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How can life be so cruel to me? I have forever thought that being married would be a totally different experience and here I am often forgetting that I am married! When people say your husband, I look at them blankly!!
And, here I am with one month already over!! Gosh, how did I even land up here and especially since last 20 days have so trying on me with me being lifted and thrown into some other dimension of the universe. I have to concede here that now I understand why girls should be married off early. Being used to staying alone does complicate the situations further.
Nah, if you are thinking something major unhappy events have occurred, nothing of the sort. Only that I have been thrown in a phase of perpetual confusion where I am totally wandering down in a storm. My friends are all saying that I am thinking too much and I should only enjoy the moment.
But, I am somehow not able to achieve that euphoria associated with new brides. Its like I am just waiting for something to happen and then I will be happy but happiness never really comes that way!! You have to be happy no matter what and then wait for the better to happen, right?
Pardon me if i sound rude but I think its better to find happiness in what you have now rather than waiting for “something” to happen.
The change in your life style has not sunk in yet i guess, Giv it sme tym as its not the “transit” period you are living in.
what you really miss is your independent life style, u cannot get that back now, can you?
Hey Swati.. I would just say- go with the flow..!!
I’ve been married for like 8 months now.. and I came totally understand your situation.. it was totally same for me.. and I also agree with you on the statement that girls should be married off early because we tend to develop a sense of independence.. and parting away from the same is so so so difficult.. thank God that you are still working.. I had to leave my job because my husband was given an opportunity to work in US..
Hey Swati, happiness is just a state of mind! Be happy that there is someone to share your confusion, He also must be going through the same phase na? Exchange notes! Things don’t happen. You make things happen!! Marriage is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect partner!! Enjoy each and every moment dear. lots of love.
Hehe it had happened to me and with time you lose it from your mind too ..