giving back to my community and increasing business� at my family owned and operated television and major appliance store, not necessarily in that order. I hadn't thought about being club president or rising up through district or international ranks. My motives were utilitarian. It wasn't that long after joining,� three years to be exact,� that I was tapped to be president.� I didn't hesitate; I was honored to be chosen and vowed to do my best. Doing my best, to me, meant finding out more about the umbrella organization with which� Optimist Clubs are affiliated. And with that in mind, I set off to attend my first district convention.Over the...
Taoist Reflections: Living in Balance13 Sep 2015 | 6:56 amThe following excerpt from the 9th Verse is as succinct as any verse of the Tao Te Ching can get, yet it is unsurprisingly power-packed with so many universal truths and perennial wisdom. If I had to describe it in one word, I think I would choose 'Balance', although 'Humility' would also be a valuable substitute. "To keep on filling is not as good as stopping Overfilled, the cupped hands drip, better to stop pouring. Sharpen a blade too much and its edge will soon be lost. Fill your house with jade and gold and it brings insecurity. Puff yourself with honour and pride and no one can save you from a fall. Retire when the work is done; this is the way of heaven. " � I was on a flight the other day and...
The Handy List of Nootropics & Smart Drugs for the Online Consumer19 Jun 2015 | 12:40 amInterest in Nootropics has grown exponentially over recent years within the health conscious communities and is still a trend moving upwards as I write this. Nootropics are essentially smart drugs that can be bought over the counter or online at retail prices below $50. The majority of Nootropics are cognitive enhancers, that is they are designed to effectively improve cognitive functions such as memory (short term and/or long term), learning, alertness, focus and attention. Other Nootropics aim at reducing mental stress and fatigue, relax the mind and body and enhance the mood throughout the day. Both cognitive enhancement and mood enhancement are two very important factors that can drastically improve...
Recycle, Recreate & Regenerate: 5 Simple Ideas to an Eco-friendlier Life4 Jun 2015 | 12:36 pmWhen it comes down to eco-friendly and conscious living I'm all in for it as I'm sure are most of you reading this article. It's not that I have fully immersed myself down that path yet or living off the land, off grid and in some eco-community. Not that I would mind but I think I am heading towards the right direction at my own pace. My journey right now is one of simple living, that is simplifying all aspects of my life and downsizing to my bare essentials – those things that are helpful to my purpose and journey. The rest is clutter and a distraction at best. So when it comes to adopting an eco-friendlier lifestyle, I like to approach this in the same way – from a simplified and practical angle....
The 7 Power Codes of the Heart3 Jun 2015 | 12:30 pmIn everyday language it is common to use the expression "at the heart of" or "the heart of the matter" indicating how the heart is considered to be of essence or of utmost importance. It's also interesting to note how the same significance is not attributed to the mind although important in its own right. So what language is reflecting is the implicit agreement among us that the heart comes, or at least ought to come, prior to anything else. Of course what we refer to as the heart, when not using the term literally or medically, is not the physical organ but a metaphor to the internal space, our seat of silent power, which allows positive human elements to arise: Love, intuition, compassion, courage, hope...
Why Simple Living is the Forgotten Key to Self Actualization28 May 2015 | 12:54 pmFor the past ten years I have been pretty much into personal development. Well, as a teenager I was already a bit interested in not-so-mainstream topics such as the power of the human mind, psychic phenomena and plenty of other metaphysical topics. It comes to no surprise that my peers thought I was a bit weird, you know how it is. So when I got hooked on to personal development topics later on in life, I was already primed for certain ideas and insights. It came easier for me to hop on from one book or one topic to another without needing a stretch of time to digest certain ideas. I got pretty sucked into it. I read heaps of books, started off my blog Soul Hiker and wrote a few hundred articles to share...
Council of Love
The Sacred Nature of Family3 Oct 2015 | 1:08 pmOn our Saturday Conference Call today, Universal Mother re-gifted us with her Blue Diamond along with more Clarity, Purity, and Read More The post The Sacred Nature of Family appeared first on Council of Love .
Albert Einstein: The Patterning of the Universe3 Oct 2015 | 7:31 am"All of the Universe is patterned on the Mother, the Father, and the One." An incredible channel by Linda of Albert Read More The post Albert Einstein: The Patterning of the Universe appeared first on Council of Love .
I Got It. This is It. by Steve Beckow3 Oct 2015 | 5:39 amI've understood Ascension all wrongly. I've assumed that, ascending, I will have gone elsewhere, to another world, to a higher-vibrational Read More The post I Got It. This is It. by Steve Beckow appeared first on Council of Love .
Everybody Leaves Me: An Introduction to Core Issues by Steve Beckow1 Oct 2015 | 6:04 amWhy are core issues so important? Well, imagine a small motorboat with a 2,000-pound anchor lowered into the water. It's Read More The post Everybody Leaves Me: An Introduction to Core Issues by Steve Beckow appeared first on Council of Love .
Is This You? by Kathleen30 Sep 2015 | 8:35 amAre you interested in becoming Nova being? Linda Dillon is hosting a webinar series all about the release and elimination Read More The post Is This You? by Kathleen appeared first on Council of Love .
Happiness / Good Life Articles from YES!
NYC's Credit Unions Give Mom-and-Pop Stores a Chance, Despite Gentrification2 Oct 2015 | 12:00 amThey're a lifeline to business owners. So why do these credit unions have trouble growing?
How Can We Be Happier? Experts Say Stop Worrying About Happiness in the First Place25 Sep 2015 | 12:00 amIn this video, The Atlantic asked a group of experts what we can do to be happier. Turns out our obsession with happiness might actually be hurting us.
Brazil Bans Corporate Donations in Politics (And Other News to Chew On)23 Sep 2015 | 12:00 amA California tribe fights bottled water; an Argentinian province dedicates 1 percent of civil service jobs to transgender workers; and Brazil's Supreme Court delivers a blow to corporate politics.
For These Borrowers and Lenders, Debt Is a Relationship Based on Love21 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amThere could be a different financial system, one where debt allows us to honor our freedom rather than our servitude.
Surgeon General's Prescription for Health: Walk More15 Sep 2015 | 12:00 amNew landmark report announces national campaign to encourage Americans to walk more, by making communities safer and more accessible.
Thin Difference
Debunking the Myth of Generational Gaps3 Oct 2015 | 12:30 amGuest Post by Daniel Weinzveg Are you as sick of these generational stereotypes we have been reading ad nausea over the past decade as I am? What more do we need to know about Boomers retiring, and not retiring? Are there really any other Millennial engagement or retention strategies to be discussed? Every time I read one of these articles crammed with stereotypes, my mind cannot help but think of the myriad of examples to the contrary. Being a student and practitioner of organization development in the 21st Century, I have no choice but to read these articles, books, blogs, and vlogs. The more generation-focused content I peruse, the more fallacies of generational thinking are exposed. What can we do to...
When Feedback Isn't a Gift30 Sep 2015 | 12:30 amI was sitting in a meeting one morning several weeks ago when the topic of feedback arose. I just sat quietly and listened. From all I have heard in my professional career to date, feedback is (and has been) a hot topic and a "breakfast of champions" according to Ken Blanchard. After a few minutes of conversation, somebody mentioned that not all feedback is a gift. The comment caught my attention, as it wasn't something I frequently hear when referring to feedback in a professional setting and I began to wonder, "When is feedback not a gift?" Fast forward. A few days later, I decided to give my friend a ring. For the sake of this blog, we'll call her Suzie. As an aside, Suzie and I have known...
How to Be a Leader Outside of the Office26 Sep 2015 | 1:45 amGuest Post by Scott Huntington Learning and exercising the principles of leadership can be a character-building, life-changing experience. Whether seeking to advance at work, start your own business, or carry out social change, a world of opportunities opens up to you the instant you successfully demonstrate to others you have the knowledge and skills to direct large groups of people toward a common goal. The workplace, however, isn't always the best place to exhibit leadership. If your role doesn't call for it, attempting to thrust yourself forward can be a dicey proposition that can lead to interpersonal conflict, encourage an unhealthy work-life balance, and even place your career at risk. Luckily,...
Trust: The Diverse Tales of Kickstarter and Volkswagen24 Sep 2015 | 4:51 amKickstarter and Volkswagen are very different companies. Last week, one company took a bold step into broadening trust and conscious capitalism, and the other sunk into vast dishonesty and lack of a moral core. Kickstarter is the first, and Volkswagen is the latter. Unfortunately, you will likely read more about Volkswagen, and the Kickstarter move may have gone unnoticed. Trust is vital in any business, and leaders in any organization need to be trustworthy in their actions and accountability. These two stories diverge – one questioning whether corporations ever learn anything about trust, and the other holding a bright light on how corporations can be more. Volkswagen and Distrust Let's dive into the...
Voter Wants to Find The Right Candidate for You22 Sep 2015 | 12:30 amWith the field of presidential hopefuls stretching far and wide, picking the right candidate feels like a daunting task. Sorting through the abundance of information about each one is time-consuming and intimidating. And can we even trust the barrage of sound bites? Like many successful apps in the marketplace, Voter was born out of a felt need. Hunter Scarborough found that working more than 12 hours a day at his marketing job didn't give him sufficient time to research when elections rolled around. He admits, "I was frustrated. I didn't want to vote on a sound bite from my uncle or a sound bite from a news anchor. So I was left with two options: either vote on things that I didn't feel super...
Later Bloomer
Why Are Some People Late Bloomers?28 Sep 2015 | 1:30 pmA good garden may have some weeds. ~Thomas Fuller Does another "30 under age 30" achievement list make you wonder if you're doing life wrong? Does a story about a grandma who ran her first marathon in her 80s make your day? If you're a "late-blooming" adult, like I am, you're not alone. We've got some exceptional company! I'm not talking about people who started early and kept going, like Picasso, Kurosawa, or Joyce Carol Oates. This blog celebrates people who don't discover their creative passion until their mid-30s or later, or who realize it young but can't pursue it until adulthood—Later Bloomers. In this installment, we tackle the hard stuff and examine how early setbacks and poverty might...
Grandma Moses: "Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be."7 Sep 2015 | 4:45 pm(September 7 marks the 155th anniversary of Grandma Moses's birth. I'm republishing this to celebrate!) Anna Mary Robertson was born before Lincoln took office. She died the year of JFK's inauguration. She started painting at age 78 and sent her early works, along with her raspberry jam, to the Cambridge county fair. The jam won a ribbon. No one noticed the paintings. But she persevered and painted thousands more, 25 after she turned 100. By then, some were worth $10,000. Now they go for a million. Until her 101st birthday, she painted every day. You might know her as Grandma Moses. Grandma Moses, Rainbow (1961) A Life From Lincoln to Kennedy Anna Mary Robertson (1860-1961), also known as Grandma Moses,...
Edgar Rice Burroughs: From Sharpening Pencils to Running a #Writing Empire1 Sep 2015 | 4:45 pmI have often been asked how I came to write. The best answer is that I needed the money. When I started I was 35 and had failed in every enterprise I had ever attempted. ~Edgar Rice Burroughs Edgar Rice Burroughs (1875-1950) wrote some of the most-beloved stories of our time—Tarzan of the Apes, The Land That Time Forgot and, of course, A Princess of Mars, which hit the big screen as John Carter. Yet the above quote is no exaggeration. Until A Princess of Mars, Burroughs seldom stuck to anything more than a year and often depended on his dad for bail outs. Major George Tyler Burroughs, Edgar's father, made a whiskey fortune in Chicago. After the distillery burned down, he founded the American Battery...
The Secret Life of Late Bloomer Sue Monk Kidd12 Aug 2015 | 6:30 pmEveryone needs a God who looks like them. ~August, The Secret Life of Bees. It's a book that could have failed, considering its thorny subjects—racism, child abuse, and maternal loss. Yet it sold more than six million copies and spent a hundred weeks on the New York Times best seller list. In 2008, it was adapted to the big screen with Queen Latifah and Dakota Fanning. The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd (b. 1948) was her fiction début, published at age 53. Sue's own surprising spiritual journey brought it into being. The Dissident Daughter Sue Monk Kidd lived one of those perfect, small town, southern childhoods (except for the swarm of bees in the walls of her 100-year-old house). She could walk...
What are the Advantages of Pursuing an Advanced Degree from mtech colleges in Mumbai?2 Oct 2015 | 2:51 amWhen you pursue higher education, you open up more doors in employment opportunities. If you already have a bachelorette degree in technology or engineering, pursuing a higher degree is always going to add more stars to your resume. So having an M.Tech degree under your belt opens up more doors, while also improving your value […] The post What are the Advantages of Pursuing an Advanced Degree from mtech colleges in Mumbai? appeared first on ModernLifeBlogs.
Tips On Reducing The Cost Of Running Your Business29 Sep 2015 | 9:45 pmRunning a business isn't a cheap adventure, but there are ways you can save money and make it more cost effective. Think of your business like you would your home. At home you probably know of many ways you can save here and there. Take that knowledge to work with you. Reduce Your Energy Usage […] The post Tips On Reducing The Cost Of Running Your Business appeared first on ModernLifeBlogs.
'Oil Pull' Your Way Towards A Healthier Smile29 Sep 2015 | 12:30 amThis article examines the benefits behind oil pulling and how to successfully do the pulling technique so that you can experience all the benefits it has to offer. If you are searching for a way to improve not only your oral hygiene and teeth whiteness but also your overall health, you are in luck. In […] The post 'Oil Pull' Your Way Towards A Healthier Smile appeared first on ModernLifeBlogs.
7 Foods to Cut Out of Your Diet for Optimal Health24 Sep 2015 | 12:45 pmAt the current time a health craze is sweeping the nation, and people want to learn how to eat better and get in their daily exercise. Part of eating right is knowing which foods to eliminate, and getting rid of these seven can help you to have a healthier existence. Sugar-Filled Cereals You probably already […] The post 7 Foods to Cut Out of Your Diet for Optimal Health appeared first on ModernLifeBlogs.
Want to Improve Your Brain Power? Try Out These Healthy Foods23 Sep 2015 | 3:05 amIn order to ensure proper functionality of entire body besides exercising you also have to improve your brain power. This can be done with introduction of healthy foods that stimulate your brain's function into your diet. Food is the fuel to entire body; it increases our energy levels, boosts our immunity, and improves overall health; […] The post Want to Improve Your Brain Power? Try Out These Healthy Foods appeared first on ModernLifeBlogs.
Personal Development Wisdom
Being punctual is one way I show my consideration for others2 Oct 2015 | 7:11 amThere are many ways to show consideration. The first thing a person does, at an appointed place, is arrive. I know that a first impression begins with me being on time. Whether I am going to work, meeting a friend, or attending a scheduled appointment, I believe in being punctual. It emphasizes that I respect […]
Accountability equals dependability2 Oct 2015 | 7:08 amEveryone makes mistakes. When I make a mistake, I own it. I learn from the error and am bettered by it. I accept accountability for my decisions and actions. Being responsible is a way of being and thinking for me. It empowers me, because I feel increased control over events in my life. I take […]
Affirmation for Practicing Simplicity6 Jul 2015 | 5:47 amI embrace simplicity. I scale down my expectations, focus on essentials, and clear away distractions. I avoid the stress that comes with perfectionism. Instead of being anxious about taking a dream vacation or finding my soul mate, I appreciate each experience and person I meet. I give thanks for their unique contribution to my life […]
Forgiveness Is My Sanctuary27 Apr 2015 | 7:46 amForgiveness makes my world a safer place. Letting go of resentments protects my physical and mental health. Pardoning others helps me to overcome self-pity. I learn to view myself as a survivor. I handle disappointments and carry on with my responsibilities. Resolving conflicts brings me peace. When my mind is at ease, I have more […]
Affirmation – Transforming Myself20 Jan 2014 | 5:41 amI change my life by transforming myself. When I want to change some aspect of my life, I determine what changes in myself can help bring it to fruition. All of the changes in my life are initiated from within. I am the change and I own it. I am free of worry regarding the […]
Color Your Life Happy » Blog
Be Willing to Do What It Takes to Reach Your Goal29 Sep 2015 | 9:52 pmNow this may sound too obvious even to mention, but it's true. Many years ago, when my kids watched Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, an American children's TV series that began in the 1960s, one of his popular songs was "You've Got to Do It." The gist of this seemingly simple song was that you can make believe, wish, or daydream about what you want, but for something to happen you've got to take action. In other words, after planning, visualizing, and setting goals, you still have to take action. Do you want to reach goals or make changes in your life? Are you willing to do what it takes? —John Addison When none of my friends were available I was willing to go alone. It's often fun to find...
What Happiness is Not [an excerpt from Color Your Life Happy, 2nd edition]25 Sep 2015 | 10:07 amHappiness is not the absence of sadness. Quite the contrary. Happy people acknowledge sadness and allow themselves to feel it. They choose to not be crushed by it, but instead learn from it and move beyond it. Happiness is not the situational emotional high you feel when you win the lottery or get a new car. These are short term. You probably don't get the same thrill from your new car a few months later as you did the day you drove it off the lot. One of the customers at my manicurist shop had an appointment just before mine every month. She was always cheerful and full of lively conversation. When I'd mention my upcoming vacations, she'd always offer tips on places to visit in the locale because...
It's Time to Get Your Happy On24 Sep 2015 | 1:28 pmEnjoy the trailer below, then pre-order your autographed copy of Color Your Life Happy at ColorYourLifeHappy.comSpecial price available ONLY until October 3rd. � � � � � � � The post It's Time to Get Your Happy On appeared first on Color Your Life Happy.
Three Things Happy People Do and You Can Too [Excerpt from Color Your Life Happy, 2nd Edition]22 Sep 2015 | 12:28 pmPeople who value their happiness commit to creating a loving environment. They do this by steering clear of toxic people and things. In this excerpt from Chapter 7 of Color Your Life Happy: Create Your Unique Path and Claim Your Joy, discover three ways you can do this too. Avoid letting toxic people bring you down Toxic people always make you feel unhappy, depressed, discouraged, and tired. They enjoy dumping their negative stories, adventures, complaints, and fault-finding on you. Once they do, you may notice that they seem relieved, maybe even relaxed and cheerful, but that's only because they've given you their poison. If you tried to comfort them, maybe they sucked up some of your positivity...
Smiling on Cue and the Key to Happiness [Excerpt from Color Your Life Happy, 2nd edition]14 Sep 2015 | 7:21 pmTaken outside our house in St. Louis, MO where the front room was my mother's beauty shop. We were raised to smile on cue, my two sisters and I. When my mother pulled out her Kodak Brownie camera and posed us in front of our house or church, we knew to break out into full-toothed smiles. Look happy. Snap. An outward show of unhappiness was not allowed. My sisters and I were just a few years apart. I was the oldest, Sonja was one year younger, and Mildred was one and a half years younger than Sonja. What, my mother asked, did we have to be unhappy about? After all, we didn't have polio, the most feared childhood ailment of the '50s, and we had clothes, shelter, and more food than the starving children in...
20+ Brilliant Examples of Impressive Color Schemes in web designs14 Sep 2015 | 3:17 amWhat's the most exciting feature of a website? The answer would be simple- its colors and how they are used. The way a website is presented forms a huge part of our user experience and the way a... This is a content summary only. Click on Title for more!
25+ Brilliant Examples of Environment friendly Logo Designs9 Sep 2015 | 1:19 pmCreating environment friendly products is not just a fashion statement now but a dire need for our existence on Mother Earth. Now we have become more focused than ever and have started acknowledging... This is a content summary only. Click on Title for more!
How Planning can Make Your Work More Productive (and Less Annoying)3 Sep 2015 | 3:05 amIn everyday life people can afford to live without a well thought out plan for their week, but this is not the case with professional life. Sometimes the difference between success and failure is... This is a content summary only. Click on Title for more!
maybe website design has expired?1 Sep 2015 | 2:26 ammaybe website design has expired? Characteristics of the e-commerce website, the change of user habits that website is no longer the center of the experience on the internet environment. With the... This is a content summary only. Click on Title for more!
Top 10 keys for magazine design31 Aug 2015 | 12:54 amTop 10 keys for magazine design Each field in the design world has its challenges and its own procedures, and magazine design is no exception. Along lava360.com across 10 tips to design your magazine... This is a content summary only. Click on Title for more!
Very Smart Girls (tm)
Intention Series: Intentions versus Affirmations27 Sep 2015 | 11:39 amAre intentions and affirmations the same? Can you feel a difference between "My intention is to joyfully drive to work" and "I am joyfully driving to work"? Wikipedia Definitions of Intention and Affirmation According to Wikipedia, intention is a mental state that represents a commitment to carrying out an action or actions in the future. Intention involves mental activities such as planning and forethought. An affirmation is a declaration that something is true. For an affirmation to be effective, it needs to be present tense, positive, personal and specific. Although this definition says intentions relate to the future, I experience intentions as being both in the present and the future. Like...
Happy 6th Birthday Very Smart Girls!27 Jul 2015 | 1:06 pmEnjoy the most popular Very Smart Girls Blog originally posted June 2010 – Open-Ended Questions Build Relationships. Did you do your homework? Did you complete your business plan? Did you get the job you wanted? Did you take out the trash? Do you sometimes feel that someone's question is really a statement, a request, a judgment, or a directive? What is an Open-Ended Question? Unlike closed-ended questions, open-ended questions require more than a one or two word response. Open-ended questions have an inviting quality and they encourage authentic responses and two-way communication in both personal and professional relationships. Open-ended questions typically start with "why", "how", or...
