 Accordingly, an issue regarding dating is the subject of career timing which generates controversy.Some views reflect a traditional notion of gender roles.For example, Danielle Crittenden in "What Our Mothers Didn't Tell Us" argued that having both a career and family at the same time was taxing and stressful for a woman; as a result, she suggested that women should date in their early twenties with a seriousness of purpose, marry when their relative beauty permitted them to find a reliable partner, have children, then return to work in their early thirties with kids in school; Crittenden acknowledged that splitting a career path with a ten-year baby-raising hiatus posed difficulties.