`` moving right along , my relationship to my father has defined who am i because after he was fired from his corporate job ( and korea has a lifetime employment system at the highest levels , this meant he would never be hired again by a top company ) , we really had to scrimp expenses ... '' as if in reaction to the two blushing youngsters ( tusk looks about twenty-five ) and the apparent scenario of a keiwha grad student or assistant professor blushing at a first year undergraduate student , another woman at the cafe began to blush .