REGR: outer join with integer key and NaNs failing
Doing a merge with `how="outer"` on an integer / all-NaN column started failing. 

This works in pandas 1.3.2:

```python
df1 = pd.DataFrame({"key": [1, 2], "col1": [1, 2]})
df2 = pd.DataFrame({"key": [np.nan, np.nan], "col2": [3, 4]})
 
In [3]: df1.merge(df2, on="key", how="outer")
Out[3]: 
   key  col1  col2
0  1.0   1.0   NaN
1  2.0   2.0   NaN
2  NaN   NaN   3.0
3  NaN   NaN   4.0
```

However, this started failing on master some time ago, and apparently now also in pandas 1.3.3:

```python
In [4]: df1.merge(df2, on="key", how="outer")
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
IntCastingNaNError                        Traceback (most recent call last)
<ipython-input-4-d831b6be2611> in <module>
----> 1 df1.merge(df2, on="key", how="outer")

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/frame.py in merge(self, right, how, on, left_on, right_on, left_index, right_index, sort, suffixes, copy, indicator, validate)
   9189         from pandas.core.reshape.merge import merge
   9190 
-> 9191         return merge(
   9192             self,
   9193             right,

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py in merge(left, right, how, on, left_on, right_on, left_index, right_index, sort, suffixes, copy, indicator, validate)
    118         validate=validate,
    119     )
--> 120     return op.get_result()
    121 
    122 

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py in get_result(self)
    734             result = self._indicator_post_merge(result)
    735 
--> 736         self._maybe_add_join_keys(result, left_indexer, right_indexer)
    737 
    738         self._maybe_restore_index_levels(result)

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/reshape/merge.py in _maybe_add_join_keys(self, result, left_indexer, right_indexer)
    915 
    916                 if result._is_label_reference(name):
--> 917                     result[name] = Series(
    918                         key_col, dtype=result_dtype, index=result.index
    919                     )

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/series.py in __init__(self, data, index, dtype, name, copy, fastpath)
    381                 if dtype is not None:
    382                     # astype copies
--> 383                     data = data.astype(dtype)
    384                 else:
    385                     # GH#24096 we need to ensure the index remains immutable

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/indexes/numeric.py in astype(self, dtype, copy)
    221                 # TODO(jreback); this can change once we have an EA Index type
    222                 # GH 13149
--> 223                 arr = astype_nansafe(self._values, dtype=dtype)
    224                 return Int64Index(arr, name=self.name)
    225 

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/dtypes/cast.py in astype_nansafe(arr, dtype, copy, skipna)
   1166 
   1167     elif np.issubdtype(arr.dtype, np.floating) and np.issubdtype(dtype, np.integer):
-> 1168         return astype_float_to_int_nansafe(arr, dtype, copy)
   1169 
   1170     elif is_object_dtype(arr):

~/miniconda3/envs/pandas13/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pandas/core/dtypes/cast.py in astype_float_to_int_nansafe(values, dtype, copy)
   1211     """
   1212     if not np.isfinite(values).all():
-> 1213         raise IntCastingNaNError(
   1214             "Cannot convert non-finite values (NA or inf) to integer"
   1215         )

IntCastingNaNError: Cannot convert non-finite values (NA or inf) to integer
```

This breaks GeoPandas' `overlay` function (cfr https://github.com/geopandas/geopandas/pull/2101)

cc @simonjayhawkins

