Paris Journal were turned into a piece for chorus and orchestra by composer Ned Rorem. In 1971, she was the third guest during the infamous verbal scuffle between Gore Vidal and Norman Mailer on The Dick Cavett Show, getting in between the two after a drunken Mailer started insulting his fellow guests and their host. In 2019, Park Tudor School — the school that formed after Tudor Hall for Girls (Flanner's alma mater) merged with a nearby boys school — posthumously awarded her their prestigious "distinguished alumni award." The school's fine arts department also created a speaker series in her name, titled the "Janet Flanner Visiting Artist Series." Marriage and personal life In 1918, she married William "Lane" Rehm, a friend she had met while at the University of Chicago. He was then an artist in New York City, and she later admitted that she married him to get out of Indianapolis. The marriage lasted for only a few years and they divorced amicably in 1926. Rehm was supportive of Flanner's career until his death. In 1918, the same year she married her husband, she met Solita Solano in Greenwich Village, and the two became lifelong lovers, although both became involved with other lovers throughout their relationship. Solano was drama editor for the New-York Tribune, and also wrote for National Geographic. In 1932 she fell in love with Noël Haskins Murphy, an American singer who lived in a village just outside Paris. They had a short-lived romance. This did not affect her relationship with Solano. Flanner lived in Paris with Solano, who put away her own literary aspirations to be Flanner's personal secretary. Even though the relationship was not monogamous, they lived together for over 50 years. She was a frequent visitor to Los Angeles because her mother, Mary Flanner, lived at 530 East Marigold St. in Altadena with her sister, poet Hildegarde Flanner, and brother-in-law, Frederick Monhoff. Flanner was a chain smoker. In 1975, she returned to New York City permanently to be cared for by Natalia Danesi Murray. Flanner died on November 7, 1978. She was cremated, and her ashes were scattered along with Murray's over Cherry Grove in Fire Island where the two had met in 1940, according to William Murray, Danesi Murray's son, in his book Janet, My Mother, and Me. In popular culture Solita Solano and Flanner are portrayed as "Nip" and "Tuck" in the