i bin to the ocean up in virginia and i bin to florida -- both sides of it , the ocean and the gulf -- and all around the gulf coast from florida to texas , and if you werent going off to war , id tell you all about it , maybe let you buy me a bus ticket and we could ride and talk and have a few beers , us two , but you are going , maybe even tonight , i dont know , you havent told me , but if you got a minute or two , i can tell you about this one thing , this lesson i learned about helping folks .