DOC: Clarify relation between DateOffset and relativedelta
dateutil.relativedelta can be constructed either from two date/datetime objects passed as positional arguments, or explicitly constructed in terms of year, month, day etc passed as keyword arguments. DateOffset only supports the keyword argument form of relativedelta.

- [x] related to #41847
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