- Satisfaction: The penance that must be performed in expiation of the temporal punishment due to sin.
1. I am the Lord, thy God: though shalt not have strange gods before Me.
2. Though shalt not take the Name of the Lord, thy God, in vain.
3. Remember thou keep holy the Sabbath day (Sunday).
5. Thou shalt not kill. (This includes also injury to the soul, and charitableness).
1. To attend Mass and to abstain from servile work on all Sundays and Holydays of obligation.
2. To fast and abstain from meat on the days appointed by the church.
3. To confess one's sins at least once a year.
4. To receive worthily the Blessed Eucharist at Easter Time or within the time appointed.
6. Not to marry persons within the forbidden degrees of kindred or otherwise prohibited by the Church; not to solemnize the marriage at the forbidden times, in general, to observe the laws of the Church concerning marriage.
- Lived in peace and union?
- Given cause for jealousy?
- Observed the laws of purity according to the married state?
- Misused the holy state of matrimony?
- Given scandal by angry disputes?
- Forsaken my partner and lived separately without just cause?
- Neglected my duties of support or care for my children and household?
- Neglected the religious training of my children?
- Failed to sen them to good Catholic schools when I could have done so?
- Sent them to a school where their Catholic faith or morals would be endangered?
- Neglected to watch over the company they keep?
- They things they read?
- The shows they watch?
- Given them scandal by cursing, quarreling, or in other ways?
- Failed to correct them?
- Selfishly interfered with the vocation of a son or daughter?
- Failed to afford those who work under me opportunities to discharge their religious duties?
- Ordered them to do anything wrong?
- To be dishonest, cheat, etc.?
- Have I paid unjust wages?
- Been faithful and exact in the discharge of my duties?
- Betrayed the public interest through fear of others' opinion, from desire for popularity, or for political or financial interest?
- Sacrificed the rights of any individual?
- Allowed crime and disorder to go unpunished? In what way, and how often?
- Have I directly or indirectly received bribes?
- Allowed myself to be influenced in the administration of justice or offical duties by promises or threats?
- Been guilty of embezzlement of public funds?
- Enriched myself or friends by unjust contracts?
- Applied my official power for revenge?
- Undertaken the care of persons seriously ill without sufficient knowledge or experience?
- Rashly hazarded dangerous remedies?
- Intentionally taken the life of an unborn child?
- Assisted, approved of, or advised anyone to do so?
- Performed or advised forbidden operations, e.g. sterilizations?
- Given prescriptions for contraceptives or abortifacient "contraceptives"?
- Cooperated in others' doing so?
- Failed to warn those in danger of death in time for them to receive the Sacraments?
- Through neglect, allowed infants to die without Baptism?
- Taken the life of any patient, or avoided taking the ordinary means to preserve the life of any patient?
- Advocated the claims which I knew were unjust?
- Sustained an unjust defense?
- Did I thereby obtain an unjust decision?
- Have I injured the just cause of a client by treachery, gross ignorance, want of study, neglect?
- Obtained false affidavits by artifice?
- Practiced deceit in drawing up wills, deeds, etc.?
- Have I failed to relieve the temporal and spiritual necessities of others when it was in my power to do so? Did I do what I could to assist them in poverty, sickness, old age, or any spiritual need?
Our Lady of Peace Hawaii invites you to join Fr. Vince Inghilterra, F.S.D. on a Pilgrimage to Italy for the Canonization of Blessed Damien of Molokai and Blessed Jeanne Jugan Foundress of the Little Sisters of the Poor.
The month of May is traditionally dedicated to the Mother of God and our blessed Mother Mary.
It must please God immensely when we show honor and devotion to His dear mother.
- Pray the Holy Rosary daily, especially with your family. What better way to reflect on the life of Christ through scripture, than through the 20 mysteries of the Holy Rosary.
- Recitation of the Regina Coeli during Eastertide and the The Angelus, the rest of the year. These prayers are traditionally recited at 6:00 A.M., 12 noon and 6:00 P.M.
O Saint Joseph, assist those who need your intercession. Amen.
My friend Ann of Our Lady of Peace Prayer Group Hawaii shared some photos of the groups recent "mission" at the Spring New Products Show in Honolulu.
Also, stay posted for info on the upcoming 2nd Marian Conference.
Talk story with internationally renowned prolife leader Father Frank Pavone, proceeds to benefit Hawaii Right to Life.
Dinner on September 20, 5:30pm at Hale Koa, Honolulu.
$50 per person; table sponsorships available.
