 Such restraint is difficult for most persons and sometimes impossible, and for them married life is decidedly more helpful than a life of celibacy.For ordinary persons, married life is undoubtedly advisable unless they have a special aptitude for celibacy".Baba also asserted that "The value of celibacy lies in the habit of restraint and the sense of detachment and independence which it gives" and that "The aspirant must choose one of the two courses which are open to him.