youre a little young ta understand this yet but anyway , every now and then your nonno , in his heavy italian accent , would say ta me and your dad when we were young , ricky , michelangelo , if ya wan na get respect ya got ta learn how ta use this-uh , wit this-uh , and wit this-uh , and as ricky imitates steves grandfather saying these words he points first to his right arms biceps , then to his head , and then to his heart .