“My husband doesn’t respect me | What to do when your husband doesn’t respect you” post contains Respect your wife Gift suggestions for husband to respect wife. Shohar apne aurat ki izzat kare | Biwi ka ahteram ke baare me zaruri hidayaat.
We hear complaints from women such as “My husband doesn’t respect me”. If you are tensed about what to do when your husband doesn’t respect you? Make your husband read this post completely in a loving manner. In sha ALLAH his heart will become soft.
Respect is an important and greatest expression of love that a husband should give his wife. This will not make you inferior but in fact it will raise your rank. You should respect your wife as you respect others or even more than that. and whenever you speak with her keep up the good manners along.
Even a woman like a man loves herself and likes others to respect her and protect her prestige. She likes to be respectful in the sight of others. She becomes nervous when dishonored and insulted.
When she is treated with respect and honor she feels herself as a respectable personality. and takes part in the activities of life actively and happily. Respect, and the one who respects her is prestigious in her sight. Defamation and the one who insults her is disdainful in her sight.
Your wife hopes from you that you respect her more than anyone else. This hope of hers is her right. because she confesses you to be her life partner and she believes you to be her biggest well wisher and consoler. Day and night she keeps serving you and your children. Doesn’t she possess even so much right that you should consider her existence as a gift and respect her?
Every woman wants her husband to respect her and she hates insult and disrespect.
In spite of husband’s disrespectful and painful words, if the woman remains quite. it doesn’t mean that she is happy with this. Though she does not bring a word of complaint on her mouth but still she is unhappy from inside.
If you respect your wife she will also respect you and in this way love will increase between both of you. And you both will be respectful in other people’s sight as well. If you insult her and in return even if she insults you than you yourself are blameworthy of it.
Biwi ki tazeem karna nihayat zaruri hai. Har shohar ko chahiye keh woh apni aurat ki izzat kare. Biwi ka ahteram wa ikraam apko chota nahi bana dega balke aap ka yeh amal haq shanasi, sidq, aur muwaddat ko paaya saboot tak pohuncha dega, lihaza ap jitna dosron ka ahteram karte hain us miqdaar mein balke us se bhi zyada apko apni biwi ka bhi ahteram karna chahiye aur jab ap isse guftagu kare toh adab ka daman haath se na chootne paaye.
Aurat bhi mard ki tarah apne aapko chahti hai, lihaza wo dosron se apni shakhsiyyat ke tahaffuz aur ahteram ki khwaahan hoti hai.
Wo chahti hai keh wo dosron ki nazaron mein mohtaram aur ba waqar rahe, tauheen aur haqarat se ranjeeda khatir hojati hai.
Agar iska ahteram wa ikraam kiya jaaye toh wo apne tayin ek ba waqar shaksiyyat ka ahsaas karti hai aur zindagi ke amoor mein sargaram amal rehti hai.
Ahteram aur ahteram karne wala iski nazaron mein mohtaram hai aur ahaanat aur tauheen karne wala iski nazar mein haqeer.
Aap ki biwi ko apse yeh ummeed hai keh dosron se zyada ap iska ahteram karein. Agarche yeh ummeed uska haq hai chunkeh wo apko apna shareek e zindagi aur apna sab se bada muassin wa gumkhwar manti hai.Din raat ap aur apke bachon ki khidmat mein lagi rehti hai. Kya iska yeh bhi haq nahi banta keh ap uske wajood ko ghaneemat jaante huwe iska ahteram karein?
Tamam khwateen apne shohar se ahteram ki tauqaa rakhti hain aur tauheen wa tahqeer se sakht nafrat karti hain aur khwateen ka apne shoharon ki be ahteramiyon aur aziyyaton ki ba nisbat khamosh rehna unki razamandi ki daleel nahi hai balke yeh yaqeen karlena chahiye keh qalbi aitebaar se naraaz hain agarche zaban par shikayat ka ek harf bhi na laayin.
Agar ap apki zauja ka ahteram karenge toh wo bhi apka ahteram karegi aur is tarah ap logon ke darmiyan mohabbat aur ulfat mazeed mustahkam hojayegi jiske sabab ap donon dosron ke nazdeek bhi laayaq e ahteraam shumar honge.
Agar apne uski tauheen ki aur uske baraqs usne bhi agar apko koi na gawaar baat kahi toh iske qasoorwar aap khud hi hain.
Janab shadi karne aur kaneez khareedne mein zameen wa aasmaan ka farq hai wo ek kaneez ya qaidi bankar apke ghar nahi aayi balke wo ek aazaad khatoon hai keh jo ek mushtarak aur saadat mand zindagi ka sang e buniyad rakhne ke liye apke ghar aayi hai.
Bas usse jin cheezon ki ummeedein ap rakhte hain unhi umoor ki tauqa wo apse rakhti hai. Pas aap usse is tarah paish aayein keh jis tarah aap chahte hain keh wo aap ke saath paish aaye.
Aur hazrat khatam e martabat sallallahu a’laihi wa sallam ek dosre maqam par irshad farmate hain: “Auraton ka ahteram sirf wohi ifraad karte hain keh jo khud laayiq e taazeem hon, aur unki tauheen wa tahqeer sirf wohi karte hain keh jo khud past wa haqeer hon, lihaza jo bhi apne ahl wa ayaal ki tauheen kare toh isko kabhi zindagi mein khushi naseeb nahi hogi.