she sent her husband up around five to tell me that we were leaving in an hour for the club and while a big part of me wanted nothing more than to wear skinny jeans and my motorcycle boots i decided that having that fight with my mother in front of my half siblings would just make me seem childish and ridiculous so i put on a long sleeved white and purple a-line dress that hit me a few inches above my knee and spent a few minute flat-ironing my hair so that it fell in a slick curtain around my shoulders .