Slowing Down Time28 Jun 2015 | 9:40 amI recently went to New York City ("10 Inspirational Quotes about New York City") and noticed that I was just as busy as I am at home, however, there was enough time to get everything done with time to spare! It was as if time had slowed down even in the hustle and bustle of Manhattan When I travel, I slow down because everything is new and I need, and want, to be more present and aware of my surroundings. I need to take in new information, so I need to slow down and take it in. Time seems to slow down and I feel more peaceful. So how do you keep New York City new? "It is the childlike mind that finds the kingdom." Charles Fillmore (1854-1948) Pausing I believe my perception of time, and life,...
10 Inspirational Quotes about New York City31 May 2015 | 12:04 pmI just spent another heart-opening and inspirational week in New York City! Enjoy these quotes. "One can't paint New York as it is, but rather as it is felt." Georgia O'Keeffe (1887-1986) "It couldn't have happened anywhere but in little old New York." Henry O (1862-1910) "The true New Yorker secretly believes that people living anywhere else have to be, in some sense, kidding." John Updike (1932-2009) "New York is the biggest collection of villages in the world." Alistair Cooke (1908-2004) "It isn't like the rest of the country – it is like a nation itself – more tolerant than the rest in a curious way. Littleness gets swallowed up here. All the viciousness that makes other...
The New Two-Do List – Part Three30 Apr 2015 | 5:37 pmHow many of your To Do's are physical such as finishing a report at work, washing your car, or scheduling appointments? Is there something you want to think more about such as your personal financial plan? How do you want to feel while you are doing and thinking? The New Two DoSM List As shared in The New Two-Do List – Part Two, I decided to look at my To Do list as an opportunity to prioritize and to trust more. I decided to pick 1-3 goals To Do (Two-Do) each day, relax more, and trust that the rest would easily get done. Guess what happened? I was more comfortable with my To Do's (my top 1-3, and others), everything important was getting done, I trusted more (myself, others, the universe), and...
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One of the Best Questions You Can Ask14 Sep 2015 | 7:52 am� � I am learning…or perhaps I can say, I am remembering more all the time that provision is always present for me. What do I mean by that? � There are no lack of answers. No lack of what we need in any given moment. No lack of support or strength or wisdom or miracles! � I have encountered one thing after another lately where it seems as if a "problem" has occurred or a deficiency of some kind or even a small emergency. � This is my new strategy….as quickly as I can attune myself, I choose to be eager for how the Universe is going to provide for me. I ask, "Where is the Provision?" and I anticipate what is coming or what will avail itself. � It's a huge difference from choosing stress and...
Find Your North Star28 Aug 2015 | 4:19 pm� � � I don't know about you, but I am experiencing such a profound swirl of energies as of late, and it's vital that I align with my center regularly, throughout the day, and just anchor in. � What came to me as I sat down to write this to all of you was the phrase, "find your north star". � What does that mean to me, I ask? � It means to connect with what is solid, to remember what is true, and to allow this Light to guide and support me when things around feel dark or unsettled or unknown….or all three! � We are living in days where often planning ahead doesn't work out or where we must be ready to pivot at a moment's notice. The present moment is all there is. � My good friend says,...
What Path Are You Forging?4 Aug 2015 | 3:54 pm� � In this season of my life, I am particularly aware that I am in the role of Wayshower. � My own simple definition of this is: � One who shows the way for others to follow, leading by example in their own life, often "paving the way" and clearing the path by overcoming obstacles, and learning through challenges so that those who follow have the path laid out for them. � Currently I am forging a path in health and wealth….and doing that with a deep spiritual foundation at the core. It's definitely been challenging and it is keeping me on my toes so to speak…and yet the momentum of the call is swift and steady, and I know I am being taught by Divine Life itself. � I think that we are all...
Got Your Sea Legs?9 Jul 2015 | 6:21 am� � � As some of you know, we recently made a quick move out of our house in Texas and moved to Florida for the summer and possibly beyond. We are in the midst of a great Unfolding of epic proportions. � WE…you and I…are in this unfolding. No one is excluded. And boy is it ever epic. � Are you feeling it? � For me, it feels like tectonic plates shifting….not that I know how that literally feels, lol! � I was texting with a friend the other day who was asking how we were doing, and I found myself saying this: We are finding our sea legs on the sea of change. � Oh gosh yes! � The sea of life is full of rolls and billows and swells….and boy is it ever time to strap in up on deck. � And this is a good...
Game, Set, Match4 Jul 2015 | 10:29 am� � � Hey All, � Some of you know that we have moved to Florida for the summer…just arrived last Monday! It was a very quick pack-up and move out due to some house circumstances. We are all still resting up from the energy output of the move and transition. All is well and we are so enjoying the tropical environment! � We are avid tennis players and fans, and we keep Wimbledon broadcasting all day long these days. I am consistently inspired by these players who "leave it all on the court" each match. The concentration, the focus, and the love of the game is really fun to watch. These peeps have played non-stop tennis for years and years and they still get nervous, still have rough days, and are...
Finding Actual Happiness20 Sep 2015 | 6:47 amIt's been four years ago that I created my first post for Inspir3, "Happiness Starts with the Basics". Since that time, my perspective on happiness has changed a great deal. Instead of being the basics of happiness: Food, shelter, and having someone to care about, are the basics of good health. Pursuing a healthy lifestyle builds strength… Happiness requires strength. Happiness is something you decide to have. It's not something you find or plan, based on whether you get what you want out of life or not. What I've learned in these past four years is that happiness takes courage. It can be scary to be happy. What if something horrible happens to steal that happiness? That's the kicker, nothing...
You Are What You Think8 Sep 2015 | 2:21 amThere is no escaping the fact that the thoughts you think determine your quality of life. They rule over your emotions and cloud the inner wisdom that you really need to hear in order to become a true success in life. Please stop reading for a minute and consider how many otherwise beautiful moments in your life were ruined because your mind wouldn't let go of fear, worry, anxiety, guilt, or shame. Remember these two important facts: <ul> <li>It is not your fault! Most of your thoughts have been pre-programmed from the past.</li> <li>Everyone struggles with thinking problems at some point of time or another.</li> </ul> If you are prone to anxiety and worry, then you understand very well how easy it is to get lost in thoughts of...
The Art of Living28 Aug 2015 | 9:05 amRegardless of your belief system, or lack thereof, every one of us can agree that there is an art to living the kind of life that provides the ultimate inner peace and satisfaction. The problem is that we are all so busy intellectualizing what that means and looks like, in regard to living the best life, that we are missing the most simple, and perfect example. All you really need to do to live the best life is already encoded in the cells of your body. Consider this: <ul> <li>Every cell in your body works in complete surrender and selflessness for a higher purpose, which is the welfare of the whole body. There is no such thing as being selfish.</li> <li>Cells remain in communion with one another as they need to communicate...</li></ul>
3 Things You MUST Do for a Healthy Marriage30 May 2015 | 7:39 amEvery married person wants a happy marriage. So, why isn't that happening more often? The sad truth is that many marriages never really hit the ideal happy space, after the initial honeymoon period that is. When your marriage is struggling, the first and most important thing to consider is that "I just married the wrong person" is rarely true. Sure, there are occasions that a partner will realize their spouse has toxic behaviors that inhibit a happy, healthy marriage, such as being abusive or narcissistic. Generally, the fault is that two imperfect people have come together. Then they blame each other for imperfections instead of fixing their own. Think about the list of "blames" you have for your...
Navigating Dependencies for a Happy Marriage5 May 2015 | 4:14 amQuote about marriage (with permission): "It's such hard work. I resent having to always stop and think what my spouse is feeling or thinking. I totally get that whole "ball and chain theory." This is from a client who has been married for quite some time and obviously feeling restricted. As we talked, we explored how everyone who is married, has children, has a family, friends or a boss is bound to feel that way at times, and especially under certain situations and perspectives. Marriage is typically the relationship that brings these feelings out the most as it is the most intimate relationship. It's the playground to play out childhood issues, and the relationship most likely to be taken for...
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How To Lose Weight Even If You Are Working 12 Hours A Day Part 219 Sep 2015 | 6:54 amIf you have not read the first part of the series, please click here and refer to part 1.It is the time to get down to the numbers and start planning how to execute the strategy to achieve the goal of slimming back down to my desire weight.First of all let me list down the details.Height: 173cm Weight: 82.5kg BMI: 27.56 (Oh man. Obese)Problems I want to solve along the way– Eczema – Sinus – Chronic Fatigue – Bloating – High Cholesterol3 Books To ReadI wanted to gain some new knowledge with regards to health and fitness and I picked just 3 books to read. I do not want to be overwhelm by the vast amount of information that is online. I will work on the theories on these 3 books and test and change a long the...
Personal Experimentation: How To Lose Weight Even If You Are Working 12 hours A Day31 Aug 2015 | 10:47 amWe are working longer hours in our modern society and we would wear the badge of honour for hard work to stand out among our colleagues. In my sales role, it is common to work 12 hours work day. With a 12 hours work day, it is easy to start to lose track of the things that are important in my life.Gaining Weight Without FailureAfter 3 years of working in the corporate world, my weight ballooned from 72kg to 82.5kg. The gain of 10 kg is taking a toll on my overall physical health. I don't feel as energetic before and I find that it is much harder to stay focus and sharp on my work.I decided that enough is enough and I have been successful in some of my earlier experimentation of fruit diets that I lost 4kg...
The Miracle Morning Challenge20 Jul 2015 | 8:02 amThe most important part of the day is the morning. This is the part of the day that will allows you to spend time with yourself and do things that truly matters to you with minimal interruptions.I have recently read The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod and I think this is a wonderful book. The main points of the book is to ensure that we take control of our morning and ensure that we are able to get the important things done so that we can become a person that success is being attracted to us.Like what Jim Rohn mentioned"Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become."This is something that really rings a bell with me. Instead of madly chasing success, just become the person...
What Is The Key That Helps You Get The Results That You Want?8 Jul 2015 | 9:29 amThere are many factors that are essential to creating the results that you want. I found that one key success for me that allows me to create a 6 figure income is that I am able to do the boring things repeatedly while maintaining focus.Getting fit and slimming down involves eating healthy and exercising regularly. It can be summarised in a sentence however, this is a billion dollar industries that churns out new workout videos and fad diets that always call out to the consumers. But if you are able to do the fundamentals well which is eating smaller portion of meals with good quality food instead of junk food, and also exercise at least 1 hour for 5 days a week, naturally you will lose weight. The equation...
Journey Into Minimalism17 May 2015 | 7:57 amOver consumerism creates anxiety and bring stress to your life. Majority of us are subconsciously buying things that we don't need and we get things to impress people who don't care about us.I've decided to try a little experiment of throwing at least an item a day. The aim of this experiment is to bring awareness into my life about the things that I own and also to clear out the clutters.It has already been 12 days straight. I have not break my streak of throwing at least a single item a day. In fact, the likelihood of throwing more then a single item is very common and it occurs almost everyday.I am still in the midst of doing this experiment and I'm already starting to feel good about my space as...
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positively present picks: october 2, 20152 Oct 2015 | 5:23 am� "Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall." F. Scott Fitzgerald � A Manifesto for the Doer's : love this all-in attitude! Self Care is a Divine Responsibility : yes yes yes for self-love 12 Little Know Laws of Happiness : some of these are life-changing Fall Favorites : little doodles of things I love about autumn How to Love Your Work : ... even when you don't love your work 4 Ways to Embrace Autumn's Arrival : the most wonderful time of the year! Stop Others' Toxic Behavior from Poisoning You : learn to use your shield 100 Things to Do Before You Die : love this great round-up Little Wolf : awww, this painting of a baby wolf is so adorable When Someone Shows You Who They Are,...
the best self-love resources28 Sep 2015 | 5:23 am�� This post is part of Just Love Yourself Month, an exciting new addition to the Positively Present! This month of self-love is inspired by my new workbook,�Loving Your Self, which was designed to empower and inspire self-love. Learn more (and pick up your copy!)�here.� � It's the end of Just Love Yourself Month here at Positively Present, and all month long we've been talking about the best ways to embrace self-love. Loving yourself can be a really big challenge, no matter who you are, so I wanted to end the month with a round-up of resources to help you whenever you feel like you're struggling in the self-love department.� Curated from my own self-love journey and some serious self-love research, the...
positively present picks: september 25, 201525 Sep 2015 | 5:23 amSource � "Fall has always been my favorite season. The time when everything bursts with its last beauty, as if nature had been saving up all year for the grand finale." Lauren DeStefano � Autumn Obsession : in case you didn't know... I�love autumn! Book-Related Questions for Me? : visit my Ask the Author page and ask away 4�Recommendations from Positive Psychology : all 4 are so important DesignLoveFest Cell Phone Cases : these are all so pretty Loving Your Self : wow! this is my most popular workbook! thanks!Get your copy + increase your self love right here 6 Secrets to a Better Love Life : great positive tips in this article When We Hold onto Relationships that Hurt Us : and read this too 99 of the...
JLY month : 100 questions to discover yourself21 Sep 2015 | 5:23 amThis post is part of Just Love Yourself Month, an exciting new addition to the Positively Present! This month of self-love is inspired by my new workbook,�Loving Your Self, which was designed to empower and inspire self-love. Learn more (and pick up your copy!)�here. �This post is also part of the�2015 Word of the Month series, based on the monthly theme featured in the�Every Day Matters 2015 Diary�I designed for Watkins Publishing. In the planner, each month has a theme highlighted in the weekly illustrations, quotes, and activities. This month's theme is LEARN. (Order your 2016 Diary here!)� � If someone asked you, "Do you know who you are?" you'd probably quickly respond with, "Yes, of course I do!" We...
positively present picks: september 18, 201518 Sep 2015 | 5:23 amSource � "Love yourself so much that whensomeone treats you wrong, you recognize it." Rena Rose � Loving Your Self : wow! this is my most popular workbook! thanks!Get your copy + increase your self love right here How to Transform Self-Criticism into Self-Appreciation : yes yes yes 25 Quotes to Quiet the Negative Voice in Your Head : focus on the good Elizabeth Pawle : such beautiful + brightly colored art Love Yourself : a collection of self-love inspiration on Pinterest Do You Think with Your Head or Your Heart? : take this quiz + find out Best Version of Myself : a perfect little self-love sweatshirt 5 Secrets to a Happy Morning : start every day off on the right foot Embrace Love + Life with...
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Introvert Prefers a Sense of Ease to a Sense of Urgency: Making Space for Creativity, Connecting and Authenticity2 Oct 2015 | 1:00 pmHalf of the real problem of exhaustion comes from distraction. The problem is not being too tired. The problem is having a divided mind. — James L. Walpole, You're Not Too Tired to Create. You're Too Distracted. My mind has been divided lately. Creating and (softly) promoting the new website meant a lot of doing and […]
Space2live, Stillness and Introvert Understanding Now on Brendaknowles.com : Check Out the New Video!27 Sep 2015 | 6:47 amI've created, pondered and tested features and aspects of the new website, brendaknowles.com, over the last few months. When I wasn't busy being a mom, girlfriend and writer, I was wondering how to serve my space2live audience. Lately, I've been thinking about how to market and promote the new site and my personal coaching services. All of […]
Dear Sensitive Introvert: You Are Enough, You Are Lovable25 Sep 2015 | 1:10 pmPicture The Great Gatsby in the mountains. My man and I traveled to Montana for a spectacular weekend of lavish meals, sparkling socializing, serious hiking and serene fly-fishing. The first two days were mind-blowing. My brain buzzed joyfully and my body happily went along for the ride. By the third day my bright-eyedness started to wane. The constant presence of […]
Beyond Introversion: Are You a Highly Intuitive, Sensitive, Relationship-Focused Being?18 Sep 2015 | 1:00 pmDo you have a real and true interest in what it means to be human? Are you sensitive and highly relationship oriented? Is conflict especially painful for you? Do others describe you as empathic, inspiring, deep, self-aware, intuitive, reflective, creative, authentic or encouraging? Are you more comfortable being rather than doing? Do you strive, even […]
Space2live is evolving :) New (but the same) website coming soon!13 Sep 2015 | 5:30 amFor the past four years, I have shared my words, my feelings and my story on space2live. Along the way, I gathered people, inspiration, knowledge, wisdom, friends, confidence and a feeling of purpose. I used the safe, non-judgmental space to grow and get stronger. Now, I want to help others do the same. I have received many, […]
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5 Weird Ways to Sabotage Yourself (#5 Is Ironic)2 Oct 2015 | 1:00 pmDo you feel frustrated because you have ambition, but little to show for it? If so, you might be sabotaging yourself without even realizing it. Read ahead and I will reveal how self sabotage happens. Note: A version of this article originally appeared at Lifehack. 1. You get carried away with rewards. "Woo-hoo, I exercised today! I deserve a cookie." "I actually managed to save a few hundred dollars! Time to buy a new wardrobe." These quotes demonstrate a common form of self-sabotage, which is "treating yourself" with rewards in direct conflict with the value you hope to embody. A person who values their health wouldn't use exercise as an excuse to eat junk food. A person who wants to...
4 Power Poses for Self Esteem and Body Confidence1 Oct 2015 | 1:00 pmHi. Please watch the watch the video to learn how power poses can develop self esteem and body confidence (and then read the blog below for examples from pop culture to help you with application). Note: This article originally appeared at Pakwired. "When we think of nonverbals, we think of how we judge others, how they judge us, and what the outcomes are. We tend to forget, though, the other audience that's influenced by our nonverbals, and that's ourselves." — Amy Cuddy Amy Cuddy, social psychologist from Harvard Business School, conducted an experiment to determine how much posture affects confidence. She asked study participants to position their bodies in "high power" and "low...
9 Things to Remember When You're Having a Bad Day30 Sep 2015 | 1:00 pmEven the hardest days contain lessons that will help you be a better person. Feeling down? Here are nine things to remember on a bad day. Note: This article originally appeared at Lifehack. 1. No one promised life would be perfect. "If you look for perfection, you'll never be content." -Leo Tolstoy Don't condition your happiness on meeting every expectation you set for yourself. It is good to be ambitious, but you'll never be perfect. If you expect otherwise, your life will be rife with disappointments. 2. Success doesn't happen overnight. "Trees that are slow to grow bear the best fruit." -Molière Don't kid yourself into thinking success will come quickly. It isn't easy to be...
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What To Do When You Doubt Yourself In Your Business27 Sep 2015 | 12:12 amWhat if everyone thinks I'm a HUGE fraud and throws avocados at me in the street?Her blog is 5 trillion times more inventive than mine, why the fuck would anyone read mine?!What if they laugh hysterically at my sales page and post nasty ass comments?These thoughts creep into our minds when we're least expecting.What? You thought you were alone?This is me on a good day.Kidding.Fear and doubt are always going to affect us in our life and business. Yes, even when we're successful, even when we're adored and even when we're rich. As Elizabeth Gilbert says, fear is like a necessary companion. It's the reason you're still alive today. Instead of trying to push it away or conquer it, it should be treated with...
10 Ways to Clear Your Money Blocks Today10 Sep 2015 | 10:00 amI'm not a fan of long-winded processes.Like digging deep into your past to uncover some locked away memory that's been the sole thing holding you back from becoming an author, moving to Buenos Aires and meeting your Costa Rican soul mate.I think it's healthy to know where a limiting belief came from, but�when we talk about money blocks, most people think you need to dig deep into your past and re-live the events all over again. And only once you've done that,�then�you can start to work through your beliefs.And all I can say is, what an unnecessary shitty way to go about it!When you're baking a chocolate cake and you realize you have no eggs, you don't beat yourself up about it and think, "If only Timmy...
How to Juggle a 9-to-5 While Running Your Business6 Sep 2015 | 1:16 amJobs.Let's not pretend we worship the ground they stand on.They fill a need.Like a waterproof goose down jacket when you're snowboarding the Southern Alps.When we're in the first stages of building our business, 9 times out of 10 we're still going to be working in our jobs.The tricky part is juggling both of them when you're not making enough from your business to leave and are needing the income from your job to live and function on.This, if done right, can be really easy and in fact enjoyable!My part time job had hours that really suited me. It allowed me to work for two to three hours in the morning and two to three hours in the afternoon. I'd wake up early, get my morning routine done and then work on...
How We Manifested Our $2.1 Million Dollar Home27 Aug 2015 | 10:52 pmIn celebration of some incredible people manifesting some amazing things in The $100k Experiment (hint: 50 pounds, a $1200 trip to Fiji and a load of great money making opportunities!) I want to share with you how we manifested our $2.1 million dollar rental home earlier this year. Yes that's the view from our bedroom!It all began with the viewing on New Years Eve.Who views a house on New Years Eve you ask?No one.Except the people bonkers enough to do it.. AKA�us.We knew that January was a busy time for people looking for rentals, with new students starting their semesters and newcomers moving into the city wanting to give the 'big smoke' a try still drunk on the idea of new possibilities. But New Years Eve...
How Marie Forleo "Humiliated" Me23 Aug 2015 | 9:35 pmIt was the lowest point in my life.I was broke, jobless and living at home with my Mother.Scarcity had wriggled it's way into the depths of my subconscious and I could feel it's claws tightening it's grip.I didn't know what to do. I was helpless. I felt like less of a person because I had no purpose, no income, no connection to anyone, nothing. I was making mini droplets of income through my blog at the time - $20 here, $80 there - but even then it seemed like everyone around me had wrapped a scarcity bag around their heads too.There was one day I remember fondly where I needed a haircut - a simple $20 haircut - and I couldn't afford it.And something in me snapped.I was furious.Was this really all there was...
