BUG: DataFrame constructor reordering elements with ndarray from datetime dtype not datetime64[ns]
- [x] closes #39422
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

The ravel("K") was a problem when passing in a view on the underlying object, which was done here.