(CUNY), associate professor of poetry and creative writing, Hofstra. Awards and associations One of the "10 Best Sex and Dating Experts," by DatingAdvice.com National Leather Association International Cynthia Slater Non-Fiction Article Award (2010) for "Transformation and Transcendence in BDSM" American College of Sexologists Bisexuality-Aware Professionals Directory Directory of Therapists Experienced in the Treatment Of Transgender Persons. Lesbian Business Community MediAngels Global E-Hospital Open Relationship Resources Psychology Today Therapist Directory Works Bibliography Filmography References External links 1955 births American non-fiction writers American relationships and sexuality writers American sexologists BDSM writers Columbia Graduate School of Arts and Sciences alumni Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality alumni Living people Women erotica writers American women non-fiction writers 21st-century American women