Prayer for pets and all God's creatures3 Oct 2015 | 6:26 pmOn October 4, Catholics observe the feast day of St. Francis of Assisi. In the Catholic Church and other denominations, it is traditional to bless animals and pets on or near that day. St. Francis of Assisi is the patron saint of animals and ecology. He advocated respect for all of God's creation, including the earth, centuries before "global warming" became a heated topic. No matter what faith beliefs you may hold, let us pray for all the animals — the ones who labor, curl up at our feet or run free in the wild — especially the ones who are sick, scared or injured. May we show respect to one another and all of God's creation. Prayer for Animals God Our Heavenly Father, you created the world...
Peace and dignity for all — International Day of Peace 201521 Sep 2015 | 1:27 pm�
Autumnal reflection19 Sep 2015 | 4:24 pmBrown and gold hues shimmered in the sunlight. The transformation and fading of the trees and plants are many times eclipsed by the beauty of the process. It is the time of the High Holy Days in Judaism. Although I follow another faith tradition, the ten-day period from Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur is still a time of reflection for me. Autumn seems a perfect backdrop for self-reflection and self-examination. The morning after Rosh Hashanah began, I awoke not satisfied with myself or my life. When did everything become a partially assembled jigsaw puzzle? Merely days earlier, it seemed I was so sure of everything. I needed a long look in the mirror, into my heart and into my soul. Periodically,...
9-11 and worldwide empathy10 Sep 2015 | 8:54 pm� I will not spend time focusing on the tragic events of Sept. 11, 2001. Instead, I will focus on the love and humanity displayed that day, and for days, weeks and months afterward. Americans came together. We forgot about our differences in color, class, gender, age, faith beliefs. We were just Americans. We were proud to be Americans. As the story of the tragic events began to unfold, we realized that people from around the world were part of that tragedy. Names and photos of people from the U.S. and countries around the world appeared on television. They all worked in the Twin Towers. They all were missing. America mourned and the world mourned with us. I felt worldwide empathy. It is time to visit that...
New Orleans–floods and Katrina29 Aug 2015 | 3:05 pmYears ago I worked in New Orleans and lived just west of the city in Jefferson Parish. I remember one week that had been particularly exhausting mentally. I really was glad to see Friday. After work on Friday my ritual was to stop at my neighborhood carry out for dinner and go home to eat and relax. Carry out food in New Orleans is rarely disappointing. I arrived home as it began to rain. There was no hurricane or tornado – just a lot of rain. Steadily it came down, for hours, never missing a beat. The jazz on the radio provided a soft backdrop to the rainy evening. The constant patter of the rain and the soft jazz combined to make me sleepy. Preparing for bed, I stopped suddenly when I heard the radio...
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10 Signs of Sustainable Happiness1 Oct 2015 | 6:00 pmIs your happiness sustainable? I'm not talking about that rush of pleasure we get when things turn out the way we hope and expect. I'm also not taking about the giddy experience we get laughing with friends or the thrill … Continue reading → You're reading 10 Signs of Sustainable Happiness an article written by Kathy Gottberg and originally posted on: SMART Living 365 If you enjoyed this article please be sure and subscribe to our home page feed: HERE and follow this site and Kathy on Facebook, and Twitter, and Google+!
Laughing With Buddha24 Sep 2015 | 7:00 pmI won't even pretend I know much about Buddhism, but I have always been drawn to the image of the Laughing Buddha. In fact, I've had a statue of him in my yard for over a decade. His smiling face … Continue reading → You're reading Laughing With Buddha an article written by Kathy Gottberg and originally posted on: SMART Living 365 If you enjoyed this article please be sure and subscribe to our home page feed: HERE and follow this site and Kathy on Facebook, and Twitter, and Google+!
Carl Jung And The Art Of Aging Well17 Sep 2015 | 6:30 pmThe late afternoon has always been my favorite time of day. So this weekend when I found a quote by Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist and founder of Analytical Psychology, it grabbed my attention. He said, "The afternoon of life is just … Continue reading → You're reading Carl Jung And The Art Of Aging Well an article written by Kathy Gottberg and originally posted on: SMART Living 365 If you enjoyed this article please be sure and subscribe to our home page feed: HERE and follow this site and Kathy on Facebook, and Twitter, and Google+!
Handpick Smart Groceries—A SMART Way To Cook A Meal?10 Sep 2015 | 6:00 pmLike most people who cook at home, I can get stuck in a rut. Even though I enjoy the process, it's too easy to stick with the handful of routine recipes that quickly come to mind. I also know that … Continue reading → You're reading Handpick Smart Groceries—A SMART Way To Cook A Meal? an article written by Kathy Gottberg and originally posted on: SMART Living 365 If you enjoyed this article please be sure and subscribe to our home page feed: HERE and follow this site and Kathy on Facebook, and Twitter, and Google+!
Wayne Dyer: The Passing of A Self-Help Master3 Sep 2015 | 12:00 pmEver since hearing of the passing of Dr. Wayne Dyer last Sunday I have mulled over ways to write about him that haven't already been said. The easy way would be to list my top 10 or 50 of his … Continue reading → You're reading Wayne Dyer: The Passing of A Self-Help Master an article written by Kathy Gottberg and originally posted on: SMART Living 365 If you enjoyed this article please be sure and subscribe to our home page feed: HERE and follow this site and Kathy on Facebook, and Twitter, and Google+!
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Motivational Quotes for Success This October1 Oct 2015 | 5:30 amThis is it, the stretch run to finish 2015 with strong momentum that will carry you into 2016. Today is your day, compete for it with these fiery motivational quotes from leaders & world-changers. � Stop talking. Start doing. "Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it's not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failure along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won't. It's whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere." – Barack Obama "There are so many ways to fail but only one way to succeed; NEVER GIVE UP!"...
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You Are the Common Denominator9 Sep 2015 | 6:10 amI recently took a Lyft ride to the airport. My driver was friendly and talkative. I'd hardly gotten my seat belt on before he started telling me about his life. Over the course of a 15-minute drive, albeit in a cheery way, he complained about his job, his previous job, his lack of financial security, his difficulty finding a non-crazy woman, unfriendly people, and to top it off, his mother. All with a smile on his face and while explaining several times that he was a "nice guy." I believe him. He did seem like a nice guy. A nice guy who was confused as to the root of his problems. Most of us have an area in our life where we feel stuck. It's like we keep falling into the same issues time after...
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How to Live Intentionally by Listing Your Life1 Oct 2015 | 9:14 amEveryone wants to live an intentional life—one that brings fulfillment and great rewards. The more intentional you live the more success you have…the more dreams are fulfilled and the more opportunities emerge. The key to living more intentional is scripting your life on paper. With so much activity vying for our attention, it's very important […] The post How to Live Intentionally by Listing Your Life appeared first on Stacia Pierce | Life Coach 2 Women.
Beauty & Branding Brunch Recap1 Oct 2015 | 6:00 amOur Beauty & Branding Brunch was a smashing success! We packed it out with creative entrepreneurs, and they were so excited to support each other and promote their own brands. Some of our amazingSuccess Mastery clients were in attendance, and it's so awesome to see them doing big things in their businesses! We also launched […] The post Beauty & Branding Brunch Recap appeared first on Stacia Pierce | Life Coach 2 Women.
How to Create a Brand Style Board Like a Pro24 Sep 2015 | 5:20 amA brand style board is a key element in successfully branding your company. It's a foundation on which you can build dynamic products and services that reflect your signature style and company's image. Before you start ordering new business cards, stationery and building a website, it is a good idea to consider what you want […] The post How to Create a Brand Style Board Like a Pro appeared first on Stacia Pierce | Life Coach 2 Women.
Interactive, Inspirational Business Coaching!16 Sep 2015 | 1:00 pmWhen you're running a business, or even trying to get one off the ground, it can be challenging. Any entrepreneur can tell you that feelings of loneliness, indecisiveness or being overwhelmed are common. It doesn't have to be this way, though! I'm thankful that I learned about the value and power of coaching early in […] The post Interactive, Inspirational Business Coaching! appeared first on Stacia Pierce | Life Coach 2 Women.
How to Help Your Favorite Self-Published Authors to Succeed9 Sep 2015 | 9:26 amSelf-publishing has never been more attainable and accessible than it is now. The connectedness of our world and wide range of distribution channels make it easier than ever before for authors to deliver their content directly to readers without the medium of a publishing house. I discovered the power of self-publishing many years ago when […] The post How to Help Your Favorite Self-Published Authors to Succeed appeared first on Stacia Pierce | Life Coach 2 Women.
7 Simple Ways To Become A Morning Person (Even If You're Not Right Now)29 Sep 2015 | 4:05 amDoes it drive you crazy when that annoying co-worker comes into the office way too chipper first thing in the morning? Do you require a coffee I.V. before beginning your morning routine? Do you want to throw conveniently placed household items at your dogs when they wake you up at the crack of dawn? If any of these scenarios sound familiar, it's likely because you just aren't a morning person. It's ok—there are plenty of us out there. There are a few tricks, though, to attempt to re-train your body into becoming a morning person. If these tricks don't work for you, no worries…this list can still train you into faking it! How To Be An Early Bird (When You're Really A Night Owl) 1. Drink a full...
There's No Such Thing As "Casual Sex." Here's Why28 Sep 2015 | 6:30 amDuring sex, energy gets transmitted to your partner affecting his or her well-being. Your energy fields overlap conveying both joy and despair, even during brief "hook-ups." From that perspective, there is no such thing as casual sex. To expand on this, Tantra is a potent Hindu system which teaches the art of erotic love by combining sex and spirit. Westerners often see sex as linear, the goal being orgasm, but Tantra views sexual love as a sacrament and an energy exchange. According to Tantra, orgasm isn't simply a physical release. Using specific positions, you move erotic energy upward from the genitals to nourish and purify your whole being. I've had a series of tantric sessions which have...
Be Courageous: 4 Ways To Live A Bold Life27 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amWhat do all heroes have in common? Two words: courageous mindset. The heroes we revere and the creative visionaries who change the world have a mindset that allows them to push beyond their fears. They have the courage to try, fail, and keep trying, realizing that failure is only feedback for the next step. Extraordinary people realize that limits are not static. Every time we push past a limit, we set a new one. You can see this in sports, in science, and in technology. What is a limit today is not a limit tomorrow. To push beyond the limits and be courageous yourself, consider these strategies of visionary creative thinkers. How To Be Brave 1. Embrace trial and error. To pursue success in a new business...
How To Create Indestructible Habits26 Sep 2015 | 7:00 amRemember back when you wanted to start that exercise program? Maybe you wanted to learn Italian, or start eating more vegetables, or write a book. You were so excited and determined when you began. "This time, I'm going to do it. This time I'm sticking to my guns, and I won't quit no matter what." Day one: you're totally gung ho and ready to take on the world. Day two: still feeling great and announcing your success to everyone. Day three: not so excited but still determined. Day four (or seven, or ten): you don't have time to do it today — but tomorrow for sure. Tomorrow: Why did I start this habit? I just don't have the time to do this anymore. Yep, everyone does it. We start with a bang and end with a...
6 Things All Champions Do22 Sep 2015 | 4:30 amHow did Tiger Woods win 15 major championships in golf? How did 42 to 1 underdog Buster Douglas knockout Mike Tyson in the 1990 boxing match that shocked the world? How does the President of the United States get through each day? How do great performers consistently do great things? While physical ability, intelligence and talent certainly play a role, the greatest tool of all champions is mental toughness. The best part is that mental toughness is the answer for anyone who wants to accomplish a goal and live a more fulfilling life…and it's free. The only prerequisite: knowing how to tap into it. Here are six mental toughness traits of all successful people. What All The Great Ones Do 1. Utilize...
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Take Your Life To The Next Level With These Useful Tips27 Sep 2015 | 11:09 am. . You may be at a point in your life where if you do not change a negative behavior, you will start to lose relationships that mean a lot to you. You may find yourself wondering where to begin in changing your habits. There are some fantastic suggestions in this article to help you begin. Want to know more about how to get her back for good review, then read the advices below now. Have a notebook or a smartphone app to jot down notes wherever you go. Carry paper with you everywhere. Write down your thoughts in detail, and be sure to put it into action. Are you having a difficult time meeting someone that you want to share your life with? Try using Internet dating sites to meet people. There have been...
Gain the Most from Your Meditation Experience20 Sep 2015 | 10:46 am. . For centuries meditation has been used for a variety of ailments. Meditation is a proven method that helps to alleviate headaches, cure insomnia, relieve stress and even aid in a person's effort to lose unwanted body fat and extra weight. If you are a beginner you may be wondering, "How do you meditate?" Although there are tons of articles and thousands of so called meditation experts and amateurs alike that have tried to define how to meditate properly there is truly no one way of how to meditate properly. There are, however, numerous ways to learn how to meditate successfully in your own unique way with several suggestions. Environment: In order to start meditating you will need to find an atmosphere...
I Can't Believe My Eyes!13 Sep 2015 | 9:44 am. . "I can't believe my eyes", people say… Well, they shouldn't either. Because you're eyes don't actually see. They're merely lenses that pass on information to the visual cortex in the brain. And only there do you see. So you actually see with your brain, not with your eyes. "I saw it with my own brain!" would be a better way to put it. After all, we decode the visible frequencies of light that our eyes pick up into 'physical reality'. Your eyes don't send images to your brain of 3D street scenes or whatever we think we see outside of us. They perceive frequencies and then send them to the brain in the form of electrical signals. And your brain decodes those signals into an...
Understanding NLP Meta Model11 Sep 2015 | 9:00 amThe first model the NLP founders created is the Metal model, which came about as a result of modeling the communication intervention styles of the successful psychiatrists Fritz Perls and Milton Erickson. This model allows the operator to extract and loosen the "encodings of reality" of the subjects. The map is not the territory and through language people unwittingly fall prey and see life, limited by the biases in their perceptions. Deletions, Distortions and Generalizations Communication is always imperfect and incomplete and only a tiny part of the experiences is actually communicated. To use the meta model is to bring back the missing information and thus changing the beliefs and meaning. Our...
Stop Begging! Start Manifesting6 Sep 2015 | 9:09 amDo you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY! But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like: – "It seems to work for other people, but I just can't get it right." – "I'm frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can't. What's the trick?" – "Why am I having so much trouble?" – "I think the universe is against me." – "I'm trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!" Don't worry, you're not alone. About 97% of...
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no show…2 Oct 2015 | 3:01 amthere's more to bob than just a pretty tail...SQUIRRELOSOPHY! also check out the main site...BOB THE SQUIRREL! OCTOBER is BOB THE SQUIRREL STUFF MONTH! Lots of Bob stuff coming out this month. Here is a rundown of what's coming to you: October 6, 2015: 2016 Bob the Squirrel 12 month Calendar October 13, 2015: Book Release: sketch: […] ↓ Read the rest of this entry... The post no show… appeared first on Squirrelosophy–Life by Bob the Squirrel.
attachment issues…30 Sep 2015 | 1:47 amthere's more to bob than just a pretty tail...SQUIRRELOSOPHY! also check out the main site...BOB THE SQUIRREL! — Lots of links: InstagramBob 365 digital download NOW AVAILABLE! Become a Patron of the Arts! The Bob the Squirrel PATREON page BOB on YouTube Bob the Squirrel Instagram! BOB THE SQUIRREL BOOKS NEW COLLECTIONS COMING SOON! The strip collection: […] ↓ Read the rest of this entry... The post attachment issues… appeared first on Squirrelosophy–Life by Bob the Squirrel.
political?28 Sep 2015 | 3:34 amthere's more to bob than just a pretty tail...SQUIRRELOSOPHY! also check out the main site...BOB THE SQUIRREL! — Lots of links: InstagramBob 365 digital download NOW AVAILABLE! Become a Patron of the Arts! The Bob the Squirrel PATREON page BOB on YouTube Bob the Squirrel Instagram! BOB THE SQUIRREL BOOKS NEW COLLECTIONS COMING SOON! The strip collection: […] ↓ Read the rest of this entry... The post political? appeared first on Squirrelosophy–Life by Bob the Squirrel.
bending…25 Sep 2015 | 3:49 amthere's more to bob than just a pretty tail...SQUIRRELOSOPHY! also check out the main site...BOB THE SQUIRREL! Doesn't matter how much prep stretching you do… this type of bending is always going to hurt something. — Lots of links: InstagramBob 365 digital download NOW AVAILABLE! Become a Patron of the Arts! The Bob the Squirrel PATREON page […] ↓ Read the rest of this entry... The post bending… appeared first on Squirrelosophy–Life by Bob the Squirrel.
WORLD CHANGING CARTOON!24 Sep 2015 | 12:00 pmthere's more to bob than just a pretty tail...SQUIRRELOSOPHY! also check out the main site...BOB THE SQUIRREL! The post WORLD CHANGING CARTOON! appeared first on Squirrelosophy–Life by Bob the Squirrel.
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Hello, Healthy Living1 Oct 2015 | 8:21 amI've been spending more and more time with the fitness apps on my phone recently. �For some reason, it's become fascinating to open my health app and see how many steps I've gone or how many stairs I've climbed in a day. �And, my Nike app tracks my route so I can see all the zigs and zags I've taken on my walks.It started about a year ago when I read somewhere that we should take a break every hour to stand for 10 minutes. �So, I set a timer on my phone and followed it pretty religiously. �Every time the chime toned, I would stand. Recently, I've read that it's now every 30 minutes that we should stand for 10 minutes. �After adjusting my timer to go off more frequently, I started watching the trends on my...
Weekend Of More Of Our Greatest Yet To Be27 Sep 2015 | 9:36 amThis weekend, we're taking a class on the Bhagavad Gita. �I'm excited to learn more and, after last weekends retreat, this feels like a double-dose of amazing spirituality. �Of course, we'll also very likely fit in a hike to get our dose of nature, haha. �Hope you have a good weekend and here are a few fun and inspirational links from around the web.....How to handle difficult relationshipsFinancial infidelity: 5 reasons to keep money separate in relationshipsDid you know confidence can actually increase your income?How to create a happiness habitMake love to the workThere was a time when You live to protect me9 struggles only introverts can relate toWaffling between indulgence and self-careLove thisAnd,...
Doing Nothing26 Sep 2015 | 8:20 amThe more I am on my spiritual path, the more I see that there is nothing for me to do. �And, I have the Universe's permission to do nothing. Really, at the heart of doing nothing is the faith that it is Spirit doing the 'doing'. �My work is to stay in the flow and spend time in prayer each day. �My work is to hold the vision of my dreams and desires and sit in expectancy of my good. �My work is the process of taking small steps driven by inspired action.It's been a journey to let go of needing to figure everything out myself, especially in a society where I'm told to set goals and prioritize lists. �But, it's been a journey, more and more, of peace. Knowing this is about allowing, what I'd really like to do...
Going Deep17 Sep 2015 | 8:59 amThis Thursday, Kevin and I are taking off for a 4-day spiritual retreat in the nearby Los Gatos mountains. �It's perfect timing because I have been hungering for time spent away from the chaos of work and home. �I almost feel as if I'm off on a quest to search for something more mystical, more spiritual and yet, more practical as far as living my life's purpose.I've had a taste of this quest in the past in the form of growth opportunities. �I look back at some of my challenges - losing a job, living in an apartment at age 48, having my car towed - and I see that they have all led me to this beautiful chapter in my life currently.I have a job I absolutely love. I live in a home I adore, filled with peace and...
