DEPR: Series/DataFrame.append (#35407)
- [x] addresses #35407 (adds deprecation warning)
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry
