We try so hard at motherhood and for all the world to see, we have succeeded. But in all our efforts at good, how often do we do something hurtful–that we’ve long since forgotten, but that our children hold on to? I’m so glad your weekend with Josh succeeded in bringing you closer — and more relaxed with each other. That really is a joy and a blessing.
You are inspiring me to write to my children before a family reunion in Seattle in a couple of weeks. Thanks for an lovely story.
Linda … awesome. You’re a wonderful writer and as I read, I cried. As a Mom, I understand the volitility of relationships with our children and I know how words and actions can hurt so much … because we have so much invested in them.
Thanks for your candor and congratulations for what it took to get to the heart of the matter.
Your entry this week reminds me of advice given by a well known relationship expert-“Seek first to understand,then to be understood.”You followed this advice so well that it wasn’t necessary to explain your side.I hope that your relationship with your son continues to improve and grow.
This was a very beautiful and moving piece. I think we can all relate to it, as children, parents or both.
We never want to hurt the ones we love and yet it is inevitable that we do.
You have given both your son and your Self a great gift.
gotta keep wondering why we wait so long to make things “right”. throughout my entire life I have endeavoured to share, lead, follow, entice, share, question, dare I use the word “confront” in the positive sense, share, and listen to others. Few would or could relate on the old feeling level; few could just sit there and listen, and absorb, and accept. No risk and all defense. I can barely count on my left hand the number of folks who did open their hearts. It is great that you two reached that spot.