Sunday Inspiration13 Sep 2015 | 11:36 amThere was a mention of getting out among the redwoods this Sunday as a way to be in the 'Now' so we're off to do some hiking. �What are you up to today? �Hope it lets you be in the 'Now', and here are some fun and inspirational links from around the web.....The gentle art of trying something & sucking at it7 ways happy couples deal with disagreements differentlyCheck out these strategies for reviving your relationship with your spouseGrudges aren't worth it6 ways to overcome obstaclesWhy celebrate success?Photo courtesy of Lee Coursey/Flickr
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You are a sinner and a saint16 Sep 2015 | 2:06 amYou are a sinner and a saint, You choose to be either, On each day, Your choice defines your day. Your day. Is it loaded with greed? Or is there an angel in your prayer? Then there are those days, When the sinner cripples the saint, Makes you believe that you are his slave, I […]
A big huge welcome to my daughters!20 Jul 2015 | 12:48 amI am very happy to share a great news with all of you! Almost three months back, we were lucky to be blessed with twin girls! I and Puneet are enjoying parenthood immensely. This poem is for you, Maheera (means full of energy) and Inaya (compassion/empathy): ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I raise you my dear daughters, with all […]
Broken pieces of life15 Jun 2015 | 3:29 amI don't look back in life, But at times those broken pieces of life, Shine like a mirror reflecting light, Blur my vision, And shout, We still exist, You can ignore us, But we will rise again and again, Till our presence shatters your future. ~~ I smile and say, Ghosts from my past, I am not fighting you, […]
Recognise your Inner Critic and how it Works12 Jun 2015 | 1:36 amOriginally posted on Dr Nicholas Jenner PsyD MA:"I am really driven, but my drive doesn't affect?the conversations I have in my head about life, and my worries and fears and insecurities." Zach Braff . The concept of an inner critic is well known?but most people have to deal with more than one manifestation. There…
THE DAY I DIED8 Jun 2015 | 1:08 amOriginally posted on hastywords:I don't believe in new beginnings. We can strive to put the past behind us and move forward one step at a time. We can try to put distance between those moments of trauma and try to live again but… pain doesn't die. Have you ever been told that you need…
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Finding it Challenging to Be in This World?29 Sep 2015 | 4:59 amSome people find it difficult to be in this world. Perhaps you feel deeply challenged by the issues facing humanity, the state of society and global issues. Perhaps you are highly sensitive/empathic, or perhaps you simply care deeply for the collective of human beings and our planet, and feel concerned or even helpless at times in the face of what seems like... Read More Continue reading Finding it Challenging to Be in This World? on Pinch Me Living with Bernadette Logue - Unleash Personally & Professionally
How to Avoid Drama & Springboard Forward23 Sep 2015 | 2:39 amHere is an insight about how the mind works, and how to use this to your advantage to stay clear of drama (your own or other people's drama). This approach will simultaneously help you to live a more peaceful, fulfilling and inspired life. If this topic interests you, then you might also enjoy the following... Read More Continue reading How to Avoid Drama & Springboard Forward on Pinch Me Living with Bernadette Logue - Unleash Personally & Professionally
120 Interactive Positive Affirmations for Thriving15 Sep 2015 | 1:26 amRewire your mind to a new paradigm, to see yourself and life with fresh eyes and inspired vision. This audio of interactive positive affirmations is designed for you to listen to each statement and then repeat it to yourself (out loud or within your mind). Shift your paradigm, unleash your life! If you are up for spring-boarding... Read More Continue reading 120 Interactive Positive Affirmations for Thriving on Pinch Me Living with Bernadette Logue - Unleash Personally & Professionally
A Tip for How to Stay Positive8 Sep 2015 | 4:09 amThis little analogy and tip will help you to stay on track with living from a positive mindset. Grab a pen and paper to participate, to apply this for your own unique situation. If this topic is of interest to you, you may also find these other resources helpful: 33 Happiness Boosters – Online On-Demand Workshop, Get... Read More Continue reading A Tip for How to Stay Positive on Pinch Me Living with Bernadette Logue - Unleash Personally & Professionally
The Simplest Way to Access Intuitive Guidance1 Sep 2015 | 6:14 amIf you want to access your own intuition, and tap into higher consciousness (allowing new wisdom to arrive into your awareness), tune into this audio for a simple practise. Integrated into your daily life with discipline and consistency, this approach will have a compounding effect on not only your level of "intuitiveness", but also your overall... Read More Continue reading The Simplest Way to Access Intuitive Guidance on Pinch Me Living with Bernadette Logue - Unleash Personally & Professionally
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❼ The Smart Idea that Will Move Nigeria Forward28 Sep 2015 | 9:00 amThis message is something that I would like to share with every Nigerian and anybody that cares to listen really. I hope you find it to be challenging and thought-provoking. Prefer to Read? Click Here Come October 1, we will be celebrating fifty five years of independence from the Brits. We're celebrating fifty five years of being able to claim that we are in charge of our own destiny. When I think about what this means, as a Nigerian, there's one thing thing in particular that comes to my as mind as boundlessly important. And that is the concept of unity. If you've been following me for a while, you know that my dad and I are pretty close and we talk politics quite a bit. The other day, during one of...
❼ 9 Positive Milestones in Nigerian History – with Dates28 Sep 2015 | 8:52 amI was excited when I first got the idea to make this list. However, my excitement quickly degenerated into amusement when I got stuck at #2. So before we get into this list, let me just thank the following people who contributed their great minds in order to make this blog post possible: Naija Chef, Modupe Onemola-Adewunmi, Mobola Thomas, Morenike Olaosebikan, Sore Taylor, and Fatima Gimba. THANK YOU. Now, on to the list. 9 Positive Milestones in Nigerian History October 1, 1960 – Nigeria releases itself from colonialism and begins the journey toward self-government and self-determination. Nollywood is the second largest film industry in the world, an internationally recognized body with its own...
❼ Meeting New Boys & Other Adventures in Germany (travel vlog)21 Sep 2015 | 6:10 amI met a boy in Germany. Tall, blonde, and very interesting. This vlog chronicles our adventures in Dusseldorf over the summer. Hope you enjoy! xo Helpful Links Free $25 Air bnb coupon: click here
❼ 10 Insightful Things I Learned this Week14 Sep 2015 | 6:00 am<ol> <li>I'd rather spend time with 1 person I love than "have fun" with 50 that I barely know</li> <li>Yogurt with fruit at the bottom tastes better without the fruit at the bottom</li> <li>I can never know God by will power alone. I can only know spiritual things by spiritual means</li> <li>It's a good habit to leave my phone in the car before I walk into church on Sundays</li> <li>My natural hair won't break and fall out if I change my style or "manipulate" it during the week</li> <li>It's scary to feel consistently happy over a long period of time</li> <li>Certain colors feel better to me than others</li> <li>I don't always have to understand why one thing feels better to me than another</li> <li>Lemon + honey + hotwater = heaven</li> <li>It feels really good to take long walks early in...</li></ol>
❼ How to Stop Worrying About What People Think of You7 Sep 2015 | 6:00 amThis blog post contains something that has essentially been a breakthrough in my life. And that is, the perfect answer to the question, "what would people think of me???". Enjoy! xo Prefer to Read? Click Here When I was working on my book Story Story, one of the things I really wanted to talk about was self-acceptance. And in the process of doing that, I wanted to be able to share my personal story about certain insecurities that I had about a very specific part of my body. This insecurity was so deep, that I actually considered cosmetic surgery to "fix" this part of my body. I hadn't really shared this with anybody and I felt very afraid of putting it in my book. I wondered what my friends would...
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Leave your past behind and set yourself free30 Sep 2015 | 3:21 amLeave your past behind and set yourself free Everyone has a past. You've experienced exciting moments and wonderful memories that you'll keep with you forever. Yet, you've also likely been through situations that were challenging and full of heartache. If aspects of your past were particularly daunting, which is quite common, you may feel guilty about some of the things that you have […] Coaching Positive Performance - Eliminate Stress; Maximise Performance
10 Successful time management habits you can implement23 Sep 2015 | 4:04 am10 Successful time management habits you can implement There are successful time management habits and there are unsuccessful time management habits. Some time management habits are successful for some people but just don't work for others. Habit is an important word in time management. It is estimated that up to 90% of our daily activities are habits e.g. the time we get up […] Coaching Positive Performance - Eliminate Stress; Maximise Performance
How being responsible can change your life21 Sep 2015 | 7:46 amHow being responsible can change your life Being responsible means that you contributed to an event occurring, either by your actions or your failure to take action. Of course this could be a good or a bad thing depending upon the circumstances. If you have contributed to something positive happening, you may not struggle to take responsibility for your role; although some […] Coaching Positive Performance - Eliminate Stress; Maximise Performance
You are a mobile worker and you must be prepared24 Aug 2015 | 1:15 pmYou are a mobile worker and you must be prepared For my parents' generation, work was very clear. You travelled to a particular place e.g. a factory, and you performed a set routine i.e. your job for a set number of hours. You were expected to produce a certain amount of whatever it is that you produced. Back then, individuals did not have to think about […] Coaching Positive Performance - Eliminate Stress; Maximise Performance
7 Easy ways to start thinking positively and change your life19 Aug 2015 | 3:42 pm7 Easy ways to start thinking positively and change your life When we try to change our lives for the better; we almost always focus on our behaviours. We think that if we change what we are doing and choose a more positive behaviour, we will see better results. In essence, this is true but it really simplifies the issue. Too often, we ignore our thoughts […] Coaching Positive Performance - Eliminate Stress; Maximise Performance
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You Are an Untapped Resource3 Oct 2015 | 8:50 pmWhat lies within you, could literally change the world. Last weekend I was shooting a promotional video with the National Speakers Association Las Vegas Chapter when I said something I've thought before but never had the opportunity to say on a proper stage. Every resource we need is already on the planet and if every single one of us was living consciously and up to our highest potential, we would have already cured diseases and figured out how to feed the hungry and each person alive would have sufficient clean water to drink. The world that I am day dreaming of is a world where people don't die by murder, which takes the form of self murder, also known as suicide or murder of another. A world where...
Can We Really Change?25 Sep 2015 | 2:33 pmTransforming the unwanted patterns of your life may require some elbow grease. I was observing some individuals that I am associated with, many of whom indicated at some point in the last year that they would be losing weight and very few if any had achieved their desired change. Looking inward at the space of some relationship struggles that are patterns for me I observed that my desired change of deeply connected relationships has not been created after 5 years of therapy and several years of working with coaches. The question popped into my mind, does it ever change? Are we fooling ourselves, those who seek to create better lives from broken ones? I have discovered in the space of my own life recovery...
The Best Students16 Sep 2015 | 8:41 pmThe hardest experiences of our lives are often our greatest teachers. I was sitting on my bed one day when I, in a frustrated state, asked a series of questions to any higher power that might have been listening, yes you could say I was talking to the air… "Why is this so hard? Why does life seem so much easier for individuals who already have it a lot easier than me? Why the additional struggle on top of everything else? I am tired." Without one single skip of a beat I heard my answer whispered in my ear…"The Best Students Get The Hardest Tests." Sitting there, still peeved and slightly depressed at my circumstances I wasn't as receptive to that answer as I was when I first heard those words quoted by...
Spiritual and Boring are NOT Synonymous9 Sep 2015 | 8:25 pmSpiritual People Do Not HAVE to Be Boring, Boring Is A Choice. I scheduled a birthday dinner for myself a couple of weeks ago in an effort to take the bull by the horns in celebrating my own life. I've spent one too many birthdays waiting for someone else to celebrate my life only to be disappointed and this year the celebration belonged to me. As I decided on where to schedule my dinner the one place that stood out was a place called Dick's Last Resort! I considered a few other places but none brought the grin to my face that Dick's did…so Dick's it was. I created my birthday event with a little bit of hesitancy. It crossed my mind…maybe this place is a bit too much. I thought about my budding coaching...
Don't Die With Your Music Still In You2 Sep 2015 | 10:25 amThe Gifts of Wayne Dyer. When I first saw the news that the beloved Dr. Wayne Dyer had passed I shut down everything I was doing. I sat in silence unsure of where the information would cause me to land. "More time, more time, we needed more time with him." I thought as I sat on the verge of tears. I reflected on all he's brought to my life and to the world. The amazing space holder that he was and it crossed my mind to jump over to Hay House to see what his calendar looked like. His planned speaking tour extended all the way out until October 2016 on the day he died. Then I remembered him, who he was and that he was more than alright with his current condition. He had not died with his music still in...
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How to Get Real Results with Meditation21 Sep 2015 | 5:40 pmHow to Get Real Results with Meditation A simple tip to keep in mind… Sometimes it can be easy to overcomplicate meditation. This especially happens as a beginner to the practice (at least it sure did with me). When I first started meditating, I didn't really even know what it meant to meditate. I was looking for profound experiences, visions, certain sensations or feelings, etc. And for a long time I wasn't sure if I was doing it right, or making any progress. The thing to remember most about meditation is that it is the key to just about everything you'd ever want to create for yourself in your life, whether it's: <ul> <li>Increased spiritual awareness</li> <li>Enhanced intuitive and mystical abilities</li> <li>Greater...</li></ul>
8 Tips for Healing Intense Grief and Loss24 Aug 2015 | 7:19 pm8 Tips for Healing Intense Grief and Loss � Grief and loss are something that we all face in life, regardless of who we are and how we live our lives. If there's one thing that we can all count on it's that each of us will go through the grieving process more than a few times in our life, and each of us will face the pain of loss of the people and/or things that we care deeply for. This is simply the nature of our human condition. It may be easy for some to reconcile this type of pain when we are not going through it. But it can be incredibly difficult to reconcile this sometimes intense and overwhelming experience while we are in the midst of it. On the positive side of the coin, grief, when...
Truth and Lies of Brainwave Entrainment Revealed- What to Know Before Buying13 Aug 2015 | 9:05 pmThere are many claims being made about brainwave entrainment products. Some of which are quite true and scientifically verifiable, and some of them border along the lines of dishonesty. With the type of product we are looking at here, there is much gray area that is left open to be manipulated and taken advantage of. For example, yes, we can prove that brainwave entrainment actually does guide the brain into targeted brainwave states. This much has been shown time and time again with EEG data. It is also proven through certain experiments to get certain results, like increasing IQ, improving test scores for students, and increasing the production of certain beneficial hormones and endorphins. But...
Brainwave Entrainment and Law of Attraction11 Aug 2015 | 5:52 pmA lot of people have been asking for more specifics on how brainwave entrainment and the law of attraction work together. I hope that this video gives some insight into why this technology is so helpful in this endeavor. Enjoy! � Remember to check out our brainwave entrainment audios and packages that we carry! I assure you that these are of some of the highest quality and efficacy that you find anywhere. If you are REALLY looking to increase self-awareness and master life and LOA, make sure to check out our premium 7-month brainwave meditation program, The Missing Link. The post Brainwave Entrainment and Law of Attraction appeared first on Brainwave Love.
6 Law of Attraction Hacks That Will Change Your Life Forever26 Jul 2015 | 3:10 pmUsing the law of attraction is much less about learning how to do a certain thing very well, and is more about the little things you do from moment to moment. It is not so much a practice or a technique, but much more of a lifestyle. When you look at it from this perspective, it becomes apparent that it requires a certain amount of dedication, focus, and commitment to really master it, but it is a mastery that comes with unlimited rewards. It is the ultimate reward really: the ability to have the life you want to live. What better reason to master this practice? It does require a certain kind of vigilance; a vigilance of the mind, and a discipline from moment to moment, second to second. Remember,...
Serene Reflection
How Are You Affecting Others? – 16 Things You May Want To Stop Doing1 Oct 2015 | 4:25 am'Tools For Empaths' is the most highly viewed and shared post on my blog. It seems that many of us(myself included) often feel that we are at the effect of other's energies. However, nothing is a constant and nobody is one thing all the time. It is only fair to examine the other side of the coin and see if we may be impacting another in a less than positive manner. For better or worse, our interactions shape each other. Energies(much like water trying to find its own level) tend to move in a way that achieves resonance and balance. When these shifts move us to a higher vibe, we describe it as harmony and flow. If we find ourselves moving to a more agitated state, the experience is unwelcome and...
Who Do You Become In Your Closest Relationships?13 Sep 2015 | 12:08 am"I love you, Not only for what you are, But for what I am When I am with you." Roy Croft's incredibly beautiful and profound poem goes on to describe one of the most loving and honest ways of relating that one can imagine. Love in itself requires no particular guidelines or conditions to exist. But relationships are a different matter. They involve a mutual give and take that honours both person's needs and boundaries while encouraging each one to blossom in the shelter of togetherness. No easy feat this. No wonder we often find ourselves struggling in our closest relationships. We tend to make a handful of relationships 'special', with the mistaken belief that this particular person is...
5th Blog Anniversary – List of Select Posts5 Sep 2015 | 12:58 amToday is the fifth anniversary of this blog, which I started writing on Sameer's 6th death anniversary. In my first post, "Light House", describing a mysterious happening after his passing, I wrote: "Death is an unarguable inevitability. And there will be questions and emotions when a loved one moves on. However, those who stay behind – can celebrate the life lived. Through greater love, deeper understanding in their own lives." In light of that start, today, I look back with satisfaction on the 147 posts thus far. Each one sharing a little bit of myself and what I have learned. In the hope that it will be of some help to someone else. And I dare say, the articles have lived up to this...
Don't Let The Language Barrier Keep You Home.31 Aug 2015 | 2:59 amI was seated at an old wooden table, in one of the proverbial, European open, road-side cafes. The evening was now dark, chilly and breezy, with persistent, musical sounding rain. Equipped with only a light jacket, I was happy for this warm, sheltered space. My apartment was at least a thirty-minute walk across the windy Novy Most bridge, in the newer part of town. With the rich, red Slovakian wine and the homely pasta plate before me, I had no complaints. The smiling waitress had been kind enough to bring an English menu and a napkin that said, "Ladies, Rio loves you." Back home, this old town restaurant's slogan would have seemed discomfiting. Here, it felt like a thoughtful welcome for the solo...
Playing The Game of Life30 Aug 2015 | 1:11 amCreating an oasis of inner peace can be hard work. Actively interacting with a chaotic outer world often threatens to undo all that has been accomplished. Consequently, we may begin to minimize engagement with our environment. As a conscious, unafraid preference, this is unremarkable. However, if it arises from a fear-based avoidance, sense of inability, and or unwillingness to face difficult situations or conversations, this option will provide us little relief or growth – because our perceived provocations are but our own projections. Whether we retreat to the Himalayas or remain here as men and women of the world, we will very likely encounter exactly the same demons. After all, they live within...
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How Yoga Helps the Body, Mind, and Spirit25 Sep 2015 | 4:31 amMany people begin a yoga practice to improve their physical health only to find, after time, that their lives have been enriched in many other ways. Yoga practitioners often report that in addition to improved flexibility, strength and balance, they are better able to handle the stresses and challenges that life offers through a stronger sense of self. As an art and science that has developed over thousands of years, yoga has much to offer the body, mind and soul.The physical benefits of yoga derive from poses, or asanas, that are practiced in a variety of sequences depending upon the style of yoga you have selected. Yoga differs from other exercise in that the poses and movements are practiced with focus...
Wisdom from Wayne Dyer 1940 - 201524 Sep 2015 | 8:29 amSpiritual teacher and author Wayne Dyer's recent passing has received minimal attention in the mainstream news, despite his authoring dozens of powerful books and making 37 Tonight Show appearances. Here are some of Dr. Dyer's most powerful teachings:You Can Transcend Your Erroneous ZonesWayne Dyer taught that any thought pattern or "meme" we have that keeps us from happiness, success and fulfillment can be transcended. These patterns are often formed as a result of past experiences; however, they can be healed through self-awareness, affirmations and intention.Forgive RelentlesslyWayne Dyer attributes the act of forgiving his father – an abusive man who had abandoned the family – with being...
4 Practices to Develop the Heart23 Sep 2015 | 8:30 amEven small changes in our actions and perceptions can greatly enhance our spiritual growth. Here are 4 ways to deepen and develop your love for yourself, for others and for the world, to become the person you most want to be:1. Acceptance"Nothing brings down walls as surely as acceptance." (Deepak Chopra)When we learn to accept ourselves as we are, we can begin to accept others without prejudice. The idea of acceptance starts from within, and can help us grow past viewing one another (and ourselves) in terms of gender, race, religion, and sexuality, realizing that underneath everything else, we are all humans.2. Compassion"No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." (Aesop)Our personal...
Luminaries from A-Z22 Sep 2015 | 5:37 am�We use the word "luminary" (from Latin "lumen-" meaning "light") to refer to men and women who have brightened our world in some special way.Here's a list of people, from A-Z, who have inspired us through art, literature, philosophy, spirituality, travel and more, encouraging us to become luminous ourselves. Amelia Earhart (1897-1939)First aviatrix (female pilot) to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean.Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)"Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing."Christopher Columbus (1451-1506)Navigator and history-maker who remains the ultimate inspiration for all explorers.Dalai Lama (1935)"Love and...
Positive Psychology: the 5 Key Elements of a Happy Life18 Sep 2015 | 7:19 amOver the past fifteen years, a new, forward-thinking branch of psychology has emerged. In a radical break with traditional psychology, it has chosen to focus not on problems and how to "fix" them, but instead on what makes us happy and how we can bring more happiness into our lives. It's called positive psychology, and you can put it to work in your life.The five elements of happinessPositive psychology says there are five key elements necessary to a happy, satisfied life. We need them all, and the more we have of each the happier we will be. The less we have, the less satisfied we are, and if we're missing any element completely then we will most likely be unhappy. These five elements are:<ul dir="ltr"><li>Positive...</li></ul>
"My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to..."14 Sep 2015 | 8:05 pm"My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and...
"Happiness is something you get from yourself. If you're completely satisfied with yourself,..."2 Jul 2015 | 9:57 pm"Happiness is something you get from yourself. If you're completely satisfied with...
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"Don't let the fear of failure keep you from trying in the first place."27 Oct 2014 | 7:28 pm"Don't let the fear of failure keep you from trying in the first place." - Quote...
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It's Okay To Invent Your Own Symbolism and Create Your Own Spells For Magic29 Sep 2015 | 6:47 amFor every symbolic meaning that an item could have, and every spell ever written, someone had to invent them. One day, someone found a piece of pretty gem and decided that it represented love. One lovely morning (or moonlight night)…
Article Ideas For Writers – Giving Away My Abandoned Ideas27 Sep 2015 | 7:58 amI have a habit of keeping a long list of writing ideas. However, I can only write so much, and eventually some ideas go unwritten for so long that I forget what I was going to write, or decide I…
I'm Getting Spam Email From You, You're Getting Spam From Me, But It's Not Our Fault27 Sep 2015 | 7:58 amSome time back I got a horrid, curse-filled email from someone who had decided to lay into me in no uncertain terms because I was sending them spam and they wanted me to stop. Their rant was vicious, and I…
My Altar, And How Altar Setups Can Be Different25 Sep 2015 | 1:04 pmPeople's altars are an interesting thing. They vary by spiritual path, by tradition, and by person. No two are ever exactly alike. Some faiths expect a particular setup, some have room for personal expression. Some are minimal, others are packed…
Spell Sachets and Charm Pillows – What They Are And How To Use Them25 Sep 2015 | 10:44 amSpell sachets, also sometimes known as charm bags, charm pillows, gris-gris bags or mojo bags are small fabric containers used in various spiritual practices. These small bags are usually filled with herbs, stones or other small items to provide the…
Programming Life
For Far Too Long3 Oct 2015 | 10:09 amFor far too long, we've allowed the detritus of mind to choke our rivers of life. We've allowed bad habits, compulsions, and addictions to turn the peaceful surface of our minds into churning whitewater for day after day, year after year. And we've known, inwardly, that these plants that have grown in our inner gardens [&hellip The post For Far Too Long appeared first on Programming Life.
