i call in tears with my latest crisis logan threw sand today ; tabitha is talking back to me ; logan refuses to urinate in one of the 27 receptacles i have purchased for this purpose ; tabitha wont eat what i give her or anything else for that matter ; logan does not listen to me when i tell him not to do something , even though i told him i really wanted him to stop ; tabitha is licking the dogs tongue and wont stop anything that happens on a daily basis .