“I HAVE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER AND I’M PROUD OF IT!” | MAKE BPD STIGMA-FREE!
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Oh wow, sweetie, I’m not sure I could ever do that in a million years! And it’s not even strangers I’m worried about, they’re easy compared to family >.< I'm not sure which is worse, my mothers over concern or the fear of what the rest of my family would say/think. Kudos to you.
If other people have a problem with my BPD, it’s THEIR problem, not mine. Sometimes it’s easier to say that than to actually believe it, because rejection is a major trigger…but with a lot of work I’m getting there! If I spend any amount of time with anyone, I bring up my BPD. Mums on the school run are my latest victims *evil grin*. No, seriously – I don’t have a problem telling people I have BPD. I explain it scientifically – I have a genetic condition that means my emotions are exggerated and prolonged. Given in those terms, there isn’t as much room for the stigma to creep in.
Thank you for posting this. I completely agree that the stigma of BPD (or any mental illness) will never be broken if we do not come forward and talk about it. I’ve been blogging and being open about my BPD on social forums (such as facebook) in hopes of breaking the stigma. I hate that people in the medical and mental health field, as well as family members, friends, and strangers; all judge me based on my diagnosis. I have BPD, yes. But BPD does not define who I am. It’s a part of me, it’s not my entire being. I am currently working on obtaining my Bachelors in Psychology (and will continue on for my Masters) and I hope one day soon I will have the courage to speak openly about my struggles there. Thanks again for posting this, I think it’s important to remember things wont change we if we remain silent about them.
Good luck in your studies and in spreading the word about BPD and erasing stigma!