Let’s look at why play is so important in our relationships with our teens or young adults.
We remind them we are human, too: Play reminds our kids that we aren’t just an old fuddy duddy, and that we do more than nag, require and follow up. We have a side that remembers what it’s like to be young and have fun as a high priority.
It introduces creativity and energy: Ruts are easy, but boring. Doing something surprising and out of the ordinary physically, locationally or mentally infuses you both with healthy energy. Positive energy expands possibilities, excites the mind, producing new thoughts and outcomes.
Mom or Dad takes a ball (tennis, baseball, beach ball) while the kids (any age) are gathered round. As the parent throws the ball as hard and high into the air as possible, they shout out the prize awarded for that catch. “King-sized Butterfinger!” Whoever catches the ball before it hits the ground wins the candy bar.
If no one catches it, the parent has to come up with something new for the next throw. “A back scratch from Mom tonight!” The successful catcher cheers and makes sure there is follow through on the promised prize. If you are good enough at throwing that it’s a real challenge to make the catch, you can throw in a doozy like, “I’ll do your laundry for a month!” My favorite was, “A baby pig!” The kids squealed and ran like crazy for that ball. Fortunately, the ball hit the grass before I had to follow through.
To your family’s success and happiness!
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Yes, Dr. Tim Thayne ! Play serves many purposes for kids and families. “Let’s hang out” is a great summary. Loving your tips, thank you!
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