Wow! You hit the nail right on the head with your words about the dating scene here. For some reason I thought it might be easier for NYers who were born and raised in NYC. I agree with you. No one tries to work anything out because they can just move onto the next person. I've found it to be superficial too. I didn't even mean to blog about the dating scene per se. I think it came out as an underlying frustration. I just haven't had good luck dating here and I don't want to do the internet or speed dating... I think there are other important things to consider when leaving a city and I want to blog about them too. The relationship theme was the first to come out.