`` i , jenny owens vow loyalty and love , in gain and in loss , whether the gain is realized or the loss is unrealized according to the rules of the generally accepted accounting principles , wherever those rules apply , in debt and in credit , in ownership or in rent , in work and in leisure , fully owned or in timeshare , in presence and in absence , to my lovely wife-to-be shalia owell , partner in love , business , and personal matters , within the church of the holy flower , acknowledging the terms of its heaven , material or not . ''