DatingAdvice Forum | How to Gain my Ex boyfriend's trust back?
How to Gain my Ex boyfriend's trust back?
Ex of 2 yrs broke up with me 2 months ago. Deep true love, on the same page with evrythng. Met when I was in a bad place, gettin over my FIRST ex. He helped me through it, but it hurt him and I was so overwhelmed. After 1 year I broke up with him (stupidly) because I felt obligated to do it.We still hungout cuz he wanted me back, and it clicked in that I clearly love him and don’t want to be apart. So we got back together, He admitted he lost trust and love but believed in us and committed to work through things. After a death in his fam, he became closed off and seemed depressed so on top of our issues he broke up with me and said he needs to do this to gain his ability to trust again/doesn’t want any romance. I was shocked. we loved eachother SO much. After 33 days of silence, I finally contacted him to see how he was doing and he just said hes doing well doing work/school and hopes I’m doing good too. Not sure where to take it from here.. Want to slowly gain his trust back.
I think you should just let him know that you care about him and that you’re there for him when he needs you or anyone to talk to. It sounds like his distrust is more of something he has to work out with himself and not anything you did. Maybe assure him that you’re not going to leave him again and try to convince him that the first time you broke up was a mistake to be rectified the second/third time around.