Almost one third of the life of a man is wasted in making him false. But you can drop it in a second, in a split second - just a sheer understanding: "This is borrowed, others have given it to me. It is not my own intrinsic nature."
Drop it! There will be a little fear, because with it your safety, your security, your respectability will also disappear. But something greater will come: your authenticity, which is such a tremendous fulfillment that only in that fulfillment does one come to know the tremendous meaning and significance of life.