Happy, Healthy, and Whole2 Oct 2015 | 2:02 pmThe quivering fear in most parents' hearts for their little ones knows we can't control some things. We can discover happiness in ourselves, but we can't discover happiness for another being. We can take right action to protect our health and the health of our loved ones, but we can't ensure it. We can stave [&hellip The post Happy, Healthy, and Whole appeared first on Programming Life.
The Only True Story29 Sep 2015 | 2:01 pmWe are, by virtue of our marvelous and largely misused minds, more collections of stories than creatures of flesh and blood. Stories are for sale on every street corner. Advertisers create storylines to draw us to their products, leaders create narratives to both establish themselves and further their agendas, and companies try to instill "company [&hellip The post The Only True Story appeared first on Programming Life.
The Picture Frame26 Sep 2015 | 9:44 amYou are, underneath whatever labels and roles you might imagine yourself to be, a shifting experience. When you are fully present and walking a garden path, you are most fundamentally the experience of walking a garden path. When you are lost in memory, you are most fundamentally a mind browsing the residues it has collected. [&hellip The post The Picture Frame appeared first on Programming Life.
Burdens of Self24 Sep 2015 | 7:41 amI often run into the world-weary man. He peeks out from the eyes of friends, clients, and strangers on the street. The advertising that inundates the surface world evoke him – calls to oblivion and absurd trivialities scream his name from billboards and magazine ads. Often enough, I encounter him in myself too, when my [&hellip The post Burdens of Self appeared first on Programming Life.
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How To Write A Personal Mission Statement In 8 Steps1 Oct 2015 | 6:09 amEarly in my career, I worked in public relations for the JCPenney Company. James Cash Penney, the founder of the now national retailer, based his business philosophy on one simple mission statement: "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" — the Golden Rule. In fact, his first store was called The… Continue Reading… The post How To Write A Personal Mission Statement In 8 Steps appeared first on Live Bold and Bloom.
What Should I Do With My Life? 12 Steps To Finding The Answer27 Sep 2015 | 2:51 pmIn my 49th year, I started to unravel. I had no idea what I should do with my life. Prior to that year, my destiny had been relatively clear. I knew I wanted to go to college, find a good job, and settle down to raise a family. I was driven by the primary… Continue Reading… The post What Should I Do With My Life? 12 Steps To Finding The Answer appeared first on Live Bold and Bloom.
The Benefits Of A Standing Desk And Why You Must Get Off Your Butt25 Sep 2015 | 5:32 amI do a lot of sitting with my work. My entire business is online, and I spend the vast majority of my work day on my computer. The studies that have come out in the last few years about the health dangers of sitting so much have really started to bother me. Research… Continue Reading… The post The Benefits Of A Standing Desk And Why You Must Get Off Your Butt appeared first on Live Bold and Bloom.
Becoming A Writer: Why You Absolutely Must Have Good Writing Skills23 Sep 2015 | 7:29 amI write six days a week an average of 3000 or more words a day. This writing includes blog posts, books I'm working on, as well as materials for self-improvement courses I create. That adds up to about 936,400 words a year. According to Amazon's Text Stats feature, the median length for all books is about… Continue Reading… The post Becoming A Writer: Why You Absolutely Must Have Good Writing Skills appeared first on Live Bold and Bloom.
INFJ Relationships: 8 Reasons They Are Extraordinary And Powerful21 Sep 2015 | 7:58 amI've always been fascinated by the Myers Briggs personality types, and I frequently use the type assessment in my work as a coach and self-improvement teacher. Your personality type definitely influences how you relate to other people, and understanding your type can make a huge difference in your choice of friends and romantic partners, as well… Continue Reading… The post INFJ Relationships: 8 Reasons They Are Extraordinary And Powerful appeared first on Live Bold and Bloom.
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How to Enter Bliss Mode: 7 Tips to Evolve as a Human Being3 Oct 2015 | 10:29 amThere's a reason Buddhist monks spend all day meditating and practicing mindfulness. We, humans, are very easily distracted. If we want to work on ourselves and become better people, we have to be on top of it every day.Of course, we all get sidetracked by daily events, problems, tasks and so on. It's perfectly normal. But that is the time when we should sit down and reset ourselves a little.It's easy to just float with life without dealing with ourselves, but it's the most rewarding experience to work on who we are. The bliss that flows through us when we practice becoming better people is something I cannot compare to anything--it's one of the best feelings we can experience as humans, I think. Maybe it's...
What Is The Opposite of Fear?26 Sep 2015 | 8:30 amI have gotten a lot of messages asking for advice in the past year. They were all different, portraying unique circumstances, but I have noticed something that was the same in all of them.A fear from our own feelings.May that be anger or anxiety or greed or sadness--most of us have a hard time coping with these feelings. We think they identify us. That they have the power to define who we are.There was a time when I, too, was crippled by my own feelings. When I thought I couldn't live my life because of them. When I thought they made me a bad person.I thought a lot about what the opposite of fear was. I heard some people say�bravery, others thought love. I could never really get on board with either of...
5 Reminders That Can Always Give You Peace11 Sep 2015 | 12:45 pmI've shared before that I have a notebook in which I write my realizations, mostly ones that come to me during meditation. I often scan through these notebooks when I'm going through a hard time, and they never fail to give me guidance, put my mind at ease and show me where I need to turn.These notebooks are one of my few valued material possessions. They allow me to keep my mind empty--even if I forget a useful realization, a conclusion I have come to, I know that all I have to do is open these notebooks, and all the wisdom I have already learned is at my fingertips.We learn so much throughout life depending on the experiences we go through. But these experiences change daily, we ourselves change daily,...
How to Make the Best of Stressful Times: 7 Mindful Tips26 Aug 2015 | 5:56 amWe've finally been able to carry out our plan, my husband and I, to move into a more natural area. We've been living in the city center all our lives, and we couldn't be more excited to live next to a nature reserve where the forest literally starts in our backyard.Living in the city has taught us many important lessons though. We weren't sure we'll ever be able to move to a place where we could connect with nature more, so we made our peace in the city. We were happy among the noise. We learned to appreciate the few trees surrounded by endless layers of concrete.Because happiness and peace, as I always say, does not depend on our external conditions--it's solely an internal thing. Moving into nature was...
The Antidote for Anxiety: How Meditation Took the Place of My Anti-Anxiety Drugs31 Jul 2015 | 4:56 amMany years ago -- sometimes it feels like lifetimes -- I was carrying prescription pills in my bag everywhere I went. I was struggling with anxiety back then. I thought the pills could help me if I ever had a panic attack. Thinking back, they never really did much after a while.Weaning off of them was a nightmare. That might not be the best metaphor, since I couldn't sleep for about two weeks after I took the last one.Peace is not something you're born with -- it's something you learn. And I believe that I would not be as full of peace and joy today if I hadn't experienced the depth of fear and sorrow that I did.I had the chance to understand so much about being a human through my emotional and mental...
Omatrix Center Launches Digital India Initiative3 Oct 2015 | 12:47 amOmatrix Center is teaming up with Digital India, creating an increase in the flow of information and prosperity to the country. The beginning of Hubezoo, a new techno global network, is being introduced to the country, combined with a training initiative in 6 central regions throughout India. While Omatrix Consultant,featured Continue reading The post Omatrix Center Launches Digital India Initiative appeared first on .
Solving Bottlenecks In the Tourist Industry1 Oct 2015 | 6:18 am� By Brooke Hart The other day, I was browsing in a gallery in the middle of a tourist district. It was a little to the side, and had huge sale signs across the front. On deciding not to buy something, the girl in the store almost broke into tears.featured Continue reading The post Solving Bottlenecks In the Tourist Industry appeared first on .
Digital Synchronicity and Prosperity24 Sep 2015 | 1:54 amCountries, corporations and investors, people everywhere, share one thing in common. They are all looking for some miraculous way to make money. This unique search amidst the social conflict of our world and relativity in the markets could be likened to the search for the Holy Grail. Many of usfeatured Continue reading The post Digital Synchronicity and Prosperity appeared first on .
Technoconomy23 Aug 2015 | 8:52 pmOur world around us is morphing in unusual ways where we are forced to adapt to strategies and new innovations which try to rest the previous order and status quo. One most prevalent social issue which under close scrutiny is the global economy. Both our economy and computer programming isfeatured Continue reading The post Technoconomy appeared first on .
On the Threshold of the Future16 Jul 2015 | 2:26 amOne has to look beyond the calamity and chaos which exists to discover both sanity and a sustainable solution for the global community. Currently, countries place more and more rules and regulations upon it's global citizens to enforce control, laws and order. To some degree, this is quite necessary tofeatured Continue reading The post On the Threshold of the Future appeared first on .
No Title26 Sep 2015 | 9:41 amThey come through the doors – searching. They want answers, they want guidance. They're afraid to be disappointed yet again. Perhaps this time it's going to be worth it. Perhaps this church, this synagogue, this teacher, these writings, these practices . . . Perhaps finally, this will be IT. An answer . . . Is an answer a real thing or is it manmade? Looking outside, I can see people, cars, animals, trees . . . I don't see answers. I don't see questions either. What is an answer? That's not a part of the real world – of reality. We were taught very early on, to acknowledge a concept – an illusion – one that's called questions and answers. The theory behind this is that every answer gets us closer to that...
No reason to say "Thank You"12 Sep 2015 | 10:32 amMy previous article was released on May 16. This is the longest gap that I had in writing these articles. This summer has been a challenging one for me. My mother had her cancer return and the therapy that was meant to help her, made her condition much worse. At that point I received a call from my siblings in Israel, telling me that mom is in the hospital and that her health was going downhill fast. I flew to Israel, thinking I may be attending her funeral. Instead, her condition started improving. After six weeks of being with her in Israel, seeing her getting constantly better, I came back to NY. Two weeks later I get another call; mom had a stroke and she's in a coma. The doctor's told us that she has...
Why Qigong? (Chi-Kung)16 May 2015 | 9:12 amEven though I have been practicing and teaching Qigong since 2007, whenever I think that I know a thing or two about Qigong, I am humbled yet again. After all, what's the big deal about Qigong? On the outside it looks just like a bunch a slow movements of one kind or another, sometimes accompanied by vocalization. What can it possibly do? And yet each time I'm being amazed to discover how it takes on a life of its own, expanding infinitely, just like the universe. I began practicing Qigong when I was in severe physical pain and my life was falling apart on all fronts. I had no expectations from Qigong to give me anything and at the same time, I had nothing to lose by giving it a try – I was desperate. From...
Those who take from others13 Apr 2015 | 10:19 amThey could be poor burglars stealing from individuals; extremely rich and powerful people stealing from entire countries; or anything in between. If they get caught, they may or may not be punished – depending on their financial abilities and connections – but regardless, their behavior is not acceptable by society at large and generally honest people prefer not to be associated with them. Generally speaking, society considers such behavior as antisocial, and it is not difficult to feel anger towards such people, especially by those who need to work very hard to support themselves and their families. That makes perfect sense. People feel: "If I can contribute my time and hard work to benefit both society...
Turning the other cheek28 Feb 2015 | 11:53 amIn my article "The dualism of Oppressor and Oppressed" I shared one way of observing the phenomena of the Oppressor and the Oppressed. But there is also a very different way of seeing it. It is quite easy to be baffled by what Jesus had in mind when he said to turn the other cheek to our oppressor. Many people think that such behavior may be suitable for "holy" people, or otherwise people that are anything other than regular people – like 'me'. After all, "an eye for an eye", makes much more sense to many of us. But this is just a cultural thing. We have been programmed – literally – with concepts such as "an eye for an eye" from our earliest days. These concepts, being mostly subconscious, have become a...
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Creative Cartoon Illustrations by Jeffrey Thomas2 Oct 2015 | 9:05 amJeffrey Thomas is a talented character designer, concept artist and illustrator based in Burbank, CA, United States.
Portrait Paintings by Kate Zambrano27 Aug 2015 | 5:32 amA consistently wide-eyed wanderer, Kate Zambrano explores the human condition though visual stimulation. �Often coupling the standard idealization of beauty with a deep, haunting melancholy, she uses monochromatic and subtle colors in her paintings to create a genuine and simplified journey into individuality. �She works with different mediums and techniques as well as incorporating texture and drips to create an unsettling concept of what is attractive. Her work is made to bring up the emotions, ideas, and opinions of the viewer. �It forces self-exploration and internal dialogue. �She leads the viewer to reflect on him or herself.Kate is an American painter hailing from across the United States. �She grew...
Creative Illustrations by Steve Cutts26 Aug 2015 | 7:09 amSteve Cutts is a talented illustrator, painter, sculptor and animator currently based in London, UK. His work is fascinating, thought-provoking and usually lends an important message. Steve doesn't like consumerism's hold over us, as you may be able to tell by his cartoons. He worked at Glueisobar as the main storyboard concept artist before making the leap to freelance work.
Digital Illustrations by Magdalena Pagowska25 Aug 2015 | 9:34 pmMagdalena Pagowska is a talented 31 years old illustrator and conceptual artist based in Warsaw, Poland. She studied Game Graphics at Sogang University Game Education Center in Seoul, Korea.
Digital Illustrations by Kuldar Leement24 Aug 2015 | 9:30 pmKuldar Leement is a talented digital illustrator and graphic designer based in Tartu, Estonia. He is 28 years old self-educated conceptual artist currently employed at Tabasco OU, where he makes graphic design.
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Any talent that you have but do not use becomes a burden and a sorrow.3 Oct 2015 | 3:30 amRelated Posts How to Uncover Your Creative Talent by Using the "Equal Odds Rule" Greatness lies not in being strong, but in the right use of strength. Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. Success breeds confidence.
Finding Peace Even in the Midst of Chaos3 Oct 2015 | 3:07 am"Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without." ~Buddha During the summer I was fortunate enough to travel to Dublin. I had never been to Ireland and was excited to explore what I knew would be a beautiful country. As the plane began its descent to the Dublin airport, I took advantage of my window seat and became transfixed by the plush green scenery. The deep emerald covered landscape was exactly as I imagined it to be. We landed and still I stared out the window, mesmerized. That's when I saw something I never imagined. Bunnies. Lots of them. In the field next to the runway there were a dozen or so bunnies—flashes of tan, popping up, darting down and well, being bunnies. I became hypnotized by...
A Lesson in Happiness and Love I Learned from Rob Lowe3 Oct 2015 | 3:05 amI'm not a particular fan (or not) of Rob Lowe, but several people had recommended his memoir, Stories I Only Tell My Friends, so I decided to read it. It was very interesting for many reasons, and I was particularly struck by a story Lowe told, recalling a visit to the White House during his time on the show The West Wing: On my last visit to the Clinton White House, I'm standing on the South Lawn with [my wife] Sheryl and the boys talking to the president before he hops onto Marine One. My youngest son, Johnowen, is holding his stuffed frog, Gwee Gwee, which he never lets out of his sight, under any circumstances. It has been his security blanket since he was an infant. But now, he takes it out of...
How Meditation Can Lead to More Love2 Oct 2015 | 3:07 amLong gone is the idea that in order to meditate you need wear a white robe while sitting on top of a mountain for hours or years, chanting om. Today, meditation has become the hottest new wellness activity and it's only getting hotter! It also has quite a few celebrity fans including Lena Dunham, Giselle, Eva Mendes, Russell Simmons and even Kourtney Kardashian. The transformation meditation can create in your life is profound. For many people though, meditation is still a bit of a mystery. There are still those who consider meditating to be journaling, a long walk on the beach or any act that creates deep relaxation. While all of these activities can be extremely powerful, they are in fact, not the same...
I'm Taking My Feet off the Wall2 Oct 2015 | 3:05 amWhile on a family trip this past August, I had the opportunity to go canyoneering for the first time. We hiked up a beautiful rock formation on the outskirts of Zion until we reached a little ledge that poured over into a dark, cool crevice within the rocks. While covering the basics of handling your rope and the descent, our guide talked to us about gravity. "As you're going down you'll notice gravity start to pull you, remember that gravity always wins. You can continue to try and stay the course, but eventually she's going to grab you and force you to move in her direction." I strapped in, looping the rope through the appropriate hooks before disconnecting from the safety line and positioned...
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I have eyes26 Sep 2015 | 4:05 amThere are times when I really want to give up everything and just do nothing. I don't want to be a failure, but I just don't fit in the success customs. I do fail a hundred times while succeed once.... Visit us to get a full recharge of motivation and get inspired.
The bad one25 Sep 2015 | 4:19 pmThe bad man may be lying inside you, judging this one and arguing with that one, living as a watchman only observing people around him. What I wanna say is: they may not be as bad as you see. You may... Visit us to get a full recharge of motivation and get inspired.
Today's motivation10 Sep 2015 | 12:59 amThe more I get stepped on, the much more I want to stand out and shine.� It's okay to get hurt every now and then as long as I can overcome it.� I am stronger with the lessons I learn not... Visit us to get a full recharge of motivation and get inspired.
The best way to motivate your day10 Jul 2015 | 6:52 pmSometimes a little motivation is all you need to get you through your day. Start your day with motivation and try to end it with satisfaction.� They say if you shoot the moon and happened to... Visit us to get a full recharge of motivation and get inspired.
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What Mothers Need27 Sep 2015 | 11:00 pmWhat new mothers need... and some exciting new things around here to try to meet those needs! The post What Mothers Need appeared first on Left Brain Buddha.
9 Life Lessons From Beverly Hills, 9021020 Sep 2015 | 11:00 pmI am a huge fan of Beverly Hills, 90210. I've seen EVERY EPISODE. TWICE. {Okay, more like five times.} I graduated from high school the same year as Donna Martin, though with far less drama. As my grownup self watches reruns of the show that guided me through the formative years of high school, college, and early adulthood, I am often surprised by the deep, Zen-like wisdom hidden beneath the surface of the Peach Pit, California University, and Casa Walsh. The post 9 Life Lessons From Beverly Hills, 90210 appeared first on Left Brain Buddha.
10 Important Lessons for Your Life Journey from "Rising Strong"13 Sep 2015 | 11:00 pmWe're ALL going to have "facedown in the arena" moments. And arenas are EVERYWHERE, dammit. So here's how you get back up. Here's how you become the author of your life journey and RISE STRONG. The post 10 Important Lessons for Your Life Journey from "Rising Strong" appeared first on Left Brain Buddha.
The Problem with Stock Photos of People Meditating6 Sep 2015 | 11:00 pmOkay, I admit, I have used the beautiful, air-brushed, unrealistic photos of people meditating in my posts and promotional materials. I mean, the people are just so pretty and they live in such beautiful, air-brushed, and organized places. But I'm wondering if these pictures just perpetuate the misunderstandings that people have about mindfulness and meditation. These […] The post The Problem with Stock Photos of People Meditating appeared first on Left Brain Buddha.
5 Ways Meditation is Like a Monet Painting30 Aug 2015 | 11:00 pmWhile sitting in silent meditation, the following thought popped into my head: "Meditation kind of reminds me of Monet's paintings of the cathedral in Rouen." Seriously. Read what the Impressionists can teach us about meditation, the self, impermanence, light, sensation, perception, and the fleeting impression of NOW. The post 5 Ways Meditation is Like a Monet Painting appeared first on Left Brain Buddha.
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Whatsapp Status26 Sep 2015 | 11:32 amBeing nerdy just means being passionate about something, including everyone. Intelligence is nothing without delight. The amount of good luck coming our way depends on our willingness to act. Those who know how to think need no teachers. Never underestimate the power of a simple tool. When the truth comes around, all the lies have to run and hide. The greatness of a man's power is the
Math Quotes10 Jun 2015 | 1:10 pmA mathematician is a person who can find analogies between theorems; a better mathematician is one who can see analogies between proofs and the best mathematician can notice analogies between theories. - Stefan Banach It is generally recognised that women are better than men at languages, personal relations and multi-tasking, but less good at map-reading and spatial awareness. It is therefore
Goodnight16 Feb 2015 | 7:46 pmThe best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in turmoil. - Thomas Edison We all dream; we do not understand our dreams, yet we act as if nothing strange goes on in our sleep minds, strange at least by comparison with the logical, purposeful doings of our minds when we are awake. - Erich Fromm A man would prefer to come home to an unmade bed and a happy woman than to a
Instagram Quotes8 Sep 2014 | 10:36 pmNot that smart. Not that hot. Not that nice. Not that funny. That's me: I'm not that. - John Green When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends. - Japanese Proverb The more opinions you have the less you see. - Wim Wenders Once you learn to quit, it becomes a habit. - Vince Lombardi Small minds are much distressed by little things. Great minds see them all
Morning Quotes7 Aug 2014 | 7:21 pmRemember today that hard work and insight will bring you to the path that will reward you so highly, that it makes all of the small inconveniences worth it. Good morning everyone! Don't forget, nothing big will happen in your life, until you build up to it with the little small things. This morning is another seed from which the flowers of tomorrow's happiness grow. Good morning! If you're
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10 Things Motivated People Hate1 Oct 2015 | 9:33 amMost motivated people are seen as some of the most positive people in the world. And, the truth is we are. But we also have a side of us that wants nothing to do with anything that is going to slow us down, or stop us from being who we are capable of. We're focused, The post 10 Things Motivated People Hate appeared first on Inspirational Quotes | Motivational Blog | Images | Pictures.
Inspirational Thought of Day #51 Oct 2015 | 6:25 amOctober 1st, 2015 What Will Be Different Because Of You? Let's begin this month with a question: what will be better because of you? This month, whose life will you touch? Who will you encourage? Who will you tell; "Give it one more try, it's not over!" Even further, who will you share success with? Who will you The post Inspirational Thought of Day #5 appeared first on Inspirational Quotes | Motivational Blog | Images | Pictures.
