REGR: ufunc with DataFrame input not passing all kwargs
- [x] closes #40662
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

Credit to @attack68 for the fix, just figured we should try to get this is in for 1.2.4 if possible since we know the fix.