You long for someone to return your affection, but it just isn't happening. Instead of going into an emotional tailspin, do something nice for yourself. Plan a holiday, play your favourite sport or go to a concert. When you treat yourself well, your self-esteem will bounce back. At that point, you'll attract an admirer who is worthy of your affection. Are you in a romantic relationship that has grown stale? Instead of complaining about the situation, have a heart to heart discussion with them.