How to be more productive when you work at home?29 Sep 2015 | 1:46 pmWorking from home takes more discipline than many of us are willing to admit. It means having the strength of character to avoid all of the distractions and pleasures of home, and do some work–that we all hate. Let's face it, even if you like doing what you are doing, it is still going to The post How to be more productive when you work at home? appeared first on Inspirational Quotes | Motivational Blog | Images | Pictures.
How to Deal With Depression at Work29 Sep 2015 | 1:37 pmAccording to the World Health Organization, depression is the leading cause of disability in the world, and more than 350 million people cope with its symptoms. Fortunately, there are effective treatments for depression, so if you suffer from it, the effects are manageable. Dealing with depression is tough for many people, especially if they have The post How to Deal With Depression at Work appeared first on Inspirational Quotes | Motivational Blog | Images | Pictures.
It Isn't Easy; 6 Things I Wish My Parents Told Me29 Sep 2015 | 11:51 amMy parents meant well enough but there are a number of things I wish they had told me about life, love, and success. Time Doesn't Heal Everything Ah, yes. The good old slap a bandaid on it saying that my parents applied to every heartbreak and hardship: "Time heals all wounds". As a kid I The post It Isn't Easy; 6 Things I Wish My Parents Told Me appeared first on Inspirational Quotes | Motivational Blog | Images | Pictures.
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Help, I hate my job (How to be happy at work)3 Oct 2015 | 4:34 amIt is said that up to 40% of our adult life revolves around work. Think about it. We get up early, and get ready for work. We spend time getting to work, and once there we start our work. Then, when the work day is all done, we start our way back home… from work. Do we get a respite after this long tiring day? No! Because when we get home from work, we must now spend time 'unwinding from work'. To top it all off, we have to go to bed early, because the next day we must once again…. Get up early to get ready for work. To me, this would be fine if I didn't have to sleep, eat, shower, or carry out all the other mundane chores of daily living. After all is said and done, it's a wonder we have any time...
Romantic Love Equals True Happiness ?20 Sep 2015 | 1:35 am� Fining our soul mate often comes when we stop trying to find them. Well at least that's how the common saying goes. This may not be completely accurate, but of course desperation is hardly an attractive feature. Yet one could hardly blame people for trying. Especially when you look at common research on romantic love and its affect on long-term happiness. A few years ago I stumbled upon an article entitled, Romantic Love = Greater Long-term Happiness written by John M. Grohol, PSYD of Sychcentral.com. Here is a shortened version . "Contrary to popular opinion, it appears that romance doesn't have to die a natural death in a long-term relationship. In a meta-analysis review of 25 studies with 6,070...
Is Happiness Genetic?14 Sep 2015 | 6:26 pmFor some reason we tend to view optimistic people as being happier than their pessimistic counterparts. However, both are capable of being happy. They just have different ideas on what constitutes happiness. Regardless of you psychological leanings, there is significant research indicating that happiness may be partly genetic. � Yes there is such a thing as Happiness Research Is happiness genetic? Well, to start, let's look at the findings of Martin Seligman author of Authentic Happiness, and past president of the American Psychological Association. In his book he reveals some interesting findings. According to Seligman's' research, happy people are healthier, live longer and do more good for their...
Happiness is a Customized Invisible Burrito10 Sep 2015 | 5:09 amMy favorite food is the burrito. To me it's a food group. I wrap all kinds of things in my tortillas, and it's not limited to beans and cheese. When I lived in Hawaii, there was this great little customizable burrito place. They could make any kind you wanted. One evening, after a long days work, I stopped by to have one made. Dropping it off at my table, I happily made my way over to the salsa bar. Upon returning, my heart just sank. Someone had stolen my burrito. Who could do such a thing, and why did I have to sit outside? Inside the burrito could be safe and secure awaiting my return. Feeling defeated, I decided it was no use. It just wasn't meant to be. Driving home by the theater, I noticed that...
What is Happiness – Part 2, Emotional, Mental, Physical and Spiritual Happiness4 Sep 2015 | 9:29 amThroughout the ages, people have built societies designed to support the emotional, mental, physical and spiritual well-being of its citizens. Any ruling authority realizes, at some point, that happy people are easier to manage then unhappy ones. Left unhappy long enough, and even the most suppressed populations will revolt. So in this article, we will look at how our happiness can be affected by four traits mentioned above. � 1. Emotional and Mental Happiness: It seems to me that our happiness is often co-dependent. This means our mind and emotions need to be in-sync for us to be happy. We use the term feeling happy, but to be more realistic we should say thinking happy. There are some interesting...
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Hopping2 Oct 2015 | 5:43 pmIt's a perfectly fine method of movement. It'll take you from here to there in one fluid movement. So, why don't more people move this way? Well, it would look a little funny if you were hopping down the sidewalk unless you're playing a game. It's still perfectly fine though. And to some people everything is a game. See you out there. #BIYATUU Filed under: Change Tagged: hopping, moving forward
Like It's Just Out The Package1 Oct 2015 | 5:59 pmIf you could bottle it up and take it with you, you probably would. In fact, you probably could. But it doesn't always come in bottle form. Maybe it should. Sometimes it comes with the purchase of a new car. Other times it comes as a cardboard tree "thing" or in a spray can to freshen the air. ( Ah, just gave it away there.) It's freshness and newness, spunk, enthusiasm and excitement. But you don't need to be new or 20 to have it. So some envy it, covet it or work hard to try to purchase it. But here's the thing — none of it is necessary to have it. See you next time. #BIYATUU Filed under: Change Tagged: enthusiasm, freshness, newness
First Words30 Sep 2015 | 6:07 pmWe're not talking about the first words or mumblings you spoke as a child. "Mama," "Babababababa," and "ball" don't count. What are the first words you utter when it's been a while?What do you say when you don't know what to say? What do you say after coming back from a long trip? What do you say after a fight? How do you break the silence? "I'm sorry." "Hello." "Long time no see." "Let's go!" But, not in that order, right. See you next time. #BIYATUU Filed under: For Those Days Tagged: first words, not knowing what to say
UP or down29 Sep 2015 | 6:11 pmIt's the end of the day, and generally you're in one of two places — winding down or winding up. Winding down – "chillin out, relaxin' shootin' some b-ball and all" OR "Windin' up" – talkin' about what was up today. All the happenings. Who said what, who did that, and all the surprises of the day. If you're a busy person, you haven't the time to be "windin' up," so given the choice, it has to be the other one. You know the one. Feet kicked up. Sippin' on something good. See you tomorrow when you're in a better place. –BIYATUU Filed under: Change, For Those Days Tagged: chillin, cool,...
Prizing28 Sep 2015 | 4:47 pmPrizing. It's not the same as winning. Winning is similar to prizing though, which is trying to cross the finish line. It's competing to be number 1 because with winning there can only be one. And that's where prizing diverges from winning. Prizing is going after a prize. ( Go figure.) Sometimes you receive a prize when you win, but not always. Sometimes your don't. Prizing is like running after a goal. ( It's not better or more satisfactory than winning though.) Just different. Now, we know we know. Prizing isn't a word. We know that because we made it up. ( You can do that you know.) But also, now that's its here. It's kind of a word — or a gerund. You see the difference, right? See you...
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How The Right Life Path is Revealed? Stumbling on a Memory9 Sep 2015 | 1:21 amIn the countryside, Athena is at a standstill, like a planted seed in infertile soil, she lives on a farm. She waters dry lands for bad harvests. Nevertheless, her fruits don't come to fruition and her steps don't advance the process of growth even though she has cows for milk, fresh eggs for breakfast and […]
Broke, Smoke, Love has Enough of Chasing Life Dreams23 Aug 2015 | 10:29 amEvading North Eastern Europe's financial crisis towards a fresh start in life, Gina walked up the stairs of a small plane in a modest airport, away from her deserted town. It was dawn. Nearby, Gino carried in a suitcase, the photo album of her teenage years. He waved, a speechless goodbye. A single tear slipped […]
Part 2: Keep Moving through Adversity, Guided by a Bird14 Aug 2015 | 4:06 amArrived at the arena of adversity. Standing at the front of what seems to be the size of a horseracing track, horrified, Alan watched his speculations now manifest into form. The gates were metallic bars that formed a circle around the arena. In between the verticals, Alan caught a glimpse of what seemed to be […]
Keep Moving through Adversity, Guided by a Bird31 Jul 2015 | 5:24 amOn top of a cliff, Alan the man who never saw his exterior, lives among villagers. The man has never heard a word from the view below him, the neighbours said. That's what people do; gossip, criticize, comment. In brief, they like to speculate to elevate their lowest defects. And they mostly arbitrate the unknown, […]
How to Educate Yourself Online for Free in 17 Places22 Jul 2015 | 2:25 amDue to the fast evolution of technology, the way people are educated and learn is also changing fast. In the old days, getting a good education through the mainstream system like college was a must and rightly so. Since a college degree would more than likely guarantee a successful career or at least a job […]
Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author
Love is in the heart not in the mind1 Oct 2015 | 5:55 amRoxana writes about her journey discovering the difference between the love of the mind and the heart and offers ways to distinguish one from the other. The post Love is in the heart not in the mind appeared first on Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author.
Transforming Paranoia into Pronoia30 Aug 2015 | 4:44 amRoxana writes about her life while suffering from paranoia and how she was able to heal and practice pronoia as a new way of interpreting the world. The post Transforming Paranoia into Pronoia appeared first on Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author.
Living Between Ego and Self25 Jul 2015 | 4:44 amRoxana writes about her personal journey with her ego and true self and gives ways to easily differentiate one from the other. The post Living Between Ego and Self appeared first on Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author.
Endings and Beginnings27 Jun 2015 | 4:44 amA message of hope for those struggling with endings. Roxana writes about her dark night of the soul and explains why she now only believes in beginnings. The post Endings and Beginnings appeared first on Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author.
Clarity: The Secret to your Goals24 May 2015 | 4:44 amRoxana writes about the importance of having clarity in order to achieve your goals. She shares an intentional meditation she uses with excellent results. The post Clarity: The Secret to your Goals appeared first on Roxana Jones, Spiritual Healer and Inspirational Author.
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It is ok to be not okay…30 Sep 2015 | 11:15 amUnhappy, disillusioned, confused, hurt, resentful, angry, listless, tired, ignored, unlucky;. Do you experience these emotions / feelings off and on? Do you feel like the only person facing these problems? The reality is that almost every one experiences these intermittently. However, the problem arises when we frequently experience negative emotions, find it difficult to ignore these emotions and worst of all succumb to the pressures of these emotions. Most of these emotions are temporary, largely fleeting and often a byproduct of wild negative thinking. However, it is important that we do go through the feeling of not feeling okay; of being uncomfortable, disturbed and pained. When we experience a...
You have to be odd to be…22 Sep 2015 | 6:58 pmThe odd and even numbers start with the numbers one and two respectively. In life, we attach a lot of importance to standing first be it in academics, sports, quizzes or in form of competition. Perhaps the only place a person is not keen to be first, is in the roll call list. It may look ironic, that to be first you have to acknowledge that it is an odd number. However, there is a large message though, which suggests that you have to be odd, different, stand out in a crowd, evolve into someone unlike anyone else, if one wants to stand first. The challenge is to mentally be ready to be different, have the self belief that being different is the way to be noticed, that being different does not mean being a...
Desire ignites action7 Sep 2015 | 7:16 pmUnless there is the inner urge, the desire to attain something, we would rarely make the effort to attain it. This desire is the self motivation that holds the key to proactive initiatives, creative problem solving and sustained effort to attain one's goal. Desire is the ignition that starts us on our journey. It is also the ignition that restarts our journey if and when we have to halt along the way. However desire must not be confused with interests. Often, we have numerous interests, largely fueled by the ongoing craze or trends. For many exploring these interests are a fad that momentarily captures our imagination and motivates us fleetingly. However, desire is a much deeper, more personal and...
Have you learned your lesson?22 Aug 2015 | 10:51 pmAs children, we were largely dependent on our parents, elders and teachers to help us find our way in life especially learning life skills. Formal education, manners and etiquettes, independent and creative thinking, our morals and values, our attitudes and beliefs etc. were all strongly influenced by our elders and those whom we have come in contact with. However, with the passage of time, each individual matures and slowly weans away from this support system as a natural progression of life. The take away's that remain with us and which we display in latter years are the lessons we have learned and imbibed through our interactions, formal study and independent thinking. Hopefully each one of us largely...
Your response to change makes the difference17 Aug 2015 | 7:47 pmIt is well known that change is the only constant in life and that it is imperative to adapt to change. However today we view change from a different perspective, of how it is vital for us to understand and appreciate how we respond to the challenge of change, which is forever inundating us. To begin with we need to be aware that change is a process and our response is a compulsion, a reaction or an initiative. Our response will often determine the outcome of the effect that change has on us; change either imposes itself on us or we accept it with grace or we nurture it affectionately. When change is a compulsion it indicates that we did not anticipate it or we ignored it or that we were too stubborn to...
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3 Success Stories That Will Inspire You For Sure – Shout Meet, Hyderabad24 Sep 2015 | 1:15 amDecision shapes destiny. I strongly believe in this statement. Today I am sharing three decisions that are shaping my destiny. One of them is starting this blog www.awesomeaj.com, which is now changing many lives all over the globe. Today, I am not just sharing my story; I am going to share stories of two more successful bloggers. And how they are living their dreams. At the end of this post, I have shared a video that you couldn't miss. Last week, I got an invitation from Ahmed, one of the organiser of the Shout Meet, Hyderabad. He said, "Ajay, we The post 3 Success Stories That Will Inspire You For Sure – Shout Meet, Hyderabad appeared first on Awesome AJ.
How To Make Your Life Super Happy – 10 Simple Steps10 Sep 2015 | 5:57 amDo you want to create a happy life? Do you want to build a life with everlasting happiness, positivity and success? I am sure your answer is YES. It's possible to live a Super Happy Life. Living a Happy Life is not a Rocket Science. I am not talking about momentary happiness that comes from instant gratification. That you can get by doing some shopping or catching up with a friend or just by watching a funny movie. There are many other ways too. But I am talking about creating a Happy Life that will give you all the happiness you The post How To Make Your Life Super Happy – 10 Simple Steps appeared first on Awesome AJ.
20 Robin Sharma Quotes On FEAR That Will Make You FEARLESS5 Jun 2015 | 6:16 amDo you know the No#1 obstacle to success? Recently, I have asked a question on facebook. What is the biggest obstacle stopping you from achieving your dreams? I got hundred of answers but here are the top three: 1. FEAR of Failure 2. I FEAR about the responsibilities as I am unable to fulfil them. 3. I FEAR the time. What is common in all the three answers? It's FEAR. Yes, most of the answers I got were about FEAR only. In one or another form, it is FEAR that stop most of the people from living their dreams. FEAR is The post 20 Robin Sharma Quotes On FEAR That Will Make You FEARLESS appeared first on Awesome AJ.
Lost 3 Kg in 3 Weeks – 3 Law of Attraction Success That Will Make You Feel Awesome22 May 2015 | 7:49 amLaw of Attraction Success Stories About Weight Loss, Healing, and Better Job I love reading success stories. Because I always believe that success stories create greater impact in our life. Learning the secret of success is important. But reading someone's success story will take us to the next level. When I found the law of attraction, I used to read a lot of success stories. Success stories always inspired me, and especially the law of attraction success stories are always awesome. That's one of the reasons you read a lot of law of attraction success stories in this blog. I The post Lost 3 Kg in 3 Weeks – 3 Law of Attraction Success That Will Make You Feel Awesome appeared first on Awesome...
101 Most Beautiful MOTHER's Day Quotes will Make You Cry with Joy10 May 2015 | 6:33 amHappy Mother's Day to SUPERMOMS Everywhere Today is the greatest day in our life; it's Mother's Day. This post is dedicated to all the Living Angel's around the World called "MOTHER" .. "MOM"… "MAA" … including my Beautiful Mother, who has always inspired me to Dream Big and achieve them. No matter how much we say, all our words will always be less for her. So today I have compiled the 101 Most Beautiful Quotes dedicated to all the Mothers around the Globe on this occasion of Mother's Day. I believe these quotes will make you cry with joy. Do The post 101 Most Beautiful MOTHER's Day Quotes will Make You Cry with Joy appeared first on Awesome...
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What does Writing mean to You?27 Sep 2015 | 12:05 pmWhat does Writing mean to You? What does Writing mean to You? Not very long ago, an interviewer had asked what writing means to me. The Free Dictionary describes as the main definition of the writing act – "To form… Read the rest
The Challenge – The Dragon's Dove Chronicles17 Sep 2015 | 6:00 amThe Challenge Book Details Title: The Challenge Series: The Dragon's Dove Chronicles Author: Kim Iverson Headlee Genre: Historical Fantasy w/Romantic Elements Publication Date: July 14, 2015 Length: 24 pages / 6K words Publisher: Pendragon Cove Press Cover Artist: Natasha Brown… Read the rest
Gratitude and Happiness13 Sep 2015 | 12:36 pmGratitude and Happiness Feng Shui For Writers It's amazing how words don't come when a huge happiness is embracing all of your being. This week's weekly thought will be short… maybe the shortest… just because my heart's bliss is too… Read the rest
Fifty, Fit and Fabulous – Book Reviews8 Sep 2015 | 3:49 pmFIFTY, Fit and Fabulous – Book Reviews Two Books Everyone Should Read The idea that we can control our aging process has embraced my mind lately. I've been on this planet for almost half a century and I intend to… Read the rest
Who Am I?6 Sep 2015 | 9:41 pmWho Am I? Several days ago, a Romanian interviewer asked: "Who are you, MC Simon?" Well… this is one of the deepest and hardest questions someone can ask. Moreover, when this is the first question in an interview, you immediately… Read the rest
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Step By Step Guide To Building A Natural Swimming Pool3 Oct 2015 | 3:54 pmHaving a swimming pool is something that many people dream of. If you have thought about getting a swimming pool but cannot afford to have one constructed then there is another option – build your own pool! Building your own swimming pool might take quite a bit of work but it's not as complicated as […]
How to Learn to Forgive2 Oct 2015 | 8:32 pmAn unforgiving offense really prevents us to live, and the inability to forgive offenses is nothing but an escape from difficulties. Why should you forgive? Before you begin to learn to forgive, think over why you need to. Without an answer to this specific question, you either have not learned forgiveness or will constantly stepping […]
How to Develop your Creativity2 Oct 2015 | 7:44 pmWhile creativity can not be taught, it is certainly possible to develop. Of course, sometimes you can suddenly descend inspiration, but it will be much better if the ability to create is not a capricious guest in your home, and a constant companion. Your work will be more productive if you properly configure it to […]
Interesting Ways to Manage Stress at Work2 Oct 2015 | 6:18 pmThe average businessman or a working individual is assigned with six to seven projects in a day. As a professional, the demand to work and produce results is constantly increasing now and organizations literally sometimes suck the blood out of its people. More so if you are a part of a junior or a recently […]
10 Benefits of Ultrasound Scans2 Oct 2015 | 4:16 pmUltrasounds are a higher sound of waves that may not be the normal audible sounds to a human. The frequencies of ultrasounds may be high but may not be heard by human beings. In children, the upper limit pitch is more audible compared to adults. This high-pitched detecting mechanisms decrease as an individual gets old. […]
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How To Be Clingy, Have No Friends and Slowly Destroy Your Essence29 Sep 2015 | 12:00 amDave has had his fair share of pain, sorrow and sadness. He made friends but watched with amazement as they slipped away from his life. All alone yet Dave couldn't figure it all out. Why do I have to be all alone? Why don't I have real friends? Why did Lisa stare at me … The post How To Be Clingy, Have No Friends and Slowly Destroy Your Essence appeared first on Be a Light To The World:.
You Got Talent: Harness to Make a Difference17 Sep 2015 | 11:48 pmThe Hangout last weekend was so cool and very exciting. in my last post, I told you about how I will be hanging out with my amazing friends in Nigeria to give a talk on "How To Harness Your Talent and Make A Difference. Well! I had fun at the Hangout and while … The post You Got Talent: Harness to Make a Difference appeared first on Be a Light To The World:.
Why Your Talent Does Matter6 Sep 2015 | 7:56 pmEveryone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads. Isn't it strange that with so much talent beaming all over the world, only a few people do make a difference? Isn't it strange that people would rather put a cage … The post Why Your Talent Does Matter appeared first on Be a Light To The World:.
3 Crazy Things You Didn't Know About Feeling Useless.30 Aug 2015 | 9:42 pmWhen one realizes that his life is worthless he either commits suicide or travels. Edward Dahlberg I'm tired of feeling worthless. I'm tired of feeling hopeless. But above all, I'm tired of feeling tired. Unknown So you feel inferior and worthless all the time. You feel so useless that you … The post 3 Crazy Things You Didn't Know About Feeling Useless. appeared first on Be a Light To The World:.
Why Your Story Will Always be a Bestseller17 Aug 2015 | 3:22 amOne of the strangest thing in the publishing world is when authors wait to be picked by the gatekeepers. To be a Bestselling author, you must be bestowed such honor either by big publishers, celebrity authors or some standard award body. Strange isn't it? that an author needs the validation … The post Why Your Story Will Always be a Bestseller appeared first on Be a Light To The World:.
