COMPAT: Support fastparquet 0.7.1
- [ ] closes #42588
- [ ] tests added / passed
- [ ] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [ ] whatsnew entry

Also adds support for ``use_nullable_dtypes`` keyword. Technically, its not our enhancement its fastparquet's, so I think can backport. IMO, users shouldn't have to wait 6 months for 1.4 to get this new feature.
