Every Christian deserves an observance of Christmas. But some people have life circumstances that make a 50-member choir belting out “Joy to the World” a poor fit.
Memorial Presbyterian Church recognized that more than 15 years ago, and offers a quieter option with its Service of Comfort and Hope, at 7 p.m. Sunday.
“I know the paths of darkness well. … I’ve followed them into the bottomless abyss where even the smallest step took all I had,” she wrote.
Mayton said the service originated for those who are struggling as they face challenges such as death or divorce. Job losses in the community have taken their toll as well, but he said this isn’t just for people who have suffered losses. People who have just moved to the area might be away from family and not know anyone yet, for example.
They even thought of moving the nondenominational service from the soaring church sanctuary, but decided instead to stay with the traditional setting. It is fully handicap accessible, he pointed out, and an organist and cellist will help set the tone.
The Rev. Dr. Thomas Schacher, who took over as senior pastor in August, will offer a message, as will Mayton and another pastor, the faith community nurse and the counselor who leads two groups that meet at the church and are especially invited: an eight-week grief recovery group that meets Wednesday nights through the second week of January and welcomes new participants, and a monthly kinship/caregivers group for people who care for grandchildren and elderly parents. Candles will be lit in remembrance of those lost.
After the 50-minute service, there will be a reception in the parlor, a “more intimate” space where people can greet each other and share stories if they wish.