Hand written ISO parser for Timedelta construction
- [X] closes #19103 
- [X] tests added / passed
- [ ] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [ ] whatsnew entry

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Running 16 total benchmarks (2 commits * 1 environments * 8 benchmarks)
[  0.00%] · For pandas commit hash 76475dd8:
[  0.00%] ·· Building for conda-py3.6-Cython-matplotlib-numexpr-numpy-openpyxl-pytables-pytest-scipy-sqlalchemy-xlrd-xlsxwriter-xlwt...............................................................
[  0.00%] ·· Benchmarking conda-py3.6-Cython-matplotlib-numexpr-numpy-openpyxl-pytables-pytest-scipy-sqlalchemy-xlrd-xlsxwriter-xlwt
[  6.25%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_components                                      15.4±0.4μs
[ 12.50%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_datetime_timedelta                              8.06±0.3μs
[ 18.75%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_int                                             6.24±0.2μs
[ 25.00%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_iso_format                                      12.1±0.4μs
[ 31.25%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_missing                                        2.07±0.03μs
[ 37.50%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_np_timedelta                                   5.06±0.09μs
[ 43.75%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_string                                          6.52±0.1μs
[ 50.00%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_unit                                            6.66±0.1μs
[ 50.00%] · For pandas commit hash 8acdf801:
[ 50.00%] ·· Building for conda-py3.6-Cython-matplotlib-numexpr-numpy-openpyxl-pytables-pytest-scipy-sqlalchemy-xlrd-xlsxwriter-xlwt...
[ 50.00%] ·· Benchmarking conda-py3.6-Cython-matplotlib-numexpr-numpy-openpyxl-pytables-pytest-scipy-sqlalchemy-xlrd-xlsxwriter-xlwt
[ 56.25%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_components                                      15.5±0.3μs
[ 62.50%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_datetime_timedelta                              7.90±0.2μs
[ 68.75%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_int                                             6.11±0.2μs
[ 75.00%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_iso_format                                      25.0±0.7μs
[ 81.25%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_missing                                        2.27±0.06μs
[ 87.50%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_np_timedelta                                    5.04±0.1μs
[ 93.75%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_string                                          7.04±0.2μs
[100.00%] ··· Running timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_unit                                            6.51±0.1μs       before           after         ratio
     [8acdf801]       [76475dd8]
-      25.0±0.7μs       12.1±0.4μs     0.48  timedelta.TimedeltaConstructor.time_from_iso_format

SOME BENCHMARKS HAVE CHANGED SIGNIFICANTLY.
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