Knowing when you can change your mind helps to prevent problems and improve relationships.
Skill #15: The Right to Change Your Mind. Often kids and adults get stuck when someone says, “But you said this was okay!” Or even, “But you liked this before.” Kids need to know that they have the right to change their minds about doing things that are supposed to be for fun or for showing affection, even when it’s somebody they know, such as a family member, friend, or teacher. Use this simple role play to teach kids how to set this kind of boundary in a respectful and effective way.
Kids need to know that they have the right to change their minds about touch for fun or for showing affection (which means showing someone you like them). This kind of touch should be a choice. You can practice setting boundaries in a simple way by putting your hand on the child’s shoulder.