hed gone down to support a friend , just as we were doing now and during the middle of the program hed been kidnapped and brought to a room with only one little light bulb that was shining uncomfortably close to his face while he was being circled by a half dozen recruiters that looked an awful lot like mormons but moved like a very focused school of fish who asked him over and over , when are you going to start living the rest of your life ?