BUG: pd.testing.assert_frame_equal(..., check_exact=True) raises AssertionError when comparing numeric ExtensionDtypes
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#### Code Sample, a copy-pastable example

```python
import pandas as pd

d = {"x": [1, 2]}

df1 = pd.DataFrame(data=d, dtype=pd.UInt32Dtype())
df2 = pd.DataFrame(data=d, dtype=pd.UInt32Dtype())

pd.testing.assert_frame_equal(df1, df2, check_exact=True)
```

#### Problem description

The above code raises the following exception:

```
AssertionError: ndarray Expected type <class 'numpy.ndarray'>, found <class 'pandas.core.arrays.integer.IntegerArray'> instead
```

Instead, the usage of `pd.testing.assert_frame_equal(..., check_exact=True)` should not raise an exception when comparing numeric `ExtensionDtype`s.

#### Expected Output

No exception.

#### Output of ``pd.show_versions()``

<details>

INSTALLED VERSIONS
------------------
commit           : 9d598a5e1eee26df95b3910e3f2934890d062caa
python           : 3.8.7.final.0
python-bits      : 64
OS               : Darwin
OS-release       : 17.7.0
Version          : Darwin Kernel Version 17.7.0: Fri Oct 30 13:34:27 PDT 2020; root:xnu-4570.71.82.8~1/RELEASE_X86_64
machine          : x86_64
processor        : i386
byteorder        : little
LC_ALL           : None
LANG             : en_US.UTF-8
LOCALE           : en_US.UTF-8

pandas           : 1.2.1
numpy            : 1.19.5
pytz             : 2020.5
dateutil         : 2.8.1
pip              : 20.2.3
setuptools       : 49.2.1
Cython           : None
pytest           : None
hypothesis       : None
sphinx           : None
blosc            : None
feather          : None
xlsxwriter       : None
lxml.etree       : None
html5lib         : None
pymysql          : None
psycopg2         : None
jinja2           : None
IPython          : None
pandas_datareader: None
bs4              : None
bottleneck       : None
fsspec           : None
fastparquet      : None
gcsfs            : None
matplotlib       : None
numexpr          : None
odfpy            : None
openpyxl         : None
pandas_gbq       : None
pyarrow          : None
pyxlsb           : None
s3fs             : None
scipy            : None
sqlalchemy       : None
tables           : None
tabulate         : None
xarray           : None
xlrd             : None
xlwt             : None
numba            : None

</details>
