BUG: styler render when using `hide`, `MultiIndex` and `max_rows` in combination
There was a previous fix for #43703 but that dealt only with the SingleIndex case

- [x] closes #44247
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] whatsnew entry

Visuals of the fix compared to the issue:
![Screen Shot 2021-10-31 at 08 51 43](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/24256554/139573572-1663d3fa-ceac-4e9a-b677-2108b6f2cef7.png)

