Non-silently handle duplicate column names
#### Code Sample, a copy-pastable example if possible

```python
>>> df = pd.DataFrame([[1, 2, 3]], columns=["x", "y", "x"])
>>> df['x']
   x  x
0  1  3
>>> df.loc[:, 'x']
   x  x
0  1  3
>>> df['x'].between(1,2)
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/generic.py", line 5179, in __getattr__
    return object.__getattribute__(self, name)
AttributeError: 'DataFrame' object has no attribute 'between'
```

Hopefully:
```python
>>> df.join(pd.DataFrame([[4]], columns=["x"]))
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/frame.py", line 7246, in join
    other, on=on, how=how, lsuffix=lsuffix, rsuffix=rsuffix, sort=sort
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/frame.py", line 7269, in _join_compat
    sort=sort,
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py", line 83, in merge
    return op.get_result()
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py", line 648, in get_result
    ldata.items, lsuf, rdata.items, rsuf
  File "[...]/python3.7/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py", line 2011, in _items_overlap_with_suffix
    "{rename}".format(rename=to_rename)
ValueError: columns overlap but no suffix specified: Index(['x', 'x'], dtype='object')
```

But...
```python
>>> pd.concat([df, pd.DataFrame([[4]], columns=["x"])], axis=1)
   x  y  x  x
0  1  2  3  4
```

#### Problem description

At this moment, Pandas allows duplicate column names. This can potentially lead to problems, when user expects to receive `pd.Series` when asking for a single column, if they are not aware that the column names are duplicated.

This is especially problematic with automatic processing, where column duplication can easily appear as a consequence of some bug.

#### Expected Output

**Better solution:** at the time of creating the `pd.DataFrame` _or_ adding new column to `pd.DataFrame`, when the column name is duplicated, the code fails with an error message informing about the duplicated name. This is easy to implement and failing fast is usually a good practice. 

**Worse solutions:**
1. Similar as above, but instead of crashing, the warning message is displayed _both_: (a) when initializing duplicated column, and (b) during _any_ operation that calls the duplicated column. In such case user would be aware that the behaviour of Pandas may give different results then if he was calling by the non-duplicated column name.
2. Silently add suffixes to duplicated column names when they appear, as for example, R does. Best to be done with some warning or info message.

_Examples:_

* Python's [DataTable](https://datatable.readthedocs.io/en/latest/quick-start.html) by default silently overwrites the duplicated column (bad):
```python
>>> dt.Frame({"x" : [1], "y": [2], "x": [3]})
     x   y
--  --  --
 0   3   2
```
* R by default renames the duplicated column (little better):
```R
> data.frame(x=1, y=2, x=3)
  x y x.1
1 1 2   3
```
* R's dplyr fails fast with error:
```R
> tibble(x=1, y=2, x=3)
Error: Column name `x` must not be duplicated.
Use .name_repair to specify repair.
Call `rlang::last_error()` to see a backtrace
```

#### Output of ``pd.show_versions()``

<details>

INSTALLED VERSIONS
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commit           : None
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pandas           : 0.25.1
numpy            : 1.17.1
pytz             : 2019.2
dateutil         : 2.8.0
pip              : 19.2.3
setuptools       : 41.2.0
Cython           : None
pytest           : None
hypothesis       : None
sphinx           : None
blosc            : None
feather          : None
xlsxwriter       : None
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html5lib         : None
pymysql          : None
psycopg2         : None
jinja2           : None
IPython          : None
pandas_datareader: None
bs4              : None
bottleneck       : None
fastparquet      : None
gcsfs            : None
lxml.etree       : None
matplotlib       : None
numexpr          : None
odfpy            : None
openpyxl         : None
pandas_gbq       : None
pyarrow          : None
pytables         : None
s3fs             : None
scipy            : None
sqlalchemy       : None
tables           : None
xarray           : None
xlrd             : None
xlwt             : None
xlsxwriter       : None

</details>
