[BUG] Loosen random_state input restriction
Alllow for array-like as well as BitGenerator inputs

Addresses: GH32503

- [x] closes #32503 
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `black pandas`
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry
