PERF: lazify consolidation check
The benchmark I'm using for this (and upcoming related PRs) is based on the asv that is most affected by removing `fast_apply` (see #32086).

```
import numpy as np
from pandas import *
%load_ext line_profiler


def get_df():
    N = 10 ** 4
    labels = np.random.randint(0, 2000, size=N)
    labels2 = np.random.randint(0, 3, size=N)
    df = DataFrame(
        {
            "key": labels,
            "key2": labels2,
            "value1": np.random.randn(N),
            "value2": ["foo", "bar", "baz", "qux"] * (N // 4),
        }
    )
    return df

df = get_df()

gb = df.groupby("key")

%prun -s cumulative gb.apply(lambda x: 1)
```

If we disable `fast_apply` on master, this gives:
```
   ncalls  tottime  percall  cumtime  percall filename:lineno(function)
        1    0.000    0.000    0.278    0.278 groupby.py:701(apply)
        1    0.000    0.000    0.278    0.278 groupby.py:750(_python_apply_general)
        1    0.009    0.009    0.275    0.275 ops.py:151(apply)
     1987    0.003    0.000    0.257    0.000 ops.py:858(__iter__)
     1986    0.003    0.000    0.251    0.000 ops.py:889(_chop)
     1986    0.003    0.000    0.247    0.000 indexing.py:814(__getitem__)
     1986    0.001    0.000    0.243    0.000 indexing.py:1462(_getitem_axis)
     1986    0.003    0.000    0.242    0.000 indexing.py:1488(_get_slice_axis)
     1986    0.007    0.000    0.230    0.000 generic.py:3470(_slice)
     1986    0.008    0.000    0.203    0.000 managers.py:713(get_slice)
     1987    0.005    0.000    0.129    0.000 managers.py:125(__init__)
     1987    0.003    0.000    0.060    0.000 managers.py:634(_consolidate_check)
     1987    0.026    0.000    0.059    0.000 managers.py:215(_rebuild_blknos_and_blklocs)
     1987    0.003    0.000    0.056    0.000 managers.py:635(<listcomp>)
     5961    0.015    0.000    0.053    0.000 blocks.py:335(ftype)
```

If we disable `fast_apply` on this PR:
```
   ncalls  tottime  percall  cumtime  percall filename:lineno(function)
        1    0.000    0.000    0.198    0.198 groupby.py:701(apply)
        1    0.000    0.000    0.198    0.198 groupby.py:750(_python_apply_general)
        1    0.008    0.008    0.195    0.195 ops.py:151(apply)
     1979    0.002    0.000    0.176    0.000 ops.py:903(__iter__)
     1978    0.002    0.000    0.172    0.000 ops.py:934(_chop)
     1978    0.003    0.000    0.169    0.000 indexing.py:814(__getitem__)
     1978    0.001    0.000    0.165    0.000 indexing.py:1462(_getitem_axis)
     1978    0.003    0.000    0.164    0.000 indexing.py:1488(_get_slice_axis)
     1978    0.006    0.000    0.153    0.000 generic.py:3470(_slice)
     1978    0.007    0.000    0.129    0.000 managers.py:713(get_slice)
     1980    0.004    0.000    0.061    0.000 managers.py:125(__init__)
     1980    0.021    0.000    0.052    0.000 managers.py:215(_rebuild_blknos_and_blklocs)
     1978    0.002    0.000    0.048    0.000 managers.py:723(<listcomp>)
     5934    0.010    0.000    0.045    0.000 blocks.py:310(getitem_block)
     5942    0.003    0.000    0.031    0.000 blocks.py:275(make_block_same_class)
```

We save almost 30% by lazifying the consolidation check and consolidate on _slice.