At The Manor at Lake Morton, we understand that contemplating assisted living arrangements can be difficult. We’ve compiled information into our Decision Guide to help alleviate some concerns and answer questions. Whether you are considering care for yourself or for a loved one, gathering accurate and helpful information is the first step in making a decision that’s right for you and your family.
According to the Assisted Living Federation of America (ALFA), regulations and licensure requirements for assisted living communities vary from state to state. It’s important to do your research to see if your state requires assisted living communities to be licensed, and if so, whether your residences of interest have complied. Also, many states require the administrator to be licensed or certified, so ask to see credentials, if applicable.
Assisted living communities offer a unique combination of independent living and care. Unlike nursing homes and other medical facilities, assisted living communities allow elders to maintain a sense of independence and involvement in a social community, while at the same time provide the assistance with daily life and peace of mind that come with a professional support team.
An elder should make the move to assisted living if hiring in-home care is not an option. If your parent cannot perform daily living tasks such as bathing and dressing, cooking and eating, then his safety is in danger. If your parent has severe mobility issues and cannot get around the house safely and on his own, he needs assistance. Lastly, if your parent is constantly confused, forgetful and sometimes wanders, his safety is at risk. If any of these factors apply to your parent, he needs the assistance that an assisted living community provides.
Guilt is a feeling that many caregivers experience when they move an elderly parent into an assisted living community. Don’t let guilt get the best of you! Always keep in mind that the move was the best option for your parent. You can still be a caregiver even when your parent moves. For example, you can make sure her apartment has personal touches. You can be a liaison between the assisted living staff and your parent. You can make sure that your parent’s needs are being met. Remember that you are doing your best to make sure that your parent is receiving the best care possible.