Avoid listifying left/right operand in ExtensionArray ops dispatching
We now have the follow code in the ExtensionArray ops dispatching:

https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/blob/2f1b842119bc4d5242b587b62bde71d8f7ef19f8/pandas/core/ops.py#L1169-L1192

There are a few places where we convert the values to a list, which should be avoided.