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What to Do When Your 3-Year-Old Son Almost Dies in a Car Accident25 Sep 2015 | 10:35 amToday we bring you one of the most inspiring and powerful interviews we've ever done at FierceGentleman.com. Meet Mark Goblowsky, formerly of the U.S. Air Force, owner of American Academies of Martial Arts, and father to a 13 year old son with a traumatic brain injury. His son was in a hit-and-run car accident at the... Continue reading →
Entrepreneur Peter Sage Reveals Secrets In Business, Love, Spirituality12 Sep 2015 | 11:04 amGreetings Fierce Gentlemen, You may have seen London Real's popular interview with Extreme Entrepreneur Peter Sage. Peter earns the title "extreme" entrepreneur because of his high-flying, fast-paced lifestyle: he started 15 companies before the age of 30 (now, at 36, he's started over 20 companies). His most recent venture is Space Energy, which aims to... Continue reading →
How Do You Develop The Mind of a Champion?29 Aug 2015 | 2:51 pmThe world is getting harder every day. If you're a young man, you're going to need all the mental strength you can get to succeed in this world. 13% of young men are unemployed, compared to 5.5% in the overall population. Generation Y makes up 40% of all unemployed workers. Is this because they are lazy? No.... Continue reading →
How to Talk To Your Sweetie About Your Sexless Marriage14 Aug 2015 | 8:33 am[Editor's Note: This interview contains topics and language which is NSFW and is probably most appropriate to men & women 14+.] One of the things I love about intimate relationships is how they hold up a mirror and shows us even more clearly the ways in which we are all neurotic. I recently had the opportunity... Continue reading →
Compete For The Best Life
How Your Fears Look to Others7 Sep 2015 | 10:52 amHow can you not laugh at this video? I just don't understand how this big dog is afraid of carpet. He's scared to touch it – as if the very thing will jump up and bite him. We all watch the video and laugh, thinking "how cute he's afraid of nothing." The carpet will do absolutely nothing to this dog, but somehow it's paralyzed him with fear to stop in the doorway. I wonder if this is the same way others look at us when we allow fear stop us in the pursuit of our goals? Think about it. Many of us have conversations where we "just don't understand how 'so-in-so' doesn't just try or keep moving forward because of (insert obstacle)." It doesn't make sense to us. To us, the obstacle is small, it's not scary,...
Why Business Success Requires A Fantastic Four7 Aug 2015 | 12:26 pmReed Richards. Sue & Johnny Storm. Ben Grimm. Better known as The Fantastic Four, these four normal individuals are gifted with incredible abilities after a trip to space goes wrong. Like many a comic book hero, the Fantastic Four use their newfound powers for good against a plethora of dangerous villains. Individually, you wouldn't be too overwhelmed by each person. I mean, I personally would take a number of heroes before any individual member of the Fantastic Four. But combined? They create one of Marvel's all-time most popular teams, playing off of each other's strengths each month to save the world from another threat. And they provide an incredible, dare I say, fantastic, example of how to win...
Episode 15: Jayme Lamm, The Blonde Side15 Jul 2015 | 8:30 am"Always say 'thank you.'" After Jayme's career working at the Houston Astros ended, she set out to travel the world and blaze her own trail around her own passions. Pairing her excellent writing with a love of travel and sports, Jayme created The Blonde Side and began her journey as a professional blogger. Learn how this Houston media queen built her online business, handles the (many) haters & online trolls, and what piece of advice she'd give someone needing career advice. Episode Resources: <ul> <li>The Blonde Side // Instagram // Twitter // Facebook</li> <li>Subscribe to the show on iTunes</li> <li>Subscribe to the show on Stitcher</li> </ul> The post Episode 15: Jayme Lamm, The Blonde Side appeared first on Compete For The...
Episode 14: Phil Randazzo, American Dream U8 Jul 2015 | 8:30 am"Take the leap of faith." Phil Randazzo is on one heck of a mission. The founder of American Dream U & Text Safe Teens, LLC is out to change the world one life at a time. His primary focus, ADU, develops veteran business leaders by pairing US veterans with successful entrepreneurs & equipping them to succeed in life with the leadership talents they've honed in the military. Even more, Phil self-funded this nonprofit because he believes in the mission and serving those who fought & served for us. This interview has been one of my favorites as we talk the creation of ADU, Phil's passion behind it, and what tips, tricks, & ideas he's implemented to help him succeed in work & building multiple ventures....
Never Forget The First Rule7 Jul 2015 | 9:00 amLife has two rules: 1. Never quit. 2. Never forget Rule #1. � The post Never Forget The First Rule appeared first on Compete For The Best Life.
Simple Capacity
10 Simple Ways To Raise Your Level of Conscious Awareness3 Oct 2015 | 9:36 amWhat does it mean to raise your level of conscious awareness? It is the progressive realization of conscious mastery over your mind. The challenge is that it takes consciousness to grow consciousness. But you needn't worry about this because you already have the seed. Think of it like fire. You have a flame, and you want to turn that flame into a huge blaze. How do you do it? You add fuel. The following list includes examples of how you can add fuel to your flame of consciousness to become a raging inferno of consciousness. Awareness begins with acceptance. 1. Truth Truth raises your consciousness. Falsehood lowers it. First, accept the truth. Whatever you're afraid to know lowers your...
This Is THE BEST Answer to Give To a Person Asking "What Is a Soul Mate And How To Find It?"2 Oct 2015 | 3:55 amQuestion: The problem seems to be that when you are in a relationship, in the beginning everything is happening, but when you marry that person it changes. I've been in several relationships, major relationships, and been married and divorced twice and I'm searching for something special. Something I've been told has been called a soul mate. Do you believe in such a relationship or person and what would that mean? How would I know that? Ram Dass: Got it! Keep looking! I'll give you the farthest out answer first of all and then we'll come back to something that everybody can handle. In the farthest out answer, we have all been around so many times that every one of us has been everything with...
10 Of The Most Amazing Discoveries That Will Make You Question Everything1 Oct 2015 | 9:31 amWhat are the true origins of humanity? There are so many ancient artifacts from the past that still perplex us today. How did ancient civilizations create such intricate and advanced technologies? There are so many mysteries surrounding humanity's past that we are finally becoming aware of. There seems to be a lot more going on than meets the eye… Here is a list of some of the most amazing discovery's to date: 1. The London Artifact Image source This artifact is speculated to be so extremely old that part of the wooden handle has turned to coal. Coal is known to take millions of years to form, so then how is this possible? How old could this strange artifact actually be? More on this artifact here. 2....
4 Tactics The Government Use To Control People With Religion. Nope! We Are NOT Falling For That!1 Oct 2015 | 1:45 am"Know the rules well, so you can break them effectively."― Dalai Lama XIV Isn't it a bit sarcastic to have 'In god we trust' written on a thing most people die for – money? The other name of the global rules can be translated "because I said so." Don't we all feel like the rules are building a fence around us? They are made to 'kill' the individual, instead of building it up. But without them, the world will transform in the Wild Wild West. So what can we do about it? "Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist." – Pablo Picasso We firmly know that all religions indicate goodness in this world. They all say one thing, but it's far from that thing what government does to raise...
Concrete Scientific Proof That We Can Heal Ourselves30 Sep 2015 | 2:16 amLissa Rankin reveals the exact scientific implications placebo and nocebo affect our minds and bodies. She explains how our thoughts influentially affect our physiology when we believe we can get better (or worse). The placebo effect, researched by the medical establishment for over 50 years, is sealed evidence that the body has its own self repair mechanism. A study was conducted with 3500 participants who had all been diagnosed with an "incurable" illnesses such as cancer, HIV, dozens of heart diseases, etc. With the placebo effect, everyone's illness had all disappeared without treatment. Lissa talks about a man named Mr. Wright, who had been given drugs that he truly believed would cure his...
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Imperfect Spirituality
How to Avoid a Meltdown30 Sep 2015 | 5:15 amLast night was a mommy-meltdown kind of night. I got upset over things that were not getting done in this house, burdens that were falling squarely on me though I live with two other people who are wholly capable of taking on some of them. Seriously, am I the only one who can pick up a towel or load the toilet paper? I let my people know my frustrations. Then I let them know again. And again. And, then I lost my audience entirely and that also ticked me off. So, I told them again, in a little louder tone, how displeased I was. Yes, it was that kind of night. Finally, I shut up (mostly because nobody was listening anymore) and I took a timeout And by the time I settled and brushed my teeth and put on my...
Take the Gift28 Sep 2015 | 9:14 amThe yellow gold heart shape earrings with sparkly things encrusted on top were not my faves. I didn't love the wrench for the garbage disposal – though I needed it was a teeny bit symbolic. The t-shirt two sizes too small. The award I received for doing just what I thought I should be doing, nothing more, nothing special. Kelly green crystal punch bowl. Beautiful. But, green. Over the years, I've received some fabulous gifts. AND some great garage sale inventory. But, I've always been touched. Now that buying presents for Sweet P and her friends' birthday parties has become somewhat of a hobby AND I'm becoming older and more grateful, I'm thinking about this stuff a lot differently than I used...
The Right Way to Ask for Help23 Sep 2015 | 5:17 amMost of us have a hard time asking for the help we need. We don't want to be a bother or we feel vulnerable or embarrassed, so the question goes unasked and then, of course, it goes unanswered. Then, not only do we go without help, but we miss a chance to connect and cooperate with each other. By asking for help — the right way — you also give others a chance to feel good. Helping others makes us feel better, more connected, and valued. Everybody benefits. The Right Way to Ask for Help So don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it, but here are some tips to make asking easier. Be specific. Limit the scope of your ask and be very specific. I need someone to help me paint the house at 2 p.m., are...
Asking for Help is Catalyst for Growth21 Sep 2015 | 5:45 amThe Big Ask OK, so here's this: One of the last magazine articles I wrote is all about asking for help. Turns out asking for help is good for both a) the person needing the help, obviously and b) the person who gets to deliver the goods. When we help another our physiology changes. Our bodies fill with these feel-good chemicals, endorphins that make us feel warm and bubbly and good. So I know all this – and yet, I started sweating big time last week when I knew I needed help. It's hard to make the Big Ask. No is Always the Answer to the Unasked Question I've got this book coming out How to Live an Awesome Life and I need to learn more about marketing and connecting with others and the whole...
Showing Up is the Biggest Deal16 Sep 2015 | 5:25 amI've been making a lot of excuses lately. Not enough time, not enough money…yada, yada, yada. That's a sure way to stagnate and remain in this mindset of lack which is stifling and icky. So today, to remind myself that I am the creator of my experience rather than a person who complains about it, I took on three things that seemed insurmountable and hard and draining and better left for someone else. And, oh yeah, I did them all in about seven minutes. So. Not. Hard. It was only my beliefs about them that kept me stuck. We all do this, right? We smack talk ourselves into thinking we aren't good enough, or it isn't our place, or IT can never be or will never work. Baloney. IT already is…it's simply a matter...
Law of Attraction Secrets THE TEACHERS WONT TELL YOU
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inspirational quotes about life and love26 Jan 2015 | 10:16 pmLaw of Attraction Secrets THE TEACHERS WONT TELL YOU "Science says show me and I'll believe, Faith says Believe and I'll show you" "Here's a bank vault's worth of advice… How You Think Determines How Much You Make. Its that Simple" "I have learned over the years that when one's mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away […] Law of Attraction Secrets THE TEACHERS WONT TELL YOU - =>Learn What You Missed in THE SECRET Here, Watch Video Proof of this working<=
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Emotionally Resilient Living
What Will Your Legacy to Life Be?2 Oct 2015 | 11:00 amMost people associate legacy with the end of life rather than the present, but legacy is not bound by age or time and it represents more than physical things, it's also about heritage and influence. It's your contribution to the lives you touch every day either intentionally or by example. You are building your legacy […] The post What Will Your Legacy to Life Be? appeared first on Emotionally Resilient Living.
Why Do We Always Do it This Way?25 Sep 2015 | 7:41 amQuestions. You know how I love them. I've written about the thought provoking and motivational side of questions that cause us to think about our purpose, dreams and future. Then there are questions about why people do the things they do … especially to each other. Among my favorite questions are those that for the […] The post Why Do We Always Do it This Way? appeared first on Emotionally Resilient Living.
On the Road with Gander and Operation Fetch23 Sep 2015 | 3:21 pmLon Hodge and Gander are on a mission. Through Operation Fetch, the nonprofit organization founded by Hodge, the two have traveled thousands of miles throughout the heart of America to educate communities, participate in an endless stream of fundraisers, interviews and talks to service groups. They've visited hundreds of schools, nursing homes, and hospices, and […] The post On the Road with Gander and Operation Fetch appeared first on Emotionally Resilient Living.
Overcoming the Odds: The Story of a Dog Named Huey20 Sep 2015 | 4:30 amThe ultimate measure of a person is not where they stand in the moment of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at times of challenges and controversy. ~Martin Luther King, Jr. This article was originally published January 22, 2015 and has been updated with new developments in Huey's inspiring story. A common characteristic among […] The post Overcoming the Odds: The Story of a Dog Named Huey appeared first on Emotionally Resilient Living.
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Episode 7 – Nancy Gavilanes – Waiting on God Well1 Oct 2015 | 6:37 amNancy Gavilanes is a writer, speaker, and life coach. She is the author of the book Waiting on God Well: How to Prevent Breaking Down on Your Way to Your Breakthrough, available on Amazon. Nancy, who lives in New York, has a master's degree in journalism from NYU and has written for The New York […] The post Episode 7 – Nancy Gavilanes – Waiting on God Well appeared first on Donna Woolam.
Stability – I've Fallen and I Can't… – FOCUS Part 529 Sep 2015 | 4:45 amWelcome to PART 5�of the 5-Part Series on Focus. Our topic? StabilityRead the whole series�Part 1,�Part 2,�Part 3�and Part 4Focus: the state or quality of having or producing clear visual definitionF= FoundationO = OptimizationC = CollaborationU = UnderstandingS = StabilityStability. There's nothing sweeter when you feel like the whole world is falling out from under […] The post Stability – I've Fallen and I Can't… – FOCUS Part 5 appeared first on Donna Woolam.
The Alchemist's Heart
Surviving The Firestorm: The Alchemy of Courage23 Sep 2015 | 3:38 pmThe most glorious terrain I have ever been blessed to love…destroyed. I was totally unprepared. The devastation stretched as far as I could see. Over 262 square MILES of the most glorious terrain I have ever been blessed to love…destroyed. Utter ashen moonscape. I wept, silent tears speaking words I could not say. I weep still as I write this. I live in North Central Washington in a wildly remote and beautiful land which has been brought to its knees by the greatest fires our state has ever seen. Mother nature is powerful, yes, and there IS life beneath the soil, but this space we love, the Kettle Range, will not recover in my lifetime, or my children's. I ache to do justice to the beauty that now lives...
Inviting Aphrodite: Embrace Your Authentic Beauty Now3 Sep 2015 | 10:00 amChoices, Authenticity, and Aging Beautifully Alchemist and guest blogger Jennifer Robin gifts with this final installment of her exclusive Growing More Beautiful series. Read on to enrich your life now! As we grow older, our relationship to our appearance becomes both more challenging and more interesting. Our choices become more pronounced. Being aware of the passage of time heightens our relationship to the present. You need to continue to ask yourself: What is authentically beautiful to me? What do I value? What is a realistic use of my time and resources? Beauty is always about making choices, and aging puts those choices into sharper relief. Beauty is always about making choices, and aging puts...
Inviting Aphrodite: The Heart And Soul of Growing More Beautiful27 Aug 2015 | 8:15 amDid you catch the sumptuous writing in Jennifer Robin's first guest post on the alchemy of growing more beautiful? Jennifer is an alchemist, image consultant, makeup artist and fashion stylist and painter who is gifting us now with part two of her Growing More Beautiful series. Read on to experience her alchemy with the evocative power of color! � Experience Yourself in Color Color is my second language. When I closely study my clients, their coloring speaks volumes, telling me stories of who they are and all the beauty they are capable of embodying. Their beauty and originality shine like a beacon. Color brings moments of pure pleasure to your existence. It makes you feel vibrant and alive, nourishes...
Inviting Aphrodite: The Alchemy Of Growing More Beautiful20 Aug 2015 | 6:04 amAre you ready to learn the alchemy of growing more beautiful? This proven method of inviting Aphrodite by connecting with your inner Goddess is available to you now! I am delighted to have discovered alchemist Jennifer Robin and her gorgeous (really & truly!) award winning book, Growing More Beautiful: An Artful Approach to Personal Style. Her earlier writing, Clothe Your Spirit: Dressing for Self Expression, launched a twenty-five year career as an image consultant, makeup artist and fashion stylist. Recognized for her innovative use of color and design, she is also a gifted visual artist and exhibiting painter. Jennifer combines her consultant's expertise with her artist's understanding...
Manifest the Marvelous Magic Of Spirit Memory Now19 Aug 2015 | 5:45 pmLearn the secrets to manifesting the marvelous magic of spirit memory with my A to Z Alchemy series right now! It was her "do or die" moment. She knew it was time to break through the glass ceiling and bring it to the world. Struggling with confidence issues before a call to land the biggest client of her life, she spilled over with desperate frustration. She'd done all the right things as a solopreneur building her business from the ground up. She knew she could offer top-notch service, but she'd begun freezing during sales calls. As we explored the fabric of these calls, it became painfully clear that she was not being present with the prospective clients and helping them tap into the feeling of...
The Dream Catcher
Why I Believe That Ignorance is NOT Bliss1 Oct 2015 | 10:40 pm"I say there is no darkness but ignorance." – William Shakespeare Recently, I visited the Titanic artifact exhibit in Las Vegas. Walking through the large exhibit gave a fascinating yet eerie glimpse into the lives of the passengers who were on board the massive luxury liner. The walkways were sprawled with haunting artifacts and full-scale re-creations of some areas of the ship so that visitors could get a feel of what it would have been like to be on board the doomed vessel. Although it was a riveting experience, I couldn't help but feel sorry about the tragic end of the lives of the thousands of unknowing passengers who placed their trust in this sturdy and magnificent ship that was considered...
How to Move On and Start a New Chapter in Your Life24 Sep 2015 | 9:18 pm"Life is like a book. Some chapters are sad, some are happy and some are exciting, but if you never turn the page, you will never know what the next chapter has in store for you." If you've lived long enough, you've had to endure endings of some major eras in your life. These endings may have occurred when you graduated from high school or college, changed jobs or careers, severed a relationship or relocated to a different place. Whatever the circumstances were, you had to bid adieu to an old and familiar way of being. You may have felt sentimental as you said your goodbyes while also feeling anxious about what could be in store for you in your upcoming destination. Many of us find it difficult to...
Don't Think You Are Especially Gifted? You need to read this.18 Sep 2015 | 12:05 amOne of my favorite childhood games was a card game called Top Trumps. The concept of the game is pretty simple – each card in the deck has a list of numerical data, and the objective of the game is to compare the values on the card to try to get the highest in a particular category to win an opponent's card. There are different card packs, based on a variety of themes and characters. I particularly liked the Marvel Superhero card deck. As frequent players of the game, my friends and I perceived the best cards to be "The Hulk" and "Thor". If any one of us had one of these heavyweight cards in our hand, we would gain an instant boost of confidence because we knew that we had an edge over the...
The Importance of the Right Timing in Life10 Sep 2015 | 11:24 pmIf you observe animals, you'll notice that most of them possess an uncanny sense of timing, which comes from their survival instincts. Many species of birds, wildebeest, zebras and gazelles somehow sense when they need to migrate to a different area so that they can find greener pastures. Squirrels, rabbits and deer know when to begin preparing for winter by gathering and storing food and finding shelter. Perhaps the most fascinating creature of all is the caterpillar and how it goes through the stages of metamorphosis. The caterpillar knows when it's the right time to wriggle into a cocoon, and when to burst out of it and fly out as a butterfly. It does not rush the process because it knows that if it...
5 Reasons Why I Love Failure3 Sep 2015 | 10:54 pm"All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles have strengthened me… You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you." – Walt Disney I came across this quote for the first time when I was doing a project in high school. I was baffled by this strange statement, made by one of my biggest idols. I said to myself, "How on Earth could a 'kick in the teeth' be the best thing in the world for you?" I arrogantly dismissed it and declared that my entire adult life was going to be a smooth ride and I would be unscathed by any major troubles, worries and pain. I was going to bypass all the common hurdles because I planned...
Make a Change
Thou shalt laugh your hats off17 Sep 2015 | 5:41 am� Me: I went to a restaurant yesterday, there was this board hanging that said "Help Wanted" and just beneath it another board said "Self-service" so I did what any sane person would have done. Miss Felicia: And what would that be? Me: I hired myself. Since I was well qualified so I gave myself […]
Epic stand-up comedy fail #113 Sep 2015 | 9:33 pmWell that was indeed an epic fail at stand-up comedy!
Poster poem: Another love story3 Sep 2015 | 10:13 amBeautiful Poster poem about ups and downs in love and relationship.
Meet the new expert Adviser – Miss Felicia!2 Sep 2015 | 5:17 amMeet my enchanting expert Adviser Miss Felicia! She is Vibrant, mystical and absolutely adorable!
The plot twist of burned by Karen Marie Moning30 Aug 2015 | 5:49 amYou know guys, sometimes an unexpected plot twist is important to drill our brains out and drag us to the place where story is happening. All about Burned by Karen Marie Moning!
Elle In Bloom
Currently 081 Oct 2015 | 9:32 amStarting: to exercise more regularly. That can't-sit-down-or-lift-my-legs soreness is oddly motivating!� Trying: to push past my comfort zones. You know, hence this intentional exercise thing, haha.Planning: to prep my meals for the week. Excited: about Fall. Life seems to start all over in autumn :).Drinking: kale smoothies and green tea in the mornings. Still partial to red wine in the evenings ;). Loving: the new iphone 6s. My favorite feature by far is the live photo option. Wishing: I could slow down time or� stretch it a bit.Feeling: all the bittersweet feelings when your kids start to show their independent streak. It's hard loosening the grip sometimes! Wearing: moody blooms in darker hues....
