Although technologically, some would view the Maasai as lagging behind other world cultures, the Maasai have grasped the critical fact that their children are an indispensable societal resource.
Numerous social and behavioral indicators verify this fact. From physical safety and well-being, to emotional and behavioral instability, our children face a host of challenges that obstruct their opportunity to grow into successful and productive citizens.
Yet numerous sociological studies reveal one common denominator for how to markedly improve the status of our children: children have a far better chance to be physically well and safe, emotionally and behaviorally stable, and generally successful when they grow up in a stable home where their father and mother are married.
Economic studies support these sociological findings. A recent Institute for Family Studies report found that “higher levels of marriage, and especially higher levels of married-parent families, are strongly associated with more economic growth, more economic mobility, less child poverty, and higher median family income” among states.
Although our local state supports marriage, we struggle under a chronic burden of family disintegration. Such family disintegration has reached the tipping point as more than 55% of our children are not being raised by their birth father and mother. Left in the wake of the statistics are broken relationships and wounded souls.
To be a city of salt and light, our community and faith leaders need to again celebrate the good that is marriage and family while also discovering pathways toward healing and restoration for those hurt by family fragmentation. Then, we will not shy away from the question, “How are our children?”, because we will know they are truly well.
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