 Anwasia goes on to reveal that the two friends were just talking about how Ogwoma is pregnant with another man's child even though she is still only on the second month of her three-month mourning period.Ogwoma doesn't want to talk about it but Anwasia pushes the subject saying that what she has done is unheard of in their culture and that she at least should have waited another month before letting another man in her bed.Anwasia also reminds her that it is custom for the widow to marry the brother of the deceased husband Ogwoma comes back by saying that Uloko is not just another man, she is the love of her life and because of that not she could not have waited.