BUG: pivot_table losing tz
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This gets rid of the last values_from_object usage (pending other PRs)

`_tile_compat` likely makes more sense as an Index method.  I kept it here as a proof of concept because I think we actually need it in the EA interface too.  Being able to broadcast a length=1 EA to a length=N EA will be necessary for some of the arithmetic perf going on.