Contact Deacon Kin Borja at 224.0696 or 455.7888 or kinborja@aol.com.
Saint Teresa of Avila fought "the good fight". To help her fulfill her desire to become a Saint she followed "maxims" which helped remind her what she must do according to Catholic moral doctrines.
"MAXIM - A concise formulation of some fundamental principle or rule of conduct"
Below are the "maxims of St. Teresa". Those who are religious can follow these at face value since they pertain especially to those who are in the "state of perfection" in the religious life. For those whose vocation is single or married in the world, they can determine how to apply these in there own state in life. Virtue is the mean between two extremes. It takes desire, prayer and effort to follow these according to ones state in life without going to extremes by excess or defect. For instance, when we look at #3 "Let thy words be few in the midst of many", we realize that a salesman or politician must know how to speak-out when practicing his business without failing to follow it to some degree at other times when he is not acting officially.
1. Untilled ground, however rich, will bring forth thistles and thorns; so. also, the mind of man.
2. Speak well of all that is spiritual, such as religious, priests, and hermits.
3. Let thy words be few when in the midst of many.
4. Be modest in all thy words and works.
5. Never be obstinate, especially in things of no moment.
6. In speaking to others be always calm and cheerful.
7. Never make a jest of anything.
8. Never rebuke any one but with discretion, and humility, and self-abasement.
9. Bend thyself to the temper of whomever is speaking to thee: be merry with the mirthful, sorrowful with the sad: in a word, make thyself all things to all, to gain all.
10. Never say anything thou hast not well considered and earnestly commended to our Lord, that nothing may be spoken which shall be displeasing unto Him.
11. Never defend thyself unless there be very good reasons for it.
12. Never mention anything concerning thyself which men account praiseworthy, such as learning, goodness, birth, unless with a hope of going good thereby, and then let it be done with humility, remembering that these are gifts of God.
13. Never exaggerate, but utter thy mind in simplicity.
14. In all talking and conversation let something be always said of spiritual things, and so shall all idle words and evil-speaking be avoided.
15. Never assert anything without being first assured of it.
16. Never come forward to give thine own opinion about anything unless asked to do so, or charity requires it.
17. When any one is speaking of spiritual things do thou listen humbly and like a learner, and take to thyself the good that is spoken.
18. Make known to thy superior and confessor all thy temptations, imperfections, and dislikes, that he may give thee counsel and help thee to overcome them.
19. Do not stay out of thy cell, nor go forth from it without cause, and when thou goest forth beg of God the grace not to offend him.
20. Never eat or drink except at the usual times, and then give earnest thanks to God.
21. Do all thou doest as if thou didst really see His Majesty: a soul makes great gains thereby.
22. Never listen to, or say, evil of any one except of thyself, and when that gives thee pleasure thou art making great progress.
23. Whatever thou doest, offer it up to God, and pray it may be for His honor and glory.
24. In thy mirth refrain from immoderate laughter, and let it be humble, modest, kindly, and edifying.
25. Imagine thyself always to be the servant of all, and look upon all as if they were Christ our Lord in person; and so shalt thou do Him honor and reverence.
26. Be ever ready to perform the duties of obedience, as if Jesus, in the person oft he prior or superior, had laid His commands upon thee.
27. In all thy actions, and at every hour, examine thy conscience; and, having discerned thy faults, strive, by the help of God, to amend them, and by this way thou shalt attain to perfection.
28. Do not think of the faults of others, but of what is good in them and faulty in thyself.
29. Desire earnestly always to suffer for God in every thing and on every occasion.
30. Offer thyself unto God fifty times a day, and that with great fervor and longing after God.
31. Call to mind continually throughout the day the matter of the morning meditation: be very careful herein, for it will do thee much good.
32. Lay up carefully what our Lord may say to thee, and act upon the desires He may have filled thee with in prayer.
33. Always avoid singularity to the utmost of thy power, for it does great harm in a community.
34. Read often the rules and constitutions of the order, and observe in sincerity.
35. In all created things discern the providence and wisdom of God, and in all things give Him thanks.
36. Withhold thy heart from all things: seek God, and thou shalt find Him.
37. Do not show signs of devotion outwardly when thou hast none within, but thou mayest lawfully hide the want thereof.
38. Let not thine inward devotion be visible unless in great necessity: St. Francis and St. Bernard used to say, "My secret is mine."
