BUG: GH3216 Upcast when needed to DataFrame when setitem with indexer
closes #3216

BUG: GH3216 Upcast when needed to DataFrame when setitem with indexer

The following would raise previously

```
In [8]: df = pd.DataFrame([{"a": 1}, {"a": 3, "b": 2}])
In [9]: df['c'] = np.nan
In [10]: df.ix[0,'c'] = 'foo'

In [11]: df
Out[11]: 
   a   b    c
0  1 NaN  foo
1  3   2  NaN

In [12]: df.dtypes
Out[12]: 
a      int64
b    float64
c     object
dtype: object
```

ENH: On a mixed DataFrame, allow setting with indexers with 
          ndarray/DataFrame on rhs (this was disallowed in the code previously)

```
In [8]: df = DataFrame([[1,2,'foo'],[3,4,'bar']],columns=['A','B','C'])
In [9]: df2 = df.copy()
In [10]: df2.ix[:,['A','B']] = df.ix[:,['A','B']]+0.5
In [11]: df2
Out[11]: 
     A    B    C
0  1.5  2.5  foo
1  3.5  4.5  bar

In [12]: df2.dtypes
Out[12]: 
A    float64
B    float64
C     object
dtype: object

In [13]: df.dtypes
Out[13]: 
A     int64
B     int64
C    object
dtype: object
```
