(Long pause)…There IS another way. But it is the path less traveled; to open my life to God who also happens to be a good Father—and the giver of every good and perfect gift. Choosing trust instead of control. His timing over mine. I’m sure many of us have tried to “help” God speed things up only to find ourselves in a dilemma of our own making. So we haven’t done things perfectly. No matter! The courage is in getting back up, and setting our heart once again…and again…and again… (perhaps with a bit more humility each time) to trust the lover of our souls.
Blogging. I confess to being slightly terrified; revealing my heart is risky. What motivates me is my desire for other singles to embrace life now and not wait until circumstances change. I write from “the single side” to offer encouragement, share thoughts, and to process my own “stuff.” I’m not strong. I don’t have things all figured out. I am not full of wisdom and answers. God has met me in my weakness (in struggle) and comforted me. I simply offer the same comfort I’ve received.
Her words sparked excitement and strengthened my heart to take courage again, choosing to live all my single days with quality of life.
Well done. Almost makes me want to be single again. Well, not really, but after reading this I think I could have done it better!
my sis just told me about your blog. popping over to say hello. Since I am single too, I'll be following. ;o) I think you are right on and I'm looking forward to your furture posts.
Not single, but loved your comments, & would enjoy having a cup of coffee, & following!!! I'm all for the relational stuff too. Must be hereditary!!! We share the same Father!!!
Thank you, Christie! Hope you are encouraged. I appreciate your feedback. Bless you!
Thanks, anonymous! Appreciate your support. We DO share the same Father, don't we?
love it, love it, love it! love your heart and how you share it!
Well said! Thank you Liz, this is something so many feel but haven't found the words. Super encouraging! Love this blog title, The Single Side!
I love it Liz! Beautifully written! Yes… we don't have to wait to get married to start our life God wants to give us a full abundant life right now!
Keep blogging Liz and we will continue on the path of being encouraged to embrace our lives fully with you! ❤ this!
I know, Maggie. Feels amazing to actually write some of this stuff that's been brewing (coffee terms are appropriate here!) in me for um…. YEARS! Yeah, this isn't e-harmony (hee hee), but anyone is welcome-male or female! Thanks for the encouragement!
Oh, Tara! I love you! Well, next time you will come armed with treats =) Thanks so much for your words and spread the love!!!
How funny, I came across this blog of yours yesterday or the day before through Maiju's fb, and I had just been thinking earlier in the day about how “someone should do a blog with this theme, being single in the thirties” !!! Incredible!
Here's a fellow sister, who's also blogged for 6 years already =) (but not so much in the theme of singleness though).
Thank you, Mimosa! I love your thoughts. Can't wait to check out your friend's blog too!