39. Never complain of the food, whether it be well or ill dressed; remembering the gall and vinegar of Jesus Christ.
40. Speak to no one at table, and lift not thine eyes to another.
41. Think of the table of heaven, and of the food thereon - God Himself: think of the guests, the angels: lift up thine eyes to that table, longing for it.
42. In the presence of thy superior - thou art to see Jesus Christ in him - utter not a word that is not necessary, and that with great reverence.
43. Never do anything that thou canst not do in the presence of all.
44. Do not compare one person with another: it is a hateful thing to do.
45. When rebuked for anything receive the rebuke with inward and outward humility, and pray to God for the person who gives the rebuke.
46. When one superior bids thee do a certain thing, do not say that another superior has given a contrary order; but obey in what thou art commanded, and consider that the intentions of all are good.
47. Be not curious about matters that do not concern thee; never speak of them, and do not ask about them.
48. Keep in mind they past life and present lukewarmness, to bewail them, and what is still wanting to thee for thy going into heaven, that thou mayest live in fear, which is a source of great blessings.
49. What those in the house bid thee do, do always, unless it be against obedience; and answer them humbly and gently.
50. Ask for nothing particular in the way of food or raiment, unless there be great need.
51. Never cease to humble and mortify thyself in all things, even unto death.
52. Habitually make many acts of love, for they set the soul on fire and make it gentle.
53. Make acts of all the other virtues.
54. Offer every thing to the Father Everlasting, in union with the merits of His Son Jesus Christ.
55. Be kind to all and severe to thyself.
56. On the days kept in honor of the saints consider their virtues, and beg the like of God.
57. Be very exact every night in thy examination of conscience.
58. The morning of communion remember in thy prayer that thou art about to receive God, notwithstanding thy wretchedness; and in thy prayer at night that thou hast received Him.
59. Never when in authority rebuke any one in anger, but only when anger has passed away; and so shall the rebuke bring forth good fruit.
60. Strive earnestly after perfection and devotion, and by the help thereof thou shalt do all things.
61. Exercise thyself much in the fear of our Lord, for that will make the soul contrite and humble.
62. Consider seriously how quickly people change, and how little trust is to be had in them; and cleave fast unto God, who changeth not.
63. As to the affairs of thy soul, labor to have a confessor who is spiritual and learned, make them known unto him, and abide by his judgment throughout.
64. Each time of communion beg some gift of God, by the compassion wherewith He has entered thy poor soul.
65. Though thou hast recourse to many saints as thine intercessors, go specially to St. Joseph, for he has great power with God.
66. In time of sorrow and of trouble cease not from the good works of prayer and penance which thou art in the habit of doing, for Satan is striving to make thee uneasy, and then to abandon them; on the contrary, do thou apply thyself thereunto more earnestly than before, and thou shalt see quickly our Lord will come to thy succor.
67. Never make thy temptations and imperfections known to those in the community whose progress is the least, for that will hurt thyself and the others, but only to those most advanced in perfection.
68. Remember that thou hast but one soul; that thou canst die but once; that thou hast but one life, which is short, and peculiar to thyself; that there is but one blessedness, and that for ever; and thou wilt despise many things.
69. Let thy desire be the vision of God, thy fear the loss of Him, thy sorrow His absence, and thy joy in that which may take thee to Him; and thy life shall be in great peace.
Thank you to Sue for sharing them.
You have effected with human beings!
while the pod remains in the earth.
casting the seed of His Word in the field of Mary.
you have given us the flower of the sweet Jesus.
and my support in my extreme misery.
I should be certainly lost.
seek Thy greater glory in all things.
the mercy that Thou hast shown to me!
were it not for Mary!
Would that I might offer worthy thanksgiving for so great a blessing!
And shall I not be entirely hers?
for I would rather die than live without belonging entirely to Mary.
I now renew this offering as Thou dost desire me to renew it.
for whatever in me does not belong to Mary is unworthy of Thee.
grant me all these graces.
bring forth the fruit of life in abundance.
great and mighty, unto the fullness of His perfect age.
Thanks to our Blessed Mother, St. Anthony and my sister, my digital camera was returned to my waiting hands.
I'd like to share my brother in law's letter to the Editor of the Bergen Record.
* Why is the Obama administration releasing CIA notes about interrogation tactics when the release only plays into the hands of those trying to kill us?
* Why does the administration refuse to call Muslim extremists bent on our destruction "terrorists" but encourages the Department of Homeland Security to consider those Americans with opposing political views potential terrorists? This sounds like a revival of Richard Nixon's enemies list.
