ENH: Add sym_diff for index
Close https://github.com/pydata/pandas/issues/5543

If there's any interest for this in 0.14, here's the code.

Thoughts on the method name? A regular difference is `diff` so I want to be consistent with that. I figured it would be a bit weird to truncate `difference` to `diff` but not truncate `symmetric` to `sym` (or `symm`) so I went with `sym_diff` (python sets use `symmetric_difference`).

Also when writing the tests, I discovered that NaNs are _even_ weirder than I thought:

``` python
In [20]: idx = pd.Index([np.nan, 1, np.nan])

In [21]: sorted(set(idx))
Out[21]: [nan, 1.0, nan]
```

Seems like neither `set` nor `sorted` did anything. Anyway my PR should be consistent with this weirdness.
