You go through life wondering where is Mr./Mrs. Wonderful, and one day he/she just pops up. You can’t explain or understand what is going on. It’s an understanding that you have way before you get the words out. That feeling of you complete me, when really we are already completed. It’s just when you meet this person they are your added bonus to life. It’s the bonus you have been waiting for and when you get it. You almost want to give it back, not because you don’t want it. It’s because you think you don’t deserve it. That’s the whole point of the Twin Flame Union is to show you that you deserve true love. This is not just true love for someone else but within you. If you don’t learn to love yourself and everything about you, this connection will tear you apart. It’s one thing to deal with not being able to be with your Twin on top of dealing with emotional issues. This union or connection forces you to deal with all things inside you. If you were abused, lack of self-esteem problems, the list goes on. That list will be amplified ten times more, than before you met your Twin. So if you don’t brace yourself for this ride, you won’t make it. It makes you think of all those movies that we look at and we really don’t pay attention until Mr./Mrs. Wonderful pops up. Your thinking B/S this cannot be happening, but it does. The true love that they say you can’t have or it’s just a movie. I say be patient and your bonus will pop up in your checking account. You will double check; you will call the bank to make sure. This added bonus is worth it all, even if you cannot be together. You learn to have unconditional love and all that you lack. This connection opens up your eyes to how life should be, but it is not. So those around you my need for you to put your rose tinted glasses back on. They don’t want to hear this, well I should say. They don’t want to hear you found happiness, let alone love. It's when you deal with all that is inside you; is when you get all that above.