ENH: always make ndarrays from msgpack writable
Addresses the case where 'compress' was not none. The old implementation
would decompress the data and then call np.frombuffer on a bytes
object. Because a bytes object is not a mutable buffer, the resulting
ndarray had writeable=False. The new implementation ensures that the
pandas is the only owner of this new buffer and then sets it to mutable
without copying it. This means that we don't need to do a copy of the
data coming in AND we can mutate it later. If we are not the only owner
of this data then we just copy it with np.fromstring.
