 Writer Sarita Sarvate of "India Currents" thinks people calculate their "value" on the "Indian marriage market" according to measures such as family status, and that arranged marriages typically united spouses who often didn't love each other.She suggested "love" was out of place in this world because it risked passion and "sordid" sexual liaisons.Love, as she sees it, is "Waking up in the morning and thinking about someone."