"Hey Men" is a song from Canadian new wave/synthpop band Men Without Hats' fourth album, The Adventures of Women & Men Without Hate in the 21st Century, released as the album's first single in 1989. History The song is based on experiences bandleader Ivan Doroschuk had during his teenage years and is an anti-domestic violence song; the chorus implores men to "stop pushing your women down" and "quit knocking your children around". In later interviews, however, Doroschuk acknowledged that he had received some criticism for the lyrics, because "your women" implied possession rather than partnership. In early reviews of the album, Mark Lepage of the Montreal Gazette singled the song out for praise as "a round-edged Chuck Berry thing with a winning chorus and a feminist nudge", while Helen Metella of the Edmonton Journal called it a "snappy put-down of a male-dominated globe" and singled it out as one of the high points of the album. In early December while the song was still in the midst of its chart run, band member Stefan Doroschuk was struck by a car in Montreal, breaking both legs and his hand and forcing the band to postpone its concert tour to support the album. Allusions The lyric "Now, I ain't stupid/but I can't understand" is evocative of the lyric "Well, I ain't dumb/but I can't understand" in the song "Lola" by The Kinks. Music video A music video was released for the song, featuring shots of a couple dancing while the band play on a stage. This was the first video filmed for a single from the album, and was recorded prior to a car accident in which Stefan Doroschuk's legs were broken. Chart performance The song entered the RPM100 singles chart in October 1989, debuting at #72 in the week of October 16. Initially, the song was only modestly successful, and appeared to have stalled out on the charts by December; however, following the École Polytechnique massacre on December 6, the song suddenly jumped into the Top 10 in the week of December 16, 1989 on the basis of increased radio airplay because of its anti-violence stand. References 1989 singles Men Without Hats songs Songs about domestic violence 1989 songs Mercury Records singles