BUG/API Raise ValueError for non-unique stack by name
Closes https://github.com/pydata/pandas/issues/6729

We should raise a ValueError when (un)stacking and referring to a non-unique index _name_. You can still stack and unstack by position like normal (no ambiguity there, unless your names are integers and that integer is duplicated, in which case we'll raise a ValueError).

Right now I'm assuming that index names are always hashable, but that's not necessarily true, is it? Any good ways to check the uniqueness of the names? I didn't see anything on MultiIndex that did this.
