DEPR: Deprecate Index.set_value
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Deprecates ``Index.set_value``. This is a very little used and confusing method IMO.

For a given index ``idx``, array ``arr``,  value ``idx_val`` in ``idx`` and a new value of ``val``, ``idx.set_value(arr, idx_val, val)``  is equivalent to ``arr[idx.get_loc(idx_val) = val``, which is more standard and should be used instead.
