worried about hurting their feelings, pursuers usually interpret this incorrectly. Rumination – when people can't obtain a goal, they tend to fixate on the problem and pursuers redouble their efforts. Shift in motivation – when pursuer moves from desire to revenge from a feeling of being humiliated. This shift usually marks the beginning of more aggressive behaviors. ORI and Facebook With the increase of Facebook and other social media tools designed to make us more accessible to others while taking away pieces of our privacy, ORI has become easier in an online world. There is relational intrusion from both offenders and targets in five different categories: Primary contact attempts Secondary contact attempts Monitoring or surveillance Expressions Invitations Online social media helps to facilitate behaviors indicative of ORI and these behaviors have consequences for users on their privacy and security. References Abuse Aggression Crimes Sex crimes