* Why does President Obama constantly criticize the United States whenever he travels abroad? He seems embarrassed by this country. Do you share this embarrassment? If you don't, then why aren't you speaking out against him?
* Do you believe that the federal government should control the banking industry, the automotive industry, the financial services industry, the housing industry, the health care industry, educational institutions and any other industry that receives federal money?
* Do you believe that the federal government should set salaries and bonus policy in the private sector?
* What section of the U.S. Constitution justifies the federal government's unprecedented actions, both domestically and internationally? If the powers the president is now exercising are not found in the Constitution, what are they based on?
* Do you favor the federal government using tax dollars to fund abortion both in the U.S. and abroad and to support embryo-destroying stem cell research?
1. To listen to God with humble submission.
2. To act in Him and by Him with persevering fidelity.
3. To obtain the necessary light and unction with which to inspire others the love of Wisdom that will lead them to eternal life.
Some members of my family and I spent a delightful evening with the Legionaries of Christ in Thornwood, NY. We had been invited to their annual Appreciation Mass and Dinner.
Thornwood, NY is in beautiful Westchester County. The drive over the Tappan Zee Bridge was in itself worth the trip.
The Legionaries are now in the old IBM facility which is not only huge but beautifully situated on over 200 acres of ground.
Upon arrival we were greeted by the brothers. These young men are all happy, friendly and filled with joy. We were made to feel at home immediately. We chatted with several of them prior to Mass. Confession was also made available to those of us who wanted to partake of this important and necessary sacrament.
Mass was held in their chapel.
The Mass was one of the most beautiful ones I have ever attended. The rector, Fr. Javier Castro, L.C. was the main celebrant and with him were approximately 5 or 6 co-celebrants.
This was the first time I had attended the celebration of the Holy Mass where it was celebrated in both English and Latin. Thanks to Magnificat, we followed along easily.
The brothers also formed the choir of heavenly voices raised to Heaven with Easter hymns.
At Holy Communion, we were able to receive the Body of Christ on our kneels. That was the second time that day that my mom and I received Holy Communion on our knees. The first was at daily Mass at St. Stephens, Paterson that morning.
God's presence is strongly felt in that place.
Afterward, we were attended a short talk by Fr. John Conner, L.C. about he missionary work of the fathers and brothers. We also watched a short film regarding their mission. There was also a brief question and answer period with Fr. John Conner, L.C. and Fr. John B. who was in the film we had watched. I learned a lot about their mission, Regnum Christ (you may be familiar with them from the daily resolutions I post here) and vocations to the priesthood.
Then it was off to dinner. I didn't know what to expect but I was thinking a buffet style dinner, etc. was in store.
Not so. We entered a beautiful dining room with the table set for company. A brother sat with each table to keep us company while we ate. We sat with Brother Daniel, one of the brothers who had previously been to my parent's home a year or so earlier.
While some of the brothers chatted with the guests, the rest of the brothers served us dinner. They were gracious and well-mannered young men. My sister and I felt a little uncomfortable having them cater to us. We wanted to make them sit down and relax.
The dinner was exceptionally delicious and prepared by one of the brothers from Italy.
Toward the end of the dinner, some of the brothers entertained us with song and music. They even wrote and sang to us a song of appreciation put to Billy Joel's For the Longest Time.
The evening went so quickly and I'm sure it was because we were having so much fun. We laughed so much with Brother Daniel, Father Patrick (the pastor of my mom's church and good friend of the Legionaries)and the other brothers.
We met several brothers from Mexico and of course, that reminded us to pray for the people of Mexico during this difficult time. One of the brothers from Mexico was also one of the brothers who was serving us. I invited Brother Eloin to sit near us and we chatted together the rest of the evening.
One moment that touched me was when Fr. Castro stood up to thank us. He briefly referred to the scandal involving the Legion's founder. He poignantly added that during difficult times, you know who your friends are. It was clear that this scandal deeply hurt these men and they have truly been suffering through this cross they have to bear.
I asked Brother Daniel why there were no Legionaries in Hawaii. He acknowledged their weren't but being a true missioner, he didn't hesitate at all to volunteer to be the first Legionnaire in Hawaii ;-) In fact, many of them jumped at that chance...wonder why. Ha ha.
We truly felt appreciated that evening. But in reality, we have a lot to be grateful to these young men of God. I hope you keep them in your prayers as they keep us in theirs.
If you are wondering why I am not posting photos, it is because although I took many photos last evening, this morning, I couldn't find my digital camera. I am asking St. Anthony and the Blessed Mother to help me find my camera.