Start prioritizing what you need. If you find yourself in a place where you need to temporarily or even permanently distance yourself from certain people that tend to bring negativity into your life, do so. If you find that forgiveness is the way to reconciliation, do so. But make sure that it is your decision and not forced by other people.
Take the time to really start deciding what it is that you need to do. Don't let what they want devour what you need. You are the priority.