DEPR REF: `hide(axis=..)` replaces `hide_index` and `hide_columns`
- [x] closes #43758: addresses the comments raised there.
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] whatsnew entry


![Screen Shot 2021-10-25 at 18 37 33](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/24256554/138735564-e8173dff-9892-4641-94a5-cae727776e84.png)

![Screen Shot 2021-10-25 at 18 38 25](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/24256554/138735625-080619c4-50fa-4ea8-a82f-583b6d0c4254.png)

