list of the "30 Lesbian Love Songs". Music video The black-and-white music video, directed by Samuel Bayer, cuts between a mental patient (Juliette Lewis) and Etheridge playing her guitar and singing. The video also features "child-like" drawings in certain scenes. According to an episode of VH1's Pop Up Video, these drawings were created by a crew member's five-year-old daughter. Additionally, the video was to have included an appearance by a little girl; the mental patient's "lost childhood". While the appearance was filmed, it got lost during editing. Live performances Etheridge performed "Come to My Window" during The Concert for New York City, the benefit concert following the September 11, 2001 attacks. The song was played by the World Wrestling Federation in the background of a tribute to wrestler Owen Hart who died during a match. Etheridge also appeared on an episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, singing "Come to My Window" at a fundraiser for Homeless Not Toothless at Dorit and Paul Kemsley's home. Track listings All songs were written by Melissa Etheridge. US and UK CD single "Come to My Window" – 3:55 "Ain't It Heavy" (live) – 5:34 "The Letting Go" (live) – 3:51 "I'm the Only One" (live) – 5:30 US and Canadian cassette single "Come to My Window" – 3:55 "Ain't It Heavy" (live) – 5:34 European and Australian CD single "Come to My Window" – 3:55 "Ain't It Heavy" (live) – 5:34 "The Letting Go" (live) – 3:51 Credits and personnel Vocals and acoustic guitar by Melissa Etheridge Drums and percussion by Mauricio Fritz Lewak Electric guitar by Waddy Wachtel Keyboards by Scott Thurston Bass by Pino Palladino Engineering by Hugh Padgham Assistant engineering by Greg Goldman, John Aguto, Mike Baumgartner Mixing by Hugh Padgham Mastered by Bob Ludwig at Gateway Mastering Charts Weekly charts Year-end charts Certifications Other versions In 1997, The John Tesh Project featuring Brandon Fields on saxophone, covered the song from their album "Sax All Night." References Greatest Hits: The Road Less Traveled (Bonus DVD) Melissa Etheridge and Laura Morton: The Truth Is..., Random House 2002 The single on amazon.de 1993 songs 1994 singles Black-and-white music videos Grammy Award for Best Female Rock Vocal Performance Island Records singles LGBT-related songs Melissa Etheridge songs Music videos directed by Samuel Bayer Songs written by Melissa Etheridge