***** contents introduction chapter 1 : the whitney museum in new york chapter 2 : the doll in vermont chapter 3 : an online date in scottsdale chapter 4 : my last tango in paris chapter 5 : christmas in milwaukee chapter 6 : the girls from omaha chapter 7 : lorange caf in phoenix chapter 8 : a sunset in naples chapter 9 : a starry night in wisconsin chapter 10 : trekking in nepal chapter 11 : a party in napa valley chapter 12 : a beach in santorini about the author ***** introduction dating is such a trip .