You’ve heard the phrase “You get what you focus on”.
Or in my words, “How you see is what you get”.
But what if you don’t like how/ what you see? Is it possible to change our perception to get a different result? I believe it is, but first we need to see as much of the picture as possible.
Many of us go years without fulfilling our potential or trying new things because we simply don’t perceive ourselves as able. Or worse, we live with flaws because it never occurs to us that they’re problematic. If you don’t think you can go after your dream job, you’re worried you can’t attract that person you’re really into, or you simply lack confidence, the problem might not be your situation, but just your perception. Your ideas about yourself determine the course of your life, so don’t leave them to chance.
How about you? Have you been able to change a situation or develop a strength using any of these methods? Or perhaps you used a different technique that wasn’t mentioned.
I know your an avid reader so I’m unsure I can augment your philosophy… by the way I admire you very much. Just as people gain and lose financial wealth repeatedly, I’ve risen and fallen in spirit repeatedly and have yet to self-perfect. But overall I see major advantages I’m playing with that 99.99% of the folks I see havent tapped… To keep it simple, here’s a few books/resources that have majorly impacted me. BTW, I experienced major loss early on… some things are personal and some things are too personal, but I’ll tell you that I spent a couple decades not developing myself because I lived in fear that I was going to die… I have grown rapidly over the last few years because I realized that I might live a long time and experience my dreams.
You bet Warren… If interested in connecting with james, I’ll give you his personal email.
So true Roberto. Many things we cannot change, but we’re always in charge of our attitude and response. I’m sorry to hear of your struggle, but grateful to hear that my journey can help in some way. Keep fighting.
Hi Warren, I think that your journey has inspired many of us. You have taught me that if I want to succeed and change my situation then it is up to me, not anyone else. I certainly live by your philosophy that ‘How you see is what you get’. From the first time I heard that from you it has something that I have strived to teach others. Your positiveness rubs off on many of us, so thank you!
Thanks Carol, You’ve certainly done a great job of creating success yourself; keep on charging ahead! Will be cheering for you in Rio (from Canada)!
So true Shawn! And of course ,one man’s good is another man’s evil. Perception lays the foundation for the experiences we have, always.
Hi Warren. Throughout the years I have struggled with self confidence. That belief that one is never good enough really drains the spirit. Then a few years ago I got the idea to do something which I would’ve never dreamed of before. I not only stepped out of my comfort zone but jumped. It feels quite liberating but still makes me feel uncomfortable on many occasions. That saying do something everyday that scares you is wonderful but can become draining as well because there is still a part of me that struggles with it all. I equate my life to an onion. I peel off a layer and am satisfied until I realize that another one is waiting to be peeled. Life is a journey which can be as wonderful as we allow it to be. Carpe diem!
Maryann, now you’ve got me intrigued as to what you did that you’d never done before? Even without knowing though; I love that you jumped!