 She then secretly meets Gavin who reminds her of their plan.Kathy returns a few days later and meets with Ben, who is furious to see her again after several years of believing she was dead.He angrily declares that her absence is to blame for the current state of his life, declaring that he is the reason Phil has left due to his homosexuality, but Kathy tells him that she and Phil knew that he was gay before he even started school, and that they have always loved him.