ENH: Optimize nrows in read_excel
- [x] closes #32727
- [x] tests passed
- [x] passes `black pandas`
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [x] If header, skiprows and nrows are integers, rows that will be skipped are not loaded in get_sheet_data function. 