Coney Island2 Sep 2015 | 9:52 amOver the weekend a group of us made an impromptu trip to Coney Island for a bit of amusement park fun! The traffic heading into Brooklyn was slow and we didn't arrive until sun down but here are a handful of snaps I took during the "golden hour".I'm trying to beat the end of summer blues by getting last minute activities done. This was a great way to close out the month! Are there any end of summer destination spots you want to visit before the season is over?Follow:Facebook�//�Instagram�//�Pinterest�//�Bloglovin'
How art & cultural events enhance your life23 Aug 2015 | 6:10 pmAfropunk Music Festival is a must see in NYC. I attended for the first time last summer (pics here) and it's swiftly becoming a summer tradition. It's an explosion of culture, with an eclectic mix of people from all different backgrounds and walks of life.Prior to this event I can't say I was a punk rock music fan per se but the festival has broke me out of my music bubble. Afropunk isn't all about music though. It's an artistic experience, a place to connect with other unique souls as we celebrate our differences and similarities.What makes art and cultural events like this so significant is how they open you up to a world of new, enriching experiences that grow you in ways you least expect!Aside from...
Make your life simple12 Aug 2015 | 7:09 amYou may find that the joy that you once had in simple things in your life and the passion that you once had for living life just as it is has all but disappeared except for the desire to have it back.Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated. ConfuciusIn this "fantastic" modern age we have all become slaves to our stuff, become owned by our possessions, overcome with commitments, and just have to keep up with what is trending on social media.Much of the stress, anxiety, and depression that many people feel today are the result of their choice to complicate their lives with things, contraptions, and people they do not really even know or care about.The solution to finding...
Summer in Wave Hill Garden3 Aug 2015 | 8:22 amThis summer I'm back in the swing of things, enjoying playing tourist in my city. I like exploring all that New York has to offer. As much as I love venturing out to Brooklyn, Manhattan and Queens, I'm on a quest to uncover hidden gems in my part of town, the Bronx, too.�The essence and natural beauty of the Bronx is often ignored and overlooked, I think. It's a shame, really. There are plenty of lovely parks and nature reserves here! Case in point, Wave Hill Garden.This garden and cultural center is majestic. Upon entering I was surrounded by butterflies, wild flowers and sprawling greenery. It's like something out of a dream. The garden spans 28 acres, every inch of it photo worthy (it overlooks the...
Inspiration - Boss Moves
Understanding Your Strengths and Weaknesses30 Sep 2015 | 8:00 amEveryone has the ability to be successful simply by being the reason for change. Change is an action that takes place over time. To understand change we have to understand our self. The only problem is that understanding our self is a tough process. We cannot simply just expect change to happen, we have to just get after it. Finding the keys to success is a great accomplishment, however, the only barrier that we might come to face is identifying our strengths and weaknesses. Our strengths and weaknesses can be explored by many different sources but for self-understanding it can be a working progress on our end. To tap into the ability to succeed, we have to expand our ability to learn. This ability to learn...
The Investment you Can's Afford to Pass Up28 Sep 2015 | 8:00 amThe Power of Goals Progression Imagine setting goals and crushing each one of them just as easily as you set them. Many of today's successes were once impossible until someone made them possible. So why should setting goals be any different? Too many times, the main reason why people fail at their goals is because we accept failure as part of our daily lives. We are in control of every action that we perform each day and by performing steps that have nothing to do with our goals steer us in the wrong direction. Just think to a time where you were set on completing a task and because of some reason you were not able to complete what you were set out to do. Life...
Jobs vs. Careers: Guide to Knowing the Difference23 Sep 2015 | 8:00 am"Success is not destination but the road that you're on. Being successful means that you're working hard and walking your walk every day. You can only live your dream by working hard towards it. That's living your dream" — Marlon Wayans In this developing world, it is funny how society has a way of repeating its self. It is crazy to think that ever since the beginning of civilization the roll of jobs has been a vital part in a person's life. The core aspect of working a job was simply to sustain life in the community that they were a part of. By everyone playing their part in their part of work, things got done making their community a...
Falling in love with your career: A Guide to ignite your flame21 Sep 2015 | 8:00 amWe fall in love with so many things on a daily basis making it easy to veer away from our priorities. One of life's biggest stressors that we have to address on a daily basis is finances. However what if money was not a factor of daily life? Would you still do what you do? It is always easy to do something for money because we know that there is again at the end of the road. But if money was just enough to get you by would you still love your career? You might be wondering why I keep using career rather than using job. Well, there is a big difference between a job and a career. A job is a way of getting money for doing a task. Within a job, there is a set wage that is set with little opportunity of...
Five Reasons to Not Care what People Think of You14 Sep 2015 | 12:00 pmSo this week is all about Self-Confidence and what I am starting to find out about being successful in this world is that you have to not care what people think about you. From my experience from being involved in many organizations people think my dreams are crazy. They ask me why I work so hard doing something that is impossible. If I was to tell you how many times people told me to give up I would be following in the footsteps of people who are just existing and not living. Here I have created 5 reasons why it is important to not care what people think of you. Check it out!1. � � � You have to live your life for youLiving for yourself is one of the hardest tasks we are faced with. We are surrounded on...
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پیسے نہیں ، جانور قربان کریں22 Sep 2015 | 7:43 amہمارے ہاں عجیب سے ریت چل پڑی ہے کہ بہت سے نام نہاد پڑھے لکھے لوگ اپنی عقل کو ہر جگہ پر استعمال کرنا اپنا حق سمجھتے ہیں وہ بھی ایسا حق کہ اگر ان کی بات کو نہ مانا جائے تو آپ اور میرے جیسے فورا بیوقوف ٹھہراتے جاتے ہیں. ہمیں سمجھنا ہو گا کہ ہماری عقل بہت محدود ہے اور محتاج ہے کہ پہلے اسکو بتایا جائے پھر ہی یہ خود سے کام کرنے کے قابل ہوتی ہے. اگر ایک ڈاکٹر اپنے کام میں عقل سے کام لیتا ہے تو اس سے پہلے اسے نے بہت پڑھا ہو گا ، تجربات کیے ہوں گے. یہ نہیں کہ گھر بیٹھے ایک دو کتب پڑھ کر ڈاکٹر بن جائے کتنے افسوس کی بات ہے کہ ہم کتابوں میں لکھا ان لوگوں کا کہا آنکھیں بند کر کے سچ مان لیتے ہیں جن کو ہم نے دیکھا تک نہیں ہوتا. ہم اپنی تعلیم میں کتنے مصنفین کی کتب یا روزانہ کتنے اقوال ایسے لوگوں کے پڑھ کر واہ واہ کرتے...
خود کو بدلو نا پاپا...پلیز8 Sep 2015 | 10:43 pmکسی نے بہت ٹھیک کہا ہے کہ غریب پیدا ہونے میں آپکا قصور نہیں لیکن غریبی کی حالت میں مرنے میں آپکا ہی قصور ہے. اس دنیا میں امیر ہونے کا ، آگے بڑھنے کا اور اپنے خاندان کو بہترین سہولیات دینے کا موقع رب ہر کسی کو دیتا ہے. یہ سوچ رکھنا کہ ہمارے غریب ہونے میں ، کم تنخواہ ہونے میں یا کوئی اچھا روزگار نہ ہونے میں الله کی مرضی ہے تو ایسی سوچ بلکل غلط ہے. اس کائنات کا مالک ایسا ہرگز نہیں ہے جو آپ کو پریشانیوں میں ہمیشہ رکھے اور ایک غریب آدمی کو ہمیشہ غریب ہی رکھےیہ دنیا ایک آزمائش ہے اور ہر کسی کو اسکی محنت اور کوشش کے حساب سے ملتا ہے . یہ وہ بات ہے جسکو ہر کوئی جانتا ہے لیکن افسوس یہ ہے کہ مانتا صرف کوئی کوئی ہے. ہر وہ آدمی جو غریب ہے اگر وہ سچے دل کے ساتھ اپنی زندگی کا تجزیہ کرے تو وہ جانے گا کہ اسکو رب نے کتنی...
خوشیاں پھیلائیں، دعائیں قبول کروائیں2 Sep 2015 | 6:18 amپتا نہیں اکثر ہماری وہی دعائیں ہی کیوں پوری ہوتی ہیں جو ہم کر کے بھول چکے ہوتے ہیں اور پھر ایسی خوشی ہوتی ہے جسے پرانی قمیض میں سے یا کتاب میں رکھے پرانے اور بھولے ہوے پیسے ملنے پر ہوتی ہے. کوئی بھی اچھا کام یا واقعہ جو اچانک ہوتا ہے اس پر ہمیں بہت عجیب سے خوشی ہوتی ہے . دل کے اندر سے شکر اور حیرانی کے جذبات ہوتے ہیں. بندہ کئی لمحے تو اسی سوچ میں گزار دیتا ہے کہ کیا واقعی ایسا ہوا ہے اگر ہم اپنی زندگی پر نظر دوہرائیں،� کچھ لمحے اکیلے بیٹھ کر اور اپنے آپ سے باتیں کر کے دیکھیں تو احساس ہوتا کہ سچی خوشی اور سچی ہنسی بہت کم ہوتی جا رہی ہے . ہم بہت مصنوَی� مسکراہٹ ، جذبات اور احساسات رکھتے سارا دن، چاہے گھر پر مہمانوں کے ساتھ یا کام پر اپنے ساتھیوں کے ساتھ.ہم ایک لگی بندھی سے زندگی گزار رہے ہیں. پتا نہیں کیوں...
ہنسانے والا دوست ....ضروری ہوتا ہے23 Aug 2015 | 5:55 amیقین مانیں کہ اگر آپکو کوئی ایسا دوست میسر ہے جو آپکو خوش رکھتا ہے. آپ اسکی موجودگی میں لطف اندوز ہوتے ہیں تو یہ بہت کمال کی بات ہے. اگر آپ ہسنا جانتے ہیں اور خوب مزہ کرتے ہیں دوستوں کے ساتھ تو پھر آپ بہت عمدہ زندگی گزار رہے ہیں. یاد رکھا کریں کہ غم ، پریشانیاں زندگی کا حصّہ ہیں. یہ آنی ہی آنی ہیں. کوئی بھی انسان اس سے بچا ہوا نہیں ہے. تو جب ایک چیز ہو کے رہنی ہے تو پھر اسکے حل کی طرف جانا چاہیے نہ کہ اپنی طبیعت میں غصّہ یا چرچڑا پن لایا جائے میرے اپنے ساتھ بہت دفعہ ہوتا ایسا کہ اداسی ہوتی ، پریشانی ہوتی چاہے کام پر ہوں یا گھر کے کسی مسلے پر� . اس حالت میں میں پہلے سوچتا کہ کون سا دوست ایسا ہے جو� مجھے مسکراہٹ دے سکے. کوئی ایسا جس کے پاس بیٹھ کر میں کھلکھلا کر ہنسوں اور اپنے دماغ کو سکوں دوں. پھر اگلے...
کموڈ والا واش روم19 Aug 2015 | 2:50 pmوہ دیکھو وہ کیسے گند اٹھا کر لے کے جا رہی. توبہ دیکھو ذرا یہاں تک بدبو آ رہی، شاہدہ نے پاس بیٹھی ہمسائی کو کہا. میں اسکول سے گھر داخل ہوا تھا جب ان دونوں کی باتیں میرے کانوں میں پڑیمیں اپنے تایا جی اور تایی جان کے ساتھ رہتا تھا کہ اپنے والدین کی وفات کے بعد� یہی میرا سب کچھ تھے. تایا جی بڑھاپے کی عمر میں شوگر اور دل کے مریض بھی تھے.اس گھر میں انکا ایک بیٹا اور بہو بھی رہتی تھی جن کے ساتھ گزارا اس لئے تکلیف دہ تھا کہ بہو کا ان بوڑھے لوگوں کے ساتھ رویہ ویسا ہی تھا جیسے ہم ساس بہو کی کہانیوں میں پڑھتے ہیں بیماری کی وجہ سے تایا جی کمرے سے باہر نہیں جاتے تھے اور کھانے پینے سے لے کر رفع حاجت کمرے میں ہی کرتے تھے. تایی جان بہت دل سے اپنے شوہر کا خیال رکھتی تھی. پرہیزی کھانا ، ادویات سے لے انکی صفائی ستھرائی اتنی...
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Cosmic Orgasm
Beeple: The Inspiration for Everyday1 Oct 2015 | 8:57 amWisconsin-based graphic designer Mike Winkelman aka Beeple has an inspiration to create something every-single-day. He works as a freelancer and creates motion graphics and visuals… The post Beeple: The Inspiration for Everyday appeared first on Cosmic Orgasm. Beeple: The Inspiration for Everyday was first posted on October 1, 2015 at 5:57 pm.©2015 "Cosmic Orgasm". Use of this feed is for personal non-commercial use only. If you are not reading this article in your feed reader, then the site is guilty of copyright infringement. Please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.com
Edie Sedgwick: The Post Factory Years28 Sep 2015 | 8:55 amEDIE SEDGWICK: WARHOL'S MUSE AND ONE OF HIS SUPERSTARS, ANOREXIC YOUTHQUAKER AND FUZZY'S DAUGHTER Edie Sedgwick was only close to Warhol for about a year but she is… The post Edie Sedgwick: The Post Factory Years appeared first on Cosmic Orgasm. Edie Sedgwick: The Post Factory Years was first posted on September 28, 2015 at 5:55 pm.©2015 "Cosmic Orgasm". Use of this feed is for personal non-commercial use only. If you are not reading this article in your feed reader, then the site is guilty of copyright infringement. Please contact me at email@example.com
Her: A Story of Love24 Sep 2015 | 11:00 am"She's so many things. And that's probably what I love most about her – she isn't just any one thing. She's so much larger than that."… The post Her: A Story of Love appeared first on Cosmic Orgasm. Her: A Story of Love was first posted on September 24, 2015 at 8:00 pm.©2015 "Cosmic Orgasm". Use of this feed is for personal non-commercial use only. If you are not reading this article in your feed reader, then the site is guilty of copyright infringement. Please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.com
Cosmic Quotes: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind #118 Sep 2015 | 12:09 pm"How happy is the blameless Vestal's lot! The world forgetting, by the world forgot: Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind! Each prayer accepted, and each… The post Cosmic Quotes: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind #1 appeared first on Cosmic Orgasm. Cosmic Quotes: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind #1 was first posted on September 18, 2015 at 9:09 pm.©2015 "Cosmic Orgasm". Use of this feed is for personal non-commercial use only. If you are not reading this article in your feed reader, then the site is guilty of copyright infringement. Please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.com
Hsiao-Ron Cheng: The Portraits of Melancholy14 Sep 2015 | 6:15 amTaipei-based illustrator 鄭曉嶸, Hsiao-Ron Cheng creates the flourish portraits with innocent deformations. "It's my own preference. I dream a lot when I sleep. I always have all sorts… The post Hsiao-Ron Cheng: The Portraits of Melancholy appeared first on Cosmic Orgasm. Hsiao-Ron Cheng: The Portraits of Melancholy was first posted on September 14, 2015 at 3:15 pm.©2015 "Cosmic Orgasm". Use of this feed is for personal non-commercial use only. If you are not reading this article in your feed reader, then the site is guilty of copyright infringement. Please contact me at email@example.com
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Tips To Increase Your Self-Esteem3 Oct 2015 | 4:24 pmSome people may get confused about the real meaning of self-esteem. Some people want to be more intelligent than they actually think they are, some people hate their bodies and some other people do not love their behavioral aspects or are feeling bad because do not accomplish some goals or targeted objectives. As a definition of self-esteem, you certainly know that it is the set of feelings of love, self-worth and capability you have towards yourself. If your self-esteem has been taking hits, how do you give it a much-needed boost? If you do not know why you are having a lowering self-esteem, try to consult what can actually be the situations that may cause low self-esteem. Disciplining yourself to do what...
How To and Why Stop Watching TV24 Sep 2015 | 1:55 pmWhy do we need to kill Time? It was yesterday. I just heard one of my friends say: "I was doing it to kill time. I was watching TV to kill time". I was flabbergasted! Kill time? What the heck are you talking about? I don't even have enough time, and here you're killing it ? If you're the kind of person who reads this kind of website, I'm assuming that this concept is as alien to you as it is to me. Oh, I don't deny it, I used to watch TV just to let the hours pass, but nowadays the very idea of doing something just to let time go away is completely foreign to me. You could also be interested in: How You Could Get Rid Of Procrastination. There are so many things I want to do, and so little time to...
The Next Best Thing to Do10 Sep 2015 | 5:24 amI've been living the last couple of months in my life basing myself on a micro set of expectations instead of a bigger one. Instead of asking myself: "what would go on my 10 year plan?", I'm just asking: "what's the next best thing to do?". I figured out that if I take the next best actions, the next best future would settle itself. I've found that living this way is a lot more relaxed and fun than the whole "what's my life-long plan" thing. Maybe I did not get the long term planning method, but the last few months focusing on short-term goodness has been great. I figure that after a few months of getting my act together, I'll still have time to go strategic long-term planning later. I think...
9 Ways to Overcome Difficult Times8 Sep 2015 | 3:49 pmIn the last 8-9 years I have had to face so many changes happening in my life. Firstly, talking about them to my family and my friends, I kept calling them endings, but afterwards I began to feel as if it was a process of renewal. There is a Chinese byword that says "if the old doesn't go, the new cannot come". Keeping that in mind, I've begun to view these difficult events as a set of things giving me the possibility to grow forward, and so I've come to call them "changes" instead of "endings". This post is really for people who are going through tough changes in their lives, because I want to share with them some tools I've found to be useful for me in managing my emotional state to navigate...
How to Stop Worrying8 Sep 2015 | 2:43 pm"God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, Courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other." ~Serenity Prayer How to stop worrying, increasing your personal power at the same time? You do it, like the classic prayer above says, by yourself on what you can change instead of what you can't, and be aware enough to keep directing your focus in a useful way. <ul> <li>What You Can Do</li> </ul> It is within your area of control. This includes people and events you can directly or indirectly influence; you can get yourself to start running, convince someone to donate money to charity, and start a company. You can love people that...
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Retraining Your Mind: The Master Key System – Weeks 9 & 103 Oct 2015 | 2:16 amThe Master Key System – Weeks 9 & 10 If you are looking for a clear plan to develop your potential, to become what you want to be and do and have what you want to do and have, I greatly recommend you enter on the path of The Master Key System. It will change your life, guaranteed. This is a summary and review of my experience reading and applying the 9th & 10th chapters of Charles Haanel's The Master Key System (free pdf download). This book was originally intended to be a weekly correspondence course, with each chapter being the focus of one week. I am following this original intention of the author. You can read the summary of each chapter and my reflections here. Week 9 Part nine begins by...
Take Your Place at the Throne of Your Mind27 Sep 2015 | 12:41 amIn the morning, before the birds wake and sing, I walk into the forested hills behind my home. I leave concrete behind and follow the uphill dirt path before me. Moments later, I commune with nature and taste the dewy morning air. I walk up at a slow pace, smiling at the beauty around me. A world of green hugs me, quiet yet full of life. Everything is stirring, but yet to wake. As I reach the top of the hill, I see the familiar Chinese-style gazebo and take my place, seated in the center. The Tai-Chi practitioners will not arrive for sometime and I settle into a comfortable position. I close my eyes and, for a moment, enjoy the subtle sounds and smells of the forest. A smile spreads across...
The Happiness Switch – Instantly Turn on Happiness19 Sep 2015 | 9:20 pm"Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." – Emperor Marcus Aurelius When I first moved to China, 10 years ago, I was astonished by how many sad, worried, afraid and depressed faces I saw. Life in China is very focused on competition and lack of resources and it has been generally accepted by most people that life is bitter (in fact one of the words for life is literally "bitter sea"). Wrinkles are scarred deep into many faces here, contours which stand in clear testament to lifetimes of worry, fear and exhaustion. Of course, this is not unique to China, however, I have never encountered this situation to such a degree anywhere else. Being...
The Power of Imagination – The Master Key System – Weeks 7 & 813 Sep 2015 | 3:02 amThe Master Key Review of Weeks 7 & 8 If you are looking for a clear plan to develop your potential, to become what you want to be and do and have what you want to do and have, I greatly recommend you enter on the path of The Master Key System. It will change your life, guaranteed. This is a summary and review of my experience reading and applying the 7th & 8th chapters of Charles Haanel's The Master Key System (free pdf download). This book was originally intended to be a weekly correspondence course, with each chapter being the focus of one week. I am following this original intention of the author. You can read the summary of each chapter and my reflections here. Week 7 Chapter seven begins...
4 Ways I Stay Young and Healthy5 Sep 2015 | 9:31 pmWhen I tell people my age (36), they are often surprised and they tell me I look like I am in my 20's (you can see a picture of me on the about page). I have gotten this reaction for about 10 years now and I am sometimes asked how I have accomplished this. I am able to eat as I wish and I never gain a pound, and have not fluctuated more than a few pounds in either direction my entire adult life. And I rarely get sick (even years ago when I was a smoker – yuck!). I have never broken any bones, rarely have sore muscles and generally feel energetic, strong and healthy. Do I have a secret? Yes and no. First of all, I don't want to go around bragging and I do not claim any special knowledge or...