she heard roxy tell roger to go find her and say good-bye and roger tell his mother that he didnt think mary cared for him anymore , and it irritated her that they didnt even whisper , knowing she could hear everything that went on in that driveway , but then when he did come down and looked at her with eyes full of love and chagrin , she forgave him for not being her son , and hugged him long and hard and cried , thinking of her james , who never grew up .